Ngā Wātaka, Te Nohoanga o Roto, Me Te Wehewehenga o Ngā Ao

E Rua Ngā Ara o te Mooni, Me Te Kōwhiri i te Tuakiri i roto i te Aroha, i te Wehi rānei

Kia ora ngā purapura whetu, ko Minayah ahau, ā, kei te haere atu ahau ki a koutou inaianei hei reo i roto i te māramatanga. He tokomaha o koutou kua tīmata ki te kite i tēnei mea, kāore he reo mōna, me te mea kua whanakehia e te ora ngā ara e rua e rere tahi ana, ā, ka taea e koe te rongo i a koe e rere ana ki tētahi ara, ki tētahi ara rānei me te aro e miharo ana koe, ehara i te mea nā tetahi mea i waho i akiaki i tētahi kōwhiringa whakaari, engari nā te mea ko tāu e mau ana i roto kei te huri hei ao e hikoi ana koe. Koinei te wā e tere haere ai te noho o roto hei wheako o waho, ina tīmata te mea e whakaaetia ana e koe kia rite ki te kāinga, ina mutu tō aro ki te noho hei tikanga noa, ka tīmata te noho hei tatau. Ehara ngā rārangi wā i te pūtaiao pakiwaitara i tēnei tikanga; ko ngā ara tūturu o te wheako e hanga ana i runga i ngā kōwhiringa tirohanga auau, ngā kōwhiringa tikanga auau, ngā kōwhiringa auau o tāu arotahi e whāngai ana, ngā kōwhiringa auau o tāu e kī nei ko "koe anō." Ki te ora koe i te aroha hei tuakiri mōu—te aroha hei tūāpapa, te aroha hei reo taketake mōu—ka tīmata tō ao tūturu ki te whakarite i a ia anō ki tērā taha, ā, ka kitea e koe, ahakoa te pukumahi, ka tīmata ō rā ki te kawe i tētahi manawa māmā ake, he aronga mārama ake, he ngāwari e rite ana ki te tūnga tika, kaua ki te whakapau kaha. Ki te ora koe i te wehi hei tuakiri mōu—te wehi hei tūāpapa, te wehi hei urupare—kātahi ka tīmata tō ao ki te whakarite i a ia anō ki tērā taha, ā, ko ngā pane kōrero o waho, ko ngā kōrero kotahi, ko ngā kaupapa kotahi, ka tīmata te rite ki tētahi raupapa whakaoho mutunga kore, ia mea e tono ana kia whakapakeke koe, kia tauhohe, kia whakamatau, kia tiaki, kia whakarite. Mātakitaki mai ki tā mātou e kī nei: kāore mātou e whakaahua ana i tētahi whakataetae matatika; kei te whakaahua mātou i tētahi hoahoa aro, i tētahi tauira whakaae, i tētahi huarahi e huihui ai te ao tūturu ki tērā taha e kīia ana e koe he pono. Koinei te take e taea ai e te tokorua te haere i roto i te wiki kotahi me te ripoata i ngā Ao rerekē katoa.

Te Whakaaetanga, Ngā Whakaaetanga Moroiti, Me Te Wīra Urungi Huna o Ngā Wātaka

Ka mea tetahi, "Kei te tuwhera tetahi mea, ka rongo ahau i te angiangi o te arai, ka rongo ahau i te nekeneke o te pono, ka rongo ahau i te māramatanga rerekē e tae mai ana," ā, ka mea tetahi, "Kei te hinga nga mea katoa, he morearea nga mea katoa, kaore he mea haumaru," ā, ka kōrero rāua i ō rāua wheako ora, engari ka hangaia ō rāua wheako ora e ngā mea i whāngaihia e rātou, ngā mea i whakaharatauhia e rātou, ngā mea i whakanuia e rātou, ngā mea i kōrerotia e rātou ki a rātou anō koinei anake te putanga ka taea. Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou kia pono koe ki te whakaae, nā te mea ehara i te mea ko te whakaae anake te mea i hainatia e koe ki te mangumangu; ko te whakaae te mea e arohia ana e koe. He whakaaetanga iti kei te mahia e koe i te rā katoa, ā, ko ēnei whakaaetanga iti te urungi huna o te kōwhiringa wā.

Ngā Āpure Aro, te Whakahoki Anō, me ngā Porowhita Urupare Whakateretere

Ina tangohia e koe tō pūrere, ka panuku koe me te hiahia nui, kei te whakarite koe i tētahi whakaaetanga ki tētahi mara. Ina uru koe ki tētahi kōrero, ā, ka rongo koe i taua whakamatautauranga kua mōhiotia ki te tautohetohe, ki te whakaatu i tō tūnga, ki te whakakoi i tō tuakiri ki te tuakiri o tētahi atu, kei te whakarite koe i tētahi whakaaetanga ki tētahi mara. Ina whakaaro koe kua mōhio kē koe ki te tikanga o tētahi, ā, ka hanga e koe he kōrero i runga i taua whakaaro, ā, ka whakahokia e koe taua kōrero kia rite ki te mea pono, kei te whakarite koe i tētahi whakaaetanga ki tētahi mara. Ina whakaharatau koe i ngā putanga i roto i tō hinengaro, anō, anō, ehara i te mea hei tirohanga auaha, engari hei manukanuka tiaki - ina mahi hinengaro koe i te aituā me te mea he iti ake te tūponotanga o te mahi - kei te whakarite koe i tētahi whakaaetanga ki tētahi mara. Titiro mai, e ngā hoa aroha, kāore te wātaka i whiriwhiria kotahi pērā i te tatau ka hikoi koe, kātahi ka wareware; ka whiriwhiria pērā i te ara e haere tonu ana koe, i te ahunga e whakapakari tonu ana koe, i te auau e whakarongo tonu ana koe, kia noho rā anō hei whenua. Ā, nā te mea kei roto tō aorangi i tētahi wāhanga o te whakakitenga tere - nā te mea he maha ngā arai e anga haere ana, ā, he maha ngā pono e ara ake ana - kua whakawhāitihia te porowhita urupare. Ko tāu e whāngai ana ka hoki wawe mai ki a koe. Ko tāu e whakanui ake nei ka tere ake te kite i a koe. Ko tāu e whakahua tonu nei ka nui ake te haruru i roto i ō wheako. Koia te take i ohorere ai ētahi o koutou i te tere o te "whakaputaina" mai o tō ao o roto i tō taha inaianei. Tērā pea ka rite ki te mea kei te pānui te ao tūturu i ō whakaaro tūmataiti, ā, i tētahi ara, koia tonu, nā te mea ko te hinengaro te tauira, ā, kāore tō ao i te wehe kē i a koe pērā i tō whakangungua ki te whakapono.

Ngā Waitohu o te Ara Whakarunga me te Whakahokinga Mai o te Tangata Taketake

Nō reira, tukua mātou kia tuku atu ki a koe ngā tohu—ngā tohu māmā, e mōhiotia ana—o te ara piki, te ara e arahi ana ki te wheako o te Ao Hou o te ao. Kia mārama ki taua māramatanga e tae mai ana me te kore he whakaeke. Ka taea e koe te kite i te mea e tupu ana me te kore e hiahia ki te kino. Ka kite koe ka koi ake te māramatanga, engari kei te tuwhera tonu tō ngākau, ā, ko tēnei huinga tētahi o ngā tohu nui o te pakeketanga i roto i te tangata e ara ake ana. Ka kite koe i te kaha e ara ake ana kāore e hiahia ki te mana whakahaere. Ka kite koe kāore koe i te hiahia ki te toa, engari he nui ake tō hiahia ki te pono. Ka kite koe i tētahi whanaungatanga hou me te ngāwari, me te mea kei te tuku haruru te wairua pērā i te tukunga o ngā rau tawhito e te rākau, ā, ko ngā mea e toe ana he ma, he whānui, he kore taumaha. Ka iti ake te hiahia o te whakaari ināianei. Kāore e makona i a koe pērā i mua. Tērā pea ka kite tonu koe i tēnei, tērā pea ka whakaae tonu koe ki tēnei, tērā pea ka aroha tonu koe ki te hunga e mau ana i roto, engari kāore tō wairua e hiahia ki te noho ki taua tēpu me te kī he kai. Tērā pea ka kite koe i te hiahia e tipu haere ana ki te pono e whakaora ana, kaua ki te pono e mahi ana. Ka kukumea koe ki ngā mea e kaha ake ai koe ki te aroha i roto i tō ao tūturu—he manawanui ake, he atawhai ake, he maia ake, he pumau ake—kaua ki ngā mea e pai ake ai koe nā te mōhio ki tēnā. Ka tīmata ō whiringa ki te hangai ki ō uara me te kore e taumaha ki te whakapai ake i a koe anō. Ka tīmata noa koe ki te noho mai i roto ki waho, ā, ka whakautu te ao. Ehara ēnei i te tohu whakaharahara, e te hunga e arohaina ana. He tohu marino. He rite ki te whakahokinga mai o tō āhua taketake.

Ngā Waitohu Ara Whakararo, Te Pono Whakapohehe, Me Te Kōwhiri i te Aro Tapu

Inaianei, kei reira anō ngā tohu o te ara heke—te ara e arahi ana ki te matotoru o te wheako—ā, ka whakaingoatia mārire e mātou, kaua e whakamataku i a koe, engari kia mārama, nā te mea ko te mea ka mārama ka waiho hei kōwhiringa. Tērā pea ka kite koe i te riri ka huri hei waranga. Ka rongo koe i te kukume ki ngā ihirangi e whakaoho ana i tō kare ā-roto, ā, ka kī koe ki a koe anō he "mea nui," engari ko te hua matua o taua ihirangi ko te whakaohooho, ā, ko te reka matua ko te ngoikore. Tērā pea ka pāngia koe e ngā matapae tonu ka huri hei momo herehere. Ka ngana te hinengaro ki te noho i roto i āpōpō, ki te tirotiro i ngā tūmomo riri, ki te whakahaere i ngā horopaki, ki te whai i ngā kōrero pakiwaitara katoa, ā, ka pukumahi koe, engari kāore te pukumahi e whakaputa i te rangimārie. Me kōrero tātou mō te tuakiri e hangaia ana i runga i te whakahē: ko wai koe ka "ehara i a rātou," "ki tēnā," "te whakaatu i tēnei," "te whawhai ki ērā," ā, ko te mea rerekē mō te tuakiri e ahu mai ana i te whakahē ko te hiahia kia noho tonu te hoariri, nā te mea ki te kore te hoariri ka hinga te tuakiri. Nō reira ka rapu mārire i ētahi atu hoariri, i ētahi atu pakanga, i ētahi atu take. Kia aro hoki ki te meka kāore te ngenge e puta mai i te mahi whai tikanga; Ka puta mai i te noho i roto i te āhua ātete ā-roto tonu, te whakapakari ā-roto, te tautohetohe ā-roto ki te ora. He tokomaha e whakapoauau ana i tēnei ki te kaha. He huarahi taumaha noa iho tēnei ki te ora. Ā, ko te mea nui e hiahia ana mātou kia mārama koutou ko tēnei: ​​ko te "pono" e tangohia ana e koutou i roto i ngā take iti iho i te āhua e waiho ana e ia ki a koutou. E te hunga aroha, kei reira ngā kōrero ka taea te tika i roto i ngā kōrero pono, ā, ka mahi tonu hei paitini ki tō wairua mēnā ka horomia e koutou me te kore whakaaro nui, me te kore wā, me te kore pumau ā-roto. Kei reira ngā kōrero ka taea te tika i te taha, ā, ka whakamahia tonu hei whakahaere i a koutou i roto i te akiaki, i roto i te ohorere, i roto i te wehewehe. Kei reira ngā kōrero ka taea te teka, ā, ka horapa tonu pērā i te ahi, nā te mea he whakaohooho kare ā-roto. Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou ki a koutou kia tautuhi anō i te pono i tētahi ara teitei ake—kaua hei patu, ehara hei tohu, ehara hei whakangahau, ehara hei tuakiri, engari hei mea e waiho ana i a koutou kia tino ora ake i muri i tō whiwhinga, kia noho tonu i roto i tō koutou ao, kia kaha ake ki te aroha, kia kaha ake ki te mahi me te pono, kia kaha ake ki te mahi i te mea pai me te pono me te kore e ngaro i a koutou ki te haruru. Ki te mea ka pakaru koe, ka tauhohe, ka hiahia hoki ki te riri, kāore e mahi hei pono i roto i tō mara, ahakoa te "tika" o te āhua i runga i te mata. Koinei te take e wehewehe ana ngā rārangi wā. Nā te mea ko tētahi rārangi wā he mea hanga ki runga i te whakamahinga tapu o te aro—ko te aro hei whakatapua, ko te aro hei hanganga, ko te aro hei inoi ora—ko tētahi atu he mea hanga ki runga i te aro hei waranga, ko te aro hei whakaoho, ko te aro hei kotinga. Ā, e te hunga aroha, kei te ako koe e whakaaetia ana kia whiriwhiria tō aro i te huarahi e whiriwhiri ai koe i tāu e kai ai, i te huarahi e whiriwhiri ai koe i tāu e kawe mai ai ki tō kāinga, i te huarahi e whiriwhiri ai koe i te tangata e whakaaetia ana e koe kia awe i āu tamariki, i tō hinengaro, i ō rā.

Te Pōrangi o te Mutunga o te Wā, te Whare Tapere o Ngā Tāngata, me te Toi o te Kore e Mau ki te Matau

Te amo i ngā ao e rua i te wā kotahi me te taumaha o te pono

Tērā anō tētahi āhuatanga e tīmata ana te tokomaha o koutou ki te rongo, ā, ka tapaina e mātou tēnei āhuatanga nā te mea mā te tapa i tēnei āhuatanga ka āwhina i a koe ki te neke mā roto i te ao: te ngana ki te kawe i ngā ao e rua i te wā kotahi. He rite tēnei ki te kī e hiahia ana koe ki te rangimārie, me te whāngai i te pakanga hei whakaohooho. He rite ki te hiahia ki te whakaoranga, me te piri ki te tuakiri i hangaia i roto i te whare herehere. He rite ki te hiahia ki tētahi ara teitei ake, me te hoki tonu ki te whare tapere tawhito, nā te mea he mōhio, nā te mea ka hoatu he mea hei tautohetohe māu, nā te mea ka whakakī i te wā puku kāore anō koe kia ako ki te aroha. Ina mahi koe i tēnei, ka pēhia koe, ehara i te mea he nanakia te ao, engari nā te mea he momo kaha wairua te pono. Ka kukume te pono i a koe ki te tūnga tika. Ka tohe te pono kia pono tō āe o roto ki tō ao o waho. Kāore te pono e whiu; ka whakamārama.

Te Nohoanga o Roto, Te Okiokinga Tapu, Me Te Kōwhiri i Ngā Wātaka i te Wā Tūturu

Nō reira, kia pono tō mahi. Kaua e mahi. Kaua e kakahu wairua. Kaua e ngana ki te whakaatu kua ara ake. He tino māmā te pono: ka ora koe i ngā mea e kī ana koe e arohaina ana e koe. Ka whāngai koe i ngā mea e kī ana koe e hiahia ana koe. Ka mutu te mahi tahi me ngā mea kua kore e tipu. Ā, anei tō mana tino mahi i tēnei wā, ā, ka kōrero mārire mātou nā te mea he mea nui: whiriwhiria tō kāinga o roto i te tuatahi. I mua i tō kōrero, whiriwhiria tō kāinga o roto. I mua i tō whakapuaki i ngā ihirangi, whiriwhiria tō kāinga o roto. I mua i tō tomo ki tētahi rūma, whiriwhiria tō kāinga o roto. I mua i tō urupare ki tētahi whakapataritari, whiriwhiria tō kāinga o roto. Nā te mea he rerekē te reo o te mahi e puta mai ana i tētahi kāinga mārama o roto; ka ma, ka whai hua, ka ora. Ko te mahi e puta mai ana i te tauhohenga ka huri hei pāhotanga o te mara tonu e ngana ana koe ki te waiho. Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou ki a koe kia whakawhanake i tētahi okiokinga tapu—ehara i te hui roa, he hokinga poto noa—ka pātai koe ki a koe anō, "Mai i hea ahau e noho ai i tēnei wā e whai ake nei?" ā, ka tukua e koe te whakautu kia pono, kātahi ka whiriwhiri anō koe. Koinei te huarahi e whiriwhiria ai ngā wātaka i te wā tūturu. Ehara i te mea mā roto i ngā whaikōrero nui. Mā roto i ngā whakataunga marino. Mā roto i tāu e kōrero anō ana. Mā roto i tāu e kore e whakanui. Mā roto i tāu e whakatapu ai mā te aro atu ki a ia. Ā, i te mārama haere o tēnei i roto i a koe, ka rongo koe i tētahi atu mea: ka mōhio koe he maha ngā whakaari nui o tō ao kua hangaia hei ārai i a koe kei kite i tēnei mana ngāwari. Kua hangaia ēnei hei pupuri i a koe kia pukumahi, hei pupuri i a koe kia tauhohe, hei pupuri i a koe kia tohu atu ki te whakaoranga, ki ngā hoariri rānei, kia kore ai koe e kite i te pono ko tō aro te urungi. Nō reira, kua tapaina e tātou te wehenga—nā te mea ka taea e koe te mōhio ki te pekanga marino o te huarahi me ngā tohu ngāwari e whakaatu ana i te ahunga e whāngai ana koe—ka neke atu tātou ki te whare tapere tonu, te akiaki kua whakaritea, te maunu kare ā-roto, me te toi tapu o te kore e mau, nā te mea i te wā e mārama ana koe ki te hanganga o te "porangi o te mutunga o te wā", ka mutu te tuku i tō kaha ora ki a ia, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te hikoi i tō rārangi wā kua whiriwhiria me te pumau e whakarerekē ana i ngā mea katoa e whai ake nei. Kia tomo tātou ki tēnei paparanga e whai ake nei me ngā kanohi ma, me te ngākau ngawari, nā te mea ko te whare tapere e kitea ana e koe i tō ao kua hangaia kia āhua whaiaro, kia āhua akiaki, kia āhua me tere tonu te urupare, ki te kore ka "mahuetia koe ki muri", engari he tino māmā ake te pono hohonu: he maha ngā whakaari tūmatanui kua hangaia hei kukume i tō aro, hei utu i ō kare ā-roto, hei huri i tō mauri hei momo wahie mō ngā kōrero kāore e tika ana māu.

Te Kimi Mahi Ngākau, Ngā Pūrua Hē, Me Te Rerekētanga i waenga i te Whai Mōhiotanga me te Kimi Mahi

Ko tāu e kī nei ko te "porangi o te mutunga o te wā", i roto i te maha o ngā wā, ko te mata kitea o tētahi tauira tawhito—he tauira tawhito e tupu ana i runga i te tere, te kaha, te whakapae, me te whakaaro tonu ka kitea te haumaru mā te tuku i tō mana o roto ki tētahi mea i waho i a koe. Koinei te take he maha ngā kōrero e tae mai ana me te taima kua hangaia, he hoariri kua hangaia, me te pēhanga kua hangaia ki te whiriwhiri i tētahi taha, nā te mea ka hinga te māramatanga i te pēhanga, ā, mā te hohoro ka wareware ngā tāngata whakaaro nui ki tā rātou ake whakarongo o roto. Ka kī atu mātou ki a koe me te mārama: he onge te mōunu ko ngā mōhiohio tonu. Ko te mōunu ko te pōwhiri kare ā-roto e piri ana ki ngā mōhiohio. Ko te whakahau ngawari kei raro i ngā kupu: kia riri inaianei, kia mataku inaianei, whakamatau i a koe inaianei, uru atu ki te ope inaianei, tohaina tēnei inaianei, whakaekea tēnā inaianei, tiakina tēnei inaianei, nā te mea ki te taea e koe te neke pērā i te pēpi, ka taea e koe te whakapono pērā i te pēpi. Kāore te whare tapere e hiahia ana ki tō whakaae ki tētahi kōrero motuhake; ko tō whai wāhi kare ā-roto anake e hiahiatia ana, nā te mea ko te whai wāhi kare ā-roto te mea e pupuri ana i te atamira kia mārama. Ā, koinei te āhua o te ngenge o te tini me te kore e mahi i tētahi mea tino whai tikanga. Kei te oma rātou i runga i te mīhini tauhohenga e kore e kitea, e pekepeke ana mai i tētahi mura o te kaha ngātahi ki tētahi atu, e ngana ana kia "kawenga", e ngana ana kia "ara", e ngana ana kia noho ki mua i te huringa e whai ake nei, i te mea ka kiki, ka haruru, ka taumaha hoki tō rātou ake ao o roto. E te hunga aroha, kāore te whakaaro nui e noho ana i roto i te taumahatanga. Kāore te pono e hiahia kia porangi koe. Kāore te aratohu e tae mai me te whiu. He rerekētanga ngāwari ka taea e koe te kawe pērā i te rama: he rerekē te mōhiotanga i te kimihia. Mā te mōhiotanga ka whānui ake tō kaha ki te noho pai me te mahi mārama; mā te kimihia ka whakaoho i ō kare ā-roto, ka whakawhāiti i tō tirohanga kia kite noa koe i ngā hoariri me ngā āhuatanga ohorere. Mā te mōhiotanga ka waiho koe kia pumau, kia kaha ake; mā te kimihia ka waiho koe kia hiakai mō te riri e whai ake nei, nā te mea kua hangaia te pūnaha kua uru atu koe kia whāngai tonu i a ia anō mā roto i a koe. Koinei te take he maha ngā wā ka hangaia te whare tapere i runga i ngā rua rūpahu. Ka tukuna atu e ia ki a koe ngā whare herehere e rua, ā, ka kiia he herekore. Ka tukuna atu e ia ki a koe ngā tīma e rua, ā, ka kiia he pono. Ka tukuna atu e ia ki a koe ngā tangata kino e rua, ā, ka kiia he māramatanga. Ā, ka hāhā, "Kōwhiria kia tere," nā te mea ki te mutu koe, tera pea ka rongo koe kāore tō wairua e kōrero ana i roto i ēnei āhua pakari. Ka kōrero tō wairua i roto i te huarahi kua oti ake te whakapai ake. Ka kōrero tō wairua i roto i te pono o te ora, i roto i te haruru o roto, i roto i te pātai māmā: mā tēnei ara ahau e aroha ake, e pono ake, e maia ake, e tūturu ake, e kaha ake ki te mahi i roto i te ao e noho nei ahau? He tokomaha o koutou kua whakaakona ki te whakapoauau i te kaha me te hiranga. I whakaakona koutou mēnā he nui te tangi o tētahi mea, me whai tikanga; mēnā he ohorere tetahi mea, me pono; mēnā he ahua hou tetahi mea, me aro atu koe. Heoi, mā te ara teitei ake koe e whakangungu ki te huarahi ke. Ka whakangungu koe ki te mōhio ko te tohu tino nui te mea iti rawa te tapu, ā, ko te aratohu tino nui ka tae mai me te kore he whakaaturanga, ka tae mai me te mea he mōhiotanga marino kāore e tono kia mahia.

Te Mātanga ki te Kore e Mau, Ngā Kūaha o te Whakamutu, te Wā, me te Reo

Nō reira, me kōrero tātou mō te toi tapu o te kore e mau, nā te mea ko te "kore e mau" ehara i te karo, ehara hoki i te whakakorekore; he pūkenga. Ko te kaha ki te whakaatu me te kore e mau. Ko te kaha ki te noho aroha me te kore e noho kuware. Ko te kaha ki te kite i te tinihanga me te kore e haurangi. He momo pakeketanga o roto e kore e pai kia maunu ki te whakapataritari pāpāho.
Ko te tatau tuatahi ki tēnei pūkenga ko te okiokinga. Ehara i te kawa whakaari. Ehara i te whakaaroaro roa hei whakaritenga. He okiokinga noa iho e whakahoki ana i a koe ki a koe anō i mua i tō tukunga atu i tō kaha. I taua okiokinga, pātaihia tētahi pātai ma: "He aha tā tēnei e tono mai nei kia noho ahau?" Nā te mea ko ia wāhanga o te ihirangi, ko ia kōrero, ko ia pane, ko ia riri, he pōwhiri ki te tango i tētahi āhua. Ko ētahi pōwhiri kei te whakaara ake, kei te whakapakari ake, ahakoa e pā ana ki ngā kaupapa uaua. Ko ētahi kua hangaia hei kukume i a koe ki te oho, ki te hiranga, ki te kore tumanako, ki te mahi ohorere rānei. Ina ako koe ki te pānui i te pōwhiri i raro i te kōrero, ka mutu tō whakahaere e te kōrero. Ko te tatau e whai ake nei ko te wā. Ehara i te mea ko te pono anake te mea tika; ko te pono anō hoki te mea e tika ana. Tērā ētahi mea ka akohia e koe i tēnei rā, kāore anō kia rite tō pūnaha ki te whakauru i tēnei rā, ā, ina horomia e koe ngā mōhiohio me te kore whakauru, ka huri hei haruru i roto i a koe. Ka tupu te whare tapere i te haruru. Ka ārai te haruru i a koe ki te whakarongo ki te arataki. Ka ārai te haruru i a koe ki te whakarongo tetahi ki tetahi. Ka ārai te haruru i a koe ki te whakarongo ki te aronga marino e whakangawari ake ai i tō oranga katoa. Koia te take he mana wairua te pehi i tēnei wā. Ko te kaha ki te kī, "Kaua i nāianei," ki tētahi ihirangi e hiahia ana ki te tango i tō mara ehara i te ngoikore; he mana motuhake. Ko te tuatoru o ngā tatau ko te reo. He tokomaha kāore e mōhio ki te tere o tō rātou noho hei kaituku mō te mara tonu e kīia ana e rātou he whakahē, mā te tukurua noa iho. Ka taea e tētahi kōrero te haere mā roto i a koe, ka nui haere hoki nā te mea ka kōrerohia e koe i roto i te riri, i te whakatoi, i te āwangawanga, i te "whakatūpato," i te mahi, ā, ko te nui ake o tō tukurua, ko te nui ake o tō hoatutanga ki a ia te hāora. He taputapu auaha ngā kupu. Ina tukurua e koe tētahi whakapohehe, tera pea kei te "whakahē" koe i a ia, engari kei te whakapakari anō hoki koe i roto i te hinengaro whānui. Nō reira, ako ki te kōrero me te tika. Akohia te whakahua i ngā mea nui, kaua e waiho hei megaphone mō ngā mea kāore koe e hiahia kia whakapakarihia. Kātahi ka puta te rerekētanga i waenga i te mahi me te whakaohooho. He pai ki te whakaohooho te kōrero. He pai ki te mahi te neke. Ka huihui te whakaohooho i te tangata ki roto i ngā awha o te kōrero. Ka huihui te mahi i te tangata ki ngā hikoinga mārama e whakapai ake ana i te oranga. Ka hangaia e te whakaohooho te tuakiri huri noa i te riri. Ka hangaia e te mahi ngā hua e ahu mai ana i te aroha. Ina rongo koe kua toia koe ki roto i te whare tapere, pātai atu ki a koe anō, "He mahi tūturu kei konei hei oranga?" Mena kei reira, tangohia marietia, kātahi ka hoki ki tō pumau o roto. Ki te kore, ko te mea e toe ana ko te whakaohooho noa iho, ā, he onge te whakamahinga whakaaro nui o tō kaha o te whakaohooho. E te hunga aroha, he mea nui hoki kia mārama koe ehara i te mea kei "waho noa" te whare tapere. He putanga o roto anō hoki tō te whare tapere. Ka puta hei kōrero o roto e kore e mutu. Ka puta hei hinengaro e tono ana i te tino mohio i te wā e tono ana te ora kia whakawhirinaki. Ka puta hei hiahia ki te matapae, ki te whakahaere, ki te whakaharatau i ngā mea ka tupu, ki te purei anō i ngā mea kua tupu, me te mea nei ka taea e te noho i roto i te whakaharatau hinengaro tonu te hanga haumaru. Heoi, ko te haumaru pono, i roto i te tikanga teitei ake, kāore i hangaia mā te whakaharatau. Ka hangaia mā te whakataurite o roto. Ka hangaia mā te maumahara ki tō tuakiri, me te noho i runga i taua maumaharatanga.

Te Aro o te Ariki, te Māramatanga, me te Whare Tapere o Ngā Tāngata Katoa

Te Hokinga Ki Tō Nohoanga o Roto, Me Te Kōwhiri I Te Pono Ora

Nō reira, ina ara ake te whare tapere, ā, ka haruru te ao, ko tō nekehanga tino kaha ko te hoki ki tō nohoanga o roto. Ehara i te mea mā te pana atu i tetahi mea, engari mā te whiriwhiri i tāu e whāngai ai. Kōwhiria tētahi pono ka taea e koe te ora i tēnei rā. Kōwhiria tētahi mahi aroha ka taea e koe te mahi i tēnei rā. Kōwhiria tētahi kōrerorero ka taea e koe te kōrero mai i te ngākau i tēnei rā. Kōwhiria tētahi tauira ka taea e koe te tuku i tēnei rā. He iti te āhua o ēnei kōwhiringa ki te hinengaro e hiahia ana ki te whakaari, engari he nui rawa atu ki te rārangi wā e hangaia ana e koe, nā te mea he mea hanga te rārangi wā mai i ngā kōwhiringa e whakahokia ana, ehara i te whakapuakitanga whakaari. Ka pātai ētahi o koutou, "Engari ki te mutu taku aro ki te whare tapere, he koretake taku mahi?" Ka whakautu mātou: ehara te kawenga i te rite ki te āwangawanga. He ma, he arotahi, he whai hua te kawenga. He marara, he hiakai, he memeha te āwangawanga. Kāore te ara teitei e tono kia kore koe e mōhio; e tono ana kia noho rangatira koe. E tono ana kia ako koe me pēhea te whiwhi mōhiohio me te kore e tukua kia noho ki roto i tō ao o roto. E tono ana kia noho koe hei momo tangata ka taea te titiro ki tētahi kaupapa uaua, ā, ka noho tonu hei tangata, ka noho tonu hei atawhai, ka noho tonu hei kaha ki te aroha.

Waitohu Hihiri o ngā Karere me te Pono Ma

Ā, koinei te wāhi e hohonu ake ai te māramatanga, e te hunga aroha, nā te mea ehara te māramatanga i te whakahawea. Ko te māramatanga te kaha ki te rongo i te waitohu hihiko o tētahi karere. Kāore he take e whiua ai koe e tētahi karere e hangai ana ki te pono. Kāore he take e whakaiti i a koe. Kāore he take e whakaiti ai i a koe. Kāore he take e akiaki ai i a koe mā te whakama. Ka taea te pakari. Ka taea te mārama. Ka taea hoki te whakahē. Heoi, he ma rerekē tōna, he whakaaro i muri i tō whiwhinga, ka kaha ake koe ki te mahi whakaaro nui, kaua ki te iti iho. Engari ko te whare tapere he maha ngā wā he āhua piri. Ka noho tonu i roto i a koe pērā i te toenga. Ka hoki tonu mai ki tō hinengaro me te kore whakaaetanga. Ka akiaki i a koe ki te whakahoki anō ki ētahi atu. Ka hangaia he momo akiaki kia tirohia tonu ngā whakahoutanga.

Ngā Matau, te Nohoanga, me ngā Hapori i Hangaia i runga i te Riri, i te Aroha rānei

E ngā hoa aroha, he tohu tēnei āhuatanga hihiri. Ina ngana tetahi mea ki te mau i a koe, ka ngana ia ki te hanga i a ia anō hei mea nui mō tō tuakiri, hei mea nui mō tō haumaru, hei mea nui mō tō noho tahi. Heoi, kāore tō wairua e hiahia ki ngā matau. E hiahia ana tō wairua ki te pono, ki te aroha, me te whanaungatanga mārama ki roto ki te Puna. Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou kia tino whiriwhiri koe i te noho tahi. He tokomaha e whai wāhi ana ki te whare tapere nā te mea e tuku ana i te hapori. E tuku ana i te whakaaro o te noho hei wāhanga o tetahi mea. E tuku ana i te hoariri tahi me te reo tahi me te riri tahi. Heoi, ko te hapori i hangaia i runga i te riri tahi he hapori hiakai; me whāngai tonu i a ia anō ki te pakanga kia ora tonu ai. He rerekē te hapori i hangaia i runga i te aroha tahi. Ka taea e ia te aro ki ngā pono uaua me te kore e noho hei ahi. Ka taea e ia te neke i roto i ngā wero me te kore e noho hei tupuhi. Ka taea e ia te tautoko tetahi i tetahi me te kore e hiahiatia he hoariri kia noho.

Te Kore-Whakauru Tapu, te Wā, me te Mana o te Aroaro Ma

Koinei hoki te take e kōrero ai tātou mō te toi tapu o te kore e aro atu ki ngā pōwhiri katoa. Ehara i te mea ko ngā tautohe katoa e tika ana kia rangona e koe. Ehara i te mea ko ngā whakapataritari katoa e tika ana kia whakautua e koe. Ehara i te mea ko ngā whakapohehe katoa e tika ana kia arohia e koe. He wā ki te kōrero, he wā ki te mahi, he wā ki te noho puku, me te wā ki te whakaatu noa i te pumau i roto i te rūma e ngaro ana ētahi atu. Ka taea e tō aroaro te mahi nui atu i ō whakaaro anake ina he ma tō aroaro.

Te Awe Holographic, te Whatunga-Motu, me te Whare Pukapuka Ora i Roto

Te Mahi Whaihua mō ngā Hipanga-E Toru mō te Wehe i te Whare Tapere

Nā, me kawe mai tēnei ki tētahi āhua mahi ake, nā te mea e maioha ana ētahi o koutou ki te ngāwari hei kaupapa wairua. Ina rongo koe i te kukume ki roto i te whare tapere, me mahi e toru ngā mea. Tuatahi, tū, ka manawa, kaua e mawhiti, engari kia hoki ki tō nohoanga o roto. Tuarua, pātai atu: "He aha te āhua e ngana ana tēnei ki te whakauru ki roto i ahau?" Whakahuatia me te kore whakaari—te oho, te wehi, te hiranga, te ngakaukore, te akiaki, te mauahara, te kore āwhina. Tuatoru, whiriwhiria tō āhua me te manaaki i te toenga. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whawhai ki te whare tapere kia wehe atu ai. Me mutu noa te whāngai i a ia ki tō kaha. Ka taea e koe te pupuri i te aroha ki te hunga e mau tonu ana i a ia me te kore e whai wāhi. Ā, ka kōrero atu mātou ki a koe i tētahi mea ka kitea nuitia i te neke whakamua o tō ao: i te mea ka tangohia e te tini o ngā mea te wahie kare ā-roto mai i ngā whakaari kua whakaritea, ka nui ake te haruru o aua whakaari mō tētahi wā. Ka ngana rātou ki te kaha ake. Ka ngana rātou ki te ohorere. Ka ngana rātou ki te tere ake. Ehara tēnei i te kī kei te "toa" rātou. Ko te tikanga kei te ngana rātou ki te noho whai mana i roto i tētahi ao e tipu haere ana i a rātou. Kāore e taea e te whare tapere te ora me te kore he kaiuru. Nō reira ka tono kaiuru. Ko tāu mahi ehara i te wehi i tēnei whakanuinga. Ko tāu mahi he noho rite tonu, kia noho hei kaiwhakaatu marino, kāore e pohehe i te reo mō te mana. Ā, inaianei, e te hunga aroha, ka haria tātou e tēnei ki te paparanga e whai ake nei, nā te mea ko te whare tapere o "ngā wā mutunga" ehara i te mea he mea hanga noa mā roto i ngā kupu me ngā pane me ngā tautohetohe; kei te hanga haere tonu mā roto i te hanga tirohanga matatau - mā roto i ngā whakaahua, mā roto i ngā mooni kua whakaritea, mā roto i te whakaae tahi, mā roto i te whakaaro mō te mea "tūturu" nā te mea kua whakatakotoria ki mua i ō koutou kanohi i roto i te huarahi whakatenatena. Koia te take, i a tātou e neke atu ana ki te wāhanga e whai ake nei, ka kōrero tātou mō te awe holographic me te raranga mooni, me pēhea te noho mārama me te pumau o tō pono o roto ahakoa te ao o waho e matatau ake ana ki te hanga i ngā tinihanga whakatenatena.

Te Ao Tūroa, te Whakaaetanga Hanga, me te Hanga Tirohanga

E te Wairua Aroha, ka whakatata atu anō tātou inaianei, nā te mea ko te paparanga e whai ake nei o tēnei kōrero ehara i te mea ko ngā pane kōrero anake, ko ngā tautohetohe rānei, ko te hiahia nui rānei, engari ko te tirohanga tonu, me te huarahi e taea ai te ārahi, te hanga, me te takahuri i te tirohanga kia waiho hei "whakaaetanga" hangai e rite ana ki te mooni nā te mea e karapoti ana i a koe mai i ngā taha katoa. Kei te noho koe i roto i te mea kua kiia e tātou he mooni holographic, ko te tikanga ka huihuia te wheako mā roto i ngā kare ā-roto—ko tāu e kite nei, ko tāu e rongo nei, ko tāu e kīia ana ki a koe kei te tupu, ko tāu e whakaaturia ana ki a koe kei te tupu, ko tāu e whakahokia ana kia kore e taea te whakakore—ā, i tēnei wā, kua tino pai ake ngā taputapu e hanga ana i ngā kare ā-roto, ā, he maha ngā ngākau pono e whakapoauau ana i te kīkī mō te pono. Ina he mea kei ngā wāhi katoa, he mea tūturu. Ina whakahokia tetahi mea, he mea kua whakamātauhia. Ina tautokona tetahi mea e te tira waiata, he mea haumaru te tango. Heoi, ehara te kīkī i te paerewa wairua, ā, ehara te whakahou i te mehua tapu o te mooni, ā, he maha ngā wā ka arahina te tira waiata e ngā ringa e kore e kitea e mārama ana ki te hononga o te tangata mā roto i ngā kare ā-roto e tohaina ana.

Nā, me tapa tātou i te papa pakanga tūturu: ehara i te "mōhiohio me te kore mōhio." Engari he aro me te whakaaro. Ko te torona o roto o tō mōhiotanga, ko te ngana o waho ki te whakanoho i tētahi kōrero ki reira, me te kī he kōrero nāu. Ka hangaia te whakaae hangai mā roto i ngā tikanga māmā. Ka whakatōkia he kōrero, kātahi ka whakanuia, kātahi ka whakaatahia. Ka tukuna, ka tukuna anō, ka tauhohe, ka tiakina, ka whakaekea, ka tawai, ka whakaranu, ka tapahia, ka whakaarihia. Ka haere hei riri, ka haere hei wehi, ka haere hei tika, ka haere hei tohu. Kāore e hiahiatia ana kia whakaae te tangata ki a ia kia noho hei kaikawe; ko te mea anake e hiahiatia ana ko te whai wāhi. Ko te whai wāhi te moni o te ao. Mā te whai wāhi ka whāngai te mīhini. Ka kī atu te whai wāhi ki te pūnaha, "whakaatu mai ki ahau," me te "whakaatu atu ki ētahi atu," ā, kāore e roa ka taea e te tangata te rongo kua karapotia e tētahi kōrero kāore i te kaha i te wiki i mua. Koinei te āhua o te tirohanga: mā te mānukanuka o te noho noa. Ka taea e koe te rongo i te rerekētanga ina tae mai te pono, ina tāuta te kōrero. Ka waiho koe e te pono kia mārama ake. Ka waiho koe kia pumau ake. Ka waiho koe kia kaha ake ki te mahi whakaaro nui me te kore e porangi o roto. He maha ngā wā ka tae mai he kōrero hanga me te pēhanga kia tautuhi tonu, kia whakapuaki tonu, kia kimi tonu, kia tohatoha tonu, kia tauhohe tonu. E whai ana kia nohoia tō wāhi o roto i mua i tō wā ki te manawa, ki te whakaaroaro, me te whakarongo. Kāore i te aro nui ki te mea pono, engari he aro nui ki te mea e horapa ana. Ā, koinei te wāhi e hinga ai te tini o ngā ngākau, nā te mea ehara te tinihanga matatau i te teka mārama. Ko te tinihanga matatau ko te haurua-pono e whakamānawa ana i te kare ā-roto e hoatu ana ki a koe he tuakiri hei mau. Ka tukuna atu ki a koe te whakaaro he motuhake koe nā te mōhio ki a ia. Ka tukuna atu ki a koe te whakaaro nō tētahi iwi. Ka tukuna atu ki a koe te whakaaro he toa mā te whakahoki anō. Ka tukuna atu ki a koe he tangata kino hei arotahi atu me tētahi kōrero māmā hei noho ki roto. Kāore he aha, i ētahi wā, mēnā he tika ngā taipitopito. Ko te mahi he hanga i tō āhua, he hanga i ō whanaungatanga, he hanga i te mea e hoatu ana e koe tō kaha ora ki reira, me te pupuri i a koe kia porowhita i tētahi whakaari o waho, kaua ki te ora mai i tō ake mana o roto. I roto i te reo o tō ao, kei a koe ngā "raupapa". I roto i te reo o te kaha, kei a koe ngā tauira e utu ana i te kaha. Ina utua e te pūnaha te kaha, ka tino akiakihia ngā ihirangi e whakaoho ana i te kare ā-roto, nā te mea ka tere te whai wāhi mai o te kare ā-roto, ā, ka nui ake te kitea o te kare ā-roto, ā, ka nui ake te kitea o te kare ā-roto, ā, ka puta te whakaaro pohehe ko te ihirangi "ko tā te katoa e whakaaro ana." Ehara tēnei i te korenga matatika o te tangata; he hua matapae tēnei o tētahi pūnaha e ine ana i te uara mā te tauhohenga. Ko te tono māu, i tēnei wā, kia mahara kāore tō wairua e ine i te uara mā te tauhohenga. E ine ana tō wairua i te uara mā te hua—mā te mea e puta mai ana i tētahi karere i roto i a koe i muri i tōna urunga mai.

Te Whakaahua Hanga, te Whatu-Motu, me te Mōhiotanga-Anga

Nō reira, ka tukuna atu e mātou tētahi mahi māmā hei pupuri i tō tirohanga i roto i tētahi ao e hiahia ana ki te kī koia tērā. I mua i tō whakaae ki tētahi whakaaro hei mea tūturu, pātai atu ki a koe anō kia toru ngā pātai, ā, pātai mārire atu kia taea ai e koe te rongo i ngā whakautu. Tuatahi: he aha te pūtake, he pono? Ehara i te ingoa kei runga i te mata, engari ko te pūtake o te kereme. Kei te whai muri mai i tētahi mea ka taea te whakamana, he mea tika, he mea whai pūtake, he mekameka noa iho rānei o ngā kōrero e tohutoro ana ia tangata ki tētahi atu tangata, ā, kāore tetahi e pā ki te pūtake?

Tuarua: he aha te reo e whakamahia ana hei tuku atu? He ma te reo, he marino, he whakaute i tō mana motuhake, he reo pēhi, he reo whakaari, he reo whakaiti rānei, he mea hanga hei mea wairangi i a koe mēnā ka ruarua koe? He reo ma te reo e whakaute ana i tō kaha ki te whiriwhiri. Ka ngana te reo tinihanga ki te tahae i tō whiringa mā te akiaki. Tuatoru: he aha te hua e puta mai ana i roto i a koe? I muri i tō whiwhinga, ka kaha ake koe ki te noho pai, ki te kōrero atawhai, ki te mahi whakaaro nui, me te mahi i te mea pai, ka oho rānei koe, ka whakararuraru, ka whawhai, ka akiakihia kia whai i ngā ihirangi? Kāore ēnei pātai i te whakaarohia hei mea whakapae i a koe; engari hei pupuri i a koe kia ara ake i roto i tō ake mōhiotanga, nā te mea ko te ara ake te pareparenga māmā rawa atu i roto i te wā holographic. He paparanga hohonu ake anō hoki kei te puta ake i tō ao: ko te whakaahua e tere ake ana te whakatenatena i te reo. He tokomaha o koutou e mātakitaki ana i te pikinga ake o ngā whakaahua hangai me ngā reo hangai, ā, ka kōrerohia e mātou tēnei me te āta, nā te mea ehara te wehi i te mea nui, ko te pūkenga te mea nui. He mana motuhake kei ngā whakaahua ki runga i te hinengaro tangata nā te mea ka karohia e rātou ētahi taumata tātaritanga ka tau tika mai i te "tupu o tēnei." I ngā wā o mua, i hiahiatia he kaha, he wā, ā, he iti noa te tohatoha mō te hanga. I tēnei wā, ka taea e te hanga te tere, te whakatenatena, me te tohatoha tonu, ā, ko te tikanga me whanake tō māramatanga mai i te "he mārama?" ki te "he pono?" me te "he tino pono?" ki te "e tū ana ki te tirotiro mārire?" E ngā ngākau aroha, ehara tēnei i te mea hei whakapōrearea. He whakaurunga ki te pūkenga. Kei te ako te tangata ki te pakeke i tua atu i te mana o ngā āhua. Kei te ako te tangata ehara te mata i te mea tūturu, ā, ehara i te mea ko ngā whakaaro mārama katoa he tatau ki te pono. He tohu tēnei. He whakatikatika tēnei. Koinei te whānautanga o tētahi momo e ako ana ki te ora mai i te pono o roto, kaua i te hipnosis o waho. He huarahi āwhina ki te mārama ki te awe holographic ko te titiro ki a ia hei "whatu-mooni." Kāore te whatu-mooni e hiahia ki te hanga i ngā mea katoa; me whakarite noa i ngā mea kua wātea i roto i te huarahi e ārahi ana i a koe ki tētahi whakatau e whai kaupapa ana. Ka tīpakohia e ia ētahi whakaahua, ka waiho ētahi atu. Ka whakatakotohia e ia ētahi huihuinga hei tohu o te aituā, me te kore e aro ki ngā taunakitanga o te pai me te ahunga whakamua. Ka whakanuia ngā reo e whakanui ana i te wehewehenga, me te huna i ngā reo e kawe mai ana i te whakaaro nui me te matatini. Ka whakaatuhia ngā tauira tino whakarihariha o tētahi rōpū kia taea ai e koe te whakatau i te rōpū katoa mā te wāhanga kino rawa atu. Koinei te hanga. Koinei te raranga. Koinei te mahi toi o te whakaaro. Ko te rongoā ko te mōhio ki te hanga. Ina kite koe i a koe e whakaaro ana i roto i ngā tuhinga pakari—"pēnei te katoa," "kāore he mea e taea te huri," "kāore he tumanako," "kua whakaritea katoa," "he rūpahu katoa," "ko taku taha anake e kite ana," "ko taku iwi anake te pai"—kia okioki, kia mōhio kua tāutahia he tuhinga. Ka whakangawaritia e te tuhinga tō ao o roto kia ngāwari ake ai te arahi i a koe. Ehara tō wairua i te tuhinga. He whānui tō wairua. Ka taea e tō wairua te pupuri i te uauatanga me te kore e hinga ki te ngakaukore, ki te hiranga rānei. Ina whakahokia mai e koe te whānui, ka whakahokia mai e koe te herekoretanga.

Te Ārai, Ngā Auau o te Whakauru, Me te Pikinga ki tua atu i ngā Hōtuhi Kua Tāutahia

Koinei anō te take e tapu ai te aukati i tēnei wā. Ko te āheinga ki te tuku i tētahi kōrero kia puta i roto i tō hinengaro me te kore e whakahoki anō he momo kaha wairua. He tokomaha e whakaaro ana ko te kaha he whakauru, he tautohetohe, he whakaatu, he whakatika, he whawhai, he whakamatau. He wāhi kei reira mō te kōrero mārama me te mahi mārama, āe, ā, ka kōrerohia pinepinetia e tātou, engari he kaha hohonu ake anō hoki: ko te kaha ki te karo i te whakanui i te whakapohehe. Ina whakakahore koe ki te noho hei kaiwhakawhiti mō ngā mea kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakapakari, ka tīmata koe ki te whakarerekē i te āhuarangi o te rōpū i roto i ngā huarahi marino e whai tikanga ana. Ka pātai pea koe, "Me pēhea taku whakauru atu ki te ao me te kore e noho kuware?" Ko te whakautu: whakauru mai i te nohoanga o roto kaua i te mana o waho. Ina noho koe i roto i a koe anō, ka taea e koe te ako i ngā mōhiohio, ka taea e koe te manatoko, ka taea e koe te mahi ina hiahiatia, ā, ka taea e koe te noho atawhai. Ina uru koe ki te whare tapere o waho, ka huri koe hei tauhohe, ā, he ngāwari te whakahaere i te tauhohe. Ko tētahi tikanga mahi, ki te hiahia koe, ko te waihanga i tētahi manawataki o te whakauru e whakahonore ana i tō oranga. Kōwhiria ngā wā ki te whiwhi mōhiohio, me ngā wā ki te ora i tō oranga katoa. Kōwhiria te hohonu i te mea hou tonu. Kōwhiria tētahi, e rua rānei ngā puna pono i runga ake i te kotahi rau reo pōrearea. Kōwhiria te wā puku i muri i te horomanga kia taea ai e koe te nakunaku i ngā mea kua riro i a koe. Ki te kore te nakunaku, ka noho ngā kōrero hei raruraru hinengaro, ā, ka noho te raruraru hinengaro hei taiao pai mō te tipu o ngā whakaaro. Me whai wāhi tō ao o roto. Ka whakahokia mai e te wāhi te māramatanga. Ka whakahokia mai e te wāhi tō kaha ki te whakarongo ki te arataki. I roto i te reo kua hoatu e mātou ki a koe i mua, ka kīia pēnei e mātou: ara ake i tua atu i ngā whakaaro pohehe o te whakaaro me te āhua, kaua mā te whakakore i te āhua, engari mā te mōhio he kākahu te āhua, ehara i te mea ko tō mauri. E mōhio ana te mauri i roto i a koe ki te pono i tētahi ara rerekē. Ka mōhio ki te kakara o te pono. Ka mōhio ki te wiri o te aroha. Ka mōhio ki te wā e ngana ana tētahi mea ki te whakaiti i a koe. Ka mōhio ki te wā e ngana ana tētahi mea ki te whakakorikori i a koe. Ka mōhio ki te wā e ngana ana tētahi mea ki te whakapakeke i a koe. Koinei te take e nui ake ai te uara o tō pono o roto i tētahi kōrero o waho i ngā tau kei mua. Kāore tō pono o roto i te haruru. Kāore e hiahiatia kia kimihia. Kāore e hiahiatia kia mahi. E mōhio noa ana. Ā, anei tētahi rerekētanga nui e hiahia ana mātou ki te hoatu ki a koe: kāore te māramatanga e hiahia ana ki te aro nui. He tokomaha kua whakangungua ki te whakapono rerekē ko te mataara he rite ki te whakaaro nui. Kei te matawai tonu rātou, kei te tirotiro tonu, kei te kai tonu, kei te whakahou tonu, me te mea nei ko te aroturuki tonu te mea haumaru. Heoi, he onge te aro turuki tonu i te rangimārie. Ka tae mai te rangimārie ina he whanaungatanga ā-roto tōu ki te pono e pumau ana hei tuku i te ao kia noho hei ao, me te kore e tahae i tō wairua. Ka tae mai te rangimārie ina taea e koe te mahi mārama me te kore e waha i te taumaha o te ao katoa i roto i tō hinengaro.

Ngā Urupare Mana Motuhake, Ngā Marae Uaua Atu Ki Te Whakamoemiti, Me Te Whare Pukapuka Ora o Te Oho Ake

Nō reira, ina tūtaki koe ki tētahi kōrero e ngana ana ki te whakauru i a ia anō ki roto i a koe, whiriwhiria tētahi o ēnei urupare rangatira. Ka taea e koe te manatoko i mua i te whakapono. Ka taea e koe te pupuri mārire, me te tatari, me te tuku i te wā ki te whakaatu i te mea pono. Ka taea e koe te wareware katoa ki a ia mēnā kāore he pānga tika ki tō oranga, kāore hoki he karanga ki te mahi whai tikanga. Ka taea e koe te manaaki me te tuku, me te kore e whakanui. Ka taea e koe te kōrero mōna me te tika, me te kore he panuitanga kare ā-roto, mēnā he mea ma hei takoha. Ko ia o ēnei urupare he momo pūkenga. Ā, i a koe e mahi ana i tēnei, ka kitea e koe tētahi mea tino ataahua: ka tīmata te huri o tō ao, ehara i te mea nā te mea ka ngaro katoa ngā mahi tinihanga i te pō kotahi, engari nā te mea ka uaua ake koe ki te whakamoe. Ka iti ake te wātea o tō mara o roto ki te whakaaro. Ka iti ake te wātea o tō aro ki te hauhake. Ka iti ake te wātea o tō hinengaro ki ngā tuhinga. Koinei te wā ka huri te wā holographic hei whai wāhitanga kaua hei mahanga, nā te mea ka akiaki i te tangata oho ake ki te kimi i te kāpehu tūturu i roto. Nā, ka kawea mai tēnei e tātou ki te wāhanga e whai ake nei, nā te mea i te wā e mārama ana koe ki te whatu o te mooni, ā, i te wā e tīmata ana koe ki te tiaki i tō tirohanga me te ngāwari o te whakahaere, ka tīmata te ara ake o tētahi atu mea: te whare pukapuka ora i roto i a koe—te maharatanga o roto e kore e taea te hanga, e kore e taea te huna hohonu, e kore e taea te whakarite ki roto i a koe mai i waho, nā te mea koinei te tohu taketake o tō tuakiri. I te mea ka nui ake te pūkenga o te ao o waho ki te waihanga i ngā whakaaro whakapati, ka nui ake te utu o tō ao o roto, ka kaha ake, ka mārama ake, ā, ko te tatau e whai ake nei ko te ako ki te wehewehe i te maharatanga wairua mai i te whakaaturanga kia ora ai koe i tō ake tohu pono i a tātou e haere tonu ana ki roto i te mea i karangatia e tātou i mua ko te Whare Pukapuka Ora. I roto i a koe, he 'whare pukapuka ora'. Ehara i te mea he pūranga o ngā meka, ehara hoki i te rārangi hinengaro ka taea e te hinengaro te whakarite anō me te kī he rangatira; he mara maharatanga e noho ana i roto i tō oranga, he mōhiotanga hohonu e mau ana i te kakano o te kāinga. Ina oho, kāore e tae mai hei panuitanga nui, ā, he onge te taenga mai hei ahua whakaari e tono ana kia arohia; Ka tae mai hei mōhiotanga, hei "āe" ngawari o roto, hei whakaaro marino e rite ana tetahi mea e rongohia ana e koe, e kitea ana e koe, e tūtaki ana rānei ki tāu i mōhio ai i raro i te haruru o tō āhua. Kua whakaakona koe ki te whakaaro ki te mahara he mea kua rongoatia ki roto i te roro, he tuhinga o mua, engari ko te maharatanga e kōrerohia ana e tātou kāore i te herea ki tēnei ao, ā, kāore hoki i te herea ki te wā e ai ki tāu i ine ai. Ko te tohu o tō takenga mai tūturu, te waitohu o tō mauri, te huarahi e mōhio ai koe ki te aroha me te kore e hiahiatia he tautohetohe, te huarahi e mōhio ai koe ki te pono me te kore e hiahiatia he taunakitanga, te huarahi e mōhio ai koe ki te mea pono nā te mea ka waiho koe kia tino ora i a ia e tomo ana ki a koe. Ko tēnei whare pukapuka ora te taonga tuku iho o ia tangata kua ara ake, ā, i tēnei wā—ka taea te whakatika, te whakarite, me te mahi i te mooni—ka noho tēnei taonga tuku iho o roto hei tetahi o ō taonga tino utu nui.

Whare Pukapuka Ora, Pono, me te Māramatanga Taumata-Wairua

Te Whakatuwheratanga o te Whare Pukapuka Ora mā te Pono me te Aroha

He tokomaha kua ngana ki te whakatuwhera i tēnei whare pukapuka mā te mahi anake, mā te whakapau kaha, mā te whai i ngā tohu, mā te kohikohi ariā, mā te hanga tuakiri huri noa i te "wairua," ā, e miharo ana rātou he aha te whakama o te tatau hohonu, he aha te reo hohonu e marino ana. E ngā ngākau aroha, ka tuwhera tēnei whare pukapuka mā te ngākau pono, mā te aroha, mā te ngākau mahaki ki te mutu te mahi mō te ao, me te pono ki a koe anō. Ina tīmata koe ki te kōrero i te pono ki a koe anō—mō ō kare ā-roto, mō ō hiahia, mō ō manawanui, mō ō mea kua nui ake i a koe—ka marino tetahi mea i roto i a koe, ā, ka mārama ake te tohu. Ka whakautu te whare pukapuka ki te ngākau pono, nā te mea he momo whakataurite te ngākau pono, ā, ka hoatu e te whakataurite he wāhi mō tō pono o roto kia ara ake. Nō reira, tīmata i konei: whiriwhiria te ngākau pono hei mahi o ia rā. Kōwhiria ina kōrero koe ki a koe anō. Kōwhiria ina kōrero koe ki ētahi atu. Kōwhiria ina whakatau koe. Kōwhiria ina kite koe i te whakamatautauranga ki te whakanui, ki te tū, ki te whakaaro kei te pai koe i te mea kāore koe i te pai, ki te whakaaro kei te tino mohio koe i te mea kāore koe i te pai. Ehara te ngākau pono i te nanakia; he mooni noa te ngākau pono me te kore he mahi. Koinei te pōwhiri tino ma ka taea e koe te tuku ki tō ake mōhiotanga ā-roto. Tērā pea ka pātai koe, "Me pēhea taku mōhio kei te pā atu ahau ki te whare pukapuka ora, kāore i te tito noa i tētahi mea?" He pātai nui tēnei, ā, ka whakautua e mātou i roto i tētahi huarahi ka taea e koe te whakamahi tonu. He kakara motuhake kei roto i te whare pukapuka ora: ka puta te pumau, kaua te porangi, te ngākau mahaki, kaua te hiranga, te aroha, kaua te whakahawea, te mārama, kaua te tātaritanga akiaki. Ka tukuna e ia te taahiraa māmā e whai ake nei, kaua te arai mutunga kore. Kāore e whakapūpū i a koe. Kāore e kukume i a koe ki roto i tētahi whakaari. Kāore e tono kia whakapuakina e koe ki te katoa hei tohu mō tō motuhaketanga. He maha ngā wā ka tae mai me te ngāwari marino e kore e taea e te hinengaro te whakaiti i te uara nā te mea e tumanako ana te hinengaro ki ngā ahi. Ko ngā moemoeā, ko ngā kōrero i tangohia mai, me ngā whakaaturanga whakawaiwai ka rerekē te whanonga. He maha ngā wā ka tae mai me te hiahia nui. He maha ngā wā ka tae mai me te wera o te kare ā-roto e hiahia ana ki te mahi tonu, ki te whakapuaki tonu rānei. He maha ngā wā ka tae mai me te kare ā-roto e hiahia ana kia whiriwhiria, kia noho ki runga ake, kia noho ko koe anake te toa i roto i te ao o ngā wairangi. He maha ngā wā ka hiahia he hunga whakarongo, nā te mea e hiahia ana te whakapehapeha kia kitea. Heoi, kāore te maumaharatanga wairua e hiahia ana ki tētahi hunga whakarongo. Me whakatinana te maumaharatanga wairua. Me whai oranga koe. E hiahia ana kia ora. Koia te take, i tēnei wā ka taea e ngā kare ā-waho te whakatenatena, ka whai whakaaro koe ki te ine i ngā karere mā te āhua e whakatipuhia ana i roto i a koe. Ko tētahi karere e whakapatipati ana i te whakapehapeha, e whakakā ana i te riri, e hanga ana i te tuakiri mā te hiranga, e whakatenatena ana i a koe kia kite i ētahi atu he iti iho, kāore e ārahi i a koe ki tō pono hohonu, nā te mea ko tō pono hohonu ko te aroha i roto i te āhua, ā, kāore e taea te hanga i te aroha i runga i te whakahawea. Ka kōrero tō whare pukapuka o roto i tētahi huarahi e whakawhānui ana i tō āhua tangata; ka meinga koe kia manawanui ake, kia atawhai ake, kia tū pakari ake, kia kaha ake ki te pupuri i te uauatanga me te kore e huri hei take whakapakeke.

Te Kakara o te Mahara Wairua, te Whakahē i te Whakaaroaro Whaiaro me te Whakaaturanga

He māramatanga tapu kei te wātea mai i a koe e pakeke haere ana: ka tīmata koe ki te rongo i te rerekētanga i waenga i te karere e whakaute ana i tō mana motuhake me te karere e ngana ana ki te kī. Kāore te arataki pono e pana i a ia anō ki roto i tō mara pērā i te kaihokohoko. Kāore e whakawehi i a koe. Kāore e whakama i a koe. Kāore e kī ana ko tō uara e whakawhirinaki ana ki te whakaae tonu. Engari, ka tau mārire, kātahi ka tatari, nā te mea he manawanui te pono, ā, e mōhio ana te pono ko te mea pono ka noho tonu hei mea pono āpōpō. Pēnei, ka noho tō whare pukapuka ora hei kāpehu. Ehara i te mea he rārangi pukapuka e whakahuatia ana e koe. He mātauranga whanaungatanga e whakawhanakehia ana e koe. Ina pānui koe i tētahi rerenga kōrero, ā, ka marino tetahi mea i roto i a koe ki te mōhio, koinā te whare pukapuka e whakautu ana. Ina rongo koe i tētahi pono ngāwari, ā, ka tangi pērā i te kāinga, koinā te whare pukapuka e whakautu ana. Ina tūtaki koe ki tētahi pōwhiri e tono ana mō te ngākau pono kaua ki te whakaaturanga—he pōwhiri kia atawhai ake, kia pono ake, kia maia ake, kia noho tata atu—koinā te nuinga o te wā ko te whare pukapuka e kōrero ana i roto i te reo mahi, nā te mea kāore te whare pukapuka i konei hei whakangahau i a koe; kei konei hei whakaora i a koe. He maha ngā kaiwhai wairua kua whakatōkia ki te whai i ngā mea hou. He aroha ki te hinengaro ngā mea hou nā te mea ka puta he whakaohooho i te mea hou, ā, ka rite te whakaohooho ki te ora ahakoa he haruru noa iho. Heoi, ka hohonu ake te whare pukapuka ora mā roto i tētahi atu manawataki. Ka tuwhera ake ina tukuna e koe te waranga ki ngā "mōhiohio hou" tonu, ā, ka tīmata te whakanui i te mana tawhito o te whakaurunga. He huihuinga anō te maumahara. Kāore te huihuinga anō e rite tonu ki te "hou." I ētahi wā ka rite te huihuinga anō ki te kata mārie i roto i a koe e mea ana, "Ae," ā, ka ngawari tō wairua nā te mea kua mōhio koe kua rapu koe i ngā mea kei a koe. Nō reira, ki te hiahia koe ki te uru atu ki te whare pukapuka kia hohonu ake, whiriwhiria he iti ake ngā whakaurunga me te nui ake o te nakunaku. Kōwhiria te hohonu i te whakamātautau tonu. Kōwhiria ngā wāhi marino ka taea e tō ake mōhiotanga te ara ake me te kore whakataetae. Kōwhiria ngā wā o tō rā kāore koe e whai i ngā tohu, engari me tuku noa tō pono o roto kia kōrero. Ehara i te mea me whakarērea e koe tō oranga, me noho tawhiti rānei; ko tā mātou he kati te whakahaere i tō ao o roto kia rite ki te mākete kī tonu, ka tīmata te whakahaere i a ia kia rite ki te wāhi tapu.

Te Reo Motuhake o te Mihana me te Takoha Taiao o te Aroha

Nā, ka kōrero tātou mō tētahi o ngā taonga tino utu nui e rongoatia ana i roto i tēnei whare pukapuka: ko tō reo misioni ahurei. He take kei konei koe, ā, e kī ana mātou i tēnei me te kore e taumaha, me te kore e waiho hei kawenga. Ehara tō "misiona" i te mahi me mahi e koe kia whiwhi uara; ko tō takoha tūturu ina rite koe ki tō āhua. Ko tō reo misioni ahurei ko te huarahi e kawe ai koe i te aroha ki te ao i roto i te āhua nāu anake. Ko ētahi o koutou e kawe ana mā te reo—ā koutou kupu, tō manawataki, tō kaha ki te whakamarie me te whakamārama. Ko ētahi o koutou e kawe ana mā te auahatanga—ngā whakaahua, ngā waiata, ngā mahi toi, te hanga, te hoahoa. Ko ētahi o koutou e kawe ana mā te kaiārahi—te kohikohi i te tangata, te ārahi i ngā kaupapa, te kawe mai i te tikanga me te atawhai ki te pōrearea. Ko ētahi o koutou e kawe ana mā te whakaora—te pupuri i te wāhi, te tuku marino, te tuku aroaro e whakahoki ana i ētahi atu ki a rātou anō. Ko ētahi o koutou e kawe ana mā te ratonga e āhua noa ana i te mata engari e whakarerekē ana i ngā oranga nā te mea he pono te aroha i roto.

Tohu Pono, Whakataurite, me te Pakeketanga o Roto me te Ngākau Nui

Kei roto i tō whare pukapuka ora tēnei reo misioni, pērā i te purapura. Kei roto ko te mahere mō te huarahi e tika ana kia neke koe, ehara mā te tārua i tētahi atu, ehara mā te mahi i te wairua o tētahi atu, engari mā te whakaatu i tō ake tohu. Koia te take e ngoikore ai koe i te whakataurite. Ka kukume te whakataurite i a koe i tō reo ki te whakatauira. Kāore te whare pukapuka e tuwhera mā te whakatauira. Ka tuwhera mā te pono. Nō reira, tukua koe kia hiahia ki tō ake tohu. Kia mōhio ki tāu mahi e whakaora ana i a koe i roto i te huarahi ma. Kia mōhio ki tāu e tuku ana e waiho ana i ētahi atu kia marino ake, kia mārama ake, kia tumanako ake, kia kaha ake. Kia mōhio ki tā tō ngākau e hokihoki ana ki a ia anō, ahakoa e ngana ana te hinengaro ki te whakatenatena i a koe he mea koretake. He maha ngā wā ka kōrero te whare pukapuka mā te hiahia tonu, te karanga tonu, te tohe tonu, nā te mea e ngana ana ki te ārahi i a koe ki tō whakaaturanga tūturu. I a tēnei e whanake ana, ka tīmata hoki koe ki te kite he aha i tae mai ai te wā o te whakatenatena holographic i te wā kotahi e whakahohehia ana te whare pukapuka ora. Ehara i te mea tūpono noa. Kei te whakangungua te tangata ki te whakanui i te pono o roto i te mahi o waho. Kei te whakangungua koe kia noho hei tangata ka taea te tū i roto i te ao o ngā mānukanuka whakahihiri, me te mōhio tonu ki te mea pono. He pakeketanga tēnei. He whakapakaritanga tēnei o te māramatanga. Koinei te whānautanga o tētahi momo tangata hou—tētahi kāore e hiahia ki te whakaae kia mōhio, tētahi kāore e hiahia ki te whakaae kia ora i te pono, tētahi kāore e hiahia ki te mano kia maia. He hononga hohonu tēnei pakeketanga ki te ngākau mahaki. Ehara te ngākau mahaki i te ūkui i a ia anō. Ko te ngākau mahaki ko te aroha ki te pono i runga ake i te aroha ki te tika. Ina nui atu tō aroha ki te pono i tō aroha ki te tika, ka tino uaua ki te whakapohehe i a koe, nā te mea kāore koe e hiahia ki tētahi kōrero hei tiaki i tō tuakiri. Kāore koe e hiahia ki tētahi kōrero hei whakaatu i tō uara. Ka taea e koe te whakahou i tō tirohanga me te kore whakama. Ka taea e koe te ako me te kore e hinga. Ka taea e koe te kī, "I hē ahau," ā, ka noho ora tonu. Koinei te pakeketanga o roto, ā, ko te pakeketanga o roto he whakangungu rakau i hangaia ki te māramatanga.

Te Arataki me te Whakaohooho me te Māramatanga o Roto o te Pono

Nā, tētahi atu huarahi e tiaki ai tēnei whare pukapuka ora i a koe: e ako ana i a koe te rerekētanga i waenga i te ārahi me te whakaohooho. He rite te whakaohooho ki te titi. He rite te ārahi ki te taunga. He maha ngā wā e hiahiatia ana e te whakaohooho he whakaohooho kia mau tonu ai. He maha ngā wā ka ārahi koe e te ārahi ki tētahi mahi māmā, kātahi ka karanga i a koe kia hoki ki te ata noho. Ka taea e te whakaohooho te mea kia ora koe mō tētahi wā poto, ā, i muri iho ka noho kau. Ka taea e te ārahi te mea ngawari i te tīmatanga, ā, i muri iho ka whāngai. I a koe e ako ana i tēnei rerekētanga, ka mutu tō whakaaro he mea nui te kaha, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te noho mai i tētahi mātauranga hohonu ake. Nā te mea kei te kōrero tātou hei Pleiadian, ka kīia e tātou i roto i tō tātou ake tere: kia ara ake i tua atu i ngā whakaaro pohehe o te whakaaro me te āhua, ehara i te mea mā te whakakore i te ao, engari mā te mahara ko te ao he mea kia tūtaki mai i roto ki waho, mai i te māramatanga i roto i a koe kāore e whakawhirinaki ki ngā āhuatanga kia noho. Ina okioki koe i roto i taua māramatanga o roto, ahakoa mō ētahi meneti i ia wā, ka tīmata koe ki te mōhio ki te reo pono i roto i a koe—te reo kāore e whakatoi, te reo kāore e whakawai, te reo kāore e tono kia mahi, te reo e karanga ana i a koe ki te pono me te ngawari me te kaha.

Te Mana Motuhake, te Aro ki te Moni Tapu, me te Whakaaetanga i roto i te Mahi

Te Mana Motuhake hei Whakaaetanga Tonu me te Moni Aro Tapu

Ā, i te mea ka māmā ake te uru atu ki te whare pukapuka ora, ka ārahi noa koe ki te pūtake e whai ake nei ka kōrerohia e tātou, nā te mea ka tūturu te maumahara ina whakamahia anake, ā, ka kaha te pono o roto ina hangaia e ia te āhua o tō whakaae, te āhua o tō whiriwhiri, te āhua o tō kōrero, te āhua o tō tohatoha, me te āhua o tō tiaki i tō aro hei moni tapu—nō reira ka neke tātou inaianei ki te mana motuhake i roto i te mahi, ki te toi ora o te whakaae, te akuaku o te aro, me te hokinga mai o te mana o roto hei huarahi o ia rā e haere ai koe i tō wātaka i whiriwhiria. Ehara te mana motuhake i te rapunga whakaaro e tangohia ana e koe. He mahi whakaae tonu. Ko te āhua o tō whakatau he aha te mea e uru ana ki a koe, he aha te mea e hanga ana i a koe, he aha te mea e whakanuia ana i roto i a koe, ā, he aha te mea e mutu ana i a koe nā te mea kāore koe e pai kia noho hei kaikawe. I tēnei wā, he moni tapu te aro. Kua whakangungua te nuinga o te tangata ki te whakapau i te aro me te mea kāore he mutunga, me te mea kāore he utu, me te mea he "wā e haere ana" noa iho. Heoi, ko te aro he kaha ora e neke ana. Ko te mea e arohia ana e koe ka tipu i roto i tō ao o roto, ā, ko te mea e tipu ana i roto i tō ao o roto ka tīmata te hanga i tō wheako o waho. Koia te take ehara i te tikanga uaua te ako wairua māmā rawa atu i nāianei; he whakapaunga whakaaro nui. Ko te ako tēnei ki te whakatakoto i tō aro ki te wāhi e mahi ana i te ora, me te tango atu i tō aro mai i ngā mea e mimiti ana i tō māramatanga me te kore e tuku uara pono. Nō reira, tīmata ki tēnei: ​​whakaarohia te aro hei moni ka taea e koe te manaaki, te haumi, me te tiaki. Ina hiahiatia he āwangawanga mō tētahi kōrero, mutu, ka pātai he aha tāna e hoko mai ana i a koe. Ki te hiahia tētahi kōrero kia riri koe kia mau tonu ai tō aro, kei te utu koe me tō rangimārie. Ki te hiahia tētahi kaupapa kia wehi koe kia mau tonu ai tō pono, kei te utu koe me tō whakawhirinaki ki te ora. Ki te hiahia tētahi hapori kia kino koe kia noho tahi ai, kei te utu koe me tō ngākau. Ehara te ara teitei i te ara kāore he wero e puta; he ara e mutu ai tō utu mō te wero me tō wairua. Nō reira, ka tīmata te mana motuhake me te mahi ngāwari o te whakaae. Ehara i te mea ko tāu mahi anake te whakaae; engari ko tāu e tuku ana kia hanga tō āhua. He tokomaha o koutou kua rongo i tēnei i ngā wā noa. Ka haere koe ki roto i tētahi rūma, ā, ka nui te haruru o tētahi, ā, ka rongo koe i tō ake kaha e tīmata ana te neke. Ka whakatuwhera koe i tētahi taputapu, ā, ka rere mai he rerenga whakaaro ki a koe, ā, ka rongo koe i tō ake māramatanga e tīmata ana te pōuri. Ka uru atu koe ki tētahi kōrero e aro nui ana ki te mahi, kaua ki te hononga, ā, ka rongo koe kei te whaiti haere koe. He wā whakaae ēnei. Ka taea e koe te tuku i te nekehanga, ka taea rānei e koe te noho pūmau ki tō ake mana o roto, me te whiriwhiri me pēhea koe e whakautu ai.

Te Aroha me ngā Rohe me te Whakakore i te Hononga ki te Whakapohehe

Ā, koinei te wāhi e hoki mai ai tō mana i roto i te āhua tino whaihua: ka taea e koe te ako ki te whakakore i te hononga ki te whakapohehe me te kore e whawhai ki a ia. Ka taea e koe te kite i te mōunu me te kore e ngau. Ka taea e koe te mōhio ki te matau me te kore e maka ki roto i tō waha. Ka taea e koe te manaaki i tētahi, engari ka whakakore tonu i tā rātou tono kia uru atu ki roto i tā rātou awha. Ehara tēnei i te makariri. He aroha me ngā rohe tēnei. He atawhai me te kaha tēnei. Koinei te pakeketanga e āhei ai koe ki te noho tuwhera te ngākau me te kore e kumea ki roto i ia ia e haere ana i roto i te mara whānui.

Te Ārai i te Akuaku, Ngā Auau o te Horomanga, me te Whakaroa i tō Tiritiri

Ināianei ka kōrero tātou mō te akuaku o te aro, nā te mea ehara te akuaku i te mea ataahua, engari mā te akuaku ka tiaki te hauora, ā, he pono anō hoki te taha wairua. Tērā ētahi tikanga māmā ka tere te whakau i tō ao o roto mēnā ka mahi tonu koe i aua mea. Tuatahi, waihangahia he manawataki o te whakauru. He rerekētanga i waenga i te whiwhi mōhiohio i roto i tētahi matapihi kua whiriwhiria me te werohia tonutia e ngā mōhiohio i te rā katoa. Ina whiriwhiria e koe tētahi matapihi—ata, ahiahi rānei—kei reira koe e whiwhi ai i ngā whakahoutanga, ka hoki mai anō tō whakaaro he kaituhi koe. Ina tukua e koe te aukati tonu, ka tīmata koe ki te noho hei mīhini tauhohe. Kōwhiria ō matapihi, ā, tiakina. Me whai wāhi tō ao o roto. Ko te wāhi te wāhi e rangona ai te pono. Tuarua, whakaroahia tō tiritiri. I tēnei wā, ka kiia te tiritiri he pai, engari he nui te tiritiri he whakanui noa iho me te kore whakaaro nui. I mua i tō tiritiri i tētahi mea, pātaihia kia whā ngā pātai mārama: he pono, he mea tika, he wā tika, ā, ka mahi i te aroha. Mēnā ka rahua tētahi o ēnei, tukua kia mate tahi me koe. Koinei tētahi o ngā koha nui rawa atu ka taea e koe te tuku ki te rōpū. He maha ngā hapa ka memeha mēnā he iti ake te hunga e whakahoki ana i aua mea, ahakoa i roto i te riri.

Te Whakatikatika i te Kōrero, te Mana Motuhake o te Whakaaro, me te Whakamahinga Whakaaroaro o te Mana o Waho

Tuatoru, whakatikatika i tō kōrero. Kāore ngā kupu i te harakore. Ka whakatō ngā kupu i ngā purapura. Ka noho ō kupu noa hei tohutohu huna māu. Ina kōrero koe me te mate noa, ka whakangungu koe i tō hinengaro ki te tumanako ki te mate. Ina kōrero koe me te whakahawea noa, ka whakangungu koe i tō ngākau ki te whakapakeke. Ina kōrero koe me te whakahawea noa, ka whakangungu koe i tō wairua ki te hoki whakamuri. I roto i te ara Minayah kua tukuna e mātou i mua: he taputapu auaha te reo, ā, i tēnei wā, he tokotoko te reo. Kōrerohia me te mea e mārama ana koe ki te mana o tāu e mahi nei. Kōwhiria ngā kupu e hanga ana i te māramatanga me te atawhai. Kōwhiria ngā kupu e tohu ana ki te ora. Muri iho, kia mahara ehara i te mea nāu katoa ngā whakaaro. He tokomaha e whakapoauau ana i te haruru hinengaro me te tuakiri. Heoi, ka taea e koe te ako ki te tirotiro i te whakaaro me te kore e whakarongo ki te whakaaro. Ina tae mai he whakaaro e kukume ana i a koe ki te tautohetohe, ki te wehi, ki te whakaharatau, ki te kawa, kāore koe e hiahiatia kia whai i a ia. Ka taea e koe te mātakitaki, te manaaki, me te tuku. Koinei te mana motuhake i te taumata o roto. Ko te hokinga mai o te torona ki te rangatira tika: tō mōhiotanga. Ināianei, kei roto hoki i te mana motuhake te whanaungatanga whakaaro nui ki te mana o waho. He tokomaha o koutou kua whakangungua, i roto i ngā huarahi ngawari, ki te tuku i ō koutou mōhiotanga ki waho. E rapu ana koutou i ngā tohunga hei kōrero ki a koutou he aha ngā mea hei whakapono mā koutou, i ngā kaiwhakatairanga hei kōrero ki a koutou he aha ngā mea hei kare ā-roto mā koutou, i ngā kaiārahi hei kōrero ki a koutou ko wai hei kino mā koutou, i ngā kaupapa hei kōrero ki a koutou ko wai koutou. Heoi, ko te whare pukapuka ora i roto i a koutou me kōrero tuatahi. Ae, ka taea e ngā reo o waho te āwhina, engari mēnā ka mahi rātou i tō pono o roto, kaua e whakakapi.

Ngā Rohe Ariki, Ngā Kūaha Tapu, Me Te Urupare Whakaaro Nui

Te Tū Tapu, te Kōwhiringa Ma, me ngā Kūaha Ora o te Aroha

Nō reira, kia waiho tēnei hei tūnga hou māu: whiwhi, whakamātautau, pupuri i te mea e whāngai ana, tukuna te mea kāore. Kaua e riri, kaua e tawai, kaua e rangatira - engari me te whiriwhiri ma. Kāore he take o te tangata rangatira ki te tautohetohe ki te mea kāore i whiriwhiria e rātou. Kāore noa iho rātou e whiriwhiri. Pēnei, ka tapu ngā rohe. He tokomaha e whakaaro ana he taiepa ngā rohe. Ehara ngā rohe pono i te taiepa; he kūaha. He aroha te kūaha. He mātau te kūaha. Ka whakaaetia e te kūaha te mea e whāngai ana, ka whakakorehia te mea e mimiti ana. Mena kua noho koe me te mea me uru katoa ki roto i a koe - ia whakaaro, ia raruraru, ia tono kare ā-roto mai i ētahi atu - kātahi ka ahua tauhou te rangatiratanga i te tuatahi. Heoi, ka tere tonu tō ako he kūaha e tiaki ana i te aroha. He kūaha e tiaki ana i te pono. He kūaha e tiaki ana i tō kaha ki te mahi. Ā, koinei tētahi mea e hiahia ana mātou kia tino rongo koe: ehara koe i konei hei wāhi maka kare ā-roto mō te katoa. Ehara te aroha i te tikanga kia waipuketia koe. Ehara te mahi i te tikanga kia patua tō pumau o roto mō te awha o tētahi atu. Ehara te ara teitei i te muku i a koe anō. Ko te ara teitei ko te aroha e whakaatuhia ana mā te whakaaro nui. Nō reira, kia māia, kia ngawari. "E rongo ana ahau i a koe." "E aro ana ahau." "Kāore au e wātea ana mō tēnei kōrero i roto i tēnei reo." "E pai ana ahau ki te kōrero ina taea e tāua te kōrero whakaute." "Kei te whiriwhiri ahau kia mawehe atu i tēnei kaupapa i nāianei." He rerenga kōrero rangatira ēnei. He aroha, he mārama hoki. Ka mutu te toto o te kaha me te kore e hiahiatia he pakanga.

Te Whakamahinga Hinengaro, Ngā Whakaurunga, Me Te Whakahaere o te Whakamutu Tapu

Nā, me kōrero tātou mō te kai i tua atu i ngā mōhiohio, nā te mea ko te mana motuhake i roto i te mahi e pā ana ki ngā whakaurunga katoa—te kai, te whakangahau, ngā kōrero, ngā taiao, ngā tikanga, me ngā whakaaetanga ngawari e whakahokia tonutia ana e koe. He auau kei ia whakaurunga. Ka waiho e ia whakaurunga he tohu. Ka whakapakari ia whakaurunga i tō whakaritenga, ka whakapōuri rānei. Koinei te take ka kaha ake te ngāwari. Ina whakaitihia e koe ngā whakaurunga koretake, ka whakahokia mai e koe tō tohu o roto. Ina mutu tō whakakī i a koe ki te whakaohooho mutunga kore, ka tīmata koe ki te whakarongo ki tāu e hiahia ana. Ina whakaitihia e koe te pōrearea, ka mārama ake tō ake arataki. He tokomaha e rapu ana i ngā mahi matatau, engari ko te pūkenga māmā ko te tango i ngā mea e whakapōuri ana i tō pono. Kei reira anō te whakahaere o te okiokinga tapu i mua i te mahi. Ehara tēnei okiokinga i te whakaroa; he kaituhi. Koinei te wā ka hoki koe ki tō nohoanga o roto, ka whiriwhiri me pēhea koe e neke ai. I roto i te whare tapere o waho, ka karakiahia te hihiri. I te ara teitei ake, ka whakahonoretia te wā. Kāore te tangata rangatira e tere ki te urupare. Ka urupare te tangata rangatira. Nō reira whakawhanakehia te urupare. He ma te urupare. Ka inehia te urupare. Ka arahina te urupare. He haruru te urupare, he mangere, he ngāwari te arahi. Ina tae mai he whakaohooho, me waiho tō nekehanga tuatahi ki roto: "Kei hea ahau e kōrero ana?" "He aha tāku e hiahia ana ki te waihanga mā aku kupu?" "Ka whakawhānui ake rānei tēnei mahi i te aroha, ka whakanui ake rānei i te pakanga?" He māmā noa iho te āhua o ēnei pātai, engari he kuaha kaha. Ka ārai i tō oranga kei tahaetia e ngā tuhinga o waho.

Te Tuku i te Mahi Hē, te Whakahē, me te Taumaha o te Ao

Nā, ka aro atu tātou ki tētahi o ngā mahanga tino ngaro o tō ao: ko te whakapono me kawe e koe te taumaha o te ao i roto i tō hinengaro kia noho hei tangata pai. He maha ngā wairua tairongo kua whakahaeretia e te aroha, e te hinengaro, e te hiahia ki te āwhina. Ka whakama rātou mēnā kāore rātou e mōhio tonu ki ia raruraru. Ka whakaaro rātou he hiahia whaiaro mēnā kāore rātou e riri tonu. Ka whakaaro rātou he kore kawenga mēnā kāore rātou e whakahou tonu i a rātou anō ki ngā wehi hou. Ehara tēnei i te pai. He whakapōturi tēnei o te pai. Ko te pai tūturu ko te noho i roto i te huarahi e whakanui ake ai i te pai i te ao. Ko te mahi pono ko te mahi i ngā wāhi ka taea e koe te mahi, te hoatu i ngā wāhi ka taea e koe te hoatu, te aroha i ngā wāhi ka taea e koe te aroha, kātahi ka hoki ki tō tūnga o roto kia kore ai koe e pau. Kāore te pau e āwhina i te ao. Mā te pau ka iti ake tō kaha ki te tuku i tetahi mea tūturu. Nō reira, tukua te kawenga teka o te hiahia nui. Kāore e hiahiatia. Ehara i te mea rangatira. He mimiti noa iho. Ka kī pēnei mātou: kāore tō aroaro e whakapai ake i te mataku, ā, kāore tō mana e whakapai ake i te whakaohooho. Kāore te ao e hiahia ana ki ngā hinengaro porangi. Me nui ake ngā ngākau oho ake o te ao e noho ana hei kaihanga rangatira.

Te Pāhotanga Hinengaro, te Kaiārahi Mārie, me te Whakapūmau i tō Marae

Ko te mana motuhake i roto i te mahi he tikanga anō hoki ki te tango i te kawenga mō ngā mea e pāhotia ana e koe i roto i te ngākau. He tokomaha te hunga e whakaaro ana he tūmataiti tō rātou āhua o roto. Ehara i te mea he tūmataiti katoa. Ka awe tō āhua i ngā rūma. Ka awe tō āhua i ngā kōrero. Ka awe tō āhua i ō whiringa. Ina whakangungu koe i a koe anō kia noho atawhai, kia mārama hoki, ka noho koe hei aroaro pumau me te kore e hiahia ki te kauwhau. He kaiārahi marino tēnei e whakarerekē ana i ngā oranga. Nō reira whiriwhiria ngā mahi hei pupuri i a koe kia mārama: kia iti ake ngā tautohetohe, kia iti ake ngā kōrero urupare, kia iti ake ngā porowhita o te aituā, kia iti ake ngā pakanga tuakiri. Kōwhiria kia nui ake te pono, kia nui ake te atawhai, kia nui ake te noho pono, kia nui ake te mahi ma.

He Whakatā Tapu i mua i te Kōrero me te Hīkoi He Rārangi Wā i Whiriwhiria

Hei whakamutunga, me kōrero anō tātou mō te okiokinga tapu i mua i te kōrero, nā te mea i tēnei wā, ka tere te haere o te kōrero, ā, ko te mea ka tere te haere ka nui haere. I mua i tō kōrero, pātai atu: he mea tika tēnei. Pātai atu: he pēnei te momo. Pātai atu: he pono tēnei. Pātai atu: nōku tēnei hei kōrero. Pātai atu: koinei te wā. Ehara tēnei i te aukati; he whakaaro nui. Ko te whakakorenga tēnei ki te ruirui i tō kaha ki te ao me te kore he kaupapa. Ko te whakatau kia waiho ō kupu hei manaakitanga, kaua hei patu. Ā, i a koe e ora tonu ana i tēnei rangatiratanga, ka kitea e koe ka tīmata tō wātaka ki te kore e rite ki te papa pakanga, engari ki te ara kua whiriwhiria. Ka tīmata koe ki te whakaaro kāore koe e tōia ana e te awha. Kei te ora koe i te mana o roto. Kei te kore koe e taea te hoko e te wehi. Kei te kore koe e aro ki te mahi e hiahia ana ki te utu i tō aro. Kei te huri koe hei āe mārire ki te ora tonu. Ā, e ngā ngākau aroha, ka ārahi noa atu tēnā ki te wāhanga whakamutunga ka hangaia e tātou i muri mai: te tūranga o te Kaiārahi o te Ao Hou—me pēhea te kōrero i roto i te whakanuinga me te kore e whāngai i te whare tapere, me pēhea te pupuri i te māramatanga me te kore e kauwhau, me pēhea te kawe mai i te māramatanga me te kore e huri hei hiranga, me pēhea hoki te noho hei pōwhiri ora mō ētahi atu kua rite ki te maumahara.

Ara o te Ao Hou - Ngā Ua, te Kaiārahi, me te Pōwhiri Whakatinana

Te Kawenga Mārie, Te Tuku i te Tautohe, Me Te Kōwhiri i te Māramatanga i te Pakanga

Nā, ka kōrero mātou ki te hunga o koutou e rongo ana i te kawenga puku o te noho hei kaihoroi ara i tēnei wā, ehara i te mea hei taitara hei mau, ehara i te mea hei tohu hei whakaatu, engari hei whakaaturanga tūturu o tō āhua ina whiriwhiria e koe te aroha hei kāinga o roto, ā, ka ora tonu mai i taua mea. Ehara tēnei pou whakamutunga i te "whakamutunga" nā te mea he iti rawa; he whakamutunga nā te mea ka kohia e ia ngā mea katoa kua tohaina e tātou, ā, ka hurihia hei tuku ora mā tō aroaro, tō reo, ō whiringa, tō pehi, me tō maia. Kāore te kaihoroi ara e tautuhia e te maha o ngā meka ka taea e rātou te whakahua, e te maha rānei o ngā matapae ka taea e rātou te hanga. Ka tautuhia e te kounga o tō rātou āhua ina haruru te ao. Ka ngana tonu te whare tapere o waho ki te kukume i a koe ki te mahi - ki te akiaki, ki te riri, ki ngā pakanga tuakiri, ki te hiranga matatika - nā te mea he ngāwari ake te arahi i te tangata e pukumahi ana ki te whakamatau i a ia anō i te tangata e pono noa ana. Ko te ara puku o te kaiārahi ināianei ko te whakakore i te hiahia ki te "toa" i te wā, engari ko te noho hei pōwhiri pumau ki tētahi mea teitei ake. Koinei te take ko te kaupapa tuatahi o te kaihoroi ara ko te tuku i te waranga ki te tautohetohe. He wāhi kei reira mō te pono e kōrerotia ana i roto i te māramatanga, āe, engari he tokomaha e whakapoauau ana i te māramatanga me te whawhai. Ka hangaia e te whawhai ngā toa me ngā hinganga; ka hangaia e te māramatanga ngā whakatuwheratanga. Ka whakapakeketia ngā ngākau e te whawhai; ka homai e te māramatanga te māramatanga. Ka whāngai te whawhai i te whare tapere; ka āwhina te māramatanga i ētahi atu kia puta atu i roto. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe kei te whakarite koe ki te kōrero hei hinga, hei whakaiti, hei whakahaere rānei, kati. Kāore taua hihiri i ahu mai i tō whare pukapuka ora. I ahu mai i tētahi tauira tawhito e whakataurite ana i te kaha ki te kaha. Ko te kaha tūturu i tēnei wā ko te kaha ki te kōrero i te pono me te kore e kino, te kaha ki te pupuri i ngā rohe pakari me te kore e mātao, te kaha ki te tū i roto i te aroha me te kore e kuware. I roto i ngā kupu mahi, ko te tikanga kāore koe e hiahia ki te whai i ngā hapa katoa hei whakatika. Kī tonu te ao i ngā hapa, ā, ki te whakaarohia e koe ngā hapa katoa hei mahi māu, ka ngenge koe, ka marara. Ka whiriwhiria e rātou tā rātou arotahi. Ka ako te tangata e kaukau ana ki te kite i te wāhi e whai hua ai tōna reo, ā, ka kōrero i te wā e taea ai e te kōrero te mahi, ā, ka noho puku i te wā e pai ake ai te noho puku. Ka taea e te noho puku te noho hei kaupapa tapu ina whiriwhiria mai i te mana o roto, kaua i te wehi.

Te Whakamāori i te Wheako Ora, ngā Wehewehenga Ma, me te Whakahoki i ētahi atu ki a rātou anō

He whakamatautauranga anō hoki, inā koa i roto i ngā ngākau kua ara ake, kia kauwhau. He maha ngā wā ka puta mai te kauwhau i te hiahia pono ki te āwhina, engari ka taea e ia te kawe mārire i te whakaaro kei muri i a koe ētahi atu, ā, me tōia whakamua. Ka hangaia e taua whakaaro te tawhiti. Ka hangaia he kaupapa whakarōpū. Ka hangaia he ātete. Kāore te tangata e tuwhera ana ina whakahengia rātou, ahakoa he ātaahua te whakatau. Ka tuwhera rātou ina whakautehia rātou. Ka tuwhera rātou ina kitea rātou. Ka tuwhera rātou ina kite rātou ehara tō pono i te patu e aro ana ki a rātou, engari he mārama e puritia ana i roto i ō ringaringa. Nō reira, kia noho hei kaiwhakamāori i te wheako, kaua hei kaikorero i ngā ariā. Kōrero ki ngā mea e ora ana te tangata: te ngenge, te pōhēhē, te pouri, te riri, te hiahia, te whakaaro ki te huri tere o ngā mea, te whakaaro kei te tōia i waenga i ngā ao. Ina kōrero koe ki te wheako ora me te ngawari me te mārama, ka hangaia e koe te haumaru. Ka taea e te haumaru te tuwhera. Ka taea e te tuwhera te maumahara. He ara kaha ake tēnei i te akiaki i te tangata ki ngā whakatau kāore anō rātou kia rite ki te noho.

Ka ako hoki te tangata e horoi ana i te ara ki te tuku i ngā rerekētanga ma, nā te mea ka wetekina te hinengaro e ngā rerekētanga ma me te kore e mura te whakapehapeha. Ka taea e koe te āwhina i ētahi atu mā te whakahua i te rerekētanga i waenga i ngā mōhiohio me ngā whakamārama. Ka taea e koe te āwhina mā te whakahua i te rerekētanga i waenga i te kare ā-roto me te meka. Ka taea e koe te āwhina mā te whakahua i te rerekētanga i waenga i te māramatanga me te hiahia nui. Ka taea e koe te āwhina mā te whakahua i te rerekētanga i waenga i te ārahi me te whakaohooho. Kāore ēnei rerekētanga e hiahia ana ki te whakaari. Ka whakahokia mai he kōwhiringa. Ā, ko te whakahoki mai i te kōwhiringa tētahi o ngā taonga nui rawa atu ka taea e koe te tuku ki tētahi ao kua whakaritea kia tauhohe. I a koe e mahi ana i tēnei, kia mahara kāore koe i konei ki te waihanga i tētahi hunga e whai ana. Kei konei koe ki te whakatipu i te herekoretanga. Ka taea e te hunga e whai ana te noho hei whare herehere anō mēnā e hiahia ana ki te pono ki a koe, kaua ki te pono. Nō reira, kōrerohia i roto i te huarahi e whakahoki ai i te tangata ki a rātou anō. Kōrerohia i roto i te huarahi e whakapakari ana i tō rātou mana o roto. Kōrerohia i roto i te huarahi e kī ana, me te kore e hiahia ki te kī tika, "Ka taea e koe te mōhio. Ka taea e koe te whiriwhiri. Ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki ki te whare pukapuka ora i roto i a koe." Ina mahi koe i tēnei, kei te mahi koe ki te Ao Hou, nā te mea i hangaia te Ao Hou e ngā mea rangatira, ehara i te mea nā te mano e tuku ana i ō rātou mōhiotanga ki waho.

Te Tiaki i ngā Hinengaro, te Kōrero mā te Whakakaha, me te Karere hei Rongoā

Tērā tētahi atu kaupapa ako he ngawari engari he mea nui: te tiaki i ngā kare ā-roto. He tokomaha te hunga kāore e mōhio kei te whakapāhotia e rātou tō rātou āhua o roto. Ki tā rātou whakaaro he mea tūmataiti tō rātou whakaohooho. Kāore. Ka whakarerekē i te āhua o te rūma. Ka hanga i te reo o te kōrero. Ka awe i te mara io o tō rātou whānau. Ka mōhio te tangata e horoi ana i te kare ā-roto ki tēnei, ā, ka tango i te kawenga mō ngā mea e mauria ana e rātou ki ngā wāhi. Ehara tēnei i te tikanga o te pehi i te kare ā-roto. Ko te tikanga kia pono, kia pakeke hoki te kare ā-roto kia kore ai e maringi noa ki ētahi atu hei paitini, hei akiaki rānei. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe kei te tauhohe koe, kaua e whakahe i a koe anō. Hoki noa mai. Hoki ki tō nohoanga o roto. Hoki ki te pono. Hoki ki te whiriwhiri i te aroha. Ehara tēnei i te tangata e kore e wiri; he tangata e mōhio ana ki te hoki wawe, me te kore whakaari, me te kore whakaeke i a ia anō, me te kore e huri i te wiri hei tuakiri. Ko te hokinga tere he momo pūkenga. Ināianei ka kōrero tātou mō te toi o te kōrero mā te whakanui me te kore e whāngai i te whare tapere. E toru ngā nekehanga o tēnei toi: te kaiwhakaatu, te whakaingoa, me te tuku. Tuatahi, te kaiwhakaatu. Ko te tikanga o te kaiwhakaatu kei te whakaae koe ki ngā mea e tupu ana me te kore whakanui, me te kore whakakore. Kāore koe e whakaari ana kei te pai ngā mea katoa i te wā e raru ana te tangata. Kāore hoki koe e whakanui i te pakanga ki te aituā. Ka pupuri koe i te mooni me ō ringaringa pumau. Tuarua, te whakaingoa. He kaha te whakaingoa ina ma. Ka whakaingoa koe i te maunu engari kāore e waiho hei maunu. Ka whakaingoa koe i te whakahaere o te akiaki engari kāore e huri hei akiaki. Ka whakaingoa koe i te tauira o ngā porowhita riri engari kāore e hono atu. Ka whakaingoa koe i te mānukanuka o te "kōwhiri i tētahi taha" engari kāore e huri hei taha hou. Ka werohia e te whakaingoa ma ngā karakia. Tuatoru, te tuku. Ko te tuku te piriti. Ka tuku koe i tētahi mahi māmā. Ka tuku koe i tētahi whakarerekētanga. Ka tuku koe i tētahi pātai. Ka tuku koe i tētahi ara hei hoki ki te mana o roto. Ka tuku koe i tētahi taahiraa e whai ake nei ka taea e te tangata te mahi. He maha ngā karere e rahua ana nā te mea ka tātarihia me te kore e tuku rongoā. Ka ako te tangata e horoi ana i te huarahi ki te waiho i te tangata kia whai mana, kaua e whai mōhio noa iho.

Koinei te wāhi e huri ai tō reo hei momo hangarau whakaora. Ehara i te mea nā te mea e kī ana koe he tino pai koe, engari nā te mea e kōrero ana koe i runga i te pono. E kōrero ana koe i runga i te tūnga ora. E kōrero ana koe i tētahi wāhi kāore e hiahia ki te toa. Ā, e rongo ana te tangata i tēnā. E rongo ana rātou ina kōrero tetahi hei whakaaturanga. E rongo ana hoki rātou ina kōrero tetahi hei tuku - ina kawe ngā kupu i te mahana, te pumau, me te pono kāore e akiaki. Ko tētahi atu mea matua inaianei ko te whakaako i te māramatanga me te kore paranoia. I tēnei wā holographic, ka huri ētahi ki te whakapae i ngā mea katoa. Ka kī rātou he rūpahu ngā mea katoa, he whakaari ngā mea katoa, he whakarerekētanga ngā mea katoa, ā, ka taea e tēnei tū te noho hei whare herehere mōna ake, nā te mea ka waiho rātou kia kore e taea te whakawhirinaki ki tetahi mea, kia kore e taea te okioki, kia kore e taea te whiwhi i te pai. Kāore te tangata e horoi ana i te ara e whakatenatena ana i te paranoia. Ko rātou te tangata e whakatenatena ana i te māramatanga me te ngākau mahaki. E mea ana te māramatanga, "Tukua ahau kia whakamana. Tukua ahau kia rongo i te hua. Tukua ahau kia tatari. Tukua ahau kia whiriwhiri." E mea ana te paranoia, "Kāore he mea pono. Kei te teka te katoa." Mā te māramatanga ka tuwhera te ngākau, ka mārama te hinengaro. Ka kati te paranoia i te ngākau, ka whakapakeke i te hinengaro. Nō reira, kōrerohia i roto i te huarahi e mau tonu ai te ngākau, me te whakakoi i te tirohanga. Ka noho anō te ara-whakamārama hei tauira mō te aukati. Ehara te aukati i te noho puku. Ko te aukati he whiriwhiri kia kaua e whakanuia te whakapohehe. Ko te aukati he whakakahore ki te tohatoha i ngā ataata whakamataku katoa. Ko te aukati he whakakahore ki te tuku kōrero mō ngā whakaohooho katoa. Ko te aukati he whakakahore kia tukuna te whare tapere o waho kia whakahau i tō āhua o roto. Ka rite te ahua o tēnei aukati ki te mea tino nui i roto i te ahurea e karakia ana ki te whai wāhi tonu, engari ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te rārangi wā teitei ake: kāore koe e ngāwari ki te maunu. Ā, nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou e hanga ihirangi ana, e kōrero ana i te aroaro o te iwi, e ārahi ana rānei i ngā hapori, ka whakamahia tēnei e mātou: hangaia tō karere hei rongoā, kaua hei adrenaline. Ka hokona te adrenaline i te wā poto. Ka whakaora te rongoā i te wā roa. Ka pupuri te adrenaline i te iwi kia hoki mai mō te patunga e whai ake nei. Ka āwhina te rongoā i a rātou ki te mahara ki tō rātou mana me te hikoi atu kia kaha ake. Mena he pono koe ki te Ao Hou, whiriwhiria te rongoā. Ko te tikanga o tēnei ko te whiriwhiri i te reo e whakatuwhera ana, kaua ki te reo e whara ana. Ko te tikanga o tēnei ko te karo i te whakamatautauranga ki te whakaahua i ngā mea katoa hei aituā kia arohia ai. Ko te tikanga o tēnei ko te kōrero i te pono me te reo e whakahoki mai ana i te mana. Ko tōna tikanga he karanga i te tangata ki te kawe i ngā kawenga me te kore e whakama i a rātou. Ko tōna tikanga he karanga i te tangata kia anga whakamua me te kore e whakaiti i a rātou.

Te Whakapūmau i ngā Rūma, Te Pōwhiri Kaua e Āki, Me te Noho Hei Pōwhiri o te Aroha

Ināianei, he ratonga hohonu ake tā te tangata kaukau e mahi ana mā te noho noa: te whakau i ngā rūma. Ka puta ngā wā i roto i tō whānau, i ō hoa, i tō wāhi mahi, i tō hapori, ka ara ake te mura o te ahi—te wehi, te riri, te pōhēhē, te wehewehe—ā, ko te mahi rangatira māmā ko te noho atawhai me te mārama i taua wā. Ehara i te mea mā te pehi i tō āhua tangata, engari mā te whiriwhiri i tō kāinga noho o roto, me te kōrero mai i taua wā. Ka huri te tangata pumau i te rūma. Ka tukuna e te tangata pumau te whakaaetanga ki ētahi atu kia marino. Ka noho te tangata pumau hei whakamahara ora e taea ana tētahi atu huarahi. Tērā pea ka whakaitihia e koe tēnei nā te mea he āhua noa iho. Heoi, koinei te horapa o te rārangi wā teitei ake: mā roto i ngā wā noa i ora ai i roto i te pono whakaharahara.

Kei reira anō te tūranga o te tono, kaua e akiaki. Ina kite koe kua rite tetahi, tukuna he tatau. Tukuna he pātai hei whakahoki i a rātou ki a rātou anō. Tukuna he tirohanga hei whakangawari i tō rātou pupuri i te wehi. Tukuna he mahi māmā hei whakahoki i tō rātou kaha ki te whiriwhiri. Engari ki te kore tetahi e rite, kaua e whaia. Kaua e tautohetohe ki a rātou. Kaua e ngana ki te tōia rātou. He mea utu nui tō kaha. He mea utu nui tō aroha. Ko te tū whakaute nui ko te noho wātea me te kore e waiho hei kaupapa māu te tahuri. Ka tuwhera te tangata ina rite rātou ki te whakatuwhera. Ko tāu mahi he mārama, kaua e here. Hei kaihoroi ara, ka tūtaki anō koe ki ō ake whakamātautau o te pono. Ka ngana te ao o waho ki te whakawai i a koe ki te aro, ki te whakamoemiti, ki ngā akonga, ki te tuakiri hei "tangata e mōhio ana." He mahanga ngaro tēnei. Ka taea e te mātauranga te whakanui i te whakapehapeha. Ka taea e te reo wairua te noho hei kākahu. Ko te rongoā ko te aroha ki te pono, kaua ki te aroha ki te kitea. Hoki tonu ki tō ake whare pukapuka ora. Pātai tonu: kei te kōrero ahau kia whakamoemititia ahau, kei te kōrero rānei ahau kia mahi. Ina pupuri koe i taua pātai kia ora, ka noho ma tō reo. Ā, ka kōrero tātou mō te kupu whakaari e pupuri ana i ēnei mea katoa. Ehara i te mea tūpono te kaha e kitea ana e koe. Ko te putanga ake o ngā mea kāore e taea te haere whakamua. Ko te whakakitenga mai o ngā mea i whakawhirinaki ki te whai wāhi kore mohio. Ko te whakaaturanga mai o ngā mea i hunaia i te tirohanga whānui. I te tangohanga o te kaha o ngā mea ora mai i ngā whakaari kua whakaritea, ka ngana aua whakaari ki te whakanui ake i te haruru mō tētahi wā, nā te mea kei te ngaro te wahie. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te wehi i taua haruru. Me whakakore noa e koe te hononga ki a ia. Nō reira, kia mau ki tēnei tirohanga whānui: kei te ora koe i roto i tētahi whakakitenga. E rua ngā ao e wehe ana kia kitea ake ai te ao e ahu mai ana i te aroha, kia pai ake te noho, kia pumau, kia ataahua ake. Kaua tō mahi e whakamataku i a koe anō ki te tirohanga o waho; ko tō mahi he noho me te mea he pono te aroha, nā te mea he pono, ā, kia waiho tō oranga hei tohu. Koinei te wāhi e kohikohi ai tātou i ngā mea katoa i kōrerotia e tātou ki roto i tētahi tohutohu ma ka taea e koe te kawe i ia rā: kia noho hei pōwhiri. Kia noho hei marino i roto i te tupuhi. Kia noho hei māramatanga i roto i te haruru. Kia noho hei atawhai e kore e piko ki te ngoikore. Kia noho ko te pono, kāore e hiahiatia kia nanakia. Kia noho ko te aukati e kore e whakanui i te whakapohehe. Kia noho ko te reo e whakahoki ana i ētahi atu ki a rātou anō. Kia noho ko te mana o roto e kore e taea te hoko. Nā, i te mea kua oti i a tātou ēnei pou e ono, kua rite tātou ki te neke whakamua ki te whānui ake o tēnei tuku, me te whatu tahi i a rātou, me te kukume i ngā paparanga hohonu ake, me te tuku i te miro ora o te arataki kia neke i roto i ia pūwāhi i roto i te rere tonu, kia noho ai te mea kua tukuna e tātou hei anga hei karere kotahi e taea te whiwhi, te ora, me te whakatinana hei ara kotahi. E aroha ana mātou ki a koe, e aroha ana mātou ki a koe, e aroha ana mātou ki a koe. Me te aroha mutunga kore me ngā manaakitanga, ko Minayah ahau.

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