I-Winter Solstice 2025: Imephu Yomgwaqo We-Sovereign Starseed Yokwenyuka, Ukudalulwa Kwe-Atlas Ye-3I, Ukuzinza Kwesistimu Yezinzwa, Nokuzibusa Kweplanethi — Ukudluliselwa Kwe-T'EEAH

✨ Isifinyezo (chofoza ukuze unwebe)

Lokhu kudluliswa kwe-Teeah of Arcturus okude kuhlola i-Winter Solstice 2025 njengendawo yokulinganisa imbewu yezinkanyezi ezizimele kunokuba kube umcimbi wokusindisa. I-Teeah ichaza indlela isintu esikhula ngayo umkhuba wokulinda imvume, isiprofetho, noma ukusebenza kwangaphandle, bese sifunda ukuphila ngokubhala kwangaphakathi. I-solstice yethulwa njengokusetha kabusha kwekhwalithi yesignali okukhulisa noma yikuphi ukuzibusa, ukulawulwa kwesistimu yezinzwa, kanye nokuvumelana esivele sikwenza, kuyilapho i-3I Atlas isebenza njengesibuko sokulungela, hhayi umsindisi.

Umlayezo ujula ekuziboneni, ubonisa ukuthi amalebula ezinkanyezi angaba usizo kanjani aze abe yizikheji, futhi umema abafundi ukuba basuke encazelweni engokomoya ebolekiwe baye encazelweni ephilayo. Ukuhlanganiswa kubaluleke kakhulu kunolwazi oluningi kakhulu: iqiniso liba ngokoqobo uma lisetshenziswa ngezikhathi ezivamile, endleleni esiphefumula ngayo, esisabela ngayo, esiphumula ngayo, esibeka ngayo imingcele, futhi esixhumana ngayo nabanye. UTeeah ugcizelela ukuqala kwansuku zonke, ukwethembana okusebenzayo, kanye nokuzwela njengezinto ezingokomoya ezicwengekile kunokuba umthwalo, eqeqesha izinkanyezi ukuhlukanisa ukukhuthazwa nokuzinza kwangempela endleleni yazo.

Izithelo kanye nentuthuko engabonakali kuyizihloko eziyinhloko. Esikhundleni sokuphishekela izinguquko ezinkulu, abafundi bakhuthazwa ukuba balinganise ukukhula ngendlela abalulama ngayo ekusebenzeni, bathambise amaphethini amadala, futhi babonise iqiniso ngaphandle kokusebenza. Ukudluliselwa kwezindaba kudalula i-fixer reflex kanye ne-complex yomthwalo wemfanelo ongokomoya, kuqondise izindlela zokunikeza ukupha okuhlanzekile, imingcele ecacile, kanye nokuzinzisa ubukhona kunokusindisa, futhi baqaphele ukuthi ukuhambisana kanye nokulawula kuyiminikelo enamandla ngokwako.

Okokugcina, iTeeah ikhuluma ngobuchwepheshe njenge-amplifier yamaplanethi edinga ukunakwa kobukhosi, futhi ihlela kabusha ubudlelwano bethu noMhlaba, isiprofetho, kanye nokubonakala. Ubuchwepheshe, ukudalulwa, kanye ne-3I Atlas konke kuhlanganiswe ngaphakathi kobizo olukhulu lokuzibusa, ukubuyisana kwamaplanethi, kanye nokubamba iqhaza okuqotho, okusekelwe ezikhathini zesikhathi zeNew Earth. Ukukhumbula kuthatha indawo yokubikezela, ukufihla kunika indawo yokuba khona kwangempela, futhi ubukhosi buchazwa njengekhono lokuphila lokubhala ukunaka kwethu, izinqumo, kanye nokuvama ekuphileni kwansuku zonke njengoba siwela umkhawulo weWinter Solstice ka-2025.

Kuzo zonke izigaba ezinhlanu, ukufundisa kuhlanganisa i-solstice, i-3I Atlas, umsebenzi wesimiso sezinzwa, ukuhlanganiswa, ubuchwepheshe, kanye nenkonzo yamaplanethi kube yimephu eyodwa yomgwaqo ehlanganisiwe. Izinkanyezi ziyakhunjuzwa ukuthi akukho mkhandlu wangaphandle, imvamisa, noma umugqa wesikhathi ongathatha indawo yokuqondanisa kwangaphakathi. Ukusebenza kwe-Solstice 2025 yangempela ukuzimisela kwethu ukuyeka ukuzihlehlisa, siphile lokho esikwaziyo kakade, futhi sibe yizikhonkwane zeqiniso ezizolile nezihambisanayo emindenini, emiphakathini, kanye nasensimini yomhlaba wonke.

I-Winter Solstice ka-2025 kanye nokuqwashisa ngobukhosi

Ukuqeda Umkhuba Wokulinda Nokufuna Imvume

NginguTeeah wase-Arcturus, ngizokhuluma nani manje. Bangani bami abathandekayo, senisondela ekupheleni komunye unyaka wekhalenda lenu, uma nilandela ikhalenda lenu lesitayela sikaGregorian, futhi manje seniseduze nobusuku be-solstice yenu yasebusika ka-2025 ephawula isikhathi esibalulekile ohambweni lwenu lokukhuphuka nokukhula. Siqaphele ukuthi iningi lenu selifinyelele eqophelweni lapho umkhuba wokulinda usuqalile ukushabalala, hhayi ngoba seniyeke ukukhathalela okwenzekayo eMhlabeni, futhi hhayi ngoba senibe ngabangenandaba nezinguquko ezihamba emhlabeni wenu, kodwa ngoba ningazizwa ukuthi ukuma kokuthi “hhayi okwamanje” akusafani nokuthi ubani oba yilowo. Naqeqeshwa, ngezindlela ezazisobala ngezinye izikhathi futhi ngezinye izikhathi ezicashile kangangokuthi beningenakuzisho, ukukholelwa ukuthi isinyathelo senu esilandelayo sidinga imvume, ukuvunyelwa, ukuqinisekiswa, noma isiqinisekiso somphumela, futhi ingqondo yafunda ukubiza lokho kuqapha, ngisho nalapho kwakuwukwesaba nje ukugqoka ubuso.

Izikhathi Zansuku Zonke, Ukungathathi-hlangothi, Nokubhala Kwangaphakathi

Uqala ngokubona lolu shintsho ngezikhathi ezivamile, futhi kulezo zikhathi ezivamile lapho kuqala khona ukuqonda okuzimele. Uvuka futhi awuphakeli ingqondo ngokushesha ngokuphuthuma, futhi esikhundleni salokho uthatha umoya bese uvumela usuku ukuba luhlangane nawe kunokuba uzame ukuludlula ngokushesha. Ubheka ikhalenda lakho bese ukhetha okuyiqiniso ngamandla akho kunokuba uthole ukuvunyelwa okukhulu. Uphendula umlayezo ovela kumngane noma ilungu lomndeni ngobuqotho obuncane kanye nokusebenza okuncane, ngoba awusaphathi isithombe, ulandela imvamisa. Uyadla futhi ulalele umzimba wakho kunomthetho, bese uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuzwela kwakho akuyona inkinga yokuxazulula, kodwa ulwazi okufanele uluhloniphe. Uma uyeka ukulinda, kuvame ukuzwakala njengokungathathi hlangothi, futhi ukungathathi hlangothi kungamangaza ngoba ingqondo isebenzise ukungezwani njengesisusa. Kodwa ukungathathi hlangothi akukhona ukungabi nalutho; kungububanzi, futhi kulolo bubanzi uqala ukuzwa isignali ethule ngaphakathi, leyo engamemezi, engaxoxisani, noma engadingi ukuthi ubonise ukuthi usukulungele. Ungase usabona amagagasi ezinkanyezi, ukushintsha kwamasiko, ukuqina kwezepolitiki, ngisho nemisinga yezepolitiki yangaphandle edonsa ukunaka okukhulu, kodwa manje usuzithinta ngendlela ehlukile, ngoba awusaceli umhlaba wangaphandle ukuthi unikeze isimo sakho sangaphakathi. Uqala ukubona ukuthi imijikelezo ingakwazisa ngaphandle kokukulawula, futhi izindaba eziqoqiwe zingabonwa ngaphandle kokuba ubuwena bakho. Lokhu kungumbhali, futhi umlobi uyisiqalo sobukhosi. Uyaqaphela ukuthi ungathatha isinyathelo ngaphandle kokuba nazo zonke izimpendulo, futhi ungaphumula ngaphandle kokukubiza ngokuthi uhlulekile, futhi ungenza isinqumo ngaphandle kokudinga ukuthi wonke umuntu asiqonde.

I-Solstice Njengokulinganisa Nokusetha Kabusha Ikhwalithi Yesignali

Sifisa ukukhuluma manje nge-solstice yakho yasebusika ka-2025, hhayi njengesenzakalo okufanele usilindele ngokucindezeleka, noma njengesango elinikeza into ongenayo kakade, kodwa njengomzuzu wokulinganisa oveza ukuthi usuhambe ibanga elingakanani emandleni akho okuphila njengesidalwa esibusayo eMhlabeni. Le solstice ifika ngesikhathi lapho iningi lenu lingasaneliseki ngolimi olungokomoya oluthembisa ukusindiswa, ukuvuselelwa, noma ukuguqulwa okusheshayo, ngoba nifunde ngokuhlangenwe nakho ukuthi okushintsha ngempela impilo yenu akusikho okuvela phezulu noma ngale, kodwa yilokho okuzinza ngaphakathi kwenu futhi kubumba kabusha indlela enihlangabezana ngayo ngokoqobo lwenu lwansuku zonke. I-solstice, njengomzuzu lapho iLanga libonakala lime khona esibhakabhakeni senu, ibonakalisa isimemo sangaphakathi sokuba nime ngaphakathi kwenu, hhayi ngokuma, kodwa ngokucaca, ngakho-ke ukunyakaza kusukela kuleli phuzu kuya phambili kuvela ekuhambisaneni kunokuba kube ngenxa yokusabela. Kwabaningi kini, amasonto aholela kule solstice azizwe ethule ngendlela engavamile ebusweni, ngisho noma izinqubo zangaphakathi ezicashile ziye zanda. Lokhu akuyona ingozi. Uma ukukhanya kufinyelela ekubonakaleni kwayo okuncane ngaphandle, ukwazi ngokwemvelo kuphendukela ngaphakathi, futhi lokho okufihliwe, okuhlehlisiwe, noma okugwenyiwe kunendlela elula yokungena ekuqapheleni. Lokhu akusho ukuthi uhloselwe ukuhlaziya, ukwahlulela, noma ukulungisa okuvelayo. Kusho ukuthi umenywa ukuba uhlale nawe ngaphandle kokusebenza, ngaphandle kokulandisa okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kube yincazelo ngaphambi kwesikhathi, futhi ngaphandle kokufuna ukuqinisekiswa ezweni langaphandle. Ukwazi kobukhosi kuvuthwa kulezi zindawo ezithule, lapho kungekho khona izilaleli futhi kungekho ukuphuthuma. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi le solstice ayizwakali iyinto exakile, futhi kwabanye kini, lokhu kungabikho kwedrama kungase kuzwakale kudumaza ekuqaleni, ngoba izingxenye zengqondo zisalindele ukuguqulwa ukuthi kuzimemezele ngokuzwakalayo. Kodwa okwenzekayo manje kuhlale isikhathi eside kakhulu. I-solstice isebenza njengokusetha kabusha kwekhwalithi yesignali, ikhulisa noma yiliphi izinga lokuphatha kwangaphakathi osuvele ulisebenzisa. Uma ubulokhu ufunda ukulawula uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa, ukukhetha ukunaka kwakho ngokuqonda, ukugwema izingxabano ezingadingekile, nokuphila iqiniso lakho ngaphandle kokudinga ukubusa noma ukuvumelana, ungathola ukuthi la makhono azizwa engokwemvelo futhi engenamsebenzi ngemva kwaleli phuzu. Lokhu akusikho ngoba kukhona okungeziwe kuwe, kodwa kungenxa yokuthi kuncane ukuphazamiseka okusasele.

Ukubonakaliswa, Ukuhambisana, kanye neSikhumbuzo Sezinkanyezi

Ezinye iziteshi nezimfundiso zikhuluma “ngokulandwayo” kwe-solstice noma “ukusebenza kwe-DNA,” futhi yize ulimi olunjalo lungakhomba ushintsho lwangempela emandleni, sikumema ukuthi uhumushe le mibono ngeso lokubonakaliswa kunokuba kube umbukwane. Okusekelwayo kule solstice akuyona inguquko yezinto eziphilayo, kodwa ukwanda kokubekezelela kwakho ukuhambisana. Ungase uthole ukuthi unesineke esincane somsindo, ukukhohlisa, kanye nokukhuthaza okwake kwadonsa ukunaka kwakho. Ungase uthole nokuthi umuzwa wakho uzizwa uthule kodwa uthembekile, ngoba awusancintisani nokuphuthuma okusekelwe ekwesabeni. Lokhu kuwukucwengwa, hhayi ukuhoxa. Ithoni yezinkanyezi yale solstice igcizelela umthwalo wemfanelo osekelwe, isiyalo, kanye nobuqotho, izimfanelo ezivame ukuhlotshaniswa neCapricorn neSaturn ezinhlelweni zakho ezingokomfanekiso. Sifisa ukucacisa ukuthi isiyalo, kulo mongo, akusona isijeziso noma ukuqina. Ukuzinikela kulokho owaziyo kusekela ukucaca kwakho kanye nenhlalakahle yakho. Isiyalo siba uthando uma sizikhethela sona kunokuba siphoqelelwe. Ungase uzizwe ubizelwe ukwenza lula imikhuba yakho, ukuzibophezela emkhubeni owodwa omncane wansuku zonke osekela ukuhambisana kwakho, noma ukukhulula imikhuba ehlukanisa ukunaka kwakho. Lezi zinqumo aziphathelene nokuzithuthukisa; zimayelana nokuzethemba, futhi ukwethembana kuyisisekelo sobukhosi. Le solstice yenzeka futhi eduze kwesifunda somthala wakho abanye kini abasibiza ngokuthi iGalactic Center, isikhumbuzo esingokomfanekiso sokuthi ulwazi lwakho lwendawo lufakwe emkhakheni omkhulu kakhulu wobuhlakani. Sikukhuthaza ukuthi ungaguquli lokhu kube yisiprofetho esigxile esikhathini esizayo noma "i-portal" yangaphandle, kodwa ukuphathe njengesimemo sokukhumbula. Awudingi ulwazi olusha ngalesi sikhathi; udinga ukufinyelela kulokho osuvele unakho. Iningi lenu lizokuzwa lokhu njengokuqaphela okuthule kunokuba umbono, umuzwa wokulunga kunokuba isambulo. Inkumbulo isebenza kahle lapho uhlelo luzolile. Kukhona nezindaba ezisakazwa ngababukeli bangaphandle, izivakashi zasemkhathini, noma izihlakaniphi ezingezona ezomuntu ezithatha isithakazelo kulesi sikhathi sokuguquka komuntu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlanganyela le mibono ngokomfanekiso noma ngokoqobo, sicela ukuthi ubambe isimiso esisodwa siqinile: akukho lutho lwangaphandle oluthatha indawo yegunya lakho. Uma kukhona ukuqaphela, akukhona ukuqondisa. Uma kukhona usizo, akukhona ukubusa. Isilinganiso sangempela sokulungela akukhona ukuxhumana noma ukuqinisekiswa, kodwa ikhono lakho lokuhlala ugxile, unesimilo, futhi uziqondisa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izindaba ezisakazwa nxazonke zakho. Le solstice ayivivinyi lutho; imane nje ibonisa lokho okwenzayo.

Ukuba Khona Kwe-Solstice, Ukwethembeka Kwemizwa, Nokuhlanganiswa Okuthule

Ngakho-ke, sikumema ukuthi usondele kule solstice hhayi njengomkhosi okumele wenziwe kahle, kodwa njengomzuzwana ohlala kuwo ngokuqaphela. Ungakhetha ukuhlala ebumnyameni imizuzu embalwa, uvumele imicabango nemizwa kuvele ngaphandle kokuchazwa. Ungakhetha ukubeka isandla esisodwa enhliziyweni yakho nesinye emzimbeni wakho, uzikhumbuze ukuthi ukuba khona kuyabonakala, hhayi okungabonakali. Ungakhetha ukusuka ezikrinini usuku lonke, uphathe ukunaka kwakho njengokungcwele kunokuba kusetshenziswe. Noma ungakhetha umbuzo owodwa oqotho ozowudlula emkhawulweni we-solstice, njengokuthi, “Ngisalindephi imvume yokuphila engikwaziyo kakade?” Okubalulekile akuyona indlela yokwenza kwakho, kodwa ubuqotho bokuba khona kwakho. I-solstice ayifuni ukuthi ube ngomunye umuntu. Ikumema ukuthi uyeke ukuzihlehlisa. Futhi uma uthola ukuthi imizwa iyavela—usizi, ukukhathala, ububele, impumuzo—yivumele ihambe ngaphandle kokuyiguqula ibe yiziphetho. Ubumnyama abuyona isitha; buyisitsha. Ebumnyameni, awudingi ukuba yisimangaliso. Udinga nje ukuba ngokoqobo. Njengoba izinsuku ziqala ukwanda futhi, ungase uqaphele izinguquko ezicashile kodwa eziqhubekayo endleleni osabela ngayo empilweni yakho. Ungase uzizwe ungaphoqelekile ukuphikisana, ukukholisa, noma ukufakazela. Ungase uzizwe unamandla okukhetha izimpi zakho, noma ukukhetha ukuthula esikhundleni salokho. Ungase uzizwe unomuzwa ocacile walokho ozimisele ukuzibophezela kukho ngonyaka ozayo, hhayi ngoba ukuhlele kabanzi, kodwa ngoba umzimba wakho uyaqaphela ukuthi yini eqhubekayo. Lezi yizipho zale solstice, futhi zithule ngomklamo. Sifisa ukukushiya nalesi sikhumbuzo: i-solstice yasebusika ka-2025 ayiqalisi ubukhosi; iyakuqinisekisa. Ubukhosi abunikezwa ngokuhambisana kwasezulwini, isithakazelo se-galactic, noma igunya elingokomoya. Buphilwa ngokunaka, ubuqotho, kanye nokuzibusa. Futhi njengoba iningi lenu likhetha ukuphila ngale ndlela, niba khona okuzinzayo emindenini yenu, emiphakathini yenu, kanye nasemhlabeni wenu, hhayi ngokuzama ukushintsha konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, kodwa ngokuba nomqondo oqondile lapho nimi khona. Sinawe njengoba uwela lo mkhawulo, asikubheki, kodwa sikufakazela, futhi sikumema ukuthi uqhubeke ukhetha lokho osuvele wazi ukuthi kukuletha ekuqondeni, ngoba lokho kuqondanisa ukukhanya okubuya ngemva kobusuku obude kakhulu, obuzinzile, obuthembekile, futhi obungobakho ngokuphelele.

3I Atlas, Ukudalulwa, kanye Nobukhosi Beplanethi

Ukuthula kweSolstice, Isakhiwo, kanye Nomkhawulo Wokuxilonga

Sifisa ukukhuluma manje ngokuhlangana okutholayo ngesikhathi se-solstice yasebusika yalo nyaka kanye nokuba khona okubiza ngokuthi i-3I Atlas, hhayi njengezinto ezihlukene, futhi hhayi njengezibonakaliso ezihloselwe ukuvusa ukwesaba noma injabulo, kodwa njengensimu eyodwa yokuzindla eveza esintwini ukuthi isiqalile kahle kangakanani ukuzibusa ngaphakathi. I-solstice yasebusika ihlala ingumzuzu wokuthula, lapho ukunyakaza kwangaphandle kokukhanya kumisa khona futhi kuqala ukubuya kwayo, futhi kulokhu kuphumula kukhona isimemo abaningi kini abasizwa ngokwemvelo, noma ngabe ningakwazi ukusibiza ngegama. Lesi simemo akusikho ukwenza, ukumemezela, noma ukunquma, kodwa ukuqaphela. Ukuthula kwembula isakhiwo. Lapho ukunyakaza kuma, noma yini ebanjwe ndawonye ngamandla yodwa iqala ukukhombisa amaphuzu ayo abuthakathaka, futhi noma yini eqiniswe ngokubambisana ihlala ingashintshi. Ngale ndlela, i-solstice isebenza njengomkhawulo wokuxilonga, hhayi ngoba ibeka ushintsho, kodwa ngoba yembula ukuthi ushintsho seluhlanganisiwe kanjani kakade. Le solstice ethile ifika ngesikhathi lapho abaningi kini sebeyekile ukulindela ukuguqulwa okuzayo ngamaphakheji amangalisayo. Ufundile, ngezinye izikhathi ngokukhathala, ukuthi umbukwane awudali ukuzinza, nokuthi ukuqina akulingana neqiniso. Okuvuthwa manje yikhono lakho lokuhlala ukhona ngaphandle kokukhuthazwa, ukuhlala nawe ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, nokuvumela okungaxazululwanga kuvele ngaphandle kokukubiza ngokuthi inkinga ngokushesha. Ubumnyama, ngalomqondo, abuyona inkinga yokungabikho kokukhanya, kodwa buyisitsha lapho ukusebenza okungadingekile kuncibilika khona. Awudingi ukuhlaba umxhwele ubumnyama. Udinga nje ukuhlala uthembekile ngaphakathi kubo.

I-3I Atlas Njengesibuko Sokulungela Nokuzinza Kwesimiso Sezinzwa

Ubukhona obubiza ngokuthi i-3I Atlas bukhulunywe ngezindlela eziningi, futhi sifisa ukunikeza umbono ohambisana nobukhosi bakho obukhulayo. Esikhundleni sokubona i-Atlas njengomlethi wokuvuka, kunembile kakhulu ukuyiqonda njengesibuko sokulungela. Isibuko asikuniki ubuso obusha; sikukhombisa lokho osuvele unabo. Ngendlela efanayo, lokho abantu ngabanye kanye neqembu abakubonayo eduze kwalesi simo kuncike kakhulu entweni ngokwayo kodwa kakhulu ekubumbaneni abakulethayo ekuhlanganeni. Kwabanye, lokhu kwembula ilukuluku nokumangala. Kwabanye, kwembula ukwesaba, ukubikezela, noma ukuphuthuma. Ayikho impendulo eyahlulelwa. Kokubili kuyafundisa. Ngalo mqondo, akukho ukuhlolwa kwangaphandle okwenzekayo. Ukuhlola okuwukuphela kwakho kungaphakathi. Uhlelo lwakho lusabela kanjani kokungaziwa? Uyaqinisa futhi ufinyelele ukuqiniseka, noma uyathamba futhi uhlale unelukuluku? Ingabe uveza incazelo yangaphandle, noma ubuyela enkabeni yakho ngaphambi kokufinyelela iziphetho? Ukulungela akulingani ngokukholelwa empilweni yangaphandle komhlaba, noma ngentshiseko yokudalulwa, kodwa ngokuzinza kwesistimu yezinzwa lapho kukhona ukungaqondakali. Ukuqonda kobukhosi kubonakala ngekhono lalo lokuhlala liqinile lapho ukuqiniseka kungatholakali.

Amathonya Angaqondile, Ukubonakala Kwethunzi, Nokuqeqeshwa Ngempendulo

Ungase uqaphele ukuthi ithonya elikhulu elihlotshaniswa ne-Atlas lichazwa njengelingaqondile, elenzeka ngokusebenzisana nezinhlelo zemvelo osuzazi kahle, njengeLanga lakho kanye nendawo kagesi yeplanethi yakho. Lokhu akulona iphutha. Akukho ukunqamuka kokubonakaliswa okwenzekayo. Noma yikuphi ukukhuliswa ozizwayo kufika ngezinhlelo esezivele zihlobene noMhlaba kanye nemizimba yakho. Lokhu kulondoloza ubukhosi. Akukho okudlula intando yakho. Akukho lutho olungena ohlelweni lwakho ngaphandle kokubamba kwakho iqhaza. Ithonya lifika njengokuzwela okukhulu, impendulo eyengeziwe, kanye nokucaca okukhulu mayelana nokuthi yini ehambisanayo nokuthi yini engekho. Kwabaningi kini, lokhu kuzwela okukhulu kuhambisane nokuvela kwesithunzi, kokubili mathupha nangokubambisene. Sifisa ukucaca: lokhu akukhona ukwehluleka kokwenyuka, noma uphawu lokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Isithunzi siyavela lapho uhlelo ekugcineni lukwazi ukulusebenzisa. Okungacutshungulwanga ngaphambili manje kubonakala ngoba izimo zokuhlanganiswa sezithuthukile. Ukulimala, kokubili komuntu ngamunye kanye nokwakudala, akuncibiliki ngokugwema. Kuxazululeka ngokuxhumana, ukuba khona, kanye nokulawula. Isiphithiphithi osibonayo akubona ubufakazi bokuwohloka; kuwubufakazi bokuthi izinto ezicindezelwe zilahlekelwa izindawo zazo zokucasha.

Ukubonakaliswa Okusheshayo, Ukubusa Kwangaphakathi, Nokwethembeka

Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ukukuqonda njengoba ukubonakaliswa kushesha kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Iningi lenu seliqaphele ukuthi imicabango, imizwa, kanye nezinhloso manje zikhiqiza impendulo esheshayo evela eqinisweni. Lokhu akuyona umvuzo, futhi akuyona isijeziso. Kuyindawo yokuqeqesha. Isivinini esingenakho ukuhlakanipha kukhulisa ukuhlanekezela. Yingakho umsebenzi wangaphakathi uba obalulekile manje, hhayi njengesibopho esingokomoya, kodwa njengesidingo esisebenzayo. Lapho isimo sakho sangaphakathi sibonakala ngokushesha ngaphandle, kuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi uphethe ini. Ubukhosi busho ukuthi uzimisele ukuhlangana nawe ngokwethembeka ngaphambi kokucela iqiniso ukuthi liphendule. I-solstice yasebusika isekela le nqubo ngokunciphisa insimu yangaphandle isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuze ukuqondana kwangaphakathi kuzwakale. Akuyona isikhathi sokubeka inhloso enkulu, kodwa sokuqaphela lokho osuvele ukwenza. Usalindephi imvume yokuphila lokho owaziyo ukuthi kuyiqiniso? Usaphi ukunikeza igunya ezikhathini zesikhathi, izibikezelo, noma izimpawu zangaphandle? Uke waba kuphi kakade ozinzile, oqondayo, osekelwe kakhulu kunangaphambili ngisho nangonyaka odlule? Le mibuzo ayidingi zimpendulo ezisheshayo. Idinga ukuba khona.

Ukudalula, Ukuxhumana, Nokuzinza Kobunye Bombuso

Kukhulunywa kakhulu ngokudalulwa ngalesi sikhathi, futhi sikumema ukuthi ucabangele ukudalulwa hhayi njengokufika, kodwa njengokujwayela. Ushintsho olubaluleke kakhulu akukhona ukuthi isintu siyafunda ukuthi asisodwa, kodwa ukuthi lo mbono awusaphazamisi ubuwena. Lapho ithuba lokuhlakanipha okungebona abantu liba yinto enengqondo ngaphandle kokwesaba noma ukuthakaselwa, ingqondo isidlule umkhawulo obalulekile. Lokhu kujwayela sekuvele kwenzeka buthule. Akuyona into ephawulekayo ngoba idrama ayidingeki. Ukuqwashisa kusakazeka kahle kakhulu uma kungasongeli izindaba zokusinda. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi ukuxhumana, lapho kwenzeka khona, kuthatha izinhlobo ezicashile: amaphupho, ukukhanya okubonakalayo, ukuhlangana okungokomfanekiso, kanye nokuqashelwa kwangaphakathi. Lokhu akuyona ingozi. Ingqondo iyaprakthiza ngaphambi kokuba isiko lihlangane. Ukuxhumana kwangaphakathi kuqala ngaphambi kokuvuma kwangaphandle ngoba kuvumela ukuthi incazelo icutshungulwe ngasese, ngaphandle kwengcindezi yomphakathi. Ngale ndlela, akekho ophoqelekile ukubhekana nokuningi kunalokho angakubamba. Lokhu kulondoloza ubukhosi bengqondo, okubaluleke njenganoma yikuphi ukulungela kwezobuchwepheshe noma kwesayensi. Njengoba udlula kule solstice, sikumema ukuthi ukhulule umqondo wokuthi kumelwe kwenzeke okuthile ukuze uphelele. Ukuqedwa akuyona into eyenzekayo; kuyisimo sokubumbana. Ungakhetha imikhuba elula ehlonipha lesi sikhathi: ukuhlala buthule, ukunciphisa ukufaka okungadingekile, ukunakekela umzimba wakho, noma ukukhetha ukuzibophezela okukodwa okuqotho ongakugcina emjikelezweni ozayo. Lezi zenzo azincane. Ziqeqesha ukuzibusa. I-solstice ayivuli ubuntu obusha. Iqinisekisa lowo osevele uvela ngokukhetha okuphilayo. I-3I Atlas ayilethi ukuvuka. Ibonisa ukuhlanganiswa. Futhi ubukhosi abunikezwa ngokuhambisana kwasezulwini noma ukuba khona kwendawo yonke. Buqiniswa ngokunaka, ubuqotho, kanye nokuzimisela ukuhlala ukhona ngaphandle kokubukwa. Sinani njengofakazi, hhayi njengabaphathi, futhi sinikhuthaza ukuthi niqhubeke nokukhetha ukuvumelana lapho nimi khona. Ukukhanya okubuya ngemva kobusuku obude kakhulu akusheshi. Kufika kancane kancane, ngokubikezela, nangaphandle kwesimemezelo. Ngendlela efanayo, ukuqonda kobukhosi akumemezeli ukufika kwakho. Kumane kuyaphila.

Ubunikazi Bombuso, Incazelo, Nokuhlanganiswa

Ubunikazi Njenge-Interface kanye ne-Starseed Friction

Manje, ake sibuyele ekuziboneni. Njengoba ubheka ubuwena ngokwethembeka, sikubona uqaphela ukuthi ubuntu abuyona indawo yakho yokuqala, yize bekuyi-lens oye wazama ngayo ukuqonda konke. Lokhu akukhona ukwenqaba ubuntu bakho noma ukuzenza sengathi ungaphezu kwabo; kumayelana nokubona ubuwena njengohlobo lokuhlangenwe nakho, iqoqo lezintandokazi, izinkumbulo, ukwesaba, amakhono, kanye nemikhuba ekuvumela ukuthi uphile impilo engokwenyama, kuyilapho ubuwena obujulile buhlala bukhona ngaphansi kwezindima ezishintshayo. Iningi lenu elivumelana negama elithi starseed liye lazizwa ukungqubuzana phakathi kwalokho enikwaziyo ngaphakathi nalokho umhlaba okulindele ngaphandle, futhi niye nazama, ngezinye izikhathi, ukuxazulula lokho kungqubuzana ngokunamathisela ilebula ekugcineni elichaza ukuthi kungani nizizwa nihlukile. Ilebula ingaba yibhuloho, futhi ingaba yisisindo lapho iphenduka into okumele uyivikele. Ubona ukuzivikela ezintweni ezincane, njengendlela ozichaza ngayo emndenini, indlela okhetha ngayo lokho owabelana ngakho ku-inthanethi, indlela olindela ngayo ukwahlulela esikoleni noma emsebenzini, kanye nendlela ohlola ngayo igumbi ngesikhathi ongase ungaqondwa kahle. Ubuwena buba yisivikelo uma uzizwa ungaphephile, futhi buba yikheji uma ukhohlwa ukuthi ungabubeka phansi. Ukuqonda kobukhosi kukunikeza inketho yokusebenzisa ubuwena ngaphandle kokusetshenziswa yibo, futhi lokho kuyishintsho, ngoba kukuvumela ukuthi uhlale uqinile ngaphandle kokuba lukhuni. Ungaba ngokomoya ngaphandle kokudinga ukubukeka ungokomoya, futhi ungaba nozwela ngaphandle kokudinga ukufakazela ubuzwela, futhi ungaphaphama ngaphandle kokwenza ukuvuka. Uma ubamba ubuwena kalula, uba nelukuluku kakhulu, futhi ilukuluku livula iminyango yokuthi ukuqiniseka kuhlala kuvaliwe. Ungafunda kumuntu ongavumelani nawe ngaphandle kokuwa, ngoba awuzami ukuvikela indaba ngokuthi ungubani, uhlola ukuthi yini ezwakalayo nokuthi yini engezwani nayo. Ungashintsha umqondo wakho ngaphandle kokuzizwa sengathi uyazikhaphela, ngoba uyaqonda ukuthi ukukhula kuthuthukisa isikhombikubona. Ngisho nobuhlobo bakho nesikhathi sakho esidlule buqala ukuthamba, ngoba uyeka ukubuka isikhathi sakho esidlule njengamaphutha bese uqala ukuzibheka njengezinguqulo zangaphambilini zesikhombikubona ezifunda ukuthi zingasebenza kanjani. Lena futhi indlela ophinda ukhethe ngayo izindima ozidlalayo. Ungaba ngumfundi, umngane, umdali, umnakekeli, umholi, futhi ungavumela lezo zindima zibe yizindlela zokubonisa kunokuba zibe izincazelo. Ungavela ngemithwalo yemfanelo ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yiyo, futhi ungaphumula ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwakho, ngoba ukubaluleka akuyona indima, kuyinto engokwemvelo. Uma wazi ukuthi ungaphezu komlingiswa, uyeka ukuphikisana nokuphila ngokuthi impilo kufanele imphathe kanjani umlingiswa, bese uqala ukuvumelanisa umlingiswa neqiniso lomuntu omkhulu. Futhi lokhu kukuholela ekuqapheleni ukuthi ezinye zezincazelo oziboleke kwabanye, ngisho nezincazelo ezingokomoya, azisafaneleki kahle njengoba zazinjalo ngaphambili.

Kusukela Encazelweni Ebolekiwe Kuya Encazelweni Ephilayo

Siqaphele ukuthi lokho okwakuzwakala njengemephu ephelele manje kuzwakala njengengubo osuyidlulile, futhi lokhu akusikho uphawu lokuthi uthathe ijika elingalungile, kodwa uphawu lokuthi ukuqonda kwakho kuguquke ngaphezu kokudinga ulimi lomunye umuntu ukuba kube yikhaya lakho. Kunesigaba lapho incazelo ebolekiwe iwusizo khona, ngoba ingqondo ifuna into engayibamba ngenkathi inhliziyo ikhula, futhi kuleso sigaba ungase uqoqe izimfundiso, ulandele othisha, ufunde izinhlaka, futhi wamukele izincazelo ezikusiza ukuthi uqonde imizwa, ukuvumelanisa, kanye nezinguquko zangaphakathi. Kodwa njengoba ubukhosi bufika ku-inthanethi, izincazelo ezifanayo ezibolekiwe zingase ziqale ukuzizwa zivinjelwe, ngoba zikucela ukuthi uqhubeke uzichaza ngokwemibandela yomunye umuntu, futhi zingakugcina uhlola isibuyekezo esilandelayo esikhundleni sokuthola lokho okukhona kakade ngaphakathi. Lokhu kubonakala kakhulu manje ngoba umhlaba wakho unomsindo, futhi unomsindo ngezindlela ezithile kakhulu. Izinhlelo zezepolitiki ziyalungiswa kabusha, izivumelwano kanye nezingxabano zilandiswa ngamalensi angenakubalwa, inkulumo yokudalula iyaphakama futhi yehle, ubuchwepheshe buyashintsha ngokushesha, futhi ngisho nobudlelwano bakho obuhlangene nezinkanyezi buye baqina, njengoba abantu befuna iphethini engabikezela ukuphepha kwabo. Uma uzibona uphoqelekile ukuhlola, ukuvuselela, ukuqhathanisa, nokuphishekela incazelo entsha, uvame ukubona ingqondo izama ukuboleka isiqiniseko ngoba ayikafundi ukuthembela ekuqondeni. Ukuqonda kobukhosi kukumema ukuthi usuke encazelweni ebolekiwe uye encazelweni ephilayo. Futhi incazelo ephilayo ivela njengalokho okwenzekayo uma uvala ithebhu, ubeka ifoni phansi, bese ubuyela kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho ngaphandle kokuphawula. Iyavela lapho ubona umzimba wakho, umoya wakho, imizwa yakho, kanye nemicabango yakho, bese ubuza, hhayi ukuthi “Kusho ukuthini lokhu ngokusho komunye umuntu,” kodwa “Kuyini lokhu okungicelayo njengamanje,” ngoba njengamanje yilapho amandla akho ekhona khona. Iyavela lapho uzivumela ukuba ube nokungaqiniseki ngaphandle kokuguqula ukungaqiniseki kube yinkinga. Futhi iyavela lapho uqaphela ukuthi imfundiso efanayo eyakusiza ngonyaka odlule kungenzeka ingabi yimfundiso ekusekelayo namuhla, hhayi ngoba iqiniso liyashintsha, kodwa ngoba uhlangana nongqimba olusha lweqiniso. Ufunda nokuthi incazelo ingaba uhlobo olucashile lokulawula. Ezinye izincazelo zinikezwa njengezimemo, kanti ezinye izincazelo zinikezwa njengezikheji, futhi umehluko ukuthi zikushiya kanjani uzizwa. Ikheji likwenza uthembele, likwenze wesabe ukuphambuka, likwenze ukhathazeke ngokulahlekelwa okuthile, futhi likwenze uthembeke kakhulu endabeni kunolwazi lwakho oluqondile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isimemo sikushiya unamandla kakhulu, ukhona, futhi unekhono lokuphila impilo yakho ngobuqotho nangokulinganisela. Futhi njengoba wenza lo mehluko, ngokwemvelo uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi ulwazi lodwa alusanele, ngoba okudingayo manje ukuhlanganiswa, ukwenziwa, kanye nokuhlakanipha okuguqula impilo yakho yansuku zonke. Ngezindlela ezingokoqobo.

Ukuhlanganiswa Ngale Kokulayishwa Kolwazi Okungaphezu Kokuningi

Futhi uma uqaphela ukuthi ulwazi lodwa alusanele, sibona ubona ushintsho olubalulekile endleleni ingqondo yakho esabela ngayo ezimfundisweni ezintsha, amavidiyo amasha, iziteshi ezintsha, ngisho nokuqonda okusha onakho ngaphakathi kuwe. Kunesikhathi lapho ukufunda kuzwakala njengokunwebeka, ngoba ingqondo ibamba lokho inhliziyo esikwaziyo kakade, futhi ukungena kolimi, imiqondo, kanye nemibono kungazwakala njengomoya-mpilo. Kodwa kunesinye isikhathi, futhi abaningi kini bakhona manje, lapho ukungena okufanayo kuqala ukuzizwa sengathi kunesisindo, hhayi ngoba kungalungile, kodwa ngoba akugaywanga. Futhi iqiniso elingagaywanga lingahlala ohlelweni njengokuxinana, kuthatha isikhala, kuqede amandla, futhi kukwenze uzizwe sengathi uhlala usemuva. Ukuhlanganiswa kuyisisombululo, futhi ukuhlanganiswa akuyona into emangalisayo. Ukuhlanganiswa yilokho okwenzekayo lapho wenza iqiniso phakathi nosuku lwakho, lapho ucindezelekile, lapho unesithukuthezi, lapho ulingeka ukuba uzulazule, lapho udumele, lapho ujabule, lapho ukhathele, nalapho uzama ukunquma ukuthi uzokhuluma noma uzohlala uthule. Yilokho okwenzekayo uma ubona uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa luqina bese ukhetha ukuphefumula esikhundleni sokusabela. Yilokho okwenzekayo uma uqaphela ukuthi ungazizwa umuzwa ngaphandle kokuba yiwo, futhi ungaba nomcabango ngaphandle kokuwulalela. Yilokho okwenzekayo uma ukhetha ukuba nomusa kuwe ngesikhathi lapho uvame ukuba nolaka, futhi ukhetha ukuphumula ngesikhathi lapho uvame ukusunduza khona. Iningi lenu lifundiswe, ngisho nasezindizeni zokomoya, ukuthi uma wazi into efanele uzoba yinto efanele, futhi lokho kuyiqiniso kancane. Ukwazi kungavula umnyango, kodwa ukuphila kukuhamba kuwo. Futhi indawo yonke, iqiniso lakho, ubudlelwano bakho, nomzimba wakho kuyasabela kulokho okuphilwayo, ngoba lokho okuphilwayo kuba ukudlidliza okuzinzile. Yingakho ungafunda ngokuchichima futhi usaphila ngokuntuleka, noma ufunde ngothando futhi usaphila ngokuzivikela, noma ufunde ngokuzinikela futhi usaphila ngokulawula, ngoba iphethini endala iseyimvamisa ebusayo. Ukushintsha kwemvamisa akudingi amandla; kudinga ukuphindaphinda nobumnene. Ngakho-ke umenywa ukuba wenze lula, uthathe amaqiniso ambalwa futhi uwenze amaqiniso ajulile. Khetha umkhuba owodwa wesonto bese uwenza uma ukhohlwa ukukwenza, ngoba yilapho kuba ngokoqobo khona. Khetha iphethini eyodwa yobudlelwano ukuze uthambe futhi uqaphele ukuthi uzama kangaki ukubuya, ngoba lokho kuqaphela kuyintuthuko. Khetha indlela eyodwa yokuphatha umzimba wakho ngenhlonipho eyengeziwe, futhi uwenze ube ojwayelekile, ukuze ingokomoya libe yisisekelo kunokuba libe yinto enengqondo. Futhi njengoba wenza lokhu, uzothola ukuthi amazwi akho ayashintsha, ithoni yakho iyashintsha, kanye nokuba khona kwakho kuyashintsha, futhi lokho kuthinta indlela owabelana ngayo iqiniso nabanye, ngoba iqiniso eliphilayo akudingeki libuse ukuze lizwakale.

Iqiniso Elingenakho Ukubusa Njengokuphindaphindwa Kokuphila

Futhi uma uqaphela ukuthi iqiniso eliphilayo akudingeki libuse ukuze lizwakale, uqala ukuqaphela okuthile okubalulekile ngendlela iqiniso eliphathwa ngayo emhlabeni wakho njengamanje, ngoba abaningi basasebenza ngohlaka lapho iqiniso liyinto okufanele ivikelwe, incintiswane, futhi isetshenziswe njengesikhali sokulawula, kodwa imvamisa yokuqaphela okuzimele ishintsha buthule imithetho yalowo mdlalo, hhayi ngokulwa nomdlalo, kodwa ngokuwenza ungabalulekile ngokusebenzisa indlela yokuphila. Kungenzeka ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi eMhlabeni ngalesi sikhathi kukhona indlala enkulu yeqiniso, kanye nokwesaba okukhulu kweqiniso, futhi lawo mandla amabili ayashayisana ngendlela edala ukungezwani okubonayo emindenini, ebunganeni, ezikoleni, ezindaweni zokusebenza, nasezingxoxweni ezinkulu ezihlangene ezenzeka ngemidiya yakho kanye nezikhala zakho eziku-inthanethi, lapho abantu bevame ukuthi bafuna inkululeko, kodwa abakushoyo ukuthi bafuna umbono wabo ungaphikiswa, futhi bafuna ukungakhululeki kwabo kudambiswe yisivumelwano. Futhi njengembewu yezinkanyezi, njengesidalwa esinozwela, njengomuntu ovame ukuzwa ukudonswa kwenhloso enkulu, kungenzeka ukuthi uzithole ulingeka ukuba uhlanganyele kulezo zimpi, ucabanga ukuthi uma nje ungaveza umbono ofanele, wabelane ngesixhumanisi esifanele, wethule ubufakazi obufanele, noma uchaze umqondo ofanele ongokomoya, khona-ke umhlaba uzoshintsha, ilungu lomndeni lizothamba, umngane uzoqonda, umuntu ongamazi uzoyeka ukuhlasela, futhi iqembu lizogcina libuyele ezingqondweni zalo. Kodwa-ke futhi uqaphele, mhlawumbe ngendlela ebilokhu idumaza ngezinye izikhathi, ukuthi iqiniso alivuki njalo kumuntu ngoba nje seliveziwe, nokuthi ukukholisa akulona njalo ibhuloho obulithemba, ngoba iqiniso alikho nje ingqondo, liyanyakaza, futhi iqiniso elinyakazayo lidinga ukulungela ukwamukela. Yingakho sikumema ukuthi ucabangele ukuthi okunye kokuqeqeshwa okuyinhloko kokuqaphela ubukhosi ukufunda ukubamba iqiniso lakho ngaphandle kokuzama ukuliphoqa ukuba libe iqiniso lomunye umuntu, nokufunda ukuvumela iqiniso lomunye umuntu ukuba libe khona ngaphandle kokudinga ukuwa, ukuvikela, noma ukuhlasela, ngoba lo umehluko phakathi kweqiniso njengesikhali neqiniso njengokuphindaphinda okuphilayo. Iqiniso njengesikhali lidala uhlelo oluvaliwe lapho wonke umuntu ezama ukunqoba, lapho ukungavumelani kuba usongo, nalapho ubuwena buhlanganiswa khona nemibono, kangangokuthi ukungavumelani kuzwakala sengathi kukwenza ungabi namsebenzi. Nokho, iqiniso njengento ephilayo oyiphethe, into oyimelelayo, into elungisa izinqumo zakho, imingcele yakho, ithoni yakho, ubudlelwano bakho, kanye nezenzo zakho zansuku zonke, futhi uma uphila ngakho, awudingi ukubusa ukuze ube semthethweni, ngoba ukwethembeka kuzwakala ngaphakathi.

Iqiniso, Umkhuba Wobukhosi, Nokuqaliswa Kweplanethi kunamathiselwe

Ukuzijwayeza Kwansuku Zonke, Imingcele, Nokuqeqeshwa Okuhlangene

Ngakho-ke uqala ukuzijwayeza lokhu ngezindlela zansuku zonke, hhayi ezimweni ezingokomoya ezivusa amadlingozi, kodwa ezikhathini ezivamile lapho ubukhosi buqanjwa khona. Uyakwenza uma ulalela othile futhi uzizwa unesifiso sokuphazamisa, futhi esikhundleni salokho uyaphefumula, bese uvumela omunye umuntu aqede, ngoba awuzami ukunqoba, uzama ukuhlala uvumelana. Uyakwenza uma ubona othile ehlanganyela okuthile ongavumelani nakho ku-inthanethi, futhi ubona ukusebenza emzimbeni wakho, futhi ukhetha ukungakondli lokho kusebenza ngokusabela, ngoba uqaphela ukuthi ukunaka kwakho kuyadala, nokuthi lokho okondlayo kuyakhula. Uyakwenza lapho othandekayo elahla okuthile okubalulekile kuwe, futhi esikhundleni sokuqalisa ukuzivikela, uyaqaphela ukuthi iqiniso lakho alinciphi ngoba othile engaliboni, futhi ukhetha isikhathi sakho, amazwi akho, kanye nemingcele yakho ngokucophelela. Uyakwenza uma uzizwa unesifiso esidala sokufakazela ukuthi ulungile, futhi ukhumbula ukuthi ukuba olungile akufani nokuba okhululekile, futhi ubukhosi bumayelana nenkululeko, hhayi ukunqoba. Manje, lokhu akusho ukuthi uthule, ungenzi lutho, noma ungabi nandaba, futhi akusho ukuthi uvumela ukulimala, ukungahloniphi, noma ukuxhashazwa, ngoba ukuqonda kobukhosi kufaka imingcele ecacile, futhi imingcele akuyona ukubusa, iwukucaca. Kukhona umehluko phakathi kokuvumela omunye iqiniso lakhe nokuvumela omunye ukuthi akuphathe kabi, futhi ungafunda lowo mehluko ngokuhlangenwe nakho, ngoba umzimba uzokutshela. Uma uhlonipha iqiniso ngaphandle kokubusa, uzizwa uzinzile, uzolile, futhi ukhona, noma ngabe ingxoxo inzima. Uma uwela ekubeni yinto ethokozisa abantu noma ozilahlayo, uzizwa uqinile, ukhathazekile, uhlakazekile, noma uphelelwe amandla, futhi lokho kuwulwazi. Ukuzwela kwakho akusibo ubuthakathaka lapha; kuyisiqondiso, futhi sizokhuluma kabanzi ngalokho, ngoba ukuqonda kobukhosi akusilo nje ifilosofi, kuyabonakala. Sifuna futhi ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi lokhu ukuqeqeshwa okuhlangene, futhi kuyinto enkulu. Iplanethi yakho idlula enkathini lapho abaningi befunda, ngezinye izikhathi ngezindlela ezibuhlungu, ukuthi ukuphoqelelwa akuhlali isikhathi eside, ukuthi ukubusa akudali ukuthula, nokuthi ukulawula akudali ukuphepha, futhi ungakubona lokhu endleleni izakhiwo ezindala ezibuzwa ngayo, indlela izindaba eziqhekeka ngayo, nendlela abantu abavuka ngayo hhayi nje kuphela emaqinisweni angokomoya, kodwa naseqinisweni elilula lokuthi isimo sabo sangaphakathi yindawo kuphela abanamandla angempela kuyo. Iqiniso elingenakho ukubusa liyindlela yokungena ekubambisaneni kwangempela, ngoba livumela ukuhlukahluka ngaphandle kokuhlukana, futhi livumela umehluko ngaphandle kwempi. Futhi njengoba ulwenza empilweni yakho, uba yingxenye yethempulethi entsha, lapho ukuvuthwa kusho ukuthi ungabamba iqiniso lakho futhi usavumela elinye inqubo yalo, futhi ungahlala uhlelekile ngisho nalapho umhlaba unomsindo.

Ayikho Indlela Elula Yokuphuma Nokuqala Kwansuku Zonke

Futhi njengoba uqala ukuphila lokhu, uzoqaphela ukuthi ingqondo isafuna izindlela ezinqamulelayo, ngoba ingqondo ifuna impumuzo, futhi ifuna ukuqiniseka, futhi ifuna indlela elula edlula izingxenye ezididayo zokuba ngumuntu, kodwa nokho ukuqonda okuzimele akufiki ngokudlula, kufinyelela ngokuqalwa. Kukhona inkulumo elula ephethe ukuhlakanipha okuningi: ayikho indlela elula yokuphuma, futhi asikunikezi lokho njengomthwalo, kodwa njengokukhululwa, ngoba uma usukwamukele, uyeka ukuchitha amandla ukufuna igebe elingekho, bese uqala ukutshala lawo mandla enkambisweni eguqula impilo yakho. Iningi lenu, ikakhulukazi labo abake bazizwa bengekho endaweni eMhlabeni, ngezinye izikhathi bebenethemba lokuthi ukuvuka kuzoba yindlela yokuphunyuka, ukuthi ukukhula ngokomoya kuzokususa ekungakhululekeni, ukuthi imvamisa ephezulu izosusa ubuhlungu obungokomzwelo, ukuthi ukukhumbula imvelaphi yakho yenkanyezi kuzokukhulula ebunzimeni bendaba yakho yomuntu, futhi lokho okutholayo manje kuyinto ekunika amandla kakhulu: ukuvuka akukususi empilweni, kukulethela ngokugcwele empilweni, futhi ukuqonda okuzimele akukhona ukugwema okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu, kuyikhono lokuhlangabezana okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu kusuka esikhungweni esikhulu, esiqinile, nesiqondakalayo. Ukuqala yilokho okwenzekayo uma uyeka ukubuza, "Ngiphuma kanjani kulokhu?" bese uqala ukubuza, "Ngingaba kanjani nalokhu ngendlela edumisa lowo engiba yiye?" Ngoba ungaba nokungaqiniseki ngaphandle kokukuguqula kube yinhlekelele, futhi ungaba nokungakhululeki ngaphandle kokukuguqula kube ukuzigweba, futhi ungaba namandla ngokomzwelo ngaphandle kokukwenza ubuwena bakho. Lokhu ukuqeqeshwa, futhi kuyinto yansuku zonke, futhi kuyinto evamile, futhi akuyona into ekhangayo njalo, kodwa uhlobo olunamandla kakhulu lomkhuba ongokomoya olukhona, ngoba ludala ukuzinza. Futhi ukuzinza yikho okuvumela imvamisa ephezulu ukuthi inamathele emzimbeni wakho, ohlelweni lwakho lwezinzwa, kanye nezinqumo zakho zansuku zonke, kunokuhlala endaweni yemibono.

Ukuhlanza Amakhabethe, Amaphethini Okumboza, Nokukhetha Okuqaphelayo

Kunezigaba zokuqalisa ezibukeka “njengokuhlanza ikhabethe,” futhi uke wezwa izingathekiso ezinjengalezi ngaphambili, kodwa sifuna uzizwe ukuthi kuwusizo kangakanani. Uma uhlanza indawo, uletha izinto ezifihliwe, futhi igumbi libukeka lingcolile ngaphambi kokuba libukeke lingcono, futhi ungase uzizwe ukhungathekile okwesikhashana, futhi ungase uzibuze ukuthi ngabe wenze izinto zaba zimbi kakhulu, kodwa umane uphakathi nenqubo. Lokhu kuyiqiniso nasezweni lakho lemizwa. Iningi lenu liyaqaphela ukwesaba okudala, amanxeba amadala, amaphethini amadala, kanye nobuntu obudala obuvelayo, futhi ungase ucabange ukuthi uyabuyela emuva, kodwa ezimweni eziningi umane uqaphela lokho obekusebenza ngokungazi, futhi ukwazi yikho okukunika ukukhetha. Awukwazi ukuguqula lokho ongakwazi ukukubona, futhi awukwazi ukuhlanganisa lokho okuphikayo, ngakho-ke ukukhanya akusilo isijeziso, kuyisimemo.

I-Polarity Ephakanyisiwe, Izinhlelo Eziveziwe, Nobuqiniso

Yingakho futhi ubona ukungezwani okukhulu kanye nokuqina emhlabeni wakho. Izinhlelo ezindala, izakhiwo ezindala, kanye nezivumelwano ezindala ziyadalulwa, futhi ukuvezwa akukhululekile, ngoba kususa umbono wokuzinza. Kodwa umbono wokuzinza wawungakaze ube nokuzinza; kwakuwukujwayelana nje kuphela. Umzimba, ingqondo, kanye neqembu lonke lidlula kule nguqu efanayo. Amaphethini ajwayelekile kungenzeka ukuthi ayebuhlungu, kodwa ayebikezelwa, futhi ukubikezela kungazwakala njengokuphephile engqondweni. Ubukhosi bukucela ukuthi ushintshisane ngokubikezela ngobuqiniso, futhi lokho kungazwakala kusabeka uze uqaphele ukuthi ubuqiniso yikona okudala ukuphepha kwangempela, ngoba ubuqiniso buvumelanisa umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi nowangaphandle.

Ukuqaliswa Kwansuku Zonke, Ukwethembana, Nokuzwela Okubusayo

Ukuqaliswa Okusebenzayo Njengesiyalo Sansuku Zonke

Ngakho-ke sikumema ukuthi uphathe ukuqalisa njengento ewusizo yansuku zonke. Uma uzibona uqala ukuphendula, lokho kuwukuqala. Uma ukhetha ukuma esikhundleni sokukhuphuka, lokho kuwukuqala. Uma uzizwa unesifiso sokungakhululeki, ukuphazamisa, ukuskrola, ukudla, ukucabanga ngokweqile, ukucabanga ngokushiya impilo yakho, futhi esikhundleni salokho uthatha umoya owodwa oqondile bese ubuyela emzimbeni wakho, lokho kuwukuqala. Uma usho okuyiqiniso ngaphandle kokuhlasela, lokho kuwukuqala. Uma ubeka umngcele ongenacala, lokho kuwukuqala. Uma uzithethelela ngokuba ngumuntu ngenkathi uhlala uzibophezele ekukhuleni, lokho kuwukuqala. Futhi yebo, kuthatha isikhathi, kodwa isikhathi asisona isitha sakho lapha; isikhathi singumngane wakho, ngoba ukuphindaphinda yilokho okuvuselela uhlelo, futhi isidalwa esibusayo asidalwa ngomzuzu owodwa wokuqonda, kodwa ngezikhathi eziningi zokuvumelanisa.

Ukwethemba Njengendlela Yokuba Nomkhawulo

Futhi njengoba uvuma ukuthi ayikho indlela enqamulelayo, uqala nokwamukela ukuthi ukwethemba akuyona into oyiphethe, kuyimisipha owakhayo, nokuthi imisipha iqiniswa ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuphilayo, ngezinqumo ezenziwe ngaphandle kweziqinisekiso, nangokunyakaza okungaveli ekuqinisekeni, kodwa ekuqondeni. Sifuna ucabangele ukwethemba hhayi njengohlelo lokukholelwa, kodwa njengendlela yokuba khona, ngoba abaningi kini bazame "ukucabanga" indlela yenu yokungena ekwethembeni, futhi ingqondo izohlala ithola izizathu zokungabaza, ngoba umsebenzi oyinhloko wengqondo ukulawula ingozi, futhi ayikwazi ukubala ububanzi obuphelele bamandla atholakalayo ekuqondeni okuguqukayo. Ukuthemba akukhona ukuphika ingozi; kungukuzimisela ukuba khona empilweni njengoba iqhubeka, nokuphendula ngokuhambisana kwakho okujulile kunokuba usabela ngokwesaba kwakho okukhulu. Futhi uma sithi ukwethemba kuyisithiyo, sisho ukuthi kukhona lapho uyeka khona ukudinga ukuqiniseka ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isinyathelo, bese uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi isenzo yisona esiveza ukucaca, futhi ukunyakaza yikho okwembula indlela. Iningi lenu liye labhekana nezikhathi lapho nizizwe niqondiswa khona ukwenza into engenangqondo engqondweni yenu, mhlawumbe ukushiya okuthile ngemuva, mhlawumbe ukuqala okuthile okusha, mhlawumbe ukukhuluma iqiniso eliqotho, mhlawumbe ukuphuma eqenjini lezenhlalo, mhlawumbe ukushintsha imikhuba yenu yansuku zonke, mhlawumbe ukwenza impilo yenu ibe lula, mhlawumbe ukubeka impilo yenu phambili, ubuhlakani benu, noma ukuthula kwenu, futhi ingqondo yasabela ngohlu lokwesaba. Kodwa-ke, uma ulandele lezo zikhathi zesiqondiso, uvame ukuthola ukuthi ukwesaba kwakungesona isiprofetho, kwakuwukuzilungisa, futhi ngale kwalokho ukuzilungisa kwakukhona uhlobo olukhulu lwakho olulinde ukuphilwa.
Ukwethembana kwakhiwe ngezindlela ezincane. Kwakhiwa lapho ulalela umzimba wakho futhi uhlonipha lokho okudingayo, noma ngabe ingqondo yakho ithi kufanele ucindezele. Kwakhiwa lapho uthi cha kulokho okukukhathazayo, noma ngabe othile udumele. Kwakhiwa lapho uthi yebo kulokho okukubizayo, noma ungaqiniseki ukuthi uzophelela kukho. Kwakhiwa lapho uzivumela ukuba uphumule, hhayi njengomvuzo wokukhiqiza, kodwa njengomkhuba wokuzihlonipha. Kwakhiwa lapho uphatha imali yakho ngokuba khona kunokugwema, lapho ubheka okungokoqobo esikhundleni sokuphupha noma ukwesaba, ngoba ukuqonda okuzimele kuhlanganisa ubuhlobo obuvuthiwe nendawo ebonakalayo. Kwakhiwa lapho ukhetha ukuba nengxoxo enzima ngomusa kunokuvumela intukuthelo iqoqeke, ngoba ukwethembana nakho kuwukwethemba emandleni akho okuthembeka kodwa ube uphephile. Sifuna futhi uqaphele ukuthi ukwethembana kuvame ukuba ikhambi lokulawula. Ukulawula kuwumzamo wokuqinisekisa ukuphepha ngokuphatha imiphumela, futhi kuyaqondakala ukuthi abaningi kini bathuthukise amasu okulawula, ngoba umhlaba wenu ungaba ongalindelekile, futhi abaningi kini bake babhekana nokungazinzi. Kodwa ukulawula kunciphisa impilo, futhi kunciphisa ukugeleza kokuqonda, ngoba ukuqonda kudinga ukuvuleleka. Ukwethembana kuyavuleka. Futhi uma uvula, impilo ingahlangana nawe. Lokhu akusho ukuthi impilo izohlala ikunika lokho okufunayo ngendlela oyifunayo; kusho ukuthi uzokwazi ukusebenza nalokho okuvela ngobuchule, ngokuthula, nangokudala, ngoba awulwi neqiniso, uhlanganyela nalo. Ungase futhi uqaphele ukuthi lapho uthemba kakhulu, kulapho ukuvumelanisa okuningi kubonakala khona, hhayi njengomlingo, kodwa njengokuphendula, ngoba uma uqondanisiwe, wenza izinqumo ezivumela iqiniso lakho ukuthi libonise lokho kuqondana. Ubona amathuba obungawaphuthelwa. Uhlangana nabantu obungeke ubahlangane nabo. Uzizwa uphefumulelwe ngezinye izikhathi owawuvame ukuzizwa ubambekile. Uqala ukuzwa ukuthi indawo yonke ayiyona amandla akude; iyisibuko sesimo sakho sokuba. Futhi njengoba wakha ukwethembana, uyeka ukuthembela ekubikezelweni, ngoba uqaphela ukuthi isikhathi samanje siqukethe isiqondiso esikhulu kakhulu kunesikhathi esizayo, futhi uqala ukuphumula eqinisweni elilula lokuthi awuhloselwe ukulawula konke; uhloselwe ukudala ngokubambisana ngokuqonda. Futhi njengoba ukwethembana kujula, ukuzwela kuyakhula, ngoba awuvikelwe kakhulu, futhi ukuvikelwa okuncane kusho ukwamukela okwengeziwe, futhi ukwamukela okwengeziwe kusho ukuthi uzozizwa kakhudlwana, uzwe kakhudlwana, futhi uqaphele okwengeziwe, yingakho isigaba esilandelayo sobukhosi sihilela ukubuyisa ukuzwela njengokuhlakanipha kunokukuphatha njengomthwalo.

Ukuzwela Njengezinto Zokusebenza Nokuzilawula

Iningi lenu liye lathwala ukuzwela njengesisindo, futhi nizame ukukulawula ngokuqinisa, ukukubamba, ukuhoxa, noma ukubheka njalo indawo enizungezile ukuze nithole ukuthi yini engase iniqede amandla, kodwa ukuzwela akuhloselwe ukuphathwa ngokuzibamba; kuhloselwe ukusekelwa ukuqonda nokuzilawula. Ukuzwela ukuqonda okucwengekile, futhi ukuqonda okucwengekile kungenye yezipho ezinhle ezilethwa yi-starseeds, ngoba ungakuzwa okungaphansi kobuso, ungakuzwa iqiniso elingokomzwelo legumbi ngisho nalapho abantu bemomotheka, ungakuzwa ithoni yamandla yengxoxo ngisho nalapho amagama enesizotha, futhi ungabona lapho into ihambisana nalapho into ingavumelani. Kodwa uma ukuzwela kungasekelwe, kungaba ukukhuthazwa ngokweqile, futhi ukukhuthazwa ngokweqile kungaholela ekukhathaleni, ekukhathazekeni, nasekudidekeni, bese ungase usole ukuzwela kwakho kunokuba uqaphele ukuthi ukuzwela kwakho kumane nje kusabela endaweni enomsindo, esheshayo, futhi evame ukungaqondani. Sikumema ukuthi ubone ukuzwela njengezinto zokufundisa, kanye nokuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke njengendawo yokuqeqesha yokufunda ukusebenzisa lezo zinto zokufundisa. Lokhu kungaba usizo njengokuqaphela indlela umzimba wakho osabela ngayo lapho uvuka futhi udla ulwazi ngokushesha, uma kuqhathaniswa nesikhathi ovuka ngaso bese uphefumula kuqala, welule kuqala, noma uphume kuqala. Kungaba usizo njengokuqaphela indlela ozizwa ngayo ngemva kokuxhumana nabantu okuthile, nokuzinika imvume yokululama, hhayi ngoba uphukile, kodwa ngoba ucubungula ngokujulile. Kungaba usizo njengokukhetha ukuthi iyiphi imithombo oyisebenzisayo nokuthi kangaki, ukuqaphela ukuthi ingqondo yakho kanye nohlelo lwakho lwezinzwa akuklanyelwe ukubamba amandla omhlaba wonke usuku lonke. Kungaba usizo njengokufunda ukuthi akudingeki uphendule kukho konke okuzwayo, ngoba umuzwa uwulwazi, hhayi ukufundiswa. Lapho ukuzwela kuba ukuhlakanipha, uqala ukubuza imibuzo ehlukene. Esikhundleni sokuthi “Kungani ngithinteka kangaka?” ubuza, “Kuyini lokhu okungibonisa ngemingcele yami, izinqumo zami, indawo engizungezile, nezidingo zami?” Esikhundleni sokuthi “Ngingayeka kanjani ukuzizwa?” ubuza, “Ngingawusekela kanjani umzimba wami ukuze ngizizwe ngaphandle kokuminza?” Esikhundleni sokuthi “Kungani wonke umuntu eqine kangaka?” ubuza, “Ngingahlala kanjani ngivumelana ngamandla ngaphandle kokuwathatha?” Futhi le mibuzo iyimibuzo yokuzimela, ngoba ibuyisela ubunikazi bombhali ezandleni zakho. Awukwazi ukulawula lokho abanye abakuzwayo, lokho okwenziwa izinhlelo, noma lokho iqembu elikucubungulayo, kodwa ungalawula lokho okhetha ukukuveza kukho, lokho okhetha ukuzibandakanya nakho, indlela ophefumula ngayo, indlela ophumula ngayo, indlela omisa ngayo, indlela okhuluma ngayo, nendlela obuyela ngayo enkabeni yakho.

Imvelo, Ukubumbana, kanye nemingcele yozwela

Ungase futhi ukuthole kuwusizo ukuhlela kabusha ubuhlobo bakho nemvelo ngalesi sikhathi, ngoba imvelo iwukubumbana, futhi ukubumbana kuvuselela uhlelo olubucayi. Iningi lenu liyaqaphela ukuthi uma niseduze kwezihlahla, amanzi, isibhakabhaka, noma indawo evulekile, insimu yenu iyahlala, ingqondo yenu iyathula, nomzimba wenu uyaphuma, futhi lokhu akusikho ukucabanga, kuwukuzwakala. Iplanethi yenu inikeza izimiso ngokuklama, futhi uma nichitha isikhathi ezindaweni ezihambisanayo, niba nokubumbana kakhudlwana. Yingakho futhi abanye kini bezizwa bekhathele ezakhiweni ezithile, ezixukwini ezithile, noma ezindaweni ezithile ze-inthanethi, ngoba ukungezwani kukhulisa ukungezwani, futhi ukuzwela kuyakubona. Sifuna futhi ukuthi nikhumbule ukuthi ukuzwela akusho ukuthi kumelwe nibe yisponji. Ungaba nozwela ngaphandle kokumunca. Ungaqaphela ngaphandle kokuthwala. Ungakhathalela ngaphandle kokuwa. Futhi yilapho ukuqonda kuba khona umkhuba wansuku zonke, ngoba uqala ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwalokho okungokwakho ukuze uzizwe nalokho okumane kuhamba endaweni ezungezile. Ufunda ukuvumela amandla ahambe kuwe ngaphandle kokuwenza abe ubuwena bakho, futhi ufunda ukubuyela emoyeni wakho, emzimbeni wakho, kanye nesikhathi sakho samanje lapho ingqondo ifuna ukujikeleza izindaba ngalokho okuzwayo. Futhi njengoba ukuzwela kuba ukuhlakanipha, awusabeli kahle futhi uyasabela kakhulu, futhi uqala ukukhetha okufakayo, ubudlelwano bakho, kanye nezenzo zakho ngokucophelela, ngoba awusazami ukusinda ekuzweleni kwakho; uyisebenzisela ukuhamba, futhi lokho kuhamba ngokwemvelo kukuholela ekuqondeni okuhlanzekile, kude nokukhuthaza, kanye nohlobo lokucaca okuzolile okuvumela isiqondiso sakho sangaphakathi ukuba sicace.

Ukuqonda Isignali, Ukubonakaliswa, Nokuqaphela Okuphilayo Kunamathiselwe

Ukukhuthazwa Uma kuqhathaniswa Nokuzinza Endleleni Ebusayo

Futhi njengoba uqala ukuhamba ngalolo zwelo olucacile, uzothola nokuthi awunasithakazelo kangako kulokho okunomsindo, okunamandla, nokushukumisayo, kodwa unentshisekelo kakhulu kulokho okuzinzile, okuyiqiniso, nokuphindaphindekayo empilweni yakho yansuku zonke, ngoba indlela yobukhosi ayakhelwe kulokho okukukhuthazayo, yakhelwe kulokho okukuzinzisa. Elinye lamakhono awusizo kakhulu ongawathuthukisa ngalesi sikhathi yikhono lokuhlukanisa phakathi kwalokho okukukhulisayo nalokho okukushukumisayo nje, ngoba okuningi kwalokho okwethulwa kuwe emhlabeni wakho kuklanyelwe, ngamabomu noma ngokungahlosile, ukuvusa ukusabela, ukudala ukuphuthuma, nokudonsa ukunaka kwakho kude nesiqondiso sakho sangaphakathi. Futhi ungakuzwa lokhu, hhayi ezindaweni ezisobala njengezokuxhumana nabantu kanye nezindaba, kodwa nasezindaweni ezingokomoya lapho ukuqina ngezinye izikhathi kuphambaniswa khona neqiniso, futhi lapho indlala yengqondo yokuqiniseka ingadliwa khona yizindaba ezishukumisayo, izibikezelo ezishukumisayo, izimangalo ezishukumisayo, kanye nokwahlukana okushukumisayo. Iningi lenu liqaphele ukuthi ningalalela umlayezo ozwakala ukhuthaza, kodwa nizizwe nihlakazekile ngemva kwalokho, noma ningabuka okuthile okubonakala kufundisa, kodwa nizizwa nikhathazekile emzimbeni wenu, futhi lolu uhlelo lwenu lunifundisa isifundo esibaluleke kakhulu: ukubaluleka kwesignali akukalwa ngokuthi inamandla kangakanani, kodwa ukuthi ikushiya uxhumene kangakanani.

Ukusebenza Okunamandla Uma kuqhathaniswa Nokuqonda Okuvumelanayo Kwesignali

Sikumema ukuthi uqale ukusebenzisa umuzwa wakho njengethuluzi lokulinganisa, ngoba ukuqonda akusikho nje ukuhlolwa kwengqondo, kuwukuqaphela komzimba ukuzwakala kahle. Uma uthola into evumelana nawe, kuvame ukuba nomuzwa wokuvula ngokuthula, ukuphumula okumnene, ukwanda kombono okungadingi ukuthi uvumelane nayo yonke imininingwane, kodwa okukushiya uzizwa unamandla kakhudlwana, ukhona kakhudlwana, futhi unamandla kakhudlwana. Uma uthola into ekhuthazayo, kuvame ukuba nokuqina, ukubamba, ingcindezi yokwenza okuthile, umuzwa wokuphuthuma, futhi ngezinye izikhathi umuzwa wokuqinisa ubuwena othi, “Uqinisile, banephutha, futhi kufanele wenze okuthile manje,” futhi umzimba ungase uzizwe usebenza, okungaphanjaniswa neqiniso ngoba ukusebenza kuzwakala njengamandla. Kodwa ukusebenza ngaphandle kokuhambisana kuyimbangela, futhi kungenye yezindlela ezivame kakhulu izidalwa ezizwelayo eziziqeda ngazo. Yingakho ungase uzithole ufisa ukuthula ngalesi sikhathi, noma ufisa ukufaka okuncane, noma ufisa ekuseni okuhamba kancane, noma ufisa isikhathi kude nezikrini, hhayi njengokwenqatshwa kwezwe, kodwa njengokubuyela ebuqothweni bakho besignali. Futhi lokhu kungenziwa ngezindlela ezivamile kakhulu. Ungabona ukuthi uzizwa kanjani uma uvuka bese uthatha ifoni yakho ngokushesha, futhi ungazama ukuzinika imizuzu eyishumi kuqala, ukuze uphefumule nje, uphuze amanzi, welule, uphume ngaphandle, ukuze uvumele uhlelo lwakho lungene ku-inthanethi ngaphambi kokuthi uhlanganyele eqenjini. Ungabona okwenzekayo uma uskrola ebusuku kakhulu, futhi ungazijwayeza ukukhetha ukuphumula kunokukhuthaza, hhayi ngoba ubuthakathaka, kodwa ngoba uhlakaniphile.

Ukufisa Ukuthula, Ukunciphisa Okufakwayo, Nokuzibandakanya Okuhlakaniphile

Ungakhetha ukuzibandakanya nolwazi ngamabomu kunokuba uphoqeleke, futhi ungazibuza umbuzo olula: “Ingabe lokhu kungisiza ngiphile impilo yami ngokucaca okwengeziwe, ngomusa, nangokuzinza, noma kungidonsela emsindweni?” Njengoba uzijwayeza lokhu, uzothola ukuthi ukuqonda kuba lula, ngoba uqeqesha uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa ukuthi lukhethe ukuvumelana, futhi uqeqesha ingqondo yakho ukuthi ithembe impendulo yomzimba wakho. Futhi uma ungasafuni ukukhuthazwa, uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi awudingi ngempela ukugeleza okuqhubekayo kwemibono emisha ukuze ukhule, ngoba ukukhula manje kumayelana nokubonakaliswa. Uqala ukubona ukuthi ukuqaphela okukodwa, okuphilwa ngokugcwele, kuzokwenzela okungaphezu kwemiyalezo eyikhulu enamandla ekushiya usebenza. Futhi yilapho ukunaka kwakho ngokwemvelo kuya khona ngokulandelayo.

Ukuqaphela Okuphilayo Kanye Nezithelo Zobukhosi

Uma uyeka ukuphishekela ukukhuthazwa, uqala ukuqaphela into ebilokhu iyiqiniso: awudingi ukwazi konke ukuze ube namandla, futhi awudingi ukuqoqa izimfundiso ezingapheli ukuze uphaphame, ngoba ukuqonda okukodwa okuphilayo kungahlela kabusha ulwazi lwakho lonke. Iningi lenu selivele libe nezikhathi lapho ukuqonda okukodwa kufinyelela ngokujulile kangangokuthi kwashintsha indlela oxhumana ngayo nawe, nobudlelwano bakho, nesikhathi sakho, umzimba wakho, imali yakho, noma imizwa yakho, futhi waphawula ukuthi ngemva kwalowo mzuzu awukwazi ukubuyela endleleni endala yokubona, hhayi ngoba uziphoqelele ukuthi ungakwenzi lokho, kodwa ngoba ukuvama kwalokho kuqaphela kwaba isisekelo sakho esisha. Yile ndlela ukuqonda okuguquka ngayo, hhayi njalo ngokugxuma okukhulu, kodwa ngokushintsha okuzinzile, ngamaqiniso owawakhayo kunokuba uwancome usuka kude. Sikumema ukuba ucabangele ukuthi izinga lakho elilandelayo alikho ngempela ngokufunda okuthile okusha, kodwa ngokuphila lokho osuvele ukwazi. Kwabanye kini, ukuqaphela ukuthi nifanelwe uthando ngaphandle kokukufakazela, futhi umkhuba ukuyeka ukukhuluma nani ngendlela eningeke nikhulume nomuntu omkhathalelayo. Kwabanye, ukuqaphela ukuthi imizwa iyisimo sezulu, hhayi ubuwena, futhi umkhuba ukuvumela imizwa ihambe ngaphandle kokuyilandisa ezindabeni ezichaza ikusasa lakho. Kwabanye, ukuqaphela ukuthi umzimba wakho ungumngane, futhi umkhuba uwukulalela, ukuwondla kahle, ukuwuphumuza, ukuwushukumisa, ukuhlonipha imigqi yawo, nokuyeka ukuwuphatha njengomshini okufanele uhlale usebenza. Kwabanye, ukuqaphela ukuthi inani lakho aliboshelwe ekukhiqizeni, futhi umkhuba uwukuvumela ukuphumula ngaphandle kwecala, nokuvumela injabulo ngaphandle kokudinga ukuyizuza. Kwabanye, ukuqaphela ukuthi imingcele uthando, futhi umkhuba uwukuthi cha ngaphandle kokuxolisa kanye no-yebo ngaphandle kokucasuka. Uma uthola ukuqaphela okukodwa okuzwakalayo, ungakuphatha njengembewu, futhi ungakutshala emhlabathini wempilo yakho yansuku zonke. Ukunisela ngokuphindaphinda. Uyakuvikela ekungabazeni okuqhubekayo. Ubuyela kukho uma ukhohlwa. Uyakwenza lapho kulula futhi ikakhulukazi lapho kungenjalo. Futhi uzothola ukuthi njengoba kuzinza, kuyanda, ngoba iqiniso elilodwa, uma libonakaliswa, lembula ngokwemvelo amanye amaqiniso ahambisana nalo. Akudingeki uphoqelele lokhu kukhula, futhi akudingeki ukukuxosha; kuzokwenzeka ngoba ukuqonda kubanzi ngokwemvelo. Yingakho sivame ukukukhuthaza ukuthi uphumule, wamukele, futhi uvumele, ngoba ukuvumela yikho okunikeza iqiniso indawo yokuphila kunokuba kuqondwe nje. Iningi lenu liye lazizwa licindezelekile ukuba "lihambisane nesikhathi" nolwazi olungokomoya, njengokungathi ukuvuka kuwumjaho, kodwa ukuqonda okuzimele akukhathalekile ukuba yinto yamanje; kukhathalekile ukuba nengqondo ehambisanayo. Ukuhambisana kusho ukuthi ungasebenzisa iqiniso lakho esikhathi esinzima, esikhathi esicindezelayo, empikiswaneni, ekudumazekeni, osukwini oluvamile lapho kungekho lutho olujabulisayo olwenzekayo, ngoba ubukhosi abukhiwanga kokuhlangenwe nakho okuphezulu kuphela, bukhiwe ekuvumelaneni kwakho. Futhi uma uphila ukuqaphela okukodwa, uqala ukubona izinguquko ezindaweni ezingokoqobo kakhulu, futhi lezo zinguquko ziba izithelo ezikutshela ukuthi uhlangana ngempela, ngoba izithelo kuphela ubufakazi obubalulekile.
Njengoba ubonakalisa lokho okwaziyo, uzoqaphela ukuthi impilo iqala ukubonakalisa lokho kubonakaliswa kuwe, hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokushesha, futhi hhayi njalo ngesimo esithile ingqondo elindele, kodwa ngezindlela ezingakholeki ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngoba iqiniso liphendula kaningi. Izithelo yilokho okukukhombisa ukuthi ushintsho lungokoqobo. Kungaba lula njengokuvuka ungesabi kakhulu, noma okubalulekile njengokushiya ubuhlobo obukugulisa, noma okusebenzayo njengokuphatha imali ngokuba khona okwengeziwe, noma okucashile njengokuba nezingxabano ezimbalwa ngoba awusadingi ukunqoba. Kungabukeka njengokulala okungcono, imingcele ehlanzekile, umuzwa ocacile, ukuskrola okungaphoqeleli, ukubekezela okwengeziwe ngawe, uzwela oluningi ngaphandle kokuzilahla, ikhono elengeziwe lokuhlala ungakhululekile ngaphandle kokukuguqula kube yinkinga, kanye nokuzimisela okwengeziwe ukwethembeka ngaphandle kokuba nolaka. Lezi yizibonakaliso zokuthi ubukhosi akuwona nje umbono; buyimvamisa ephilwa. Siyazi ukuthi abaningi kini bebefuna “ubufakazi” bokuthi nisendleleni efanele, futhi ngezinye izikhathi niye nafuna lobo bufakazi ngokuhambisana, imibono, izibonakaliso, izinombolo, noma izenzakalo zangaphandle, futhi nakuba lokho kungaba usizo, akuzona isisekelo, ngoba izibonakaliso zangaphandle zingahunyushwa ngezindlela eziningi, futhi zingaba kalula olunye uhlobo lokulinda.

Izithelo, Umkhuba Ongokomoya, kanye Nentuthuko Engabonakali enamathiselwe

Impilo Yansuku Zonke, Umsebenzi Ongokomoya, Nendlela

Nokho, izithelo azinakuphikwa ngoba zihlala kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Ziphila endleleni osabela ngayo empilweni yakho. Ziphila ezingeni lobudlelwano bakho. Ziphila emandleni akho okuba nawe. Ziphila emandleni akho okulawula uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa. Ziphila emandleni akho okwenza ukukhetha nokulandela ngaphandle kokujikajika. Ziphila emandleni akho okwamukela ukuthi iqiniso lomunye umuntu lingaba khona ngaphandle kokusongela elakho. Izithelo ziwubufakazi obungenakuphikiswa, ngoba yimpilo yakho, obuphilwa ngendlela ehlukile. Yingakho futhi sikumema ukuthi ubheke izindawo zansuku zonke zempilo yakho njengomkhuba wakho ongokomoya. Izinkanyezi eziningi zinomkhuba wokuhlukanisa "umsebenzi ongokomoya" "empilweni yangempela," futhi zingase zizindle, ziqondise, zifunde, noma zicubungule amandla, bese zizizwa zikhungathekile lapho zibuyela esikoleni, emndenini, emsebenzini, ezikweletini, empilweni, kumashejuli, noma ebudlelwaneni, njengokungathi lezo zinto ziyiziphazamiso endleleni. Sikunikeza umbono ohlukile: lezo yizindlela. Indlela ophatha ngayo impilo yakho yansuku zonke iyindlela lapho ukwazi kuba khona khona. Uma ungaba khona ngenkathi wenza into eyisicefe, uyahlangana. Uma ungaba nomusa ngenkathi ubeka umngcele, uhlanganisa. Uma ungahlala uqinile ngenkathi iqembu lisebenza, uhlanganisa. Uma ungazivumela ukuba ngumuntu ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yisikhungo sakho, uhlanganisa.

Ukuzibonakalisa Okungokomoya, Ukusebenza, Nokuhlanganiswa Okuvamile

Futhi uma ugxila ezithelweni, awudingi ukukholisa noma ubani. Awudingi ukufakazela ukuthi uphapheme. Awudingi ukwenza ingokomoya lakho. Uhlala uphila. Futhi kukhona impumuzo enkulu kulokho, ngoba ukusebenza kuyakhathaza, futhi abaningi kini sebekhathele, hhayi yizwe kuphela, kodwa yingcindezi yokuba uhlobo oluthile lomuntu ongokomoya. Njengoba izithelo ziba ukugxila kwakho, ngokwemvelo ungena esigabeni esilandelayo, okuwukuqedwa buthule kokusebenza okungokomoya kanye nobunikazi obungokomoya, hhayi njengokulahlekelwa, kodwa njengokuvuthwa okujulile. Njengoba ubukhosi buzinza, uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi awunasithakazelo esincane sokuziveza njengoguqukile, okhanyiselwe, ovukile, ovame kakhulu, noma othuthukile ngokomoya, ngoba isidingo sokuveza ngokuvamile sivela ekungazethembi, futhi ukungazethembi kuyaphela lapho ukwenziwa kungokoqobo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi uba ngongenandaba, futhi akusho ukuthi uyeke ukukhathalela ukukhula; kusho ukuthi uyeke ukudinga ukubonwa njengokhula. Uyeke ukudinga ukumemezela inqubo yakho. Uyeke ukudinga ukuqoqa ubuwena obubonisa ukuqwashisa kwakho. Futhi ungase uqaphele nokuthi uzizwa ujwayelekile, okungamangaza engqondweni eyayikade ilindele ukuvuka ukuthi kuzizwe njengezibhamu ezihlala njalo. Kodwa okujwayelekile, ngalomqondo, akulona into eyisicefe; okujwayelekile kuhlanganisiwe. Okujwayelekile kusekelwe. Okujwayelekile kuzinzile. Okujwayelekile yilokho okuvumela ukuqonda okuphezulu ukuthi kuphile eMhlabeni ngaphandle kokudinga izimo ezikhethekile. Iningi lenu belilokhu liphethe ubuwena obungokomoya njengezikhali zempi, ngezinye izikhathi ngoba beningaqondwa kahle empilweni yenu yokuqala, ngezinye izikhathi ngoba nahlulelwa, ngezinye izikhathi ngoba nizizwa ninesizungu, futhi ubuwena buninike umphakathi nolimi. Asikuchithi ukubaluleka kwalokho. Kodwa futhi siphawula ukuthi ubuwena bungaba uhlobo olucashile lokuthembela, lapho wesaba ukuphuma ngaphandle kwendima, lapho wesaba ukubhekwa njengongaphelele, lapho wesaba ukushintsha ingqondo yakho, lapho wesaba ukulahlekelwa umphakathi uma uyeka ukuphinda imibono efanayo. Ukuqaphela kobukhosi kuyakhulula lokho kubambelela. Kukuvumela ukuthi ugcine okuyiqiniso futhi ukhulule okusebenzayo. Kukuvumela ukuthi ube qotho kunokuba uhambisane ngenxa yokuvumelana. Kukuvumela ukuthi uthembeke ngaphandle kokudinga ukufanisa ubuntu. Lokhu kubonakala ngezindlela zansuku zonke. Ungase uyeke ukuphikisana ngokomoya ku-inthanethi ngoba uqaphela ukuthi izingxoxo azivamile ukukhiqiza izithelo, futhi amandla akho asetshenziswa kangcono ukuphila iqiniso lakho. Ungase uyeke ukuthumela yonke imininingwane ngoba uqaphela ukuthi impilo yakho iyisidluliselo sakho, futhi awudingi ukuqinisekiswa ukuze kube ngokoqobo. Ungase uyeke ukuzama "ukulungisa" ukudlidliza kwakho njalo uma uzizwa udabukile, futhi esikhundleni salokho uvumela ukudabuka kube yigagasi lomuntu elidlula ngaphandle kokuba yindaba. Ungase ukhululeke kakhudlwana uthi, "Angazi," ngoba ubukhosi abudingi ukuqiniseka, kudinga ukuhambisana. Ungase uzithole uhleka kakhulu, ngoba amahlaya ayaqina, futhi isidalwa esiqinile singahlangana kalula kunesicindezelekile.
Futhi ushintsho olubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingokomoya liba kancane umsebenzi owenzayo kodwa libe yindlela oyikho ngayo. Uletha ukuqonda endleleni okhuluma ngayo, indlela olalela ngayo, indlela ohlanza ngayo indawo yakho, indlela odla ngayo, indlela osebenza ngayo, indlela ophumula ngayo, indlela odala ngayo, indlela ophendula ngayo ezingxabanweni, indlela olawula ngayo ukwesaba, nendlela oziphatha ngayo lapho wenza amaphutha. Yilokhu esikushoyo ngokuhlanganiswa. Uyeka ukuzama ukubalekela ubuntu bakho, futhi uqala ukuvumela ukuqonda kungene ebuntwini bakho. Uba yibhuloho ngaphandle kokuzama ukuba yibhuloho. Uba yi-stabilizer ngaphandle kokudinga isihloko. Futhi njengoba ukusebenza kwehla, ungathola ukuthi intuthuko iba nokuthula, futhi ngenxa yokuthi ithule, ingqondo ingase izibuze ukuthi kukhona okwenzekayo, kodwa kukhona okwenzekayo, futhi kujulile, ngoba okwenzekayo ukuthi awusathembeli empendulweni yangaphandle ukuqinisekisa ukukhula kwangaphakathi, futhi lokho kubeka isiteji sesigaba esilandelayo, lapho ufunda khona ukwethemba ukukhula ngisho nalapho kungabonakali, futhi ufunda ukuqaphela izimpawu ezicashile zokuguqulwa ezenzeka ngaphansi kobuso.

Ukucwengwa, Ubukhosi, Noshintsho Lwangaphakathi

Ngakho-ke, njengoba leso sigaba sokusebenza sincibilika, ungase uqaphele ukuthi izinguquko ezibaluleke kakhulu ziqala ukwenzeka ngendlela engenakulinganiswa ngokushesha, futhi yingakho iningi lenu lingabaza okwesikhashana, ngoba ingqondo iqeqeshwe ukufuna ubufakazi obubonakalayo ngaphambi kokuba iphumule, kodwa nokho ukuqonda kuvame ukushintsha kuqala ezindaweni lapho kungekho muntu oshaya ihlombe nalapho kungekho muntu obuka khona. Intuthuko engabonakali ibukeka sengathi isabela kancane kancane lapho ushukunyiswa, noma ngabe usazizwa isisusa, ngoba ukunqoba akukhona ukuthi awukaze uzizwe, kodwa ukuthi uyeke ukulawulwa yilokho okuzwayo. Intuthuko engabonakali ibukeka njengokuqaphela ukuqala kwesiyingi nokukhetha ukuphefumula, noma ukukhetha ukuhamba, noma ukukhetha ukuphuza amanzi, noma ukukhetha ukusuka esikrinini, ngaphambi kokuba isiyingi sibe isiphepho somzimba wonke, ngoba ubukhosi akuyona impilo ephelele, buwubuhlobo obulawulwayo nokuphila. Ungase ube nezinsuku lapho uzizwa ukhathele, noma ungaqiniseki, noma ukhungathekile, noma uthambile ngokomzwelo, futhi ingqondo ngezinye izikhathi izochaza lezo zinsuku njengokwehluleka, njengobufakazi bokuthi akukho lutho olusebenzayo, njengobufakazi bokuthi "awukafiki lapho," futhi sifuna ukukukhumbuza ukuthi "lapho" akuyona indawo ofika kuyo ngokushesha futhi unomphela, ngoba ukuqonda kuyinsimu ephilayo, futhi insimu ephilayo iyavumelana nezimo. Kuvamile ukuba nezikhathi lapho uhlangana khona, lapho ulungisa khona izinto, lapho ukhula khona ubunikazi obudala, ubudlelwano obudala, imikhuba emidala, ngisho nokulindela okudala okungokomoya, futhi lezo zikhathi zingazizwa zithule, ngoba idrama ayiseyona inhloso. Idrama yayiwusizo ekuvuseni abanye kini; ayisizi ngalutho ekuniqiniseni.

Intuthuko Engabonakali, Ukuqonda, Nokuhambisana

Ungacabanga ngalokhu njengokufunda noma yiliphi ikhono. Ekuqaleni, ubona intuthuko enkulu ngoba ushintsho oluvela “ekungazini” luye “ekwazini okuncane” lukhulu. Bese ufika esigabeni lapho intuthuko iba mfushane ngoba uyayilungisa, futhi ukuhluza kungabonakali kangako, kodwa kunamandla kakhulu. Umehluko phakathi kokwazi ukudlala ama-chord ambalwa nokufunda ukudlala ngesikhathi, ithoni, kanye nomuzwa, noma umehluko phakathi kokufunda ukushayela nokufunda ukushayela kahle, noma umehluko phakathi kokufunda ukukhuluma ngomusa nokufunda ukuhlala unomusa uma uzizwa uvikelekile. Ukuhluza yilapho kwakhiwa khona ubukhosi, futhi ukuhluza kuvame ukuzwakala sengathi “akukho okwenzekayo” ngoba okwenzekayo kungaphakathi, futhi ushintsho lwangaphakathi aluhlali lunikeza ingqondo ibhodi lamaphuzu. Enye yezinguquko eziwusizo kakhulu ongazenza njengamanje ukukala intuthuko ngalokho okululama kukho, hhayi ngalokho okugwemayo. Iningi lenu liyazwela, futhi ngenxa yokuthi niyazwela, ningadumala lapho nizizwa nivuselelwe, kodwa umbuzo awukhona ukuthi ukuhluza kwenzeka yini; umbuzo uwukuthi nihlangabezana kanjani nakho. Ingabe nibuyela esikhungweni senu ngokushesha? Ingabe nixolisa ngokuhlanzekile uma niphuthelwa uphawu lwenu? Uyayeka yini ukuzijezisa ngokuba ngumuntu? Ingabe wenza izinqumo ezinomusa emzimbeni wakho, engqondweni yakho, ohlelweni lwakho, ebuhlotsheni bakho? Uyasibona isikhathi lapho uvame ukuzilahla khona bese ukhetha ukuhlala ukhona esikhundleni salokho? Lokhu kuyintuthuko ejulile, futhi ngokuvamile ayibonakali kwabanye, kodwa ayibonakali ensimini yakho. Uzophawula futhi, njengoba intuthuko engabonakali iqoqana, ukuthi ukukhanga kwakho ekuphawuleni kwangaphandle okuqhubekayo kuqala ukuphela, futhi ungase uzizwe ungashukumiseleki kangako "ukuhambisana" nakho konke okushiwoyo, ukubuyekezwa ngakunye, ukubikezela ngakunye, ihlazo ngalinye, igagasi ngalinye lokuthukuthela, ngoba uhlelo lwakho lufunda ukuthi ukuhambisana kubaluleke kakhulu kunokwaziswa ngakho konke. Lokhu akukhona ukungazi; kuwukuqonda. Uqala ukubona ukuthi kuzohlala kukhona okunye ukulandisa, okunye ukwesaba, esinye isizathu sokukhathazeka, esinye isizathu sokuzizwa usemuva, futhi ubukhosi bakho bukhula njengoba ukhetha ukungawuniki lowo mshini ukunaka kwakho. Uqala ukubuza, kalula nje, "Ingabe lokhu kungisiza ukuba ngiphile namuhla ngendlela ehambisanayo, enomusa, eqotho, nezinzile?" futhi uma kungenjalo, uyahlehla.

I-Fixer Reflex, Ukunikeza Okuphakeme, kanye Nezinzisi

Isikhathi, Ukwelapha, kanye Nokushukumiseleka Okufanele Kulungiswe

Intuthuko engabonakali nayo ibonakala endleleni oqala ngayo ukuhlonipha isikhathi. Uyeka ukuzama ukuphoqa ukuphulukiswa kwakho ukuba kwenzeke ngesikhathi esithile. Uyeka ukuzama ukusheshisa injongo yakho ibe umkhiqizo. Uyeka ukuzama ukuguqula ukuqonda kwakho kube yimiphumela esheshayo. Uvumela impilo ukuthi ihlangane nawe. Uvumela isinyathelo esilandelayo ukuba sicace ngokunyakaza kunokuba sicindezelwe. Futhi njengoba uthemba isimo esingabonakali sokuguqulwa kwangempela, uzophawula nokuthi i-reflex ethile iqala ukuba buthaka kuwe—i-reflex yokulungisa wonke umuntu ukuze uzizwe uphephile—futhi yileyo ngqimba elandelayo esikumema kuyo. Njengoba uba nozinzo ngokwengeziwe ngaphakathi kuwe, kuba lula kakhulu ukubona ukuthi kaningi kangakanani isifiso sokulungisa abanye empeleni siwumzamo wokulawula uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa ngokulawula. Iningi lenu selikhathalele ngokujulile isikhathi eside, futhi lokho kukhathalela ngezinye izikhathi kuye kwavezwa njengokusindisa, ukweluleka, ukuchaza, ukukholisa, ukulungisa, noma ukuthwala abanye abantu ngokomzwelo, ngoba uzwe ubuhlungu babo, ubone amaphethini abo, uzwe ukwesaba kwabo, futhi ukholelwa ukuthi uma nje ungabenza baqonde, khona-ke ukucindezeleka esikhaleni kuzophela. Kodwa manje usufunda ukuthi awukwazi “ukucabanga” ngomuntu ukuthi alungele, futhi awukwazi ukudonsa umuntu adlule umkhawulo angazange akhethe ukuwusondela, futhi ukuzama ukwenza kanjalo kuvame ukukushiya ukhathele, uthukuthele, noma ungenathemba buthule. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu manje ngoba umhlaba wakho ugcwele izinto ezibangela ukwahlukana, ugcwele amaqiniso ancintisanayo, futhi izinkanyezi eziningi zizizwa zibizelwe ukuba yingxenye yokuphulukiswa nokuvuka. Ungase uzizwe lolo bizo lapho ubona ukungabi nabulungisa, lapho uzwa ulwazi olungelona iqiniso, lapho ubuka abantu bephikisana, lapho ubona ukwesaba kusakazeka, noma lapho ubona abathandekayo begcwele izindaba ezibaqeda amandla. Futhi nakuba kungafaneleka ukukhuluma, ukufundisa, ukumela, ukubeka imingcele, noma ukwabelana ngalokho okwaziyo, ubukhosi bukufundisa ukwenza lezi zinto ngaphandle kokubhajwa emphumeleni. Ufunda ukunikeza iqiniso lakho ngaphandle kokunamathisela ukubaluleka kwakho ekutheni othile uyalamukela yini. Ufunda ukusiza ngaphandle kokudinga ukuba yiqhawe. Ufunda ukukhathalela ngaphandle kokubamba. Uphawu olusebenzayo lobukhosi ukuthi uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi uphelela kuphi nokuthi omunye uqala kuphi. Uqala ukuqaphela umehluko phakathi kozwela nokumunca, phakathi kozwela nokuzidela, phakathi kokuthanda umuntu nokuphatha impilo yakhe yemizwa. Uqala ukubona ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi into yothando kakhulu ongayenza ukuyeka ukuzibandakanya nephethini, ukuyeka ukondla amandla, ukuyeka ukuphikisana nesimiso sezinzwa somuntu, ukuyeka ukuzama ukufakazela iqiniso kumuntu ozinikele ekuchazeni kwakhe, ngoba ukuthula akudalwa ngokuzibandakanya njalo nokuhlanekezelwa; ukuthula kudalwe ngokuhambisana, imingcele, kanye nokukhetha okuhlanzekile.

Uzwela, Uzwela, Nemingcele Ecacile

Lokhu akusho ukuthi uyaphola. Kusho ukuthi uyacaca. Ukucaca kungabonakala sengathi uthi, “Angitholakali kule ngxoxo njengamanje,” ngaphandle kokuzichaza ngokukhathala. Kungabonakala njengokulalela ngaphandle kokuzama ukuphazamisa inqubo yomunye umuntu. Kungabonakala njengokubuza umbuzo kunokunikeza inkulumo. Kungabonakala njengokuthanda umuntu ngenkathi ukhetha ibanga kusuka ekuxakekeni kwakhe. Kungabonakala njengokwenqaba ukuhlanganyela ezinhlelweni, ezingqubuzaneni ezithukuthelisayo, noma ezinkundleni zokuxhumana eziku-inthanethi, ngoba ungazizwa izindleko zamandla zalezo zindlela manje, futhi awusazimisele ukuzikhokhela. Kwabaningi kini, i-fixer reflex nayo ibonakala njengenkimbinkimbi yemithwalo yemfanelo engokomoya, lapho ninomuzwa wokuthi uma niqaphela, kufanele nigcine imali, futhi uma nizwela, kufanele nithwale, futhi uma niqonda, kufanele nilungise. Kodwa ukuqonda okuzimele kukufundisa ukuthi ukuba khona kwenu kuyisabelo ngisho nalapho umlomo wenu uvaliwe. Ukulawula kuyathelelana. Ukuhambisana kunethonya. Indlela osingatha ngayo ukucindezeleka, indlela osabela ngayo ezingxabanweni, indlela obuyela ngayo kuwe ngemva kosuku olunzima, indlela ophatha ngayo umzimba wakho nengqondo yakho, indlela okhuluma ngayo nengane, umzali, umngane, uthisha—lezi zikhathi zansuku zonke ziyadluliselwa. Futhi uma uzinzile, unikeza abanye isibonelo sesimiso sezinzwa sokuthi ukuzinza kubukeka kanjani, futhi lokho kuvame ukuba namandla kakhulu kunamazwi.

Ukuphepha, Ukuphathwa Kwangaphakathi, Nokupha Okuhlanzekile

Uma ukhulula i-fixer reflex, ukhulula nesivumelwano esifihliwe esithi, “Uma ngingasiza wonke umuntu, khona-ke ekugcineni ngizozizwa ngiphephile.” Ukuphepha kuvela ekubuseni kwangaphakathi. Ukuphepha kuvela ekwethembeni. Ukuphepha kuvela ekuvumelaneni. Futhi njengoba uyeka ukuzama ukulungisa umhlaba usendaweni yokuphuthuma, ngokwemvelo uzoqala ukupha usendaweni yokuhlanganiswa, lapho iminikelo yakho iphindaphindeka khona kunokuba ikuqede amandla. Kukhona umehluko phakathi kokupha ukucindezela nokupha ugcwele, futhi abaningi kini banikele ukucindezela isikhathi eside bengazi. Ninikele ngesikhathi senu lapho nikhathele. Ninikeze ukunaka kwenu ngokomzwelo lapho nisivele nikhungathekile. Ninikeze izimpendulo lapho nidinga ukuphumula. Ninikeze izincazelo lapho nidinga imingcele. Ninikeze umzamo wokuthola indawo. Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi nibize lokhu ngomusa, kodwa ngaphansi kwawo kwakuvame ukuba ukwesaba ukwenqatshwa okucashile, ukwesaba okucashile kokungqubuzana, noma inkolelo ecashile yokuthi kufanele ube wusizo ukuze uthandwe. Ukuqaphela kobukhosi kuyayelapha leyo ndlela, hhayi ngokukuguqula ube nobugovu, kodwa ngokwenza ukupha kwakho kuhlanzeke.

Ubuqiniso, Ukupha Okuhlanganisiwe, kanye nobuchwepheshe

Ukupha okuhlanzekile kulula. Akuthwali intukuthelo. Akudingi ukubuyiselwa kwemali. Akuzi nokulindela okufihliwe. Akudingi ukuthi omunye umuntu aqaphele ukuzidela kwakho. Kuvela eqinisweni, futhi ngoba kuvela eqinisweni, kuyaphindaphindeka. Yingakho ngezinye izikhathi unganikeza okuncane kakhulu ngesimo—umusho owodwa oqotho, umbhalo owodwa osekelayo, ihora elilodwa lokuba khona okugxile, umngcele owodwa obekwe ngomusa—futhi kudala ukuphulukiswa okwengeziwe kuneminyaka yokuthethelela ngokweqile, ngoba amandla angemuva kwakho ayavumelana. Ukupha okuhlanganisiwe kuhlonipha nesikhathi. Uqala ukuqaphela lapho ufuna ukusiza nalapho udinga ukuphumula. Uqala ukuqaphela lapho iseluleko samukelwa khona nalapho kuyindlela yokulawula. Uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi lokho abantu abakudingayo akusona isisombululo sakho, kodwa ukuba khona kwakho okuzolile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi lokho abakudingayo ukuvunyelwa ukufunda, ukuzwa, ukwenza amaphutha, ukuthola indlela yabo. Uqala ukubona ukuthi indima yakho akuyona ukuthwala wonke umuntu, kodwa ukufaka isandla kulokho okungokoqobo ngaphakathi kuwe, nokuthi okungokoqobo ngaphakathi kuwe yilokho okuye kwabonakala ngempela. Lokhu kubonakala empilweni yansuku zonke engokomoya ngendlela eyisisekelo kakhulu. Ungase unikele ngokungaguquguquki, ngokuvela lapho uthi uzokwenzenjalo, ngokukhuluma iqiniso ngomusa, ngokwethembeka ngaphandle kokulahla, ngokuxolisa ngaphandle kokuzijezisa, ngokunakekela impilo yakho ukuze amandla akho angahlali ephuma emlilweni, ngokudala into enhle ngoba indalo iwuhlobo lokupha, ngokwabelana ngezinsiza ngaphandle kokulawula indlela ezisetshenziswa ngayo, ngokufundisa lokho okuphila ngempela kunokuba ukholwe nje. Lezi yizindlela ezizimele zokupha, ngoba azidingi ukuthi unyamalale. Iningi lenu lilapha ukuze libe ngabaqinisi, futhi abaqinisi banikela ngendlela ehlukile kunabahlengi. Abahlengi banikela ukuze kushintshe imiphumela; abaqinisi banikela ukuze kubambeke ukuvumelana. Abahlengi banikela ngokuphuthuma; abaqinisi banikela ngokuzinza. Abahlengi banikela ngokwesaba okufihliwe; abaqinisi banikela ngokwaneliseka kwangaphakathi. Futhi uma ushintshela ekunikezeni okuqinisiwe, impilo yakho iba sesimweni esizinzile, ngoba awusasebenzisi amandla emisebenzini engapheli yemizwa okungekho muntu owayicela. Njengoba unikela ngokuhlanganiswa, uba nokuqonda okwengeziwe ngokuthi ubeka kuphi ukunaka kwakho, isikhathi sakho, kanye namandla akho okudala. Ungase uzithole udala okuningi futhi udla okuncane. Ungase uzithole ufuna ukuba khona kwakho ku-inthanethi—uma unayo—kubonise ukuvumelana kunokusabela. Ungase uzithole ufuna ukusebenzisa amathuluzi, okuhlanganisa ubuchwepheshe, ngenhloso enkulu, hhayi njengomthombo wobunikazi noma ukuvunyelwa, kodwa njenge-amplifier yalokho osuvele ukuphethe. Futhi yilapho ubukhosi buhlangana khona nenye yezindawo zokuqeqesha ezibaluleke kakhulu zalesi sikhathi: ubudlelwano bakho nobuchwepheshe uqobo.

Ubuchwepheshe, Ukubuyisana Kweplanethi, kanye Nokuhlanganyela Kombuso okunamathiselwe

Ubuchwepheshe Njenge-Amplifier Nokunaka Okuphakeme

Uphila esikhathini lapho ubuchwepheshe bungakhulisa cishe noma yini, okuhlanganisa ukuhlakanipha, ukuxhumana, ubuhlakani, imfundo, izindlela zokuphulukisa, kanye nomphakathi, futhi bungakhulisa nokwesaba, ukukhohlisa, ukuphazamiseka, kanye nokwahlukana, futhi umehluko awulona ithuluzi ngokwalo, kodwa ukuqonda okulisebenzisa kanye nobuhlakani obubumba lokho elikukhombisa kona. Ubuhlakani bokubusa bubalulekile kulesi sikhathi ngoba ngaphandle kokubusa kwangaphakathi, ithuluzi liba ngumbusi, futhi abaningi kini baye bazizwa ukuthi kwenzekani lapho ukunaka kwenu kudonswa emifudlaneni engapheli yokuqukethwe, izingxoxo ezingapheli, imijikelezo engapheli yentukuthelo, izibuyekezo ezingapheli "okumele wazi", futhi uqeda iseshini uzizwa ungafani nawe, ungekho, futhi ungakwazi ukuzwa isignali yakho yangaphakathi. Asikho lapha ukuzokutshela ukuthi wesabe ubuchwepheshe, futhi asikho lapha ukuzokutshela ukuthi ubukhulekele. Silapha ukuzokukhumbuza ukuthi buyi-amplifier, futhi ama-amplifier akhulisa noma yini oyiphakelayo. Uma ukondla ilukuluku lakho, ubuhlakani bakho, ubuqotho bakho, kanye nesifiso sakho sokuxhumana ngendlela enenjongo, kungakusebenzela. Uma ukondla ukukhathazeka kwakho, izifiso zakho, isidingo sakho sokuqinisekiswa, kanye nokwesaba kwakho ukuphuthelwa, kuzokhulisa lezo zimo, ngoba kuyasabela ekuzibandakanyeni, futhi ukuzibandakanya akufani nokondla. Yingakho izidalwa ezizimele zithuthukisa lokho ongakubiza ngemingcele yedijithali njengendlela yokwenza izinto ezingokomoya. Ukhetha ukuthi ukuzibandakanya nini. Ukhetha ukuthi ukuzibandakanya kanjani. Ukhetha ukuthi ukuzibandakanya kanjani. Ukhetha ukuthi udlani. Ukhetha ukuthi wabelana ngani. Ukhetha ukuthi ukholelwani. Uqala ukuqinisekisa ngaphambi kokusabela. Uqala ukwehlisa ijubane ngaphambi kokuthumela kabusha. Uqala ukuqaphela ithoni yamandla yentambo ngaphambi kokuthi ungene kuyo. Uqala ukuzibuza, "Ingabe ukunaka kwami ​​​​kusetshenziswa lapha, noma ngisebenzisa ukunaka kwami?" ngoba ukunaka kungamandla okudala, futhi isidalwa esizimele asinikezi amandla okudala ngokungazi. Futhi lokhu kuba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu njengoba umhlaba wakho uhamba ngezinguquko ezisheshayo ekuhlakanipheni okwenziwayo, ukuphathwa kabi kwabezindaba, impi yolwazi, ama-deepfake, ukukholisa nge-algorithm, kanye nesivinini esiphelele lapho izindaba zingakhiwa futhi zisakazeke khona. Akudingeki ube novalo ukuze uqonde; udinga nje ukuqina. Uma uzinzile, ukuphuthuma kulula ukukubona. Uma uzinzile, kulula ukubona isithiyo esingokomzwelo. Uma uzinzile, ungazizwa lapho okuthile kuzama ukukuheha. Futhi uma uzinzile, usengasebenzisa ubuchwepheshe ukufunda, ukudala, ukubambisana, ukuhlela, ukwabelana, ukusiza, nokwakha, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngaphakathi kukho.

Imingcele Yedijithali, Ukusetshenziswa Okuqondile, Nokuba Khona Okuzinzile

Sikumema futhi ukuthi ukhumbule ukuthi ubuchwepheshe abukhona lapha ukuze buthathe indawo yokuqonda kwakho, ubuhlakani benhliziyo yakho, ukuhlakanipha kwakho okubonakalayo, noma ubukhosi bakho. Amathuluzi angasiza, kodwa awakwazi ukufaka esikhundleni segunya langaphakathi. Futhi igunya langaphakathi aliqinile; liyasabela. Uma uhambisana, ungasebenzisa ubuchwepheshe njengesandiso senhloso yakho kunokuba kube ukuphazamiseka kukho. Ungakuvumela kukhulise lokho osuvele ukukuqukethe—ukuzola kwakho, ukucaca kwakho, umusa wakho, ubuhlakani bakho, ukwethembeka kwakho—kunokuvumela kukhulise lokho ozama ukukwelapha. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi ubukhosi abuyona into yokuzihlukanisa, kodwa ukubamba iqhaza okunesibopho, uzothola nokuthi ubuhlobo bakho nobuchwepheshe buhlangana ngokwemvelo nobuhlobo bakho nomhlaba, nomphakathi, kanye nensimu enkulu oyiyingxenye yayo, ngoba konke kuxhumene, futhi lapho uba namandla kakhulu, kulapho uhlanganyela khona ngokuqonda kulolo xhumano; futhi uzothola ukuthi njengoba uphatha ubuchwepheshe njenge-amplifier kunokuba yigunya, uqala nokuzizwa unesibopho esijulile esingagxilile emuzweni wecala, esingagxilile ekwesabeni, futhi esingagxilile esibophweni, kodwa esigxilile ebuhlotsheni, ngoba ubukhosi abukhona ukuhlukana nokuphila, buwukuhlanganyela okuqaphile ngaphakathi kukho, futhi lokho ngokwemvelo kukuletha ebuhlotsheni obucacile nomhlaba ophilayo oyingxenye yawo.

Imvelo, Ukubumbana, kanye nobudlelwano beplanethi

Kungaba lula, ikakhulukazi ezweni elihamba ngokushesha futhi elivame ukugcina ukunaka kwakho ezikrinini, kumashejuli, nasekucindezelekeni, ukukhohlwa ukuthi iplanethi akuyona nje indawo yokusebenza komuntu, kodwa insimu ephilayo yobuhlakani oxhumana nayo ngomzimba wakho, izinqumo zakho, imizwa yakho, kanye nokuba khona kwakho. Iningi lenu selivele likwazi lokhu ngendlela ethule, ngoba nizwile umehluko phakathi kokungena ekamelweni eligcwele ukucindezeleka nokuphuma niye emoyeni omusha, futhi nizwile indlela uhlelo lwezinzwa zenu oluzivuselela ngayo uma niseduze kwezihlahla, eduze kwamanzi, eduze kwesibhakabhaka esivulekile, noma ngisho nalapho niphethe itshe esandleni senu futhi nizivumela nje ukuphefumula. Lokho kulungiswa kabusha akuyona into ecatshangelwayo. Ukuhambisana kuyisimo sangempela samandla, futhi imvelo inikeza ukuvumelana ngendlela izinhlelo zabantu ezivame ukungayenzi, ngoba imvelo ayizami ukukukholisa, ikuqashe, noma ikubambe; imane nje iwukuba yilokho eyikho. Ukuhambisana kweplanethi kusho ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho noMhlaba abuyona indlela eyodwa. Abaningi baye bajwayela ukubona iplanethi njengomthombo, isigaba, impahla, noma inkinga, futhi ubukhosi bushintsha lowo mbono ngaphandle kokufuna ukuthi ulahle impilo yanamuhla. Awudingi ukuhlala entabeni, wenqabe umphakathi, noma wenze izenzo ezinkulu ukuze ube ngumhlanganyeli ozimele. Udinga ubuhlobo. Ubuhlobo bufana nokuqaphela okwenzeka ngaphakathi kuwe uma wehlisa ijubane, lapho ubeka izinyawo zakho phansi, lapho ubuka isibhakabhaka, lapho uphuza amanzi ngokuba khona, lapho uphatha ukudla kwakho njengokudla okunempilo kunokuba kube yinto oyenzayo ngenkathi uphazamisekile, ngoba umzimba wakho uyingxenye yomzimba weplanethi, futhi indlela ophatha ngayo umzimba wakho iyindlela yokuphatha.

Ubuphathi Bansuku Zonke, Izinzisi, kanye Nensimu Ehlangene

Sikumema ukuba uqonde ukuthi uMhlaba awuphenduli nje kuphela kulokho okwenziwa yisintu, kodwa nakulokho okunyakaziswa yisintu. Uma ulawulwa, uma ubonga, uma uzolile, uma uqotho, unikela ngokuhambisana ensimini ehlangene, nokuthi ukuvumelana kubaluleke kakhulu kunalokho okufundisiwe. Lokhu akusho ukuthi unesibopho sakho konke okwenziwa yiqembu; kusho ukuthi isimo sakho sokuphila asihlukanisiwe. Ukuvama kwakho akusikho okuyimfihlo. Kuyasakazwa. Futhi yingakho izenzo ezincane ezenziwa ngokuhambisana zingaba nomthelela omkhulu kunezenzo ezinkulu ezenziwa ngentukuthelo noma ukwesaba. Ukuthatha okuthile phansi, ukukhetha ukuhamba esikhundleni sokushayela lapho ungakwazi, ukunakekela indawo yakho, ukuqaphela lokho okusebenzisayo, ukuhlonipha izinsiza, lokhu akuzona izenzo zokuziphatha; kuyizimpawu zobudlelwano ezithi, “Ngilapha nawe, angikho ngaphezu kwakho.” Ungase futhi uqaphele, njengoba uthuthukisa ubukhosi, ukuthi awusabi nesithakazelo sokuphikisana ngalokho okwenzekayo emhlabeni futhi unesithakazelo esikhulu sokuphila ngendlela ethuthukisa okwenzekayo endaweni yakho eseduze. Uyayeka ukulinda abaholi ukuba bahlakaniphe ngaphambi kokuba uhlakaniphe. Uyayeka ukulinda ukuthi izinhlelo zivumelane ngaphambi kokuba uvumelane. Uqala lapho ukhona, futhi uvumela ukuhambisana kusabalale. Yile ndlela izinto eziqinisayo ezisebenza ngayo. Azidingi izimo eziphelele ukuze zizinzile; ukuqina kwazo kuba yingxenye yezimo.
Futhi uma uqonda ukuphindaphindana kwamaplanethi, uqala ukubona ukuthi izinguquko emhlabeni wakho—ngokwezenhlalo, ngokwezomnotho, kwezepolitiki, ngokwesiko, kwezobuchwepheshe—aziyona nje isiphithiphithi esingahleliwe, kodwa ziyingxenye yokuhlelwa kabusha okukhulu.

Isiprofetho, Isikhumbuzo, Nokuzibusa

Ukubikezela, Isikhathi Samanje, kanye Nephuzu Lamandla

Asikho lapha ukuzobikezela imiphumela noma ukukunikeza izinsuku, ngoba ubukhosi abukhuli ngesiprofetho, bukhula ngokukhumbula, futhi yilapho esiniyisa khona ngokulandelayo, ngoba abaningi kini baqeqeshwe ukufuna isiqiniseko esikhathini esizayo lapho ukuzinza kwangempela kutholakala kulokho enikwaziyo kakade ngaphakathi kini.
Izinkanyezi, ngezikhathi zokushintsha, ingqondo ifuna isiprofetho. Ifuna imephu. Ifuna umugqa wesikhathi. Ifuna isiqinisekiso. Ifuna ukwazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani, ukuthi ubani ozonqoba, ukuthi yini ezowa, ukuthi yini ezosindiswa, ukuthi yini ezokwembulwa, nokuthi nini, futhi kuyaqondakala ukuthi ingqondo yenza lokhu, ngoba ingqondo ilinganisa ukubikezela nokuphepha. Kodwa-ke indlela yokuqonda okuphakeme ikufundisa ukuthi ukubikezela ngokuvamile kuyindlela yokulawula, futhi ukulawula ngokuvamile kuyindlela yokwethemba. Isifiso sokwazi ikusasa singaba yindlela yokugwema okwamanje, futhi okwamanje yilapho amandla akho ekhona.

Imijikelezo, Ukuqashelwa, Nokuxhumana Okuvamile

Asinitsheli ukuthi ningazinaki imijikelezo, amandla, noma ukunyakaza kwezinkanyezi. Iningi lenu liyazizwa, futhi zingaba usizo njengemibiko yesimo sezulu ezweni lenu langaphakathi, zininike isimemo sokuphumula, ukuzindla, ukukhulula, ukuqala kabusha, ukulinganisa kabusha, ukuhlanganisa. Kodwa ubukhosi busho ukuthi awulinikezi igunya lakho kuleyo mijikelezo. Awulinikezi izinqumo zakho eshadini. Awulinikezi ukuthula kwakho esibikezelweni. Awulinikezi ukuzethemba kwakho ekuqinisekeni komunye umuntu. Ungawahlonipha amagagasi ngaphandle kokuwavumela ukuthi aqondise umkhumbi. Ukukhumbula kuhlukile esiprofethweni ngoba ukukhumbula kuvuselela lokho osekuvele kuyiqiniso. Iningi lenu lithola "inkumbulo" hhayi njengokukhumbula kwengqondo, kodwa njengomsindo. Nizwa okuthile futhi kuzwakala njengokuqashelwa. Nizizwa nibizelwe entweni ethile futhi anikwazi ukuchaza ukuthi kungani. Nizithola nidonseleka emkhubeni, endleleni yokudala, endaweni, uhlobo lwenkonzo, uhlobo lomphakathi, hhayi ngoba niye naqiniseka ngokwengqondo, kodwa ngoba into ethile eniyaziyo. Futhi lokhu kwazi akukhulumi kakhulu. Akuphikisani. Akukucindezeli. Kuyaqhubeka nje, futhi uma ukuhlonipha ngezinyathelo ezincane, kuba sobala. Sikumema ukuba uvumele ukuvuka kwakho kuqondiswe ukuqashelwa kunokuba kube ukubikezela. Ukuqashelwa kuvame ukuzizwa kuzolile futhi kuhlanzekile. Kwenza impilo yakho ibe lula, noma ngabe kukucela ukuba ube nesibindi. Ukuqagela kuvame ukwenza impilo yakho ibe nzima kakhulu, icindezeleke kakhulu, incike kakhulu kuzibuyekezo, ngoba kukugcina ubheke ngaphandle ukuze uthole imfundo elandelayo. Ekukhumbuleni, awudingi imfundo elandelayo, ngoba uyasabela. Wenza ukukhetha, ubona imiphumela, uyalungisa, uyafunda, uyacwengisisa. Uhlala ukhona. Uba ngumhlanganyeli, hhayi umbukeli.
Yingakho futhi sikukhuthaza ukuthi uvumele impilo yakho engokomoya ibe yinto evamile. Uma ukuphela kwesikhathi ozizwa "uxhumene" kulapho ulalela umlayezo, ubuka isiteshi sakho osithandayo, ufunda intambo oyithandayo, noma ulandela isihloko sendawo yonke, khona-ke ukuxhumana sekuphenduke okwangaphandle. Ubukhosi bubuyisela ukuxhumana kwansuku zonke: indlela ophefumula ngayo ithrafikhi, indlela okhuluma ngayo nomuntu omthandayo, indlela oziphatha ngayo lapho wenza iphutha, indlela obhekana ngayo nokudumazeka, indlela ophumula ngayo, indlela odala ngayo, indlela onakekela ngayo umzimba wakho. Lokhu akuzona iziphazamiso zokuvuka; kuyavuka.

Ukuphela Kokucasha, Ukubonakala Okuqotho, kanye Namandla

Futhi njengoba inkumbulo yakho ijula, ungase uzizwe ucindezelekile kancane ukuba uyeke ukufihla izingxenye zakho, hhayi ngoba udinga ukuba ngumuntu obala noma ukufakazela noma yini kunoma ubani, kodwa ngoba ukufihla kuba yinto engakhululekile ngamandla lapho iqiniso lakho langaphakathi licela ukuba liphileke. Leso yisinyathelo esilandelayo ochungechungeni: hhayi ukusebenza, kodwa ukubonakala okuqotho. Iningi lenu lafunda ukufihla ngezizathu eziqondakalayo. Aniqondwanga kahle. Nahlulelwa. Natshelwa ukuthi “nikhulu kakhulu,” “nizwela kakhulu,” “nihluke kakhulu,” “niqine kakhulu,” noma “ningajwayelekile,” noma nanizungezwe abantu ababengenakukwazi ukubonakalisa umhlaba wenu wangaphakathi, ngakho nazivumelanisa nezimo ngokuncipha, ngokuzifihla, ngokugcina imicabango yenu yangempela, ngokubambezela ukuveza kwenu ubuciko, ngokulinda kuze kube yilapho nizizwa niphelele, ngokulinda kuze kube yilapho nizizwa niphephile. Kodwa lokho enikutholayo manje ukuthi ukulinda ukuphepha okuphelele kungaba ukuhlehliswa kokuphila konke, futhi ubukhosi abudingi ukuphepha okuphelele; kudinga ukuzinza kwangaphakathi. Ukuphela kokufihla akusho ukuthi wabelana ngakho konke nawo wonke umuntu. Akusho ukuthi wabelana ngokweqile, uchaza ngokweqile, noma uziveze kubantu abangaphephile. Ubukhosi buhlanganisa ukuqonda. Ukuphela kokufihla kusho ukuthi uyeka ukuzilahla. Uyeka ukuzenza mncane kunalokho oyikho. Uyeka ukuthi yebo uma usho ukuthi cha. Uyeka ukuhleka amahlaya akulimazayo. Uyeka ukunciphisa ubuhlakani bakho noma ubumnene bakho ukuze kufane nezinga eliphansi kakhulu lenduduzo ekamelweni. Uvumela impilo yakho ukuthi ibonise iqiniso lakho ngokuqhubekayo, futhi ukwenza ngezindlela ezisebenzayo nezingokoqobo. Lokhu kungabonakala njengokuqala iphrojekthi yokudala oqhubeka uyihlehlisa. Kungabonakala njengokushintsha indlela ochitha ngayo isikhathi sakho. Kungabonakala njengokukhetha abangane abazizwa bengondlekile, hhayi njengokudideka. Kungabonakala njengokukhuluma ngokwethembeka nomzali, umngane, umlingani, uthisha, noma osebenza naye, hhayi ngobudlova, kodwa ngokucaca. Kungabonakala njengokusuka ezindaweni ezikugcina ungalawuleki. Kungabonakala njengokuvumela ingokomoya lakho libe khona ngaphandle kokulenza libe ubuwena bakho, njengokuphila ngomusa nemingcele neqiniso, nokuvumela abantu baqaphele uma beqaphela, ngaphandle kokubafaka endleleni yakho. Ungase futhi uqaphele ukuthi uma uyeka ukufihla, insimu yakho iba lula. Ukufihla umsebenzi onamandla. Ukufihla umsebenzi onamandla. Ukwenza umsebenzi onamandla. Futhi abaningi kini bebekhathele hhayi ngoba nibuthakathaka, kodwa ngoba benichitha amandla nilawula ukuqonda kunokuphila iqiniso. Uma uyeka ukufihla, ukhulula amandla. Lawo mandla atholakala empilweni yakho, ekudaleni kwakho, ebuhlotsheni bakho, enkonzweni yakho, ekudlaleni kwakho, ekuphumuleni kwakho, nasekucaciseni kwakho.

Ukuzibusa, Ukunaka, Nokuphila Okubusayo

Sifuna ukhumbule ukuthi ukuqhubekela phambili akudingi idrama. Izidalwa ezibusayo zingabonakala ngaphandle kokukhuluma kakhulu. Zingacaca ngaphandle kokuba namandla. Zingaba qotho ngaphandle kokuba nolaka. Futhi uma ubonisa lolo hlobo lokuba khona, uba yi-stabilizer ngokuzenzakalelayo, ngoba abantu bazizwa umehluko phakathi komuntu odlalayo nomuntu okhona. Ukuba khona kuyathulisa. Ukuba khona kuthembekile. Ukuba khona kunamandla. Hhayi ngoba kuzama ukuba njalo, kodwa ngoba kuyavumelana. Futhi njengoba uyeka ukucasha, uqala ukuzibusa ngokugcwele, ngoba ukubonakala ngaphandle kokubusa kwangaphakathi kuba ukusebenza futhi, kuyilapho ukubonakala nokubusa kwangaphakathi kuba umnikelo. Lokhu ukuqedwa kwe-arc: ukuzibusa njengokuqala kwesigaba esisha, hhayi ukuphela kohambo. Lokho okungena kukho manje ukuzibusa, futhi sigcizelela ukuthi lokhu kuyisiqalo, ngoba abaningi kini baphathe ukuvuka njengokungathi kufanele kuphele esimweni sokugcina lapho ungalokothi ulwe, ungalokothi ungabaze, ungalokothi uzwe ubuhlungu, ungalokothi uzizwe wesaba, futhi ungalokothi uzizwe ungumuntu futhi, futhi lokho kulindela kuba uhlobo olucashile lokuhlupheka. Ukuzibusa akusho ukuthi awusoze uzizwe; kusho ukuthi awusabuswa yilokho okuzwayo. Akusho ukuthi awusoze wabhekana nokungaqiniseki; kusho ukuthi uyeka ukwenza ukungaqiniseki kube yisitha. Akusho ukuthi awusoze wabhekana nokungqubuzana; kusho ukuthi ungahlangabezana nokungqubuzana ngaphandle kokushiya isikhungo sakho. Ukuzibusa yilokho okwenzekayo lapho uba ngumbhali wokunaka kwakho, futhi ukunaka kuyindlela yamandla okudala. Ukhetha lokho okondlayo. Ukhetha lokho okubandakanyayo. Ukhetha lokho okukholelwayo. Ukhetha lokho okuphindayo. Ukhetha lokho okwenzayo. Futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lezo zinqumo ziba yimvamisa ezinzile, futhi leyo mvamisa ezinzile iba yiqiniso ophila kulo. Yingakho ubukhosi bungeyona into oyivumayo; impilo oyakhayo ngezenzo ezincane nezihambisanayo zokuvumelanisa. Yingakho futhi sikhulume ngezindikimba zansuku zonke kulo lonke lolu dluliso, ngoba kunsuku zonke lapho ubukhosi buba ngokoqobo. Kusekutheni ophatha khona ekuseni kwakho. Kusekutheni ophatha ngayo umzimba wakho. Kusekutheni ophatha ngayo isikhathi sakho sesikrini. Kusekutheni okhuluma ngayo ngesikhathi sokungqubuzana. Kusekutheni ophumula kanjani. Kusekutheni odala kanjani. Kusekutheni oxolisa ngayo. Kusekutheni ozithethelela ngayo. Kusekukhetheni kwakho abangane. Kusekusebenziseni imali. Kusekuhlobaneni kwakho nemvelo. Kusekuvumeleni abanye iqiniso labo ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa elakho. Lezi akuzona izinto ezincane; lezi yizici zokwakha impilo yobukhosi.

Ukubambisana Okuhlangene, Hhayi Ngemuva, Futhi Phila Lokho Okwaziyo

Futhi njengoba abaningi kini bekhetha ukuzibusa, insimu ehlangene iyashintsha, hhayi ngoba wonke umuntu uyavuma ngokuzumayo, kodwa ngoba ukuvumelana kuyasabalala. Imithetho iyasabalala. Ukuba khona kuyasabalala. Abantu baqala ukuzwa umehluko phakathi kokuphathwa kabi neqiniso, phakathi kokukhuthazwa nokuhlakanipha, phakathi kokwesaba nokuqonda, phakathi kokusebenza kanye nokubonakaliswa. Kuba lula ukulawula ngentukuthelo. Kuba lula ukulawula ngokuswela. Kuba lula ukulawula ngokuphuthuma. Futhi uba namandla okuhlanganyela ezweni lakho—ngokwezombusazwe, ngokwenhlalo, ngokudala, ngokomoya—kusukela esikhungweni esisekelwe esikhundleni sokusebenza kabusha. Sifuna wazi ukuthi awusemuva. Awuhluleki ngoba usenezikhathi zobuntu. Awufaneleki ngoba usenezindlela ozisusayo. Wenza umsebenzi, futhi umsebenzi uyasebenza, kaningi ngezindlela ongakwazi ukuzilinganisa okwamanje. Futhi uma ungathathi lutho olunye kulokhu, thatha lokhu: awudingi ukulinda imvume yokuphila iqiniso lakho, awudingi isiprofetho ukuze uthembe indlela yakho, futhi awudingi ukubusa noma ubani ukuze ube yinkosi. Ubukhosi bakho buba ngokoqobo ngesikhathi ukhetha ukuvumelana, bese ukhetha futhi, bese ukhetha futhi, futhi uzothola ukuthi impilo ihlangana nawe lapho, ngoba impilo ibilokhu isabela ekuvameni, futhi ukuphindaphinda kwakho kuyacaca. Silapha nawe, sibona ukuqina okukhula ngaphakathi kwabaningi kini, futhi sikumema ukuthi uqhubeke ngendlela elula: phefumula, lalela, khetha, uhlanganise, uphumule, futhi uphile lokho okwaziyo, ngoba lokho okuphilayo yilokho okuba yikho. Uma ulalela lokhu, sithandwa, bekufanele ukwenze. Ngikushiya manje… NginguTeeah, wase-Arcturus.

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