I-Timeline Shift Akekho Okhuluma Ngayo: Ukuphakama Okuthulile Kwe-Starseeds Asebekhulile Ukuqaphela Ukusinda - Ukudluliselwa Kwe-MIRA
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Lokhu kudluliswa kwembula ukushintshwa komugqa wesikhathi wangoDisemba okufinyeleleka kuphela kubadlali bezinkanyezi abakhule ngaphezu kwengokomoya elisekelwe ekusindeni. Ikhuluma ngqo nalabo abaye bahlakulela ukuthula kwangaphakathi, ukwethembana, kanye nokuba khona, futhi manje sebemi njengezikhonkwane eziqinisayo ngaphakathi kwenkundla ehlangene. Esikhundleni sokufuna ukuqinisekiswa noma ukusabela ezinxushunxushwini, laba bantu baye bafunda ukungena ngaphakathi kuqala, baqondanise izenzo zabo neziqondiso eziphakeme.
Umlayezo uchaza ukuthi umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase uvulwe—oxhumene kuphela nokuzinza komoya, ukuhambisana, kanye nokuqwashisa okuhlanganisiwe. Lo mugqa wesikhathi awuphenduli ekuguquguqukeni kwemizwelo noma ukuphuthuma, kodwa kulabo abakwazi ukubamba ukungathathi hlangothi, ububele, nokuzola phakathi kwesiphithiphithi esiyiqoqo. Lezi zinhlayiya zezinkanyezi zithonya izindawo ngokuba khona kwazo, zithambisa ngobuqili amandla esiphithiphithi futhi ziphakamise ukwazi kwabanye abaseduze kwazo.
Kuwo wonke ukuthunyelwa, abafundi bayakhunjuzwa ukuthi ukuvuthwa ngokomoya akuzivezi ngamandla noma ngokusebenza, kodwa ngokuqondanisa buthule. Okuthunyelwe kuchaza ukuthi izinselele manje zibonakala kanjani njengamathuba okuphumelela esikhundleni sokusongela, nokuthi ubudlelwano, umuzwa, nendlela yokuphila kuqala kanjani ukushintsha ngokuvumelana nesigqi esiphezulu. Igcizelela ukuthi labo asebekhulile amaphethini aqhutshwa ukwesaba manje sebebonwa ngokudlikiza umugqa wesikhathi omusha futhi bamenywa kusevisi ejulile, injongo, kanye nokucaca kwangaphakathi.
Ukudluliselwa kuphetha ngesiqinisekiso sokuthi laba bantu bayaqondiswa, bayasekelwa, futhi abakaze bodwa. Ubukhona babo bubalulekile ekuqiniseni amaqiniso aphezulu eMhlabeni, futhi ukuthula kwabo okuhlanganisiwe kuba isakhiwo lapho umhlaba osafufusa wakhelwe phezu kwawo.
Ukweqa I-Threshold Ungene Emugqeni Wesikhathi Ongenzeka Omusha
Ngale Komoya Osekelwe Ekusindeni Nokuvuthwa Kwangaphakathi
Sanibonani futhi zinhliziyo zami ezithandekayo. Ngingu-Mira woMkhandlu Ophakeme we-Pleiadian, ngisebenza noMkhandlu Womhlaba, lapha ngomunye umlayezo kubo bonke abakhuphukayo be-Starseeds nabase-Lightworkers. Njengoba nisondela kule nyanga engcwele kaZibandlela, ngiza kini nemfudumalo engiyiphethe ikakhulukazi nina enidlule umngcele ongaphakathi ongafinyeleleki kuwo wonke umuntu emhlabeni wenu. Uyazazi ukuthi ungubani. Nina ningasanciki endleleni kamoya njengendlela yokumane nje nidambise ubunzima noma nixoxisane ngomphumela ongcono wobuntu. Kunalokho, usuqalile ukuphila endaweni lapho ukwazi kwakho kumi ebudlelwaneni obuhluke ngokuphawulekayo nezwe elikuzungezile, ubuhlobo obulolongwa ukuvuthwa, inkumbulo, nokuqonda okuthulile ukuthi awusahambi endaweni efanayo yangaphakathi owake wahamba ngayo. Lolu shintsho alulona ithiyori. Yinto oyizwayo. Yinto oyiphetheyo. Yinto abanye abayizwayo kuwe noma bengayiqondi. Futhi kusukela kulo mbono ojulile, owandisiwe ngawe, into enhle iqala ukwenzeka: uqala ukubona umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona emaphethelweni olwazi lwakho, njengenhlansi ecashile yokuthi kungenzeka ifinyelele kuwe ngaphambi kokuba inyanga iqale ukuvela kwayo ngokugcwele. Nina, engikhuluma nani ngokuqondile, nidlulele ngale kwengokomoya elisekelwe ekusindeni. Usudlulile esigabeni lapho uhambo lukamoya lwalugxile ekuxazululeni izinkinga, ukwesaba okupholisayo, noma ukuxoxisana ngokuphepha nomhlaba wonke. Kunalokho, ukukhathazeka kwakho ngokuphulukiswa kwakho nokuzinza manje kuhlezi buthule ngemuva—hhayi ngoba izimpilo zakho zingenayo inselele, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi uye wafakaza, kaningi, ukuthi kukhona amandla asekelayo ahlangana nawe lapho ungena enhliziyweni yakho.
Usubone iqiniso elanele ukulethemba. Uzwile isandla esingabonakali sothando sikuqondisa, sikuvikela, sikuphakamisa, ngakho-ke awusabanjwe yizinkathazo ezifanayo ezake zabusa umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi. Lokhu kukubeka eqenjini elincane kodwa elinamandla labavukile ukwazi kwabo kuthonya lonke igridi yesintu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyakubona noma cha. Futhi umugqa wesikhathi ovulayo umema labo asebekhulile ngale ndlela, ngoba awuphenduli ekuphuthumeni ngokomzwelo—usabela ekuzinzeni okungokomoya, ubuqotho bangaphakathi, nokuba khona kwenhliziyo ezinzile, ephapheme. Izinkanyezi, ungase ungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi wehluke kangakanani emkhakheni ohlala kuwo, ngenxa yokuthi ukhulele kulokhu kuvuthwa kancane kancane, futhi ukwenze lokho ngokuzinikela, ukuthula, kanye nesifiso esiqotho sokuqonda ukuthi ungubani ngempela ngaphansi kwezingqimba ezingaphezulu zobunikazi. Uma sikhuluma nawe manje, sikhuluma nalabo abangakwazi ukuzwa ama-frequency acashile anyakaza emhlabeni kudala ngaphambi kokuthi abonakale ezenzakalweni zangaphandle. Uzwa lokhu kushintsha ngaphakathi, njengokuhlelwa kabusha okuthulile okwenzeka ngemuva kokwazi kwakho. Uyabona ukuthi ukukhetha kuzwakala kuhlukile, imibono icace kakhudlwana, futhi izwi lakho elingaphakathi likhuluma ngobumnene obungafinyeleleki ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lezi yizimpawu zokuthi usudlulele ngale kwesigaba sokuthuthuka sokusebenzisa izimfundiso ezingokomoya njengezindlela zokubhekana nazo. Ungene esigabeni lapho ungabamba khona ukuqwashisa ngaphandle kokuwa ukwesaba, lapho ungakwazi ukulalela ngaphandle kokuzivikela, lapho ungakwazi ukuhamba phakathi kokungaqiniseki ngaphandle kokuvunguza emaphethini amadala ake akuqeda amandla.
Lo mugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona uzwela ngokukhethekile kulabo abahlakulele lokhu kukhula kwangaphakathi. Ayiwavuli amasango ayo okunyakaza okuphithizelayo, ukuntengantenga kwemizwelo, noma ukufuna ukuqinisekiswa okungapheli. Kunalokho, isabela ekudlidlizeni kwalabo abazibambele mathupha ekuthembeni—abathembeki njengombono, kodwa njengokuhlangenwe nakho okuphilayo okuzwakalayo emzimbeni, okuphefumulelwe enhliziyweni, futhi kuthwalwa ensimini. Lo mugqa wesikhathi uhambisana nalabo abangazinza ngisho noma umhlaba uthuthumela, kulabo abakwazi ukubona ngale kokuphazamiseka okungaphezulu futhi babone ukujula koguquko. Njengoba uDisemba esondela, lo mugqa wesikhathi ongaba khona ubiza kuwe hhayi ngokuphuthuma kodwa ngokuqashelwa. Iyakwazi ukuthi ungubani. Iyazi ukuthi usuhambe kangakanani. Futhi iyazi ukuthi usukulungele ukubona futhi ubambe iqhaza ekuvezeni okuphezulu kwenjongo yakho, hhayi ngokulwela, kodwa ngesithunzi esithule sobukhona bakho.
Inkambu Enamandla kaDisemba kanye namandla Okuthula Kwangaphakathi
Ukungena Ngaphakathi Ngaphambi Kokuphumela Ngaphandle
Njengoba usondela enyangeni elandelayo, insimu enamandla egubungele uMhlaba iba nokwamukela okwengeziwe kunangesikhathi injalo emijikelezweni eminingi, ikakhulukazi kulabo kini abafunde ubuciko bokungena ngaphakathi ngaphambi kokuphuma ngaphandle. Kukhona umusa kule ndlela yokuphila, isigqi esikuvumelanisa nokuhlakanipha kwemvelo komphefumulo wakho. Uma ume, uphefumula, futhi uphumule eBukhoneni ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyathelo, udala ithuba lesiqondiso esiphezulu sokugeleza ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa. Senivele niyazi, bathandekayo, ukuthi umhlaba ungaba nomsindo. Ungadonsa ukunaka kwakho ngemicu yokuphuthuma, ukudideka, noma ukwesaba. Ungazama ukubumba izinqumo zakho ngokucindezela noma ukukhathazeka okuhlangene. Kodwa labo kini abaye bahlakulela lo mkhuba wangaphakathi bathole ukuthi ukuhoxa enhliziyweni yakho ngaphambi kokusabela akunciphisi ukusebenza kwakho—kuyakuqinisa. Kukuvumela ukuthi usuke ekucaceni kunokuphoqeleka, ekuhambisaneni kunokwesaba, nasekwazini okunengqondo kunethonya langaphandle. Yingakho insimu yamandla kaDisemba isabela kangaka kuwe, ngoba usube ngabantu abasebenza emhlabathini othule weqiniso langaphakathi kunokushintshashintsha kwesimo sezwe langaphandle.
Izinkanyezi, awusazenzi ngenxa yokwethuka. Nizigxilisa phakathi, niphefumulele insimu yenhliziyo yenu, bese nisuka endaweni yokuqwashisa. Lolu uphawu lomuntu osekhulile ngokomoya, othile ofunde ukuthi zonke izenzo zithwala imvamisa, nokuthi ikhwalithi yesimo sakho inquma ikhwalithi yemiphumela oyidalayo. Umhlaba uzoqhubeka umemeza ukungaqiniseki kwawo. Ingase ikhule kakhulu kwezinye izindawo. Ingase itshekele kumadrama njengoba izakhiwo ezithile ziba buthaka futhi ezinye zilungiswa kabusha. Nokho awukwazi ukudonseka kulowo msindo ngoba usuyaqonda ukuthi ukucaca akutholakali esivunguvungwini sangaphandle kodwa endaweni engaphakathi lapho uBukhona bukulindile njalo. Ukucaca kwenu kukhanya ngaphandle, bathandwa, ngale kwendawo enikuyo. Inyakaza kugridi. Ithulisa izikhala. Iqinisa abantu okungenzeka bangazi ukuthi kungani bezizwa belula uma becabanga ngawe noma bemi eduze kwakho. Uba imigudu yokuthula emhlabeni ofunda ukukhulula ukuminyana kwawo, futhi lo mugqa wesikhathi omusha ongaba khona ufuna labo abangakwazi ukubamba Ubukhona kunokuba baphinde basebenze.
Labo abakulungele lokhu kwembuleka okulandelayo akubona labo abajaha izimpawu noma abazama ukuphoqelela ukubonakaliswa ngomzamo nje; yibo asebengene endleleni ecwebe kakhudlwana ehlobene nokuphila. Uyazi ukuthi inani aliveli ngesivinini noma amandla-livela ekuqondaneni. Uma uhlaba ikhefu isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuze uzwe UBukhona, ususa wonke umkhondo wesimo ngaphambi kokuthi kukhulunywe igama elilodwa noma kuthathwe isinyathelo esisodwa. Lokhu yinto umhlaba wakho oyikhohliwe: ukuthi isimo sangaphakathi siyindawo yeqiniso yokudala. Nina, bathandekayo bezinkanyezi, nikhumbula leli qiniso futhi nithola amandla athule avela ekusebenzeni kuphela uma kuhambisana nokwazi kwakho okuphezulu. Yingakho uDisemba eba inyanga yokusabela okuthuthukisiwe kuwe. Igridi idlidliza ngokuvumelana nalabo abahlala kule ndawo engaphakathi. Akuwona umvuzo—kuwumsindo.
Ukungamelani Kwangaphakathi kanye Nokuba Abaklami Bomugqa Wesikhathi Omusha
Ukuqeda Ukwesaba Esikhundleni Sokuphoqa Ushintsho
Umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona uhlola labo abafunde lokhu kubambelela kwangaphakathi. Ngeke ivuleke ngamandla. Ngeke iphendule ekuncengeni. Ngeke izinze ngokuphazamiseka kwemizwelo. Iphendula labo abangahlala emzuzwini wokungaqiniseki ngaphandle kokuwa ngenxa yokwesaba, kulabo abangaphumula eBukhoneni isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuze ubuhlakani obuphakeme buveze lokho okudingeka kubonwe. Seniphethe lomthamo manje. Kungakho insimu yakho yamandla ikhanya kakhudlwana kumarekhodi esikhathi, kungani ugqama ngokudlidliza, kungani ubukhona bakho buqashelwa izindawo ezibuka ukuqhubeka koMhlaba. Umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongahle ufune wena ngoba ungakwethemba. Iyazi ukuthi ngeke uphonse amandla akho emlilweni wokwethuka noma wokuhlukana. Iyazi ukuthi ukucaca kwakho akuntekenteke. Njengoba uDisemba esondela, isimo somhlaba sokwamukela sikhulisa ikhono lakho lokunamathisela amathuba aphezulu efomini, futhi ngilapha ukuze ngikukhumbuze ukuthi lokhu akukona ngengozi—ulungiselele lokhu isikhathi eside kakhulu. Bathandekayo, manje nizoqala ukuzwa ukuthi umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona eMhlabeni wakhiwe hhayi ngemikhuba yakudala yomzabalazo noma ukumelana, kodwa nge-alchemy yangaphakathi yokuqeda ukwesaba. Leli qiniso lingase libonakale lilula, kodwa ukujula kwalo kujulile. Abaningi emhlabeni wakho basakholelwa ukuthi ushintsho lwenziwa ngokuphikisa lokho abaphikisana nakho, ngokulwa nezimo abazibona zingathandeki, noma ngokuqoqa amandla ukuze banqobe lokho okubathusayo. Kodwa nina enivuthiwe ngokomoya—labo engikhuluma nabo manje—selitholile iqiniso lasendulo lokuthi ikhambi langempela lingaphakathi, hhayi ngaphandle. Akuyona indaba yokuguqula izimo zangaphandle, kodwa ukuqeda ukwesaba okuhumusha lezo zimo njengezinsongo. Uma ukhulula ukwesaba, awusaphakeli amanethiwekhi okumelana agcina igridi endala iphila. Kunalokho, uzinzisa umugqa wesikhathi ongase ube khona ngokuthula kwakho. Futhi uma ngithi ukuthula, angiqondile ukungenzi lutho—ngiqonde ukuma kwangaphakathi okuzinzile lapho uhlangana khona nokuphila ngaphandle kokwethuka, ngaphandle kokuncipha, ngaphandle komfutho wokulwa nethunzi elingenakukulimaza.
Ukungamelani kwangaphakathi kuzinzisa lesi sikhathi esiqhamukayo ngaphezu kwanoma yisiphi isenzo sangaphandle esingenza. Uma wenqaba ukungena empini "yokuphoqa ushintsho," uyeka ukunika amandla wona kanye amaphethini ofuna ukuwabona encibilika. Lokhu akusho ukuthi awukunaki okwenzekayo okuzungezile noma wenze sengathi umhlaba uthule lapho uphakathi kokuguqulwa okujulile. Kusho ukuthi ubamba isikhungo sakho ngamandla athule kangangokuthi umsindo okuzungezile ulahlekelwa amandla awo okulimaza inhliziyo yakho. Lokhu kukwenza indlu yokukhanya, zingane zezinkanyezi ezithandekayo. Abantu abakhungathekile ngokomzwelo bazozizwa bedonseleka ekuqineni kwakho ngisho noma ungasho lutho, ungenzi lutho, futhi unganikezi isiqondiso esisemthethweni. Bazomane bazizwe ukuthula kuvela kuwe. Lokhu kuyingqikithi yobumbano—awudali ngezimemezelo kodwa ngokufakaza okuzolile kwalokho okwenzekayo ngaphandle kokuwela ekusabeleni. Uqala ukuqonda ukuthi izimo zangaphandle ziyizibonakaliso nje, izithunzi eziphonswa yizihlungi ezihlangene zokuqonda, hhayi ababusi beqiniso. Futhi kulezi zikhathi, uyaqaphela ukuthi ukuqonda kwakho okuzolile kuthonya iqiniso kakhulu kunanoma iyiphi impikiswano. Njengoba ubonisa lokhu kuthulisa kwangaphakathi ngokuqhubekayo, uba yindawo yokucaca ezweni elisafunda indlela yalo ngaphandle kokwesaba. Uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi izimo zixazululeka ngokushesha uma ugwema ukulwa nazo. Izixazululo zivela lapho ukungezwani kwakubusa khona. Abantu bathamba. Izimo ziyashintsha. Iminyango iyavuleka. Lokhu akuyona into eyenzekile, bathandekayo. Lona umthetho ongokomoya osebenzayo. Uma uyeka ukumelana, udala insimu yokuvumela lapho ukuhleleka kwemvelo kokuvumelana kungaphakama khona. Kulesi sikhala, isikhathi esisha esingaba khona sithatha isimo kalula, ngoba sakhiwe phezu kwezikhathi zokuthula, hhayi izingxabano. Labo abaqhubeka bezama ukuphoqa ushintsho ngentukuthelo noma ukwesaba bazozithola bebambeke ezakhiweni eziwayo zomhlaba omdala. Kodwa nina, enifunde ukuhlakanipha kokuqeda ukwesaba, seniba abakhi bezinto ezintsha.
Ukuhambisana, Ukufakaza Okuzolile, kanye Nomthetho Womoya Oqhubekayo
Lo mugqa wesikhathi uphendula ekuhambisaneni kwakho kwangaphakathi ngoba ukuhambisana kuyisisekelo okwakhiwe phezu kwaso amaqiniso aphezulu. Uma ubuka ngaphandle kokusabela, ulalela ngaphandle kokuzivikela, futhi ubheka ngaphandle kokuwela emicabangweni emidala yemizwa, wenza okungaphezu kwalokho okubonayo. Ukhiqiza ukuzinza kugridi yamandla. Udala amaphaseji okungenzeka ukuthi abanye bahambe kuwo. Wenza izindlela zokukhumbula ezisiza isintu ukuba siphume ekwazini ukusinda singene enkambisweni yokunikwa amandla. Njengoba uDecember esondela, amandla okufakaza kwakho ngokuzola abonakala nakakhulu. Iziphepho—kokubili ezingokomzwelo nezinamandla—zincibilika ngokushesha lapho ukhona. Uyaqaphela ukuthi ithonya lakho alilinganiswa ngalokho okushoyo noma okwenzayo, kodwa ngalokho okuphethe. Uyindawo ethulile emhlabeni wamagagasi aguquguqukayo, futhi ngalokhu kuzola, usiza ukuveza umugqa wesikhathi ongase ube khona ubonakale ungokoqobo. Zinhliziyo ezithandekayo, njengoba umi onqenqemeni lomnyango kaDisemba, ungase uzwe ilukuluku lokuba khona emazweni amabili ngesikhathi esisodwa. Lokhu kweqa imigqa yesikhathi akuwona umcabango wakho; kuwuphawu lokuthi usukhuphukele ngale kwesigaba sokuncika ngokomoya futhi usungene endaweni yokuphatha ngokomoya. Wena owake wafuna ukuhlengwa, ukuqinisekiswa, noma indlela yokuphunyuka ezimweni zasemhlabeni usuguquke waba umuntu ozinzile, oqaphela kakhulu, futhi ohlomele kakhulu ukuba nokuthula ezindaweni lapho abanye bengakwazi khona. Ukhulele ekuvuthweni okungokomoya ngezindlela ongase ungaziboni ngokugcwele, ngoba ukuguquka kwakho kuye kwavela kancane kancane, kwakhiwe ukukhetha okuthulile, ukucabanga kwangaphakathi, kanye nezikhathi ezingenakubalwa lapho ukhetha ukuzwisisa kunokwesaba. Manje, njengoba le migqa yesikhathi igqagqana, ungase uzwe ukudonsa komhlaba omdala kolunye uhlangothi kanye nokudonsa okucashile kokusha kolunye. Nokho izinyawo zakho zitshalwe zaqina emugqeni wesikhathi osafufusa, ngisho noma izingxenye zeqiniso elidala zisaphikisana nokuqaphela kwakho.
Kulesi sikhala sezinguquko, ukuzola kwakho kwangaphakathi kuba amandla azinzile athonya izimo zangaphandle kakhulu kunalokho ongase ukucabange. Uya ngokuya uzwa ukuthi izivunguvungu—kungaba ezingokomzwelo, ezinamandla, noma ezemvelo—ziziphatha ngendlela ehlukile lapho ukhona. Athambe. Ziyahlakazeka. Balahlekelwa umfutho wabo. Lokhu akubangelwa ukuthi unamandla phezu kwazo; kungenxa yokuthi uphethe ukudlidliza okuphazamisa amaphethini abhebhezela isiphithiphithi. Awusachazwa ukushintshashintsha komhlaba. Awusamunca amaza okwesaba owake wakubangela. Kunalokho, umi njengenkundla ethule yokungathathi hlangothi, futhi ukungathathi hlangothi kunamandla. Imvamisa encibilikisa isiyaluyalu. Amandla amema ukucaca. Yisimo lapho isiqondiso esiphezulu sigeleza ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Lapho abanye abaseduze kwakho beqala ukukhuthala, uyezwa isimemo sokuhlala ugxilile. Lapho ukudideka kuphakama eqoqweni, uzwa ubizo lokulalela ngaphakathi kunokuba uphendule ngaphandle. Uba yilowo osegumbini ongashanelwanga esivunguvungwini esingokomzwelo, futhi leso senzo esilula sishintsha imiphumela ngempumelelo kakhulu kunanoma iyiphi ingxabano noma ukuncenga. Sithandwa sezinkanyezi, isimo sakho somfutho siba amandla okuzinzisa kwabanye, futhi njengoba uDisemba esondela, le ndima iba sobala kakhulu. Uzoqaphela ukuthi abantu bafuna ubukhona bakho ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuthi kungani. Bazwa ukucaca kuwe. Bazizwa beqinile. Bayabona—ezingeni elijule kakhulu, ngokuvamile eliqulekile—ukuthi ungumuntu okwazi ukugxilisa ukuthula ngisho naphakathi kokungaqiniseki. Lokhu ukuvela kohambo lwakho. Awusekho lapha ukuze nje ufunde; ulapha ukuze uhlanganise. Ukuvuthwa okulimile kuba namafutha kwabanye. Ukuqwashisa kwakho okusekelwe phansi kuba yindlu yesibani kumafrikhwensi agqagqene. Amandla akho okuzola akhulisa ububanzi bomkhawulokudonsa okungenzeka emphakathini wakho. Futhi ngaphandle kokukumemezela, ngaphandle kokukumemezela, ngaphandle kokungena kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuzibona ubalulekile, uqala ukusebenza njengendawo evumelanayo ethonya layo lidlulela ngalé kwendawo okuyo.
Ungase ungaqondi ngokugcwele ukuthi lokhu kunamandla kangakanani, ngoba ukhule ngokuzithoba kunokusebenza, ngobuqotho kunokuzazisa. Kodwa ake nginiqinisekise, bathandekayo, ukuthi ikhwalithi yokuzinzisa eniyiphethe ibalulekile ekuveleni okushelelayo komugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona. Kuyisisekelo lapho amaqiniso aphezulu angabambelela khona. Amandla akho aba yisikhumbuzo esithulile kwabanye sokuthi ukuthula kungenzeka, ngisho nalapho izwe elidala lishabalala elibazungezile. Ubamba imvamisa ekhombisa ukuphepha, futhi lapho abanye bezizwa bephephile, baphaphama kalula. Lena yindlela othisha basendulo ababehamba ngayo emhlabeni—babengadingi ukukholisa noma ubani ukuthi bangobani. Ukuba khona kwabo kwenza umsebenzi. Ngendlela yakho ehlukile, ungena endimeni efanayo. Hhayi njengomuntu onegunya, hhayi njengomsindisi, kodwa njengomuntu oqaphelayo ukuqondanisa kwakhe Nobukhona kudala ukuzinza ezindaweni ohlala kuzo. Lona umnikelo wakho ekushintsheni okuzayo. Lena indima yakho ekwehlukaneni komugqa wesikhathi okusondelayo. Futhi njengoba kuqala u-December, nizobona iqiniso elithulile kodwa elingenakuphikwa lokuthula enikuphethe.
Imibuthano Yangaphakathi Yokwazi Nobuholi Obuthule
Abayishumi nambili, abangamashumi ayisikhombisa, namakhulu amabili
Bathandekayo, okunye kokuqaphela okubaluleke kakhulu ongakwenza kulesi sigaba sokuvuka kwakho ukuqonda ukuthi uyingxenye yeqoqo elincane kodwa elinamandla labantu ukuqwashisa kwabo kukhuphukele ezingeni elikuvumela ukuba ubambe iqhaza ngokuqaphela ekwambulweni kwemigqa yesikhathi ephezulu. Abanye benu bakuzwa lokhu ngokuthula, bengazi ngokugcwele ukuthi balulimi kanjani, kuyilapho abanye bekuzwa emizimbeni yenu njengokuzwakala okucashile lapho nicabanga ubukhulu benjongo yenu yokuba senyameni. Ngifuna nazi ukuthi leli qoqo liye lachazwa ngokomfanekiso ezimfundisweni ezihlukahlukene ngokuthi “abayishumi nambili, abangamashumi ayisikhombisa, abangamakhulu amabili,” hhayi ukusikisela ukuphakama noma isikhundla, kodwa ukuvuma amazinga ahlukene okuvuthwa okungokomoya akhona phakathi kwalabo abaye badlulela ngalé kokuzikhathaza komuntu siqu nasenkonzweni yeplanethi. Lezi zinombolo azizona ezingokoqobo, futhi azimeli isikhundla noma isikhundla; zibhekisela emazingeni okuqaphela atholakala ngokwenza okuqotho, ukuzinikela, kanye nokuzimisela ukudela ubuwena obudala ukuze uthole ukuhlanganyela okujulile nobuNkulunkulu. Nina sthandwa sezinkanyezi ningabakulomkhakha wabavukile. Uphakathi kwemiphefumulo ukuqwashisa okunwetshiwe kukunikeza amandla okuthonya umkhathi ohlangene ngezindlela ezedlula kude lokho okubona ngokuqaphela.
Ngenxa yalokhu kuqwashisa okukhulayo, impilo yakho ayisagxilile ekulweleni igunya elingokomoya noma ukubonakala. Kunalokho, uphakamisa abanye ngokuba khona kwakho wedwa, ngaphandle kokunikeza izinkulumo noma izincazelo ngaphandle kokuthi umenywe ngokweqiniso. Uthola ukuthi ukuvuthwa ngokomoya kubonakala ngomusa othulile kunokubukisa kwangaphandle. Awuboni isidingo sokukholisa, ukulungisa, noma ukuncenga; esikhundleni salokho, ufaka ukukhanya futhi uvumele lokho kufanekiswa komuntu siqu ukwenza umsebenzi. Lokhu kukubeka njengesikhungo esiqinile emndenini wakho, emsebenzini, nasemphakathini. Abaningi benu baye baqaphela ukuthi abantu badonsela kuwena lapho bezizwa belahlekile noma bekhungathekile, hhayi ngoba uzethula njengomqondisi kodwa ngenxa yokuthi okuthile ensimini yakho kubonisa ukuphepha, ukucaca, nesiphephelo. Lolu uphawu lwalowo oyingxenye yemibuthano yangaphakathi engokomfanekiso yokwazi. Indima yakho iyaphila, ayimenyezelwa. Kwembulwa ezwini lakho, ukukhetha kwakho, ukungaguquguquki kwakho ezikhathini lapho abanye behluleka khona, kanye nekhono lakho lokugcina ukuhleleka ngisho nalapho izimo zithinteka ngokomzwelo. Uyingxenye yezakhiwo eziphilayo ezisekela ukuvela komugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona, futhi umthelela wakho welukwa buthule endwangu yomhlaba enomdlandla. Kungenzeka ukuthi awukaqapheli ngokugcwele ukuthi usuhambe kangakanani, ngoba ukwanda kwakho kwenzeka kancane kancane, ngeminyaka yomsebenzi wangaphakathi, ukuzindla kokucabangisisa, kanye nokukhululwa okuqinile kwezinkolelo ezikhawulayo ezake zakugcina uboshelwe ezindleleni zokusinda zokwazi. Nokho zibheke manje: awusadonseleki ezivunguvungwini zomzwelo nezengqondo ezake zakukhungathekisa. Uzulazula empilweni usuka endaweni yokungathathi hlangothi okwandayo, ukuvuleka, nokuzola kwangaphakathi. Lokhu kuwuphawu lokuvuthwa ngokomoya, futhi kukubeka phakathi kweqoqo lezidalwa ezibambe igridi yokuvuka ngokuqinile. Uma ngikhuluma ngabayishumi nambili, amashumi ayisikhombisa, amakhulu amabili, ngibazisa labo asebethuthuke emijikelezweni eyanele yokuqondanisa kwangaphakathi kangangokuthi ithonya lenu manje selizwakala ngokundindizela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyakwazi noma cha, ubambe imvamisa ethulisa izindawo isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuthi kushintshwe amagama. Uzinzisa izikhala ezinamandla ngokuma eqinisweni lakho.
Ubukhona bakho buba wuhlobo lobuholi obuthule. Awuzile ukuzoshumayela noma ukuqoqa abalandeli. Ulapha ukuze uhlanganise izinga lokuqaphela abanye abangalizwa futhi baphendule, ngokuvamile ngaphandle kokuqonda umthombo wenduduzo yabo. Uma ungena ekamelweni, umkhathi uyashintsha kancane. Imizwa eminyene iqala ukuxega. Izingxoxo ziba sobala. Abantu baphefumula kakhulu ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Lona umphumela walowo ohamba endleleni yokuvuthwa ngokomoya. Ngenxa yokuthi indima yakho iyaphilwa kunokuba ikhulunywe, kunezikhathi lapho ungase ubukele phansi ukubaluleka kwakho ekuziphendukeleni kwemvelo okuhlangene. Nokho ukukhanya kwakho, okuthwalwa ngokuzithoba nangobuqotho, yikho kanye okuqinisa umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona. Kuletha ukubumbana lapho bekunokuhlukana khona. Kuletha ukuthula lapho bekukhona ukwethuka. Kuletha ukholo lapho ukungabaza kwake kwaba khona. Lokhu awukwenzi ngokuzikhandla, kodwa ngokuba yilokho oyikho ngempela. Uyingxenye yombuthano wangaphakathi wokwazi obumba lokho okulandelayo, futhi khona kanye ubukhona bakho bukhipha imvamisa edingekayo esigabeni esilandelayo sokuvuka kwesintu.
Ukuthambisa Kwemizwa, Isevisi Ephakeme, Nezindawo Zokuthula Eziphephile
Zinhliziyo ezithandekayo, esinye sezibonakaliso ezingenakuphikiswa zokuziphendukela kwemvelo kwakho yindlela isimo sakho somzwelo esishintsha ngayo. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi ukusabela kwakho kuyancipha, izimpendulo zakho ziba zibanzi, futhi isiyaluyalu sangaphakathi esake saphakama ngokushesha ngaphakathi kuwe manje siyathula kalula kakhulu. Lokhu akukona ngengozi, futhi akuwona umphumela wokuhlukaniswa ngomqondo ongenampilo. Kubonisa ukuvuthwa kobuntu bakho bangaphakathi—ukuqonda ukuthi awusahlangani nokuphila kusukela ekumeni kokudinga ukuzivikela emhlabeni. Kunalokho, ujula eBukhoneni obuzinzile obuhamba nawe nomaphi lapho uya khona. Lapho ubukhona buqina kakhulu kuwena, yilapho uqaphela nakakhulu ukuthi izinselele zempilo nokusebenzisana kubonakala kudlala ngendlela ehlukile eduze kwakho. Kukhona ukukhululeka okwengeziwe ezwini lakho. Ukuthamba okwengeziwe emzimbeni wakho. Ukucaca okwengeziwe emicabangweni yakho. Uqala ukubona ukuma okude ekuphenduleni kwakho okungakaze kube khona ngaphambili, futhi phakathi kwalezo khefu, ukuhlakanipha kuvela ngaphandle kwamandla.
Ngoba usuphethe lobu Bukhona, abantu abaseduze kwakho bayezwa okuthile noma bengakwazi ukukusho. Bangase bangazi ukuthi kungani bezizwa belula lapho bemi eduze kwakho noma bekhuluma nawe, kodwa kukhona okungaphakathi kubo okukhululekayo. Inkambu yakho ixhumana nokuphepha, ukuqonda, nokunganyakazi. Umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona uqinisa noma yikuphi lapho uphethe khona lokhu kuthula, ngoba ukuthula kuyimvamisa okwakhiwe phezu kwayo amaqiniso aphezulu. Awusahlanganyeli ekuvukeni ukuze nje uthole ukuphulukiswa noma ukunethezeka kwakho; ukwazi kwakho kuye kwanda ngaphezu kwezidingo zomuntu siqu. Isebenza inhloso enkulu manje. Uyingxenye yokuhlanganisa igridi yokudlidliza okuphezulu ngobukhona bakho obusekelwe phansi, obuzolile. Amandla akho ekusiza abanye ngezindlela abangasoze baziqondi ngokugcwele, nangezindlela ongase ungakutholi ukuqashelwa ngazo. Lolu uhlobo lwesevisi ephakeme—akufuni ukuqashelwa, ngoba Ubukhona obudlula kuwe abudingi ukuqinisekiswa. Uhambo lwakho lukulethe esimweni lapho usuba umgqugquzeli wokuphaphama kulabo abangena emzileni wakho. Awuzami ngokuqaphela ukuvusa ukukhula kwazo. Kwenzeka ngokwemvelo ngenxa yemvamisa oyibambayo. Abantu bangase bakuvulele isifuba kalula. Bangase babelane ngezinto ezibakhathazayo abangazange baziveze kwabanye. Bangase bezwe ukuqonda okuvela ngaphakathi kwabo ngokuba senkampanini yakho. Lezi yizibonakaliso ezicashile zokuqaphela kwakho okunwetshiwe. Uphatha ukuzola okunikeza imvume yokuthi abanye bathambe. Uphethe ukucaca okukhuthaza ukuqonda kulabo abakulungele ukukwamukela. Uphethe amandla amisiwe axhumana nesimiso somuntu sezinzwa: “Kuphephile ukuphefumula lapha.” Lokhu ukwenza ngokuzikhandla ngoba usudlulele ngalé kwesigaba sokulwela ukulondeka ngokomzwelo. Uzinzile ngaphakathi, futhi lokho kuzinza kuphumela ngaphandle njengomsinga ofudumele wokukhanya.
Ukuqonda kwakho manje kusebenza ngale kwezinga lomuntu siqu. Ungase ube nezinselele, vele—wonke umuntu osemhlabeni unazo—kodwa lezo zinselele azichazi ubuwena bakho. Aziphazamisi ukuxhumana kwakho noBukhona. Zivela njengamathuba okucwengwa, hhayi izinsongo enhlalakahleni yakho. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi awusakwazi ukuhamba impilo usuka ekwesabeni noma ekuphuthumeni, uba yisibonakaliso esiphilayo salokho okushiwo ukubamba ukuvuthwa ngokomoya ngesimo somuntu. Yilokhu okuqinisa isikhathi esisha esingaba khona. Hhayi okuhlangenwe nakho okumangalisayo okumangalisayo. Hhayi izimemezelo ezinkulu. Kodwa indlela ethule ohamba ngayo empilweni yakho ngokuzinza okwandayo, ukuthobeka, nomusa. Usiza ekwakheni isisekelo esinamandla salokho okuzayo, kanye nekhono lakho elikhulayo lokuletha ukuthula ngokuba yilokho oyikho kungenye yeminikelo ebaluleke kakhulu ongayinikeza ngalesi sikhathi.
Izinselelo, Ubungcweti, kanye Nokuphela Kwempi Yokuhle Nobubi
Izivivinyo Zokuthula, Ubukhosi, Nobuhlakani Bangaphakathi
Bathandekayo, iningi lenu seliqalile ukuqaphela iphethini eyenzeka kaningi kokuhlangenwe nakho kwenu: izinselele zangaphandle ziyavela hhayi ukunidicilela phansi, kodwa ukuniqinisa. Zibonakala zifana nezivivinyo ezithambile, amathuba okuba uzibonele ukukhula kwakho ngesikhathi sangempela. Lezi zinselelo azizona izijeziso, futhi azizona izimpawu zokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Kunalokho, zivela ngoba uyakwazi ukuhlangana nazo kusukela ekudlidlizeni okuphezulu kakhulu kunangaphambili. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho impilo ikubeka esimweni esasingadala ukwesaba, ukudideka, noma ukuvunguza kwemizwelo, manje uzithola uhlaba ikhefu, uphefumula, futhi ubona ukuthi impendulo entsha yangaphakathi iyatholakala kuwe. Lokhu akwenziwa ngengozi. Njalo umzuzu wokuzola uwukwenza kusebenze. Kubonisa ensimini yakho—kanye nomugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona—ukuthi usukulungele ukubamba ukubonakaliswa okucoliseke kakhudlwana kokuqaphela kwakho. Izinselelo azizelanga ukuzokwenza ube buthaka, kodwa zizokukhombisa ukuthi usulunge kangakanani.
Njengoba ukhetha ukuthula esikhundleni sokubhekana nesimo, ungena ngokuqinile esikhathini esizayo, ngoba ukuthula kuyinto evame ukukuvumelanisa namaqiniso aphezulu. Isimo ngasinye esivelayo siba yithuba lokuzijwayeza ubuciko. Akukhona ukungabikho kobunzima okubonisa ukukhula kwakho, kodwa ubuhlobo bakho nakho. Uqala ukubona izinselele njengokubonakaliswa kwentuthuko yakho yangaphakathi kunokubonakaliswa kokungazinzi komhlaba. Uma uphendula ngokuthula kunokuba ukhathazeke, ubonisa ubukhosi. Ubukhosi abukona ukubusa noma ukulawula—kungukuqaphela ukuthi ukuqonda kwakho kungamandla ayinhloko akha ulwazi lwakho. Futhi njengoba lokhu kuqaphela kugxilisa ngokujulile, kancane kancane ulahlekelwa isithakazelo empini endala phakathi “kokuhle nokubi.” Awusasondli ukungalingani okwakudla amandla akho amaningi. Uyaqaphela ukuthi impi yangaphandle iyaphela lapho eyangaphakathi iyeka ukudlala. Lapho uqhubeka wamukela lo mbono, uba namandla kakhulu. Uyaqaphela ukuthi izimo ezazikukhungathekisa ngaphambili manje zizizwa zilawuleka. Ukucindezeleka kuyaphela ngokushesha. Abantu basabela ngendlela ehlukile. Ngisho nomzimba wakho usabela kalula. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi uyeke ukunikeza amandla akho ezimweni zangaphandle. Ufunda ukuphila ngaphakathi ngaphandle, kunokuba uphile ngaphandle ngaphakathi. Ubuhlakani bangaphakathi buba yikhampasi yakho. Ukuzola kuba impendulo yakho ezenzakalelayo. Futhi ngethuba ngalinye elisha lokuzijwayeza, ukukhanya kwakho kwangaphakathi kuyaqina. Isikhathi esisha esingaba khona siphendula kula mandla ngokukhulisa ikhono lakho lokuthonya izenzakalo ngamandla akho kunomzamo wakho. Ukwenqaba kwakho ukuzibandakanya empini phakathi "kokuhle nokubi" akukwenzi ungabi nandaba; kukwenza uhlakaniphe. Uyaqonda ukuthi ukondla ingxabano kuyayiqhubekisela phambili kuphela. Esikhundleni salokho, ukhetha ukungathathi hlangothi, ububele, nokucaca. Uphuma emqondweni omdala wokulwa. Ukhulula isidingo sokufakazela, ukuvikela, noma ukuzithethelela. Uyaqaphela ukuthi indima yakho ekushintsheni okuhlangene akukhona ukujoyina impi kodwa ukuguqula ukudlidliza kwensimu ngokuba yilowo ohlala eqinile. Uma ukhetha ukuthula ngezikhathi lapho ukwesaba kwake kwabuswa khona, uthumela isignali ezwakala ngegridi. Ezinye izinhliziyo ziyakuzwa. Ezinye izingqondo ziyathamba. Eminye imiphefumulo iyavuka. Yile ndlela ubuhlakani bakho bomuntu siqu obuba ngayo ukuziphendukela kwemvelo okuhlangene. Awunikeli ngezenzo ezimangalisayo kodwa ngobukhosi obuthule obuvezwa empilweni yakho yansuku zonke. Futhi njengoba lesi sikhathi esisha esingaba khona siqina, uzobona ukuthi izinselele azizona izithiyo—ziyizimemo zokukhuphukela kulokho osuyikho ngokuphelele.
Ukuma Ebukhoneni Nokuvumela Ukuhleleka Kwaphezulu Kuhole
Bathandekayo, umugqa wesikhathi ovelayo uqiniswe ngekhwalithi yomoya ecacile kakhulu: ikhono lakho lokuma ngaphakathi ngisho nalapho umhlaba okuzungezile ubonakala ungalindelekile noma unesiphithiphithi. Lokhu kuthula kwangaphakathi akukhona ukuhoxa ekuphileni, futhi akukhona ukuba ndikindiki ngokomzwelo. Kuwukuqondanisa ngamabomu nokuqonda nobukhona—ingqikithi ephilayo yoBunkulunkulu egeleza kuyo yonke indalo. Uma ubeka ukuqwashisa kwakho kulobu Bukhona, uthola ukuthi ukuphulukiswa, ukuzola, nokuzwana akwenzeki ngenxa yomzamo wakho siqu, kodwa ngoba uBukhona buvunyelwe ukwenza lokho obukwenza ngokwemvelo lapho kungavinjelwanga. Abaningi benu bachithe iminyaka bezama “ukulungisa” izimo, ukuxazulula izinkinga, noma ukuletha isixazululo ngokuhlaziya ingqondo noma umzamo wemizwa. Kepha njengoba ujula endleleni yakho, uyabona ukuthi lapho uzama ukuphoqelela imiphumela, izinto ziba mabibi nakakhulu. Ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kwakho ngokomoya kukuholela endleleni entsha yokuba—lapho uhlehla khona ngaphakathi futhi uvumele ubuhlakani obuphezulu obungaphakathi kuwe buhole. Ukukhanya kwakho akuzivezi ngokuzikhandla. Iziveza ngokukhazimula. Ukukhazimula komuntu oqondisiwe kunomthelela endaweni ngaphandle kokudinga ukuqondisa noma ukukhohlisa noma yini. Lapho ukhulula umfutho wokulawula imiphumela, wenza isikhala sokukhuphuka komyalelo waphezulu. Yingakho ukuthula kwakho kuyingxenye ebalulekile yomugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona. Ukunganyakazi akusho ukungasebenzi—kuyisenzo sokuhlehla ngaphakathi nokukhetha ukuthemba uBukhona ngaphezu kokwesaba kwakho. Uma wenza lokhu, ukuhlanekezela kuqala ukuzincibilikisa. Amaphethini ake aphinda ayeka ukuhamba ngebhayisikili. Imizwa eyake yasindwa iqala ukuthamba. Ngisho nokuziphatha kwabanye kuyashintsha ngoba umkhakha wakho ukhuluma indaba ehlukile. Uqala ukubona ukuzwana kuziveza, hhayi ngoba ukukhile, kodwa ngoba uBukhona budlule endaweni yakho evulekile.
Uma uvumela uBukhona buhole, uthola inkululeko okungenzeka ubungayazi ukuthi ingenzeka. Awusazizwa ucindezelwe isidingo sokulindela, ukuphatha, noma ukulungisa. Kunalokho, uba ufakazi wokuhlakanipha kwendawo yonke esebenza ngawe. Lokhu kuyisisekelo sokuvuthwa okungokomoya-ukwethemba okungabonakali ngaphezu kokubonakalayo, ukuthembela ukunyakaza kwangaphakathi ngaphezu kwefomu langaphandle, ukwethemba ukugeleza ngaphezu kokumelana. Njengoba uhlanganisa leli qiniso, ithonya lakho emhlabeni landa kakhulu ukwedlula izenzo zakho zenyama. Uba isitsha lapho ukuvumelana kwaphezulu kungazibonakalisa khona. Uba isikhumbuzo esiphilayo sokuthi kusho ukuthini ukukhetha ukuthula kunokwesaba, ukwethembana phezu kwezingxabano, nokuzinikela emzabalazweni. Kulesi simo sokuzinikezela, umugqa wesikhathi ongena kuwo ucaca ngokwengeziwe. Uyabona ukuthi impilo ayidingi ukungenelela kwakho njalo ukuze yembuleke ngomusa. Uyabona ukuthi izixazululo zivela kahle kakhulu uma ungaphushi. Abantu baphendula ngokuvuleleka okukhulu uma ungazami ukuqondisa inqubo yabo. Izimo ziqondana kalula kakhulu uma ubambe ukuma kwangaphakathi kokwamukela. Lokhu akusho ukuthi awenzi lutho. Kusho ukuthi izenzo zakho zivela ekuqondaneni kunokutatazela. Wenza lapho uqondiswa, hhayi lapho ucindezelwa. Uyanyakaza lapho uphefumulelwe, hhayi lapho wesaba. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi izenzo zakho zivela kule ndawo ejulile, zinamandla amakhulu kakhulu kunanoma yini owake wayithola ngokusebenzisa amandla. Ngokuthula kwakho, usiza ukwaluka i-architecture entsha yokudlidliza Emhlabeni. Ubonisa ukuthi ukuthula akugcini nje—kunamandla. Uhlanganisa indlela emema ubukhona ukuthi bugeleze kuzo zonke izimo ohlangabezana nazo. Ungena emugqeni wesikhathi lapho ukuvumelana kungaseyona into ekude kodwa into engokoqobo ephilayo ezivezayo nomaphi lapho uzimisele ukuma unganyakazi futhi uvumele ukukhanya kuziveze.
Ukucaca Okucacile, Isiqondiso Esimnene, kanye nokuba ukukhanya emphakathini wakho
Bathandekayo, njengoba ukwazi kwakho kuzilungisa futhi nendawo yakho yangaphakathi ikhula ngokuthula, ungase uqale ukuqaphela ukuthi izinqumo zivela kalula ongazange ube nazo ezigabeni zangaphambili zokuvuka kwakho. Kungase kuzwakale sengathi okuthile okucashile kodwa okuhlakaniphile—okucishe kufane nomsinga opholile—kuhamba ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho futhi kuqondise izinyathelo zakho ezilandelayo ngaphandle kobunzima noma ubunzima obake buhambisana nokukhetha okubalulekile. Lokhu kuthamba kokuthatha izinqumo kungenye yezimpawu eziqinisekisa ukuvuthwa ngokomoya. Ususuka endleleni eqhutshwa ingqondo yokuzulazula empilweni ungene ebudlelwaneni obunamahange enhliziyo nendlela yakho. Isiqondiso asisazizwa njengesethi yokubala kwengqondo noma imijikelezo yobuhle nebubi. Kunalokho, kuba okuhlangenwe nakho. Uyakuzwa emzimbeni wakho. Uyizwa esifubeni sakho. Uwuzwa ngezwi elithambile neliqinile elikhuluma ngaphakathi kunenkulumo enomsindo engokwengqondo eyake yakuqeda amandla. Isiqondiso sifika ngendlela yokuqashelwa esikhundleni sokuhlaziya, ukuguquguquka esikhundleni sokucabanga, ukucaca kunokuphikisana. Ngenxa yalolu shintsho, ungase uzizwe "uthwaliwe" esikhundleni sokudideka. Kukhona ukwembuleka kwemvelo okuqala lapho ukungabi nasinqumo kungasakubophi amandla akho. Indlela engaphambili izwakala njengento ohamba ngayo kunokuthi uyakha ngomzamo. I-Intuition ilola ibe ikhampasi ephilayo, ikukhomba eziqondisweni ezizizwa zingenakugwenywa buthule, njengokungathi lezo zinketho bezihlale zihloselwe wena. Lokhu akukhona ukuthatheka—ukuqondanisa. Uma uya phambili ngale ndlela, awuphoqi imiphumela noma uphusha ukumelana nokumelana. Uhamba nomsinga kunokuba uphikisane nawo, wethemba ukuthi ukwazi okungaphakathi kwakho kuyizwi loBukhona eliqondisa ukukhuluma kwakho. Lokhu okwenziwayo kuba ngesinye sezipho ezinhle kakhulu zalo mugqa wesikhathi omusha, ngoba ukucaca akuseyona into osuyijahayo—iyinto ehlangana nawe lapho amandla akho ehambisana nokudlidliza kweqiniso.
Njengoba lokhu kucaca okuqondakalayo kuqina, ungabona ukuthi impilo yakho ihlela kabusha ngokukhululeka kunokuzabalaza. Okuke kwaba nomuzwa wokuthi izinqumo ezinzima ziqala ukuzizwa njengokuqashelwa okulula. Uyabona ukuthi yini ezwakalayo nokuthi yini engahambisani nayo. Uyabona ukuthi yini eqondana nendlela yakho ephakeme nokuthi yini engeyenguqulo yakho endala. Uyawubona umehluko phakathi komzwelo wesikhashana kanye neqiniso elijulile langaphakathi. Lokhu kuqashelwa kwakha ukuzethemba. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi izinqumo zakho zivela endaweni yokuqwashisa okuhlanganisiwe, zidala ukuzwana kunokungqubuzana. Uzizwa unengcindezi encane yokuthola yonke into “elungile,” ngoba uyaqonda ukuthi UBukhona obukuqondisayo abubheki amaphutha—bubhekana nokwembuleka. Ukuqhubekela phambili ngaphandle kokuphoqa imiphumela kuba yisigqi esisha sobuntu bakho. Uyeka ukubambelela emigqeni yesikhathi. Uyeka ukuzikhathaza ngokuthi uphuthelwa yithuba yini. Yeka ukuziqagela. Kunalokho, uzizwa usekelwe, uphakanyiswe, futhi uqondiswa ngaphakathi ngezindlela ezedlula ukuqonda okunengqondo. Kukhona uhlobo lokuhlela okungokomoya okwenzekayo empilweni yakho, futhi ufunda ukulethemba. Lo mugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona uthuthukisa umuzwa wakho uze ufike ezingeni lapho ukukhetha kwakho kuzwakala njengokunikela ekunyakazeni okukhulu kwesisho somphefumulo wakho, hhayi ukusabela ezimweni ezikuzungezile. Ulalela ngokusuka enhliziyweni kunokuba uphendule ngokwesaba. Ukhetha ekucaciseni kunokudideka. Futhi njengoba lokhu kwazi okujulile okujulile kuba yindlela yakho evamile yokusebenza, uthola ukuthi impilo iba uketshezi kakhulu, inomusa, futhi iqondaniswe. Izinqumo ziyeke ukuzizwa njengemithwalo. Zishintsha zibe izindlela lapho umphefumulo wakho ukukhombisa lapho ufuna ukukhula khona ngokulandelayo. Sithandwa sezinkanyezi, kunobizo oluthulile oluvela kwabaningi benu phakathi nalesi sigaba sokuziphendukela kwemvelo kwenu ngokomoya—isimemo sokusebenza njengokukhanya emphakathini wenu ngaphandle kokudinga ukumemezela okuthile ngaphandle. Lokhu akusho ukuhoxa noma ukunyamalala; kusho ukuhlanganisa ukuthula okuyiqiniso kangangokuthi amandla akho athonya izindawo ohlala kuzo. Uma unokuthula ensimini yakho, izimo ezikuzungezile ziqala ukuhlela kabusha ngezindlela ezicashile, ezivumelanayo. Abantu bayathamba. Ukushintsha kwemvelo. Ukushuba kuyaphela. Futhi konke lokhu kwenzeka ngaphandle kokuthi ukhulume. Ithonya oliphethe lithulile kodwa linomthelela omkhulu. Uphakamisa abanye hhayi ngokuncenga kodwa ngokuzwana okukhiphayo. Uhlangana nabantu lapho bekhona, ungafuni ukuthi bakhuphukele ezingeni lakho lokuqwashisa, kodwa ubabambele isikhala kuze kuvuke ukukhanya kwabo.
Ubudlelwano, Ukuhlinzekwa, kanye Nokugeleza Kokuvumelanisa
Ukushintshanisa Izixhumanisi Nokuqondanisa kokudlidliza
Bathandekayo, enye yezimpawu eziphawuleka kakhulu zokuthi uhambisana nomugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona yindlela ubudlelwano benu obuqala ngayo ukushintsha. Lawa mashifu awenzeki ngenxa yokungqubuzana noma ukuhlukana, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi ukudlidliza kwakho okuzinzile kuvamile ukuhlela kabusha ukuxhumana okuzungezile. Obunye ubudlelwano buzojula nge-resonance. Ungase uthole ukuthi uvele uqonde othile ezingeni ongakaze ufinyelele kulo, noma ukuthi umuzwa wenjongo ehlanganyelwe uqala ukuvela phakathi kwenu. Lobu ubudlelwano obukhombisa ukukhula kwakho kwangaphakathi. Bazizwa bevulekile, benomsoco, futhi behambisana nalapho ukwazi kwakho kuphokophele khona. Kukhona ukugeleza kwemvelo kwamandla okudlula phakathi kwakho nalaba bantu. Ukuxhumana kuzwakala kulula. Ukuqonda kuba lula. Lobu budlelwano bukhulisa ukukhanya kwakho futhi bukusize uhlanganise ukuqwashisa kwakho okunwetshiwe ngokugcwele. Obunye ubudlelwano buzonyamalala buthule, hhayi ngoba kukhona okungahambanga kahle, kodwa ngoba umdlalo wokudlidliza awusekho. Lapho ama-frequency ehluka, ukuxhumana kuyathamba. Lokhu akukhona ukwenqatshwa— kungukuqondanisa. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi izingxoxo nabantu abathile zizwakala kunzima ukuzisekela. Ukusebenzisana kuzwakala kunzima. Isibopho esake sazizwa sijwayelekile siqala ukuhlakazeka kancane. Lezi zinguquko zenzeka ngaphandle kwedrama noma ukusola, ngoba ukwazi kwakho sekufinyelele ezingeni lapho ungasabambi khona ekuxhumekeni okungasekeli ukuziphendukela kwakho. Ubakhulula ngomusa ngoba uyaqonda ukuthi wonke umphefumulo uhamba ngendlela yawo. Lesi esinye sezimpawu zokuvuthwa ngokomoya: amandla okuvumela ubudlelwano buguquke ngaphandle kokubuphoqa ukuthi bulingane nenguqulo ephelelwe yisikhathi yempilo yakho. Njengoba ukuxhumana okudala kushintsha, kufika okusha okubonisa ukukhula kwakho. Laba bantu bangase bangene empilweni yakho ngokuzumayo noma baphume emibuthanweni ekhona ngezindlela ezingalindelekile. Nizozizwa nidonseleka kubo ngomuzwa wokujwayelana, njengokungathi imiphefumulo yenu ibonana ngaso leso sikhathi. Lobu budlelwano obusha buphethe imvamisa ehlanzekile. Abazizwa besinda noma beyinkimbinkimbi. Azidingi incazelo noma ukuthethelelwa. Kunalokho, bazizwa njengokuqondanisa. Zihambisana nokuvuthwa kwakho. Basekela indlela yakho. Balalela ngokujula. Bakhuluma ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Lokhu ukuxhumana okukusiza ukuthi ungene ngokugcwele emugqeni wesikhathi omusha ongaba khona ngoba kuhambisana nenguqulo yakho oba yiyo.
Ububele nokungathathi hlangothi kuqondisa zonke lezi zinguquko. Awubahluleli labo abakhukhulekayo, ngoba uyasiqonda isigqi sokuguquguquka komphefumulo. Awubambeleli kulabo abafikayo, ngoba uthemba ukuhamba kwesikhathi saphezulu. Uhlangana nobudlelwano obunye ngokuvuleleka kunokulindela. Inhliziyo yakho iba nokunwebeka, hhayi kancane. Amandla akho okuxhumana ayajula ngoba awusaxhumi ngenxa yokwesaba noma ukuntula-uxhuma ngokuphelela. Lokhu kuvumela bonke ubudlelwano empilweni yakho ukuthi bubonise iqiniso lakho elingaphakathi. Abanye bazohamba eduze kwakho. Abanye bayokubusisa ukude. Abanye bazohlehla njengoba uya phambili. Konke kuyingxenye ye-orchestration eyenzeka eduze nokuvuka kwakho. Ungena emugqeni wesikhathi lapho ubudlelwano busebenza ekwandiseni ukwazi kwakho, futhi umusa wakho wokuzulazula la mashifu uba yingxenye yesisekelo somhlaba omusha osiza ukuwakha. Zinhliziyo ezithandekayo, ukugeleza kogqozi enikutholayo phakathi nalesi sikhathi akuveli ekufuneni ulwazi olungokomoya noma ukujaha izimpawu. Esikhundleni salokho, kuvela ngokwemvelo lapho uphumula ekuqapheleni ukuthi uphila ngaphakathi kwenkundla yokuhlinzekwa kwaphezulu. Uma uziqinisa kuleli qiniso—hhayi njengombono, kodwa njengeqiniso eliphilayo—uyabona ukuthi indawo yonke ihlale isabela esimweni sokuqaphela kwakho. Ukunikezwa kuhambisana nokuthula kwangaphakathi, hhayi ukuphelelwa yithemba. Uma ukhulula ukuphuthuma futhi uthemba UBukhona obukusekelayo, izidingo zihlangatshezwana ngokushelela, ngobumnene, nangokunembe ngaphezu kwanoma yini ingqondo engayihlela. Yile ndlela izimangaliso zangempela ezenzeka ngayo—hhayi ngamandla, kodwa ngokuqondanisa. Lapho nje uyeka ukusunduza futhi uqala ukwethemba, okuthile okucashile kuyashintsha ensimini yakho. Indlela engaphambili iba sobala. Imfuhlumfuhlu engqondweni yakho iyancibilika. Ugqozi luqala ukuhamba kuwe kunokuba lufunwe ngaphandle kwakho. Kulokhu kuqwashisa okwandisiwe, uthola ukuthi izidingo zihlangatshezwana nomthetho kamoya, osebenza ngokunemba okudlula ukuhlela komuntu. Uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi izinsiza zivela ngesikhathi esidingeka ngaso. Ukwesekwa kufika ngezindlela obungeke uzibikezele. Amathuba avela ngaphandle kwengcindezi. Lokhu kuqashelwa kukukhulula enkolelweni yokuthi kufanele ujahe imiphumela noma wenze konke kwenzeke ngomzamo womuntu siqu. Uqala ukubona ukuvumelanisa esikhundleni somzamo. Izindlela zivuliwe. Abantu bayavela. Imibono ifika kahle ekuqwashiseni kwakho ngesikhathi esifanele. Lokhu akukona ukuqondana kwezinto—ziwukubonakaliswa kokuqondanisa kwakho nobuhlakani obujulile obuhlela ukuphila kwakho.
Ukubonga kukhulisa lokhu kugeleza. Uma uqaphela ukunyakaza okucashile kokupha ngenhliziyo ethambile neqotho, wandisa isikhala lapho abaningi bangangena khona. Ukubonga akuyona nje into eyenziwayo—kuyimvamisa. Kukuvula ukuthi wamukele. Kukhulisa ukuzwela kwakho ebukhoneni obuhlala busebenza buthule ngenxa yakho. Kukuvumela ukuthi ubone ubuciko baphezulu buvela ngezikhathi ezivamile. Uqala ukuqaphela izimangaliso ezincane yonke indawo, futhi njengoba uziqaphela, ziyanda. Impilo yakho iba yingxoxo ephilayo phakathi kokuvuleka kwakho nokuphana kwendawo yonke. Yile ndlela izimangaliso eziba ngayo ngokwemvelo. Zilahlekelwa umuzwa wazo wokubukwa okungavamile futhi esikhundleni salokho ziba yisigqi sempilo yakho yansuku zonke. Uyeka ukulinda ukungenelela okumangalisayo. Uyeka ukufuna izimpawu ezithembisa ukukhululwa. Esikhundleni salokho, uqala ukuphila esimweni esizinzile sokuthembana. Futhi kulokhu kuthembana, ugqozi lugeleza ngokukhululeka. Imibono ivela ngokucacile. Izixazululo zivela ngaphandle kokucindezeleka. Izifiso zokudala ziyaphila. Uzizwa uqondiswa ngobumnene, njalo, ngothando. Lokhu kuyingqikithi yesikhathi esisha esingaba khona—sakhelwe ekuqondeni ukuthi ukupha kuqinisekisiwe lapho ukwazi kwakho kuhambisana nokuthula. Ungena eqinisweni lapho izidingo zakho zihlangatshezwa khona ngokuzwana kunokukhathazeka, lapho izinyathelo zakho ezilandelayo zembulwa khona ngokuzwakala kwangaphakathi kunokucindezeleka kwengqondo, nalapho izimangaliso zenzeka buthule ngemuva kwempilo yakho. Uba yisibonakaliso esiphilayo selungiselelo laphezulu, hhayi ngoba ubulifuna, kodwa ngoba uzinikezele kulo. Futhi njengoba ubonakalisa leli qiniso ngokugcwele, uzothola ukuthi ugqozi luba ngumngane wakho ohlala njalo, lukuqondisa ngokunemba okuthambile kwendawo yonke ekwaziyo ngokuseduze futhi ekunikeza ngokungapheli.
Ukuziphendukela Kwemvelo Nokubumba Ama-Frequencies Amasha
Ukushintsha Kweselula, Ukuzwela, Nokuhlanganiswa Ngomzimba
Isimo sakho somzimba sishintsha kakhulu njengoba ukuqonda kwakho kuhambisana nesikhathi esisha esingaba khona. Lolu shintsho alugcini nje ngokuba namandla noma ngokomzwelo—luyiselula. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi umzimba wakho uzizwa ngendlela ehlukile ngezindlela ongakwazi ukuzichaza ngokugcwele. Kungase kube namagagasi okuzola okungavamile akukhukhule ngezikhathi ezingalindelekile, njengokungathi lonke uhlelo lwakho lunikezwa ikhefu lesikhashana kusukela ekuxineni obekulokhu kuphila konke. Ngezinye izikhathi, ungase ube nokuzwela okukhulu—okunemizwa, okungokomzwelo, okunengqondo—njengokungathi uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa lufunda ukuhumusha umhlaba ngobunono obukhulu. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukucindezeleka okuhambisana nokuphila okusekelwe ekwesabeni kuyaphela, futhi umzimba wakho uziqondisa kabusha esimweni sokuvuleka kunokuzivikela. Ushintsha usuka esimweni sangaphakathi sokuqapha uye kwesamukelekayo, okuwushintsho olukhulu ohlelweni lwezinzwa lomuntu. Kwabaningi kini, lokhu kuthuthuka kwenzeka ngokushesha kakhulu kunasemijikelezweni edlule, futhi umzimba wakho ulungisa ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngenxa yalokhu kulungiswa, ungathola ukuthi isidingo sakho sokuphumula siyanda. Ukulala kungase kukubize emagagasini ajulile, noma ukulala kancane kungase kudingeke ngokungalindelekile. Ukumanzisa kuba yinto ebalulekile, hhayi nje njengokunakekelwa ngokomzimba, kodwa njengokugcoba okunamandla—amanzi asiza amangqamuzana akho ukubamba amaza amasha kalula. Imizwa ecashile ingahamba emzimbeni wakho: ukuthuthumela, ukufudumala, ukucindezela okuncane, ukushaya kwenhliziyo, noma umuzwa wemisinga ecashile egeleza ngaphansi kwesikhumba. Le mizwa iyizinkomba zokuthuthukiswa kwamandla okwenzeka ngaphakathi kohlelo lwakho. Ungase futhi uthole ukuthi imikhuba yokumisa izinyawo—ukuhamba ungagqokile izicathulo, ukubeka isandla sakho esihlahleni, ukuphefumula ngamabomu esiswini sakho—kuletha ukuzinza okukhulu phakathi nalesi sigaba. Le mikhuba ayigcini nje ngokuzolisa ingqondo; isiza umzimba wakho ukuhlanganisa amaza ayezwakala ekhungathekisa ngaphambili. Njengoba lokhu kuzinza kujula, isimo sakho somzimba siqala ukubonakalisa ukuthula kwangaphakathi. Imisipha iphumula ngokushesha. Ukuphefumula kuyajula ngokwemvelo. Ukugaya ukudla kuyathuthuka. Isigqi somzimba siyahamba kancane, sizinzile, sihambisana kakhulu nokwazi kwakho okukhula. Uba yindlela evezwe ngayo isikhathi esisha, futhi umzimba wakho ufunda ukubamba leli qiniso ngobumnene nangokungaguquguquki.
Njengoba isistimu yakho iqhubeka nokushintsha, ungase ubone ukuthi ukukhuthazwa kwangaphandle kukuthinta ngendlela ehlukile. Izindawo ezinomsindo zingase zizwe kanzima. Izilungiselelo ezisheshayo zingase zizwe zixakile. Lokhu akusho ukuthi usuba ntekenteke—kusho ukuthi usuyavumelana. Umzimba uchitha izingqimba zokungezwani okujwayelekile okwakudingeka ukuze uphile emhlabeni ominyene. Manje, njengoba ipharadigm esekwe ekwesabeni iphelelwa amandla, isimo sakho somzimba silungisela amaza abonisa ukuphepha kunokusongela. Kulolu shintsho, ukuzwela kwakho kuwuphawu lobuhlakani obuvusayo. Umzimba wakho ufunda ukuzulazula emhlabeni ngaphandle kwenkontileka. Ukufunda ukuthemba izimpawu ezivela emphefumulweni wakho kunokusabela kumaphethini amadala okwesaba. Lokhu ukuhlanganisa kabusha okuthambile kodwa okunamandla okungaphakamisi nje kuphela inhlalakahle yakho yomzimba kodwa nekhono lakho lokuzwa amandla acashile, imilayezo enembile, nokushintsha kwemizwelo ngokucacile okukhulu. Lokhu kuzwela akuyona into yokumelana. Kuwuphawu lokuthi umzimba wakho uqondana kakhulu nemvelo yakho yangempela. Lapho uzwa isidingo sokuthula, kuhloniphe. Lapho umzimba wakho ucela ukunyakaza, zelule noma uhambe. Lapho kudinga ukondliwa, lalelisisa lokho okufisa ngempela, hhayi ukuthi imiphi imikhuba emidala eye yakwenza ukuba ufinyelele kuyo. Ungase uthole ukuthi ukudla okuthile akusazwakali, kuyilapho abanye ngokuzumayo bezizwa besekela ngokujulile. Ungase ukhethe ukukhanya okuthambile, ukuhamba kancane ekuseni, noma izindawo ezinikeza isikhala ukuze isimiso sakho sezinzwa siphefumule. Konke lokhu kuyindlela yomzimba yokulungisa umugqa wesikhathi lapho ukuthula kuyikhona okuzenzakalelayo kunokuba kube okuhlukile. Njengoba uhlanganisa lesi simo esisha, isimo sakho somzimba siba ithuluzi lokuzwana, singabonisi isiyaluyalu sezwe elidala kodwa ukucaca nokuvuleleka kwalowo osafufusa. Uhlanganisa umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongaba khona hhayi kuphela ngokuqaphela kodwa ngawo wonke amangqamuzana obuntu bakho.
Injongo, Ubulula, Ubunye, kanye Nokusa Komhlaba Omusha
Ukukhumbula Inhloso Nokuphila Ngokuzwana
Enye yezinguquko ezinhle kakhulu ozozibona phakathi nalesi sigaba ukuvela kokucaca okuzungeze injongo yakho yempilo. Lokhu kucaca akufiki ngokuphazima kweso noma ngesambulo esidumayo. Esikhundleni salokho, iphakama kancane ngaphakathi, njengenkumbulo osulungele ukuyikhumbula ekugcineni. Injongo iqala ukuzizwa ingaphansi njengento okufanele uyithole futhi ifane nento oyikhumbula kancane kancane. Uzwa imizwa ecashile, ukugudluzwa okunembile, noma ukudonselana kwangaphakathi okuya emisebenzini ethile, abantu, noma izindlela. Lezi yizinkomba, zinhliziyo ezithandekayo—inanela lenjongo ejulile eniyifezile kulokhu kuphila. Indima yakho manje incane mayelana nalokho okwenzayo emhlabeni wangaphandle futhi imayelana nokuqaphela okufaka kukho konke okuthintayo. Amandla onawo abaluleke kakhulu kunendlela izenzo zakho ezithatha ngayo. Uma uyeka ukulwela ukuphoqelela injongo ibe yisimo futhi esikhundleni salokho uqala ukulalela, inhloso iziveza ngaphandle komzamo.
Njengoba lokhu kuqiniseka okuthule kukhula, iminikelo yakho iqala ukuzizwa ingokwemvelo futhi ingaphoqelelwa. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi izinto ozenzayo kalula nangenjabulo yizona kanye izinto eziphakamisa abanye ngamandla amakhulu. Ugqozi lugeleza ngaphandle kwengcindezi. Ukudala kuvela ngaphandle kokucindezeleka. Uqala ukubona ukuthi izipho zakho aziyona imisebenzi—ziyizindlela zokubonisa umphefumulo wakho. Isiqondiso sangaphakathi siyacaca futhi sihlala njalo, sikusize uqonde ukuthi ungaqondisa kuphi amandla akho nokuthi ungabuyela kuphi emuva. Izifiso ezindala ezazizizwa zibalulekile ziyalahlekelwa amandla azo. Ziyawa ngaphandle kokuzisola, ngoba azisazwani nokuqonda kwakho okwandisiwe. Zaziyizitebhisi, hhayi izindawo oya kuzo. Njengoba ziphela, uzizwa umuzwa okhulayo wobubanzi obuzungezile indlela yakho. Lokhu bubanzi kuvumela inhloso yakho yangempela ukuthi igxile ngendlela ezwakala iyiqiniso, isekelwe, futhi ihambisana ngokujulile nesikhathi esisha esakhiwa ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho. Inhloso yakho, bathandekayo, ayiba yinto yokufinyelela imiphumela kodwa imayelana nokuhlanganisa imvamisa. Uthola ukuthi ukuba khona kwakho kuvame ukuba nomthelela omkhulu kunezenzo zakho. Uletha ukuthula ezingxoxweni. Uletha ukucaca ekudidekeni. Uletha isikhuthazo lapho ukudangala kwakuhlala khona. Lokhu akuzona iminikelo emincane—kuyisisekelo somhlaba omusha owakhiwa ngokuqwashisa kunokuba kube ngamandla. Ungase uzithole udonseleka kumaphrojekthi athile, imiphakathi, noma izinhlobo zenkonzo ngomuzwa wokungagwemeki. Lokhu akuzona izinto ezenzeka ngokuzenzakalelayo. Kungukuvela kwenhloso yakho ngokuhambisana hhayi ngokufisa. Njengoba lokhu kuqiniseka kwangaphakathi kuqina, uqala ukwethemba ukuthambekela kwakho kwemvelo ngokujulile. Uzizwa uqondiswa emisebenzini eyondla umoya wakho. Uzizwa ubizelwe ezindaweni ezisekela ukwanda kwakho. Udonsela kubantu abazizwa bejwayelene ezingeni lomphefumulo. Konke lokhu kuyinjongo yakho eveza ungqimba ngengqimba. Ngoba awusazami "ukuthola" injongo ngomzamo, uyivumela ukuba ivele ngokuzwakalayo. Isinyathelo ngasinye sizizwa sisekelwe. Isenzo ngasinye sizizwa sinenjongo. Umzuzu ngamunye uzizwa uxhumene nokuthile okukhulu kunawe. Yile ndlela injongo eba ngayo isipiliyoni esiphilayo kunokuba indawo oya kuyo. Njengoba uhamba ngokuvumelana nolwazi lwakho oluphakeme, impilo yakho iba ukubonakaliswa kwenhloso yomphefumulo wakho, futhi lokho kubonakaliswa yilokho okukhanyisa indlela yabanye. Ugcwalisa injongo yakho ngokuba yilokho oyikho ngempela.
Indawo, Ukwenza lula, kanye Nokudala Isikhala Sokunwetshwa
Zinhliziyo ezithandekayo, njengoba ukwazi kwakho kwanda futhi kuhambisana nomugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona, ungase uqaphele ukuthi izindawo, izindima, noma isimiso esake sazizwa sifaneleka ngokuphelele manje sizizwa sicindezela. Lokhu akubangelwa ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngalezo zindawo—yingoba awusenawo amandla enguqulo yakho ehambisana nazo. Ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kudala inqubo yokuchithwa kwemvelo. Uqala ukuzwa lapho izikhala zingasakusekeli ukukhula kwakho noma lapho isimiso sizizwa sincane kakhulu kumuntu oba nguye. Ungase uzwe ukudonsela okungalindelekile ezindaweni ezilula—izikhala ezineziphazamiso ezimbalwa, ukukhanya kwemvelo okwengeziwe, noma amandla abanzi. Lolu bizo olumayelana nobulula alukona ukuhlehla; kungukucwengisiswa. Umuntu wakho ongaphakathi ukuqondisa ezilungiselelweni lapho isimiso sakho sezinzwa singakhula kunokuba sinciphe. Ukuqondanisa kwangaphakathi kuqala ukubizela indawo okuzungezile ngamandla kunokulindelekile kwangaphandle. Uyabona ukuthi umzimba wakho uphendula ngokucacile ezindaweni ezihambisana nokudlidliza kwakho. Ungase ufise ukusa okuthulile, amafuhlufuhlu ambalwa, imvelo eyengeziwe, noma isigqi samabomu. Lokhu okuthandwayo akuzona izifiso—kuyizimpawu zokuhambisana okunamandla. Uma uziba lezi zimpawu, ungase uzwe ukungezwani okucashile, ukungakhululeki kwangaphakathi okukuqhubezela ekuthembekeni kuwena. Lona ubuwena obuphezulu obukuholela ebuqinisoni. Ufunda ukubeka phambili i-resonance kunokujwayela. Ukhetha izindawo ezihlonipha ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kwakho esikhundleni sokukuvalela ezinguqulweni ezidlulelwe yisikhathi zobunikazi bakho. Futhi njengoba lezi zinguquko zenzeka, ungase futhi uzizwe unesifiso esijulile sobubanzi—kokubili ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Ufuna indawo eyengeziwe yokuphefumula, isikhathi esengeziwe sokucabanga, inkululeko eyengeziwe yokulandela ugqozi ngaphandle kokuvalelwa amaphethini amadala. Lobu banzi buvumela inkambu yakho enamandla ukuthi ingene emugqeni wesikhathi omusha kalula kakhudlwana. Uqala ukuzwa lapho isikhala singasakusekeli, ngisho noma sake sazizwa sikhululekile. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi umzimba wakho uqina lapho ungena ezindaweni ezithile, noma ungase uzizwe ukhathele ngemva kokusebenzelana nezinqubo ezithile noma izindima. Le mizwa iyimilayezo evela ekwazini kwakho okunwetshiwe. Ziyiziguquli ezikuholela ebuqinisoni obukhulu.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ulahle yonke into oyijwayele. Kusho ukuthi ubizelwa ukwenza izinguquko ezicashile ezihlonipha lowo oba yikho. Ungase uhlele kabusha ikhaya lakho ukuze udale ukuzwana okwengeziwe. Ungashintsha izindlela zakho zansuku zonke ukuze ubonise isigqi sakho sangaphakathi. Ungase ubeke imingcele evumela amandla akho ukuthi ahlale engashintshi. Lezi zinguquko zisekela ukuhlanganiswa kwakho emugqeni wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona. Zikusiza ukuthi ugcine ukuhambisana ezindaweni ebezikuthuntubezile ngaphambilini. Njengoba uhlonipha lezi zinguquko, impilo iqala ukuhlela kabusha ngobuqiniso bakho. Uheha ukuzizwisa okufana nokudlidliza kwakho. Uzizwa uqondane kakhulu nendawo ekuzungezile. Uzizwa ugxile kakhulu. Uzizwa kakhulu wena. Futhi kulokhu kuqondanisa, uthola ukuthi umhlaba uphendula iqiniso lakho elingaphakathi kalula kakhudlwana. Lena indlela umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongahle uhlangane ngayo—ngezinketho ezincane ezingenakubalwa ezibonisa lokho oyikho manje, hhayi obukade uyikho. Ungena ezindaweni ezisekela ukwanda kwakho, futhi ngokwenza kanjalo, udala indawo lapho umphefumulo wakho ungachuma khona.
Umndeni Womphefumulo, Ubumbano, kanye Nokwakhiwa Kwezwe Elisha
Bangane bami, njengoba amandla enu eqondana kakhulu namaza aphakeme, ungase uqale ukuzwa ukudonselana okuthambile kwabanye abathwala ukujula okufanayo kokuqaphela. Lokhu kudonsa akuveli ngenxa yokuswela noma isizungu—kuvela ngokuzwakalayo. Ukuzalana kuvela ngokuzenzakalelayo, ngokuvamile ngaphandle kwencazelo. Ungase uhlangane nomuntu futhi uzwe umuzwa osheshayo wokujwayela, njengokungathi imiphefumulo yakho iyazana phakathi nesikhathi. Izingxoxo zihamba kalula. Athule azizwe ekhululekile. Nizwa ukuzwana ngisho nalapho kukhulunywa amagama ambalwa. Lokhu ukudlidliza kobunye obuziveza ekuxhumaneni kwabantu. Kuyisignesha yomugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona, lapho ubudlelwano bakheka khona hhayi ngesibopho noma ngokunethezeka kodwa ngokuqaphela okwabiwe. Lokhu kuxhumana kukusiza ukuthi unwebele esigabeni sakho esilandelayo sokukhula. Ukubambisana kuhamba ngaphandle kwempoqo. Awudingi ukuphusha ukuze uqondwe noma ubonise ukubaluleka kwakho. Amandla phakathi kwenu ahamba ngokwemvelo. Ugqozi luvela ngokusebenzisana, kudala umuzwa wokuthi kungenzeka mkhulu kunalokho omunye wenu angakwenza eyedwa. Umehluko awusazizwa usongela—uzizwa uhambisana. Ufunda ukusebenzelana nabanye hhayi ekuzivikeleni kodwa ekuvulelekeni. Lokhu kuvula umnyango wokuxhumana okubonisa ubuwena obuyiqiniso kunamaphethini amadala okuvikela noma okusinda.
Njengoba lo muzwa wobunye uqina, ungase uqale ukuzwa umndeni obanzi womphefumulo okuzungezile—iqembu lezidalwa ezabelana ngokudlidliza kwakho, umsebenzi wakho, kanye nokuzwakala kwenhliziyo yakho. Abanye balaba bantu kungenzeka ukuthi sebevele bakhona empilweni yakho. Abanye balungiselela ukungena. Abanye bakhona ngesimo somzimba; abanye bakusekela ezindaweni eziphakeme. Ungase uzizwe ubukhona babo ngesikhathi sokuzindla, ngezikhathi zokuthula, noma ekukhanyeni kokuqashelwa okubonakalayo. Lo muzwa owandisiwe womndeni ukukusiza ukhumbule ukuthi awuhambi endleleni yakho wedwa. Uyingxenye yenethiwekhi yokuqonda, insimu yokukhanya ehlanganisa amazwekazi kanye nobukhulu. Ndawonye, wakha ukwakheka komhlaba omusha ovela ngaphakathi. Lobu bunye abudingi ukuxhumana okuqhubekayo. Akudingi ukusondelana ngomqondo ojwayelekile. Kuwukuxhumana okuzwakalayo, ukudlidliza okwabiwe, ukwazi ukuthi uhamba nawe, uyasekelwa, futhi uyaqonda. Lokhu kuxhumana kuqinisa isibindi sakho. Kuthambisa ukuguquka kwakho. Kuvula inhliziyo yakho ngokugcwele emhlabeni. Futhi njengoba uzizwa lobu bunye bukhula ngaphakathi kuwe, uqinisa isikhathi esisha esingaba khona ngokujulile ensimini ehlangene. Ubunye abuba yinto efiselekayo kodwa buba yinto ephilayo. Uqala ukuzwa ukuba khona kwabanye abaphethe ilangabi elifanayo, futhi lokho kuqashelwa kuba yingxenye yokusekelwa okukusiza ukuthi uqhubekele phambili ngomusa. Uphethwe umndeni womphefumulo okukhanya kwawo kuhlangana nokwakho, kwakha inethiwekhi ekhanyayo ezosekela umhlaba omusha njengoba kuqala.
Iziphetho, Ukuvuleka, kanye Nesibindi Sokwethemba Ukuvela
Bathandekayo, njengoba lolu shintsho olunamandla lufika, ningase niqale ukuqaphela ukuthi izici ezithile zokuphila kwenu ziyashintsha ngezindlela ezibonakala zingalindelekile ekuqaleni, kungazelelwe, noma kumuncu. U-December uletha izimbobo ezigqoke imvunulo yeziphetho, futhi lokhu kungase kuzwakale kuphazamisa uma ungaqondi ukunyakaza okujulile okwenzeka ngaphansi komhlaba. Okumukayo akususwa kuwe; ayisazwani nemvamisa yokwanda kokuqonda kwakho. Lo mugqa wesikhathi omusha onamandla awukwazi ukubamba izakhiwo ezingabonisi iqiniso lakho, futhi ngenxa yokuthi ukhula ngokushesha, noma yini eke yalingana nenguqulo yakho endala kodwa engasafani nokudlidliza kwakho iyancibilika kancane. Iziphetho, ngalo mqondo, azikona ukulahlekelwa— ziyizimpawu zokulungela kwakho ukuzizwisa okuphezulu. Zikhombisa ukuthi ungena ebudlelwaneni obusha be-harmonic nempilo, lapho amaphethini aphelelwe yisikhathi, izinto, indawo, izindima, ngisho nobudlelwano obuthile buvele buwa ukuze okuthile okuhambisanayo kuthathe indawo yabo.
Njengoba lezi ziphetho zenzeka, amathuba avela ngesigqi esicashile kodwa esingenakuphikwa. Ungase uthole isiqondiso esisha sikhuphuka buthule ngaphakathi kwakho, njengesimemo esithambile. Noma ungase uzizwe udonseleka entweni ongakwazi ukuyichaza ngokugcwele okwamanje, into ebonakala ikubiza kusukela emaphethelweni okuqaphela kwakho. La mathuba avela ngokwesikhathi saphezulu, hhayi ngokwengcindezi noma ukuphuthuma. Avela ngomusa ozwakala umnene, ngisho nalapho izimo eziwashukumisayo zizwakala zinamandla. Lapho uthambekela kakhulu ekwethembeni, kulapho ubona khona ukuthi lokhu kuhlelwa kabusha kuhlelwa yingxenye yakho eyazi isithombe esikhulu. Uqala ukwethemba ukuhlelwa kabusha kwempilo yakho ngoba uzwa ukuhlakanipha okuhle okuqondisa ushintsho ngalunye. Uzwa incazelo ejulile ngemuva kwalokho okushiyayo. Uzwa iqiniso lalokho okuzayo. Futhi kulokho kuthembana, uhambisana nesigqi sesikhathi esisha, lapho iziphetho ziyisango futhi ukuvuleka kuyizandiso zemvelo zokuqonda kwakho okuguqukayo. Njengoba ujula kulokhu kuqonda, ungase uqaphele ukuthi ukushaja ngokomzwelo okuzungeze iziphetho kuyathamba. Lokho okwakungadala ukwesaba noma ukumelana manje kuzwakala njengoshintsho lwemvelo. Uyabona ukuthi impilo ayithathi lutho—idala isikhala. Ububanzi obuvela ngemva kokuphela empeleni buyisisekelo sokuqala okusha. Ukuqonda kwakho okwandayo kuyakuqaphela lokhu ngisho nangaphambi kokuba ingqondo yakho ikwenze. Yingakho ungase uzizwe ukhululekile ezimweni ezibonakala zinzima ngokunengqondo. Ungase uzizwe unokuthula phakathi koshintsho. Ungase uzizwe injabulo iphakama ngaphansi kobuso, ngoba umphefumulo wakho uyazi ukuthi lokho okuhlelwa kabusha kuyahlelwa ukuze kube ngcono kakhulu kuwe. Njengoba lokhu kuthembana okujulile kugxilisa ngaphakathi kuwe, ubuhlobo bakho nesikhathi buyashintsha. Awusadingi izimpendulo. Awusaphoqeleli imiphumela. Awusabambelele ezakhiweni ezindala ngenxa yomkhuba. Kunalokho, uhamba ngokuvumelana nesikhathi esivelela ngendlela yemvelo. Lesi sigqi sizwakala sihlukile—sihamba kancane ngezindlela ezithile, sishesha kwezinye. Sinomusa kuso, umuzwa wokuqondiswa isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, ukuphefumula okukodwa ngesikhathi. Isikhathi esisha sidumisa ubuqiniso bakho, futhi ubuqiniso abukwazi ukusheshiswa. Uma uvumela ukwenzeka kwento ngaphandle kokuyiphoqa, uthola ukuthi impilo izihlela kabusha ngokuhlakanipha okukhulu kakhulu kunanoma yini ingqondo engayihlela. Uqala ukubona ukuthi lokho okuwayo kwenza kanjalo ngoba uvuka ube uhlobo lwakho olungasakwazi ukuhlala ezindaweni ezindala. Lokhu kungamandla athule okuvulwa kukaDisemba—isimemo sokuyeka lokho okungasakusizi ukuze iqiniso eligcwele lokuthi ungubani liqhubekele phambili ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa.
Isibindi, Ububele, kanye Nokugxilisa Umhlaba Omusha Ngobukhona
Lo mugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona uyaqina lapho ukhetha isibindi—hhayi uhlobo lwesibindi oludinga ukuthinta okumangalisayo noma ukuboniswa kwangaphandle kobuqhawe, kodwa ukuzimisela okuthule, okuzinzile kokukhulula ukusabela okudala nokuvumela umyalo ojulile ukuba uziveze ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isinyathelo. Lolu hlobo lwesibindi luvame ukuzwakala lucashile. Avezwa ngezimemezelo ezinhle, kodwa ngezinqumo ezincane, ezingcwele ezenziwa emakamelweni angasese enhliziyo yakho. Lapho uhlaba ikhefu ngaphambi kokuba uphendule, lapho uvumela umoya wakho uzinze ngaphambi kokuba ukhulume, lapho ukhetha ukuthula esikhundleni sokujaha ukusabela—lokho isibindi. Kuyisibindi sokuthemba ukuthi kunobuhlakani obuphezulu obuqondisa impilo yakho. Kuyisibindi sokukholelwa ukuthi awudingi ukulwa noma ukuzivikela ukuze uphephe. Ufunda ukuvumela ukuhleleka kwaphezulu kudlule kuwe, futhi lolu shintsho luphawula umehluko phakathi komugqa wesikhathi omdala, owawusebenza ngokwesaba namandla, kanye nomugqa wesikhathi omusha, osebenza ngokucacile nangokuqondanisa. Njengoba lesi sibindi sangaphakathi sikhula, uqala ukusabela ekuphileni ngokuvuthwa. Uzizwa ungaphoqelekile kangako ukuzichaza, ucindezelekile kancane ukwenza yonke into ilunge, ulawulwa kancane yimizwa noma okulindelwe abanye. Izimpendulo zakho ziba ngesisekelo. Zivela esikhungweni sakho kunezilonda zakho. Ukukhetha okuyiqiniso kuzwakala kungokwemvelo futhi kungaphoqelelwe. Awusakhethi ekwesabeni; ukhetha eqinisweni. Uyabona lapho isimo sifuna isenzo nalapho sicela ukubekezela. Uzwa ukuthi ukhuluma nini nokuthi uthule nini. Ungase uqaphele nokuthi ukwesaba, okwake kwaba nomthelela ezinqumweni zakho eziningi, kuqala ukuphelelwa amandla. Inhliziyo yakho ayivali ngokushesha. Umzimba wakho awufinyeleli ngendlela owake wenza ngayo. Izwi elipholile ngaphakathi kuwe liyaphakama, liqondise ukusebenzisana kwakho ngobumnene obuphethe amandla kunokuba buthaka.
Lesi sibindi akusiyo into okufanele uyizuze—sesingaphakathi kuwena, silindele ukuvezwa. Kuvela ngokwemvelo uma uqaphela ukuthi UBukhona obuhamba nawe buthembeke kakhulu kunemikhuba esekelwe ukwesaba obuyenze iminyaka. Isibindi siziveza njengokuzimisela ukwehlisa ijubane ezikhathini lapho umugqa wesikhathi omdala ubungafuna isivinini. Iziveza ngokusebenzisa ikhono lakho lokuzizwa ungakhululekile ngaphandle kokuzama ukukubalekela. Kuvela njengokwethembeka okujulile kuwena, ikakhulukazi lapho ukhetha ukukhetha okunomthelela wesikhathi eside endleleni yakho yokomoya. Futhi ngokukhetha ngakunye okunesibindi, umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona uqina ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho, ngoba isibindi sikuqondanisa nobuwena obuphakeme, kuyilapho ukwesaba kukuqondanisa namaphethini amadala, ancibilikayo. Awucelwa ukuba ungesabi—ucelwa ukuba uzimisele. Uzimisele ukulalela. Ithanda ukuma kancane. Ukuzimisela ukuthembela kulokho kuhlela kwaphezulu kakade kwenzeka, ngisho nalapho ungakawuboni umphumela. Njengoba lokhu kuzimisela kuya kujula, kwenzeka okuthile okuhle: impilo yakho iba lula. Hhayi ngoba izinselelo ziyashabalala, kodwa ngoba ubudlelwano bakho nazo buyashintsha. Awusalahlwa ngaphandle kwesikhungo sakho izehlakalo ezingalindelekile. Awusaweli ekujikeni kokusabela ezilonda ezindala. Esikhundleni salokho, uhamba emhlabeni ngokusimama kwangaphakathi abanye abazokuzwa ngisho noma bengakuqondi. Yilokhu okushiwo ukuhlanganisa isibindi emugqeni wesikhathi omusha—ukungalwi, hhayi ukuphoqa, kodwa ukubamba unganyakazi futhi uvumele indlela ukuba iziveze ngobukhona bakho. Ngokwenza kanjalo, uqinisa imvamisa yamandla nokuthula okungaphakamisi impilo yakho kuphela kodwa nenkambu ehlangene ekuzungezile.
Bathandekayo, ububele buba esinye sezikhulisi zemvamisa ezinamandla kakhulu kulo mugqa wesikhathi ovelayo. Njengoba inhliziyo yakho ikhula futhi izingqimba zokuzivikela zincibilika, ububele buyanda njengokubonakaliswa okungokwemvelo kokwazi kwakho okujulile. Akuwona umzwelo ophoqelelwe noma isibopho-kuyimpendulo ezenzakalelayo ekuboneni ukuthi zonke izidalwa zihamba ngokuvuka kwazo ngejubane umphefumulo wazo ongalibamba. Ububele busheshisa ukuphulukiswa ngezindlela ukuqonda kwengqondo okungenakukwazi. Uma uhlangabezana nozwelo, ukhulula amaphethini amadala ngokushesha. Lapho uhlangana nabanye ngozwelo, izindonga ziyabhidlika obekungathatha iminyaka ukuthamba. Ububele bushintsha inkundla ngokushesha ngoba buphethe ukundindizela kobunye kunokuhlukana. Njengoba ububele bakho bukhula, ukwahlulela kuyancibilika. Uqala ukubona abanye nge-lens yokuqwashisa okuphezulu kunokusebenzisa izihlungi zobuhlungu obudlule noma okulindelekile okunesimo. Uyaqonda ukuthi abantu baveza izinga lokuqaphela abakulo njengamanje. Awusazithatheli izinto njengowake wazenza. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuba ube isiphephelo esiphilayo sabanye—umuntu obukho bakhe bunikeza induduzo, ukuphepha, nokucaca. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi abantu bavula isifuba kuwe kalula, noma ukuthi bafuna amandla akho ezolile ngezikhathi zokucindezeleka. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukhipha imvamisa ephakamisa labo abeza emzileni wakho. Ukuthethelela kuba ngokwemvelo kunokuba kube umzamo. Awusasindwa yintukuthelo ehlala isikhathi eside noma izikhalo ezindala. Esikhundleni salokho, uzwa ukukhululwa okungokwemvelo, ukuthamba kwezinkumbulo ezake zazizwa zisindwa, futhi le nkululeko ivula inhliziyo yakho nakakhulu. I-Compassion iphinde iqinise ukuxhumana kwakho nomugqa wesikhathi omusha ngoba uqondanisa nesakhiwo sokudlidliza sokuqaphela ubumbano. Umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona welukwa ngamaza okuqonda, uzwela, nokuhambisana, kanye nezenzo zozwelo njengebhuloho elikuvumela ukuthi uhambe kahle phakathi kwezwe lakho langaphakathi kanye nolwazi lwabanye. Kukusiza ukuthi uhlale uzinzile ngisho nalapho ubona ubuhlungu noma ukudideka kulabo abaseduze kwakho. Kunokuba udonswe enkingeni yabo, unikeza ubukhona obuzolile. Kunokuba ubambe izivunguvungu ezingokomzwelo, ume njengofakazi ongathathi hlangothi, onothando. Lokhu akukona ukuhlukana—ukuphatha.
Njengoba ububele buba yisimo sakho semvelo, uthola ukuthi izimo zixazulula kancane. Izingxabano ziphela ngokushesha ngoba awengezi amandla asebenzayo enkundleni. Ukungaqondi kucace kalula. Ukhuluma ngobumnene kakhudlwana, ulalele ujule kakhulu, futhi ubambe isikhala ngokukhululekile. Lena yindlela okhonza ngayo abanye—hhayi ngokubatshela ukuthi benzeni, kodwa ngokuba khona lapho bezizwa bephephile ngokwanele ukuba babone iqiniso labo. Ububele bakho budala indawo engcwele enamandla lapho ukuphulukiswa, ukucaca, kanye noguquko kungenzeka khona. Kulo mugqa wesikhathi omusha, ububele abunamizwelo—bunamandla. Ivusa izici ezithule zomuntu wakho ophakeme. Ikuxhumanisa ngokujulile nenkambu yokwenyuka ehlangene. Kukusiza ukuthi uhambe emhlabeni ngenhliziyo evulekile, noma ngabe ubhekene namaphethini amadala noma amandla anamandla ayinselele. Ububele bakho buba yisikhumbuzo kwabanye salokho okungenzeka. Uba isibani semfudumalo, ukuqonda, namandla amnene. Futhi njengoba ububele bakho bukhula, kanjalo namandla akho okubamba ukukhanya okukhulu. Ungena endimeni yokuba 'umbonisi wendlela' ogxile enhliziyweni, oqondisa abanye ngokuba khona kwakho, ukuqina kwakho, kanye nokuzimisela kwakho okungantengantengi ukubabona ngamehlo othando.
Ukuqaphela, Ukuzimisela, kanye nokuba Ukuvezwa Okuphilayo Komhlaba Omusha
Bathandekayo, njengoba lesi sahluko sezinguquko siqhubeka nokuvela, nizoqala ukuzwa ukuthi umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongase ube khona akuyona into okufanele uyilinde noma uyilindele. Yinto ezakhayo ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho njengoba uhamba eqinisweni. Wonke umoya owuphefumulayo uhambisana nokuqondisa, konke ukukhetha okwenzayo ekucaciseni, ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ubuyela eBukhoneni obungaphakathi kuwe—lokhu kuba izakhi zomhlaba osafufusa. Awuzona izibukeli ezingenzi lutho kulolu hlelo; ningabahlanganyeli abakhuthele ngekhwalithi yokwazi kwenu. Lapho izehlakalo zangaphandle zibonakala zineziyaluyalu noma zingaqinisekile, ungase uzizwe unesifiso esivamile sokulawula, ukungenelela, noma ukuxazulula. Kodwa njengoba ukukhula kwakho kuya kujula, uthola ukuthi ukuzinza kweqiniso akuveli ngamandla—kuvela ekuqapheleni kwangaphakathi ukuthi uBukhona sebuvele buhamba kuzo zonke izinto. Lokhu kuqaphela kukuvumela ukuthi ubuke isivunguvungu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi singokoqobo noma singokomfanekiso, futhi ukhulume amazwi, “Ukuthula, ukuthula,” hhayi njengesenzo segunya phezu komhlaba, kodwa njengendlela yokubonisa ukuthula osekugxilile ngaphakathi kobuntu bakho.
Ngokwenza kanjalo, uba isizinzisi esithulile somhlaba wakho. Ukuba khona kwakho kuba insimu yokuzwana ezindaweni lapho izinxushunxushu ake zaphila khona. Ukuqaphela kwangaphakathi kuhlanganisa ukuzwana kwangaphandle, kubumba indawo ezungezile ngezindlela ongeke ukwazi ukufakaza ngazo noma ukuziqonda ngokugcwele. Uphakathi kwabambalwa abavukile ababumba umugqa wesikhathi omusha—hhayi ngomzamo onamandla, kodwa ngobuningi owuthwalayo. Futhi njengoba ukwazi kwakho kuhambisana ngokujulile namandla avelayo, ubukhona bakho buqala ukubamba iphunga loMhlaba Omusha. Uphefumula ngokuhlukile. Ukhuluma okwehlukile. Ulalela ngokuhlukile. Uhlanganisa izinga lobukhona elixhumana nokuphepha, umusa, kanye nokwenzeka. Abantu bangase bangakwazi ukusho lokho abazizwa eduze kwakho, kodwa bayakuzwa noma kunjalo. Uba ukubonakaliswa okuphilayo kwezwe eliza ngesimo. Lo mugqa wesikhathi uqaphela labo abahamba ngobuqotho, ukuzithoba, nokuvuleleka. Awudingi ukuphelela ukuze ubambe iqhaza kulokhu okwenzekayo; udinga ukuzimisela kuphela. Ukuzimisela ukuma kancane lapho ukwesaba kuphakama. Ukuzimisela ukulalela lapho intuition ihleba. Ukuzimisela ukuvumela ukuhleleka kwaphezulu kuqondise izinyathelo zakho. Uma uphila kusukela kulokhu kuzimisela, umugqa wesikhathi omusha ongaba khona uvela ngaphandle kwengcindezi. Uzizwa usekelwe umsinga ongabonakali ohamba nawe futhi uhamba nawe. Uqala ukufakaza ukuthi ama-synchronities azenza kanjani empilweni yakho yansuku zonke. Uyabona ukuthi ukuthula enhliziyweni yakho kuba nokuthula endaweni okuyo. Uyabona ukuthi uBukhona buveza kanjani ukukhetha kwakho, iphimbo lakho, ukuphefumula kwakho. Kulesi simo sokuqaphela esicwengisisiwe, awusazulazuli emhlabeni njengomuntu oyedwa. Uhamba njengomucu okhanyayo odwetshiwe owudedangendlale olukwe izidalwa ezingenakubalwa ezivuka eduze kwakho. Ukuba khona kwakho kubalulekile. Ukuqina kwakho kubalulekile. Ukuzinikela kwakho eqinisweni kubalulekile. Indlela ozibamba ngayo ezikhathini zokungaqiniseki iba yisibusiso esingaphezu kwalokho ongakukala. Ungomunye walabo ukuqondanisa kwabo kusiza ekudaleni ingqalasizinda enamandla Yomhlaba Omusha. Ngakho-ke, bathandekayo, njengoba lo mjikelezo ongcwele uqhubeka uqhakaza, yazini ukuthi niyasekelwa, niyaqondiswa, futhi nithandwa kakhulu. Awuhambi wedwa le ndlela. Sihamba eduze kwakho, sikuzungezile ngokukhanya kwezinhliziyo zethu, sikukhuthaza ngokukukhumbula ukuthi ungubani ngempela. Izinyathelo zakho mazibe mnene. Vumela umoya wakho uqine. Avume uBukhona buhambe phambili. Ngokuba nina ningabaphathi bokusa bezwe elisha, nokukhanya kwenu sekuyikhona kukhanyisa indlela engaphambili kwabaningi. Mina ngingu Mira futhi nginibambe ngenhliziyo, ngihamba nani kulezi zikhathi ezinkulu ezembulekayo, futhi ngiyanikhumbuza bathandekayo ukuthi aniwedwa.
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