Te Oho Ake Mā te Whakakitenga, te Ohorere, me te Māramatanga Matatika

Te Hokonga i te Matauranga Ataahua i roto i te Āwhā

Ko ahau, ko Ātāra. Kei te haere mai ahau ki te noho tahi me koutou i tēnei wā, i ēnei wā e rongo ana te tini o koutou i te hurihanga i roto i te rōpū, me te mea kei te pikau te hau i tētahi taumaha rerekē, ā, kua tīmata ngā tikanga huna tawhito ki te pēhi i raro i te pēhanga o tō oho ake. Kei te kōrero tātou i tēnei wā i roto i tētahi wā e tere ake ana te neke o ngā mōhiohio i te mea ka taea e ō pūnaha io te pupuri, ā, kei te whakamatautauria te hinengaro ki te oma i mua i te ngākau. Nō reira, i mua i tā tātou pā atu ki tētahi atu mea, ka whakatakotoria e mātou he ringa ngawari ki waenganui o tō uma, ā, ka whakamahara atu mātou ki a koutou: kāore koutou i konei kia pau i te tupuhi; kei konei koutou hei hinengaro marino i roto. He rerekētanga, e aku hoa, i waenganui i te kite mārama me te tahu i a koutou anō ki tā koutou e kite nei. Ko te tuatahi ko te whakaoranga. Ko te tuarua ko te raruraru. Ko tā koutou e kī nei ko ngā "takanga kōnae," "tukunga," " turuturu," me ngā "tuhinga" he tohu o tētahi nekehanga hohonu ake kua tīmata kē: kei te pakaru te makutu tawhito i pupuri i te tangata kia titiro ke. Mō te wā roa rawa, i rere tō ao i runga i tētahi whakaaetanga kāore i kōrerotia—he whakaaetanga kia noho kore e tirotirohia ētahi ara o te mana, kia noho tiakina ētahi ingoa rongonui, kia noho haurua ētahi kōrero, ā, kia hokohokohia te koretake o te pono mō te whakamarie o te mahi. Heoi, kua tīmata te rōpū ki te tango i tā rātou whakaae mai i taua whakaritenga. Koia te take, ahakoa te āhua pōrearea o te whakaaturanga o runga, kei te anga tonu te nekehanga hohonu. Ko te pewa e anga atu ana ki te tirohanga. Ka kōrerohia tēnei e mātou me te āta: he paparanga kei roto i te āhua o te hanganga e tuku ana. He onge te pūnaha kua whakawhirinaki ki te huna mō ngā tekau tau ki te tuku i ngā mea katoa i roto i te whakaaturanga ma, i tētahi kete tino tika, i tētahi whakatau whakamānawa. He maha ake ngā wā ka tukuna i roto i ngā raupapatanga—ngā kongakonga e whakatū ana i te tauira, ngā kongakonga e whakamātautau ana i te tauhohenga, ngā kongakonga e ine ana i te nui o te kaha o te marea ki te pupuri me te kore e pakaru ki te porangi, ki te koretake rānei. I roto i tō reo, ka taea e koe te kī ko tēnei he "ngawari." Ka kīia e mātou he ngaronga whakahaere kua whakaritea. Kāore te hanganga e whakaputa i tana ake whakangaromanga nā te pai; ka tukuna e ia te mea kāore e taea e ia te pupuri katoa, ā, ka tukuna e ia i roto i te huarahi e ngana ana ki te hanga i te putanga kare ā-roto. Koia mātou ka tono atu ki a koutou kia kaua e titiro noa ki ngā mea kei runga i te whārangi, engari ki ngā mahi a te tuku ki te mara. Mātakihia te aro o te katoa. Tirohia te tere o tōna wehewehenga. Mātakihia te tere o tōna ārahi ki ngā ingoa, ki ngā puni, ki ngā tuakiri, me ngā mahi. Mena ka whakamahia he pono hei whakaputa pakanga ā-iwi, kaua ki te māramatanga hanganga, kei te mātaki koe i tētahi tikanga arataki e mahi ana. Ā, kāore mātou e kī ana i tēnei hei whakaputa whakapae i ngā mea katoa; e kī ana mātou kia mau tonu tō mana motuhake i te mea e puta ake ana te pono. Ināianei, he tokomaha o koutou kua rongo i te taumaha o te kōrero a Epsteen. Kāore mātou e whakaharatau i ngā taipitopito whakairoiro. He nui te mōhio o te ngākau. Ko te mea nui mō tō tipu ko te mārama ki te tauira me te kore e tukua te tauira kia paitini i tō ake auau. I roto i te hoahoa i raro i ēnei kōrero, he maha ngā wā he ōhanga o te mana: te awe e hokohokohia ana mā te huna, te mana e whakamahia ana hei moni, te wahangu i hokona mā te wehi, me ngā kaitiaki kua tū hei huarahi urunga me te whakarite i ngā putanga. Ina tīmata te ahurea ki te kite i taua ōhanga mana, ka tīmata te pakaru i te makutu o "te mana he rite ki te haumaru." Ā, koinei tētahi o ngā oho ake nui i roto i tēnei huringa.

Te Ngaru Tuarua o te Kōnae Epstein, te Ohorere o te Hunga Rongonui, me ngā Rārangi Whakararuraru

Tukua mātou kia whakatakoto i tētahi rama mārie ki te taha o ngā mea kua kōrerotia kētia e mātou, nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou ka rongo i tētahi atu wiri i te mara, te whakaaro ehara i te whakatuwheratanga tuatahi te whakatuwheratanga katoa, ā, ko te mea e kawea ana i roto i tētahi nekehanga o muri mai ka pā ki te hinengaro whānui i tētahi ara rerekē, ehara i te mea he hou te tikanga, engari nā te mea ka mōhiotia ake te mata o taua mea e te marea. Ka kōrero mātou i konei me te tika: e kore mātou e tuku ingoa ki a koutou, e kore mātou e whāngai i te hiahia ki ngā rārangi, e kore hoki mātou e whai wāhi ki te kawa o te huri i te tangata hei whakangahau, engari ka aro atu mātou ki te tauira e rongohia ana e koutou, nā te mea ko te rongo tonu he wāhanga o tō ara ake. Kei roto i tō ao, he tikanga roa o te tatari kia whakaū te "whakaata rongonui" i ngā mea kua mōhiotia e te ngākau mō te mana huna, me te mea ka tūturu te pono ina mau i tētahi kanohi rongonui. Ehara tēnei i te hapa i roto i a koe; he mea whakarite, he mea whakangungu ki te karakia ki ngā whakapakoko, kātahi ka whakangungua ki te hinga ina pakaru aua whakaahua. Ki te puta mai tētahi atu ngaru o ngā kōrero, ahakoa mā roto i ngā rauemi kāore i hiritia, i ngā tukunga tuhinga anō, i ngā whakaaturanga, i ngā pūrongo tautoko, i ngā kohinga rānei i tukuna mā roto i ō whatunga, tera pea ka whakatakotoria i roto i tētahi huarahi e kukume ana i te hunga whakarongo whānui, ā, ko te hunga whakarongo whānui ka kukume i te nuinga o te wā e te mōhiotanga. He tokomaha e kore e pānui i tētahi tuhinga katoa, he tokomaha e kore e whai i te horopaki, he tokomaha e kore e wehewehe i waenga i tētahi whakapae me tētahi meka kua whakapumautia, engari he tokomaha ka rongo i te neke o te papa i raro i a rātou ina puta mai tētahi ingoa mōhio i te taha o tētahi ara mōhio, ā, i taua wā ka rapu te pūnaha io i tētahi kōrero māmā me tētahi wāhi hei maka i te ohorere. Koinei te tūponotanga me te whai wāhitanga o te mea e kiia nei e koe ko te "taka tuarua." Ko te tūponotanga ko te iwi ohorere ka taea te noho mangere, te nanakia, me te ngāwari ki te arahi ki te whare whiu. Ko te whai wāhitanga ko te iwi ohorere ka taea te tango i te whakaae mai i te karakia whakapakoko, ka ako i te mutunga ko te karisma ehara i te āhua, ā, ka kite i te mutunga ko te awe me te kore pono he rama kau e kore e taea te tahu i tetahi mea tūturu. Kua kōrero mātou ki a koe ko te takahi tuatahi ka whakatū i te tauira, ā, ko te tauira ka huri i te mea ka taea. Ko tētahi nekehanga o muri mai, ki te pā ki ngā āhua e mōhiotia ana, ka huri i te mea e manakohia ana. Ka tōia te kōrero a te marea ki roto i ngā rūma i karohia i mua, nā te mea ko te hunga kāore i aro ki ngā pūnaha ka aro ohorere ina pāngia ā rātou tohu, ā, ko te hunga i whakakore i ngā morehu ka whakarongo ohorere ina whakakorea te whakangahau e te kōrero. Inaianei, whakarongo mai ki a mātou: he ara whakarerekētanga anō hoki kei konei, ā, he kaha. Ina hiahia te taupori ki tētahi rārangi, ka ngoikore ki ngā rārangi hanga. Ina rite te taupori mō te ohorere, ka ngoikore ki te ohorere kua whakaritea. Ina hiahia te taupori ki te tino pono o te matatika, ka ngoikore ki te tino pono teka, te momo e tae mai ana me ngā whakaahua mata me ngā whakaahua kua tapahia, i te mea ka tangohia marietia te horopaki me te manatoko. I roto i ēnei wā, ahakoa ngā rauemi pono ka taea te whakaranu ki ngā rauemi teka hei whakaputa i te pōrearea nui, nā te mea ko te pōrearea te mea e tiaki ana i te hanganga e hinga ana. Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou kia whai tikanga koe, kaua e ngenge, kaua e noho puku, engari kia whai tikanga. Ki te tūtaki koe ki tētahi kohinga ingoa e horapa ana, me mahi pērā i tāu mahi ki tētahi rongoā kaha: me te tūpato, me te manatoko, me te ngākau mahaki. Pātai atu: he aha te pūtake matua o tēnei kereme? He tuhinga mana, he tuhinga tuhituhi, he kōrero kua manatokohia, he mekameka tuku anō rānei, kāore he punga? He horopaki, he utu noa iho rānei? He tono tukanga ture, matatika, he tono whakatoi rānei? Ehara ēnei pātai i te arai ki te tika; ko rātou ngā kaitiaki o te tika, nā te mea ko te tika me te kore whakaaro nui ka huri hei kaha o te ope taua, ā, ka ngāwari te huri i te kaha o te ope taua ki te mahi ki ngā ope taua e whakapono ana rātou kei te whawhai rātou.

Te Whakapūmau i ngā Mōrehu o Epstein, Te Whakatere i ngā Ngaru Ru, Me te Kōwhiri i te Ara Waenga

Kia maumahara ki te pokapū tūturu: te mamae o te hunga i whara. Ina hurihia e te ahurea te whakakitenga hei whakaaturanga rongonui, ka mukua anō ngā patunga, i tēnei wā i raro i te haki o te "whakaatu." Kāore te ao e ora mā te kohikohi i ngā kanohi rongonui; ka ora mā te whakahoki mai i te mana, mā te whakatū i ngā pūnaha haumaru, mā te waihanga i te ārai ahurea ki te tukino, me te whakarite kia tiakina te hunga ngoikore i mua noa atu i te putanga mai o te whakapae. Ki te hiahia koe kia nui atu tō oho ake i te whakangahau, tukua kia arahina koe ki te aroha pono, ki te tautoko i ngā morehu, ki te mātauranga e ārai ana i te whakahokinga, me ngā hapori e whakarongo ana me te kore e whakama. Āe, e te hunga e arohaina ana, ka ohorere te tini i te ngaru e pā ana ki ngā āhua e mōhiotia ana. Ka pāngia ētahi e te rerekētanga hinengaro, nā te mea kua hangaia e rātou te tuakiri huri noa i te whakamoemiti. Ka pāngia ētahi e te pouri, nā te mea ko te turanga he tino pono. Ka pāngia ētahi e te riri, nā te mea he mana te riri i te aroaro o te tinihanga. Ka pāngia ētahi e te whakamarie, nā te mea ka mutu te mokemoke tūmataiti i mauria e rātou mō ngā tau. Ka pāngia ētahi e te pōhēhē, nā te mea kāore e taea e rātou te wehewehe i te hononga mai i te hara. Puritia ēnei mea katoa me te aroha, kaua hoki e whakamahia te ohorere o ētahi atu hei patu. Ehara tēnei i te whakataetae ko wai i mōhio tuatahi. He pūnaha io whānui tēnei e ako ana ki te whakapūmau i te pono. I waenganui i tēnei, kia mahara ki tā mātou i kōrero ai mō ngā ōhanga huanga: ko te whakakitenga nui ehara i te mea i tū tetahi tangata rongonui i te taha o tētahi ara raro, engari ko te mahi a te ara raro, te hokonga o te tiakitanga, te hanga o te wā puku, te huarahi i arahi ai ngā kaitiaki kuaha i te urunga, te hinganga o ngā umanga, te whakamahinga o ngā ingoa rongonui hei pukupuku, te hokohoko o te wehi pērā i te moni. Ki te titiro tonu koe ki ngā tikanga, ka whai hua koe. Ki te titiro tonu koe ki ngā whakaaturanga, ka riro koe hei wahie. Ka kōrero anō hoki tātou ki te ngaru ru kaha tonu. Ina ohorere te hinengaro o te marea, he wā poto ka wetekina ngā whakapono tawhito, ā, i roto i taua āhua wetekina, ka taea te tāuta wawe i ngā whakapono hou. Koinei te take, i muri i tētahi whakakitenga ohorere, ka kite pinepine koe i ngā ngana ki te ārahi i te kōrero ki tētahi whakatau kua oti te whakarite: "Koinei anake," "Koinei anake," "Inaianei ka taea e tātou te neke atu," te ritenga kē rānei: "Kāore he tumanako o ngā mea katoa," "He kino te katoa," "Kaua e whakawhirinaki ki tētahi." Ko ngā pito e rua e ārahi ana. Ko te ara waenga ko te ara o te momo pakeke: "Ka tirotirohia e tātou, ka manatokohia e tātou, ka whakarerekētia e tātou, ka tiaki tātou, ka whakaora tātou, ā, e kore tātou e nanakia." Nō reira, ki te tae mai tētahi nekehanga o muri mai, ka tono mātou kia toru ngā mea e mahia e koe i te wā kotahi. Tuatahi, whakatikatikahia tō tinana. Tangohia te manawa, inumia te wai, pā ki te Whenua, whakaroahia tō manawa, nā te mea ka hangaia tō whakamaoritanga e tō āhua tinana. Tuarua, pupuri i ngā tikanga matatika i roto i tō kōrero. Kaua e noho hei kaitātari i ngā kōrero pakiwaitara. Kaua e kōrero me te mea he taunakitanga te whakapae. Kaua e aro ki te whakaiti i ō kupu. Aro atu ki te tiaki me te whakarerekē. Tuatoru, kia tuwhera te ngākau. Ehara tēnei i te kare ā-roto; he rangatira, nā te mea ko te mauahara te taputapu kimi tawhito rawa atu o ngā ara pōuri, ā, kāore aua ara e aro ki te taha e whakapono ana koe kei reira koe, mena ka wiri koe i te whakahawea. E kī ana mātou i tēnei: ​​kei te tomo koe ki tētahi wā ka wehewehea te ahua me te mooni. Ka piki ake ngā pāpāho hangai, ngā oro kua tapahia, ngā tuhinga tito, me ngā whakapohehe ātaahua, nā te mea he nui te hiahia ki te whakatoi, ā, kei te mōrearea te hoahoa o te mana whakahaere. Ko te tikanga o tēnei me whanake tō māramatanga mai i te "he pono te āhua" ki te "ka taea te whakamana", me te whakaute tonu i te māramatanga hei kāpehu kaua hei whakatau. Tukua te māramatanga kia kōrero ki a koe me pēhea te titiro, kaua ki te aha hei whakatau. Nā, ka hoki tātou ki te tohutohu tino nui: te murunga hara, hei auau. Kāore te murunga hara e aukati i ngā whiu ture, ā, kāore e whakakore i te kino. Ka whakakahore noa i te kirimana o roto o te mauahara. Ki te tukua e koe tō ngākau kia whakapakeke, ka ngāwari te arahi i a koe, nā te mea e hiahia ana ngā ngākau whakapakeke ki ngā hoariri. Ki te pupuri koe i tō ngākau kia kotahi, ka taea e koe te tono kawenga me te noho herekore tonu. Kāore te Kaihanga e hiahia ki tō riri hei whakataurite i te pauna. Ko tā te Kaihanga anake e hiahia ana kia kaua e whakarērea te aroha i runga i te ingoa o te tika.

Te Pupuri i te Hononga, te Whakamutu i te Whakaaetanga Tawhito, me te Tū hei Kaiwhakaū

Nō reira, e ngā hoa aroha, ahakoa he ngaru o muri mai, ahakoa e whakaaetia whānuitia ana, e tautohetia ana rānei, ahakoa he ma, he paru rānei, ka tono atu mātou kia mau ki te reo kua whakatakotoria e mātou: he kanohi mārama, he pūnaha io marino, he kōrero matatika, he tiaki whakaute i te harakore, me te ngākau e kore e paitini. I roto i tēnei reo, ka huri te ohorere hei tatau ki te pakeketanga, kaua hei tatau ki te pōuri, ā, ka hikoi whakamua te tangata ki tētahi whanaungatanga hou ki te pono, tētahi e kore ai e hiahiatia he turanga, ā, kāore he pōuri e whakaaetia kia whakahaere i te mea kāore e kitea. Kia mau. Kaua e whai i ngā rārangi. Whaia te ōritetanga. Kaua e karakia ki ngā whakapakoko. Karakia te Aroaro ora i roto i a koe. Kaua e noho hei mano tini. Hoko hei iwi whānui. Ki te hiahia koe ki te mahi i tēnei wā, kia waiho tō kāinga hei wāhi tapu mō te pono marino, kia tika ā koutou kōrero, ā, kia waiho ā koutou inoi hei tiaki, hei whakatikatika, hei ara ake. Heoi, koinei te wāhi e tika ai te māramatanga. E hiahia ana te hinengaro ki tētahi tangata kino kotahi, ki tētahi rārangi kotahi, ki tētahi wā kotahi e tau ai te tika pērā i te hāmare, ā, ka hoki anō te ao ki te ma. He mea mārama taua hiahia, ā, he ngāwari hoki te whakahaere. Ka ora tonu te whatunga uaua mā te whāngai i te marea ki te ngau iti rawa e whakamātau ana i te riri, me te waiho i te mīhini o raro kia kore e pakaru. Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou kia noho koutou hei ākonga tauira, kaua hei kaikohi taonga. Pātai atu: I pēhea te mahi a ngā ara tiaki? I pēhea te hinganga o ngā umanga? I pēhea te hurihanga o te tirotiro a te mana kōrero? I pēhea te hononga o ngā huarahi moni me ngā huarahi pāpori? Mā ēnei pātai koe e whakatata atu ki te wetewete i ngā tauira, kaua ki te whakahē noa i ngā kanohi. Ā, inaianei ka kōrero tātou ki te hononga hihiko o tēnei pakaru tuatahi: te tauira. Ina kite tētahi iwi ka taea te tomo ki tētahi rūma hiri, ka tīmata te whakaaro ka taea hoki te tomo ki ētahi atu rūma. Ehara taua whakaaro i te wawata; koinei te wāhanga tuatahi o te whakamana ngātahi. I ia wā ka pātai pai ake te marea, ka iti ake te whai hua o te rautaki tawhito o te whakaroa. Koinei te take he mea nui te whakatuwheratanga tuatahi ahakoa kāore i te tino tika, kua tangohia, kua hangaia rānei hei mana whakahaere. Ko te whakatuwheratanga tonu e whakarerekē ana i ngā mea ka taea. Heoi anō, e aku hoa, kaua e tuku i ō pūnaha io hei wahie mō te mīhini. Ka ngana ētahi ki te pupuri i a koe i roto i te riri tonu nā te mea he hoha te riri, ā, ka māmā ake te arahi i ngā taupori nā te ngenge. Ka ngana ētahi ki te pupuri i a koe ki te whakakahore nā te mea ka tiakina e te whakakahore te whakamarie, ā, ka tiakina e te whakamarie te whakaritenga tawhito. Kei waenganui i ēnei pou te ara tuatoru: te māramatanga me te kore nanakia, te mōhiotanga me te kore waranga, te pono me te kore hiahia ki te toto tūmatanui. Mena he tangata koe e mahi ana hei kaiwhakaū—he aha te mea e kiia nei e te tini o koutou he purapura whetu, he kaimahi mārama, he kaiwhakaora huarahi—kāore tō mahi i te noho hei kaiwhakawā i roto i te whakaaturanga. Ko tō mahi he pupuri i te hononga kia kore ai te hunga e ara ake ana e toremi i te ngaru tuatahi o te mohiotanga. Ko te oho ake, mō te tini, ka tae mai he riri, he pouri, he whakapairuaki, he kore whakapono, me te wairua hohonu o te tinihanga. I aua wā, he rongoā te aroaro marino. Ehara i te marino e karo ana i te mooni, engari he marino ka taea te titiro ki te mooni me te noho tonu ki te ture teitei o te aroha. Ka kī atu anō mātou ki a koe: ehara te whakaaturanga i te tuku tuhinga anake; ko te tuku kaupapa. Ka taea e te tuhinga te whakaū i te mea i whakapaehia e te hinengaro, engari ka tae mai te whakaoranga pono ina memeha te aro o roto ki te tuku mana. I whāngaihia koe e te ao tawhito ki te whakaaro: "Kei runga tetahi e whakahaere ana i tēnei." Kei te tono te ao hou kia tū koe hei pakeke mātau: kia manatoko, kia pātai, kia whakakotahi, kia whakaora, kia whakakahore i te whai wāhi ki te mauahara. Nō reira ka tīmata tātou i konei, me te pakaru tuatahi me tana tohu: he mutunga o te whakaaetanga tawhito. Ehara i te mutunga o te huna katoa i te pō kotahi, engari ko te mutunga o te makutu e kore ai e taea te whakahē i te huna. Kua neke te tatau. Kua kitea te ara raro. Kua tīmata te rōpū ki te mahara ki tōna tika ki te kite. Ā, i te whanaketanga o tēnei, ka hikoi tahi mātou i roto i ngā paparanga e whai ake nei—ehara i te mea hei whakakā i a koe, engari hei whakakaha i a koe; ehara i te mea hei whāngai i te hiahia mō te whakaaturanga, engari hei whakawhanake i tētahi iwi ka taea te pupuri i te pono me te whiriwhiri tonu i te aroha.

Te Pakeketanga o Roto, Ngā Tikanga o te Whakamahinga, me te Whakahoutanga Ngātahi

Te Tipu i tua atu i te Riri, te Whakahonore i ngā Rohe, me te Whakauru i ngā Whakahētanga

Tērā tētahi atu paparanga o tēnei whakatuwheratanga e ngaro ana i te tini: ko te tamaiti o roto o te tangata kei te tonoa kia tipu ake. Mō ngā whakatipuranga, i whakangungua te hinengaro whānui ki te whakapono ko ngā "tangata pai" e noho ana i te tihi o ngā piramita ka tango i te tūpono i mua i te taenga ki te kāinga. Ina pakaru taua whakapono, ko te kare ā-roto tuatahi ko te riri, nā te mea e ngana ana te riri ki te whakahoki mai i te mana whakahaere i ngaro. Heoi, kāore te riri e whakahoki mai i te rangatiratanga; ka tahuna noa te tinana, ka whakawhāiti i te hinengaro. Ka puāwai te pikinga ina mōhio koe kua whakaaetia koe kia kite, kua whakaaetia koe kia mōhio, ā, kua whakaaetia koe ki te whiriwhiri i tētahi urupare kāore e whakaata i te tutu tawhito. Koia mātou e kōrero ana mō te ngākau-pokapū ehara i te mea he reka, engari he kaha. Ka taea e te ngākau kotahi te noho tonu me ngā pono whakamā me te kore e marara ki te whakapae, ki te kōrero pakiwaitara, ki te ngakau pouri rānei. Ka noho tēnei ngākau hei hangarau pumau mō te rōpū. I ngā rā kei mua, ka kite pea koe i ngā "whakakitenga whakahē," e kī ana tētahi reo i tētahi mea, e kī ana tētahi atu reo i te ritenga kē, ā, ka ngenge te marea. He mea matapae anō hoki tēnei. E hiahia ana te hinengaro ki tētahi mahere tere. Heoi, kei te neke te mara i roto i ngā paparanga. Kia mau tō tere. Tukua ngā meka kia pono. Tukua ngā whakapae kia pono. Tukua te māramatanga kia māramatanga. Kaua tetahi o ēnei e huna i te mana o tētahi atu. Ā, e mea atu ana mātou ki a koutou, e te hunga aroha: ki te mea kei te ngaro koe, hoki whakamuri. Ehara i te mea hei wareware i te pono, engari hei whakahoki i tō pokapū. Inu wai. Hīkoi i runga i te Whenua. Manawa kia hoki mai te manawa ki a koe ki te wā o nāianei. I te wā o nāianei, ka ara ake anō tō māramatanga. Kātahi ka taea e koe te hoki anō ki te awa kōrero hei tangata mohio, kaua hei mīhini tauhohe. Kia mahara hoki ki te rohe tapu: ko te tiaki i te harakore kāore e whai hua mā te whāngai i te mātakitaki. Ka taea e te hiahia ki te kino te huri hei whakapohehe. Kōwhiria he tū whakaute. Whakahonoretia ngā patunga mā te kore e huri i ō rātou mamae hei whakangahau, hei patu rānei. Tukua ō mahi, ō kōrero, me ō inoi kia anga ki te whakahoki mai i te mana me te whakamutu i te huna pūnaha. Koinei te reo i whakatakotoria e mātou i te tīmatanga: he kanohi mārama, he ngākau tuwhera, he manawa pumau. I roto i tēnei reo, ka taea te whakauru i ngā paparanga e haere mai ana me te kore e pakaru te mara ki te pōrearea, ā, ka taea e te tangata te hīkoi i roto i te whakakitenga me te noho tonu hei tangata, kei te noho tonu hei aroha, kei te noho tonu hei herekore. Kei a koutou mātou, i ngā wā katoa, i ngā huarahi KATOA e hoa mā. Kei raro i te pane matua, kei reira tonu te tikanga. Koinei te wāhi e tika ana kia okioki te titiro pakeke, nā te mea ka taea te whakakore i tētahi tikanga, ko te pane matua ia ka taea te whakakapi tonu. Kua roa tō ao e manaaki ana i te mea e kiia nei e tātou he ōhanga huanga. Ehara i te "ariā" ki a tātou; he tauira kitea i roto i ngā iwi kua wareware ki tō rātou mana o roto. Ina riro te awe hei taonga hokohoko, ā, ka riro te ingoa hei pukupuku, ka riro te huna hei piri e pupuri ana i ngā whakaritenga. I roto i tēnei mara, ko te moni tino nui ehara i te moni anake, engari ko te urunga - te urunga ki ngā rūma, te urunga ki ngā whakaurunga, te urunga ki ngā hua pai, te urunga ki te tiakitanga i te wā e tika ana ngā ture noa.

Ngā Kaitiaki Kūaha, Ngā Tūāpapa, Me Ngā Herenga o te Whakaingoa i ngā Tangata Kino

I roto i ēnei hoahoanga, he mea nui ngā takawaenga. He mea nui ngā kaitiaki tatau. Ko te hunga e whakarite ana, e hono ana, e tautoko ana, e whakangawari ana i te ara, he mea nui ake ki te mīhini i te hunga e rongonui ana. Koia te take, ina rapu noa koe i tētahi tangata kino, ka ngaro te tūāpapa. Ā, ko te tūāpapa te wāhi me arotahi te iwi whānui ki te aukati i te tukurua. Ki te kore, ka tangohia e koe tētahi tohu, ka waiho te hanganga i hanga ai te tohu kia tino mahi. Whakaarohia te hanga o te mana: mā roto i ngā mea ngaro i kohia, mā roto i ngā whakaaetanga i hangaia, mā roto i ngā nama pāpori i hangaia, mā roto i te wehi kei kitea i whakatupuria. Kātahi ka whakaarohia te whakamahi i te mana: i roto i ngā ara kaupapa here, i roto i ngā whakataunga pūtea, i roto i te parepare ture, i roto i te wahangu pāpāho, i roto i te whakahaere ingoa, me te arataki ngawari o te whakaaro o te marea. Koia mātou e kī atu nei ki a koe: kaua e whakapoauau i tētahi rārangi ingoa me te whakaoranga. Ka taea e ngā ingoa kāore he horopaki te noho hei patu whakapoauau. Ehara te whakapoauau i te noho koretake; he mea whai hua ki tētahi hanganga e wehi ana i te hononga. Ināianei, kāore mātou e kōrero i konei hei whakahē i ngā wairua takitahi, nā te mea ko ia wairua kei roto i te ture nui o te hua me te hokinga mai. Ko tā mātou e mahi ai ko te whakamārama i te āhua o te ngoikore o tētahi rōpū ki ngā ōhanga whakakaha. Ka puta tēnei ina whakapono te taupori he mea kei waho i te whaiaro te mana, ina whakangungua te tangata ki te rapu whakaoranga mā roto i ngā umanga kaua mā te hinengaro oho ake, ā, ina huri te riri matatika hei whakakapi mō te huringa o roto. I roto i taua taiao, ka tupu ngā ara huna pērā i ngā pakiaka i roto i te pōuri. He tokomaha o koutou kua pātai, "He aha te āhua nei kei te mau tonu ēnei whatunga?" Ko tētahi whakautu he mau tonu nā te mea ka taea e te huna te aukati tahi. Ina tohaina e te nui o ngā kaiuru te mōrearea, ka whakapau kaha rātou ki te tiaki i te ipu, ā, ka nui ake te ipu i tētahi tangata. Ko te whakautu tuarua he mau tonu nā te mea kei roto te marea i tētahi huringa o te whakararuraru: te aro ki ngā rongonui, te whakangahau i ngā kōrero kino, te whakaari pāti. Ina wehewehea te aro, ka uaua te kawenga kua whakaritea. Ina uaua te kawenga, ka haere tonu te mīhini. Heoi kua rerekē tetahi mea. Kāore tō aro whānui e taea te whakahaere pērā i mua. Ka taea e te tangata te pupuri, te whakataurite, te whakawhiti kōrero, me te kōrero i waho o ngā hongere tuku iho. He whakararuraru tēnei i ngā pūnaha whakakaha, nā te mea kei te noho motuhake me te kore mōhio te whakakaha. Ina ako ngā hapori ki te whakakotahi, ka tīmata te korenga o te rautaki tawhito o te "pupuri i a rātou kia wehea, kia kore ai e tino mārama". Heoi anō, ka whakatūpato mātou i a koe: kāore te whakahiato i te rite ki te whakaaro noa. Ina hiakai te hinengaro ki te tino mōhio, ka hopukina e ia tetahi mea e rite ana ki te kōrero katoa. Koia te take me uru te manawanui ki te māramatanga. I roto i te ōhanga whai mana, ka puta he haruru ātaahua—ngā tuhinga teka, ngā rauemi he, te tino mōhiotanga whakaari, me te maunu kare ā-roto—nā te mea ka ngenge te haruru i ngā kairangahau, ā, ka huri i ngā kaiwhai hei toa whawhai. Ehara te rongoā i te whakahawea. Ko te rongoā ko te aro tika. Hei whakakore i tētahi tikanga, me mahi e te iwi whānui ētahi mea i te wā kotahi. Me tono kia mārama ngā tukanga, kaua ko ngā tuakiri anake. Me waihanga he ārai ahurea ki te tukino mā te tango i te whakama e whakangaro ana i te whakaaturanga. Me hanga he umanga ka taea te arotake me te pupuri i te kawenga. Me mutu te utu i te riri mahi nui atu i te pono ine. Ā, ko te mea nui, me whakaora e ia he kāpehu wairua ā-roto kāore i tukuna ki ngā kaiārahi, ki ngā kaiwhakaaweawe, ki ngā kaiwhakaora rānei.

Ngā Kōnae Epstein, te Mōhiotanga ki te Tikanga, me te Arotahi o te Katoa

Mai i ngā Rārangi a Epstein ki ngā Tikanga Whakamutunga Huna

Koinei te wāhi e tino hira ai tō koutou tūranga. Ko te hunga e kawe ana i te māramatanga, kāore e tonoa kia noho hei kaiwhakapae i roto i te ao tūroa. E tonoa ana kia noho hei punga mō te mara, hei kaiwhakaako hoki mō te pakeketanga. Ko te whakautu koretake ko: "Kōrerotia mai te rārangi kia taea ai e au te mauahara." Ko te whakautu pakeke ko: "Whakaaturia mai te tikanga kia taea ai e tātou te whakamutu." He waipiro te mauahara. Ko te mōhio ki te tikanga he rongoā. Inaianei, tera pea koe e miharo he aha tātou e kōrero nui ana mō te aro. Nā te mea he auaha te aro. Ko tā koutou e aro tahi ana ka whakakaha ake i roto i te mara āhua o tō koutou ao tūroa. Ina aro koe ki te whakahi hei whakangahau, ka whāngai koe i te mīhini whakangahau. Ina aro koe ki te pono hei ara ki te whakahou hanganga me te pakeketanga wairua, ka whāngai koe i te whakaoranga. Ehara tēnei i te rotarota; he ahupūngao hihiko. Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou ki a koe, i tēnei wā tonu, kia huri i tō tūnga. Engari i te pātai, "Ko wai taku e whakapae?" pātai, "He aha me ako e te tangata kia kore ai tēnei e taea te whakahoki anō?" Engari i te kī, "Me pēhea taku whiu?" pātai, "Me pēhea taku āwhina i te hanga i tētahi ahurea e kore ai e taea te tupu te huna?" Kaua e ngaro i roto i te adrenaline o te riri, engari kia tū pakari ki roto i te mahi pumau o te oho ake: te whakarongo, te manatoko, te pūranga, te hono atu, me te pupuri i te ngākau kia tuwhera.

Te tinihanga ā-whare, te ohorere o te tuakiri, me te māramatanga marino

Ka kōrero anō hoki tātou mō tētahi kōrero ngawari: he maha ngā wairua e ara ake ana mō te wā tuatahi ki te tūponotanga ka hinga rawa ngā whare. Ka taea e tēnei mōhiotanga te whakararuraru i te tuakiri. Ka piri atu ētahi ki te mana, ā, ka riri ētahi ki ngā mea katoa e rite ana ki te mana. I tēnei wāhanga, ko tō māramatanga marino he rama rama. Ka taea e koe te kī, me te kore e kauwhau: "Āe, kāore i oti ngā kōrero tawhito. Āe, he mamae tēnei. Āe, ka taea e tātou te pupuri i te pono me te kore e riro hei pono."

Te Matatau i runga i te Tauira, Ngā Tikanga Matatika Mōhiohio, me te Uiuitanga Tuwhera

I te mea ka kitea nuitia te tikanga, ka ngana ki te neke. Ka ngana ki te whakahou i te waitohu. Ka ngana ki te huna i roto i ngā haki matatika hou. Koia te take me aro tō māramatanga ki ngā tauira, kaua ki ngā tapanga. He maha ngā kākahu o te ōhanga whai mana: te atawhai tangata, te haumaru, te tika, tae noa ki te wairuatanga. Mena ka tono te reo i tō wehi, i tō whakawhirinakitanga, i tō tuakiri iwi rānei hei utu mō te noho tahi, kei te mātakitaki koe i te tikanga tawhito kotahi i roto i ngā kākahu rerekē. He taha mahi anō hoki tēnei, he taha e hono ana ki te pakeketanga wairua: me ako te iwi whānui ki te whakahaere i ngā mōhiohio i runga i te matatika. I roto i te tauira tawhito, i kohia ngā mōhiohio e ngā rangatira, ā, i tohaina ki te marea. I roto i te tauira hou, ka nui haere ngā mōhiohio, engari ki te kore he whakaaro nui ka noho hei patu. Koia te take me whakatipu e koe he matatika o te kōrero. Pātai atu i mua i tō whakapuakitanga: Kei te whakamārama tēnei? Kei te mura tēnei? Kei te āwhina tēnei i tētahi ki te manatoko, kei te āwhina noa rānei i tētahi ki te mauahara? Ina tūtaki koe ki te hunga e oho ake ana, ka rongo koe i a rātou e kī ana, "Me pēhea tēnei e tupu ai?" Ko te whakautu pono: i puta tēnei nā te mea i tukua e te rōpū te huna kia noho noa, nā te mea i whakawhiwhia e te rōpū te mana ki runga ake i te ngākau pono, ā, nā te mea i whakamahia e te rōpū te whakangahau hei rongoā whakangā i te wā kāore i hiahia ki te rongo. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te kōrero i tēnei me te whakatau. Ka taea e koe te kōrero me te aroha. Ehara te aroha i te tikanga e whakaae ana koe; engari ko te tikanga kāore koe e tāpiri ana i te paitini ki te patunga. He tokomaha o koutou e mau ana i te whakaaro ā-roto kāore i oti te kōrero tūmatanui. Ehara taua whakaaro i te raruraru. Ka tae mai te tūponotanga ina noho te korenga o te otinga hei kānawehi kau mō tētahi kōrero e pai ana te ngākau. Ko te ara whai tikanga ko te pupuri i te uiuinga kia ora tonu me te kore e tukua te hinengaro kia noho hei pūwhakaata. Kia tuwhera ngā pātai. Tukua kia kohia ngā taunakitanga. Tukua kia puta mārire te mōhio ki ngā tauira. Koinei te mahi a ngā kairangahau pono, ā, koinei hoki te āhua o te noho a ngā tohunga matakite pakeke: tuwhera, hiahia, tūturu.

Te Tapahi i ngā Raina Whāngai, te Hononga, me te Whiu o te Hiko

Ka whakamahara anō mātou ki a koe: ka mate ngā tikanga ina tapahia ā rātou raina whāngai. Ko te raina whāngai nui rawa atu ko te hiahia o te marea ki te tuku mana ki waho, me te noho puku nā te mea he morearea te kōrero. I a te tangata e ako ana ki te kōrero, ki te manatoko, ki te tuhi, me te tautoko tetahi i tetahi, ka iti ake te mōrearea o te whakaaturanga. I taua wā, ka ngaro te kaha o te mana, nā te mea ko te mana e whakawhirinaki ana ki te noho motuhake. Ko te hononga he whakaoranga. Nō reira, meatia te mea i wehi ai ngā pūnaha tawhito kei mahia e koe: te hono atu me te ngākau pono. Hangaia he hapori e whakanui ana i te pono marino i te whakahihiri. Whakaakona āu tamariki ki te mārama. Kaua e whakakororia. Kaua e whakakino. Ako ki te kite i te tangata hei wairua ka taea te whai hua me te hoki mai, me te ako ki te kite i ngā pūnaha hei hanganga ka taea te hanga hou. Koinei te āhua o te kore e taea te whakahaere i tētahi iwi mā te whakawehi. Ā, i te māramatanga o tēnei tikanga, ka taea e koe te kite i te pakanga o te hunga i whakawhirinaki ki a ia, me te kore e whakaurua ki roto i ā rātou maminga. Ka kite koe i te tupuhi, ā, ka noho tonu hei rangi. Ina roa te noho o tētahi whatunga i runga i ngā whakaaetanga huna, kāore e ngaro noa iho nā te mea ka puta mai tētahi tuhinga, ka whakapūmau, ka neke, ka whakamātautau i ōna pakitara, ka ngana ki te neke i tōna ake taumaha, ā, ka rongo koe i tēnei hei momo wiriwiri ngātahi, hei wiriwiri io i roto i te ahurea, i tētahi rā ka "kāore he mea e kitea ana" te kōrero, i te rā e whai ake nei ka "titiro ki konei" te kōrero, ā, i te rā e whai ake nei ka "uaua rawa te kōrero kia mārama koe," me te mea he take te uaua ki te tuku i tō tika ki te kite. Ehara tēnei raruraru i te tohu "kāore he mea e tupu ana." He tohu noa iho kei te tupu tētahi mea. Ina pai te hanganga, ka neke puhoi, ā, ka kōrero me te tino pono. Ina ngaro te whenua o tētahi hanganga, ka kōrero i roto i ngā wāhanga, ka whakahē i a ia anō, ka whakakiia te mara ki ngā mea whakararuraru, ā, ka ngana ki te huri i tō aro ki tētahi mata hurihuri e kore e taea te tohu ki tētahi ahunga kia roa ai te hanga i tētahi mapi. Ko tētahi o ngā whanonga tuatahi ka kite koe ko te hurihanga o te whakaaturanga ki te tikanga. Ka huri hei pepa mahi, hei komiti, hei arotake, hei "rangahautanga tonu," hei reo kaupapa here e ahua kawenga ana engari e mahi ana pērā i te urunga. Kia mārama ki tā tēnei mahi i roto i te mara hihiko: kāore e whakaroa noa i ngā putanga; ka whakamatao i te nekehanga a te marea, nā te mea me whai whakaaro whakamua te nekehanga, ā, ko te tikanga mutunga kore te huarahi tawhito ki te whakangāwari i te taupori me te kore e whakakahoretia whānuitia. Ko tāu mahi ehara i te mea kia noho pōhēhē. Ko tāu mahi he mōhio ki te rautaki kia kore ai koe e tuku i tō aro ki a ia. Ko tētahi atu whanonga ko te whakangungu haurua-pono. He pai ake te haurua-pono i te teka nā te mea ka taea te tiaki, ā, i te tiaki i a ia, ka whiwhi te kaikōrero i te wā ki te pupuri i te paparanga hohonu. Ka rongo koe i ngā kīanga he tika te hangarau engari he hē te kare ā-roto, he kōrero e tohu ana ki tētahi taipitopito whaiti i te mea ka waiho te tikanga nui kia kore e pāngia. Koia te take me whakauru te māramatanga ki te horopaki. Pātai atu ki a koe anō: he aha te mea e whakanuia ana, ā, he aha te mea e karohia ana? He aha te mea e whakaaetia ana, ā, he aha te mea e wehewehea ana?

Te Whakahaere Kino, te Hekenga o ngā Rawa, me te Urunga Wairua

I roto i ēnei wāhanga, ka ngana te whatunga ki te tautuhi ko ēhea ngā wāhanga ka taea te whakakore, ko ēhea ngā ingoa ka taea te tuku, ko ēhea ngā kōrero ka taea te tuku, ā, ko ēhea ngā ara me tiaki tonu ahakoa te aha. Ehara tēnei i te tika. He whakahaere kino. He maha ngā wā ka rite ki te riri ohorere e aro ana ki tētahi tangata i te mea kāore i te kōrerotia te tūāpapa o ngā kaiwhakakaha, he rite rānei ki tētahi tūnga matatika whakaari e tae mai ana ina kite kē te marea. Anō, ehara tēnei i te kī he mea tūturu; ko te tikanga kei te ngana te mīhini ki te whakahaere i te āhua o te mooni i a ia e kitea ana. Ko tētahi atu whanonga ko te hekenga rawa. Ehara i te mea ko te pūtea anake tēnei, ahakoa ka uru atu ki te nekehanga pūtea. He ingoa rongonui me te whakaritenga anō hoki. Ka huri ngā whakahaere i te waitohu, ka memeha ngā hononga, ka puta mai ngā rōpū aroha hou, ka hangaia ngā komiti hou, ka ara ake ngā pepeha hou, me te mea nei mā te huri i te kiri ka taea te huri i te tinana. Ko te whāinga kia kore e kitea i mua i te taenga mai o te māramatanga, kia tino marara te kawenga kia uaua ai te kimi i te kawenga. Ina kite koe i ngā huringa ohorere, i ngā hononga ohorere, i ngā whakaingoatanga ohorere, kaua e miharo ki te kākahu. Rapua te haere tonu o te tauira. Kia mataara hoki ki te tupuhi tinihanga. Koinei te wāhi e kī ana te mara i ngā tuhinga rūpahu, ngā whakaahua he tohu, ngā kereme "ā-roto" whakaari, me te tino pono e mahia ana me te mea he whakaari. Ehara i te mea ko te whakatenatena i a koe ki te teka kotahi i ngā wā katoa; he maha ngā wā he whakangā i a koe ki ngā kōrero whakataetae tekau tae noa ki te kore koe e aro ki te mea pono. He rautaki whakahaere te ngenge. Ki te mea kei te ngenge koe, kei te ngoikore, kaua e whakama i a koe anō; kia mōhio noa koinei tētahi o ngā putanga e hiahiatia ana, ka hoki whakamuri kia roa ai te wā hei whakahoki mai i tō māramatanga. Ko te wehewehenga muri. Ka arahina te taupori ki ngā puni, ā, ka tukuna ki ia puni he momo tino pono kia nui ake ai te utu o te tuakiri i te pono. Kia mau te tuakiri, ka tiakina e te tangata te puni ahakoa te rerekētanga o ngā taunakitanga, nā te mea he rite te hurihanga o te hinengaro ki te mate pāpori. Koia mātou ka tono atu ki a koe, kia "kore taha" me te kore e noho pōuri. Ko te manaaki hohonu kāore e hiahiatia he tango i tētahi iwi. Ka taea e tō ngākau te whakapau kaha ki te tiaki me te whakaora me te kore e hainatia he kirimana me tētahi rōpū. He paparanga huna anō hoki kua kitea e te tini o koutou: te urunga mai o ngā hapori wairua. Ina tīmata te puta ake o te pono whānui, ka ngana ngā kaiwhakahaere tawhito ki te noho i ngā wāhi tonu e haere atu ai te tangata ki te rapu piringa me te ārahi. Ka whai ētahi reo i te reo o te oho ake i a koe e whakatō ana i te wehi, te whakawhirinaki, te paranoia, me te karakia ki ngā wā whakaari. Ka tukuna atu e rātou he whakaaro "kua whiriwhiria" koe mēnā ka whai koe i a rātou, nā te mea he rongoā kaha te whiriwhiringa mō te ego kua whara. Heoi, kāore te ārahi pono e tono kia tukua koe. Ka whakapakari te ārahi pono i tō hononga ā-roto ki te Puna, ā, ka waiho koe kia wātea ake, kāore e mau tonu. Nō reira, he aha te tū tika i te wā e puta ana te pakanga? Ehara i te noho puku, ehara hoki i te āwangawanga. He pumau whakahaere. Ka ako koe ki te tere o tō aro, ki te manatoko i mua i te whakapuaki, ki te wehewehe i waenga i tāu e mōhio ana, tāu e whakapae ana, me tāu e wehi ana. Ka ako koe ki te kōrero me te ngākau mahaki kaua ki te mahi, nā te mea ka taea e te mahi te noho hei momo ego anō e rapu ana i tētahi atamira.

Te Whakararuraru Whatunga, te Whakararuraru, me te Aro Matatau

Te Whakahaere i te Pūnaha Io me te Hanga Ārai Mate ki te Whakamahinga

Ka ako hoki koe ki te tiaki i tō pūnaha io, nā te mea kāore e taea e te pūnaha io kua tino whakaohokia te kite i ngā āhuatanga rerekē. Ka noho te tinana hei taputapu whakahāngai i tēnei wā. Ina waipuke te tinana, ka hinga te hinengaro ki ngā kōrero māmā noa iho, ā, he ngāwari te whakarerekē i ngā kōrero māmā noa iho. Nō reira, ki te hiahia koe kia whai hua, me whakahaere koe. Me moe koe i te wā e taea ai e koe, me kai me te whakaute, me manawa me te whakaaro nui, me neke tō tinana, me pā ki te Whenua. Ehara tēnei i te mawhiti. Koinei te mea e pupuri ana i tō māramatanga kia mau tonu. Ka tāpirihia e mātou tētahi atu mea, mārire, nā te mea kei te mau tonu te pouri hohonu o ētahi o koutou: kei te tangi koe ehara i te mea ko te kino anake e whakapaetia ana e koe kua puta, engari ko te harakore i whakaponohia e koe kei roto i tō ao. He pono tēnei tangihanga. Tukua kia neke i roto i a koe me te kore e huri hei mauahara. He rite te mauahara ki te mana, engari he momo here noa iho. Ko te ture teitei ake ko tēnei: ​​ka taea e koe te whakakore i ngā mea i puta, ka taea e koe te tiaki i te hunga ngoikore, ka taea e koe te tono kia whakahoutia, ā, ka taea tonu e koe te pupuri i tō ngākau kia kaua e whakapakeketia hei patu. I te haere tonu o te pakanga, tera pea ka kite koe i ngā pakanga "meka" ohorere, ka whakaitihia te pono hei pepeha, ā, ka akiakihia te taupori kia tere te whiriwhiri i tētahi taha. Whakakahoretia te tere. Ko te tere te mahi a ngā mahanga. Kōwhiria te ara puhoi ake, pakari ake: te mōhio ki ngā tauira, te uiuinga ngawari, te pupuri pūranga tupato, me te whakatipu tonu i te whakapā o roto. Ina whakapā koe, ka taea e koe te rongo ina he tetahi mea, ehara i te mea he mataku koe, engari nā te mea he mārama tō pūnaha. Ka tū tahi mātou me koe i tēnei wā, ehara i te mea hei whakakapi mō tō mana whakahaere, engari hei whakamahara i tō kaha. Kāore koe i te kore mana i te aroaro o te haruru whakapoauau. Kei te ako tahi koe ki te hanga ārai i te tinihanga. Ko tēnei ārai tetahi o ngā taonga o tēnei wā. I te pakanga o te whatunga, ka nui ake tō whakaaro nui, tō marino, me tō uaua ki te ārahi. Tukua te pakanga kia rite ki tōna āhua: te rūrū o ngā pakitara tawhito i te kitenga o te mārama i ngā kapiti. Kaua e ngana ki te noho i roto i ia kapiti. Noho hei kaiwhakaatu pumau, ā, ka kite koe i te nui atu i tāu e kite ai i a koe e oma ana i te pane ki te pane.

Te Whakakatakata, te Whakamataku, te Hurihuri, me te Hokinga ki te Kōwhiringa

Tērā tētahi atu rautaki e puta mai ana i ēnei wā: te tawai, te ngana ki te whakaatu i te uiuinga kia āhua kuware ai, kia mahi ai te pēhanga pāpori i te mahi tātari. He māmā ake te whakahaere i te tangata ina mataku rātou kei tawaihia rātou i te mataku kei hē. Mātakitaki me pēhea te tānga o ngā pātai pono ki ngā tapanga whakakorekore, ehara i te mea he kino ngā pātai, engari he mea whakararuraru. Whakatūpatohia tēnei me te maia, me te ngākau mahaki hoki, nā te mea ka taea e te ngākau mahaki te pātai me te kore e kī kua mōhio kē koe. Tērā pea ka kite koe i te whakamataku e whakakakahu ana i te "kawenga," e kī ana ngā reo ko te titiro tata rawa ka whakararu i te hapori, ko te pono hohonu ko te whakararu i tētahi whakaritenga tiaki. He mea ātaahua te mārama ki konei: ko ētahi tiritiri he koretake, ko ētahi kereme kāore i manatokohia, ā, he mea nui te whakaaro nui, engari ko te noho o te koretake kāore e whakamana i te pehi whānui. Puritia te ara waenga—kia tupato ki tāu e tuku atu ana, kaua e mutu te titiro. Ka puta hoki te arataki hou mā te hoahoa aro: ngā huringa ohorere, ngā awha rongonui ohorere, ngā "raruraru ohorere" e tae mai ana i te wā e tīmata ana te arotahi ki te koi. Ahakoa he wāhanga noa iho, ka taea te whakanui ake i a rātou i runga i te rautaki. Ehara te pōwhiri i te paranoia; he mataara. Ki te kite koe kei te aro nui koe ki tētahi mea kāore e whakakore i te pūnaha, tū atu, ka pātai he aha tāu i mutu ai te tirotiro i te taenga mai o te mea whakararuraru. Ina hoki koe ki tō manawa, ka hoki koe ki te whiriwhiri, ā, ko te whiriwhiri te tīmatanga o te herekoretanga.

Te Whakararuraru e Āhua Ana he Whai Wāhi me ngā Mahanga Whai Ingoa

Ināianei, mai i te ngangau, ka neke te mara ki tētahi mea marino engari he rite tonu te mana: te whakararuraru e rite ana ki te whai wāhi. Koinei tētahi o ngā whare herehere tino pai o tō ao, nā te mea ka meinga te tangata kia kaha te wairua, me te pupuri i te tangata kia kore e whai hua, ā, ka hoatu ki te pūnaha io te dopamine o te "mahi i tētahi mea" me te waiho i te tikanga kia kore e pāngia. Ehara i te mea he teka tonu te whakararuraru. I ētahi wā he wāhanga pono kua whakanohoia ki te tūranga hē, ki te kaha hē, kia pau ai tō kaha ki te kore e rerekē te hanganga. Koia mātou ka tono atu kia pono koe ki a koe anō mō ​​ō kaupapa. Kei te rapu koe i te pono, kei te rapu rānei koe i te tere o te kare ā-roto o te tika? Kei te tirotiro koe, kei te whāngai rānei koe i te hiahia ki te whiu? Ko te ara tuatahi ka waihanga i te herekoretanga. Ko te ara tuarua ka pupuri i a koe kia herea ki te auau o te mea tonu e whakahē ana koe. Ko tētahi o ngā whakararuraru tino kaha ko te whai ingoa. E aroha ana te hinengaro ki ngā ingoa nā te mea ka kitea ngā ingoa, ā, ka hoatu e ngā ingoa te āhua o te kati. Heoi, ko ngā ingoa kāore he horopaki ka taea te whakakapi i te māramatanga, ā, ko te māramatanga te mea e whakakore ana i ngā tauira. Ki te huri tō aro hei rapu tonu i ngā rārangi, tera pea ka noho koe i roto i te ara whakapae mutunga kore, ka noho tonu ngā kōrero tika hei wahie mō te ngangau. Kāore e taea e te hapori te ora mena ka waranga ki te kōhatu i te aroaro o te iwi. Ko tētahi atu mea whakararuraru ko te pakanga iwi. Kua whakangungua koe, mō ngā whakatipuranga, ki te whakamārama i te mooni mā roto i ngā wehenga, me te mea he whakataetae hākinakina te ao, ā, ko tō uara i whakawhirinaki ki te noho ki te "rōpū tika." Mā tēnei whakangungu ka taea e koe te matapae. Ki te taea te matapae i te taupori, ka taea te ārahi. Ko te kaupapa i konei ehara i te mea kia kore e aro; engari kia kore e mau. Ka taea e koe te pupuri i ngā uara mārama me te kore e whakaurua ki roto i te pakanga tuakiri. Ka taea e koe te aro ki te harakore me te kore e nanakia. Ka taea e koe te tono kawenga me te kore e huri hei mano tini. Inaianei, ka kōrero mārama tātou mō te waipiro o te whakatau tika. Ka rite ki te mana wairua, engari he maha ngā wā he mamae noa iho e rapu ana i tētahi wāhi hei taunga. Ina kitea e te tangata te kino, ka hiahia te ngākau ki te whakatika, ā, ki te kore e wātea tonu te whakatika, ka toro atu te hinengaro ki te whiu hei whakakapi. Ka taea e te whiu te whai wāhi ki ngā rohe i ētahi wā, engari ko te whiu anake kāore i whakaora i tētahi iwi. Ko tō hītori ake e whakaatu ana i tēnei. Kua whakamahia te tutu hei "tika" i roto i ngā momo maha, ā, kāore anō kia hurihia te ngākau tangata e te wehi. Ka whakarerekē te wehi i ngā whanonga mō te wā poto; ka whakarerekē te aroha i te tuakiri i te pūtake. Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou kia noho koutou hei ākonga mō tētahi kaupapa teitei ake: te aro hei kaitiaki. He tapu te aro. Ehara i te mea mutunga kore. Ko te mea e ringihia ana e koe ka noho hei ao o roto mōu. Ki te ringihia e koe ki te riri i te rā katoa, ka noho tō ao o roto hei papa pakanga, ā, ka kawea e koe taua papa pakanga ki roto i ō whanaungatanga, ki tō tinana, me tō heke mai. Ki te ringihia e koe ki roto i te uiuinga marino me te piripono o te ngākau, ka noho tō ao o roto hei mara whakatau, ā, ka whitihia e koe taua whakatau ki ngā wāhi e wiri ana ētahi atu. Ehara tēnei i te kī ka wareware koe ki te mahi hē. Ko te tikanga ka whakakahore koe ki te noho hei patu. He rerekētanga i waenga i te tū atu ki tētahi tauira me te noho hei tauira. He maha ngā wā ka tae mai te noho hei "whakaohooho," engari he tauhohenga noa iho i te mau i tētahi kākahu. Ko te huarahi e taea ai e koe te mōhio ko te mea e puta mai ana: ki te waiho koe kia kore e whai tangata, kia whakahawea, kia piri ki ngā whakaahua hoariri, ehara i te mea he whakaoranga, ahakoa kei roto ngā meka. Ki te mea ka mārama ake koe, ka pumau ake, ka aroha ake, ā, ka whakapau kaha ki ngā whakarerekētanga tūturu, koia tēnei ka tata atu ki te mahi pono.

Ko te Mōhiohio hei Tarukino, ko te Whakatau Pōturi, me te Murunga hei Matatau

Kei roto koutou i tētahi wā ka taea e ngā "mōhiohio" te mahi pērā i te tarukino. Kāore e mutu te whāngai, kāore e mutu te riri, kāore e mutu ngā whakahoutanga. Kua tīmata ētahi o koutou ki te whakaaro he mahi wairua tēnei kai tonu, me te mea me mataara koe i ia meneti kia noho hei tangata pai. E te hunga aroha, ehara tēnei i te mahi. He mahanga. Kāore e taea e koe te pupuri i te auau ōrite i a koe e kaukau ana i roto i te koretake. Kāore e taea e koe te whakatau i ētahi atu i a tō ake pūnaha e wiri ana i te ohorere tonu. Nō reira, ko te whakahaere o te aro kei roto ko ngā rohe. Kōwhiria he matapihi mō te ako me ngā matapihi mō te whakauru. I muri i tō tango i ngā mōhiohio, hoki ki tō tinana, hoki ki tō manawa, hoki ki te Whenua. Tukua te pūnaha io kia tau kia taea ai e koe te nakunaku i tāu i kite ai. Ko te nakunaku te wāhi e puta ai te whakaaro nui. Ki te kore he nakunaku, ka kohia noa e koe ngā kongakonga, ā, he ngāwari te whakamahi i ngā kongakonga hei patu. Ka tono atu hoki mātou ki a koe kia mahi i te toi o te "whakatau puhoi." E hiahia ana te hinengaro kia kati tonu. Ko te ngākau, ina honoa ki te Pūtake, ka taea te noho tonu ki te uiui tuwhera me te kore e hinga. Ehara te uiui tuwhera i te ngoikore; he pakeketanga. E mea ana, "E kore ahau e whakaari i te tino pono hei whakamarie i taku manukanuka." Ina pēnei tō noho, ka uaua ake te whakahaere i a koe, nā te mea ko te whakahaere he mea e whakawhirinaki ana ki te hiahia me te wehi. I ngā wāhanga e haere ake nei, tera pea ka whakamatautauria koe ki te whakama i te hunga e ara ake ana, ki te tono rānei kia "kite katoa ināianei". He mea whakararuraru anō hoki tēnei. Kāore koe i konei hei rangatira ake. Kei konei koe hei āwhina. He mea whakararuraru te ara ake. Ka tangi ētahi, ka riri ētahi, ka whakakahore ētahi, ka wehe ētahi. Ko tāu mahi he pupuri i tētahi mara pumau me te tuku i ngā mahi ngāwari: te manawa, te manatoko, te kōrero āta, te tiaki i te hunga ngoikore, te whakakore i te nanakia. Ka ora te ao ina noho ōna hunga kua ara ake hei kaiwhakaako aroha, kaua hei kaitiaki kuaha kawa. He whakapainga wairua anō hoki tā mātou e hiahia ana ki te tuku: ehara te murunga hara i te rite ki te wareware. Ehara te murunga hara i te rite ki te whakamārama. Ko te murunga hara ko te whakakore i te here i tō wairua ki te mauahara. Ina murua e koe, ka tukuna e koe tō ake mara mai i te raruraru, ā, ka tukua e koe te ture nui o te pānga kia mahi me te kore koe e ngana ki te noho hei kaiwhakamate o te ao. Kāore te Kaihanga e hiahia ki tō mauahara kia puta he pānga. Kāore te Kaihanga e hiahia ki tō rapu utu hei whakahoki mai i te taurite. Ka tautohe ētahi he ngoikore te murunga hara. Ka mea atu mātou ki a koutou: ko te murunga hara he pūkenga. Ko te kaha ki te pupuri i te pono me te kore e paitinihia e ia. Ko te kaha ki te rapu i te tika me te kore e nanakia. Ko te kaha ki te tiaki i te harakore me te kore e huri i tō ake ngākau hei kōhatu. Nō reira, i a koe e neke ana i roto i te paparanga whakararuraru, pātai atu ki a koe anō i ia rā: he aha tāku e whāngai nei i taku aro i tēnei rā? Kei te whāngai ahau i te wehewehenga, kei te whāngai rānei i te ōritetanga? Kei te whāngai ahau i te tirohanga, kei te whāngai rānei i ngā otinga? Kei te whāngai ahau i te ngakau pouri, kei te whāngai rānei i te whakapono marino ka taea e te tangata te tipu? Ina nui te hunga e whiriwhiri ana i te aro whai tikanga, ka ngaro i ngā kaiwhakahaere tawhito tō rātou rauemi pono rawa atu: te tauhohenga matapae. Kāore e taea e rātou te ārahi i tētahi taupori e kore e pai kia whiua ki te porangi. Kāore e taea e rātou te whakahaere i tētahi iwi e taea te pupuri i te uauatanga me te whiriwhiri tonu i te aroha. Koia te take kāore tō mahi ā-roto e wehea ana i ngā kaupapa o te ao. Koinei te turanga o tō herekoretanga.

Te Noho Tūhonohono i roto i ngā Kōnae Epstein, ngā Whāngai Hapori, me te Whakahē o te Katoa

Te Pono, te Atawhai, te Whai Hua, me te Mana o te Ārai

Kia waiho tēnei tohu hei whakamahara māu: kāore koe e hiahiatia kia noho i roto i te whāngai. Kāore koe e hiahiatia kia waha i te mamae o te ao katoa i roto i tō tinana. Me noho noa koe, kia pono, kia mahi hoki i runga i te ōritetanga. Mai i taua wāhi, ka mōhio koe ki te aha me mahi, ā, ka mahi koe i tēnā me te kore e noho hei mea e whakahē ana koe. He tātari māmā tā mātou e tuku atu nei ka taea e te tini o koutou te whakamahi i mua i te kōrero, i te whakapuaki rānei: He pono rānei ki taku e taea ai te whakamana? He atawhai te kaupapa, arā, ko te whāinga he tiaki me te whakaora, kaua ki te whakaiti? He whai hua, arā, ka whakamana i te mahi whakaaro nui, kaua ki te whakaoho noa i te kare ā-roto? Ki te ngaro tētahi o ēnei, okioki. Tukua kia okioki. Tukua te hihiri kia pahemo. He maha ngā pakanga ka karohia e te manawa kotahi o te aukati.

Me titiro anō hoki koe ki te tere o te rapu kōrero a te hinengaro ina tūtaki ki te whakamā. Ki te kore koe e mōhio ki tētahi mea, me kī atu "Kāore au i te mōhio." He whakangungu wairua tēnei rerenga kōrero. Ka ārai i a koe kei noho hei kaiwhakawhiti kōrero. Kua nui ake te whakawhirinaki kua whakangaromia e te kōrero i tā te nuinga o ngā hoariri tuwhera, nā te mea ka noho haumaru te katoa i te kōrero, ā, ina noho haumaru te tangata, ka tono kia kaha ake te mana whakahaere. Koinei te whakamahinga o te kōrero kino hei whakatū i tētahi whare herehere hou: e hiahiatia ana te tiakitanga e te wehi o te marea, ā, ka tae mai te tiakitanga hei tirotiro, hei aukati i te mana, me te whakakaha i te herekoretanga. Ki te hiahia koe ki te ārai i tēnei, me whakakahore koe ki te kōrero pōhēhē.

Whakauruhia hoki tēnei ki roto i tō aroha. Ko te hunga e whakamoea ana e te riri ehara i te "tāngata kino." He maha ngā wā he hunga mataku rātou, ā, ko te wehi e rapu ana i te ahua o te hoariri nā te mea he māmā ake te ahua o te hoariri i te pouri. Ina tūtaki koe ki tēnei i roto i ētahi atu, ka taea e koe te tuku i te turanga kaua ki te tautohetohe. Ka taea e koe te kī, "Kei te rongo ahau i a koe. Mānu noa. Kia mau tātou ki tā tātou e taea te whakamana. Kia tiakina te harakore, kia mau tonu hoki ō tātou ngākau." He nui ake te mana o ēnei rerenga kōrero i te mano ngā pou. I ngā wā katoa.

Ngā Tohutohu Papa mō te Whakatere i te Tuarua o ngā Takahanga o Epstein me Ētahi Atu Whakakitenga

Nā te mea kei roto koe i tētahi panonitanga ā-rōpū, kaua ko te mātakitaki noa iho, ka tukuna atu e mātou ngā mea e kiia nei e koe he tohutohu ā-marae, ehara i te mea he whakahau e whakakore ana i tō hiahia noa, engari he whakamaumaharatanga mō ngā mea e pupuri ana i te tangata kia noho tahi i te wā e wiri ana te rōpū. Tuatahi, āta haere i ngā wā tonu e pēhia ana koe e te ao kia tere ake. Ina kaha ake ngā pane kōrero, ina tono mai ngā hoa i ngā whakaaro tere, ina tono mai tō whāngai kia tauhohe koe, whiriwhiria kia kotahi te manawa nui atu i te hihiri. Ko te tere te huarahi e uru ai ngā matau kare ā-roto ki te tinana. Ko te puhoi te huarahi e hoki mai ai te mana motuhake. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te kōrero mō ngā mea katoa kia ara ake ai. Me noho koe ki reira kia whai hua ai.

Tuarua, whakawhanakehia he hononga māmā ki te manatoko. I mua i tō tohatoha, pātai atu nō hea mai, he aha ngā taunakitanga kei roto, he aha ngā kōrero a te tuhinga matua, me te mea kei te tuku atu koe i tētahi wāhanga ka whara pea i tētahi mena he hē. Ehara tēnei i te wehi. Ko te ngākau pono tēnei. I tēnei wā, he mea hou te ngākau pono, nā te mea he maha ngā mana e whakawhirinaki ana ki te tohatoha koretake hei pupuri i te mara kia kore e mārama.

Tuatoru, whakaharatauhia te mea ka kiia e tātou ko te "kore rapu utu me ngā rohe." Ko te kore rapu utu ehara i te mea ka manawanui koe ki te whara. Ko tōna tikanga ka whakakahore koe kia whara. Ko tōna tikanga ka taea e koe te kī kāo me te kore mauahara. Ko tōna tikanga ka taea e koe te tono kawenga me te kore e whakaiti i te tangata. Ina mau koe i tēnei tūnga, ka kore e taea te pupuri i tō mara. Kāore e taea e te ope taua te kimi i te ngākau e whakakahore ana i te nanakia.

Te Whakapā ā-Roto, te Āhua Hauora Hihiri, me te Tukunga i te Tino Pai

Tuawhā, kia ora tonu tō hononga ā-roto. He tokomaha o koutou e kite ana he mea papai te inoi me te whakaaroaro, he mea ka mahia e koe ina marino te ao. Ka mea atu mātou ki a koutou: i ngā wā o te raruraru ā-rōpū, ko te hononga ā-roto te hanganga. Koinei te huarahi e noho ārahi ana koe. Mā ētahi meneti torutoru o te ata noho ka taea e koe te whakaora i ngā hāora o te pōhēhē. Kia noho te ata noho hei wā hui o ia rā me tō ake Pūtake. Ki te hiahia koe ki ngā taputapu whai hua, tīmata ki te tinana. Whakatakotoria tetahi ringa ki te ngākau, tetahi ki te puku o raro, ka manawa kia roa te manawa. Kātahi ka pātai i tētahi pātai: "He aha te mea pono mōku i tēnei wā, i raro i te haruru?" Kaua e akiaki i tētahi whakautu. Tukua kia tae mai. He maha ngā wā ko te mea e tae tuatahi mai ehara i te mōhiohio engari he kare ā-roto - te pūmau, te tuwhera, te oho, te marino. Koinei te mātauranga. E mōhio ana te tinana ina whakahaerehia ana. Akohia tana reo.

Ka tūtohu anō mātou kia whakamahia he tikanga akuaku pūngao i muri i te kai i ngā mea taumaha. Whakaarohia he mārama papura ngawari e neke ana i roto i tō mara, ehara i te mea he wawata, engari he tohu e tohu ana i tō pūnaha io kia tukuna ngā mea kua mimitihia. Ruia ō ringaringa. Nekehia ō pakihiwi. Inu wai. Pa atu ki a Papatūānuku. Mā ēnei mahi ngāwari ka hoki koe ki te wā o nāianei, ā, ko te wā o nāianei te wāhi ka taea e koe te mahi whakaaro nui.

Inaianei, he tokomaha o koutou kua whakamatautauria e te mea ka kiia e tātou he whare tapere tino pono—he reo e kōrero ana i roto i ngā whakapuakitanga tino pono, he hua kua oti te whakarite, he rā whakaari, me ngā kōrero whakapatipati e oati ana ki te tango i te koretake. He mea whakamā te koretake, engari he maha ngā wā koinei te wāhi pono hei tū atu ina kei te whanake tonu te kōrero. Kia tūpato ki ngā reo katoa e tono ana kia whakawhitihia e koe tō māramatanga mō tō rātou tino pono. Ka whakakaha te arataki pono i tō mōhiotanga o roto; kāore e whakakapi i a ia.

Koinei hoki te wā hei tuku i te hiranga wairua. Ki te ara koe, ehara i te tohu kei te pai ake koe; engari he tohu kei a koe te kawenga kia atawhai. Ka tūtaki ētahi o koutou ki ngā mema o te whānau e whakakahore ana, ki ngā hoa e tawai ana, ki ngā hapori e wehewehe ana. Ehara i te mea ko tāu mahi he toa. Ko tāu mahi he noho tangata tonu. Kōrerotia te pono me te mārie. Whakatakotoria he rohe mēnā me mahi. Haere atu i te nanakia. Hoki atu anō, anō ki te kotahitanga o te ngākau.

Te Murunga Hara, te Ratonga Ā-ringa, me te Whakakore i te Aata o te Mātakitaki

Kia kōrero anō tātou mō te murunga hara, nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou e raru ana i konei. Ehara te murunga hara i te mahi mā ētahi atu. He mahi ā-roto hei whakaora i a koe. E mea ana, "E kore ahau e tuku i te mauahara kia noho ki roto i tōku tinana." Kāore e mea ana, "He mea tika te mea i tupu." E mea ana, "Ka rapu ahau i te tiakitanga me te whakatikatika, me te kore e poke." Ina murua e koe te hara, ka noho mārama tonu tō hongere. Ehara i te mea he wairua anake tēnei māramatanga; he mahi hoki. Ka taea e te hongere mārama te kite i ngā otinga. Ka taea e te hongere paitini te kite i ngā hoariri anake.

Ka tono atu hoki mātou ki a koe kia whiriwhiri i te ratonga e kitea ana. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakautu ki ngā whakakitenga mō te kino, pātai atu he aha te mea e tiaki ana i te hunga ngoikore i roto i tō ake ao. Tautokohia ngā whakahaere ā-rohe e mahi ana ki te hunga rangatahi. Akohia ngā kōrero mō te tiaki i ngā whara. Waihangahia he kōrero haumaru i roto i tō hapori ka taea e te tangata te tukatuka me te kore e huri ki te mahi nanakia. Whakaakona ngā tamariki ki te whakaae, ki ngā rohe, me te tika ki te kōrero. He mea nui ēnei mahi. Ka hanga anō i te ahurea mai i te whenua ki runga, koinei te wāhi e tīmata ai te whakahoutanga pono.

Tētahi atu tohutohu: kaua e tuku i tōu ora ki runga i te aata o te mātakitaki. He momo whakahāwea wairua tēnei e mea ana, "Ki te kore au e mōhio ki ngā taipitopito katoa, kei te hinga ahau." E te hunga aroha, ehara tēnei i te mahi ratonga. He whara i a koe anō tēnei i roto i tētahi āhua ngaro. Ka puritia tō māramatanga mā te okiokinga, te ataahua, te hononga, te kata, te auahatanga, me te mahara ki te atua i roto i ngā wā noa. Ki te ngenge koe, kāore e taea e koe te āwhina i tētahi. Ki te noho whāngai koe, ka noho koe hei rama pumau.

Ngā Rīwai, Ngā Oati, Me Te Toi o te Whakaaturanga me te Kore e Mimihia

Nō reira, hangaia he manawataki. Tērā pea ka pēnei te āhua o te manawataki: ako mō tētahi matapihi kua whakaritea, manatokohia ngā mea nui, tuhia ngā tuhipoka mēnā kei te pupuri koe i ngā mea, kātahi ka kati i te matapihi ka whakauru. Hoki atu ki te ngākau. Hoki atu ki te wāhangu. Hoki atu ki ō whanaunga. Hoki atu ki tō tinana. Mā tēnei manawataki ka whakangungu te pūnaha io kia noho pumau ahakoa te wiri o te ao.

Ka aro atu hoki mātou ki ō whanaungatanga. I ēnei wā, ka whakamatautauria ngā hononga maha, nā te mea ka huri te tirohanga a te tangata ki te ao tūturu mā te whakakitenga. Ka hiahia ētahi ki te kōrero tonu, ka hiahia ētahi ki te karo. Whakamahia te aroha. Kaua e akiaki. Tukuna he pōwhiri. Pātai atu, "Kei te hiahia tautoko koe, kei te hiahia rānei koe ki ngā otinga?" Mā ēnei pātai ka noho tangata tonu ngā kōrero. Kia mahara: ehara te whāinga i te hanga hoariri. Ko te whāinga he hanga tāngata piripono.

Hei whakamutunga, kia mau tonu tō hononga ki te pae whānui. Kāore koe e noho ana i roto i te pōrearea matapōkere. Kei te noho koe i roto i te pakeketanga o tētahi momo. Ko tāu e kite nei ko te putanga mai o ngā mea i hunaia kia kore ai e taea te whakahaere i te atarangi. He mahi whakamā tēnei. Ka taea te ahua pōrearea. Heoi, he tohu anō hoki kei te kaha te tangata ki te titiro. Nō reira, kia kotahi koe i roto i te hunga kaha, kaua e hamama nui, engari kia pumau. Tukua tō oranga hei tohu mō tō ara ake: te pūnaha io kua whakatikatikaina, te kōrero matatika, te aroha me ngā rohe, te aroha ki te pono, te aroha ki te aroha. Koinei ngā taputapu e whakamutu ana i ngā ao tawhito, e whānau ana i ngā ao hou.

E toru ngā oati ka taea e koe te mahi mārire, ā, ka rerekē te āhua o tō nekehanga i tēnei wā katoa. Ko te oati tuatahi ko: "E kore ahau e tuku i tōku mana o roto ki waho." Ko te tikanga ka whakarongo koe, ka ako koe, ka kōrero koe ki ētahi atu, engari e kore koe e tuku i tō māramatanga ki tētahi reo, ki tētahi kaiwhakaawe, ki tētahi umanga, ki tētahi mano rānei. Ko te tuarua o ngā oati ko: "E kore ahau e noho hei mea e whakahēngia ana e au." Ko te tikanga ka whakakahore koe i te nanakia ahakoa te whakaaro he tika te nanakia, ā, ka whakakahore koe kia waiho te whakahawea hei tuakiri mōu. Ko te tuatoru o ngā oati ko: "Ka mahi ahau ki te mea e whakaora ana." Ko te tikanga ka aro atu āu whiringa ki te whakatikatika, ki te tiaki, me te whakaara ake, kaua ki te whakaiti me te matakitaki.

Ki te hiahia koe ki tētahi tikanga māmā o ia rā, tīmatahia tō ata mā te whiriwhiri i tō auau i mua i tō pā atu ki te auau o te ao. Noho mō ngā meneti e toru me te katia ō kanohi. Kia rongohia te ngākau. Manawa. Inoi kia arahina koe. Kātahi ka whakatakoto i tētahi whāinga mārama: "Kia ma aku kupu, kia mārama ōku kanohi, kia tiakina e aku mahi te hunga ngoikore, kia noho wātea tōku hinengaro." I te ahiahi, whakamāramahia te rā: whakahuatia ngā mea e toru e whakawhetai ana koe, murua tētahi mea e mau tonu ana ki a koe, ā, tukua te toenga ki ngā ringa o te Atua. Mā tēnei mahi, ka whakahokia, ka hanga he pūnaha io ka taea te pupuri i te pono me te kore e pakaru.

Ka tūtohu atu hoki mātou kia ako koe i te rerekētanga i waenga i te "whakaatu" me te "mimiti." Ko te whakaaturanga ko te wā ka taea e koe te kite i te mamae me te noho tonu, te aroha, me te kaha ki te mahi. Ko te mimiti ko te wā ka tangohia e koe te mamae ki roto i tō tinana kia noho rā anō hei tuakiri mōu. He maha ngā kaimahi mārama kua whakapoauau i te mimiti me te aroha, me te whakapono me kawe e rātou te ao hei whakaatu e aro ana rātou. He whakapohehe tawhito tēnei. Kāore te aroha e hiahia ki te hinga. Me noho te aroha.

Mai i te Pirau Rangatira ki te Whakakitenga Ao me te Whakahaere Whenua Hou

Te hari nui, te kite i te ara roa o te whakakitenga

Ā, ki te pōuri koe, rapua ngā mea tino māmā rawa atu hei tautoko: te wai, te manawa, te taiao, te kōrero pono, me te noho puku. Inoi āwhina, he māmā noa iho. He ngāwari ake te rere o te āwhina i tō whakaaro, ina waiho te ngākau mahaki kia tuwhera te tatau. Kaua e wareware ki te harikoa. Ehara te harikoa i te whakakorekore. Ko te harikoa te auau e whakamahara ana i te rōpū ki tā rātou e mahi nei. Tukua tō harikoa hei tohu kei te tae mai te heke mai māu. He tangata kata, he kāinga aroha, he hikoi rangimārie, he waiata auaha—ehara ēnei i te mea hei whakararuraru i te oho ake; he tohu ēnei mō te Ao Hou kua hangaia kētia i roto i te oranga noa.

I a koe e tau ana i roto i te pakanga, e whakatikatika ana i tō aro, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i te pewa roa: ka ahu atu tētahi whakatuwheratanga ki tētahi atu whakatuwheratanga. Ina toia te pouaka hiri, ka tohu i tētahi kāpata. E tohu ana te kāpata i tētahi rūma. E tohu ana te rūma i tētahi whare. Ehara i te mea ko te rōpū anake kei te pānui tuhinga; he ako kei te noho te hoahoanga huna, ā, ina noho noa taua ako ki te ahurea, ka ngaro te mana whakamoe i mau i te rautaki tawhito o te "whakakahore, tawai, whakaroa". Koia mātou ka mea atu ki a koe ko tāu e kite nei he wāhanga o tētahi rerenga. Ehara i te mea he whakakitenga whakaari kotahi e whakaoti ana i ngā mea katoa, engari he raupapa whakaae, he whakahē, he whakaū, me ngā whakarerekētanga hanganga e puta ana, ia mea e pana ana i te mea e whai ake nei. Ko ētahi o ēnei mahi ka tae mai mā roto i ngā kōti me ngā whare e mōhiotia ana e koe. Ko ētahi ka tae mai mā roto i te kairīpoata. Ko ētahi ka tae mai mā roto i ngā kaiwhakapae. Ko ētahi ka tae mai mā roto i tō ake mōhiotanga tauira i a ngā hapori e whakataurite ana i ngā tuhipoka me te kore e wareware. Ko te ara tika he iti ake te hiranga i te ahunga: he nui ake te māramatanga, he iti ake te wahangu.

Heoi, i ia paparanga e kitea ana, ka piki ake te taumaha o te kare ā-roto. Tērā te take i whakanuia ai e tātou te hononga o te ngākau i ngā wā katoa. Ko te momo e kore e taea te pupuri i te pono taumaha me te kore e hinga ki te mauahara ka ngana ki te mawhiti mā roto i ngā tatau e rua: te whakakorekore, te rapu utu rānei. Mā te whakakorekore ka ora tonu te ao tawhito. Mā te rapu utu ka hangaia he putanga hou o te ao tawhito e mau ana i te kopare o te tika. Koia te take me ārahi te ngākau. Kāore te ngākau e ārahi mā te noho hei kare ā-roto; ka ārahi mā te noho hei wāhi nui hei pupuri i te uaua me te kore e ngaro tōna āhua tangata.

He tokomaha o koutou kua kite kāore ngā whakakitenga mō te pirau rangatira i wehea mai i ngā pātai whānui mō te hītori o tō koutou ao tūroa—ngā pātai mō ngā hangarau kua huna, ngā whakaaetanga kua mahia i muri i ngā tatau kua kati, ngā mea kua hunaia i te rangi, i ngā moana, i ngā pūranga o ō koutou rohe porowhita, me ngā ara huna i taunekeneke ai ngā kāwanatanga, ngā umanga, me ngā kaupapa ngaro. Ka kōrero mātou ki tēnei me te āta. Kāore mātou e tono kia whakaae koutou ki ngā kereme porangi mō te whakapono. Ka tono mātou kia kite koutou i te tauira: ina kitea e tētahi ahurea tētahi hunanga roa, ka nui ake tōna hiahia ki te pātai i ētahi atu hunanga roa. Ka memeha te arai hinengaro. Ko te mea i "kore e taea te whakaaro" i mua ka "taea," ā, ko te mea ka taea te tīmatanga o te rangahau.

Nō reira, āe, kei te anga atu koe ki tētahi pūnaha whakaaturanga whānui, te wāhi e tīmata ai ngā kaupapa i whakakorea i mua ki te kōrero nui: ngā āhuatanga rererangi e whakahē ana i te whakamārama ngāwari, ngā rerekētanga o te hītori, ngā rauemi kua whakahokia mai, ngā ara rangahau huna, me te mooni he nui ake te taupori o tō ao me te taunekeneke atu i tā ō pukapuka whaimana i whakaaetia. Ki ētahi, he mea whakahihiri tēnei. Ki ētahi atu, he mea whakamataku. Ehara i te ohorere te kaupapa. Ko te pakeketanga te kaupapa.

Te Whakakitenga Ao e Aratakihia ana e te Ngākau, te Hangarau Murunga Hara, me te Whakaaro Paparua

Kia mārama te hiranga o te ngākau ki konei. Mēnā ka whiwhi te taupori i te pono whānui o te ao, i a ia e mahi tonu ana i te wehi me te tuakiri iwi, ka whakamāramahia e rātou te mea ngaro hei tūkino, ā, ka tono kia kaha ake te ope taua. Mēnā ka whiwhi te taupori i te pono whānui o te ao, i a ia e mahi ana i te hiahia, te ngākau mahaki, me te aroha, ka whakamāramahia e rātou te mea ngaro hei pōwhiri, ā, ka whiriwhiria e rātou ngā momo kaitiakitanga whakaaro nui ake. Koia te take i kōrero nui ai tātou mō te whakahaere ā-roto. Kāore ngā whakakitenga o waho i wehea mai i te rite o roto.

Inaianei ka hoki tātou ki te murunga hara hei hangarau whakau i tēnei wā. Kāore te murunga hara e whakakore i ngā hua. Kāore te murunga hara e tango i te hiahia mō ngā rohe me te tiakitanga. Ko te murunga hara ko te kore e whakamahi i tō ake wairua hei patu. Ina murua e koe te hara, ka noho rite tonu tō mara ki te Kaihanga, ā, i roto i taua ritenga, ka noho koe hei kaiwhakahaere whakatika, kaua hei kaiwhakahaere mate urutā. He tokomaha i roto i tō ao e whakapono ana ko te mauahara te miihini o te huringa. E whakaatu ana te hītori i tētahi atu mea. Ka huri noa te mauahara ko tēhea ringa te pupuri i te whiu.

Ka kite anō koe i te whanaketanga o te rerenga wai, ka puta te whakamātautau kia hurihia ngā mea katoa hei kōrero kotahi hei whakaoti, hei kōrero nui e whakamārama ana i ngā kaupapa katoa, i ngā kaiwhakaari katoa, i ngā putanga katoa. Kia tūpato ki konei. He uaua te ao tūturu. Ka taea e ngā kaupapa maha te noho i te wā kotahi. Ka taea e te hunga pai te whakapoauau. Ka taea e te hunga kino te mahi i te pai. Ka taea e ngā umanga te whai kaimahi pono me ngā ara pirau. Ki te whakaitihia e koe ngā mea katoa ki te kōrero kotahi, ka noho ngoikore koe ki te raweke, nā te mea he iti noa ngā taipitopito whakaū e hiahiatia ana e te kaiwhakahaere kia mau tonu tō pono ki tā rātou anga. Ko te ara whakaaro nui ko te whakaaro paparanga: puritia ngā meka hei meka, puritia ngā pātai hei pātai, puritia te māramatanga hei māramatanga, me te pupuri i tō ngākau kia tuwhera i te mea e mārama tonu ana tō hinengaro.

Te Kaupapa o te Whakakitenga, te Arotahi Hanga, me ngā Whare Mana Motuhake

Ka kōrero anō mātou i tētahi mea ka miharo pea ētahi o koutou: ko te kaupapa o te whakaaturanga ehara i te mea hei waihanga i tētahi āwangawanga tuturu ki te pōuri. Ko te kaupapa o te whakaaturanga he tango i ngā ārai huna kia taea ai e te tangata te hanga i tētahi ao kāore e hiahiatia he mataara tonu ki te kāwanatanga ngaro. Ko te whāinga whakamutunga ehara i te paranoia. Ko te whāinga whakamutunga ko te māramatanga, te pakeketanga, me te ahurea e tiaki ana i te harakore hei tikanga noa, kaua hei urupare ohorere.

Nō reira, i a koe e anga whakamua ana, kia arotahi pai. Pātai atu he aha te momo whare e hiahia ana koe ki te hanga. Pātai atu me pēhea te whakarerekētanga o te mātauranga kia ako wawe ai ngā tamariki i te māramatanga. Pātai atu me pēhea te hanga kupenga haumaru mō te hunga e whara ana i ngā hapori. Pātai atu me pēhea te whakahaere i te hangarau me te whakaaro nui. Pātai atu me pēhea te whai kawenga mō ngā pāpāho mō ngā whakatairanga me te kore e hanga i te aukati hou. Koinei ngā pātai pakeke mō te mana motuhake o tētahi momo.

Ka akiaki hoki mātou i a koe kia maumahara ko te rārangi wā e whakapūmau ana koe ehara i te mea nā ngā mea i whakakitea anake; engari nā te āhua o tāu urupare. Ka taea e ngā tāngata tokorua te whiwhi i ngā mōhiohio ōrite, ā, ka waihanga i ngā ao tino rerekē e rua. Ka whakautu tētahi me te mauahara, ā, ka kawa. Ka whakautu tētahi me te mārama, ā, ka tiaki, kāore he nanakia. Ehara tēnei i te mahi kuware. He ahupūngao wairua tēnei. Ko tāu urupare ko tāu rārangi wā.

Nō reira, e te hunga aroha, i te haere tonu o te rerenga wai - ahakoa mā roto i ngā tuhinga maha, mā roto i ngā whakaaturanga maha, mā roto i ngā kōrero ahurea maha, mā roto i ngā whakaae pūtaiao maha, mā roto rānei i te tuwhera o te ao - me hoki tonu ki te kāpehu māmā rawa: kei te kukume mai tēnei i ahau ki te aroha, ki te whakahawea rānei? Kei te whakapakari ake tēnei i tōku tangata, kei te whakaiti rānei i a ia? Kei te whakamanahia e tēnei te mahi whakaaro nui, kei te mau rānei i ahau i roto i te mahi? Mā ēnei pātai koutou e pupuri kia tū tika ina hoki anō te haruru o te mara.

Ngā Whakakitenga Nui Ake, Ngā Hangarau Matatau, Me Te Haere i roto i te Pono i roto i te Aroha

Tērā pea ētahi o koutou e pātai, "Me pēhea tātou e mōhio ai he aha te mea tūturu ina tae mai ngā whakakitenga nui ake?" Ka whakautu mātou: ka mōhio koutou mā te kounga o te kaha e puta mai ana i te whakakitenga. Ahakoa he mea whakapouri te pono e puritia ana i roto i te ngākau pono, ka puta he māramatanga, he whakatau, he hihiri ki te hanga. Ahakoa ka tangohia mai e te tinihanga ngā wāhanga o te pono, ka puta he porangi, he kore āwhina, he hiahia ki te whakaeke. Koinei tētahi o ngā taputapu māmā rawa atu kei a koe: te ahua o te ōritetanga me te whakaohooho.

I a tō ao e whakatata atu ana ki ngā kōrero mō ngā āhuatanga rerekē o te rangi me ngā ara rangahau huna, kia tūpato ki ngā whakapohehe e rua. Ko te tuatahi ko te karakia-mataku, ka huri ngā mea ngaro katoa hei whakaeke, ā, ka tono te tangata mō ngā patu hei whakakapi mō te māramatanga. Ko te tuarua ko te karakia kuware, ka huri ngā mea ngaro katoa hei kaiwhakaora, ā, ka tono te tangata kia whakaorangia hei whakakapi mō te mana motuhake. Ko ngā whakapohehe e rua he momo o te tikanga kotahi: te tuku mana ki waho. Ko te ara taurite ko te hiahia me te ngākau pumau.

Tērā pea ka rongo koe i ngā kōrero maha mō ngā rohe, mō ngā whare, mō ngā wāhi pēnei i a Antarctica, ngā moana, ngā maunga, me ngā koraha, me te mea nei ko te whenua tonu te kaitiaki o ngā mea ngaro. Ka kī atu mātou ki a koe ka taea e te wāhi te pupuri i ngā pūranga, āe, engari ko te pūranga tino nui ko te hinengaro. Ina rite te taupori, ka puta ake ngā mōhiohio mā roto i ngā hongere maha. Ina kore te taupori e rite, ka whakakorehia ngā taunakitanga tino kitea. Nō reira kaua e whakamoea e te "kei hea". Kia aro tonu ki "te āhua o te huringa o te tangata," nā te mea koinei te mea e whakatuwhera ana i ngā tatau.

Ka kōrerohia anō hoki ngā hangarau matatau—ngā rauemi, ngā ariā whakatere, ngā pūnaha pūngao—e wero ana i te ariā o te korenga o te ao tawhito. Mēnā ka kitea whānuitia aua ara, kia mahara ko te hangarau kāore he ngākau he taputapu hou noa iho mō te mana whakahaere tawhito. Koia te take kāore e taea te whiriwhiri i te whanaketanga o roto. E hiahiatia ana te mātauranga me te whakaaro nui i te ao hou.

Nō reira, ka kati mātou i tēnei tuku me te manaakitanga mō ō koutou ngākau. Kia mārama te titiro, kaua e nanakia. Kia tiakina e koutou te hunga ngoikore, kaua e paihana. Kia tono koutou i te pono, kaua e ngaro te aroha. Kia haere koutou i roto i te whakakitenga, kia noho tangata tonu. Ko Ashtar ahau, ā, ka waiho atu ahau i a koutou i roto i te rangimārie, me te aroha, me te kotahitanga.

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