Te Paepae o Pēpuere o Siria, Te Hononga o te Ngākau me te Pupuri i te Māramatanga

Ngā mihi ki ngā ngākau whānau whetu me ngā kaha paepae o Pēpuere

Ngā mihi, e ngā hoa aroha, e ngā hoa mahi o te kaupapa o te Ao, e ngā ngākau whānau whetu i ako ki te hikoi i roto i ngā hu tangata me te kore e wareware ki te māramatanga o te whetu i runga i tō kiri. Ko Zorrian ahau o Sirius, e kōrero ana hei karere ehara i te mea he tūranga engari he whanaungatanga, ā, ka whakatata atu ahau ki a koutou i te huarahi māmā rawa e mōhiotia ana e tātou, mā te wāhi marino i roto i a koe kāore anō kia tinihangatia e te haruru, mā te wāhi mārama i roto i a koe e mōhio ana ki te pono ehara i te mea he ariā engari he kare ā-kāinga, he piko ngawari o roto, he āe ngawari e tae mai ana i mua i te whakarite a te hinengaro i ana tautohetohe. Ka huihui tātou ki a koutou i tēnei paepae o te tīmatanga o Pēpuere nā te mea ehara ngā paepae i te mea he tohu maramataka noa iho, he whakawhiti hihiko e kaha ake ai te kōwhiringa, e puta ai ngā hua nui i ngā whakaritenga iti, e puta ai he pānga ngaru nui i te mahi ngāwari o te hoki ki te ngākau i tua atu i tā tō whakaaro raina e matapae. Ā, ka taea e koe te rongo i tēnei, ahakoa kāore koe i whakamahi i taua kupu, nā te mea kua rite te āhua o te āhuarangi i ō rā ki te "mea kei te tata te hiranga o tētahi mea," me te mea kua piko te ora ki te taha tata atu, ā, kei te whakarongo ki tāu e mahi ai me tō aro. Mai i tō mātou taha, ka kite mātou ko te aro te moni tuatahi o te hanganga, ā, kua pērā tonu, heoi kua riro tō ao hei mākete e ngana ana ki te whakapau i a ia māu i mua i tō mōhio kei a koe. He pūnaha, he mata, he kōrero, he reo akiaki, he raruraru hangai, tae atu ki te akiaki wairua pai e taea ai te kukume i te aho kotahi i roto i a koe, te āhua iti e mea ana, "Me whai ahau i tēnei, me whakaoti e ahau tēnei, me noho tonu ahau ki mua i tēnei," ā, ka mea atu mātou ki a koe me te ngākau māhaki me te tika: kāore koe e kaha mā te whai i te mea e kukume ana i a koe, ka kaha koe mā te whiriwhiri i te mea e pupuri ana i a koe. Koia mātou e kōrero nei mō te pupuri i te māramatanga me te mea he mahi, nā te mea koia, ehara i te pepeha rotarota hei whakapaipai i tō tuakiri. Ko te pupuri i te māramatanga he ōritetanga. Ko te pupuri i te māramatanga he kore e pakaru i a koe ki te mano tauhohenga moroiti. Ko te pupuri i te māramatanga te toi o te noho ki te ao o waho, me te kore e whakauru i tō tinana ki roto i tana whakaari, nā te mea ehara te whakaari i te pono, he tauira rangi, ā, ehara koe i te rau e hiahiatia ana kia pupuhihia noa iho nā te mea kei te hau. Ko te tīmatanga o Pēpuere, ina koa, ka tae mai hei roopu pūngao whakamārama i runga i tō Whenua, ā, ka taea e koe te whakamārama i tēnā i roto i te reo ngaro mēnā e hiahia ana koe, ka taea rānei e koe te whakamārama i roto i te reo o te mahi tinana, ka taea rānei e koe te whakamārama i roto i te reo o te ture wairua, ā, e tohu ana ēnei katoa ki te tohutohu kotahi: kei te whakanui te mara i tāu e whakaharatau ana. Ki te whakaharatau koe i te manukanuka, ka rongo koe ka "tino pono" te manukanuka. Ki te whakaharatau koe i te riri, ka rongo koe kei te whakaatu te ao i te "tohu" ki a koe. Ki te whakaharatau koe i te hokinga marino ki te ngākau, ka kite koe ka ngāwari ake te uru atu o te ngākau, ka tere ake, ka rite ki te tatau ka taea e koe te hikoi i ngā wā katoa, ahakoa i waenganui o te haruru, ahakoa i waenganui o te rūma kīkī, ahakoa i waenganui o te kōrero uaua. Ehara tēnei i te makutu i roto i te tikanga tamariki. He whakangungu tēnei, ā, kua nui atu tō whakangungu i tō whakaaro.

Raraunga, Aro Marara me te Mana o te Wā o Nāianei

Ka menemene mārie mātou ina tono koe mō ngā "raraunga", nā te mea kei te noho koe i tētahi ao kua whakaakona kia whakawhirinaki ki ngā tau, kaua ki te mōhio, engari he hoa ataahua ngā tau ina tohu ana ki ngā mea kua pā ki a koe. Kua tuhia e ō kaipūtaiao ina huri ngā mahi a te tangata, ka piri tonu tētahi wāhanga o te aro ki ngā mea kāore i oti, pērā i te miro hiraka e kukume tonu ana i te hinengaro, ā, kua whakaatuhia e rātou kāore ngā aukati e whakaroa noa i te hua, engari ka whakanui ake i te ahotea, ka whakanui ake i te pouri, ā, ka waiho te tangata me te mea kei te kaha ake tā rātou mahi engari he iti ake te mahi. Ka taea e mātou te kī atu ki a koe mai i te mara wiri anake, nā te mea ka mātakitaki mātou i te wāhanga aura tangata, ka whatu anō i a ia anō i te rā katoa i a koe e neke ana mai i te whakaohooho ki te whakaohooho, ā, ka kite mātou i te utu o taua pakaru, engari he atawhai te whakaata a ō rangahau ake i ngā mea kua mōhiotia e tō ngākau: ko te aro marara he oranga marara. Nō reira, ina kī mātou "kaua e whakararuraruhia," ehara mātou i te tono kia pakari koe, kia pakari rānei, ā, ehara mātou i te tono kia noho koe hei mōneka e karo ana i te ao, ā, ehara mātou i te tono kia whakaaro koe kei runga ake koe i tō tangata. Kei te tono atu mātou kia piripono koe ki te wā, kia mōhio koe ehara te wā o nāianei i te ariā rapunga whakaaro engari he wāhi hihiko, ā, ki te kore koe i konei, kei tētahi atu wāhi koe, ā, ko "tētahi atu wāhi" te wāhi e hangaia ai e te moemoeā ā-rōpū te wehi. E pai ana te hinengaro ki te noho i te wā e whai ake nei, i te wā whakamutunga rānei, engari ko te rangimārie me te māramatanga kei roto i te wā o nāianei, ā, ehara te wā o nāianei i te mea angiangi, ehara i te mea hoha, ehara i te mea takoto kau, he whai rawa, he mātau, he kī tonu i te arataki ina mutu tāu kōrero mōna. Ā, nā te mea he purapura whetu koutou, nā te mea ehara tō aro i te ngoikore engari he taputapu kua tino whakatikatikaina, he mea nui ake tō "ināianei" i ngā matapihi whakanui pēnei i tēnei. Kua kite ētahi o koutou ina ara ake te mahi a te rā, ka huri tō moe, ka pupuhi ō kare ā-roto, ka mārama ō moemoeā, ka rerekē te ahua o tō tinana, ka ngawari tō ngākau, ā, ka ngana tō hinengaro ki te whakamārama i ēnei kare ā-roto hei tūpono, nā te mea kua whakangungua te hinengaro ki te tapa i te kaha tauhou hei tūkino. E hiahia ana mātou ki te whakahou i tēnā: he maha ngā wā ko te kaha he mōhiohio. I ētahi wā, kei te whiwhi tō pūnaha i te māramatanga nui ake, i te kaha ake, i te āheinga nui ake, ā, ko tāu mahi anake ko te noho pūmau kia tau ai. Whakaarohia he āhua māmā i a tātou e kōrero ana: he karāhe wai e whakakīia ana. Ki te rūrūtia te karāhe, ka maringi te wai. Ki te noho pūmau te karāhe, ka ara ake te wai. Ko te wai te mārama e haere mai ana. Ko te pūmautanga ko tō pūnaha tinana e tū tika ana. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakahaere i te wai. Me whakapūmau e koe te karāhe. Koinei te wāhi e kore ai te pokapū o te ngākau e waiho hei whakaaro kare ā-roto engari ko te hangarau mahi a tō momo. Ehara tō ngākau i te uaua noa iho. He mara whakarite. He kaiwhakahaere. He kaiwhakamāori i waenga i te wairua me te koiora. Koinei te wāhi tūtaki ka taea e te aroha o te Kaihanga te noho hei mea tūturu, kaua hei kupu e whakahuatia ana e koe. Ina hoki koe ki te ngākau, ka hoki koe ki te teihana o te hononga, ā, ka huri te hononga i tāu e kite nei, ka huri i tāu e whiriwhiri ai, ka huri i tāu e hanga ai. Ehara taua mekameka i te mea whakarāpopoto. Koinei te tikanga o te whiriwhiri i te rārangi wā, ā, e whakamahi tupato ana mātou i taua kīanga, nā te mea ehara ngā rārangi wā i te wawata pūtaiao-pūrākau, engari he awa tūponotanga, ā, mā tō aro rātou e whāngai.

Te Whakaaro, te Whakawhetai me te Whakatutuki i ngā Whakaaro Hinengaro-iti mai i te Ngākau

Kia maumahara atu anō hoki mātou ki a koutou ehara te whakaaro i te hiahia, he tohutohu, ā, ehara te whakawhetai i te tikanga atawhai, he auau e whakahāngai ana i a koe ki ngā mea kua tautokona kētia. E tāpiri atu ana mātou, mai i tā mātou tirohanga, ko te whakawhetai tētahi o ngā huarahi tere e whakarite anō ai te ngākau i te mara, nā te mea e kī ana ki te tinana, "Kei te haumaru ahau ki te whiwhi," ā, ina whakaaro te tinana he haumaru ki te whiwhi, ka mutu te rapu a te hinengaro i ngā tūmomo whakawehi hei mahi matua māna. Nā, me kōrero tika tātou ki te wā e tae mai ai tētahi whakaaro e ngana ana ki te whakararuraru i a koe ki ngā ara raro o te whakaaro, ki ngā whakaharatau o te aituā, ki ngā wawata o te pakanga, ki te āhua tawhito o te "mehemea," e whakamahia ana e tō momo hei momo tiaki-ā-hinengaro ahakoa he onge te tiaki i tetahi mea. Ina tae mai taua whakaaro, kaua e whawhai ki a ia me te mea he hoariri, nā te ātete e homai ana te āhua. Kaua e whiriwhiri ki a ia me te mea he mana tōna, nā te mea ko te whiriwhiri he tikanga ōrite. Engari, me mahi i ngā mahi a te hunga whakaaro nui o ngā tau kua pahure ake nei, i tuhia e tētahi o ō koutou rangatira nui o te rawhiti: tukua te paru kia tau. Tukua te whakaoho kia mutu. Tukua te wai kia mārama. Mā te hoki ki te kare ā-roto ka mahi koe i tēnei. Mā te hoki ki te manawa ka mahi koe i tēnei. Mā te hoki ki te ngākau hei wāhi tūturu i roto i tō mōhiotanga ka mahi koe i tēnei. Ka taea e koe te whakatakoto i tētahi ringa ki reira mēnā ka āwhina i tō pūnaha tangata kia rongo i te tohutohu. Ka manawa koe me te mea he piriti te manawa tonu, kātahi ka karanga koe i te aroha o te Kaihanga ehara i te mea he ariā engari he aroaro, te huarahi e karanga ai koe i te mahana ki roto i ngā ringaringa makariri, te huarahi e karanga ai koe i te hihi o te rā ki roto i tētahi rūma mā te whakatuwhera i tētahi ārai, te huarahi e karanga ai koe i tētahi hoa aroha ki roto i tō kāinga mā te iriti i te tatau. Ā, ina mahi koe i tēnei, ka puta he mea tino māmā: ka ngaro te kukume whakamoe o te whakaaro, nā te mea i tango te whakaaro i te mana mai i tō ngaro. Ka tupu ngā whakaaro i roto i te korehau i te wāhi e tika ana kia noho te aroaro. Ka nui te haruru ina kore koe i te kāinga i roto i a koe anō. Ko te ngākau, i tētahi atu taha, he marino ehara i te mea he ngoikore, engari nā te mea kāore e hiahiatia kia hamama kia pono. Koinei te uho o te mea e kiia nei e koe ko "te paepae o Pēpuere" mai i tā tātou tirohanga Hirian: he wā e tuku mai ai te ao i ngā pōwhiri maha ki a koe kia whakarērea koe, ā, ko te ara wairua, i taua wā, ehara i te piki ki tētahi whakaaro teitei ake engari ko te heke ki tētahi aroaro hohonu ake. Ehara i te rapu i tētahi wheako motuhake engari ko te whakau i te merekara noa o te noho ki konei. Ehara i te kohikohi i ētahi atu mōhiohio engari ko te piripono ki ngā mea kua mōhiotia e koe.

Te Manawa Hei Mārau Whakatangi, Te Noho Tūhonohono, Me Te Mahi o Ia Rā

Kua whakaaturia atu e mātou tētahi atu whakaahua māmā ki a koe ināianei: he marau whakaōrite e tū tata ana ki te aho vaiorine. Ka ngunguru te marau, ka whakautu te aho, ā, kātahi ka rite te rangi o te taonga puoro, kāore he kaha. Ko tō ngākau te marau whakaōrite. Ko te mara whakakotahi te aho. Ina pupuri koe i te hononga, ka tīmata ētahi atu ki te mahara ki te hononga, ehara i te mea nāu i whakatenatena rātou, engari nāu i whakaoho. Nō reira, he aha te tikanga, i roto i ngā kupu ora, ki te pupuri i te māramatanga i te tīmatanga o Pēpuere, i te wā e tere haere ana te ao o waho, i te wā e kaha ake ai te urupare o te tangata, i te wā e kaha ake ai te aro o ngā awa kōrero, ā, i te wā e kaha ake ai tō ake aro o roto? Ko te tikanga ka whiriwhiri koe i te aroaro i te tuatahi. Ko te tikanga ka whakamahia e koe tō aro ki te wahie tapu. Ko te tikanga ka tīmata koe i te rā mā te tau ki te ngākau i mua i tō urunga ki te haruru o te ao. Ko te tikanga ka mōhio koe kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakautu i ngā pōwhiri katoa. Ko te tikanga ka tukua e koe tō koiora kia noho hei kāinga, kaua hei papa pakanga. Ko te tikanga hoki ka murua wawetia e koe koe ina kite koe kua toia atu koe, nā te mea he mea whakararuraru noa iho te whakama e whakakakahu ana i te wairuatanga. I te wā tonu ka kite koe kua riro koe, kua hoki mai koe. Ko te aro he atawhai. Ko te aro atu he oho ake. Ko te aro atu he tatau e tuwhera ana anō. Nō reira, ka manawa koe, ka ngawari, ka hoki ki te ngākau, ā, ka piri koe ki te aroha o te Kaihanga me te mea koinei te mea tino noa i te ao whānui, nā te mea koia tonu. Ā, e hiahia ana mātou ki te kōrero i tētahi mea ka miharo pea ētahi o koutou: ko te māramatanga e puritia ana e koe kāore e inehia e te "teitei" o tō wairua. Ka inehia e te pumau o tō wairua. Ka taea e te rama pumau te whakamārama i tētahi rūma he pono ake i te ahi mura e mura ana, e ngaro ana. Kāore tō aorangi e hiahia ana ki ētahi atu ahi mura. Me nui ake ngā ngākau pumau o tō aorangi. Koinei te take ka tīmata ai tā mātou tuku i konei, i te paepae, me tēnei pou tuatahi: he mea nui ake te aro i te kaha i tēnei wā tonu, nā te mea ko te kaha me te kore e taurite ka noho hei taumahatanga, ā, ko te taumahatanga ka noho hei whakapōrearea, ā, ko te whakapōrearea ka noho hei haruru tonu e ngana ana koe ki te whakakore. Ko te aroaro, i tētahi atu taha, he māmā noa iho i te tikanga pono, nā te mea koia koe kei raro i te tikanga o te hinengaro ki te wehe atu. Nō reira, kia manawa tahi tātou inaianei, e ngā hoa aroha, ehara i te mea he mahi, ehara i te mea he kawa hei miharo i ngā mea kāore e kitea, engari he mahi ngāwari noa iho o te hokinga mai ki a koe anō, ā, kia rongo i te pokapū o te ngākau me te mea kei te takahi koe ki tētahi wāhi tapu kua tatari mai ki a koe i tō oranga katoa, nā te mea kua tatari mai, ā, kia rongo i te aroha o te Kaihanga me te mea kāore i tawhiti, nā te mea kāore, ā, kia kite i te tere o te kore whakapono o te ao ina piri koe.

Te Anga Hiriani mō te Tautapa Paepae o Pēpuere me te Pakanga Aro

Taumahi Tuatahi o Pēpuere, Pou Tuarua me te Hanganga Ngāwari o te Whakararuraru

Koinei te paepae o Pēpuere, ā, koinei te mahi tuatahi i roto: noho ki konei, noho tonu, noho pūmau, kaua e karo i te ao, engari kia mahi ki a ia me te tohu e kore e taea te tahae. Ā, i a tātou e tuku ana i tēnei kia tau, i a tātou e tuku ana i te "paru" o te hiahia o te hinengaro kia taka ki raro, ā, kia mārama te wai o tō mōhiotanga, ka tae noa tātou ki te pou tuarua o tō tātou anga, nā te mea i a koe e mārama ana ki te paepae, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i te tikanga e ngana ana ki te kukume i a koe kia matara atu i a ia, te hoahoa ngawari o te whakararuraru tonu, te pakanga aro kāore i te āhua tonu he pakanga, me pēhea te tūtaki ki a ia me te kore e noho hei pakanga. nā te mea ina tīmata koe ki te rongo i te paepae, ka tīmata anō koe ki te kite i te hoahoa e ngana ana ki te kukume i a koe kia matara atu i taua paepae, ā, he tino huna rawa atu i tā te nuinga o koutou i ako ai ki te mōhio, nā te mea kāore i te wā katoa e tae mai ana he mea "pōuri" mārama, he maha ngā wā ka tae mai me te kakahu hiranga, me te kakahu kawenga, me te kakahu akiaki, me te kakahu tika, me te kakahu "kia mōhiotia", me te kakahu mano herenga iti e kore e mutu, tae noa ki tētahi rā ka titiro ake koe ka kite kua noho koe i roto i ngā mongamonga, ā, kāore e taea e koe te mahara ki te wā whakamutunga i roto katoa koe i tō ake ao. Koinei te tikanga o tā mātou kōrero mō te pakanga aro, ā, e kōrero ana mātou mō tēnei mea i tēnei ara, ehara i te mea hei whakawehi i a koe, ehara hoki i te mea hei hanga hoariri i roto i tō hinengaro, ehara hoki i te mea hei karanga i te paranoia ki roto i tō mara, engari hei hoatu reo ki a koe mō tētahi mea kua pā ki a koe, arā, ko tō arotahi kei te tono tonuhia, kei te hokona tonutia, kei te tōia tonutia, kei te nekehia, ā, ki te kore koe e whiriwhiri i tō aro, ka whiriwhiria e tētahi atu mea māu, kātahi ka kiia e koe ko "tō wairua," "tō tuakiri rānei," "tō manukanuka rānei," i te mea ko te pono he whenua kāore i te kīia i nohoia marietia. Kua mātakitaki mātou i te reo tangata e whakamahia ana hei patu i tō wā, ā, e kī ana mātou i tēnā me te mārama marino, nā te mea he mea rerekē te kite i tētahi momo tangata he tino ataahua tōna kaha ki te whiti me te inoi me te kata e huri ana i ana kupu hei matau, hei pepeha, hei karakia hei hopu i te whakaae me te kore e mārama. He tokomaha o koutou kāore i te mōhio ko te nuinga o ngā mea e kīia nei e koutou ko te "ihirangi" he momo whakaaro, ā, ko te nuinga o ngā mea e kīia nei e koutou ko te "pūrongo" he momo whakatakoto wairua, ā, ko te nuinga o ngā mea e kīia nei e koutou ko te "tautohe" he whakawhitiwhiti pūngao, ko te toa he onge ko te pono, ā, ko te tangata e hinga ana ko tō waka tinana. I ako ō koutou pūnaha i mua noa atu, ki te pumau te ngākau tangata, ka uaua ki te whakahaere i te hinengaro tangata, nō reira ko te rautaki matua ehara i te mea kia hinga koe, engari kia marara koe. Ko te pakanga aro he pakanga marara. Ka marara koe i roto i te tere, i roto i te mea hou, i roto i ngā whakahoutanga tonu, i roto i te awa e kore e mutu, i roto i te whakangungu ngawari e mea ana, "Ki te titiro ke koe, ka ngaro tetahi mea i a koe," ā, he kaha tēnei whakangungu nā te mea ka whakamahia he tikanga ora tawhito i roto i tō koiora, te tikanga ki te matawai i te tūpono me te whai wāhitanga. Kua ako ō taputapu, ō tūāpapa, ō whāngai, ō awa kōrero mutunga kore ki te whai i te kare ā-roto "kei te tata te tupu o tētahi mea," nā te mea kei te mātakitaki tonu koe i taua kare ā-roto, ā, ki te mea kei te mātakitaki koe, kāore koe e noho ana i roto i tō ake mara, kāore koe e whakarongo ana ki tō ake arataki, kāore koe e okioki ana i roto i tō ake ngākau, ā, kāore koe e hanga mai i te wāhi i roto i a koe e hangai ana ki a Puna.

Hangarau, Whakaohooho, Matau Kare ā-roto me ngā Mahanga Tuakiri i roto i te Pakanga Aro

Kāore mātou e whakahē ana i te hangarau, he kaipūtaiao hoki mātou, ā, kua hangaia e mātou ngā mea whakamiharo e uaua ana ki ō koutou hinengaro te whakaaro, heoi ka kī mārama mātou ka noho te taputapu hei kaiako ina whakamahia tonutia, ā, he maha o ā koutou taputapu e whakaako ana i a koutou kia pakaru hei āhua taunoa, ko te tikanga ahakoa kāore koe e pupuri ana i te taputapu, kei te āhua tonu tētahi wāhanga o koutou ki te taputapu, e hiahia tonu ana ki te urunga e whai ake nei, e noho pōuri tonu ana i te wā e noho puku ana, e noho kore whakamarie ana ina kore he mea e tupu ana, nā te mea kua whakangungua tō pūnaha ki te whakataurite i te whakaohooho ki te ora. Koinei tētahi o ngā pōhēhētanga nui o tō wā: ehara te whakaohooho i te ora, he kare ā-roto, ā, he hohonu ake te ora, he marino ake, he mātau ake i te kare ā-roto. Ka whakamararatia koe e te pakanga aro mā roto i ngā kare ā-roto, mā te ako ko ēhea ngā kare ā-roto e ngāwari ana ki te whakaoho wawe, ā, ko ēhea ngā kare ā-roto e pupuri ana i a koe kia roa rawa te aro. He piri te riri. He aukume te wehi. He dopamine iti te tawai. He paihana puhoi te whakataurite e rite ana ki te whakangahau i te tīmatanga. Ahakoa kei te whakapono koe kei te "mātakitaki noa" koe, kei te whai wāhi tō tinana, nā te mea kāore e taea e te tinana te wehewehe i waenga i te riri i roto i te rūma me te riri i roto i te whakaaro ina kaha te kaha o te kare ā-roto, ā, ka whakawhāiti te tinana, ka poto te manawa, ka whakawhāiti te mara o te ngākau, ā, ka ngaro te urunga atu ki te arataki teitei e tonoa tonutia ana e koe, kātahi ka whakaaro koe he aha koe i motuhia ai, he aha koe i ngenge ai, he aha koe i mataku ai, he aha koe i te mea kei te pikau koe i tētahi taumaha kāore e taea te whakahua. E te whanaunga whetu nui, ehara i a koe te nuinga o taua taumaha. Ko ngā toenga kua kohia o ngā rau o ngā mahi moroiti kāore i tino kerihia e tō pūnaha, ngā rau o ngā huringa kare ā-roto kāore i oti, ngā rau o ngā wā poto i wehe atu ai tō aro i tō pokapū ka haere ki te whakahaere i te kōrero a tētahi atu, te raruraru a tētahi atu, te whakaaro a tētahi atu, te mahi a tētahi atu i te tino pono. Nā te mea he ngākau aroha koe, nā te mea he ngākau aroha koe, nā te mea he ngākau whetu koe, he maha ngā wā ka whakaaro koe he kawenga koe mō tāu e kite nei, ā, koinei te wāhi e tino mōhio ai te pakanga aro, nā te mea ka hurihia tō aroha hei taura, ā, ka mea, "Me i aro koe, ka titiro tonu koe," ā, ka mea, "Me i pai koe, ka manukanuka tonu koe," ā, ka mea, "Me i ara koe, ka riri koe," ā, ka mea, "Me i aroha koe, ka pikau koe i te ao katoa ki runga i tō tuara." Ka kī atu mātou ki a koe me te pūmau kua takaihia ki te ngākau ngawari: ehara te aroha i te taumaha. Ko te aroha he kaha. Ko te aroha he mārama. Ko te aroha te kaha ki te noho piripono kia noho ai tō aroaro hei rongoā kaua ko tō manukanuka hei paparanga kohu anō. Ka whakamararatia hoki koe e te pakanga aro mā roto i te tuakiri. Ka tono atu ki a koe kia whiriwhiri i tētahi taha, kia mau i tētahi tapanga, kia tiaki i tētahi tū, kia mōhiotia. Ka akiaki i a koe kia whakawhāiti i tō āhua maha-ahu ki roto i ētahi kōrero, kātahi ka utua koe e te pāpori mō te ōrite ki te kākahu. Koinei te take he tokomaha o koutou e whakaaro ana kāore e taea e koe te huri i ō whakaaro i te aroaro o te marea me te kore e ngaro te noho tahi. Koia te take he tokomaha o koutou e whakahoki tonu ana i ngā whakaaro kāore e pā ana ki a koutou, nā te mea kua huri te tuakiri hei whare herehere, ā, he mea hanga tonu ngā whare herehere, he whakaaetanga iti i ia wā. Heoi, kāore tō wairua i konei hei hanga i tētahi kākahu; kei konei tō wairua hei pono, ā, kei te ora te pono, ā, kei te neke ngā mea ora.

Ngā Ōhanga Hihiri, te Aro e turuturu ana, me te Whakaaturanga Wehewehe

E hiahia ana mātou ki te whakahua i tētahi atu āhuatanga, he mea kāore i te tino kōrerotia i roto i tō reo matua, engari kei te rongo koe i tēnā: he ōhanga hihiko kei te whāngai i te koretake. Ina marino, ina noho, ā, e aro ana te tangata ki te ngākau, ka hangaia e rātou he mara e whāngai ana, e auaha ana, e uaua ana ki te hauhake mō ngā kaupapa iti iho, nā te mea he motuhake, he rangatira, kāore e turuturu. Ina tauhohe te tangata, e marara ana, e waranga ana ki te whakaari, ā, e rapu tonu ana, ka turuturu tō rātou mara ki ngā wāhi katoa, ā, ka noho aua turuturu hei momo wahie i roto i ngā ao ngawari. Kāore mātou e kōrero ana i tēnei ki a koe hei hanga taniwha i roto i tō hinengaro. Kei te kōrero mātou i tēnei ki a koe kia mutu ai tō tuku i te mea utu nui me te kore e mōhio kei te mahi koe. Ehara tō aro i te mōhio noa iho. He pūngao me te ahunga. Ā, he mea nui te ahunga. Ina tōia tō aro ki te arotake tonu i te mea he, ka tīmata tō pūnaha ki te rapu i te he ki ngā wāhi katoa, nā te mea koinei te mahi kua tohaina ki a ia. Ina whakangungua tō aro ki te matapae i te pakanga, ka tīmata tō pūnaha ki te whakamārama i te koretake hei riri, nā te mea kua wareware ki te āhua o te rangimārie. Ina tō aro ka kukumea ki te heke mai hei manukanuka, ka noho tō tinana i roto i te "tata tonu," kāore e tae mai. Ina mau tō aro ki te wā o mua hei pouri, ka huri tō oranga hei aata ki te mea kāore e taea te whakarerekē. Kātahi, i tēnei āhua, ka ngana koe ki te "whakaatu," ka ngana koe ki te "piki," ka ngana koe ki te "mahi," ā, ka rite ki te pana i tētahi kāreti taumaha ki runga, nā te mea kei te hanga koe mai i te pakarukaru, ā, kāore e taea e te pakarukaru te kawe i te ngaohiko teitei me te kore e taumaha. Koia mātou ka kī atu ai, anō, anō i runga i tā mātou ake ara, ā, he aha mātou i kī atu ai mā roto i ngā reo maha ki te tini o koutou: ka puta koe i te tere uira ina he kotahi tō whakaaro, ā, ka rongo koe i te whakaroa ina wehea koe, ehara i te mea kei te whiua koe, ehara i te mea kua tangohia e te Puna te aroha, engari nā te mea ko te ōritetanga te ara e taea ai e ngā rauemi teitei ake o tō ake oranga te tae mai me te kore e whakapōturi. E hiahia ana te pakanga aro kia wehea koe nā te mea ka whakaroa koe i te wehenga. Ka whakaroa i tō pūmanawa mā te tanu i raro i te haruru. Ka whakaroa i tō whakatinanatanga mā te pupuri i a koe ki roto i te mahunga. Ka whakaroa i tō auahatanga mā te pupuri i a koe ki te whakataurite. Ka whakaroa i tō whakaoranga mā te pupuri i a koe ki te whakaeke i a koe anō. Ka whakaroa i ō whanaungatanga mā te pupuri i a koe ki te whakapae. Ka whakaroa i tō whakapā wairua mā te pupuri i a koe ki te rapu tonu, kaua ki te whiwhi puku. Ehara i te mea whaiaro. He mea miihini. He pūnaha e rere ana i runga i ngā urupare tangata e taea te matapae, ā, ina kite koe i ngā tikanga, ka mutu te whakapae i a koe anō mō ​​ngā urupare, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te whakangungu i ō urupare ki te mahi i tō herekoretanga kaua ki tō herehere.

Ngā Tikanga Whai Hua o te Pakanga Aro me te Whakangungu i ngā Whakaaroaro mō te Pono

Nō reira, kia whai hua tātou, i roto i te huarahi rangatira o te pūtaiao wairua pono. Ko te rautaki matua o te pakanga aro ehara i te whakatenatena i a koe ki tētahi whakapono motuhake, engari he pupuri i a koe mai i te āhua e taea ai e koe te rongo i te pono. Ka koa ka tukua koe ki te tango i ngā whakapono "wairua" mēnā ka noho manukanuka koe i aua whakapono. Ka koa ka tukua koe ki te tango i ngā whakapono "pai" mēnā ka waiho aua whakapono hei whakakahore, ā, ka noho koretake koe. Ka koa ka tukua koe ki te ako i ngā tikanga mutunga kore mēnā ka waiho te ako mutunga kore hei karo i te mahi noa o te aroaro. Ka koa ka tukua koe ki te "rangahau" mō ngā hāora mēnā ka waiho te rangahau hei waranga ki te koretake. Kāore he aha te kākahu e mau ana koe, mena kāore koe i te kāinga i roto i tō ngākau.

Te Pakanga Aro ki ngā Wairua Whakaoho, te Mahi Wairua me te Kōwhiringa o te Wā Poto

Te Whakararuraru i te Mahi Wairua me te Ngenge Aroha i roto i te Hunga e Oho Ake Ana

Ā, he momo whakararuraru motuhake kei te aro atu ki te hunga e ara ake ana, ā, e kī ana mātou i tēnei me te aroha: ko te whakararuraru i te mahi wairua. Ka ako te hinengaro i ngā kīanga wairua, ka ako i ngā ariā, ka ako i te mahere, ka ako i te whakamārama, kātahi ka whakamahi i ēnei hei pupuri i te mana whakahaere, ko te tikanga ko te hinengaro tonu te kaiārahi, ko te hinengaro tonu te kaiwhakahaere, ko te hinengaro tonu te whiriwhiri i te ao, ko te hinengaro tonu te ngana kia haumaru mā te mārama ki ngā mea katoa. Heoi, kāore te ngākau e haumaru mā te mārama; ka haumaru mā te aroaro. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te "whakaoti" i tō pikinga. Me noho koe ki reira. He tokomaha o koutou kei te whakamatautauria hoki mā te ngenge aroha, nā te mea ka taea e koe te rongo i te ngangau ā-rōpū, ā, ka taea e koe te rongo i ngā ngaru kare ā-roto e neke ana i roto i ngā whānau me ngā hapori, ā, ka taea e koe te rongo i te āhua o te whakaohooho i te tangata. I ēnei wā, ka hāhā te pakanga aro, "Tangohia katoatia. Kawea katoatia. Tukatuka katoatia. Whakautua katoatia." Ā, e mea ana mātou: kāo. Ehara koe i te wāhi makanga mō te rōpū. He whare rama koe. Kāore te whare rama e whai i ngā kaipuke katoa. E tū pakari ana, ā, ko tōna pumau te mea e āwhina ana i ngā kaipuke ki te whakatere. Koia te take he tapu ngā rohe. Kaua e ngā rohe nanakia, kaua e ngā rohe tiaki, kaua e ngā taiepa i hangaia i te wehi, engari he rohe mārama, he rohe atawhai e tiaki ana i te hononga, nā te mea ko te hononga tāu takoha. Mā te pakanga aro ka kiia ō rohe he whaiaro. Ka kiia tō marino me te karo. Ka kiia tō rangimārie he kuware. Ka kiia tō kore e uru atu he "mana motuhake". He maha ngā ingoa. Heoi, ko te rohe e aro ana ki te ngākau he kōwhiringa noa iho kia noho tonu ki te whanaungatanga tika me tō ake mara, kia uru atu ai koe, nā te aroha koe i mahi ai, kaua nā te akiaki.

Te Papa Pakanga o te Moment-Micro, Ngā Pūrere, Te Whakakore i te Hoha me te Whakakore i te Hinengaro

Ā, me kōrero tātou mō te papa pakanga iti rawa, tino iti rawa te whakahawea: te wā iti. Ka toa, ka hinga te pakanga aro i roto i ngā hēkona, ehara i te haora. Ko te tuarua tēnei ina ara ake koe, ka toro atu tō ringa ki te taputapu i mua i te toro atu o tō ngākau ki te Pūtake. Ko te tuarua tēnei ka puta ake te ahua o te kore whakamarie, ā, ka titiro tonu koe ki waho ki te whakangāwari i te taputapu, kaua ki roto ki te pupuri. Ko te tuarua tēnei ina noho mokemoke koe, ā, ka panuku koe, kaua ki te manawa. Ko te tuarua tēnei ina pōhēhē koe, ā, ka rapu koe i ngā whakaaro tekau, kaua ki te noho roa kia puta mai ai tō ake mōhiotanga ā-roto. Ko te tuarua tēnei ina hoha koe, ā, ka whakamārama koe i te hoha hei raruraru, kaua ki te tatau ki te aroaro hohonu. Me mārama koe, ko te hoha he maha ngā wā ko te tinana e whakakorekore ana i te whakaohooho tonu, ā, i roto i taua whakakorekore, ka haruru te hinengaro nā te mea kua taunga ki te whāngai, ā, ina kore e whāngaihia, ka amuamu. He tokomaha o koutou kua pohehe i tēnei amuamu hei pono. Ehara i te pono. He wehe kē. Kia ngawari. Kia pumau. Kāore koe e pakaru ina whakahē te hinengaro i te wahangu; kei te ora koe.

Ngā Pūngao Whakamārama o Pēpuere e Whakaatu ana i ngā Tautohenga Kua Whakaharatauhia me te Kore Whakawa

Koia mātou i kī ai he whakamārama te tīmatanga o Pēpuere: nā te mea ka mārama te mea kua whakaharatauhia. Ki te mea ko tō hiahia he whakarērea koe, ka kite mārama ake koe ināianei. Ki te mea ko tō hiahia he hoki ki tō ngākau, ka kite mārama ake koe ināianei. Kāore te mara e whakahe ana i a koe. Kei te whakaatu i a koe ki a koe anō. He aroha noa tēnei, ahakoa he āhua koretake, nā te mea ka taea te whakarerekē i te mea kua whakakitea.

Te Mana Motuhake, te Katoa me te Wikitōria hei Pūmautanga ā-Roto i roto i te Pakanga Arotahi

Nō reira, e te hunga nunui, kāore te pakanga aro e mutu mā te whawhai ki tētahi hoariri o waho, ā, kāore e mutu mā te noho whakahihi, ā, kāore e mutu mā te momotu i te ao, engari ka mutu mā te kī atu i tō mana rangatira i ngā wā poto noa iho, kia noho noa iho, kia noho noa iho, kia noho noa iho, kia mahara rā anō tō pūnaha ki te āhua o te noho ora. Ina ora koe, kāore koe e hiahia kia whakangahau tonu. Ina ora koe, kāore koe e hiahia kia whakahoutia tonutia. Ina ora koe, kāore koe e hiahia kia riri tonu. Ina ora koe, ka taea e koe te kite i te ngangau o te ao, ā, ka noho aroha tonu koe me te kore e horomia e ia, ā, ka taea e koe te mahi ina tino tika māu te mahi, kaua e tauhohe nā te mea i tono te ao i tō aro. Koinei te wikitoria: ehara i te mea ka marino te ao, engari ka pumau koe. Ā, i a koe e arotahi ana, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i tētahi mea whakamiharo, tētahi mea ka haria tātou ki te pou e whai ake nei o tā tātou karere, nā te mea ka kitea ngā tikanga o te whakararuraru, ka māmā noa te pātai, ā, ka whai hua hoki: nō hea koe e noho ana, ko tēhea teihana o roto koe e hoki atu ana, ko tēhea pokapū i roto i a koe ka taea te pupuri i te ngaohiko o tēnei wā me te kore e taumaha, ā, me pēhea koe e punga ai ki reira kia mau tonu ai kia ngaro ai te mana o te ao o waho ki te kukume i a koe i roto i tō ake wairua? Nā te mea, ko te hunga nunui, ina kitea ngā tikanga o te whakararuraru, ka tino whai hua te pātai, me te mea he māmā noa iho te mārama, ā, koinei tēnei: ​​nō hea koe e noho ana, ko tēhea teihana o roto koe e hoki atu ana, ko tēhea pokapū i roto i a koe ka taea te pupuri i te ngaohiko o tēnei wā me te kore e taumaha, me te kore e hinga, me te kore e hiahiatia kia mau tonu, ā, me pēhea koe e punga ai ki reira kia mau tonu ai kia ngaro ai te mana o te ao o waho ki te kukume i a koe i roto i tō ake wairua.

Te Pokapū Manawa hei Pūhara Whakahaere Matauranga, Auautanga Kāinga me te Noho

Ngākau Hei Auautanga Kāinga Kua Whakahāngaihia Ki Te Pūtake Ēngari Ki Te Hinengaro I Runga I Te Torona

Koinei te wāhi e kōrero ai tātou mō te pokapū o te ngākau, ehara i te mea he whakapaipai rotarota, ehara i te mea he kīwaha wairua, ehara hoki i te mea he pai ki ngā "kare ā-roto pai," engari ko te hinengaro whakahaere o te hononga, te wāhi e mutu ai te tautohetohe me te tīmata mahi tahi a tō tangata me tō atuatanga, te wāhi e pai ai tō tinana ki te whiwhi i te ora e rite ana ki a ia, ā, e pai ai tō wairua ki te ora i roto i a koe, kaua e rere noa i runga ake i a koe pērā i te ariā e whakanuia ana e koe. I roto i te kaunihera teitei, he maha ā tātou huarahi ki te whakaahua i tēnei, engari ko te mea māmā rawa te mea tino tika: ko te ngākau te auau kāinga o te taputapu tangata ina whakaritea ki te Pūtake. He taputapu whakamiharo tō hinengaro mō te whakarōpūtanga me te whakatere, engari kāore i hangaia hei torona, ā, ina riro hei torona ka mahi i te mahi a tetahi rangatira kore whakangungu, ka whakamātau i te pūnaha mā te tātari tonu, ka rapu i te tino pono kei reira te ora e tuku ana i te ora, ka ngana ki te whakahaere i te mea kāore e taea te whakahaere, ā, ka pohehe i te mana whakahaere mō te haumaru. Ko te ngākau ia, kāore e whakahaere mā te kaha, engari mā te haruru, ā, ki te ārahi, ka rite te hinengaro ki tōna tikanga i mua, hei pononga mā te māramatanga, kaua hei kaiwhakatupu awha.

Te Mātauranga o te Ngākau, te Pūhara o te Hononga me ngā Tirohanga o te Teihana Taiao

Kua kōrerotia ki ētahi o koutou he "kare ā-roto" te ngākau, ā, he "whakaaro nui" te hinengaro, ā, kua nui atu te kino o tēnei wehewehenga i a koutou i tō koutou whakaaro, nā te mea i whakaahua i tō koutou hinengaro hohonu hei ngoikore, ā, ko tō koutou kaikōrero tere hei mana. Ko te hinengaro o te ngākau e kōrerohia nei e tātou ehara i te kare ā-roto hurihuri o te wā, engari ko te mara hohonu i raro i te kare ā-roto, ko te mahana pumau i raro i te tauhohenga, ko te māramatanga marino e kitea ana hei āe tinana, hei kāo tinana rānei i mua i te huihuinga o te hinengaro i tana komiti. Ina ora koe i taua mara, ka tino whai hua koe, ehara i te mea i roto i te huarahi porangi o te ahurea hua, engari i roto i te huarahi ma o te whakataurite, ka mutu koe i te mahi i ngā mea e mimiti ana i a koe, ka tīmata ki te mahi i ngā mea nōu ake, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te kite he iti ake ngā whakatikatika e hiahiatia ana mō tō oranga nā te mea kāore koe e kopikopiko tonu ana i tō ake pokapū. Koia mātou i kī ai, i roto i tō reo o mua, he tūāpapa, nā te mea ko te tūāpapa te wāhi e tū ai koe ki te kite mārama, te wāhi e tū ai koe ki te mahi pumau, te wāhi e tū ai koe ki te whakapāho i te tohu me te kore e whakapohehe. Ka taea e te tangata e aro ana ki te ngākau te neke i roto i ngā hau kaha, me te noho tika, ehara i te mea nā te korenga o ngā hau, engari nā te mea he iti, he pumau te pokapū o te kaha taumaha, ā, ko te tū o roto e ahu mai ana i tētahi mea hohonu atu i te whakaaro. Ka kitea e koe, ki te pono koe, ko te nuinga o ō mamae kāore i tīmata i te kaupapa o waho, engari ka tīmata i te wā e whakarērea ana e koe tō pokapū hei whakahaere i te kaupapa o waho. Ka tohe te hinengaro he mea tika te whakarērea i a koe anō, nā te mea e whakapono ana me whai i te ao kia ora ai koe, engari kāore tō oranga i te pātai matua o tō wairua, ko te pātai a tō wairua ko te ōritetanga, ā, ko te ōritetanga te mea e whakapai ake ana i tō wheako o te mooni, nā te mea koinei te āhua e rangona ai te ārahi, e tika ai te wā, ā, e kore e uaua te auahatanga. Ina hoki koe ki te pokapū o te ngākau, kāore koe e mawhiti ana i te mooni, engari kei te tomo koe ki roto. Ehara te mooni i te paparanga whakaari. Ko te mooni te aroaro ora i raro i te paparanga whakaari. He tokomaha o koutou kua whakamātau i tēnei i roto i ngā wā poto, kāore i te whakahuatia, he ata marino kāore koutou i toro atu ki te taputapu, he wā o te aroha pono me te hoa aroha i te wā e ngawari haere ana te wā, he hikoi i puhoi ai ō whakaaro, ā, i te wā i mau ai koe i te ora, he manawa ngāwari i tae mai me te mea he tauhou, ā, i whakaaro puku koe, he aha koe i wareware ai ka taea e te manawa te mahi i tēnā. Ehara ēnei i te mea tūpono. He tirohanga poto ēnei o tō tūranga tūturu.

Ngā Kūaha o te Manawa, te Whakaaro me te Maioha mō te Punga o ia Rā

Nā, kia hohonu ake te mahi whaihua, kaua e huri hei mahi pūmau, nā te mea ehara mātou i konei hei akiaki i a koe ki te mahi i te wairuatanga, kei konei mātou hei āwhina i a koe ki te noho ki tō āhua kē. E toru ngā kuaha e uru atu ai te pokapū ngākau ka taea te tomo ki roto i tētahi raupapa, ā, kāore te raupapa i te mea nui atu i te pono e tomo atu ai koe. Ko tētahi kuaha ko te manawa, nā te mea ko te manawa te piriti tere i waenga i te mea tūao me te mea kore tūao, i waenga i te whiriwhiri me te koiora. Ko tētahi atu kuaha ko te kare ā-roto, nā te mea ka whakahokia koe e te kare ā-roto ki tēnei wā i tētahi ara kāore e taea e te whakaaro, ā, ko te kare ā-roto te wāhi e puta ai te ora. Ko te tuatoru o ngā kuaha ko te maioha, koinei te reo kare ā-roto e tata ana ki te aroha ka taea e te nuinga o te tangata te whakaputa tere me te kore e akiaki, ā, ka tīmata te maioha ki te whakarite anō i tō mara tata tonu, nā te mea e kī ana ki tō pūnaha kei te haumaru koe ki te whiwhi me te ora ki te kite.

Te Mōhiotanga Neke, te Aroha o te Kaihanga me te Whakapūmautanga Pūmau i te Ngākau

Koia te take, ina tae mai he whakaaro whakararuraru, ko te hoki ki te ngākau ehara i te tautohetohe hinengaro ki te whakaaro, engari he nekehanga o te mōhiotanga. Kāore koe e tautohetohe ki te whakaaro. Ka neke koe. Ka nekehia tō aro me te mea kei te puta koe i tētahi ara haruru ki tētahi rūma marino, ehara i te mea hei huna, engari hei whakarongo. Ka mea te hinengaro, "Engari me pēhea te raruraru," ā, ka mea te ngākau, "Kawea mai te raruraru ki konei, ā, ka iti haere." Kāore ngā raruraru e ngaro i roto i te ngākau, engari ka mutu te whakanui ake e te mataku, ā, i roto i taua whakaiti, ka kitea ngā otinga. Ko te aroha o te Kaihanga, e ai ki tāu ingoa, koia te mea whakau i roto i tēnei tukanga katoa, ā, he tokomaha o koutou kua whakaaro ki te aroha o te Kaihanga hei whakapono me pupuri e koe, kaua hei aroaro ka taea e koe te rongo, he mea mārama tēnei nā te mea kua maha ngā wā kua tukuna e tō ao te aroha hei whakaaro, hei whakaritenga matatika, hei kōrero kare ā-roto rānei, heoi ko te aroha i te taumata e kōrerohia nei e tātou he matū hihiko, he mara tūturu, he hononga ā-kanohi ka taea te karanga me te whakatinana. Ina piri koe ki te aroha o te Kaihanga, kāore koe e ngana ana kia "pai," engari kei te whiriwhiri koe i te auau e whakakore ana i te whakaaro o te wehenga i roto i tō tinana, ā, ko te wehenga te wahie matua o te manukanuka. Kāore te aroha e tono kia whakaaro koe kāore he mea e tupu ana. E tono ana te aroha kia noho ora koe i te wā e tupu ana ngā mea. Ka kōrero mātou i tētahi mea ka tau mai me te whakamarie hohonu: kāore koe e hiahia kia tino tika i tēnei. Me noho pūmau noa koe kia noho te hokinga mai hei tikanga matua māu, kaua hei whakaora i ētahi wā. Koinei te mea e huri ai ngā purapura whetu mai i ngā kaimātakitaki tairongo ki ngā aroaro pumau, nā te mea ehara i te tairongo anake te taonga, ko te taonga he tairongo e hono ana ki te whenua, te tairongo ka taea te rongo i te ngaru me te kore e noho hei ngaru, te tairongo ka taea te kite i te tupuhi me te kore e tuku i te whare rama. He mārama noa iho tēnei i waenga i te tini o te hunga kua ara ake, arā, ko te ngākau-pūmau te tikanga he ngawari, he pūngao, ā, mārire ana tā mātou kī atu, ko te ngākau-pūmau ka puta he momo kaha rerekē, he kaha marino, he kaha mārama, he kaha ka taea te kī āe me te kore hara, me te kore whakahē, he kaha ka taea te pupuri i te aroha me te kore e mau i te mea ehara i a koe. Kāore te ngākau pono e hanga i a koe hei hautai. Ka hanga koe hei taputapu whakahāngai. Ka taea e koe te noho aroha me te kore e mau. Koia te take, i te kaha haere o te mara i ēnei rā tōmua o Pēpuere, ko tō nekehanga wairua tino matatau ko tō nekehanga tino tangata: kia puhoi ki roto. Ehara i te mea ki waho, nā te mea kua kī tonu tō oranga, ā, he pono ō kawenga, engari ki roto, kia puhoi, nā te mea ko te tere ki roto te mea e hanga ana i te kare o te toremi ahakoa kāore he mea "nui" e tupu ana. Ina puhoi te tere o roto, ka tīmata koe ki te wheako kāore koe i muri, kāore koe i tomuri, kāore koe i te hinga, kei te tae noa mai koe.

Te Noho Ataahua, te Harikoa Rautaki, te Whakaharatau Taenga Mai, me te Noho Mai i te Ngākau o te Pūhara

Ko te taenga mai te mahi. Ko te taenga mai ki te tinana, ko te taenga mai ki te manawa, ko te taenga mai ki te ngākau, ko te taenga mai ki tēnei wā, nā te mea ko tēnei wā te wāhi e rongoa ai tō mana. Kāore tō mana e rongoatia ana i roto i te mahere o āpōpō. Kāore tō mana e rongoatia ana i roto i te pouri o inanahi. Kei roto i tō kaha ki te noho ki konei inaianei, ki te tūtaki ki ngā mea kei konei me te auau e whiriwhiria ana e koe. Ka taea e koe te kī koia tēnei he whakahaere, engari ehara i te whakahaere uaua o te akiaki i a koe kia whanonga, engari ko te whakahaere ngawari o te mahara ki te wāhi e noho ana koe. Mō te tini o koutou, ko te wāhanga tino nui o te pupuri i te ngākau ko te ako ki te mōhio ki ngā tohu tōmua o te wehenga, nā te mea he maha ngā wā ka wehe atu koe i a koe i mua i te wā e kīia ai he "taumahatanga." Ka tīmata te wehenga me te whakawhāiti ngawari o te uma, te poto o te manawa, te ahua o te hiahia nui, te riri iti, te hiahia kore e taea te tirotiro, te akiaki ki te whakatika, te whakaaro kei te ngaro tetahi mea ahakoa kāore he mea e ngaro ana. Ehara ēnei i te korenga. He tohu ēnei. He atawhai ngā tohu. Mā ngā tohu ka taea e koe te hoki wawe, i mua i te tipu o ngā waewae o te porowhita. Ko te hokinga wawe te taonga. Ko te hoki wawe mai te huarahi e noho ai te ōritetanga hei mea noa māu, nā te mea ki te tatari koe kia tino pāngia koe, ka ahua whakaharahara te hokinga mai, ā, ka whakaarohia e tō hinengaro he taputapu ohorere motuhake, kaua ki te noho noa. Kei te tono atu mātou kia whakatauritea te hokinga mai. Whakaritea te tirotiro ngakau pērā i te inu wai. Whakaritea te manawa mārie me te ringa ki te uma. Whakaritea te maioha i waenganui o te rā. Whakaritea te rerenga mārie i roto i tō wāhi o roto e mea ana, "Kei konei ahau," ā, kia nui taua rerenga. He paparanga hohonu ake anō hoki, he mea kua rite te nuinga o koutou mō nāianei, koia tēnei: ​​ehara te pokapū ngakau i te wāhi e hoki atu ai koe, engari he wāhi ka taea e koe te ako ki te noho ki roto i a koe e whakaaro ana. He tokomaha o koutou e whakapono ana ka kukume aunoa te whakaaro i a koe i roto i te ngakau, ā, kāore e tika kia pērā. Ka kino te whakaaro ina wehea te tinana, ina rere i runga ake i tō tinana pērā i te manu e kore e marino, e ngau ana i ngā mea ka taea me te kore e tau. He rerekē te whakaaro i roto i te ngakau. He puhoi ake te whakaaro i roto i te ngakau. He mahana ake te whakaaro i roto i te ngakau. Ko te whakaaro i roto i te ngākau ka arahina e te kare ā-roto, ā, nā reira, he tika ake, he iti ake te akiaki, ā, he iti ake te whakahou. He pūkenga nui tēnei mō ngā purapura whetu, nā te mea he maha ngā wā ka karangatia koe ki te whakamārama i ngā kaha uaua, ki te tautoko i ētahi atu, ki te whakatere i ngā ia kaha o te rōpū, ā, ki te kore tō whakaaro e tau ki te ngākau, ka ngenge koe, nā te mea ka ngana koe ki te whakaoti rapanga uaua ki te kaha hinengaro. Mā te whakaaro e tau ana ki te ngākau ka taea e koe te rongo i te mea e tino hiahiatia ana me te mea he haruru noa iho, he aha tāu hei mahi, he aha tāu hei manaaki me te tuku. Ko te manaaki me te tuku ehara i te karo. Ko te manaaki me te tuku he māramatanga. Ko te māramatanga tētahi o ngā mahi tino aroha ka taea e koe te tuku ki tō ao, nā te mea ka ārai te māramatanga i a koe kei waiho hei ara mō te whakapohehe. Kāore te tangata e aro ana ki te ngākau e mimiti i ngā kōrero katoa. Kāore te tangata e aro ana ki te ngākau e whakanui i ngā raruraru katoa. Kāore te tangata e aro ana ki te ngākau e whakahoki anō i ngā whakaaro wehi katoa me te mea he poropititanga. Ka ako te tangata e aro ana ki te ngākau ki te pupuri i tētahi mara pumau e mea ana, "Ko te pono anake ka noho," ā, ka marino te hinengaro ina rongo i taua rohe, nā te mea kua ngenge te hinengaro i te tono kia aroturuki i ngā mea katoa.

E hiahia ana hoki mātou ki te aro atu ki te wehi ngawari e mau ana i te nuinga o koutou, te wehi mēnā ka marino koe, ka noho mangere koe, mēnā ka mutu tāu tirotiro, ka ngaro i a koe te tūpono, mēnā ka ngawari koe, ka whakamahia koe. He mea mārama tēnei wehi, nā te mea kua whakangungua koe e tō ao ki te whakataurite i te taumahatanga ki te whakarite, engari ehara te taumahatanga i te whakarite, he whakaheke te taumahatanga, ā, ka whakawhāitihia tō tirohanga. Ka whakawhānuihia e te noho marino te tirohanga. Ka whakanuia e te noho marino tō kaha ki te kite i ngā mea nui nā te mea kāore tō aro e marara noa atu i roto i te mano o ngā whakaoho teka. Kāore te noho marino e hanga i a koe kia kuware. Ka meinga koe kia koi i roto i te huarahi ma. Ko te pokapū ngākau hoki te wāhi e rautaki ai tō harikoa, ā, ka kīia e mātou taua kupu me te āta whakaaro nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou kua whakaaro ki te harikoa hei utu mō te wā e pai ake ai ngā mea, engari ko te harikoa he auau e whakapai ake ana i ngā mea. Ehara te harikoa i te whakakore i te uauatanga. Ko te harikoa te mōhio kei te ora tonu te ora i roto i a koe ahakoa he koretake te ao o waho. He tohu te harikoa ki te pūnaha kāore koe i hinga, ā, ko te pūnaha kāore e rongo i te hinga ka taea te auaha, te whakaora, te mahi, te aroha. Koia te take ahakoa ngā wā iti o te harikoa pono i tēnei wā ehara i te mea noa; he mahi whakarite, he mahi rangatiratanga, he mahi whiriwhiri wātaka. Nō reira, i roto i tēnei pou tuatoru, ka tono mātou ki a koe ki tētahi aronga māmā ka taea e koe te kawe i roto i ngā haruru katoa: noho mai i te papa o te ngākau, kaua hei whakaaroaro kotahi i te rā, kaua hei wairua e whaia ana e koe, engari hei wāhi noho pumau o roto, he wāhi e hoki pinepine ana koe ki reira ka tīmata koe ki te kite kei reira kē koe i tō mua. Tukua te manawa hei piriti māu. Tukua te kare ā-roto kia pono koe. Tukua te maioha kia whakangawari i ngā taha. Tukua te aroha o te Kaihanga hei āhuarangi e manawahia ana e koe, kaua ko te ariā e whakahuatia ana e koe. Ā, tirohia te mea ka tīmata te huri ina mahi tonu koe i tēnei: ​​ka māmā ake ngā whakataunga, nā te mea ka mutu tāu whiriwhiri mai i te mataku. Ka pai ake te wā, nā te mea ka mutu tāu mahi mai i te hiahia nui. Ka whakangawari ngā whanaungatanga, nā te mea ka mutu tāu kawe mai i tō mara marara ki roto i te rūma. Ka mārama ake te aratohu, nā te mea ka mutu tāu toremi i te haruru. Ka hohonu ake te moe, nā te mea ka mutu te whakaharatau a tō pūnaha i ngā tūmomo whakawehi. Ka hoki mai te auahatanga, nā te mea kāore tō wāhi o roto e nohoia ana e te whakahaere tonu. Ehara tēnei i te moemoeā. Koinei te āhua o te hononga me te wairuatanga o te whakatinanatanga e tūtaki ana hei kotahi. Ināianei, i te mea ka pumau tēnei tūāpapa ngākau, ka kitea noa atu tētahi atu mea, nā te mea i te wā e noho ana koe mai i te pokapū kaua ki te toro atu, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i te wā tika e ngana ana te whakararuraru ki te whakahoki mai i a koe, ā, ka tīmata hoki koe ki te kite he kōwhiringa tāu i taua wā tika, he kōwhiringa ka taea te whakangungu hei whakaata, he kōwhiringa ka noho hei tikanga, ā, kāore taua tikanga i te uaua, he mea tonu, he atawhai, ā, ka taea te whakahoki i waenganui o te ao tūturu, e kawe ana i a tātou ki te pou e whai ake nei, ko te tikanga whakahoki tonu, he aha te mahi i te wā tonu ka tae mai te kukume, me pēhea te neke i tō mōhiotanga i roto i ngā hēkona, me pēhea te whakakore i te matau me te kore e whawhai, me pēhea te pupuri i tō māramatanga kia mau tonu ahakoa kei te neke tonu te ao. Ka haria tātou e tēnei ki te pou e whai ake nei, nā te mea kua whakamātauria e koe te ngākau hei teihana ora mōu, kaua hei wāhi e toro atu ai koe ina nui rawa te haruru o te ao, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i tētahi mea e whakarerekē ana i ngā mea katoa i te wā kotahi, arā, he onge te whakararuraru i te mea he kaha nui kotahi e kaha ana ki a koe, he maha atu ngā wā he kukume iti e whakaaetia ana e koe me te kore e mōhio, he tahuritanga iti o tō mahunga, he whakawhāititanga paku o tō uma, he āe paku ki te akiaki, he toronga noa ki te whakaohooho, kātahi, i mua i tō mōhio, kua kotiti ke koe i tō pokapū, ā, kei te ngana koe ki te whakahoki mai i te pumau mai i waho ki roto.

Te Tikanga Whakahoki Manawa o Siria mō te Pakanga Aro me te Hononga o ia Rā

Te Tikanga Whakahoki Manawa Whitu-Hipanga mō te Hononga Hiriani Inamata

Nō reira, ka tukuna atu e mātou he tikanga whakahoki ki a koe, ehara i te mea he mahi pakari me mahi tika koe, ehara hoki i te pukapuka ture wairua e meinga ai koe kia aro turukihia, engari he raupapa taiao kua mōhiotia e tō ake wairua, he raupapa ka taea e koe te tuku kia aunoa, te ara e mōhio ai te tinana ki te kimo ina maroke te hau, te ara e mōhio ai ngā pūkahukahu ki te aue ina nui haere te taumahatanga, te ara e mōhio ai te ngākau ki te whakangawari ina tino haumaru te noho ko ia anō. Ko te nekehanga tuatahi ehara i te "whakatika", engari ko te mōhio, nā te mea ko te mōhio te wā e whakahokia mai ai e koe te mana motuhake. He tokomaha o koutou e whakaaro ana ko te mana motuhake he kōrero nui, he whakapuakitanga, he tūnga nui, engari ko te mana motuhake he rite ki te mātakitaki mārire: "Kua wehe atu ahau i ahau." Koinā katoa. He nui tēnā. I te wā e kite ai koe kua wehe atu koe i a koe, kua tīmata kē te hokinga mai, nā te mea kua tahuri te hinengaro ki te auau kāinga, ā, koinei te take kāore mātou e riri i a koe mō te kopikopiko, kāore mātou e whakama i a koe mō te noho tangata, ka whakangungu noa mātou i a koe kia mōhio wawe, nā te mea he atawhai ake te wawe, ā, he māmā ake te wawe. He waitohu tō te mōhio. He maha ngā wā ka tae mai hei whakararuraru ngawari i roto i te awa hinengaro, he āputa iti ka mōhio ohorere koe kei te whakahaere koe i tētahi kiriata ā-roto, kei te whakaharatau i tētahi kōrero, kei te matapae i tētahi putanga, kei te matawai i tētahi tūmomo riri, kei te whakarite i a koe anō, kei te whakatau i a koe anō, kei te whai i te tino pono, ā, ka taea e koe te rongo kua kumea koe e tēnei nekehanga ā-roto ki runga ake i tō tinana, kia matara atu i te whenua o nāianei. I taua wā, kaua e tātarihia te take i wehe atu ai koe, kaua e hanga he kōrero mō tōna tikanga, kaua e huri i te kitenga hei raruraru hou hei whakaoti, nā te mea ka ngana te hinengaro ki te pupuri i a koe kia aro mā te whakauaua i te hokinga mai. Kia māmā noa iho. Kia ma. Kia ranea te mōhio. Kātahi ka tae mai te nekehanga tuarua, ko te okioki, ā, ehara te okioki i te mangere, ko te okioki he mana. Ko te okioki te wā ka mutu ai koe te whāngai i te nekehanga o te porowhita. He tokomaha o koutou kua whakangungua ki te neke tere mai i te kore whakamarie ki te mahi, mai i te koretake ki te tirotiro, mai i te taumahatanga ki te mahi, ā, e kiia ana e koe ko te kawenga, engari he maha noa iho he urupare hei tuku i te kare ā-roto. Mā te okioki, ahakoa mō ngā hēkona e rua, ka pakaru te makutu e kī ana me whakautu tonu koe ki te hiahia o te hinengaro. Ko taua okiokinga te whakatuwheratanga ka taea te rongo anō i te Pūtake, ehara i te mea he ariā tawhiti engari he whānui marino i noho tonu i raro i te tere. I roto i te okiokinga, tukua kia ara ake te nekehanga tuatoru, arā, ko te whakapūha, nā te mea ko te whakapūha te huarahi a te tinana ki te tuku i tana pupuri. Ka kōrero tuatahi mātou mō te whakapūha nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou e whakapūha ana me te mea kei te whakarite koe mō te pānga, e tango ana i te hau me te kore e tuku katoa, ā, ko te tinana kāore e whakapūha katoa he tinana e tohu ana ki a ia anō kei te tata te tūpono. Ko te whakapūha roa, ngawari ake e kī ana ki te oko toto tetahi mea tino whakamarie: "Kāore au e whaia ana." Ahakoa ka tohe tō hinengaro kei te whaia koe e te wā, e ngā mahi, e ngā tumanakohanga, e te pōrearea o te ao, ka tīmata te whakapūha ki te whakakore i te whakaoho teka i te taumata e noho ana ngā whakaoho teka.

Te Whakakotahi i te Tikanga Hoki ki te Ata, te Poutū-te-rangi, ngā Kōrero me te Moe

I te roa o te manawa, tukua te nekehanga tuawhā: nekehia te māramatanga ki te pokapū o te ngākau. Ehara tēnei i te whakaaro noa i te tikanga ngoikore, engari he ahunga, he whakatakoto āta i te aro ki te wāhi e hiahia ana koe kia whakaritea tō oranga. Ko ētahi o koutou e pai ana ki te whakatakoto i te ringa ki te uma, ehara i te mea hei mahi engari hei tohu pā ki te tinana e mea ana, "Kei konei tātou inaianei." Mena kei te tūmatanui koe, ā, ka ahua māharahara te ringa, kawea mai tō māramatanga ki roto, me te mea kei te tahuri koe i te taringa o roto ki te ngākau ki te whakarongo ki te reo mārie i raro i te kōrero. Ina tae koe ki reira, kaua e tono kia rongo tonu koe i tetahi mea. Koinei te wāhi e whakararuraru ai te nuinga o koutou i te hokinga mai, nā te mea e tumanako ana koe ka rite te ngākau ki te pana ka hurihia e koe, ā, ki te kore e waipuke i a koe ki te rangimārie tonu, ka kī te hinengaro kāore i te angitu ka hoki ki ana rautaki mōhio. Ehara te ngākau i te pana. He wāhi te ngākau. Kāore koe e akiaki i te wāhi. Ka tomo koe ki roto. Ka okioki koe ki roto. Ka manawa koe ki roto. Ka hoatu e koe he hēkona pono. Kātahi ka tīmata te mara ki te urupare, ehara i te mea he whakamarie nui tonu, engari he whānui ngawari, he ngawari, he pikinga ngawari o te rūma o roto. Inaianei ka tae mai te nekehanga tuarima, ā, koinei te kī e huri ai te "arotahi o te ngākau" ki te hononga pono: karangatia te aroha o te Kaihanga hei āhuarangi e kitea ana. Mātakitaki i te kupu karangatia. Kāore koe e inoi ana. Kāore koe e whakaatu ana i tō tika. Kāore koe e tono ana ki tētahi mana tawhiti kia whakaae ki a koe. Kei te whakatuwhera koe ki ngā mea kua tae mai, ā, ka tukua kia tino pono ake i roto i tō wheako. Ka taea te rongo i te aroha o te Kaihanga i ngā huarahi rerekē i runga i te taputapu e whakamahia ana koe. Ki ētahi ka tae mai hei mahana, ki ētahi hei ngawari, ki ētahi hei whānui, ki ētahi hei pumau marino e rite ana ki te pupurihia mai i roto. Kia māmā noa iho. Kia noa iho. Kia tūturu. Ā, ki te kore he mea e kitea ana i te tīmatanga, kia ngawari, nā te mea ko te karanga tonu he mahi whakataurite, ā, ko te whakataurite kua tīmata kē te huringa. Me te aroha o te Kaihanga e noho ana, ahakoa he māmā noa iho, ka taea te nekehanga tuaono: tukua te mea kei konei me te kore tautohetohe. He rerekētanga ngawari engari hohonu tēnei, nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou e ngana ana ki te hoki ki te ngākau kia taea ai e koutou te whakakore i ō koutou kare ā-roto, ā, ehara te ngākau i te taputapu hei pei i ngā kare ā-roto, engari he wāhi e taea ai te pupuri i ngā kare ā-roto me te kore e noho hei tuakiri. Ina whakaaetia e koe te mea kei reira, ka tīmata te neke, nā te mea ko te mea e ātetehia ana ka mau, ā, ko te mea e puritia ana i roto i te aroha ka whakarite anō. Koinei te take he tino kaha te pokapū ngākau. Ehara i te mea ka "pai" koe. Engari ka hangaia koe kia whānui ki te pupuri i te kaha me te kore e whakapohehetia e ia. Kātahi, ina kua manawa koe, ina kua ngawari koe, ina kua karanga koe i te aroha, ina kua whakaaetia e koe, ka tae koe ki te nekehanga tuawhitu, koinei te wāhi e noho ai te tikanga hei toi ora: whiriwhiria tētahi taahiraa pono e whai ake nei mai i te hononga. Kotahi te taahiraa, ehara i te tekau. Kotahi te taahiraa, ehara i te mahere oranga katoa. Kotahi te taahiraa, ehara i te mahi nui o te wairua. Kotahi te taahiraa e pā ana ki tēnei wā. I ētahi wā ko taua taahiraa ko te inu wai. I ētahi wā ko te tū ake me te totoro. I ētahi wā ko te tuku karere ngāwari kua karohia e koe. I ētahi wā, ko te kati i te taputapu ka haere ki waho. I ētahi wā, ko te mahi i te mahi kei mua i a koe me te kore e whakaari. I ētahi wā, ko te okioki. I ētahi wā, ko te whakapāha mārie. I ētahi wā, ko te kore mahi mō tētahi meneti, me te tuku i te pūnaha kia marino. Kāore te ngākau e hoatu ana i tētahi tohutohu uaua ki a koe. Ko te hinengaro e hoatu ana i ngā tohutohu uaua ki a koe. Ko te ngākau e hoatu ana i te taahiraa ma e whai ake nei.

E te hunga aroha, ka huri tēnei raupapa hei momo mahara uaua o roto, ā, ka nui ake tā koutou mahi, ka tere ake, kia puta rā anō i roto i te kotahi manawa, i te kotahi manawa, i te kotahi tahuritanga ki roto. Ā, ina tere rawa, ka tīmata koe ki te wheako i te tikanga o te pūkenga: ehara i te kore o te mea whakararuraru i roto i tō taiao, engari ko te kore o te herenga ki te whai i a ia. Ināianei, e hiahia ana mātou ki te whakawhānui i tēnei tikanga ki ngā wāhi e wareware ana koe ki te whakamahi, nā te mea he ngāwari ki te maumahara ki te mahi wairua ina marino koe, ā, he ngāwari ki te maumahara ina kei roto koe i te hui, ā, he ngāwari ki te maumahara ina wātea koe, engari ko te whakamātautau pono o te ōritetanga ko te wā noa ina rongo koe i te kukume me te pukumahi, te wā e ngenge ana tō tinana me te haruru o tō hinengaro, te wā e tomo mai ana te kare ā-roto o tētahi atu ki te rūma me te hiahia o tō aroha ki te mimiti, te wā e whakamatautauria ana te whāngai, te wā e kore e tino mārama ana koe me te hiahia ki te tirotiro, te wā e mokemoke ana koe me te hiahia ki te whakaohooho, te wā e hoha ana koe me te hiahia ki te mea hou, te wā e mahara ana koe ki muri me te hiahia ki te tere. Nō reira, me kawe e tātou te tikanga ki te ata i te tuatahi, nā te mea ko te ata te wāhi e tukuna ai e te tini o koutou tō rā i mua i tō noho ki roto. Ko ngā meneti tekau tuatahi i muri i te oho ake he ara ngawari kei reira tonu tō hinengaro papaku, kei reira tō pūnaha e ngawari ana te pā, kei reira tō rā e whakatikatikaina ana. Mena ko te mea tuatahi ka mahi koe ko te hono atu ki te whakapāhotanga kare ā-roto o te ao, ka tīmata tō tinana i te rā hei kaiwhiwhi kaua hei kaihanga. Kāore mātou e tono ana kia tino pakari koe. Kei te tono atu mātou kia whakaaro nui koe. Hoatu ngā wā tuatahi ki tō ake mara. Ahakoa e rua meneti he nui hei huri i te huarahi o te rā katoa. Te mōhio. Te okioki. Te manawa. Te ngākau. Te aroha. Te tuku. Kotahi te taahiraa pono. Ki te kore koe e mahi i tētahi atu mea, me mahi i mua i te horomitanga o ngā mōhiohio. Ka tere te rongo i te rerekētanga, ā, ka tīmata tō oranga ki te whakarite anō i tētahi pokapū marino nā te mea kei te tīmata koe mai i tētahi pokapū marino. Kātahi ka kawe mai i te tikanga ki te poutūtanga, nā te mea ko te poutūtanga te wāhi e tere haere ai te hinengaro, te wāhi e kaha ai te tinana ki te whakawhāiti, te wāhi e puranga ai ngā herenga, ā, ka piki ake te tere o roto. Ka taea e te meneti kotahi o te hokinga mai te whakakore i ngā haora o te taumahatanga kua kohia. Ehara tēnei i te whakanui rawa. Ka aro atu tō pūnaha ki te ōritetanga, pērā i te aro atu o te roto pōrearea ki te marino; kāore e taea e koe te akiaki i te roto kia marino mā te hamama ki a ia, engari ka taea e koe te mutu te whiu kōhatu ki roto. Ko te hokinga mai o te poutumarotanga te huarahi e mutu ai te whiu kōhatu. Koinei te huarahi e ārai ai koe i te kohikohinga ka huri hei pakaru, hei pahūtanga, hei porowhita, hei pō kore moe. Kawea mai ki roto i ngā kōrerorero, nā te mea he maha ngā wā ka ngaro ngā purapura whetu i roto i ngā kōrerorero i a rātou anō hei ngana ki te tautoko. Ka rongo koe i te mara o tētahi atu, e hiahia ana koe ki te āwhina, e hiahia ana koe ki te whakahaere i a rātou, e hiahia ana koe ki te whakatika, e hiahia ana koe ki te kawe, ā, e ngana ana tō aroha ki te hanumi. Heoi, ko te āwhina nui rawa atu ka taea e koe te tuku ko te ōritetanga. Ina rongo koe kei te kumea koe ki roto i ō rātou pōrearea, hoki puku atu ki tō ngākau me te whakarongo tonu. Ka noho koe hei aroaro pumau i roto i te rūma me te kore e hiahia ki te kōrero i tetahi mea nui. Ka ma ake ō kupu. Ka iti ake te tauhohenga o tō kaha. Ka tika ake tō māramatanga. Koinei te huarahi e aroha ai koe me te kore e ngaro i a koe anō.

Te Tūtaki i ngā Porowhita Whakaaro Pōuri me te Kawa Whakahoki e Puta Ana i te Ngākau

Kawea mai ki ngā wāhi whakatau, nā te mea he onge te pono o ngā whakatau i mahia mai i te tere. Ina pēhia koe, ina hiahia koe ki te whakautu, ina hiahia koe ki te whakatau i te uaua e mea ana "Me whakatau ahau ināianei," koinei tonu te wā e tino whai hua ai te tikanga whakahoki. Whakamutua te wā. Whakaputa manawa. Tukua ki te ngākau. Karangahia te aroha. Tukua te mamae me te kore e whakaari. Kātahi ka tirohia he aha te pono. He tokomaha o koutou ka kite ko te haurua o ngā whakatau i whakaaro koe me mahi he whakatau hē nā te manukanuka, ā, ina hoki koe ki te ngākau, ka memeha aua whakatau hē, ā, ko te kōwhiringa tūturu anake e toe ana. Kawea mai ki te ahiahi, nā te mea ko te ahiahi te wāhi e ngana ai te toenga o te rā ki te noho ki roto i tō tinana, ā, ki te kore koe e tuku ā-hinengaro, ka noho hei taumahatanga mō āpōpō. Kāore ō pō i hangaia kia whakakīia ki te purei hinengaro. I hangaia ō pō hei tautuhi anō, hei kaukau i te pūnaha, hei hoki ki te harakore. Ahakoa he hokinga poto o te ngākau i mua i te moe—te mōhio, te whakaputa manawa, te ngākau, te aroha—ka taea te whakarerekē i te kounga o tō okiokinga, nā te mea ka mārama tō tinana ka whakaaetia kia mutu te matawai. Ā, me kōrero tātou mō te wā e tino āwangawanga ana te nuinga o koutou: te wā e kawea mai ai e te hinengaro he whakaaro e pōuri ana, e kore e tumanakohia, e taumaha ana, e whakahe ana rānei, ā, e ngana ana ki te whakatenatena i a koe kua tutuki koe ki tētahi pono whakamutunga mō te ao tūturu, tētahi putanga e kore e taea te karo, tētahi mate e kore e taea te karo, tētahi tino mōhio kei te pakaru te ao, ā, kāore koe e kaha. I taua wā, kaua e tautohetohe ki te whakaaro. Kaua e whāngaihia mā te tautohetohe. Kaua e whakanuia mā te mataku. Me whakaaro ki a ia anō he manuhiri i te tatau. Te mōhio. Te okioki. Te manawa. Te ngākau. Karangatia te aroha o te Kaihanga. Tukua te kare ā-roto i whakaohokia e te whakaaro me te kore e hanumi ki te kōrero e kōrerohia ana e te whakaaro. Kātahi ka mātakitaki i te mea ka tupu: ka tīmata te angiangi o te kawenga kare ā-roto, ka ngaro te taumaha o te whakaaro, ā, ka hoki mai he tirohanga marino, ehara i te mea kua akiakihia, ehara i te mea hanga noa, he mea whakakite noa nā te mea kāore te kohu e whakaohokia ana. Koinei te mea ngaro kāore e hiahia ana te pakanga aro kia ako koe: ko ngā koropiko pōuri rawa o te hinengaro ka whakakahangia e te whakahekenga ā-tinana me te aro kua wehe atu i te wā o nāianei. Ina hoki koe ki te ngākau ka whakangawari i te tinana, ka ngaro te wahie o te koropiko. Kāore koe e hiahia kia noho hei tohunga tautohetohe mō ō ake whakaaro. Me noho koe hei tohunga mō te hoki ki te kāinga.

Tukua te Pūhara Ngākau kia noho hei Āhua Tūāpapa Hou māu, ā, kia Whakapai Ake

Ā, ka tāpirihia e mātou tētahi atu whakatikatika mō te hunga kua rite: ina hoki koe ki te ngākau, kaua e hoki wawe ki te awa kotahi i kukume i a koe. Tukua kia whai mana te hokinga mai. Tukua kia oti. Tukua te pūnaha kia mimiti i te hononga. He tokomaha o koutou e whakaaro ana ki te ngākau he rite ki te tūnga tere, kātahi ka hoki wawe ki te tupuhi. Engari, hoatu he manawa poto ki a koe anō. Hoatu he wā poto ki a koe anō ki te Pūtake. Tukua te aroha o te Kaihanga kia tau ki te taumata kia waiho hei reo mō tāu mahi e whai ake nei. Koinei te rerekētanga i waenga i te whakamahi i te ngākau hei taputapu ohorere me te noho mai i te ngākau hei tūāpapa pono māu. Mā te mahi, ka iti ake te raupapatanga o te kawa, engari he huarahi noho, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te kite ka taea e koe te kite wawe i te whakararuraru, ka taea e koe te tuku tere ake, ka taea e koe te noho roa ake, ka taea e koe te whakaaro me te kore e wehe atu i te tinana, ka taea e koe te rongo me te kore e toremi, ka taea e koe te mahi me te kore e pau. Koinei te whakapai ake. Koinei te āhua o te tangata ina riro te purapura whetu hei whakaū mō te mara whakakotahi.

Te Ratonga Hiriani Tūhonohono, te Kaiārahi Whare Rama me ngā Rohe o te Ngākau Tapu

Mai i te Hononga Whaiaro ki te Kaiārahi Mārie i te Marae Tahi

Ā, i te mea kei roto i a koe tēnei kaupapa, ka tīmata tētahi atu mea e hiahia ana mātou kia tumanakohia e koe, nā te mea koinei te whānui haere o tōu pūkenga: ka tīmata koe ki te whakaaro ehara tōu hononga i te mea mō tō ake rangimārie anake, he whakahere, he ratonga, he momo kaiārahi kāore e hiahiatia he atamira, nā te mea ka tīmata te mara e karapoti ana i a koe ki te whai i tāu e pupuri nei, ka tīmata ngā whānau ki te ngawari me te kore e mōhio he aha, ka tīmata ngā rūma ki te marino ina tomo koe, ka iti haere ō kupu, ka kaha ake, ka māmā ake ō mahi, ka whai hua ake, ā, ko tō aroaro tonu ka waiho hei tuku mārie e mea ana, me te kore kauwhau, me te kore whakatenatena, me te kore mahi, "Tērā tētahi atu huarahi hei tangata." Koinei te wāhi e anga atu nei tātou, e te hunga aroha, nā te mea kua whiwhi koutou i te tikanga whakahoki, ā, kua tūturu ki roto i tō koutou oranga o ia rā, ko te pātai e whai ake nei ehara i te "Me pēhea taku whakaora i ahau i te whakararuraru," engari ko "Me pēhea taku tuku i tēnei aroha mutunga kore hei mahi ratonga me te kore e huri i te mahi hei taumahatanga," me pēhea e pupuri ai koe i te māramatanga ehara i te mea hei mahi tūmataiti engari hei taonga ora, me pēhea e whai wāhi ai koe ki te rōpū me te kore e kumea ki roto i te ngangau o te rōpū, me pēhea e noho mārama ai koe me te kore e mura, me pēhea e pumau ai koe kia horapa ai tō pumau.

Te Whakakore i te Ratonga Tawhito – Te Whakatau Patunga me te Whakahāngai ki te Aroha hei Rere

Nō reira, e aku hoa aroha, me pēhea koutou e noho mārama tonu ai, me te kore e mura, me pēhea koutou e noho pūmau ai kia horapa ai tō pūmau, me pēhea hoki koutou e hikoi ai i roto i ngā ara tino kikī o tō ao, me te pupuri tonu i tō ngākau kia ora tonu ai, kia mahara anō ai te hau e karapoti ana i a koutou ki te āhua o te rangimārie. Koinei te wāhi e hē ai te mārama o te tini o te hunga kua ara ake ki te āhua o te mahi, nā te mea i whakatipuria koutou i roto i tētahi tauira e whakarite ana i te mahi ki te patunga tapu, ki te ngoikore, ki te whakamatau i tō pai mā te ngenge, nō reira, ina tīmata koutou ki te ara ake, he maha ngā wā ka mauria e koutou taua tauira tawhito ki te oranga wairua, ā, ka kiia e koutou he mahi māmā, engari ko te pono, ko te utu tawhito noa iho o te hinengaro me te tika. Kei te kōrero mātou inaianei hei whakakore i taua utu, nā te mea kāore e hiahiatia, ā, i tēnei wā he tino whakahē, nā te mea kāore tō takoha pono e inehia e te nui o tāu e mau ana, engari e te noho pūmau o tāu e mau ana i tāu e mau ana. E ai ki tā tātou māramatanga Hiriani, ehara te mahi ratonga i te mahi ā-waho o te āwhina, engari he āhuatanga o te mara e mau tonu ana koe, ā, mai i taua mara, ka mōhio te āwhina kaua e whakahau, ka wā tika kaua e porangi, ka ma kaua e raru, ka noho hei momo āwhina e kore e tono puku kia huri te tangata kē kia noho haumaru ai koe. Ina noho pūmau koe, ka āwhina koe me te kore he matau. Ina noho pūmau koe, ka tuku koe me te kore e hiahiatia kia hiahiatia. Ina noho pūmau koe, ka taea e koe te atawhai me te kore e turuturu. Koinei te rerekētanga i waenga i te aroha hei kaha me te aroha hei rere.

Te Hiahia ki te Āwhina, te Kaha o te Whakahohenga me te Aroaro hei Rongoā Tuturu mō te Mahi

He tokomaha o koutou kua rongo i te hiahia ki te "mahi i tetahi mea," ina koa ka haruru te rōpū, ā, e whakahonoretia ana e mātou taua hiahia, nā te mea he maha ngā wā ka puta mai i te hinengaro pono, te hinengaro kāore koe i haere mai ki konei hei ora noa iho, i haere mai koe ki konei hei whai wāhi, hei takoha, hei pupuri i tētahi auau rerekē o te noho tangata. Heoi, ka taea te pahua i taua hinengaro e te hiahia nui, ā, ka ngana tonu te hiahia nui ki te huri i tō hiahia nui hei toronga nui, ā, ka huri tonu te hiahia nui i tō ngākau aroha hei ngenge. Nō reira, ko te pono tuatahi o tēnei pou he māmā noa iho: ki te kore koe e whai wāhi ki tō mahi, ehara i te mahi, engari he whai wāhi ki te whakapohehe kotahi e kī ana koe he whakaora. Ko te aroaro te rongoā. Ehara i te mea he ariā e mihi ana koe, engari he mooni tinana e tiakina ana e koe me te ngākau pono. Ina pumau tō ngākau, ka marino koe, ka rangatira tō aro, ka ora tō hononga ki te Kaihanga, ka noho koe hei momo aroaro whakahāngai i te ao, ā, ka kite koe i tētahi mea whakamiharo: kāore te iwi e hiahia ana ki ō tohutohu i ngā wā katoa, e hiahia ana rātou ki tō pumau. Kāore rātou e hiahia ana ki ō otinga i ngā wā katoa, e hiahia ana rātou ki tō whānui. Kāore rātou e hiahia ana ki ō kupu i ngā wā katoa, e hiahia ana rātou ki tō whakaaetanga kia manawa anō. Koia mātou i kī ai he whare rama koutou, nā te mea kāore te whare rama e whai i ngā kaipuke, e tautohetohe rānei ki te tupuhi, ka noho tonu te rama, ā, i te noho tonu te rama ka whai hua i ngā huarahi kāore e kitea tonutia e te whare rama. Nā, kia tika tā tātou kōrero, nā te mea ka rongo pea tō hinengaro i te "kia pumau" ka ngana ki te huri i tēnā hei momo pēhanga hou, me te mea ko te pumau te tikanga kāore koe e rongo i tetahi mea, kāore koe e wiri, kāore koe e ngenge, kāore koe e pāngia e ngā wā o te kōpiri. Ehara tēnā i te whakaakoranga. Ehara te whakaakoranga i te tino tika. Ko te whakaakoranga he hokinga mai. Ko te whakaakoranga, ka taea e koe te wiri, ā, ka noho tonu hei whare rama, mena ka hoki wawe mai koe, he pono, ā, kāore he raruraru, nā te mea ko te hokinga mai te mea e noho wātea ai tō māramatanga. Kāore tō āhua tangata e aukati i a koe ki te mahi. Ko tō hiahia ki te hoki ki te kāinga te mea e pono ai koe.

Ngā Rohe e Pūmau ana ki te Ngākau, te Taumahi Tapu me te Tiaki i tō Hononga

Koinei hoki te wāhi e tapu ai ngā rohe, ā, e hiahia ana mātou ki te kōrero mō ngā rohe i te auau tika, nā te mea he maha ngā tāngata e rongo ana i te "rohe" ā, e whakaaro ana rātou ki ngā pakitara, ki te riri, ki te wehe atu, ki te hiranga rānei, ehara ēnā i ngā rohe ngākau, engari ko ngā rohe wehi. Ko te rohe ngākau he whakaae mārama noa iho ki a koe anō mō ​​ngā mea e pupuri ana i te hononga me ngā mea e whakangaro ana i a ia. Ko te māramatanga marino e mea ana, "E kore ahau e puru i taku mara ki ngā awa e whakakorikori ana i ahau," ā, "E kore ahau e uru ki ngā kōrero e hiahiatia ana kia whakarērea e ahau taku pokapū kia whakaaetia ahau," ā, "E kore ahau e mimiti i ngā kare ā-roto ehara i te mea nāku hei kawe," ā, "E kore ahau e whakahaere i taku oko hei rauemi mutunga kore hei keri." Ehara te rohe ngākau i te whakakorenga i ētahi atu. He whakahonore i tō mahi. Nā te mea ehara tō mahi i te whakatika i te rōpū mā te kawe; ko tō mahi he whakau i te auau ka taea e te rōpū te uru atu ina rite. Kāore koe e mahi i tēnei mā te noho wātea tonu. Ka mahi koe mā te noho hononga tonu.

Te Māramatanga, te Mahi Tūhonohono me te Arataki i te Ngākau Hiriani o ia Rā

Te Matatau hei Aroha, te Nohoanga Tūhonohono me te Whakaako i roto i tō Marae

Koia te take, i roto i ā mātou kaunihera, ka whakaahuahia e mātou te māramatanga hei momo aroha, ehara i te whakatau matao. Ko te māramatanga he aroha mārama. Ko te māramatanga he aroha, kāore he raruraru. Ko te māramatanga te kaha ki te rongo i te mea pono māu me te kore e hiahia ki te hē i tētahi atu. Ka taea e te ngākau mārama te kite i ngā whakaaro mano, ā, ka noho puku i roto, nā te mea kāore e hiahiatia kia tauhohe ki ngā mea katoa kia ora ai. Ka ora mā te noho. Nō reira, me pēhea te noho tahi hei mahi i roto i te oranga o ia rā, i roto i te huarahi e kore ai koe e wera, i roto i te huarahi ka taea e koe te pupuri i roto i ngā wiki, i ngā marama, i ngā tau, i roto i te huarahi e pakeke ai koe, kaua e whakangāwari i a koe. Ka tīmata mā te mōhio ko tō mara he whakaako tonu, ahakoa kei te noho puku koe. Ka whakaako tō reo. Ka whakaako tō tere. Ka whakaako ō kanohi. Ka whakaako tō whakarongo. Ka whakaako te huarahi e mutu ai koe i mua i te whakautu. Ka whakaako te huarahi e manawa ai koe ina manukanuka ana tētahi atu. Ka whakaako te huarahi e kore ai koe e mau ki te whakaari. Ka whakaako te huarahi e hoki ai koe ki te ngākau i te wā e māharahara ana te rūma. Tērā pea kei te whakaaro koe kāore koe e mahi i tetahi mea i aua wā, engari kei te mahi koe i tētahi o ngā mea tino kaha: kei te whakaatu koe ki ngā tāngata e karapoti ana i a koe he āhua rerekē kei te wātea, ā, ka ako ngā tāngata mā te tauira i te haruru nui atu i te tautohetohe. Koia mātou ka akiaki i a koe kia mahi i te honohono, ehara i te mea i te wā mokemoke anake, engari i te taunekeneke hoki, nā te mea ko te taunekeneke te wāhi e ngana ai ngā tauira tawhito ki te whakaū anō i a rātou anō. Ina tae mai tētahi me te hiahia nui, kaua e whakataurite i tō rātou hiahia nui ki te whakaatu kei te aro koe. Kāore te manaaki e hiahia ki te hiahia nui. Me hiahia te manaaki ki te aroaro. Tukua tō reo kia ngawari. Tukua tō manawa kia noho iti. Kia iti ake ō kupu. Ka miharo koe ki te maha o ngā wā ka tīmata te wetewete i te hiahia nui o tētahi atu tangata nā te mea kāore e whakaatahia ana ki a rātou. Ina tae mai tētahi me te riri, kaua e tere ki te whakauru atu ki tō rātou riri ki te whakaatu i te pono. Kāore te pono e hiahia ki te riri. Me hiahia te pono ki te ngākau pono. Ko te ngākau pono te mahi o te noho pono ki te aroha ahakoa he uaua te aroha. Ehara tēnei i te kī ka noho puku koe. Ko te tikanga ka mahi koe i runga i te māramatanga kaua i te wera. Ka taea e te wera te whakahaurangi, ā, he maha ngā tāngata kua whakapoauau i te wera me te mana. Ehara. He ma te mana. He pumau te mana. Ka taea e te mana te mahana, engari kāore e hiahiatia kia mura. Ina tae mai tetahi me te ngakau pouri, kaua e ngana ki te whakatika tonu i tōna ngakau pouri, nā te mea he momo karo pea te whakatika, ā, he maha ngā wā me kite te ngakau pouri kia roa ai te wā kia ngawari ai. Tukua tō aroaro kia mau te wāhi. Waiho tō ngākau hei rūma e taea ai e rātou te manawa. Ki te puta mai ngā kupu, kia māmā noa iho, kia atawhai hoki. Ki te kore he kupu e puta mai, tukua te wahangu kia mahi. He tokomaha o koutou kua whakaiti i te mahi a te whakaaturanga marino. Ko te whakaaturanga marino te huarahi e haumaru ai ngā wairua ki te neke. Ināianei, me aro tātou ki te tauira e mimiti ana i ngā purapura whetu i te nuinga atu o ngā mea katoa: te whakapono me pupuri tonu tō ngākau kia tuwhera mā te noho tahi me te katoa. Ehara tēnā i te ngākau tuwhera. He mara pūngoi tēnā. He whānui te ngākau tuwhera, āe, engari he pūtake hoki. He tuwhera i mua, he punga i te pūtake. Ka taea e ia te rongo i te ao me te kore e kahakina e te ao. Ka taea e ia te aroha me te kore e pau.

Te Whakangungu i te Ngākau, "Nāku Tēnei?" Me te Okiokinga hei Ratonga Wairua Rautaki

Nō reira, ka tono atu mātou kia whakatikatikahia tō aro ki te rangatira: kia rongo i ō kare ā-roto, kia manaakitia ō kare ā-roto, kātahi ka pātai mārire, "Nāku tēnei?" Ki te kore nāu, kāore koe e hiahia ki te kawe i te aroha. Ka taea e koe te tuku ki ngā ringa o te Kaihanga. Ka taea e koe te tuku ki te ngākau o te Ao. Ka taea e koe te tuku ki te mara o te aroha noa, me te mōhio ko te tuku ehara i te whakarērea, engari he whanaungatanga tika. Ko te kawe i te mea ehara i te mea nāu, kāore e whakaora i te ao. Ka nui ake te ngenge, ā, ko te ngenge tētahi o ngā huarahi matua e memeha ai tō māramatanga i tētahi wā ngawari. Nō reira, ka noho te okiokinga hei wāhanga o te mahi. Ehara i te mea he ngākau nui. Ehara i te mea he mangere. Hei rautaki. Hei mātauranga wairua. He kaituku mārama te tinana okioki. He kaiwhiwhi tauhohe te tinana tinana kua ngoikore.

Te Whakamārama Anō i te Mahi, ngā Mahi Matotoru o te Māramatanga me te Oranga Noa hei Ratonga

Ā, he tokomaha o koutou kua whakangungua ki te whakaaro ki te okiokinga hei mea e whiwhi ai koutou i muri i tō koutou whakamātau i tō koutou uara, engari mā taua tauira tawhito koutou e pupuri tonu ki muri, e tohe tonu ana, e ngenge tonu ana. He rerekē te tauira hou: ko te okiokinga te huarahi e pupuri ai koe i te tohu. Ko te okiokinga te huarahi e tiaki ai koe i te aroha. Ko te okiokinga te huarahi e pupuri ai koe i tō ngākau kei huri hei kaiwhakahaere mahi. Ka akiaki hoki mātou i a koutou kia whakaaroaro anō ki te āhua o te "mahi" i roto i te mahi, nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou e whakaaro ana me nui te mahi ki te mea nui. He maha ngā wā he iti rawa te mahi, ā, ka whakarerekē tonu i te mara. Kotahi te manaakitanga pono e tukuna ana ki tētahi tangata ke i roto i tō ngākau ka huri i a koe. Kotahi te wā o te manawanui i te wā e hiahia ana koe ki te tapahi ka huri i te rārangi wā e whāngai ana koe. Kotahi te whakakorenga ki te whakanui i ngā kōrero pakiwaitara ka huri i te āhuarangi kare ā-roto o ō whanaungatanga. Kotahi te manawa mohio i waenganui i te toa kīkī ka huri i te whanaungatanga o tō tinana ki te rōpū. Ko ngā mahi iti e whakahokia ana ka huri hei auau, ā, ka huri te auau hei mea tūturu. Koia mātou i kī ai ehara te pupuri i te māramatanga i te mahi motuhake. He huarahi tēnei ki te neke i roto i te oranga noa me te ngākau pono whakamiharo.

Ngā Porowhita o te Hononga, Ngā Whetu Hapori me te Whakamutu i te Wehenga Wairua

Nā, me kōrero tātou mō te hapori, nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou i ngana ki te mahi i tēnei ko koutou anake, ā, kua kitea e koutou te herenga o taua huarahi. Tērā te take i huihui ai ō koutou whakapapa tawhito, i inoi tahi ai, i waiata tahi ai, i noho tahi ai, ahakoa i uaua ai ō rātou oranga. Ka whakanuia te ōritetanga i roto i ngā rōpū. Ahakoa e rua ngā ngākau e tūtaki ana i roto i te ngākau pono, ka tere ake te pumau o te mara. Ina mahi tahi te porowhita iti i te aroaro, ka iti ake te kaha o te hinengaro whakakotahi ki te kukume i ia tangata ki te noho motuhake. Ko te noho motuhake tētahi o ngā rautaki tawhito o te whakapohehe, nā te mea i roto i te noho motuhake ka noho te hinengaro hei reo nui rawa atu i roto i te rūma, ā, ka whiriwhiri te hinengaro i te wehi ina kore e kitea he wheako o te pupurihia. Nō reira, hangaia he porowhita iti o te ōritetanga, kaua ko ngā porowhita o te riri tahi, kaua ko ngā porowhita o te tātari tonu, kaua ko ngā porowhita o te mahi wairua, he porowhita e taea ai e koe te manawa, te wāhi e taea ai e koe te noho tūturu, te wāhi e taea ai e koe te hoki tahi ki te ngākau, te wāhi e taea ai e koe te kōrero pono me te kore e whakaari, te wāhi e taea ai e koe te mahara ki te aroha o te Kaihanga hei āhuarangi kaua ki te whakaakoranga. Koinei te huarahi e pumau ai te mahi mārama, nā te mea kāore koe i te whakaarohia kia noho hei rama takitahi i roto i te hau mutunga kore. Ko koe te wāhanga o tētahi whetū whetu.

Te Kaiārahi Whakaaetanga-Parae, te Pōwhiri Mārie me te Hononga Pūmau

Nā te mea he tokomaha o koutou he kaiārahi, ahakoa kei te kī koe i taua taitara, kāore rānei, ka whakahuatia e mātou tētahi pono ngawari: ka whakaaetia e tō mara. Ki te whakatikatika koe i te tauhohenga, ka tika te tauhohenga a ētahi atu. Ki te whakatikatika koe i te aroaro, ka whakaaetia ētahi atu kia ngawari. Ki te whakatikatika koe i te atawhai, ka mahara ētahi atu ki ō rātou ake atawhai. Ki te whakatikatika koe i ngā rohe, ka tīmata ētahi atu ki te whakaute i a rātou anō. Koinei te mahi a te kaiārahi i roto i te hinengaro: ehara i te mana whakahaere, engari he pōwhiri. Nō reira, e te hunga aroha, kia waiho tō mahi hei oati mārire kia noho pūmau. Kia waiho tō mahi hei whakatau ki te hoki ki te ngākau kotahi rau ngā wā i te rā me te kore e whakaari. Kia waiho tō mahi hei maia ki te noho atawhai ina hiahia te ao kia koi koe. Kia waiho tō mahi hei hiahia kia hē te whakaaro o te hunga e whakapoauau ana i te rangimārie me te noho mangere. Kia waiho tō mahi hei whakaiti ki te okioki. Kia waiho tō mahi hei whakatapua ki te aroha o te Kaihanga hei āhuarangi pono mōu. Ā, i a koe e mahi ana i tēnei, ka kite koe i tētahi panoni e tohu ana i te tino pakeketanga: ka mutu tō hiahia kia marino te ao kia marino ai koe, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te marino hei koha ki te ao, ehara i te mea he mahi, ehara i te mea he kanohi, engari hei aroaro ora e mea ana, "Kei konei ahau, kei a koe ahau, ā, e kore ahau e whakarērea te aroha ahakoa he kaha ngā mea." I te mea ka tau tēnei pou, ka tae noa tātou ki te tūāpapa whakamutunga o tēnei raupapa, nā te mea ina mārama koe ki te mahi hei hononga, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te noho me te kore e taumaha, ehara te pātai i te "Ka taea e au te mahi i tēnei i tēnei rā," engari "Me pēhea taku hanga i tētahi ipu hei mea noa i tēnei ara katoa o Pēpuere me tua atu," me pēhea e hanga ai e koe tētahi manawataki ngāwari hei tiaki i ō ata, hei tautuhi anō i ō poutūtanga, hei whakamārama i ō ahiahi, hei pupuri i tō ngākau kia whāngai tonu kia kore ai te pupuri i te māramatanga e rite ki te mahi uaua, ka tīmata anō te ahua ko wai koe, koinei te wāhi e tahuri ai tātou, ki te oati a te karere o te ao tūroa, te ipu ora, te manawataki e kawe ana i tēnei mai i ngā kupu ki roto i ō rā tūturu, nā te mea ko te tuku e noho tonu ana i roto i te hinengaro ka huri hei momo whakangahau anō, ā, ehara tēnei i te take i haere mai ai koe, i haere mai koe ki te whakatinana, i haere mai koe ki te noho hei wāhi e taea ai e te pono te noho ki runga i te Ao me te kore e hiahiatia te hamama, ā, ko te whakatinanatanga ka hangaia tonutia mai i ngā whakaaetanga iti e whakahokia ana kia noho rā anō hei kāinga.

Te Oati a te Āpiha o te Ao Tūroa, te Ipu Rīwai o ia Rā me te Aroaro hei Urupare Tuatahi

Te Āhua o te Oati, te Punga Matua o te Ngākau o te Ata, me ngā Whakatakotoranga Māmā o ia Rā

Nō reira, me kōrero tātou mō te ipu, kaua hei kaupapa pakari e hanga taumahatanga ana, kaua hoki hei rārangi ture hei whakamatau i tō wairuatanga, engari hei hoahoa māmā e tiaki ana i te aroaro, pērā i te tautoko a te pou whakarara i te waina e tipu haere ana, e hoatu ana he mea pumau hei piki kia kore ai e horapa ki ngā taha katoa, kia kore ai e ngenge. E aroha ana tō koiora ki te hanganga ngawari. E aroha ana tō ngākau ki te pono. E aroha ana tō hinengaro ki te matapae ina whakamahia hei mahi i te rangimārie, kaua ki te mauhere i a koe. Ā, koinei te take ka taea e te manawataki, te oati, te whakaaetanga ā-roto i hangaia me te pono te kawe i a koe i roto i ēnei wiki o te kaha me te pumau e miharo ana koe.
Tuatahi, kia mārama ki te āhua tūturu o te oati. Ehara te oati i te whakawehi e mahia ana e koe ki a koe anō. Ehara te oati i te kirimana e whiu ana i a koe mēnā ka ngoikore koe. He aronga te oati. He maharatanga kua kōrerotia ki te āhua. Ko te rerenga kōrero māmā e whakahokia ana e tō wairua kia whakapono rā anō tō tinana. Ā, ehara te oati e tukuna ana e tātou i te mea whakaari. He marino. He tangata. Ka taea te whakatutuki ahakoa i waenganui o ngā rā pukumahi. Koia noa iho tēnei: ​​Ka hoki mai ahau. Ehara i te mea "E kore rawa ahau e whakararuraruhia." Ehara i te mea "E kore rawa ahau e mataku." Ehara i te mea "E kore rawa ahau e wiri." He mahi ēnei. He mahanga ēnei. Ko te kupu taurangi: Ka hoki ahau ki te ngākau, ka hoki ahau ki te aroaro, ka hoki ahau ki te aroha o te Kaihanga, i ngā wā e tika ana, me te ngākau māhaki, me te pono, me te kore whakama. Mā taua kupu taurangi anake ka tīmata te whakakore i te tauira tawhito o te whakarere, nā te mea ehara te tauira tawhito i te mea whakararuraru, ko te tauira tawhito i te wareware ki te hoki mai. Ināianei, kia ora ai te kupu taurangi, kaua e whakanuia, ka hoatu e tātou he āhua ki te wā, ā, ko te wā tō taputapu Whenua, koinei te huarahi e mahi ai koe i te whakatinanatanga. Ko te ipu e kōrerohia ana e tātou ehara i te mea hei whakakī i tō rā. Ko tōna tikanga he punga, pērā i te punga o ētahi pakiaka hohonu i tētahi rākau teitei, kia neke ai ngā hau, kia noho tonu ai te rākau. Tīmata ki te ata, nā te mea ko te ata te kaiwhakatakoto reo, ā, he tokomaha o koutou kua noho me te mea kua tīmata tō rā i te wā e tīmata ana te ao ki te kōrero ki a koutou, engari ka tīmata te rā i te wā e tīmata ana koe ki te kōrero ki tō ake mara. Ko ngā wā tuatahi i muri i te oho ake he rite ki te takutai moana hou i mua i ngā tapuwae, ā, ki te tukua e koe te rōpū kia takahi tonu i runga, ka ngaro te harakore o taua ara, ā, ka tīmata te rā kua whakautu kē koe, kua tirotiro kē, kua hoki kē ki muri. Nō reira, he māmā noa iho tō oati o te ata: i mua i te ao, te ngākau. I mua i ngā whakaurunga, te aroaro. I mua i ngā kōrero, te manawa. I mua i te taputapu, te aroha o te Kaihanga. Kāore e hiahiatia kia roa tēnei. Kaua e tukua te hinengaro kia tautohetohe ki a koe mā te tohe kia hiahiatia he haora, ki te kore, kāore he take. E rua meneti o te hokinga pono he kaha ake i te haora o te mahi. Tukua tō tinana kia oho. Tukua tō manawa kia tau. Tukua tō ringa kia kitea te ngākau mēnā e hiahia ana. Tukua tō mōhiotanga kia taka ki roto i te uma me te mea kei te tomo koe ki tētahi rūma marino kua tatari mai ki a koe. Kātahi, me te kore e taumaha, kia ara ake te whakawhetai hei reo ngawari, ehara i te mea he tino pai te ora, engari nā te mea kei konei koe, nā te mea he rā anō tōu hei whakaatu, nā te mea he aroaro kei roto i a koe e kore e koroheke, e kore e mataku, e kore e ngaro tōna ara. Mai i tēnei wāhi, whiriwhiria tētahi whakaaro ngāwari ehara i te tono engari he aronga. Kaua ko "Ka whakatikahia e au ngā mea katoa." Kaua ko "Ka whai hua ahau." He mea pēnei i te: "Ka neke atu ahau i te aroha i tēnei rā." Me: "Ka hoki wawe mai ahau." Me: "Ka noho tonu ahau i roto i tōku tinana." Kia iti noa iho kia whakaae ai te tinana. Ina whakaae te oko toto, ka mahi tahi, ā, mā te mahi tahi koe e pumau ai.

Te Tautuhi Anō i te Poutū-te-rangi, te Whakaoti i te Ahiahi, me te Whakangungu i te Pūnaha Io kia Kite i te Angitu

Kātahi ka kōrero tātou mō te poutūtanga o te rā, nā te mea ko te poutūtanga o te rā te wāhi e hoki mai ai te tuakiri tawhito, te tuakiri e whakapono ana me oma. Ka utua e tō ao te oma. Ka whakanuia e tō ao te hiahia nui. Ka whakapoauautia e tō ao te tere me te uara. Nō reira, ko tāu kupu taurangi poutūtanga ko: tautuhi anō i te taputapu. Ehara i te mea kei te hinga koe, engari nā te mea kei te noho koe i roto i te taiao e kukume ana i te hononga, ā, he mea whakaaro nui te tautuhi anō i mua i tō hinganga. Ka tūtohu mātou kia whakaarohia e koe te poutūtanga o te rā he tatau tapu iti ka hikoi koe, ahakoa he ono tekau hēkona noa iho. Ki te taea e koe te hikoi ki waho, me pena. Ki te kore e taea e koe, me mahi i te wāhi tika. Kia roa ake te manawa i te manawa mō ētahi manawa. Tukua ngā pakihiwi kia taka. Tukua te kauae kia ngawari. Kia mahara te puku kua whakaaetia kia wātea. Whakahokia te māramatanga ki roto i te ngākau. Karangahia te aroha o te Kaihanga kia rite ki te hihi o te rā e whakakī ana i te rūma. Kātahi ka haere tonu tō rā, kaua e rite ki te tangata kotahi i whakataetae, engari ki te tangata kua hoki ki waenganui, ā, kei te neke atu i tētahi wāhi pumau. Tērā pea ka kite koe i tētahi mea nui i konei: ehara ēnei tautuhi anō i te mea hei aukati i te ora, engari ko ēnei te mea e taea ai te mahi i te ora. Ki te kore rātou, ka kohia e koe he toenga e kore e kitea, ā, ka huri te toenga hei riri, ka huri te riri hei pakanga, ka huri te pakanga hei pouri, ka huri te pouri hei whakatau i a koe anō, kātahi ka kiia e koe he "wiki uaua," i te mea he wiki noa iho kāore i te nui te hokinga mai.
Nō reira, ehara ngā tautuhi o waenganui o te rā i te mea whiriwhiri. He tiaki i te tuku. He tiaki i te taputapu ko koe. Ā, ki te hiahia koe kia kotahi te miro hei whatu i roto i te katoa, me penei: waiho te aroaro hei whakautu tuatahi. Kaua hei huarahi whakamutunga. Te whakautu tuatahi. Te aroaro i mua i te whakaaro. Te aroaro i mua i te tirotiro. Te aroaro i mua i te whakatika. Te aroaro i mua i te whakamārama. Te aroaro i mua i te tiaki. Te aroaro i mua i te tauhohe. Ehara te aroaro i te noho puku. Ko te aroaro he mana, nā te mea ka whakahokia koe e te aroaro ki te wāhi kotahi kei reira te kōwhiringa pono. Ināianei ka kōrero tātou mō te ahiahi, nā te mea ko te ahiahi te wāhi e haria ai e te tini o koutou te awatea ki te pō, ā, kāore te tinana e pai ki tēnei, me kati te tinana, me tuku te tinana, me kī atu ki te tinana, me te ata, "Ka taea e koe te mutu inaianei." Ki te kore koe e tuku i taua karere ki te tinana, ka haere tonu tana tirotiro i te moe, ā, ka pukumahi ō moemoeā, ka ngoikore tō okiokinga, kātahi ka ara ake koe kua ngenge kē, ā, ka whakaaro koe he aha te uaua o ō mahi wairua. Ka uaua ake ēnei nā te mea kāore i whakaaetia te taputapu kia tautuhi anō. Nō reira, ko tāu kupu taurangi o te ahiahi: whakaoti i te rā. Ehara te whakaoti i te tikanga o te whakatau i te rā. Ko te whakaoti te tikanga o te tuku i te rā. Ko tōna tikanga ko te tuku i ngā miro kare ā-roto kia wetekina. Ko tōna tikanga ko te hoki ki te ngākau me te tuku i ngā mea katoa e noho ana kia puritia i roto i te aroha kia roa ai te wā e taea ai te whakangawari. Ka taea te mea ngāwari noa iho pēnei i te pātai i roto i a koe, "He aha kei te mau tonu ahau ehara i te mea māku hei pupuri i te pō?" kātahi ka manawa me te mea kei te whakahoki koe i taua taumaha ki ngā ringa o te Kaihanga. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakaoti i te waenganui pō. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakaharatau. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whiu i a koe anō ki te tukurua. Ka tukuna e koe. Ka manaaki koe. Ka okioki koe. Ā, ki te hiahia koe, ka taea e koe te kati i te rā me te whakawhetai mārie kāore i te akiakihia, he mōhio noa ki ngā wā i hoki mai ai koe, ngā wā i whiriwhiria e koe te piripono, ngā wā i atawhai ai koe, ngā wā i pupuri ai koe i te māramatanga ahakoa i roto i ngā huarahi iti. Ka whakangungu tēnei i te tinana kia kite i te angitu kaua ki te kite noa i te korenga. Ka kaha ake te mahi tahi a te pūnaha io kua whakangungua ki te kite i te angitu. Ka tīmata ki te whakawhirinaki ki te ara. Ka tīmata ki te whakapono kei te tino pono koe ina kī koe ka hoki mai koe.

Te Akuaku ā-Wiki, te Whakakore Paitini Whakauru, te Hoa Tahi me te Whakangawari i te Kaha

I tua atu i ngā punga o ia rā, ka kōrero tātou mō te akuaku o ia wiki, nā te mea kāore te hononga i hangaia i ia wā, i ia wā, engari ka tiakina e ngā mea e tukuna ana e koe ki roto i tō mara i roto i te wā. He āhuarangi anō tō te wiki. Ka kohia e te wiki te kaha. Ka kohia e te wiki te reo. Ā, i roto i ēnei ara o Pēpuere, he tokomaha o koutou ka whai hua mai i tētahi matapihi kua whiriwhiria i ia wiki ka whakaitihia e koe te whakauru me te whakanui ake i te aroaro. Ehara tēnei i te whiu. He whakakorenga paitini tēnei. Ko te maumahara tēnei ki te āhua o tō hinengaro ina kore e horoia tonutia e te rōpū. Kōwhiria he wā e pono ana. He ahiahi pea. He hawhe rā pea. He rā katoa pea mēnā ka taea e tō oranga. I roto i taua matapihi, ka whakangawari koe. He iti ake te kōrero. He iti ake te panuku. He iti ake te kai kare ā-roto. He nui ake te tinana. He nui ake te taiao. He marino. He nui ake te ngākau. He nui ake te Kaihanga. Kaua hoki e huri i tēnei hei whakatutukitanga. Kia ngawari. Kia whāngai. Kia whakamahara ki a koe i ngā mea i ngaro i a koe i raro i te haruru: tō ake oranga. I tēnei matapihi ā-wiki, he kaha hoki te hono atu ki tētahi atu mea ora kotahi, ahakoa he poto noa iho, ehara i te mea hei tātari i te ao, ehara i te mea hei whakawhitiwhiti wehi, engari hei maumahara tahi ki te aroha. Kāore koe e hiahia ki tētahi rōpū nui hei hanga whakanui. Ahakoa he whakawhitiwhiti ngāwari e tūtaki ai ngā ngākau e rua i roto i te pono ka noho hei pona pumau i roto i te mara tahi. Ka taea e koe te kōrero i ētahi rerenga pono. Ka taea e koe te noho puku. Ka taea e koe te kata. He rongoā kāore i te tino manakohia te kata, nā te mea ka whakahokia te pūnaha ki te tuwhera tamariki e kore e taea te hanga mā te whakaaro. Inaianei, me kōrero tātou mō te wāhanga tino ngawari o te ipu, te wāhanga ka whakamatautauria te tokomaha o koutou, ā, he maha o koutou kua whakarērea i a koutou anō i mua: ina piki ake te kaha. Ina haruru te ao. Ina puta te pakanga ohorere. Ina pā mai te ngenge. Ina piki ake te wairua tahi. Ina pupuhi ō ake kare ā-roto. I ēnei wā, ka ngana tō hinengaro ki te maka atu i te ipu, ka mea, "Me tauhohe tātou ināianei." Heoi, koinei tonu te wā e tino nui ai te ipu. Nō reira ka tukuna e mātou he whakatikatika o te oati mō aua wā: ina piki ake te kaha, kia māmā noa. Kaua e ngāwari noa te ao. Kāore e taea e koe. Kia māmā noa tō whanonga o roto. Whakangāwaritia tō aro. Whakangāwaritia tō hikoinga e whai ake nei. Hoki atu ki te manawa. Hoki atu ki te ngākau. Hoki atu ki te aroha o te Kaihanga. Inoi kia kotahi te mahi pono, kaua rānei e tono kia mahi, engari kia mau tonu te hononga kia pahemo rā anō te ngaru. He tokomaha o koutou kāore i te mōhio ki te maha o ngā awha e pahemo ana i a rātou anō ina mutu tā koutou whāngai i a rātou me te urupare tere. Kāore koutou e hiahia ki te whai i ia ngaru. Me noho pūmau koutou ki te ngaru. He mea nui anō hoki te ngākau mahaki hohonu i roto i tēnei, ā, e kī ana mātou i tēnā me te aroha: e kore koutou e toa i ia wā. I ētahi rā ka ngāwari ake te kukume i a koutou. I ētahi rā ka ngenge te tinana. I ētahi rā ka nui ake te haruru o te hinengaro. Kaua e huri i aua rā hei tuakiri. Kaua e huri i a rātou hei kōrero e hinga ana koe. Whakaarohia rātou hei huarere, ā, hoki mai anō. Ehara te oati i te "Ka kaha tonu ahau." Ko te oati "Ka hoki mai ahau." Kāore te Kaihanga e ine i a koe mā te mahi. E ine ana te Kaihanga i a koe mā te pono. Ko te pono te mea e pupuri ana i te hongere kia tuwhera.

Te Rīwai o te Ono Wiki, te Whakauru Whiriwhiri, me te Hoko hei Karere Mārama e Kore e Taea te Whakawhiwhi

Nā, tētahi atu āhuatanga o te oati a te karere o te ao tūroa e hiahia ana mātou ki te whakahua, nā te mea koinei te wāhi e pakeke ai tō mahi, e ataahua ai tō oranga: whiriwhiria kia iti ake ngā pakanga, ā, whiriwhiria mai i te aroha. He tokomaha o koutou kua whakangungua kia whai kawenga mō te whakatika i te hē i ngā wāhi katoa e kite ana koe, engari ko te whakatikatika i mahia mai i te whakaohooho ka huri hei hē tonu. Kāore te ngākau kotahi e hiahia ki te kōrero mō ngā mea katoa. Kāore te ngākau kotahi e hiahia ki te toa i ngā tautohetohe. Ka neke te ngākau kotahi me te momo whiriwhiri tapu. Ka kōrero ia ina nōu te kōrero. Ka mahi ia ina nōu te mahi. Ka okioki ia ina nōu te okiokinga. Ehara tēnei whiriwhiri i te kore aro. He pūkenga. Ina noho koe i tēnei ara, ka tīmata koe ki te kite ka marino tō oranga me te kore e iti haere. Ka marino haere nā te mea ka mutu tō urunga ki te haruru ehara i te mea nāu. Kāore e iti haere nā te mea ka whānui haere tō aroha ina kore e mimiti tonu. Ka wātea ake koe mō ngā mea nui. Ka noho koe ki te aroaro o ō hoa aroha. Ka auaha ake koe. Ka mārama ake koe. Ka nui ake tō whai hua i ngā wā e tino whai hua ai tō aroaro, nā te mea kāore koe e ngenge i te whai wāhi koretake. Nō reira, ehara te manawataki o ngā wiki e ono e kōrerohia nei e tātou i te puni whakangungu. He hokinga mai ki te kāinga o roto, ā, ka inehia tōna angitu e te mea kotahi: te auau o tō mahara ki te hoki mai. Punga ata. Tautuhi anō i te poutumarotanga. Otinga o te ahiahi. Akuaku o ia wiki. Whakangawaritia i te wā kaha. Whai wāhi whiriwhiri. Koinei ngā wheua o te ipu, ā, i roto i aua wheua, ka taea e tō oranga te neke noa, nā te mea ehara te hanganga i te mea hei whakahaere i a koe, engari hei tautoko i a koe. Ā, ki te hiahia koe kia kotahi te miro hei whatu i roto i te katoa, me pēnei: ​​waiho te aroaro hei whakautu tuatahi. Kaua hei huarahi whakamutunga. Whakautu tuatahi. Te aroaro i mua i te whakaaro. Te aroaro i mua i te tirotiro. Te aroaro i mua i te whakatika. Te aroaro i mua i te whakamārama. Te aroaro i mua i te tiaki. Te aroaro i mua i te tauhohe. Ehara te aroaro i te noho puku. Ko te aroaro he mana, nā te mea ka whakahokia koe e te aroaro ki te wāhi anake e noho ana te kōwhiringa pono. E te hunga pai, kāore mātou e tuku atu ana ki a koe he momo āhua noho. Kei te tuku atu mātou i tētahi ara ki a koe kia kore ai e taea te here i roto i tētahi ao here, he ara kia tiaho i roto i tētahi ao porangi, he ara kia pumau ai tō pumau kia noho hei wāhi whakaaetanga mārire mō ētahi atu. Koinei te oati a te karere, ehara i te mea me whai taitara koe, engari nā te mea he māngai koe mō ngā mea ka taea. He taunakitanga ora koutou e taea ai e te tangata te hikoi i roto i te kaha me te kore e whakarērea te aroha, ā, he mea nui ake te taunakitanga i tētahi tautohe ka taea e koe te whakatakoto. Ā, i a koe e tīmata ana ki te noho i tēnei ipu, ka kitea e koe ko te tuku kōrero kua whatuhia e tātou ehara i te mea e "whakarongo" ana koe, engari ka noho hei mea e nohoia ana e koe, hei mea e mōhiotia ana e tō tinana, hei mea e tīmata ana ō rā ki te whakaatu māori, ā, mai i taua whakaaturanga ora, ka taea e tātou te haere tonu, nā te mea he paparanga hohonu ake o tēnei mahi ka tuwhera i muri i te whakau o ngā kaupapa matua, he āhuatanga ngawari ake o te mohio o te ngākau, he huarahi ngawari ake ki te pupuri i te mara, he huarahi ngawari ake ki te āwhina me te kore e taumaha, tae atu ki te whakakitenga hohonu ake mō te take ehara tō aroaro i te mea whaiaro noa iho, engari he wāhanga o te whakatikatika aorangi e whakautu ana ki ngā ngākau honohono pērā i te whakautu a te kāpehu ki te raki, koinei te wāhi ka haere tonu tātou ina rite koe, nā te mea ehara tēnei i te mutunga o te karere, ko te wā tēnei ka tino pono te karere hei kawe atu. Ka hoki mai anō ahau mō ētahi atu mea nui a mua tata nei, ko Zorrion ahau, nō Sirius.

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