Te Aroha ki a Ia Anō, te Whakatipu i a Ia Anō, me te Aroha ki a Ia Anō e Puta Ana i te Ngākau

Te Whakahou i te Oranga Tangata mā te Pūmau Tapu me te Ngākau Tapu

Ngā mihi ki a koutou e ngā hoa aroha… Ko Naelya ahau, ā, ka tūtaki tātou ki a koutou i roto i te wāhi marino o tō koutou ngākau teitei ake—te wāhi e kore ai te pono e tautohetohe, ā, te wāhi e tae mai ai te maharatanga hei tino pono. I roto i ngā oranga maha i roto i tō wheako Whenua, kua ako koe ki te hono atu ki te tangata hei mea hei tino pai, hei mea hei whakahaere, hei mea hei whakatika, ā, ka taea e tēnei te hanga i tētahi whakawhāititanga ngawari i roto i te ngākau nā te mea ka tīmata te aroha ki te ahua he utu e tae mai ana i muri i te whakatutukitanga, i te mea e hiahia ana tō wairua kia ora i te ara e ora ai te rā, ka tae mai anō me te mahana pono, ā, ina whiriwhiri koe ki te pupuri i tō tangata kia rite ki te ara e pupuri ai koe i tētahi tamaiti aroha—he pumau, he noho, he atawhai, he mārama—ka tīmata koe ki te whakatipu anō i ngā wāhi i roto i a koe i ako ai ki te ora i roto i te uaua, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te whakaako i tō ake ao o roto ka taea te noho haumaru i roto i te aroha. He pūmau tapu kei reira e ārahi ana, kāore he maru, ā, he ngākau māhaki kei reira e tautoko ana, kāore he hinga, ā, ina tūtaki ēnei āhuatanga e rua i roto i a koe, ka noho tō ao o roto hei wāhi tapu, hei wāhi e pai ai te ako, nā te mea ka taea e koe te kī me te mana marino, "Kei konei ahau i a koe," ki te wāhanga o koe e ahua totoro ana, ā, ka taea e koe te ārahi i a koe anō i te ara e ārahi ana te kaitiaki whakaaro nui—mā te pono, mā te manawanui, mā te ringa pumau—kia noho ai te kare ā-roto hei karere ka taea e koe te whakarongo, ā, ka noho tō oranga hei taiao e puāwai ai tō ngākau. Tukua tō mahi aroha tuatahi kia waiho hei whiringa kia noho tonu ki a koe anō ina ngawari te tangata, ina pōhēhē te tangata, ina hiahia te tangata ki te huna i muri i te tino pai, ā, whiriwhiria te mahana o te noho tahi, nā te mea i hangaia tonutia tō whanaketanga kia puta mā te whakaae, mā te aro atawhai, mā te hiahia noa ki te noho, ā, ko te whakaae e kōrerohia nei e tātou he ora, he mahi hoki, ko te ringa ngākau māhaki kei runga i tō ngākau e mea ana, "Ka taea e au te ako i a au e arohaina ana," ā, "Ka taea e au te tipu i a au e puritia ana."

Ngā Tikanga Murunga-ā-Iho o Ia Rā hei Whakakore i te Whakawa-ā-Iho me te Hokinga ki te Aroha

I a koe e hikoi hohonu ana, ka tīmata te murunga hara ki te rite ki te horoi i ia rā, me te hoki mai i ia rā, he huarahi hei whakamutu i tō rā me tō kaha e kore e pā ki te whakahāwea i a koe anō, ā, ka tono mātou i a koe ki tētahi kawa māmā, hohonu hoki: i mua i tō moe, kohikohia tō rā me te mea kei te kohikohi koe i ētahi rau putiputi, me te mātakitaki i ngā mea i ataahua, me te mātakitaki i ngā mea i pōrearea, me te mātakitaki i ngā mea i kore i oti, kātahi ka tukuna katoatia ki te māramatanga o tō ngākau me te atawhai e tukuna ana e koe ki tētahi hoa aroha, me te tuku i tō reo o roto hei manaakitanga kaua hei whakatau, kia oti ai tō rā i roto i te ngawari, ā, ka tīmata tō āpōpō me te kore taumaha. Mā tēnei murunga hara o ia rā, ka mutu tō kawe i inanahi ki roto i tēnei rā, ā, ka mutu tō tono i tō āhua o muri mai kia utu mō ngā hē o tō āhua o mua, nā te mea ka tīmata koe ki te mārama ko te tipu ko te aroha e neke haere ana i roto i te wā, ā, ka ako te wairua mā te wheako, he rerekē, mā te whakamātautau, mā te hiahia tapu ki te ngana anō, ā, ka noho te murunga hara hei mahi herekore, he tukunga ngawari e mea ana, "Kua whakaaetia ahau kia noho tangata, ā, kua whakaaetia ahau kia hoki wawe ki te aroha."

Te Aroha ki a Ia Anō hei Paerewa Ora mā te Aroaro, te Okiokinga, me ngā Inenga o te Ngākau

Ko te aroha ki a koe anō, e ngā hoa aroha, ka noho hei paerewa mōu i roto i a koe, kaua hei mahi māu, ā, ka whakaatuhia mā roto i ngā kōwhiringa iti rawa e hanga ana i ō rā: mā te huarahi e kōrero ai koe ki a koe anō ina ngaro koe i tētahi hikoinga, mā te huarahi e tere ai tō oranga ina ngana tō ao ki te akiaki i a koe, mā te huarahi e whakahonore ai koe i ō hiahia me te kore whakapāha, mā te huarahi e whiriwhiri ai koe i te okiokinga me te kai me te ataahua me te ngāwari hei mahi wairua tika, nā te mea ko te aroha te mea e whakaaetia ana e koe i roto i a koe, ā, ko te mea e whakaaetia ana e koe i roto i a koe ka noho hei āhuarangi mō tō oranga. Mātakitaki i te auau o te hiahia o te hinengaro ki te ine i tō uara mā te hua, mā te whakaae, mā ngā hua e kitea ana, ā, kia rongo i te tere o te tahae a tēnei ine i te reka o te wā o nāianei, kātahi ka whiriwhiri i tētahi inenga hou e ahu mai ana i te ngākau: inehia tō rā mā te kounga o tō aroaro, mā te pono o tō atawhai, mā te pono o tō inoi, mā te ngawari i tukuna e koe ki a koe anō i te wā i pōrearea ai koe, ā, i roto i te wā ka rongo koe i te ao o roto e marino ana, nā te mea kāore e hiahiatia kia whiriwhiria tō uara ki te ao o waho, ka maumaharatia tō uara hei mea tūturu.

Te Tūturutanga Tino Kore, Te Ako i te Iwi Whānui, Me Te Mutunga O Te Tūnga Ā-roto

I roto i tēnei whakamaharatanga, ka noho te kupu "tino hapa" hei kī, ehara i te mea he pepeha, engari he whakaaetanga ora ki te ako i te aroaro o te marea me te mana, kia kitea me te kore he pukupuku, kia whakaaetia tō tangata kia uru ki te ara tapu, nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou i ako i tae mai te haumaru mā te ahua kore he, ko te ngākau ia e puāwai ana mā te pono, ā, ka tino whai hua tō māramatanga ina neke haere i roto i tō oranga tūturu, tō reo tūturu, ō whiringa tūturu, ā, koinei te take e tono atu ai mātou ki a koutou kia waiho ngā hapa hei kaiako e whakaatu ana i te wāhi e hiahia ana te aroha kia hohonu. Tukua koe kia noho hei ākonga o te ora me te ngākau mahaki kanapa, te momo e menemene ana ki tōna ake ara ako, te momo ka taea te kī, "Kei te kite ahau i te wāhi ka taea e au te tipu," i a koe e tū ana me te whakaute i a koe anō, me te rongo me pēhea te whakakore i te hiahia ki te tū, nā te mea ko te tū he rapu tiaki noa i te hinengaro, ko te maia pono ia ko te pumau marino o te noho ki a koe anō, ā, ko te noho ki a koe anō te tatau ki te noho ki te Pūtake.

Te Whakatapua, te Aroaro i te Pokapū o te Ngākau, me te Whakawhirinaki ki tōu Ake Wairua

I a koe e neke ana me tēnei, ka tīmata te aroha ki te whakaatu i tōna tikanga parakore, nā te mea he tokomaha kua hono i te aroha ki te tuku i ngā mea katoa, ki te pana i roto i te ngenge hei whakaatu i te pono, ki te wareware i ngā hiahia whaiaro i runga i te ingoa o te mahi, ā, ka tukuna e mātou he whakamāramatanga teitei ake: ko te aroha ko te whakapau kaha ki te noho ki te pono o wai koe, ki te noho ki tō ngākau, ki te noho ki tō pono, ki te noho ki tō arataki ā-roto, me te whiriwhiri i te aroaro ki a koe anō hei kupu tapu e puritia ana e koe. Ina noho koe ki a koe anō, ka noho pono koe ki tō wairua ake, ā, ka tīmata tō oranga ki te ahua rite mai i roto ki waho, nā te mea e mōhio ana te ngākau kua mawehe atu koe i a ia, ā, e mōhio ana te ngākau kua hoki mai koe, ā, koinei te take ko tētahi o ngā inoi māmā rawa atu ka taea e koe te tuku i waenganui i te rā pukumahi ko te, "Whakahokia mai ahau," kātahi ka aro atu koe ki te pokapū o te ngākau hei turanga mōu, hei wāhi tapu mōu, hei wāhi hui ā-roto, kia taea ai e te manawa te noho hei piriti hoki ki te aroaro.
He tatau ora te pokapū o tō ngākau, e ngā hoa aroha, he wāhi i roto i tō whenua o roto e kitea ai te aroha hei mea tūturu, ā, ina haruru te ao o waho, ina pupū ake ngā whakaaro, ina ngana ngā ngaru o te whakaaro ki te kukume i a koe ki te tauhohe, ka noho tonu te pokapū o te ngākau hei wāhi marino o tō ake mōhiotanga, ā, ko te hokinga atu ki reira ka tono noa i te hiahia, te kōwhiringa ki te okioki, ki te rongo, ki te whakangawari, ki te maumahara, ā, i roto i taua maumahara ka noho koe hei tangata e ora ana i te aroha, kaua ki te tangata e whakapono noa ana ki a ia.

Te Whakaaro Aroha, te Mōhio ki te Wairua, me ngā Hononga e Hangai ana ki te Mana

Te Tirohanga-Ngākau ki tua atu i te Tuakiri, ngā Parepare, me te Paparanga Mata o te Wheako

Mai i konei ka puāwai te aroha i roto i te āhua e kore e uaua, nā te mea he mea tupu noa te aroha ina whakakapia e koe te pakeketanga o roto ki te mahana o roto, ā, tera pea ka kite koe i tēnei hei merekara ngawari: i a koe e ngawari ana ki ō ake tauira, ka ngawari koe ki ngā tauira o ētahi atu, i a koe e manawanui ana ki ō ake akoranga, ka manawanui koe ki te ako a tō whānau, ō hoa, ō hapori, tae atu ki te hunga kāore anō kia tūtaki koe, nā te mea ka mōhio te ngākau ki a ia anō i roto i ngā mea ora katoa, ā, ka mārama ia ka puta ia haerenga i te wā tika. Nō reira, ina kite koe i tētahi āhuatanga i roto i a koe e hiahia ana koe ki te huri, tūtaki ki te hiahia, tūtaki ki te ngākau māhaki, tūtaki ki te momo aro e mea ana, "Whakaaturia mai ki ahau te mea i ngana koe ki te tiaki," ā, i a koe e mahi ana i tēnei, ka tīmata ngā tauira i mau tonu ki te wetekina, nā te mea kei te whiwhi aroha rātou kaua ki te ātete, ā, ko te aroha te huānga e maeneene ai te hurihanga, e ora ai, e tūturu ai. Mā tēnei ka whakawhanakehia e koe he reo atawhai o roto e mau tonu ana te pumau, he reo e kore e piki ake, e heke iho rānei i te whakamoemiti, i te whakahē rānei, he reo e tuwhera tonu ana i ngā rā noa me ngā rā nui, he reo e noho ana i roto i tō uara tūturu, ā, ka rite tēnei reo o roto ki te rama e haria ana e koe i roto i tō oranga, nā te mea ko tō atawhai ake te taiao e noho ana koe, ā, ina noho te atawhai hei taiao mōu, ka mārama ake ō whakatau, ka pono ake ō whanaungatanga, ā, ka parakore tō kaha ki te mahi. He tokomaha kua whakaakona me hanga te hihiri mā te pēhanga, me akiaki te tipu mā te taumahatanga, me whakakaha te whakapainga mā te whakatau i a koe anō, ā, ka whakamahara atu mātou ki a koe mō tētahi hoahoa teitei ake: ka puta te tipu mā te whakatenatena, ka puta te whanaketanga mā te pumau, ka puta te pūkenga mā te aroha, ā, ina noho tō reo o roto hei hoa, kaua hei kaitukino, ka kitea e koe kei te neke haere koe me te iti ake o te taumaha, nā te mea kei te haere tahi koe me koe anō, kaua ki te pana ki a koe anō. Nā, ka tukuna atu e mātou he ahua ora, he māmā, he pono, kia taea ai e te hinengaro te okioki i roto: whakaarohia tō ngākau he temepara tapu o te māramatanga, ā, kei roto i taua temepara tō āhua tangata, ehara i te mea hei whakaoti rapanga, engari he mea aroha e ako ana ki te maumahara, ā, ko koe, hei aroaro teitei ake, ka takahi koe ki taua temepara i ia rā, ka noho ki te taha o tēnei āhua tangata, e tuku ana i te mahana, e tuku ana i te manawanui, e tuku ana i te ringa, e mea ana, "Ka neke tahi tātou," ā, i taua wā ka wetekina e koe te wehenga tawhito i waenganui i te wairua me te tangata, nā te mea kei te noho tahi kōrua.
Koinei te aroha tuatahi, ā, ka waiho hei turanga mō ia mahi aroha e tukuna ana e koe ki te ao, nā te mea ka whiwhi te ao i tāu e whakaatu ana, ā, i a koe e whakaharatau ana ki te pupuri i a koe me te ngākau māhaki tapu, ka taea e koe te pupuri i ētahi atu me te whakaute tapu kotahi, mā te āhua kaua ki te kaha, nā te mea ka tau tō aroha ki roto i a koe, ā, ka noho te aroha tau hei manaakitanga i ngā wāhi katoa e haere ana koe. Nō reira, tīmata i tēnei rā i roto i tētahi huarahi tino ataahua, noa iho: kōrero ki a koe anō me te atawhai, murua wawe, whakatere i tō oranga me te whakaute, whakahonoretia ō hiahia, tukua tō akoranga kia ako, hoki ki te pokapū o te ngākau, whakangawari ki ō ake tauira, whakatipuria he reo o roto e noho reka tonu ana ahakoa te rā kī tonu, ā, i a koe e mahi ana i tēnei, ka rongo koe i tētahi kanapa marino e ara ake ana i roto i tō oranga, te kanapa o tētahi mea nō rātou anō, ā, ko tētahi mea nō rātou anō ka noho hei tatau ora e tomo mai ai te aroha mutunga kore ki roto i tō ao.

Te Kite i te Wairua i raro i te Mata me te Aroha hei Māramatanga me te Aroaro

Ā, i te tīmatanga o tēnei aroha tuatahi ki roto i a koe, i a koe e ako ana ki te noho i te taha o tōu ake tangata me taua ngākau māhaki, tapu hoki e pupuri ana i te aroha kia whai hua, kia tūturu, ka tīmata te tupu o tētahi mea ataahua i roto i te āhua o tō titiro ki waho, nā te mea ko ngā kanohi kua ngawari ki roto, ka ngawari noa ki waho, ā, ko te ngākau kua ako ki te noho tonu me tōna ake ngākau ngawari ka tīmata ki te kite i te ngākau ngawari ki ngā wāhi katoa, ahakoa kua hipokina e te tikanga, e te parepare, e te tere, e te āhua tawhito o te āhua kaha, ā, i konei ka ara ake tētahi momo tirohanga hou, he tirohanga e titiro ana mā roto i te paparanga o te mata o te tuakiri me te mea ora i raro, me te mea kei te mahara koe ki te pānui i te māramatanga kei muri i ngā kupu. He mahi toi tēnei, e ngā hoa aroha, ā, he māmā ake i tā te hinengaro e whakaaro nei, nā te mea ka ngana te hinengaro ki te aromatawai i te tangata i te huarahi e aromatawai ai i ngā putanga, te kohikohi taunakitanga, te ine i te reo, te whakatau ko wai kei te haumaru, te whakatau ko wai kei te whakaaro nui, te whakatau ko wai kei te tika kia arohia, engari he rerekē te hinengaro o te ngākau, he mea e mōhio tuatahi ana ki te mauri, he mea e rongo ana i te wairua i te huarahi e rongo ai koe i te mahana o te rā mā roto i te matapihi, ā, i a koe e mahi ana i tēnei tirohanga ngākau, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i te nui o te mea e kiia nei e koe ko te tuakiri he kākahu noa iho o te wheako, ngā rautaki tuitui o te ao, ngā nekehanga ako i āwhina i te tangata kia neke i roto i te ao e tono pinepine ana kia whakapakeke, nō reira ka mutu tō whakapoauau i te kākahu mō te tangata, ka mutu tō whakapoauau i te tū mō te pono, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te titiro ki waenganui o te tangata me te mea kei te kī puku koe, me te kore kupu, "Kei te kite ahau i a koe i reira." Koia te take i tino kaha ai te aroha ki te mārama, nā te mea ka kite te aroha i ngā mea e ngaro ana i te wehi, ā, ka rongo te aroha i te whakatau ka taka ki te tapanga kotahi, ā, ka mahara te aroha ka puta ngā parepare i te ngākau aroha, ka tipu te mana whakahaere i te koretake, ka puta te koi i te patunga tawhito i mōhio ai me tiaki, ā, ina tukua e koe tēnei māramatanga kia noho i roto i a koe, ka mutu te aroha hei mahi matatika, ka noho hei urupare maori, ehara i te mea nā te mea kei te whakaaro koe he pai ngā mea katoa, engari nā te mea kua mōhio koe ki te tono huna i raro i te mata: te tono kia noho haumaru, te tono kia rangona, te tono kia puritia me te mana, te tono kia tutukihia hei wairua kaua e whakahaerea hei raruraru.

Te Wātea i ngā Wā Hihiri, te Whakatikatika Hononga, me te Whakawhitiwhiti Kōrero e Hangai ana ki te Auautanga

Nō reira, ina tūtaki koe ki te pakeketanga, kia whānui tō nekehanga ā-roto tuatahi, nā te mea mā te whānui ka taea e koe te uru atu ki ngā mōhiotanga hohonu ake, ā, i roto i taua whānui ka rongo pea koe i te hoahoa ngawari i raro i te āhua o waho o te tangata, ka rongo pea koe i te wehi i ako i a rātou kia whakapūmau, ka rongo pea koe i te pouri i ako i a rātou kia tūpato, ka rongo pea koe i te pōhēhē i ako i a rātou kia haruru, ā, hei utu mō te tango i te mata ki a koe anō ka tīmata koe ki te hono atu ki te mea kei muri i te mata, te whiriwhiri i te aroha hei reo tuatahi, te whiriwhiri i te manawanui hei tūnga tuatahi, te whiriwhiri i te aroaro hei whakahere tuatahi, ā, ka noho tēnei kōwhiringa hei wā hurihanga marino i roto i ō whanaungatanga nā te mea he maha ngā auau kōrero a te ngākau he nui ake te whakatenatena i ngā tautohetohe. Ka tīmata te mahi i ngā wāhi iti rawa, i ngā wāhi noa rawa, nā te mea ehara te mōhio ki te wairua i te pūkenga e rāhuitia ana mō ngā wā whakanui, engari he huarahi ora e whakatipuhia ana e koe i roto i ngā ara hoko kai, i ngā papa waka, i ngā kīhini whānau, i ngā kōrerorero rōpū, i ngā tūtakitanga poto e kimo ana ngā kanohi o te tangata tauhou ki tētahi mea kāore i kōrerotia, ā, i aua wā poto ka taea e koe te whakangungu i tō māramatanga mā te ata, me te mea he takaro noa iho, mā te pātai i roto i a koe anō, "Ko wai tēnei tangata kei raro i tōna wairua," me te "He aha te mea pono i raro i te mahi," ā, ki te mahi tonu koe i tēnei, ka matatau tetahi mea i roto i a koe, kia tae mai ai tētahi wā me te kaha ake, te kaha ake, te kare ā-roto ake, kua mōhio kē tō ngākau ki te ara hoki ki te mauri, ā, ka noho wātea tonu koe ki te aroha nā te mea kua mōhiotia te aroha.

Ngā Whakaata Tapu, te Whakaora Matakite, me te Pākiki hei Ara i tua atu i te Tauhohenga

I roto i tēnei mahi, ka whakakitea mai he whakaata tapu, ā, ko tētahi o ngā whakaata tino whakaora ka riro i a koe, nā te mea ka whakamāramahia e te ao ngā mea kāore anō kia ora, ehara i te mea hei whiu i a koe, engari hei tono i a koe ki te oranga katoa, ā, mā tēnei ara, ko ngā wā i ahua whakarihariha ai i mua ka huri hei kōrero tapu, ko ngā wā i ahua arai ai i mua ka huri hei tono, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i tētahi tauira: ko ngā wāhi e tere ana koe ki te whakatau he maha ngā wā e tohu ana ki ngā wāhi i roto i a koe kua tino mau, kua hē te mārama, kua whakakahoretia rānei te ngākau aroha, ā, ina kite koe i tēnā, ka whiwhi koe i tētahi kōwhiringa ataahua, nā te mea, kaua e whakaatu i tō taumahatanga o roto ki waho, ka taea e koe te tahuri ki roto me te aroha me te mea, "Āe, he tono aroha tēnei i roto i ahau," ā, i a koe e kawe mai ana i te aroha ki ngā mea i puritia e koe i mua i tawhiti, ka tīmata tō ao o waho ki te ngawari hei whakautu, nā te mea kua rerekē tō tirohanga mai i te pūtake. Ko te hiahia nui ki te mōhio tapu tētahi o ō hoa rangatira nui i konei, nā te mea ko te hiahia nui ki te mōhio he tatau e pupuri ana i te ngākau kia tuwhera, ā, ka taea e koe te neke i roto i ngā taunekeneke tangata me te kore e whakawhāiti i a rātou ki ngā kōrero māmā, ā, e aroha ana te hinengaro ki ngā kōrero māmā nā te mea he haumaru ake te āhua ina taea te whakarōpū, engari ko tō oho ake e tono ana kia nui ake te māramatanga, kia whānui ake, kia hiahia ake ki te tūtaki ki te uauatanga me te atawhai, nō reira ka ako koe ki te whakakapi i te whakatau tere ki tētahi pātai ā-roto marino, ehara i te mea he tikanga, engari he hiahia pono ki te mārama, "He aha tā tēnei mea e ngana ana ki te kī i raro i ā rātou kupu," "He aha tā rātou e ngana ana ki te tiaki i raro i ō rātou tūnga," "He aha tā rātou e hiahia ana i raro i ō rātou pouri," ā, mā ēnei pātai ka nekehia tō mara katoa, nā te mea ka nekehia koe mai i te tauhohenga ki te aroaro, ā, ko te aroaro te wāhi e noho ai te aroha.

Te Tirohanga, te Mana, ngā Rohe, me te Kaiārahi Aroha me te Kore e Whakararuraruhia

Ka taea e te titiro te noho hei wāhanga o tēnei rongoā, ā, e kōrero ana tātou mō te titiro i roto i te tikanga whānui, te huarahi e titiro ai koe ki tētahi tangata me ō kanohi, āe, me te huarahi hoki e titiro ai koe ki a rātou me tō aro ā-roto, nā te mea he momo pā te aro, ā, he maha ngā mea ora kua noho kore aro pono mō te wā roa, kua mātakihia rātou, kua aromatawaihia, kua whakaritea, kua arotakehia, kua whakatikatikaina, engari he rerekē te kitea pono, ko te kitea pono ko te wā e tūtaki ai tētahi ki a koe me te kore e ngana ki te whakaiti i a koe, me te kore e ngana ki te tango i tētahi mea mai i a koe, me te kore e ngana ki te toa, ā, i te pakeketanga o tō ngākau, ka ako koe ki te tuku i tēnei momo tirohanga hei koha, kaua e whakaari, kaua e haruru, mā te noho noa me te ngawari e mea ana, "Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakamatau i tō uara kia tutuki ai koe me te mana." Koinei te wāhi e kitea mārire ai te pakeketanga wairua, nā te mea e aroha ana te ego ki te hiranga, e aroha ana ki te whakaaro kei mua, e aroha ana ki te tuakiri o te tangata e "mātau ana," engari kāore te ngākau e aro ki ngā haerenga whakarōpū, e mārama ana te ngākau ki te wā, e mārama ana te ngākau ki ngā āhuatanga o te wā, e mārama ana te ngākau ka puta ngā oho ake pērā i ngā putiputi, ia mea e tuwhera ana i runga i tōna ake manawataki, ā, ina tukuna e koe te hiahia kia noho ki runga ake i tētahi, ina tukuna e koe te tikanga o te huri i te wairuatanga hei mana, ka ma ake tō aroha, ka nui ake te pono o tō aroha, ā, ka haumaru ake tō aroaro mō ētahi atu, nā te mea ka hangaia te haumaru ina whakaaro tetahi ka taea e ia te noho tangata i tō taha me te kore e whakaitihia. I roto i tēnei ma o te aroha, ka noho te mana hei tētahi o ngā kaha tino kaha ka taea e koe te tuku ki te hunga e tuwhera tonu ana ō rātou ngākau, nā te mea ko te mana te auau e mea ana, "He rangatira koe kei te tukanga," ā, ka taea e koe te whakaute i tētahi me te kore e tohe kia huri rātou kia noho atawhai tonu koe, ka taea e koe te pupuri i te mahana ahakoa he pōrangi tetahi, ka taea e koe te pupuri i tō ngākau kia tuwhera me te whakahonore tonu i ō ake rohe, ā, ka kawea mai he pakeketanga hohonu ki roto i ō taunekeneke, nā te mea ka mutu tāu ngana ki te kukume i tētahi ki te huringa, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te noho hei pōwhiri ki te huringa. He ngākau aroha anō hoki e hiahiatia ana i roto i te āhua o tō pupuri i tō ake ngākau aroha i a koe e mahi ana i tēnei, nā te mea mā te kite i te wairua i raro i te mata ka nui ake tō māramatanga, ka nui ake tō kare ā-roto, ka rongo koe i ngā paparanga i raro i ngā mea e kōrerotia ana, nō reira me noho taurite tonu tō whanaungatanga ki te aroha, me te whai i te whakaute i a koe anō, me te pumau o roto, me te maumahara ko te aroha e rere pai ana i roto i tētahi oko e noho tonu ana ki a ia anō, ā, koinei te take he kotahi tonu te aroha tuatahi me te aroha tuarua, nā te mea ka ako koe ki te kite i tētahi atu me te kore e whakarērea koe anō, ka ako koe ki te atawhai me te kore e mauheretia, ka ako koe ki te tuku i te mahana me te kore e ngaro tō pokapū, ā, ka hangaia he momo kaiārahi aroha kāore e whakawhirinaki ki te kaha, engari e whakawhirinaki ana ki te pono.

Te Pupuri i te Wāhi, te Aroha Mutunga Kore, me te Aroaro hei Pōwhiri Ora

Te Tirohanga i runga i te Mauri, te Mōhio ki te Wairua, me te Aroha hei Mana Hōhonu

Nō reira, kia noho ō rā hei mara mahi ngāwari, kia noho ō tūtakitanga hei akomanga tapu, kia noho tō ngākau hei taputapu matua mō te tirohanga, nā te mea ka nui ake tō whakangungu i a koe ki te kite i te mea kei raro i te whanonga, ka nui ake tō urupare māori mai i te whakaaro nui kaua i te hihiri, ā, ka nui ake tō kitenga kāore te aroha i te pakarukaru, kāore te aroha e ngāwari te riri, kāore te aroha e whakawhirinaki ki ngā āhuatanga tino pai, he mana hohonu te aroha e mōhio ana ki a ia anō i ngā wāhi katoa, ahakoa kua warewarehia mō tētahi wā, ā, i a koe e ora ana i tēnei, ka kitea e koe ka tīmata tō aroaro ki te iriti i te aroaro i roto i ētahi atu, nā te mea kāore koe e hono atu ki tō rātou mata, kei te hono atu koe ki tō rātou mauri, ā, ka maumahara te mauri ki te mauri ina tūtaki.

Te Pupuri i te Wāhi hei Tautoko i roto i te Ngākau, Haunga te Whakatika, te Whakatau, te Whakatenatena rānei

Ā, i a koe e matatau ana ki tēnei huarahi tirohanga, i a koe e tīmata ana ki te tūtaki ki te mea kei raro i te mata me te whakaute kore-whakahau, ka ara ake he kaha hou i roto i a koe, nā te mea ko te mōhio ki te wairua ehara i te mea ka kitea e koe anake, engari he mea ka tukuna e koe, ā, ko tāu e tuku nei he wāhi, he rūma noho o te aroaro i te taha o tētahi atu mea, ka taea e tōna ngākau te maumahara ki a ia anō i tōna ake tere, i roto i tōna ake reo, i tōna ake wā, ā, koinei te tikanga o tā mātou kōrero mō te pupuri i te wāhi, nā te mea ehara te pupuri i te wāhi i te tikanga, ehara hoki i te mahi ka mahia e koe me tō hinengaro, engari ko te kounga o te aroha ka whakaatuhia e koe ina noho tonu koe, ina noho atawhai koe, ina noho pono koe, ā, ina tukua e koe tō manaaki kia rongohia hei pōwhiri ngawari e kore e tono i tetahi mea mai i tētahi atu tangata kia mau tonu ai tō mahana. I roto i te nuinga o āu taunekeneke tangata, ka tere te hinengaro ki te whakatika, ki te whakaoti rapanga, ki te whakatenatena, ki te whakamārama, nā te mea e whakapono ana ia ka whakamātauhia te aroha mā te mahi, ā, e whakapono ana ia ka inehia te tautoko mā te kaha, engari e mōhio ana te ngākau ki tētahi pono marino, nā te mea e mārama ana te ngākau ko te koha tino whakarerekētanga ko te mea māmā rawa: ko te kōwhiringa kia noho tahi me tētahi, kia whakarongo me te pono, kia tūtaki ki a rātou me te whakaute, me te tuku i tō rātou ao o roto kia whāwhātia me te kore e hopukia, e hangaia, e whakahaeretia rānei. Nō reira ka tīmata koe ki te mahi i tētahi tū o roto e mea ana, "Kei konei ahau, kei te tuwhera ahau, kei te pumau ahau," kātahi ka tukua tō aroaro kia mahi i tā te aroaro e mahi ai, arā, kia wātea he wāhi mō te pono kia puta, kia wātea he wāhi mō ngā kare ā-roto kia ngawari, kia wātea he wāhi mō te tangata kia rongo anō i a rātou anō i raro i te haruru o ō rātou rā, ā, koinei te take he pōwhiri ora te pupuri i te wāhi, kaua ki te kaha, nā te mea e whakahonoretia ana e te pōwhiri te mana motuhake, ā, ko te mana motuhake te wāhi e tino ora ai.

Te Aroha Mutunga Kore i te Rerekētanga, te Mana Motuhake, me te Hanganga o te Haumaru

I roto i tēnei pōwhiri ora, ka noho tuwhera tonu te tatau o te ngākau i roto i te huarahi e whānui ana, e whakaute ana hoki, nā te mea kāore koe e ngana ana ki te whakatere i te tangata ki te pokapū o te ngākau, kāore koe e ngana ana ki te kukume i a rātou ki mua kia pai ai tō noho, kāore koe e ngana ana ki te waihanga i te ōritetanga kia pai ai tō noho haumaru, engari kei te tuku koe i te tangata kē kia neke i runga i te āheinga o roto, i a koe e noho tonu ana hei tohu mārama o te atawhai e kī mārire ana, "Nau mai haere mai ki konei," me te "Kei te haumaru koe ki te noho ki tō wāhi e noho nei koe." Koinei tētahi o ngā whakaaturanga tino pakeke o te aroha mutunga kore, nā te mea e tuku ana i te manaaki kāore e hiahiatia he whakaae, ā, e tuku ana i te piripono kāore e hiahiatia he whakapono ōrite, he kōwhiringa ōrite, he reo ōrite rānei, ā, he mea nui tēnei, e ngā hoa aroha, nā te mea kua roa tō ao e whakapoauau ana i te aroha me te ōritetanga, me te mea me whiwhi te aroha mā te whakataurite ki tētahi whakaaro, me te mea me hoko te noho tahi mā te whakaata i te tirohanga ao a tētahi atu tangata, ā, kāore te ngākau e mahi pērā. Ka mōhio te ngākau ki te mauri, ā, he nui ake te mauri i te mata o te hiahia, he nui ake i te āhua rangitahi o te tirohanga, he nui ake i ngā awha o te wairua e rere ana, nō reira ka ako koe ki te aroha ahakoa te rerekētanga me te ngāwari e kore e whakaiti i tō pono, nā te mea kāore te aroha e tono kia whakarērea e koe ngā mea e mōhio ana koe, engari e tono ana kia pupuri koe i ngā mea e mōhio ana koe me te ngākau mahaki me te atawhai, me te tuku i tētahi atu tangata kia whai mana i tōna ake wā. Ina kōrero koe mai i tēnei wāhi, ka noho ō kupu hei kī ngāwari kaua hei taputapu koi, ka noho tō arataki hei whakahere kaua hei pana, ka noho tō atawhai hei piriti kaua hei utu, ā, tera pea ka kite koe i tētahi mea whakamiharo, nā te mea he maha ngā tangata e ngawari ana nā te mea kāore he pēhanga ki te mahi, kāore he pēhanga ki te whakamatau, kāore he pēhanga ki te tiaki, ā, i roto i taua whakamarie ka tuwhera te ngākau i a ia anō, pērā i te ringa e tuwhera ana ina mōhio kāore e hiahiatia kia pūmau. Ā, i a koe e haere tonu ana, ka tīmata koe ki te rongo i te hanganga ngawari o te haumaru, ehara i te mea ka hangaia e koe me te mana whakahaere, engari he mea ka puta mai i roto i te pumau, ā, kāore tēnei pumau i te pakari, kāore hoki i te taumaha, he mahana, he pumau, ko te pono marino o te tangata nō rātou anō, ā, ka waiho hei momo rama ahi i roto i ō taunekeneke, nā te mea ina pumau koe i roto i tōu ake ngākau, ka rongo ētahi atu kua whakaaetia kia wātea ki te taha o koe, kua whakaaetia kia manawa, kua whakaaetia kia noho tangata, kua whakaaetia kia ngawari me te kore e pātaihia. Koia te take kāore te pupuri i te wāhi e hiahia ana kia ngawari, nā te mea ka hangaia e te tono te whakawhāiti, ā, ka tere ake te urupare a te ngākau ki te ngawari i tana urupare ki te kaha, nō reira ka noho koe hei tangata e ārahi ana me te atawhai, ā, ka tukua kia puta noa te huringa, ā, ka huri tēnei i te kounga katoa o ō whanaungatanga, nā te mea ka noho tō aroaro hei wāhi tapu ka taea e te tangata te tūtaki ki a rātou anō.

Mana Ngāwari, Rohe e Puta Ana ki te Ngākau, me te Whai Wāhi Aroha Pumau

I ētahi wā ka noho koe i roto i ngā rūma e kaha ana ngā kare ā-roto, e kaha ana ngā reo, ā, ka rongo koe i te tikanga tawhito i roto i tō momo e rite ana ki te kaha ki te mana, engari kei te ako koe i tētahi mana hohonu ake, te mana o te noho tuwhera, te noho whakaute, te noho pokapū, me te kōrero mai i te pono me te ngawari e kore e taea te whakakorikori, nā te mea ko te ngawari, ina ahu mai i te whakaute i a koe anō, he mana nui. Koinei hoki te wāhi ka noho ai ō rohe hei toronga o te aroha kaua hei taiepa parepare, nā te mea ko te pupuri i te wāhi kei roto ko te pupuri i te wāhi mōu ake, te whakahonore i tō ake arataki ā-roto, te mōhio ki te wā e whai wāhi ai me te wā e mutu ai, te mōhio ki te wā e kōrero ai me te wā e whakarongo ai, te mōhio ki te wā e tuku tata ai i tō mahana me te mōhio ki te wā e tuku atu ai i tō mahana mai i tawhiti whakaute, ā, mā tēnei māramatanga ka noho ma tō aroha, tō manaaki pono, me tō aroaro e mau tonu ana.

Te Whakaaturanga Tapu, te Wahangu hei Rongoā, me te Aroha hei Whai Hua i te Wā Noa

Ko tētahi o ngā āhuatanga tino pai o te pupuri i te wāhi ka tae mai ina ako koe ki te mātakitaki i te wheako o tētahi atu me te kore e whakauru atu ki roto, nā te mea ka taea te hē te whakaaro ko te aroha he whakakotahitanga kare ā-roto, me te mea me kawe e koe ngā mea e haria ana e ētahi atu hei whakaatu i tō manaakitanga, ā, ka tukuna e te ngākau he ara whakaaro nui ake, nā te mea e mōhio ana te ngākau ki te noho tata me te kore e waipuketia, e mōhio ana ki te whakahonore i ngā kare ā-roto o tētahi atu me te kore e waiho aua kare ā-roto hei tuakiri mōu, ā, e mōhio ana ki te tuku mahana me te kore e toia i waho o te pokapū. Nō reira, ka mahi koe i tētahi momo whakaaturanga tapu he ngawari, he kaha hoki i te wā kotahi, e whakaae ana koe ki ngā mea kei reira me te pono ngāwari, e tuku ana koe i te tangata kē kia rongo i ō rātou kare ā-roto, e whakarongo ana koe me te kore e tere ki te whakatika, ā, e noho pūmau ana koe i roto i te aroha hei āhuarangi huri noa i te kōrero. I roto i tēnei whakaaturanga, ka rite koe ki te rangi whānui, e tuku ana i te rangi kia neke haere me te kore e ngaro te rangi tonu, ā, he kupu whakarite nui tēnei mō te ngākau tangata, nā te mea he nekehanga ngā kare ā-roto, he nekehanga ngā whakaaro, he nekehanga ngā tauhohenga, ā, ko tō āhua tūturu ko te mōhiotanga ka taea te pupuri i aua nekehanga me te atawhai. Ina whakatinanahia tēnei e koe, ka tukuna e tō aroaro he karere puku e whakaora hohonu ana: "E whakaaetia ana koe kia noho ki tō wāhi e noho nei koe," ā, i te wā kotahi, "E whakaaetia ana koe kia ara ake," ā, ka hangaia e ēnei whakaaetanga e rua he tatau ngawari, nā te mea ka tangohia e te whakaaetanga tuatahi te whakama, ā, ka whakahokia mai e te whakaaetanga tuarua ngā āheinga. He maha ngā ngākau e kati ana nā te mea e wehi ana rātou kei whakahengia mō te wāhi e tū ana rātou, ā, ina memeha te whakawa, ina wetekina te whakama, ina hoki mai te mana, ka tīmata te tangata ki te kite anō i tōna ake kaha o roto, ā, he maha ngā wā koinei anake te mea e hiahiatia ana mō te whakatuwheratanga tuatahi. He wā, e ngā Aroha, ko te rongoā tino kaha ko te wahangu, ā, ehara te wahangu i te ngaro, engari ko te aroaro i tōna āhua parakore, koinei te wāhi e huri ai tō aro ki te mārama ngawari, koinei te okiokinga e taea ai e te ngākau te kōrero me te kore e haukotia, nō reira ka ako koe ki te mōhio ki te wā e whai hua ai ngā kupu, ā, ko te wā e whakakī noa ai ngā kupu i te wāhi e tika ana kia manawa. I ēnei wā, ko te pupuri i te wāhi he rite ki te noho i te taha o tētahi he kanohi marino, he tinana marino, he manawa kore e tere, me te hiahia noa ki te noho, ā, ko tēnei hiahia he reo e mārama tonu ana te wairua, nā te mea kāore te wairua e hiahia ki ngā kōrero kia rongohia ai te tūtakitanga, engari me te pono, me te mahana, me te atawhai pumau e kore e wiri ina ngawari ngā mea. Nō reira, tukua tō marino hei koha, tukua tō ngawari hei whakahere, tukua tō kore whakahāwea hei momo manaakitanga e neke ana i roto i te rūma pērā i te rā ngawari, nā te mea i ētahi wā ko tō aroaro te whakaoho katoa, te mura marino e whakamahara ana i tētahi atu tangata ki tōna ake kaha ki te hoki ki te aroha. Tukua tō oranga hei whakaaturanga o tēnei toi tapu i ngā wā noa, i ngā kōrerorero whai tikanga me ngā kōrerorero e ahua iti ana, i ngā wā whānau, i ngā wā tūmatanui, i ngā wā tūmataiti, nā te mea ko te pupuri i te wāhi he aroha whai hua, he aroha whai manawa, he aroha whai haumaru, ā, ina ora tonu koe i tēnei, ka riro koe hei tatau e mahara ai te ngākau o te tangata ki a ia anō i ia wā.

Ngā Rohe, te Māramatanga, me te Aroha Tūturu e Aratakihia ana e te Pono

Ngā Rohe Hei Whakatapua, Hei Pono, Hei Whakatakotoranga Aroha Mō Te Pono

Ā, i te mea ka noho noa te pupuri i te wāhi māu, i te mea ka ako te ngākau ki te noho tuwhera me te kore he taumahatanga, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i tētahi paparanga pai ake o te rangatira e noho ana i roto i te aroha mutunga kore, nā te mea ko te aroha, ina orahia hei whakaaro nui, he āhua tōna, ā, ko taua āhua te mea e kiia nei e koe he rohe, ā, ko te rohe i roto i tōna āhua parakore he whakarāpopototanga aroha noa iho o te pono, te rārangi ngawari e tūtaki ai tō ngākau pono ki te ao, te paepae tapu e mea ana, "Anei te mea ka taea e tōku ngākau te tuku pono," me "Anei te mea e whiriwhiria ana e tōku ngākau ki te whakakore," ā, ina mārama koe ki tēnei, ka mutu te ahua o ngā rohe he wehenga, ka tīmata te ahua he aroha, nā te mea ko te aroha te whiringa kia noho rite ki te mea pono i roto i a koe, ahakoa kei te mahana tonu tō aroha, ahakoa kei te atawhai tonu tō titiro, ahakoa kei te whakaute tonu tō aroaro. I roto i tō wheako tangata, he tokomaha i ako ko te aroha me noho tonu, me whakaae tonu, me ngawari tonu ahakoa te āhua, ā, nā tēnei i puta ai he pōhēhētanga i reira ka honoa te atawhai ki te whakarere i a koe anō, engari kāore te pokapū o te ngākau i hangaia hei tatau ka taea e ētahi atu te pana atu i a rātou anō i runga i te hiahia, i hangaia hei wāhi tapu mō te pono e ringihia mai ai te aroha, nō reira ka tono atu mātou ki a koe ki te momo aroha pakeke, te momo ka taea te menemene me te kī tonu "kāo," te momo ka taea te manaaki me te hoki whakamuri, te momo ka taea te pupuri i tētahi atu i roto i te mana me te whakakore i tetahi tono ki te kore whakaute, ki te whakahaere, ki te whakahaere, ki ngā kēmu kare ā-roto, ki ngā tauira tawhito e ngana ana ki te hoko i te tata mā te pēhanga. Ina kōrerotia tō "kāo" mai i te aroha, ka riro hei rongoā, nā te mea e whakaako ana i te ao me pēhea te tūtaki ki a koe, ā, e whakaako ana i tō ake ao o roto he mea nui tō pono, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā mahi aroha nui rawa atu ka taea e koe te mahi, nā te mea ka whakarite kia pono, kia mau tonu, kia mārama hoki tāu e tuku nei.

Te Whakahonore i te Oranga me te Whakakore i te Tauira me te Aroha Ma

Ā, i a koe e tipu ake ana i roto i tēnei māramatanga, ka ako koe ki te wehe i te tangata mai i te whanonga me te ngākau māhaki e tino whakawātea ana, nā te mea ina kite te hinengaro i te whanonga ka hangaia te whanonga hei tuakiri, kātahi ka whakapūmau te ngākau, kātahi ka noho te aroha ki te āhua, engari e mōhio ana tō tirohanga wairua ki te pono hohonu ake, nā te mea ka taea e koe te rongo i te tangata i raro i te wā, ka taea e koe te rongo i te mauri i raro i te tauira, ka taea e koe te mōhio he nui ake te wairua i tōna whakaaturanga o nāianei, ā, mai i taua mōhiotanga ka taea e koe te whakahonore i te tangata i a koe e whakakore ana i te tauira. He toi tapu tēnei, e ngā Aroha, nā te mea ka taea e koe te noho aroha me te kore e whakaae noa, ka taea e koe te noho tuwhera me te kore e pōrearea, ka taea e koe te pupuri i tō mahana me te pupuri tonu i te paerewa whakaute, ā, ka pupuri i tō aroha kia ma, nā te mea kāore he hiranga ake o te aroha ma, kāore he whiu huna, kāore he hiahia ki te whakaiti i tetahi kia noho haumaru ai koe, ka pupuri noa i te pono me te atawhai. I roto i te mahi, tera pea he rite tēnei ki te whakarongo katoa ki ngā kare ā-roto o te tangata i a ia e whakatau ana ki te whakamutu i tētahi kōrero e kore e whakaute, tera pea he rite ki te aro nui ki te haerenga a tētahi i a ia e whiriwhiri ana ki te wehe atu i tētahi tauira e whakaiti ana i a koe, tera pea he rite ki te tuku atawhai i a koe e whakakore ana i ngā tono e whakahokia ana, ā, i a koe e mahi ana i tēnei, ka rongo koe i te kaha mārire i roto i tō ngākau, nā te mea e aroha ana te ngākau ki te pono, ka marino te ngākau ina mōhio ia ka tiakina e koe tōna pono.

Te Mātauranga Teitei Hei Aroha me te Arataki, Te Māramatanga Kore he Nanakia

He maha ngā wā ka hē te māramatanga i roto i tō ao, arā, he whakapae, he whakamutunga, he whakatau pakari, engari ko te māramatanga i tōna āhua teitei ake he aroha noa iho me te aronga, he aroha e noho mataara ana, he aroha e noho tonu ana, he aroha e hono tonu ana ki te arataki o roto, ā, nā tēnei, kāore e hiahiatia he pakari kia whai hua ai te māramatanga, he māramatanga me te kore nanakia, he pono me te kore whakaiti, he tika me te kore whakapehapeha wairua, ā, e kōrero ana i roto i te huarahi e whakahonore ana i te tangata o te hunga katoa e whai wāhi ana.

Te Kōrero Pono e Pūmau ana i te Ngākau, te Māramatanga Ngāwari, me te Mahana Tuturu

Nō reira, ina karangatia koe ki te kōrero i te pono, tukua tō pono kia tae mai mā te ngākau, tukua kia hangaia e te atawhai, tukua kia kōrerotia i roto i te reo e pupuri ana i te mana, nā te mea ko te pono e tukuna ana me te ngākau māhaki he ara tōna ki te tau ki reira ka peke atu te pono e tukuna ana me te koi. He ara anō hei mārama tonu, me te noho mahana tonu, ā, ehara tēnei mahana i te ngoikore, he whakamahine, he tohu o te tangata e mōhio ana ki tōna mana, nō reira kāore he take ki te whakahaere. Ina kōrero koe i tēnei ara, ka riro koe hei pōwhiri mō te pono i roto i ētahi atu, nā te mea he haumaru tō māramatanga, ā, ka akiaki te haumaru i te pono, ā, ka whakatuwherahia e te pono ngā tatau e kore e taea e te kaha te whakatuwhera.

Te Tawhiti Hinengaro, te Whakama i te Hononga, me te Mutunga o te Aroha e Hangai ana ki te Kaiwhakaora

Tērā anō ngā wā e whiriwhiria ana te tawhiti me te aroha nui, ā, ina whiriwhiria te tawhiti me te hinengaro, ka waiho hei mahi whakaute mō te hunga katoa e whai wāhi ana, nā te mea ka hangaia he wāhi mō ngā tauira kia kitea mārama ake, ka hangaia he wāhi mō ngā kare ā-roto kia tau, ka hangaia he wāhi mō te tangata kia tūtaki ki a rātou anō me te kore e pā tonu te whakapā, ā, ka hangaia he wāhi mōu kia noho rite ki tō ake pono. Ka taea te tuku i te tawhiti me ngā manaakitanga, me te ngawari, me te marino, me te hiahia ā-roto mō te oranga o tētahi atu, ā, mā tēnei ka waiho te tawhiti hei momo aroha e pupuri ana i tō ngākau kia mau tonu, nā te mea ka tupu tō ngākau ina whakahonoretia, ā, ka tupu tō oranga ina whakahaerehia e te whakaaro nui. He tokomaha o koutou kua ngana ki te noho tata i roto i ngā āhuatanga e hiahiatia ana koe e te tata kia whakaitihia, ā, kāore te wairua e tono kia whakaitihia koe kia aroha ai, ka tono te wairua kia aroha koe i roto i te huarahi e pupuri ana i a koe kia ora, ā, nō reira ka ako koe ki te hoki whakamuri me te kore riri, ki te whakamutu me te kore whakaari, ki te waihanga wāhi me te kore e hē tetahi, nā te mea e mōhio ana koe ko te aroha, i roto i tōna āhua parakore, kei roto ko te whakaute ki te wā, te whakaute ki te rite, te whakaute ki te mooni o ngā mea e tupu ana i tēnei wā. Ina mahi koe i tēnei, ka tīmata ō whanaungatanga ki te purea, nā te mea ko te mea e toe ana ko te mea ka tūtaki ki a koe i roto i te pono, ā, ko te mea e taka ana ko te tono mō tētahi momo o koe kua kore e tipu ake i roto i tō ngākau. Koinei hoki te wāhi e memeha noa ai te tauira kaiwhakaora tawhito, nā te mea kua hangaia te tauira kaiwhakaora i runga i te whakapono me whakaora te aroha kia pono ai, ā, he maha ngā wā ka mau te whakaoranga i tētahi utu huna, he tumanako huna mēnā ka nui āu e hoatu ana ka ora koe, mēnā ka nui āu e whakatika ana ka whai uara koe, mēnā ka nui āu patunga tapu ka arohaina koe, heoi he nui ake te whānui o te aroha mutunga kore i tēnei, nā te mea ka tautoko te aroha mutunga kore me te kore e tango i te mana o ngā kōwhiringa a tētahi atu, ā, ka mahi te aroha mutunga kore me te kore e muku i te whaiaro e mahi ana. I roto i te aroha pakeke, ka wātea koe hei aroaro, hei taringa whakarongo, hei whakaata atawhai, hei hoa pumau, ā, ka tukua hoki e koe kia noho ko ia tangata tōna ake rangatiratanga, tōna ake ako, tōna ake kawenga mō tōna ake ara, ā, mā tēnei ka noho parakore tō ratonga, nā te mea ka puta mai i te puhake kaua i te mimiti, ka puta mai i te katoa kaua i te taumahatanga. Ina ora koe, ka kawea mai e tō atawhai te māramatanga, ka kawea mai te ngāwari, ka kawea mai te pono, ā, ka taea e ētahi atu te rongo kei te tuku noa koe i te aroha, kaua ki te tuku noa i te aroha hei utu, ā, ka rerekē ngā mea katoa i tēnei, nā te mea he rerekē te whiwhinga o te aroha e tukuna noa ana, he rerekē te whakawhirinakitanga, ka tukuna kia hohonu ake te mahi.

Te Tiakitanga Pūngao Tapu, Ngā Rohe, Me Te Aroha e Aratakihia ana e te Pono

Te Whakahaere i te Pūngao hei Rauemi Tapu mā te Tika, te Uru, me te Tuku Ma

I a koe e haere tonu ana, ka kite koe ka huri tō kaha hei tētahi o ō rauemi tino tapu, ā, ka kōrero tātou mō te kaha hei tō aro, tō wā, tō wātea o ngā kare ā-roto, tō kaha ki te whakauru, tō kaha ki te noho tonu, ā, ina tīmata koe ki te whakaaro ki tō kaha he tapu, ka tīmata koe ki te whiriwhiri me te tika i tāu e whakauru ana, te wā e whakauru ana koe, me te pēhea e whakauru ai koe, ā, mā tēnei tika ka whai hua ake tō aroha, nā te mea ka tae te aroha me te mārama ki te wāhi e taea ai te whiwhi. He rerekētanga i waenga i te atawhai ki te katoa me te tuku urunga ki te katoa ki tō ao o roto, ā, ka nui te hiranga o tēnei rerekētanga i tō ara, nā te mea he tūnga whānui o te ngākau te atawhai, ko te urunga he momo whanaungatanga me whiwhi mā te whakaute. Nō reira ka ako koe ki te mahana me te kore e tino kitea, ka ako koe ki te aroha me te kore e tino wātea, ka ako koe ki te whakarongo me te kore e whai kawenga mō te putanga, ā, ka ako koe ki te wehe atu me te kore e ngaro tō ngawari. Koinei te tikanga o te pupuri i tō whakahere kia ma, nā te mea kāore he raruraru o te whakahere ma, kāore he tumanakohanga huna, kāore he take mō tētahi atu ki te whakautu i tētahi ara, ka hoatu noa e ia te mea ka taea e ia te hoatu, ā, ka noho rangimārie ki te mea kei roto.

Āe Tapu me te Kāo Ngāwari hei Wairua-Pono, hei Mana, hei Hononga Teitei Ake

I roto i tēnei, ka tapu tō "āe", ka ngawari tō "kāo", ā, ka noho hei whakaaturanga o te ngākau pono, nā te mea ko te ngākau pono te whakaaetanga e puritia ana e koe me tō wairua ake, ā, ina puritia e koe tēnei whakaaetanga, ka haere koe me te māia marino kāore e hiahiatia kia whakamātauria, engari kei te noho noa iho. Ko te āe tapu ko te āe e ara ake ana i te pokapū o te ngākau, ā, e tuwhera ana i roto i tō tinana, e ngākau pono ana i roto i tō wairua, e hono ana i roto i tō mōhiotanga o roto, ā, ko te kāo ngawari ko te kāo e tiaki ana i taua hononga me te kore he mauahara, te kore mahi, te kore he whakapae, ā, koinei te take e kī ai mātou he aroha ngā mea e rua ina ahu mai i te pono. He tokomaha kua whakamahi i te āe hei huarahi ki te karo i te pakanga me te kāo hei huarahi ki te hanga tawhiti i roto i te makariri, ā, kei te whakaako mātou i a koe i tētahi ara teitei ake, ko te āe he manaakitanga, ko te kāo he manaakitanga, ko te wā e kōrerohia ai ngā mea e rua me te whakaute, ā, ko te wā e waiho ana te tangata kē me te mana, nā te mea ko te mana tētahi o ngā reo teitei rawa atu ka taea e te aroha te kōrero.

Te Rangimārie o Roto, te Tiakitanga, te Hokinga Mai ki te Pokapū o te Ngākau, me te Aroha e Tukuna ana mā te Haumaru Tūturu

I te mea ka noho tēnei hei huarahi māori māu, ka tīmata koe ki te mārama ko te rangimārie o roto he kawenga e amohia ana e koe, ehara i te mea he kawenga, engari he kaitiakitanga, nā te mea ko tō āhua o roto e hanga ana i ō whiringa, i ō kupu, i tō reo, i ō whanaungatanga, i tō kaha ki te mahi, me te āhuarangi e kawea mai ana e koe ki roto i ia rūma. Ina tiakina e koe tō rangimārie o roto, kei te tiakina e koe te kounga o te aroha e tukuna ana e koe, nā te mea ko te aroha e whakaatuhia ana mā te rangimārie o roto he whānui, he pumau, he haumaru, ko te aroha e whakaatuhia ana mā te taumahatanga o roto he maha ngā wā ka tere, ka koi, ka herea rānei ahakoa he pai te whakaaro. Nō reira, ka atawhai koe i tō rangimārie o roto pērā i te rama tapu, ka tiaki koe mā roto i ngā mahi māmā, mā te okioki ina hiahiatia, mā roto i ngā rohe pono, mā te tere whakaaro nui, mā te hoki ki te pokapū o te ngākau, ā, ka kitea e koe ko tēnei kaitiakitanga tētahi o ngā taonga nui rawa atu e tukuna ana e koe ki te ao, nā te mea ko te ngākau rangimārie ka huri hei rama whakaae, hei whakaae kia ngawari ētahi atu, hei whakaae kia puhoi ētahi atu, hei whakaae kia mahara ētahi atu ki a rātou anō.

Aroha Pakeke, Te Noho Tahi, Te Mahi Ma, Me Te Aroha e Noho Ora Ana

Nō reira, ka huri te aroha me ngā rohe me te pono hei whakakotahitanga ora i roto i a koe, te wāhi e hikoi tahi ai te ngawari me te kaha, te wāhi e noho tahi ai te atawhai me te māramatanga i te manawa kotahi, te wāhi e tuwhera tonu ai te aroha, ā, e mau tonu ana tō ngākau pono, ā, i roto i tēnei whakakotahitanga ka tino pono koe, ka pono ki tō wairua ake, ka pono i roto i ō whanaungatanga, ka pono i roto i tō mahi, nā te mea ko tāu e tuku atu nei i ahu mai i te pono kaua i te pēhanga, i te aroha kaua i te herenga, i te aroha kaua i te wehi. Koinei te huarahi e whakarerekē ai te aroha pakeke i tō oranga, nā te mea ka taea e koe te noho aroha me te noho ora tonu, ka taea e koe te noho atawhai me te noho mārama, ka taea e koe te pupuri i te wāhi me te whakahonore i a koe anō, ā, i a koe e whakaatu ana i tēnei, ka kite koe ka māmā ake tō ara, ka ma ake, ka mārama ake, nā te mea e aroha ana te ngākau ki te māramatanga, ā, ka taea e te māramatanga te neke haere noa i roto i ngā mea katoa e pā ana koe.

Te Whakawhitiwhiti Kōrero e Ārahihia ana e te Pōwhiri, te Aratohu e Hangai ana ki te Whakaaetanga, me te Ōritetanga hei Aroha

I roto i tēnei aroha kua pakeke, te wāhi e kawe ana ngā rohe i te pono, ā, e kawe ana te aroha i te āhua, ka tīmata tō reo ki te huri i tētahi ara e ahua māmā ana, nā te mea ka iti ake te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero mō te tuku kōrero, engari mō te tuku i tētahi āhuarangi, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te rongo ko ia kupu e whiriwhiria ana e koe he rite ki te ringa e totoro atu ana koe ki te wāhi i waenganui i a koe me tētahi atu tangata, e whakangawari ana i taua wāhi kia haumaru, e whakakaha ana rānei kia tiakina, ā, ka ako noa te ngākau i tētahi reo hou, he reo e tono ana, kaua e pēhi, e manaaki ana, kaua e tono, e whakaaro ana, kaua e tohe, ā, koinei te take e akiaki ana mātou i a koe ki te kōrero hei tono, nā te mea e whakahonore ana te tono i te mana motuhake o tētahi atu wairua, me te pupuri tonu i tō mahana. Tukua ō kupu kia puta he whakatuwheratanga ngawari, te ara e tomo ai te rā ki roto i tētahi rūma me te kore e hiahiatia he whakaaetanga mai i ngā taonga, ā, ka rongo koe i te rerekētanga o te kī, "Ki te tautoko tēnei i a koe, tangohia te mea e ahua pono ana," "Ki te mea kei te karangahia koe, ka taea e koe te whakamātau i tēnei," "Ki te mea ka pāorooro, koinei taku e rongo nei," nā te mea ko ēnei oro ngawari e tohu ana ki tētahi atu tangata kāore koe e ngana ana ki te whakahaere i tō rātou ara, kei te tuku noa koe i tētahi rama e pai ana ki a rātou ki te pupuri. I roto i ngā taunekeneke a te tangata, he nui te taumahatanga e puta mai ana i te pēhanga ngaro i raro i ngā kupu, te ngana ngawari ki te huri i tētahi kia noho tau ai koe, ā, ina tangohia e koe taua pēhanga mā te kōrero pōwhiri, ka marino te ngākau o te tangata kē, nā te mea e mōhio ana ia kei te mau tonu tōna mana. He ngāwari ake te whakatuwhera i te tatau ina kore e panaia, ā, ka waiho tō pōwhiri hei patuki tapu e mea ana, "Kei konei ahau me koe," me te tuku i te tangata kē ki te whakatau i te tata o tā rātou hiahia ki te haere mai. Ka tae mai he whakapainga hohonu ake ina tīmata koe ki te tono whakaaetanga i mua i te tuku tohutohu, nā te mea ko te whakaaetanga he momo whakaute e mōhiotia tonutia ana e te wairua, ā, ka waiho e te whakaaetanga he wāhi mō te whakarongo pono i ngā taha e rua. He nui te rerekētanga i waenga i te kōrero ki tētahi me te kōrero ki tētahi, ā, ko te whakaaetanga te piriti i waenga i aua mea e rua, nā te mea ka huri te kōrero hei whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kaua hei whakatikatika, ā, ka taea e koe te noho hei hoa kaua hei kaiwhakahaere. Nō reira, tera pea ka puta he whakaaro ataahua i roto i a koe, he whakaaro ki te tū, ki te pātai, "Kei te hiahia koe ki tētahi whakaaroaro," "Ka tautokohia rānei mēnā ka whakapuaki ahau i taku e rongo nei," "Kei te tuwhera koe ki tētahi whakaaro," ā, ehara ēnei pātai i te mea iti, e te Hunga Aroha, he hohonu, nā te mea ka tiaki i te tangata kē atu i te whakaaro kua whakaekea, ā, ka tiaki i a koe i te whakatakoto i tō kaha ki tētahi wāhi kāore anō kia rite ki te whiwhi. He maha ngā mea ora e mau ana i ngā wheako tawhito i tukuna ai ngā tohutohu hei patu, i tukuna ai te ārahi me te reo rangatira, i whakamahia ai te "āwhina" hei whakaiti i a rātou, ā, ka whakakorea e te whakaaetanga taua tohu tawhito, nā te mea ka whakapuaki te whakaaetanga i te ōritetanga, ā, ko te ōritetanga tētahi o ngā momo aroha tino parakore. Ina tono whakaaetanga koe, ka hangaia hoki e koe he wā ka taea e koe te rongo i tō ake ārahi ā-roto kia mārama ake, nā te mea ko te tū tonu ka hoki ki te pokapū o te ngākau, ā, ka taea e koe te rongo mēnā kei te ahu mai tō hihiri ki te kōrero i te aroha, i te manaaki pono, i te māramatanga marino, ā, mā tēnei ka noho ma ō whakahere, ka māmā ake ō whanaungatanga, nā te mea ka whānui tō aroha, kaua e pokanoa.

Te Whakawhitiwhiti Kōrero e Puta Ana i te Ngākau, te Atawhai o Ia Rā, me te Whakaiti i te Whakapikitanga mā te Reo

Te Whakarongo hei Aroaro, hei Whakaaroaro e Ārahihia ana e te Ngākau, hei Whakaaturanga me te Kore e Hopu

Mai i konei, ka noho te atawhai tangata ngāwari hei reo wairua tino whai kiko rawa atu ka taea e koe te tuku, nā te mea ko te atawhai te huarahi e kitea ai te wairua i te wā noa, ā, kāore e hiahiatia he kupu whakaari, he ariā uaua rānei kia tūturu. Ko te mahana o ō kanohi, ko te pono o tō reo, ko te manawanui o tō whakarongo, ko te ngākau māhaki o ō whakautu, he tuku ora ēnei, ā, ka tae atu ki ngā wāhi o roto i te tangata kāore e taea te tae atu ki ngā whakamārama, nā te mea ka rongo te ngākau i te atawhai hei haumaru. Tukua te whakarongo hei koha tuatahi māu, te momo whakarongo e tau katoa ana tō aro ki te mea kei mua i a koe, kāore anō koe kia whakarite i tāu whakautu, kāore koe e whakaharatau puku ana i tāu tautohetohe, e mea ana tō aroaro, "He mea nui koe kia noho ahau ki konei," ā, ka rongo koe i te āhua o tēnei e whakarerekē ana i te mara katoa o te kōrero. He maha ngā mea e ngawari ana nā te mea e rongo ana rātou i te tūtaki me te kore mahi, ā, kei te ako koe ko te tūtaki i ētahi wā ko te rongoā tonu. Ko te mahi ataahua i roto i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero e aro ana ki te ngākau ko te whakaaroaro, ko te mahi ngāwari o te whakahoki i tāu i rongo ai i roto i ō ake kupu, nā te mea ka whakaū te whakaaroaro ki tētahi atu kua riro mai i a rātou, ā, he maha ngā wā ka āwhina i a rātou kia rongo mārama ake i a rātou anō. Tērā pea ka mea koe, "Ko tāku e rongo nei, kei te taumaha rawa koe, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te whakamarie," me "Me te mea he nui ngā mea kua tonoa e tēnei āhuatanga, ā, kei te rapu koe i te pumau," ā, i a koe e whakaaroaro ana, ka puta te manawa o te tangata kē, nā te mea ka tīmata te memeha haere o te ngana ā-iwi ki te whakaatu i ō rātou wheako, ā, i roto i taua memeha haere, ka nui ake te wāhi o te ngākau ki te puta ki mua. Koinei te huarahi e noho ai te whakaaturanga hei tatau, nā te mea ko te whakaaturanga he aroha e whakarongo ana, kāore e hopu, he aroha e noho tonu ana, kāore e hiahia ki te whakahaere i te wāhi.

Te Whakaiti i te Taumahatanga Mā te Pono Ngāwari, te Tere Mārie, me te Wahangu hei Whakauru

I te mea ka kaha ake te ārahi a tō kōrero i te ngākau, ka memeha haere te hiahia ki te toa, nā te mea kāore te ngākau e hiahia ki te wikitoria, engari he hiahia ki te hononga, ki te mana, ki te pono ka taea te whiwhi, nō reira ka tīmata te whakaiti i te kaha o ō kupu, kaua ki te koi. Ka tīmata koe ki te kite i te āhua o ētahi reo e karanga ana i te tuwhera, me te āhua o ētahi reo e karanga ana i te tiaki, ā, ka noho tēnei mōhiotanga hei tētahi o ō pūkenga nui rawa atu, nā te mea ka taea e koe te kōrero i te pono i roto i te huarahi ka taea te tau. Ko te pono e kōrerotia ana me te ngākau māhaki ka noho hei piriti, ko te pono ia e kōrerotia ana me te kaha ka noho hei taiepa, nō reira ka ako koe ki te whiriwhiri i te reo e pupuri ana i te piriti kia mau tonu, he reo e whakahonore ana i te tangata o te tangata, me te whakahonore tonu i tō ake māramatanga. Tērā pea ka kitea e koe he puhoi ake te kōrero, e tuku ana i te wāhi i waenga i ngā rerenga kōrero, e tuku ana i te wā ki te manawa o te tangata, e tuku ana i te wahangu hei wāhanga o te ataahua o te kōrero, nā te mea ko te wahangu te wāhi e puta ai te whakaurunga, ko te wahangu te wāhi e hopu ai te ngākau ki te hinengaro. Ina ara ake ngā kare ā-roto, ka noho tō wahangu hei auau tinana, ehara i te rautaki noa iho, nā te mea e kōrero ana tō marino, "Kei te haumaru tātou i konei," ā, ka taea e te haumaru te hoki mai o ngā āhuatanga teitei ake i roto i a kōrua. Mā tēnei, ka iti ake te whakataetae o te kōrero, engari ka nui ake te hokinga tahi, he hokinga ki te mea pono, he hokinga ki te mea atawhai, he hokinga ki ngā mea tino nui kei raro i te mata o ngā whakaaro. Ahakoa he rerekē ō tirohanga, ahakoa he mārama ō rohe, ka taea tonu e tō reo te noho whakaute, ka taea tonu e ō kupu te noho ma, ā, ka taea tonu e tō aroaro te noho mahana, ā, ka waiho taua mahana hei momo kaiārahi, nā te mea he tauira tēnei i tētahi huarahi kōrero e noho wātea ana te ngākau.

Ngā Wā Noa Hei Tuku Wairua, Hei Atawhai Whaihua, Hei Aroha Mutunga Kore I Te Mahi

Ko te ataahua nui o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero e aro ana ki te ngākau, kāore e noho noa i ngā wā "nui", engari i ngā wā noa, ā, ko ngā wā noa te nuinga o te wā e mau ana i te mana whakarerekētanga nui, nā te mea ka kohia pērā i ngā pata wai ngawari e hanga ana i te kōhatu i roto i te wā. Ko te atawhai iti, mahi i roto i te oranga o ia rā ka waiho hei tohu o te aroha mutunga kore, nā te mea ka puta mai hei tuhinga ka tukuna e koe e mea ana, "Kei te whakaaro ki a koe," hei okiokinga ka tangohia e koe hei tuku i tetahi ki te whakaoti i tā rātou rerenga kōrero, hei manawanui ka tukuna e koe ina pōuri tetahi, hei mahana ka kawea mai e koe ki roto i te rūma me te kore e hiahiatia kia whakapuakina, hei hiahia ki te āwhina i ngā huarahi ngāwari e ahua tangata ana, e tūturu ana. Ka taea e koe te tuku i tētahi kapu tī, ka taea e koe te pupuri i tētahi tatau, ka taea e koe te tuku mihi pono, ka taea e koe te mahara ki tētahi taipitopito i tohaina e tetahi ka pātai atu mō taua mea i muri mai, ka taea e koe te hoatu ki tetahi te mana o te whakarongohia me te kore e aukatia, ā, ka ahua iti pea ēnei tohu ki te hinengaro, engari ka kōrero tika ki te ngākau, nā te mea e mea ana, "Ka kitea koe," ā, "He mea nui koe," ā, ka whakautu te ngākau ki ēnei karere me te ngawari.

He Kōrero Atawhai i te Ngaro, He Atawhai i te Arotake, Me te Māmā o ngā Kupu Whakamana

Ko te atawhai anō hoki te huarahi e kōrero ai koe mō ētahi atu i te wā kāore rātou i reira, te huarahi e pupuri ai koe i te tangata i roto i ō kupu, te huarahi e whakaahua ai koe i te hunga e wero ana i a koe, te huarahi e whiriwhiri ai koe ki te pupuri i te mana ahakoa kei te tukatuka koe i tētahi mea uaua, ā, i a koe e whakatikatika ana i tēnei, ka kite koe ka māmā ake tō ao, nā te mea kei te noho koe i roto i te ia o te aroha noa, kaua i te ia o te whakahē.

Te Reo hei Whakaako, hei Aroaro Haumaru, hei Ngākau Whakaiti, hei Whakatuwheratanga Ngākau i te Wā Tino Pai

E te Reo, e te Hunga Aroha, he kaha ake te kawe i te whakaakoranga i te ihirangi, nā te mea ka taea te tautohetohe i te ihirangi, engari ka kitea tonutia te reo, ā, koinei te take e uru ai tō reo marino, tō tere whakangāwari, ō kanohi ngawari, tō aroaro kore-ohorere ki roto i tō mahi me te kore e hiahiatia he kaha tāpiri. Ka taea e tō tinana te noho hei karere, ka taea e tō manawa te noho hei karere, ka taea e tō ngawari te noho hei karere, ā, ka riro ēnei karere i te tangata hohonu i roto i ētahi atu i mua noa atu i te whakaae o ō rātou hinengaro ki ngā kupu e kōrerohia ana e koe. Mā te tere marino ka whakaaetia ētahi atu kia puhoi, mā ngā kanohi ngawari ka whakaaetia ētahi atu kia ngawari, ā, mā te aroaro pumau ka whakaaetia ētahi atu kia hoki ki a rātou anō, ā, ka noho haumaru koe mā te noho ko wai koe i roto i te pono. Ko ētahi oho ake ka puta mā te kaha, āe, ā, he maha ka puta mā te haumaru, mā te pumau, mā te mahana e kore e tono kia huri ohorere, ā, ina noho haumaru koe, ka noho koe hei tatau marino ka taea e ngā ngākau te whakatuwhera me te kore e wehi kei whakawakia mō ō rātou wā. Koia te take e whai wāhi ai te ngākau mahaki ki roto i tāu whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, nā te mea ka hangaia e te ngākau mahaki te wāhi, ā, ka karanga te wāhi i te wairua ki mua, ā, i a koe e mau ana i tēnei ngākau mahaki, ka riro koe hei tangata e taea te kōrero mārama me te waiho tonu i te wāhi mō te kitenga a tētahi atu. Kātahi ka riro te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero hei mahi tapu o te whakahoahoa, ka noho tonu tō aroha, ka noho ma tō pono, ka noho atawhai ō rohe, ā, ka noho ō kupu hei pōwhiri ki te pokapū o te ngākau, kaua ki te tono whakaaetanga, ā, i roto i taua āhuarangi, ka tuwhera mārire, māori, me te wā tino tika ngā tatau maha. Nō reira ka takaihia koe e mātou ki ngā ngaru o te māramatanga māwhero me te kikorangi o Pleiadian, ka whakamarie i tō wairua me te whakakā i tō whetu o roto, ā, ka whakahonoretia koe e mātou hei ōrite wairua i a koe e ārahi tonu ana i te tangata ki te kāinga.

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