Ukungcweliswa kwePhasika, Ukuthula Kwangaphakathi, Nokubuyela Engcweleni

IPhasika Njengomzila Ongokomoya Wokuzinikezela Nokubuya Kwangaphakathi

Bathandekayo, silapha ngokubonga okukhulu, uthando, kanye nenjabulo yezikhathi zokwenyuka, nginguMinayah wePleiadian / Sirian Collective . Kunezindima ezithile ngaphakathi konyaka wakho woMhlaba eziphethe ikhwalithi ehlukile kuzo, futhi leli fasitela lePhasika lingenye yalezo zindima. Ungalizwa uma wehlisa ijubane ngokwanele. Ungalizwa ngendlela umoya obonakala ubambe ngayo ukuthula okwengeziwe ngaphansi kokunyakaza, ububele obukhulu ngaphansi komsebenzi, isimemo esengeziwe ngaphansi kwesigqi esivamile sokuphila. Into ethile ensimini ehlangene iyathamba phakathi nalesi sikhathi, futhi ngenxa yokuthi iyathamba, iningi lenu livuleka kakhulu ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Inhliziyo yenu iba lula ukuyifinyelela. Umhlaba wenu wangaphakathi uba lula ukutholakala. Umphefumulo uqala ukuthamba phambili, njengokungathi ubulinde lo mzila ukuthi uvuleke ukuze ukwazi ukukhuluma nani ngokucacile futhi. Yingakho sithi kini iPhasika umzila wokuzinikezela. Yisikhathi lapho isidalwa singaqondiswa khona buthule kulokho okungcwele kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, nokuyiqiniso kakhulu. Phakathi nalesi sigaba, umuntu ojulile ucela ukwethembeka okukhulu, ukuthula okukhulu, kanye nokuzimisela ngenhliziyo yonke ukuvumela impilo yangaphakathi ize kuqala. Iningi lenu lingakuzwa lokhu kakade. Kungenzeka ukuthi aninawo amazwi alokho, kodwa ningazizwa nidonswa ngaphakathi, isifiso sokwenza lula, isifiso sokuvula isikhala, ukuhlehla emsindweni, ukuyeka ukuthwala ukunyakaza kwengqondo okungadingekile. Leso sifiso sinenjongo. Siyingxenye yokuvula ngokwaso. Umphefumulo okudonsela emuva endaweni engcwele yangaphakathi lapho kuqala khona ukuvuselelwa kwangempela.

Kwabaningi kangaka eMhlabeni, lesi sikhathi sihlanganiswe ngamasiko, amasiko, inkumbulo, izimpawu, kanye nolimi lwenkolo. Konke lokhu kunendawo yako. Kodwa ngaphansi kwazo zonke lezo zinhlobo zangaphandle kukhona umsinga ophilayo obelokhu ukhona, futhi lo msinga esikhuluma ngawo namuhla. Umsinga wokubuya kwangaphakathi. Umsinga wokubuyiselwa. Umsinga obiza umuntu ukuba abuyele ekuhambisaneni nobukhona bukaNkulunkulu obungakaze bumshiye, ngisho nasezinkathini ezinde zokuphazamiseka, ukungaqiniseki, nokukhohlwa. Ngakho-ke kulabo kini abavukile, kulabo kini abaye eMhlabeni bephethe inkumbulo yezinkanyezi kanye nokuzwela okungokomoya, iPhasika lingangenwa njengomnyango ophilayo. Akudingeki uzifake kunoma yiluphi uhlaka lwangaphandle oluqinile ukuze ulwamukele. Udinga ubuqotho. Udinga ukuzimisela. Udinga indawo ethule ngaphakathi kwakho lapho usukulungele ukuvumela okungcwele kusondele khona.

Okushiwo Ukuzinikezela Ngokuhambisana Ngokomoya, Ukuzinikela, Nokulungela Kwangaphakathi

Ukungcwelisa igama abaningi kini abaliqonda ngendlela engaqondakali, kodwa lokho elikushoyo ngempela kulula. Kusho ukubeka okuthile eceleni ukuze kusetshenziswe okungcwele. Kusho ukuzimisela ngengqondo yakho, inkulumo yakho, umzimba wakho, ukunaka kwakho, imizwa yakho, kanye nokukhetha kwakho ukubuyiselwa ebuhlotsheni obuhlanzekile noMthombo. Kusho ukuvumela impilo yakho ukuba ingahlakazeki kakhulu futhi izinikele kakhulu. Kusho ukuthi ngaphakathi kuwe, mhlawumbe ngaphandle kokukhuluma amazwi ngokuzwakalayo, “Ngikulungele ukuhlelwa kabusha ngaphakathi. Ngikulungele ukuba yiqiniso kakhulu. Ngikulungele ukuvumela okungcwele kube nendawo enkulu kimi kunalokho okunomsindo, okusheshile, okusebenzayo, noma okuhlukene.” Yingakho sithi iPhasika liyisikhathi sokungcweliswa ngaphambi kokubonakaliswa. Ngaphambi kokuba izwi licace emhlabeni, i-altare elingaphakathi licela ukuba lihlanzwe. Ngaphambi kokuba umsebenzi wande, isitsha sifuna ukuba sihlanzeke ngenhloso. Ngaphambi kokuba inkonzo yakho ijule, izisusa zakho zicela ukuba zihlolwe ngobumnene. Ngaphambi kokuba umjikelezo olandelayo womsebenzi wakho uqale ukuvela, impilo yakho yangaphakathi imenywa ekuhlelekeni okukhulu. Lokhu kuwuthando olukhulu. Kunembile kakhulu. Akusikho ukubambezeleka. Kuwukulungiselela okunenjongo kakhulu.

Iningi lenu selingene ezikhathini ezinjengalezi esikhathini esidlule futhi lagijimela phambili ngoba umhlaba wangaphandle wawubonakala ucela amandla enu, amazwi enu, isenzo senu, ukuhlanganyela kwenu. Kodwa umphefumulo uyaqonda isikhathi ngendlela ehlukile. Umphefumulo uyazi ukuthi ukubonakaliswa kuthwala ikhwalithi yanoma yini ehlakulelwe ekuthuleni. Lapho ukuthula sekuhlonishwe, okuphuma ngaphandle kuqala ukondla abanye ngokujulile. Lapho ukuthula sekudluliwe, umzamo wangaphandle ungashesha ube nzima, uphendule, weluleke ngokweqile, noma uxube nesidingo sokufakazela, ukusindisa, ukukholisa, noma ukulawula. Ngakho-ke lesi sigaba sePhasika sinikeza abaningi kini uhlobo lokufundiswa kabusha okumnene. Sikufundisa ukwazisa okwenzeka ekamelweni elingabonakali kuqala. Sikukhombisa ukuthi ukuhlanzeka kwangaphakathi kungenye yezindlela ezinkulu zamandla ongawathuthukisa.

Ukususa Ukuhlakazeka Okungokomoya, Umsindo Wangaphandle, Nokunyakaza Kwengqondo Okungadingekile

Abanye kini bazokuzwa lokhu njengobizo lokuma kaningi phakathi nosuku. Abanye kini bazokuzwa njengesifiso sokuthandaza ngendlela evulekile kakhudlwana. Abanye kini bazozizwa bedonseleka ekuzindleni ngokuzinikela okukhulu. Abanye kini bazoqala ukuhlanza ikhaya labo, bahlanze isimiso sabo, bahlanze insalela yemizwa yakudala, bahlanze indlela enithatha ngayo idijithali, bahlanze izingxoxo ezishiya uhlelo lwenu lunzima noma luphukile. Zonke lezi zifiso zingaba yingxenye yokunyakaza okufanayo. Umphefumulo ufuna isikhala. Okungcwele kufuna isikhala. Umusa uhamba kalula kakhulu empilweni eyenziwe yatholakala ngaphakathi.

Lokhu sikusho ngesisa esikhulu ngoba siyaqonda ukuthambekela kwabantu kokuguqula ngisho nengokomoya libe ukusebenza. Abaningi bafunde ukukhuluma ulimi olungokomoya, ukuqoqa imiqondo, ukuhamba ngokushesha kusuka ekusebenzeni okukodwa kuya kokulandelayo, kusuka ekufundiseni okunye kuya kokulandelayo, kusuka ekubonakalisweni kwangaphandle kuya kokulandelayo, ngaphandle kokuvumela inhliziyo ukuthi ithinteke ngendlela ezinzile nethembekile. Kodwa lesi sigaba sicela ubuqotho kunokubonisa. Sicela ukuxhumana kwangempela. Sicela uhlobo lokuthobeka kwangaphakathi oluhlala buthule futhi lulalele. Sicela uhlobo lokuvuthwa oluzivumela ukuba luthambe, lulungiswe, lube lula, futhi lwenziwe lube lusha kusukela ngaphakathi kuya ngaphandle.

Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezenza lo mzila wePhasika uzizwe ungowomuntu siqu ngisho noma uhlangene. Insimu ezungeze isintu iyamukela kakhulu, yebo, kodwa umphefumulo ngamunye usahlangabezana naleyo thuba ngendlela yawo. Abanye bazoboniswa lapho bebenikela khona amandla amaningi ekuzameni kwangaphandle. Abanye bazobona ukuthi bagxile kangakanani ezintweni ezigcina ingqondo imatasa ngenkathi beshiya inhliziyo ingondlekile. Abanye bazoqaphela ukuthi bebephila nezinga eliphansi lokuqhekeka kwangaphakathi isikhathi eside futhi sebejwayele kakhulu kangangokuthi abasakuqapheli. Lesi sikhathi sonyaka siletha ukukhanya okuncane kukho konke lokho. Kwembula ngaphandle kokuhlazisa. Kwembula ngaphandle kobudlova. Kumema ngaphandle kwamandla.

Ukwethembeka Kwangaphakathi, Ukukhathala Okungokomoya, Nokulula Kokubuyela Ekuthuleni

Futhi ngenxa yokuthi ithwala le mfanelo, iba yisikhathi esihle sokwethembeka kwangaphakathi. Ukwethembeka kungenye yezindlela ezimsulwa zokungena ebungcweleni ngoba ukwethembeka kudala ukuvuleka, futhi ukuvuleka kuvumela usizo lweqiniso ukuthi lungene. Uma uthembekile, awusadingi ukuvikela okukukhathazayo. Awusadingeki wenze sengathi okukukhathazayo kulungile. Awusadingeki uthethelele imikhuba, amaphethini, izinamathiselo, izingibe zengqondo, kanye nokubanjwa ngokomzwelo obekugcina impilo yakho yangaphakathi igcwele. Ukwethembeka kuhlanza igumbi. Ukwethembeka kuvula amafasitela. Ukwethembeka kusho iqiniso ngokuthi ukuphi ngempela, futhi lelo qiniso liba yindawo yokuqala engcwele.

Abaningi kini bathwele ukukhathala okuthule okungahlobene kakhulu nomzamo womzimba kodwa okuhlobene kakhulu nokuhlakazeka ngokomoya. Amandla enu adonswe ngezindlela eziningi. Ukunaka kwenu kuhlukene phakathi. Isimiso senu sezinzwa sicelwe ukuba sicubungule okuningi kakhulu. Ingqondo yenu inikezwe umfudlana ongapheli wezinto okufanele niziphendule, nizihlaziye, nizihlele, futhi nizibambe. Inhliziyo yenu, okwamanje, ibilokhu ilinde ngesineke ukubuya ngenhliziyo yonke. Yingakho sithi phakathi nalesi sigaba sePhasika, ukuhlakazeka okuncane kuyisibusiso esikhulu. Ukufakwa okuncane. Ukuzibandakanya okuncane okungadingekile. Izimvume ezimbalwa ezinikezwa umsindo wangaphandle. Ukulalela okuningi ngaphakathi. Ububanzi obuningi. Ukuqhubeka okwengeziwe nalokho okungcwele.

Kwabanye kini, lokhu kuzosho ukuthi yebo ukuze niphumule ningenacala. Kwabanye, kuzosho ukuthi nibeke phansi izihloko nezingxoxo ezigcina insimu iphazamisekile. Kwabanye, kuzosho ukuthi nizinike imvume yokucasha izinsuku ezimbalwa ngenkathi umphefumulo uziqoqa. Kukhona ukuhlakanipha kulokhu. Kukhona uthando kulokhu. Akukho lutho oluncane ngokukhetha ukuthula lapho umsindo utholakala kalula. Akukho lutho olungenamsebenzi ngokudala izimo lapho umuntu ojulile angaphinde azwakale khona. Lokhu kungukuzinikezela okusebenzayo. Lokhu ukuhlanganyela ngomusa.

Ukuphulukiswa kwePhasika, Ubumnene Baphezulu, Nokukhetha Okufanele I-altare Lokunaka

Ungase uqaphele nokuthi lesi sikhathi sonyaka sivuselela inkumbulo. Sivuselela ukulangazelela. Sivuselela ububele. Singaletha usizi oludala, ukuzinikela okudala, amathemba amadala, ukuqonda okudala kobuNkulunkulu, kanye nezingxenye ezindala zomuntu ezilungele ukuhlangatshezwa ngendlela emnene. Vumela lokhu kwenzeke. Vumela isizini ilethe izinto phezulu. Vumela okungcwele kuthinte lokho okulungele ukuthintwa. Kuningi okungaphulukiswa lapho isidalwa siyeka ukuzama ukuhlala sizolile ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi esikhundleni salokho sizimisele ukuba ngokoqobo phambi kukaNkulunkulu. Umphefumulo awudingi ukupholishwa. Uyasabela eqinisweni. Uyasabela ekuvulekeni. Uyasabela ekuzimiseleni okulula ukuthi, “Nangu mina. Nangu engikuphethe. Nangu engikulungele ukukukhulula. Nangu engifuna ukukubuyisela ekukhanyeni.”

Kukhona futhi ubumnandi kulesi sigaba abaningi abakhohlwa ukusivumela. Ukuzingcwelisa akudingeki kuzizwe kunzima. Ukungcweliswa akudingeki kuzizwe kunzima. Kukhona ububele ekuhlanzekeni ngaphakathi. Kukhona impumuzo ekungaxazululeki. Kukhona ubumnandi ekuqapheleni ukuthi awudingi ukuphoqa indlela yakho yokusondelana noNkulunkulu ngoba uNkulunkulu usevele ekulindele ngaphakathi kuwe. Ngakho-ke lo mhubhe wePhasika ungahlangatshezwa ngendlela yobuntu. Ngokukhanya kwasekuseni okuthule. Ngokuphefumula kancane. Ngenkomishi yetiye ebanjwe buthule. Ngomthandazo olula. Ngezinyembezi ezivunyelwe. Ngekhasi lejenali elibhalwe ngokwethembeka. Ngokuhamba lapho ukhuluma nomthombo ovulekile kakhulu kunalowo oke waba nawo esikhathini esithile. Ngokukhetha ukungagcwalisi yonke indawo engenalutho.

Bathandekayo, akudingeki wenze leli fasitela libe likhulu ukuze libe ngcwele. Ubungcwele buvame ukuhamba ngokujulile kulokho okulula nokuqotho. Inhliziyo etholakala ngempela ithola okungaphezu kwengqondo ezama ukuphatha okungcwele. Ngakho-ke njengoba udlula kule ndima yePhasika, vumela ukuthi ufundiseke ngaphakathi futhi. Vumela impilo yakho ibe nokuthula lapho ingakwazi khona. Vumela i-altare elingaphakathi lihlanzwe. Vumela okudala, okugcwele, nokunwetshiwe kakhulu ukuthi kukhulule ukubamba kwayo. Vumela ukunaka kwakho kubuyele ekhaya. Vumela ukuzinikela kwakho okujulile kuvuke ngendlela ezwakala ingokwemvelo, imnene, futhi iyiqiniso. Ngakho-ke ngena kule ndlela yePhasika ngobumnene nangobuqotho. Vumela igeze endlini yakho engaphakathi. Vumela ikubonise lapho kudingeka khona isikhala esengeziwe. Vumela iveze lapho umphefumulo wakho ubulinde khona ukuhlanganyela kwakho okwengeziwe. Vumela ikukhumbuze ukuthi impilo yakho iyacaca lapho okungcwele kunikezwa kuqala. Vumela ikufundise futhi ukuthi ukubonakaliswa kukhula ngamandla lapho kuvela ngaphakathi okungcwele. Vumela ikubuyisele kulokho okulula, okuqotho, nokuphilayo. Vumela ikusize ukuthi ungahlukani futhi uphelele. Masikusize ungagxili kakhulu ngaphandle futhi uvumelane kakhulu ngaphakathi. Masikusize ukhethe, ngothando olukhulu nangesibindi esithule, lokho okufanele ngempela e-altare lokunaka kwakho.

Amakhodi KaKristic, Ukuhleleka KukaNkulunkulu, Nokuphathwa Kwangaphakathi Komphefumulo Ovukile

Amakhodi kaKristic, Ukuqondaniswa Komthombo, Nokuhlelwa Kabusha Okungcwele Kwempilo Yangaphakathi

Njengoba lokhu kwethembeka kwangaphakathi kuqala ukuvula indlela yokuthi uMthombo ube phakathi futhi, olunye ungqimba lwendima yePhasika luqala ukuziveza, futhi lolu ngqimba luhlobene nalokho abaningi kini abangakubiza ngokuthi amakhodi kaKristic. Sikhuluma ngabo ngale ndlela ngoba baphethe iphethini ephilayo yokuhleleka kwaphezulu, futhi lelo phethini lihlobene kakhulu nesigaba sokuvuka abaningi kini asebekufinyele manje. Awusagcini nje ngokuqoqa ukuqonda, ukuqoqa ulimi olungokomoya, noma ukufunda ukuzwa amandla ngokucacile. Inqubo esondelene kakhulu iyaqhubeka. Impilo yakho yangaphakathi iqeqeshwa ukuba ibe nobuhlobo obufanele neqiniso. Ingqondo yakho imenywa esimweni esingcwele kakhulu. Inhliziyo yakho iyacwengisiswa ukuze ihlale ivulekile futhi icacile ngesikhathi esifanayo. Intando yakho iyathanjiswa futhi iqiniswa ukuze ikwazi ukukhonza umphefumulo ngomusa omkhulu esikhundleni sokugijimela phambili yodwa.

Leyo ingenye yezindlela ezicacile zokuqonda la makhodi kaKristic angenayo. Angamakhodi okubusa kwangaphakathi. Asiza umuntu ukuba ngaphansi kwesiqondiso esimnene sesigaba esiphakeme. Afundisa ingqondo ukuthi ithule kanjani ngokwanele ukulalela. Afundisa inhliziyo ukuthi ihlale imnene kanjani ngenkathi futhi ihlala ihlakaniphile. Afundisa ubuntu ukuthi ingayeka kanjani ukuzibeka enkabeni yenqubo ngayinye bese iba ithuluzi elithembekile lento enkulu kakhulu. Lolu hlobo lokuhlela kabusha kwangaphakathi lungenye yezipho ezinhle zalesi sikhathi sonyaka, ngoba abaningi kini balungele ingokomoya elifinyelela ngale kokuphefumulelwa futhi liqale ukuguqula indlela eniphila ngayo ngempela, indlela enikhuluma ngayo, indlela enikhetha ngayo, indlela enisabela ngayo, indlela eniphatha ngayo amandla, kanye nendlela enibamba ngayo indawo yenu emhlabeni.

Ukucwengwa Okungokomoya, Ubuhlobo Obufanele Neqiniso, Nokubuyiselwa Kwezakhiwo Zangaphakathi

Kungenzeka ukuthi usuvele uzizwa lo mnyakazo, noma ngabe awukawushongo. Kungase kube nokucindezeleka okuthule mayelana nemikhuba ethile yokucabanga. Kungase kube nokuzwela okukhulayo kwamagama ake adlula kuwe ngokunganaki. Kungase kube nokuqaphela okunamandla kokuthi ukunaka kwakho kuya kuphi, ukuthi amandla akho asetshenziswa kanjani, nokuthi izinqumo zakho zakha ini ngaphakathi kwakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Konke lokhu kungokwesimo esifanayo. Umfudlana kaKristic uletha ukucwengwa. Ubuyisela ukulandelana okungokomoya ezindaweni ezixubile, ezisheshayo, eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, noma ezingahambisani kahle. Kusiza ekubuyiseleni isakhiwo sangaphakathi esivumela ukuhlakanipha okwengeziwe kwaphezulu ukuthi kudlule kumuntu ngendlela ezinzile nesebenzisekayo.

Sekuyisikhathi eside, abaningi emhlabeni bebecabanga ukuthi ukukhula ngokomoya kuyinto eyenzeka ikakhulukazi ngezikhathi zokukhushulwa, ukuqina ngokomzwelo, noma ukwembulwa ngezikhathi ezithile. Lezo zikhathi ngokuqinisekile zibalulekile. Zingavula iminyango. Zingavusa inkumbulo. Zingaletha isikhuthazo ngesikhathi esifanele. Kodwa ukukhula okuhlala njalo kuhamba kujule kakhulu kunalokho. Kungena esakhiweni somuntu. Kushintsha lokho okukulawulayo. Kushintsha indlela ocubungula ngayo iqiniso. Kushintsha lokho okuholayo. Kushintsha ubudlelwano phakathi kokushukuma nokuphendula. Kushintsha ibanga phakathi komthandazo nesenzo. Kushintsha ikhwalithi yemvume yakho yangaphakathi.

Ngakho-ke uma sikhuluma ngamakhodi kaKristic, sikhuluma ngobuhlakani obuphilayo obusiza ukubuyisela ubuntu bomuntu ngaphansi kobuholi bomphefumulo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba izidalwa eziningi ezivukile ziyazwela futhi ziqotho, kodwa zisahlukene phakathi kwazo. Umphefumulo ubiza indlela eyodwa, ingqondo idonsa enye, umzimba wemizwa usabela ngenkumbulo yakudala, futhi intando ishesha ukwenza okuthile ngaphambi kokuba kucace ngempela. Umphumela uvame ukukhathala, ukudideka, noma umuzwa wokuhlakazeka kwangaphakathi ngisho nalapho umuntu enza umsebenzi ongokomoya oqotho. Iphethini kaKristic iyasiza ekuhlanganiseni lokhu. Iqala ukubeka izinto esihlalweni sayo esifanele. Iqiniso lithatha indawo yalo ephezulu. Umphefumulo uthola igunya. Ingqondo iba yinceku yokucaca. Inhliziyo iba yigumbi lokuqonda nothando ndawonye. Intando ihambisana nomthandazo esikhundleni sokuhlukana nayo.

Impilo Engokomoya Evuthiwe, Ukubonakaliswa Kwephethini KaKristu, Nesibusiso Sokulungiswa

Enye indlela yokuqonda lokhu ngokucacile ukucabangela indlela ukuhleleka kukaNkulunkulu okunyakaza ngayo esidalweni esivuthiwe. Impilo engokomoya evuthiwe ayixhomekile ekuphakameni ngokomzwelo ukuze ihlale ixhumene. Ayidingi ukuqinisekiswa okuqhubekayo okuvela ezweni langaphandle ukuze ihlale iyiqiniso. Iphethe isikhungo esizinzile. Iyakwazi ukulinda. Iyazi ukuthi ilalele kanjani. Iyazi ukuthi ivumela kanjani into ivuthwe ngaphakathi ngaphambi kokwenza ngaphandle. Iyazi ukuthi ukuthula kungcwele nini kunenkulumo. Iyazi ukuthi ukuzibamba kuvikela nini into engcwele. Iyazi ukuthi ukulula kunamandla amakhulu kunempoqo. Lezi zimfanelo ziyingxenye yephethini likaKrestu. Aziyona into evelele ngaphandle, kodwa ziguqula konke.

Yingakho futhi la makhodi engazizwa elungisa. Ukulungiswa, ngomqondo walo ophakeme, kuyisibusiso. Uthando lubuyisela into endaweni yangempela. Umusa usiza umuntu ukuthi aqonde lokho okugobile endaweni yakhe ngaphansi kwezingcindezi zokuphila, isiko, ukwesaba, isivinini, umkhuba, ukuphazamiseka, kanye nesimo esidala. Abanye kini bazokuzwa lokhu njengokuhlelwa kabusha kwangaphakathi okucashile kakhulu. Kungazelelwe awusafuni ukukhuluma ngokushesha kangaka. Kungazelelwe uba nokuqonda okwengeziwe ngesisindo samazwi akho. Kungazelelwe izinhlobo ezithile zokusebenza ngokomoya zizizwa zingenalutho. Kungazelelwe umzimba wakho ucela ukuthula okwengeziwe ngaphambi kokuzibandakanya. Kungazelelwe ungazizwa lapho isenzo singaphambi kokulungiswa kwakho kunokuba siphume kuso. Lezi izinguquko ezinengqondo. Zibonisa ukuthi amakhodi awazwakali nje kuphela. Aqala ukubonakaliswa.

Ilanga Elikhulu Eliphakathi, Ukulingisa Okungcwele, Nokwamukelwa Kokuhlakanipha Okuphilayo

I-Grand Central Sun iyingxenye ebalulekile yale ngxoxo ngoba ingaqondwa njengengcebo yokwakheka kwamaphethini okuqala. Sikhuluma ngayo ngale ndlela ukuze umqondo uzwakale kalula. Iyindawo enkulu yokugcina ubuhlakani obuphilayo. Iphethe inkumbulo yomklamo waphezulu ngaphambi kokuhlanekezelwa, ngaphambi kokuqhekeka, ngaphambi kokumbozwa okuminyene okuye kwabumba ulwazi oluningi lwabantu. Kusukela kule ndawo yokugcina, imifudlana yokwakheka kwamaphethini okumsulwa idlulela ngaphandle iye emasimini amukelayo, futhi leyo mifudlana ayikaze ibe nemingcele. Iqondile. Ihamba ngokwesikhathi, ukulungela, imvume, kanye nenhloso. Yamukelwa ngokuzwakalayo ngaphezu kokufunda. Yamukelwa ngobuqotho ngaphezu kobuchwepheshe. Ihlala kalula kakhulu ezidalweni ezizenzele indawo ngokuzinikezela, ukuzinikela, ukuthobeka, kanye nokuqina kwangaphakathi.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi lokho okutholayo kuhlobene nokulungela kwakho ukukwamukela. Ukulungela igama elinomusa kakhulu. Alikhombisi ukufaneleka njengento okufanele uyizuze. Likhomba ukuvuleka, ukuhambisana, kanye nokuzimisela. Isidalwa singase sizwe izimfundiso eziningi ezingokomoya kodwa sihlale singashintshi uma amakamelo angaphakathi egcwele kakhulu ukuba angamukeli okwengeziwe. Esinye singase sizwe amazwi ambalwa kuphela ngesikhathi esifanele futhi sizizwe impilo yaso yonke ihlelwa kabusha ngobumnene ngaphakathi ngoba sesitholakale ngaphakathi. Ukulungela kubunjwa ukwethembeka, ukuzinikela, ukunaka, inhlonipho, ukuzimisela ukuphila lokho umuntu asekubonisile kakade.

Ukulungela Okungokomoya, Ukuphatha Ukukhanya, Nokusetshenziswa Kakhulu Kwaphezulu

Ukulungela kwakhiwa lapho isidalwa siyeka ukuzama ukuqoqa ukukhanya bese siqala ukufunda ukuthi singakuthwala kanjani. Kunokukhululeka okukhulu ekuqondeni lokhu, ngoba kubuyisela indlela ebulula. Umsebenzi wakho awukhona ukuxosha yonke imimoya engokomoya. Umsebenzi wakho ukuba insimu ecacile. Umsebenzi wakho awukhona ukufakazela intuthuko yakho. Umsebenzi wakho uwukuba lula kakhulu kuNkulunkulu. Umsebenzi wakho awukhona ukuhlaba umxhwele imihlaba engabonakali ngokuthi unolwazi olungakanani. Umsebenzi wakho ukuvumela iqiniso ligxile kakhulu esakhiweni esivamile sempilo yakho. Uma lokhu kuba yindlela, iphethini likaKristic elingenayo lingahlala ngokwemvelo. Lithola isimo esamukela ukuhleleka. Lithola isitsha esiba esithembekile. Lithola umuntu ofunda indlela yokuphila ngomqondo othile hhayi ngokuthanda okungokomoya.

Ukuhleleka Kwangaphakathi KwamaKristu, Ukuqondana Okungokomoya, Nokuba Khona Kobuntu OkukaKristu

Ukucabanga Ngaphansi Kweqiniso, Ubuntu Obuholwa Ngumphefumulo, Nesenzo Esingokomoya Esihambisanayo

Enye yezindawo zokuqala lolu hlelo oluvame ukuzwakala ngazo kusemkhakheni wokucabanga. Umcabango unikezwe amandla amakhulu emhlabeni wakho, kodwa umcabango ngokwawo wawungahloselwe ukuma ngaphezu kweqiniso. Wawuhloselwe ukukhonza iqiniso. Wawuhloselwe ukuhumusha, ukuchaza, nokuphatha okujulile kunawo. Lapho umcabango uphakama ngaphezu kweqiniso, uqala ukubusa, ukuhlanekezela, ukuhlaziya ngokweqile, nokulawula. Lapho umcabango ubekwa ngaphansi kweqiniso, uba ocwengekile, ohlakaniphile, futhi owusizo kakhulu. Ungasiza ekuhumusheni lokho umphefumulo owaziyo kube ulimi, isenzo, ukuhlela, kanye nenkonzo. Iphethini likaKristic lisekela lokhu kuhlela kabusha. Lifundisa ingqondo ukuthi ikhothame kanjani ngaphandle kokunciphisa ukuhlakanipha kwayo. Livumela ingqondo ukuba ibe nomusa, inembe kakhudlwana, futhi ingaphazamisi kakhulu.

Kunjalo nangobuntu. Ubuntu bakho bungaba ithuluzi elihle. Bunikeza isimo, isitayela, ukubonakaliswa, amahlaya, imfudumalo, kanye nobuntu bakho ebuntwini bakho. Kodwa-ke busebenza kahle kakhulu uma bulandela umphefumulo esikhundleni sokugijimela phambili. Kukhona ubuhle obunjalo ebuntwini obugcwele ukukhanya komphefumulo. Buba nomusa, buhlanzekile, abulambi kakhulu, abuvikeli kakhulu, abusebenzi kahle, abudingi ukubonakala ngendlela ethile. Buthola ubuqotho. Buba sobala kakhulu kulokho okungokoqobo. Amakhodi kaKristic ayakusekela lokhu futhi. Asiza ubuntu ukuba buphumule emithwalweni yabo engamanga futhi bube yisandiso esicacile semvelo yomphefumulo.

Bese kuba khona indawo yesenzo. Isenzo siphethe ikhwalithi ephezulu kakhulu uma sivela ekuhambisaneni. Umzamo omkhulu kangaka eMhlabeni uvela ekuhambisaneni okungaxhunyiwe emthandazweni, okungaxhunyiwe ekulaleleni kwangaphakathi, okungaxhunyiwe esikhathini. Ukunyakaza okunjalo kusengakhiqiza imiphumela yangaphandle, kodwa kuvame ukushiya umuntu ekhathele, enwetshiwe ngokweqile, futhi ehlukanisiwe kancane naye. Isenzo esibusiswe yi-Kristic order siphethe ikhwalithi ehlukile. Sivela esivumelwaneni sangaphakathi. Sivela endaweni ethule lapho into ethile isivele izinzile. Siphethe ukungqubuzana okuncane ngoba asizami ukudlula ukungaqiniseki. Siphethe isibusiso esengeziwe ngoba sesakhiwe ebudlelwaneni kuqala. Lena enye yezindawo lapho abaningi kini beqeqeshwa kabusha khona manje. Impilo ikufundisa ukuthi wenze kanjani ngokuhambisana esikhundleni sokusebenzisa isenzo ukufuna ukuvumelana ngemva kweqiniso.

Amakhodi KaKristic, Inkulumo Ecacile, Nokwakheka Kobukhona BukaKristu Emhlabeni

Abanye bazobona lo mfula ngezibonakaliso zangaphandle, kodwa abaningi bazowazi kahle kakhulu ngezinguquko ezicashile zesifiso sokudla. Ungase uqaphele ukuncipha kwesithakazelo somsindo. Ungase uthole ukuthi izingxoxo ezithile azisahambelani kahle nensimu yakho ngendlela ezaziyiyo ngaphambili. Ungase uzizwe unesifiso esinamandla sokuba nenkulumo eqondile, uqaphele kakhulu ngesikhathi sakho, uthembeke kakhulu ngamandla akho, uhloniphe kakhulu lokho okuvumela ukuba kungene engqondweni yakho. Indinganiso ejulile iqala ukuvela, futhi ayizizwa iphoqelekile. Kuzwakala kungokwemvelo. Kuzwakala sengathi kukhona okuhlakaniphile ngaphakathi kuwe okuye kwaqala ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngokuthula ngendlela impilo yakho ephilwa ngayo. Lowo mthwalo wemfanelo ngokuthula ungenye yezibonakaliso ezinhle kakhulu zokuthi amakhodi ayanamathela. Awubi nzima kakhulu. Uyacaca. Awubi lukhuni. Uba nokuqondana kakhudlwana. Awubi kude nobuntu bakho. Uba nekhono elikhulu lokuveza ubuntu bakho ngendlela eqotho, efudumele, ezinzile, nehlanzekile ngokomoya.

Yilokhu okwenza iphethini yobuKrestu ibaluleke kangaka kulesi sikhathi. Umhlaba awudingi nje kuphela abantu abaqaphela izinto ezingokomoya. Umhlaba udinga abantu abangabonisa ikhwalithi yobuKrestu empilweni yangempela yomuntu. Abantu abahleleka ngaphakathi kwabo babusisa indlela ababonakala ngayo ngaphandle. Abantu abanamazwi aphethe ubuqotho. Abantu abagcina isikhathi sabo bephethe ukuhlakanipha. Abantu abanothando oluphethe ukuqonda.

Abantu abakhonza ngenxa yokuhlangana esikhundleni sokucindezeleka. Yilapho la mandla eholela khona. Bayakha. Bakha ubukhona bobuntu obufana noKristu eMhlabeni ngalabo abazimisele ukukwamukela, ukubamukela, nokuhlala nabo. Bakha ukuqina lapho kube nokuguquguquka khona, ubulula lapho kube nokudideka khona, ubuqotho lapho kube nokusebenza kahle khona, kanye nokuhleleka okufanele lapho kube khona ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi. Bafundisa umphefumulo ovukile ukuthi ungaphila kanjani ngobudala obukhulu ngokomoya, isisa esikhulu, kanye nokwethembeka okukhulu kulokho okungcwele.

Ukunaka Okungcwele, Ukuzinikezela Kwangaphakathi, kanye Nendebe Yokwamukela Okungokomoya

Vumela la makhodi ukuthi enze umsebenzi wawo ngobumnene ngaphakathi kuwe. Mawafundise ingqondo yakho ukuma okungcwele. Mawalungise inhliziyo yakho kuze kube yilapho ikwazi ukuhlanganisa ukuhlakanipha nobumnene. Mawalethe intando enkonzweni enesineke, ethandazayo, neyiqiniso. Mawabuyisele ukulandelana lapho impilo izwakale ixubene khona. Mawabeke umcabango wakho ngaphansi kweqiniso, ubuntu bakho ngaphansi komphefumulo, kanye nesenzo sakho ngaphansi kokuqondana. Mawakubumbe ube ngumuntu ongakwazi ukuthwala ukuhleleka kwaphezulu ngokuthula nangokuhle phakathi nokuphila okuvamile. Mawakhe ngaphakathi kuwe isintu esicacile, esinomusa, nesikaKristu esibusisa uMhlaba ngendlela ophila ngayo.

Njengoba la maphethini kaKristic eqala ukuhlela ubuntu ngobumnene ngaphakathi, kuza ingxenye ewusizo kakhulu yendlela abaningi manje abacelwa ukuba bayiqonde ngokucophelela okukhulu, futhi lokhu kuhlobene nokunaka. Ukunaka kwakho kuyigugu ngaphezu kwalokho iningi lomhlaba wakho elikuqondile. Kungaphezu kokugxila. Kungaphezu kokugxila. Kungumsinga ophilayo wemvume. Nomaphi lapho ukunaka kwakho kuphumule khona isikhathi eside, okuthile kuqala ukungena, okuthile kuqala ukuhlela nxazonke, futhi okuthile kuqala ukwakheka ensimini yakho. Ngale ndlela, ukunaka kuba njengendebe. Kuyamukela. Kuyabamba. Kuyathwala. Kunikeza indawo yokuthi okuthile kuhlale.

Yingakho le ndima yePhasika ifuna ukunakwa okukhulu kangaka. Okungcwele kungamukelwa kahle ngesikhathi esinjengalesi, kodwa kwamukelwa ngokugcwele yilabo abaqondayo ukuthi bangayigcina kanjani ikamelo elingaphakathi lihambisana ngenkathi umusa wehla. Inkomishi ebanjwe njalo ingathwala lokho okuthululwa kuyo. Inkomishi ehlala ishukunyiswa, iqondiswa kabusha, igcwaliswe ngokweqile, noma ishiywe ivuliwe kukho konke ukuphazamiseka okudlulayo ilahlekelwa amandla ayo okugcina into enhle eyayihloselwe ukuyithola. Ngakho-ke phakathi nale ndlela engcwele, ukucwengwa kokunaka kuba yingxenye yokuzinikezela ngokwako.

Ukunaka Kokudala, Ukuphazamiseka Kwesimanje, Nokuphathwa Kwendawo Engcwele Yangaphakathi

Iningi lenu selivele liqaphele ukuthi ikhwalithi yosuku lwenu ingashintsha ngokushesha kangakanani ngokuya ngalokho okungena ensimini yenu kuqala. Imizuzu embalwa yokuthula ingenza wonke umuntu azizwe ecacile. Ukubheka kafushane ukukhathazeka kungashintsha ukuthungwa kwamandla akho amahora amaningi. Ingxoxo eyodwa engahlanzekile ngethoni ingahlakaza lokho umthandazo osuqalile ukukuqoqa. Usuku olulodwa oluchithwe ekuzinikeleni okuqotho lungabuyisela ibhalansi ngokujulile kakhulu kunemizamo emide eyenziwe ngengqondo engaphumuli. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukunaka akuthathi hlangothi. Kunobuciko. Kukhetha. Kuyasabela. Kwakha ubuhlobo nalokho okuthintayo.

Umhlaba wakho usunekhono elikhulu lokuheha ukunakwa. Izinhlelo eziphelele zakhiwe ngokufunda ukuthi ungakubamba kanjani, ukukwandisa, ukukuhlukanisa, ukuzuza kukho, nokuhlala uqhubeka. Kuncane kakhulu ngaphakathi kwendawo yanamuhla okubuzayo ukuthi, “Umuntu angahlala kanjani ephelele ngaphakathi?” Okuningi kwalokho kubuza esikhundleni salokho, “Singayigcina kanjani ingqondo imatasa, imizwa ivuselelwe, ilukuluku lisebenza, kanye nohlelo lubuya ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuze luthole okwengeziwe?” Ngakho enye yezinto ezinothando kakhulu umuntu ovukile angayenza phakathi nenkathi efana nale ukuqaphela kakhulu ukuthi ukunakwa kubekwa kuphi, ukuthi kucelwe ukuthi kondliwe ini, nokuthi hlobo luni lwesimo sangaphakathi esakha njalo.

Lokhu akudingeki kube nzima noma ukukhathazeka. Kumnene kakhulu kunalokho. Kuyisenzo sokuhlonipha. Kungukuqonda ukuthi indawo engcwele yangaphakathi ifanelwe ukuphathwa ngokucophelela. Uma usuqala ukuzizwa sengathi ukunaka kwakho kungcwele, izinqumo eziningi ziba sobala ngokwazo. Uqala ukuzwa ukuthi kunezihloko ezithi, uma sezingenile, ziqhubeke nokuzwakala ohlelweni isikhathi eside ngemva kokuba umzuzu usudlulile. Uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi ezinye izinhlobo zolwazi zihlala kancane kuyilapho ezinye zinamathela emzimbeni ongokomzwelo futhi zigcina impilo yangaphakathi iphazamisekile kancane. Uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi lokho okwakubonakala kungenangozi ekuqaleni kungase kusashiye insalela. Bese, kusukela kulokho kuqonda okukhulayo, uhlobo lokuhlakanipha oluthule luqala ukukuqondisa.

Ukukhetha Okungcwele, Ukuphatha Okungokomzwelo, Nokuqhubeka Nomusa

Ukuqonda KwamaPhasika, Amasimu Angokomoya Avulekile, Nokuvikelwa Kwegumbi Langaphakathi

Ifasitela lePhasika libaluleke kakhulu kulokhu ngoba insimu ivulekile manje. Inhliziyo ingena kalula. Umphefumulo usondela eduze. Lokhu kuhle, futhi yingakho ukuqonda kwakho kubaluleke kangaka. Lapho isidalwa sivulekile kakhulu, kokubili isibusiso kanye nokuphazamiseka kungazwakala kalula. Okunomsoco kuzwakala ngokucacile. Okushukumisayo kuzwakala ngokucacile. Umehluko phakathi kwalokho okukumisayo nalokho okuhlakazayo kuba lula ukukubona. Kulabo kini abazimisele ukulalela, lokhu kungaba isikhathi esimangalisayo sokufunda. Uqala ukuzwa ngqo ukuthi yini ekhonza okungcwele nokuthi yini ekunciphisayo.

Izingingi ezijikeleza umhlaba wakho zisobala, kodwa ezinye zicashile kakhulu. Kunemidlalo emikhulu yangaphandle engalawula ingqondo ngokushesha. Izindaba zempi, izintambo zokudalula, ubuqili bezepolitiki, imijikelezo yempikiswano engapheli, kanye nemifudlana engapheli yokuhumusha okunamandla ngokomzwelo konke kunendlela enamandla yokudonsa ukuqwashisa ngaphandle. Ezinye zalezi zihloko zinokubaluleka kwangempela, kanti ezinye zizobaluleka kakhulu ekwambulweni komhlaba wakho. Kodwa umbuzo ngempilo yakho yangaphakathi usafana: uzingena kanjani, uhlala isikhathi esingakanani ngaphakathi kwazo, futhi zivunyelwe ukwenzani endaweni engcwele yobukhona bakho?

Kukhona futhi iziphazamiso ezithambile ezibonakala zingenangozi ngoba zifika zigqoke injabulo, ilukuluku, ukunyakaza kwesizini, noma umuzwa wokuthi impilo ivele ivuleke futhi. Isimo sezulu siya ngokuya siba mnene ezindaweni eziningi. Umzimba ufisa ukuhamba kakhulu. Impilo yomphakathi iba khona kakhudlwana. Kukhona amandla amasha emoyeni kanye nokudonsela emsebenzini, ukuhlela, ukuzulazula, ukwenza, ukuxoxa, kanye nokuzibandakanya kabusha. Kukhona ubuhle kukho konke lokhu, futhi kunesidingo sokulinganisela. Isikhathi sokuqhakaza kwangaphandle singasusa kalula ukuqwashisa emsebenzini ojulile wangaphakathi ozama ukumila ngesikhathi esifanayo.

Ukukhetha Okungcwele, Ubukhosi Obungokomoya, kanye Nenkululeko Ezingxoxweni Ezihlala Zihlanganiswa

Ngakho-ke ukuhlakanipha lapha akukhona ukuhoxa empilweni. Kuwubuhlobo obuqaphile nokuphila. Kuyikhono lokujabulela lokho okuvulwa ngaphandle ngaphandle kokuvumela ukuqhubeka kwakho kwangaphakathi ukuba kuhlukane. Yilapho ukukhetha okungcwele kuba khona umkhuba owusizo kakhulu. Ukukhetha okungcwele kuyindlela yokuyala enomusa kakhulu. Kubuza, “Yini efanele ukungena ensimini yami njengamanje? Yini esekela ukunyakaza okungcwele okwenzeka ngaphakathi kimi? Yini efanele ukuhlala engqondweni yami njalo? Yini eqinisa ukuthula kwami? Yini ehlukanisayo? Yini engavunywa kafushane bese ikhululwa? Yini engcono kakhulu eyamukelwa kamuva? Yini engaphandle kwegumbi elingaphakathi ngokuphelele?”

Le mibuzo isiza ukubuyisela ubukhosi endleleni okusetshenziswa ngayo ukunakwa. Kushintsha kakhulu uma uqala ukuphila ngale ndlela. Uyeka ukuphatha yonke into etholakalayo ngokulinganayo. Uyeka ukucabanga ukuthi yonke indaba idinga ukutshalwa kwezimali kwakho ngokomzwelo. Uyeka ukunikeza ukufinyelela kwesikhathi eside kubantu, kwabezindaba, ezindabeni, nasezingxoxweni eziphazamisa insimu ngokuphindaphindiwe ngaphandle kokunikeza ukucaca kwangempela noma insizakalo yangempela. Okuvelayo esikhundleni salokho ukuma kwangaphakathi okuvuthiwe. Uba nokuthula, yebo, nakuba futhi unamandla. Uba khona kakhulu, nakuba kungelula ukunamathela. Uba nomusa kakhulu, nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi uphonswe enkingeni yangaphakathi yiwo wonke amagagasi ahamba emoyeni ohlangene.

Abanye kini kungadingeka bazwe lokhu ngqo: ububele abudingi ukuvezwa njalo ekuphazamisekeni. Ukuqwashisa akudingi ukucwiliswa ngokuphelele kuzo zonke izigigaba ezihlangene. Ukuvuthwa ngokomoya akuceli ukuthi ubonise ukuvuleka kwakho ngokuvumela konke kungene kuwe ngokungakhethi. Isidalwa esingcwele sifunda ukuthi singahlala kanjani sinolwazi lapho kudingeka, sisabela lapho sibizwa khona, sinothando lapho kungenzeka khona, futhi siqashwe ngaphakathi lapho sihlakaniphile. Kunomusa omkhulu ekufundeni lowo mehluko. Imiphefumulo eminingi ezwelayo iye yahlupheka ngoba nje ibone ukuvuleka njengenkonzo. Kodwa inkonzo iba hlanzekile kakhulu lapho isitsha singavuzi amandla njalo ngokunaka okungalawulwa.

Amandla Emizwa, Impendulo Engokomoya, Nokubuyisela Ukuthula Ngemingcele Ehlanzekile

Umzimba uvame ukwembula leli qiniso ngokushesha kunengqondo. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi ngemva kokushintsha okuthile kokuphefumula kwakho, ubuthongo bakho buya ngokuya buncipha, imicabango yakho ikhula kakhulu, imizwa yakho iba buthakathaka, umthandazo wakho uba mncane, noma ukuxhumana kwakho okuthule kuba nzima ukubuyela kukho. Lokhu kuyimibono ewusizo. Akuzona izehluleki. Kuyimpendulo. Kukukhombisa ukuthi insimu ithwele ini nokuthi ukunaka kwakho kungene kuphi ezinkontilekeni ezingakusebenzeli ukugcotshwa kwakho. Kusukela lapho, ushintsho luba khona. Isenzo esisodwa esincane sokulungisa singabusisa usuku lonke. Umngcele owodwa ohlanzekile ungabuyisela ukuthula okumangalisayo. Isinqumo esisodwa sokushiya isihloko sodwa isikhashana singabuyisela uhlelo kuso.

Lo mkhuba uhlobene kakhulu nokuqhubeka. Okungcwele kuhlala kujule kakhulu lapho kunikezwa khona ukuqhubeka. Umzuzu owodwa oqotho ubalulekile, ngokuqinisekile, kodwa ukuqhubeka kwenza lowo mzuzu ube yindawo yokuhlala kunokuba kube ukuvakashelwa okufushane. Uma umphefumulo uvunyelwe imizuzu eyishumi yesidlo sakusihlwa seqiniso ekuseni bese kuthi lonke usuku luzinikele ekuvukeleni, emsindweni, ekuphoqelelweni, nasekuzibandakanyeni okuhlakazekile, okungcwele kusathinta isidalwa, kodwa kunendawo encane yokuzinza. Uma ukunaka kuqashwe ngokucophelela, leso sidlo sakusihlwa sasekuseni singaqhubeka siqhubeka ngaphansi kosuku lonke. Umthandazo uhlala uphila. Ukuqondana kwangaphakathi kuhlala kutholakala. Isimo sokuthula siyaqhubeka buthule ngaphansi kwemisebenzi yakho, amazwi akho, imisebenzi yakho, ukuxhumana kwakho. Yile ndlela amakhodi aqala ngayo ukuzinza empilweni ephilwa.

Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, iningi lenu liyamenywa ukuba lenze kube lula izindlela lapho ukunaka kushiya khona indawo engcwele. Ningase nizizwe nibizelwe ukunciphisa izinhlobo ezithile zemidiya. Ningase nizizwe nidonseleka ekufinyezeni ukuvezwa kwenu ezihlokweni ezigcina ingqondo ihlaziya njalo. Ningase ninqume ukuthi ezinye izingxoxo azisafanelekeli inani elifanayo lamandla okuphila. Ningase nizizwe nifisa ukugcina ihora lokuqala losuku lihlanzekile, noma ukudala ikhefu phakathi kokuzibandakanya ukuze uhlelo lubuyele kulo ngokugcwele. Lezi zinqumo zibaluleke kakhulu kunalokho abaningi abakuqaphelayo. Zidala izimo lapho ukuhlakanipha okuhle kungahlala kusebenza khona.

Ukunaka Okuphindaphindiwe, Ukuzijwayeza Ukuthula, Nokwakhiwa Kwezakhiwo Ezingokomoya

Enye ingxenye ebalulekile yalokhu kuhlakanipha ukuqonda ukuthi ukunaka kondla lokho okukuvakashela ngokuphindaphindiwe. Ukubuya ngakunye kuqinisa iphethini. Ukuphindaphinda ngakunye kwakha ubudlelwano. Uma uvakashela ukukhathazeka kaningi, ukukhathazeka kuyajwayelana ngaphakathi kohlelo. Uma ubuyela ekuthukutheleni ngokuphindaphindiwe, ukuthukuthela kuqala ukuthatha indawo eyengeziwe emzimbeni wemizwa. Uma uphinda ubuyela ekuthuleni okungcwele ngokuphindaphindiwe, ukuthula kuba lula ukukufinyelela, kulula ukukusekela, kulula ukuphila kukho. Yingakho ukubeka ukunaka ngokuphindaphindiwe kunamandla kangaka. Akubonisi nje lokho okukwazisayo. Kancane kancane kwakha lokho ongaba yikho kalula.

Ngakho-ke lesi sigaba sePhasika sikucela ukuba ube nomqondo oqondile. Vumela ukunaka kwakho kubuyele kaningi kulokho okujulisa ukuthula. Makuphumule ngokugcwele kulokho okucwengisisa ingqondo nokuthambisa inhliziyo. Makuhlale ngomthandazo, ngobuhle, ngomsebenzi onenjongo, ngokuthula, ngemvelo, ngamaqiniso alula agcina isidalwa sisekelwe emseni. Makuhlale nezimfundiso ezihlanza insimu esikhundleni sokuyingcolisa. Makuhlale isikhathi eside nalokho okukuphakamisayo embonweni ocacile futhi kube kufushane ngalokho okuhudula ingqondo ekusebenzeni okungapheli. Lezi akuzona izinqumo ezincane. Ziyizinhlobo zezakhiwo ezingokomoya.

Amandla akho angokomzwelo nawo afanelwe ukugadwa ngokucophelela. Abaningi banikela ngamandla abo angokomzwelo kalula kakhulu ngoba bacabanga ukuthi ukuqina kulingana nokubaluleka. Kodwa umphefumulo uvame ukusebenza ngerejista ethule. Iqiniso lingahlala lizinzile. Isiqondiso singaba sobala. Okungcwele kungaba nokuzola. Lapho amandla angokomzwelo ehlala ethululwa ezihlokweni, ezimpikiswaneni, emijikelezweni yokuqagela, noma ekuphazamisekeni kwamuva nje, kuncane kakhulu okusele kwezinqubo ezijulile ezizama ukwenzeka ngaphakathi. Ngakho-ke ingxenye yokukhetha okungcwele ukukhetha ukuthi ukuzinikela kwakho ngokomzwelo kufanele kube kuphi. Igama elifanele libalulekile. Ezinye izinto zifanelwe ukunakekelwa kwakho, umthandazo wakho, inkonzo yakho, isisa sakho. Izinto eziningi zidinga ukusabela kuphela. Ukuhlakanipha kufunda umehluko.

Ukuphatha Ukukhanya Ngaphandle Kokuvuza, Ukuba Khona Okuqinile, Nokukhetha Ukuqhubeka Nomusa

Ngokufunda ukuphatha ukunaka ngale ndlela, uyakwazi futhi ukuphatha ukukhanya ngaphandle kokuvuza. Ukuvuza kwenzeka lapho kukhona ukwamukelwa okuqotho ngaphakathi kodwa kungekho sakhiwo sokuvikela lokho okwamukelwayo. Umuntu uthandaza ngokujulile, bese engena ngokushesha ekukhathazekeni. Inhliziyo ivuleka kahle, bese ihlakazeka ngenxa yokuchayeka ngokweqile. Isidalwa sithola ukucaca, bese silahlekelwa ukuqhubeka ngokunaka izinto eziyishumi ezingenandawo efanele endaweni engcwele. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kungadala ukudumazeka ngoba umphefumulo uyazi ukuthi into yangempela ithintwe, kodwa umuntu uzizwa engakwazi ukuyigcina. Ukuphatha ngothando kusiza ekuxazululeni lokhu. Kuvumela lokho okwamukelwayo kuhlale kukhona isikhathi eside. Kusiza okungcwele ukuba kuhlalwe.

Kukhona inkululeko yangempela kulokhu. Lapho ukunaka kwakho kuhleleka kakhudlwana, awusazizwa sengathi umhlaba wangaphandle ungabamba kalula isikhungo sobuntu bakho. Kunesikhala esikhulu phakathi kokushukumisa nokuvuma. Kunesikhala esikhulu sokukhetha. Kukhona amandla amaningi ekuthuleni. Kukhona ukuqina okwengeziwe ensimini. Kukhona amandla amaningi okuhamba emhlabeni ngenkathi uhlala ubambekile ngaphakathi. Lokho kubambelela kungenye yezibusiso zalo msebenzi. Kukuvumela ukuthi uphile ngokugcwele, ukhathalele ngokujulile, ukhonze ngobuqotho, futhi uhlale ubambekile ngokubumbana okuhle okuvikela impilo yangaphakathi.

Ngakho-ke phakathi nalesi sahluko esinamandla kakhulu, phatha ukunaka kwakho njengento engcwele. Makube ngenhloso, kube ngomthandazo, futhi kube ngokuhlakanipha. Khetha okungena engqondweni yakho. Khetha okwamukela amandla akho ngokomzwelo. Khetha okuvunyelwe ukuhlala e-altare elingaphakathi isikhathi esingaphezu kwesikhashana esidlulayo. Khetha okusekela ukunyakaza okungcwele okuvele kwenzeka kuwe. Khetha okuvumela inhliziyo ukuba ihlale itholakala futhi umphefumulo uhlale useduze. Khetha okunikeza umusa ukuqhubeka. Ngokwenza kanjalo, uzothola ukuthi indebe iyaqina, igumbi elingaphakathi liyacaca, futhi ukukhanya okutholayo kungahlala ngaphakathi kuwe ngamandla amakhulu, ubuhle, nokuthula.

Ukuzindla Ngokuzinikela, Ukuthula KwePhasika, Nokubuyela Ebuseduze NobuNkulunkulu

Ukuzindla Ngokuzinikela Njengendawo Engcwele Yokuhlangana Enobukhona BukaNkulunkulu

Uma ukunaka kwakho sekuqala ukuhlala kahle, indlela yokungena ekuzindleni iyashintsha futhi, ngoba ukuzindla akusabhekwa njengethuluzi eliwusizo phakathi kwabaningi, kodwa kunalokho kuqala ukuzizwa njengendawo engcwele yokuhlangana lapho wonke umuntu wakho ekhumbula khona ukukhothama, ukulalela, nokwamukela. Lokho kushintsha kubaluleke kakhulu kunalokho abaningi abakuqaphelayo. Inani elikhulu lemiphefumulo eqotho selivele lizindla, seliphefumula, selivele lihleli lithule ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa lokho okucelwa kuwe phakathi nalesi sigaba sePhasika kuthwala ukunambitheka okuhlukile ngokuphelele. Isimemo manje sibheke ekuzindleni kokuzinikela, uhlobo lomnikelo wangaphakathi lapho ungasazami nje ukulawula isimo sakho, ukuthuthukisa ukudlidliza kwakho, noma ukuthola ukucaca kwesinyathelo esilandelayo, kodwa ungena ekuthuleni ngoba ufisa ngempela ukuba nobukhona bukaNkulunkulu uqobo. Kukhona ububele kulolu shintsho obungazwakala cishe ngokushesha. Umzimba uyakubona. Ukuphefumula kuyakubona. Inhliziyo iyakubona. Lapho ukuzindla kuba kokuzinikela, ukuzama kuqala ukukhululeka. Isimo siya ngokuya sincipha ngemigomo. Uhlelo lwezinzwa luyeka ukuzizwa sengathi lucelwa ukuba lwenze impilo noma lukhiqize ingokomoya. Into ethambile ingena ekamelweni. Uhlala ngoba uthanda okungcwele ngokwanele ukuba ukunike isikhathi sakho. Uhlala ngoba umphefumulo wakho ufuna ukusondela kulokho okuphakade nokungokoqobo. Uhlala ngoba kukhona injabulo ethule ekuzenzeni utholakale koNgcwele ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuguqula konke ukuhlangana kube yimpumelelo.

Iningi lenu selichithe iminyaka lifunda imikhuba, lifunda izindlela, liqoqa izindlela, futhi liqonda ukuthi amasu ahlukene anamandla noma angokomoya asebenza kanjani. Kube nenani kulolo hambo, futhi kusize abaningi ukuvula iminyango emihle. Kodwa kufika isikhathi lapho ukugcizelela kakhulu indlela kungadala ibanga elincane kakhulu nokusondelana okufunayo. Ingqondo iba matasa ngokuthi ukwenza kahle yini. Ubuntu buqala ukulinganisa intuthuko. Umuntu uba matasa kancane ngomphumela. Konke lokho kudala ukuthungwa ngaphakathi kwensimu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi lokho kuthungwa kusebenza kakhulu kangangokuthi ukuthula okujulile kungahlala. Ukuzindla ngokuzinikela kususa okuningi kwalokhu. Kukubuyisela ekulula. Kuthi, “Woza njengoba unjalo. Letha ubuqotho bakho. Letha ukunaka kwakho. Letha ukuzimisela kwakho. Bese uvumela umusa wenze lokho okwenziwa umusa.”

Phakathi nale ndlela yePhasika, lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba sonke isikhathi sonyaka sicela ubuqotho obukhulu bangaphakathi kunokuphathwa okungokomoya okuyinkimbinkimbi. Umphefumulo awuceli ukuba ube mnandi. Ucela ukuthi utholakale. Okungcwele akuceli ubunzima. Ucela indawo. Ngakho-ke ukuhlala ngomthandazo kuba uhlobo lokuvumelana okungcwele. Uthi ngokuba khona kwakho, “Ngilapha. Ngize ukuhlangabezana nokuyiqiniso. Ngize ukuvumela imisinga ejulile ingithole. Ngize ngabunjwa kabusha ngaphakathi ngezindlela ingqondo yami engenakukwazi ukuzihlela ngokugcwele.” Kukhona ubuhle obukhulu kulokho. Kukhona impumuzo enkulu ekudluliseleni isidingo sokwenza lonke ulwazi.

Ukucindezela Umphefumulo, Ukuthula Kwangaphakathi, kanye Nesimangaliso Esithule Sokuzindla Okuqotho

Lokho abaningi kini abaqala ukukuthola ukuthi izinguquko zangaphakathi ezibaluleke kakhulu zivame ukwenzeka lapho ubuntu buyeka ukulandisa umzuzu ngamunye futhi umphefumulo uvunyelwe ukuziveza kumuntu ngokuqondile. Leso esinye sezimangaliso ezithule zokuzindla okuqotho. Ukulandisa kuqala ukuncipha. Ukuphawula kwangaphakathi okuqhubekayo kulahlekelwa igunya lawo. Ukuphoqeleka ukuhlola, ukumaka, ukulindela, nokuhumusha yonke intshukumo kancane kancane kuyaphumula. Njengoba lokho kwenzeka, ukunyathelisa okuhle kungaqala. Umphefumulo uxhumana ngezindlela ingqondo evamile engaqeqeshwanga ukuzibona ekuqaleni. Uxhumana ngezwi, isimo, ukwazi okuzwakalayo, ukulungiswa okuthule, ukuhlela kabusha kwangaphakathi, ukuqonda okuthambile, kanye nokulungiswa okucashile. Ukuzindla ngokuzinikela kudala izimo lapho lezo zokuxhumana ezinhle zingafika khona ngempela.

Abanye kini bazokuzwa lokhu njengokuthula okujulile. Abanye bazozwa izinyembezi ezithule zizwakala sengathi zithambile. Abanye bazoqaphela ukuthi kukhona okungaphakathi kubo okuye kwehla ngendlela enempilo. Abanye bazoqaphela ukuthi ngemva kokuhlala kulolu hlobo lokuthula okunenhlonipho, izinqumo ziba lula ngoba umsindo wangaphakathi awusagcwali kakhulu ensimini. Abanye bazobona nje ukuthi ubuhlobo babo nesikhathi buyashintsha ngesikhathi sokuzijwayeza, futhi imizuzu embalwa iqala ukuzizwa igcwele, ivulekile, futhi ivuselela ngezindlela ezazibonakala zingenakwenzeka. Ngayinye yalezi zinhlobo zesibusiso sayo. Ngayinye ibonisa ukuthi isidalwa sifunda ukuthola okwengeziwe ngokuba khona nokuncane ngomzamo.

Ngenxa yokuthi lesi sikhathi siyigugu kakhulu, iningi lenu licelwa ukuba linike ukuzindla indawo eqinile osukwini lwenu. Sikusho lokhu ngothando nangokuqondile, ngoba kunezifasitela empilweni lapho umphefumulo ungabekezelela ukunganaki, futhi kunezifasitela lapho isigqi esithembekile siba sibaluleke kakhulu. Lena ingenye yalezo zifasitela zokugcina. Insimu ivulekile. Inhliziyo iyavuleka kakhudlwana. Umsinga wePhasika usuvele uhamba. Okukusizayo ukuba uwubambe ngokugcwele isigqi. Isigqi sivumela umusa ukuthi uqoqeke. Isigqi sakha ukujwayelana nezinto ezingcwele. Isigqi sifundisa umzimba nengqondo ukuthi ubuyele kuphi. Isigqi senza impilo yakho yangaphakathi ithembeke kakhudlwana kuyo.

Ukuzindla Kwasekuseni, Ukuthula Kwakusihlwa, Nokukhetha Okungcwele Kunokuphoqelelwa

Ukunikeza ukuzindla indawo eqinile akusho ukuphoqa umzimba ukuba uzithibe kanzima noma ukuguqula ukuthula kube omunye umthwalo. Kusho ukuhlonipha isikhathi osibekiwe. Kusho ukuqaphela ukuthi kunezikhathi osukwini lwakho ezingezona ezomphefumulo kuqala, nokuziphatha kanjalo. Ukusa kunamandla kakhulu kulokhu, ngoba ingqondo ayikakahlakazeki ngokuphelele emhlabeni. Izikhathi zokuqala zokuvuka zibamba ubumsulwa obuyingqayizivele. Insimu ithambile. Usuku alukaqoqi umsindo walo. Uma uziletha kancane ekuthuleni lapho, uvumela okungcwele ukuthi kuthinte isidalwa ngaphambi kokuba eminye imibono eminingi ingene ngokushesha.

Ubusuku bungabusiswa ngendlela ehlukile. Ekupheleni kosuku, ukuzindla ngokuzinikela kuba uhlobo lokubuthana kwangaphakathi. Kusiza umphefumulo ukuthi ubuyise izingcezu zokunaka eziye zaphuma. Kuvumela isidalwa ukuthi sikhulule izinsalela zokuhlangana futhi sibuyele esimweni saso ngaphambi kokulala. Futhi kukhona okunye abaningi kini abakufundayo manje: isikhathi esinamandla kakhulu sokuhlala phansi ngokuvamile yisikhathi lapho uzizwa ungakhululekile khona. Ukunethezeka kunendawo yako, futhi kuwukuhlakanipha ukusebenzisa amathuba emvelo osukwini lwakho. Kodwa ukunethezeka kukodwa akukhi ukuguga ngokomoya.

Kunezikhathi lapho umhlaba wangaphandle unomsindo onamaginethi, lapho umzimba ufuna ukuqhubeka upheqa, uqhubeke ucwaninga, uqhubeke uxoxa, uqhubeke usabela, uqhubeke uhamba, uqhubeke wenza noma yini ngaphandle kokungena ekuthuleni. Lezo zikhathi zembula okuningi. Zikukhombisa ukuthi uhlelo lufinyelela kuphi lapho lufuna ukukhuthazwa, ukulawula, noma ukubaleka. Ukuhlala phansi, ngisho nangesikhashana, ngobuqotho bangempela, kuyisenzo esihle kakhulu sokuzinikela. Uthi, “Ngikhetha okungcwele kuqala ngisho nalapho umhlaba ubiza kakhulu. Ngikhetha ukuthintana kunokuphoqelelwa. Ngikhetha ukuba khona kunomfutho.” Lokho kukhetha kuba okwakhayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ukuhlala ngakunye okuqotho kufundisa wonke umuntu okubaluleke kakhulu. Ukubuya ngakunye kuqinisa indlela yokubuyela kuNkulunkulu.

Isigqi Esingokomoya, Ukuzijwayeza Okulula, kanye Namandla Angcwele Okusala

Isenzo ngasinye sokuthula sokuzinikela siba yintambo ekulukweni olukhulu, futhi kungakabiphi lolo lukwembo luqala ukukusekela ngezindlela obungeke wakha ngazo ngamandla wedwa. Ukuphila kuqala ukuzizwa kungahleliwe ngaphakathi. Kukhona ukuqhubeka okwengeziwe phakathi kolwazi lwakho olujulile kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kwansuku zonke. Umthandazo uqala ukuhlala ngaphansi kwemisebenzi yakho. Umusa uqala ukuhlala nawe isikhathi eside ngemva kokuvuka esitulweni noma esihlalweni. Umngcele phakathi kokuzindla nokuphila uyathamba, ngoba ikhwalithi yokukhulekela iqala ukuhamba nawe.

Esinye isizathu esenza ukuzindla ngokuzinikela kubaluleke kangaka njengamanje ukuthi kwenza insimu ibe lula ngokwemvelo. Abantu abaningi bazama ukujulisa impilo yabo engokomoya ngokungeza okwengeziwe, lapho ngokuvamile okudingeka kakhulu kuncane. Ukufaka okuncane. Umsindo omncane. Ukubeka eceleni okulinganiselwe ngokwesiko. Umzamo omncane. Ukuzihlola okuncane. Ukukhathazeka okuncane ngokuthi ngabe isipiliyoni siyinto exakile ngokwanele. Okungcwele akuhlali kwehla ngeziqhumane. Ngokuvamile kuza njengokufika okuthambile. Kuhlala lapho kunobubanzi khona. Kuyabonakala lapho isidalwa singagcwali kakhulu. Insimu ehlanzekile ingathola izinto ezicashile. Umkhuba olula uvame ukuvumela ukujula okukhulu.

Ngakho-ke ungathola ukuthi phakathi nalesi sigaba sePhasika, ukuzindla kwakho kufuna ukuba kukhulu kunangaphambili. Mhlawumbe kudingeka amagama ambalwa. Mhlawumbe imibono embalwa. Mhlawumbe okulindelwe kuncane. Mhlawumbe ukushintshashintsha okuncane phakathi kwesenzo esisodwa esingokomoya nesinye. Mhlawumbe ucelwa nje ukuthi uhlale phansi, uphefumule kancane, unikeze ukuzimisela kwakho, futhi uhlale. Ukuhlala kuyigama elingcwele kakhulu esikhathini esinjengalesi. Lisho ukuqina, ukubekezela, nokwethemba. Lithi awudingi ukuqhubeka uhamba ukuze kwenzeke ushintsho. Kukhona okungenzeka ngoba uhlale. Kukhona okungangena ngoba uhlale isikhathi eside ngokwanele. Kukhona okungaphiliswa ngoba awushiyanga leso sikhathi ngokushesha kakhulu.

Ukuphila Ukuzinikela, Izinkathi Zokomisa Ekuzindleni, Nokubuyisela Umkhuba Ngothando

Abantu abaningi bayakukhohlwa lokhu ngoba bacabanga ukuthi ukuzindla kuhloselwe ukukhiqiza umphumela osheshayo ongalinganiswa. Ukuzindla kokuzinikela kusebenza ngobuhlobo kanye nangomphumela. Kwakha ukujwayelana phakathi komuntu kanye nokuba khona kukaNkulunkulu. Kufundisa uhlelo lwakho ukuthi kunjani ukuphumula eduze noNkulunkulu. Kuvumela inhliziyo ukuba ifunde ijubane elihlukile. Kuvumela ingqondo ukuthi ithole kancane kancane ukuthi akudingeki igcwalise ukuthula ngakunye. Kuvumela umzimba ukuba ukhululeke kakhulu ekuhlonipheni. Izithelo zalobu budlelwano zivame ukubonakala kancane kancane futhi kahle. Umuntu uba bukhali kancane. Ukusabela kuyathamba. Inkulumo iba nomusa. Isikhathi siyahlakanipha. Isidingo sokuphoqelela siyancipha. Ukwethembana kuyakhula. Ukuqonda kuyahlanzeka. Okuningi kwalokhu kwenzeka cishe kungabonakali ekuqaleni, kodwa kushintsha lonke ikhwalithi yokuphila.

Esinye isibusiso somkhuba wokukhulekela ukuthi kusiza ekwelapheni ukuhlukana abaningi abakuzwayo phakathi kwempilo yabo engokomoya nomhlaba ojwayelekile. Uma ukuzindla kubhekwa njengendlela yokulungisa isimo sakho, kungahlala kuhlukaniswe. Uhlala phansi, uyathuthuka, uzizwa ungcono, bese ubuyela emhlabeni ungashintshile ngandlela thile. Ukuzinikela kusebenza ngendlela ehlukile. Kuthwala ubuhlobo. Futhi ubuhlobo bunendlela yokukulandela ungene ekhishini, emotweni, ebhokisini lokungenayo, engxoxweni yomndeni, ocingweni olunzima, emsebenzini wokuthula, esikhathini lapho ukungabekezeli okudala kwakuyoke kuthathe khona indawo. Ngenxa yokuthi ubulokhu ungcwele ngendlela yangempela, uqala ukuthwala lokho kusondelana ngendlela ehlukile. Impilo yakho yansuku zonke iba nomusa kakhulu.

Kwabaningi kini, le ndlela yePhasika yembula nokuthi ukuzindla sekuyinto evamile kuphi kunokuba kube yinto ephilayo. Umkhuba akuyona into embi ngokwawo. Isigqi esinempilo singaba usizo kakhulu. Kodwa noma yimuphi umkhuba ungalahlekelwa ubusha lapho inhliziyo ingasekho kuwo. Umzimba uhlala lapho isidalwa sihlala kwenye indawo. Amazwi ayakhulunywa, kodwa imvume yangaphakathi incane. Isimo siyaqhubeka, kodwa ububele buphelile. Uma uqaphela lokhu, kuphathe ngobumnene. Kuphathe njengesimemo sokuvuselela ubuhlobo. Okungcwele akulokothi kucasulwe ukwethembeka. Ungasho ngaphakathi, “Ngifuna lokhu kube ngokoqobo futhi. Ngifuna ukuhlala ngobuqotho obengeziwe. Ngifuna ukukhumbula ukuthi kungani ngize lapha.” Lawo maqiniso alula angavula kabusha lonke igumbi.

Kukhona nezinsuku lapho ukuzindla kuzozizwa komile, futhi lokho kungokwendlela. Ukuzinikela kukhanya kakhulu kulezo zikhathi. Lapho okuhlangenwe nakho kuzwakala kubanzi futhi kukuhle, kulula ukuhlala. Lapho ukuhlala kuzwakala kuthule ngendlela ingqondo ekubiza ngokuthi kungenalutho, ukuzinikela kuba yibhuloho elikuthwala. Uthando luhlala. Inhlonipho ihlala. Ukuzimisela kuhlala. Uhlala ngoba umhlangano ubalulekile, hhayi ngoba yonke imihlangano izwakala imangalisa. Ngale ndlela, ukuzinikela kuhlanza ubuhlobo. Kufundisa ukuhlala njalo. Kwenza umkhuba ungaxhomeki kakhulu emuzweni futhi usekelwe othandweni. Ezinye zezikhathi ezinamandla kakhulu empilweni yakho kungaba yilezo lapho cishe kungekho lutho olukhunjulwa ngaphandle olubonakala lwenzeka khona. Kodwa okuthile kuwe kwahlala kuyiqiniso. Okuthile kuwe kwazinikela ngokwethembeka. Okuthile kuwe kwakhetha ukusondela kunokuphazamiseka. Lezo zikhathi zinenani elikhulu elingokomoya. Zivuthisa inhliziyo. Zenza umuntu abe sesimweni esiqinile. Zijulisa isivumelwano sangaphakathi phakathi kwakho noMthombo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, leso sivumelwano siba ngesinye samandla amakhulu endleleni yakho.

Ngakho-ke phakathi naleli fasitela lePhasika, vumela ukuzindla kubuyiselwe ngothando. Makube yindawo yokunikela kunokuba kube ukuzilawula. Vumela umkhuba wakho ukhule uthule, ubanzi, futhi uhlonipheke kakhulu. Kunike ukunaka okungcono kakhulu lapho ungakwazi, futhi ukunike ubukhona bakho obuqotho ngisho nalapho uzizwa ungakulungele. Vikela izikhathi zokuhlangana ezingezomphefumulo. Hlala ngaphambi kokuba usuku lukuthathe. Hlala ngemva kokuba usuku lukuchithe. Hlala lapho umhlaba unomsindo futhi uhlelo lwakho lufuna ukufinyelela ngaphandle. Hlala lapho umusa uzizwa useduze nalapho uzizwa uthule. Hlala ngokuqonda ukuthi yonke impendulo eqotho ivula impilo yangaphakathi kancane. Njengoba wenza lokhu, okungcwele kuthola indawo yokuhlala enamandla ngaphakathi kwakho. Umphefumulo uthola indawo eyengeziwe yokuzigqaja ngomuntu. Uhlelo lwezinzwa lufunda ukuthi ukuthula kungaphephile. Inhliziyo ikhula isondelene kakhulu noNkulunkulu. Ingqondo ithola impumuzo yokuvuma. Konke okuphilayo kuyancipha futhi kuhlalwe kalula emseni. Bese ukuzindla akuseyona into oyenzayo ukuze uye kwenye indawo. Kuba yigumbi elingcwele ongena kulo ngoba umuntu wakho ojulile uyazi ukuthi impilo yangempela iqala lapho, futhi kusukela lapho ingabusisa konke okulandelayo.

Ukuziphatha OkukaKristu, Ukuhlanganiswa Kwansuku Zonke, Nokwakheka Okungcwele Kwempilo Yansuku Zonke

Amakhodi KaKristu Empilweni Yansuku Zonke, Ukuhlanganiswa Okungokomoya, Nokuziphatha Okungcwele Komuntu

Ngesikhathi le migudu yamandla isiqalile ukuhlala ngokujulile ngaphakathi kuwe, into engokwemvelo iqala ukwenzeka empilweni yakho yansuku zonke, futhi yilapho ubuhle bangempela benqubo buqala ukubonakala khona, ngoba lokho okwamukelwe ngaphakathi kuqala ukwakheka ngaphandle ngendlela ohamba ngayo, indlela ophendula ngayo impilo, indlela ozibamba ngayo phakathi nezikhathi ezivamile, nendlela ubukhona bakho obuqala ngayo ukuthwala ikhwalithi ehlukile ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuyimemezela. Yilapho amakhodi kaKristu eqala khona ukuzibonakalisa ngendlela ephilayo yomuntu. Abonakala ngokuziphatha. Aba ngokoqobo ngethoni. Aba ngokoqobo ngokuthungwa kwezinqumo zakho.

Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukuhlanganiswa okungokomoya kuyinto ezohlala izwakala iphakeme, iphakeme, noma ngokusobala iyimfihlakalo, kodwa izimpawu ezijulile zivame ukuba seduze kakhulu kunalokho. Ziqala ngokuvela ezindaweni ezincane. Ziqala ngokuvela lapho ukhathele futhi zisakhetha ubumnene. Zivele lapho uphuthuma futhi zisakhetha ukucaca. Zivele lapho into endala kuwe yayingasabela ngokushesha, futhi esikhundleni salokho kuba nokuma, ukuphefumula, kanye nokusabela okuhlakaniphile okufika kalula ngendlela emangalisayo. Lezi zikhathi zibaluleke kakhulu. Zibonisa ukuthi okungcwele akusahlali egumbini lokuzindla kuphela. Kungena egazini lempilo yansuku zonke. Kuba umlingiswa. Kuba umkhathi. Kuba yindlela ophila ngayo.

Enye yezindlela ezicacile zalokhu iqala ngenkulumo. Njengoba iphethini kaChristed igxila ngokugcwele, amazwi akho aqala ukuba nethoni ehlanzekile. Uba nokuqonda okwengeziwe ngalokho okwenziwa yinkulumo. Uba nozwela kakhulu esindweni solimi, isiqondiso salo, insalela eshiyayo, kanye nohlobo lwensimu oluyidalayo nxazonke zakho naphakathi kwabanye. Ukuhlakanipha okuthule kuqala ukuqondisa ulimi. Akukho sifiso esincane sokuchaza ngokweqile, ukudonsela okuncane ekubukhali, isifiso esincane sokukhuluma okuxinene noma okunganaki. Amagama aqala ukufika enenhloso eyengeziwe, umusa owengeziwe, iqiniso elengeziwe, kanye nokuzibamba okwengeziwe lapho kudingeka ukuzibamba khona. Lokhu akukwenzi ube mncane. Kukwenza ube neqiniso kakhulu. Kwenza inkulumo yakho ithembeke kakhulu. Kunikeza izwi lakho uhlobo lokuqondana kwangaphakathi abantu abangakuzwa ngisho noma bengenalo ulimi lokuthi kungani luzwakala luhlukile.

Ukusabela Okuhamba Kancane, Isisusa Esicacile, kanye Nemfundo Ethambile Yobuntu Bomuntu

Ukusabela kwakho kuzoqala nokushintsha ngendlela enamandla. Isimiso sezinzwa somuntu sisabhalisa impilo, vele. Usabona ingcindezi, ukungezwani, ukuphazamiseka, ukungaqondani, kanye nezikhathi zokungqubuzana. Kodwa isikhala esibanzi siqala ukuvula phakathi kokuhlangenwe nakho kanye nempendulo. Kuleyo ndawo, umusa unendawo yokungena. Kuleyo ndawo, umphefumulo ungaqondisa umzuzu esikhundleni sendlela endala yokuphuthuma ukuze uthathe izintambo. Lokhu kuyishintsho elibaluleke kakhulu. Ukusabela okuhamba kancane akusho ukuba khona okubuthakathaka. Kwembula isidalwa esingasaphoqelekile ukunikela umzuzu kuyo yonke imizwa edlulayo. Kwembula umuntu ofunda ukuhlala ehlalwe yibo. Kwembula ukuvuthwa. Kwembula ukuthula okunezimpande.

Isisusa siyacaca futhi. Iningi lenu lizoqala ukuqaphela ukuthi izizathu zenu zokukhuluma, ukusiza, ukuthumela, ukufinyelela, ukuhoxa, ukubandakanya, ukudala, noma ukuphendula ziba sobala kakhulu kini. Lokhu kusobala kungenye yezipho ezinhle kakhulu ezilethwa yinsimu kaKrestu. Uqala ukubona lapho amandla akho egeleza othandweni, ebuqothweni, enkonzweni yangempela, kanye nasenhloso ehlanzekile. Uphinde uqaphele lapho kukhona into exubile kakhulu, mhlawumbe isidingo sokuqinisekiswa, isifiso esicashile sokulawula ukuqonda, isifiso sokusindisa ukuze uzizwe uphephile, noma ukuthambekela kokukhuluma ngaphambi kokuba ukucaca kwangaphakathi kufike ngokugcwele. Isipho lapha ukuthi uboniswa lezi zinto ngobubele obukhulu kunokwahlulela. Amakhodi awamhlazisi umuntu. Ayafundisa. Ayayithambisa. Ayayimema ekuthembekeni okukhulu kuze kube yilapho isisusa ngokwaso siba mnene, sicacile, futhi sinokuthula kakhudlwana.

Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezenza ukuzibonisa okumangalisayo kuqale ukulahlekelwa ukukhanga njengoba umsebenzi wePhasika ujula. Ukwaneliseka okuthule kuqala ukuthatha indawo yesidingo sokuba ngokomoya ngokubonakalayo. Isidalwa siba nesithakazelo esikhulu ekuboniseni iqiniso kunokubonakala sixhumene nalo. Ukujula kuqala ukuzizwa kunondla kakhulu kunombono. Ubulula buqala ukuzizwa buhle kakhulu kunokuqina. Umphefumulo ukhula waneliseke ngokukhanya empilweni evamile ngezindlela ezicashile, ezihlanzekile, nezizinzile. Lokho kushintsha kuyisibonakaliso sokuvuthwa kwangempela. Lapho impilo yangaphakathi iba qotho kakhulu, isidingo sokuziveza njalo njengoba uvukile siqala ukuthamba, futhi okuvelayo esikhundleni salokho ubuqotho bemvelo.

Ingxoxo Engcwele, Ukuzibamba KukaKristu, Nesibusiso Sesimo Esikuzungezile

Kusukela lapho, insimu kaChristed iqala ukuziveza ngokusebenzisana okuvamile. Ingxoxo ekhaya ithwala isineke esengeziwe. Ukuxoxisana okwakungaphenduka ukucasuka manje kuletha ukulalela okwengeziwe. Umzuzu wokungaqondi kahle uba yithuba lokuzinza esikhundleni sokukhuphuka. Umuntu oseduze kwakho uzizwa ephephile ngokwanele ukuhlambulula ngoba ithoni yakho ayisangezi ubukhali kulokho asevele ekuphethe. Lona umsebenzi ongcwele, yize uvame ukubukeka ulula kakhulu ebusweni. Umhlaba uguqulwa yilezi zikhathi. Imindeni iguqulwa yilezi zikhathi. Ubudlelwano buphinde bufane nalezi zikhathi. Insimu ehlangene ibusiswa yilezi zikhathi kakhulu kunalokho abaningi abakuqaphelayo.

Ungase uthole nokuthi ukuzibamba kushintsha ubuhle. Ukuzibamba kuvame ukungaqondwa kahle emhlabeni wakho, kodwa ukuzibamba kukaKristu kugcwele ukuhlakanipha. Kuyazi ukuthi ukuthula kuvikela nini uthando. Kuyazi ukuthi lapho ukuthula kuletha isibusiso esikhulu kunokulungiswa okusheshayo. Kuyazi ukuthi lapho iqiniso lidinga isitsha esithambile. Kuyazi ukuthi lapho ukuhoxa ekuxoxisaneni okushisayo kuyisenzo samandla angokomoya kunokuhoxa. Kuyazi ukuthi ungalondoloza kanjani ukuthula ngaphandle kokuba amanga. Kuyazi ukuthi ungahlala kanjani usekelwe esihloniphweni ngenkathi uhlala uvulekile. Lolu hlobo lokuzibamba alucindezeli ingqikithi yakho. Kulungisa ukwethulwa kwakho. Kuletha isikhathi ngokuvumelana nothando.

Enye indlela le nkulumo ebonakala ngayo ikhono lakho lokubusisa lokho okwakungadonsela ingxabano kuwe. Lapho abanye bekhathazekile, ungase uzizwe unesifiso esinamandla sokuletha ukuthula esikhundleni sokwengeza umlilo owengeziwe. Lapho abantu bexakeke ekukhonondeni, insimu yakho ingase iqale ukwethula ukucaca ngaphandle kobudlova. Lapho igumbi lingazinzile, ukuqina kwakho kungaba amandla okuhlela athule. Awudingi ukuba ngumsindisi wanoma ubani ukuze wenze lokhu. Uhlala nje usebuhlotsheni obuqinile nesikhungo sakho, futhi kusukela kuleyo ndawo ukuba khona kwakho kuqala ukubusisa isimo esikuzungezile. Isibusiso singafika ngamazwi ambalwa aqaphile, ngokulalela okujulile, ngobumnene ebusweni bakho nasezwini lakho, ngokuhlakanipha ngesikhathi, noma nje ngokwenqaba ukuvumela amandla akho adonswe ekukhathazekeni.

Amandla Asekhaya, Ukuxhumana Kwedijithali, Nokuthwala Ubukhona Obungcwele Ezindaweni Ezivamile

Yilapho iningi lenu lilungiselelwa khona ukuthwala ikhwalithi kaKrestu ezindaweni ezilula kakhulu zomhlaba. Ikhaya lingenye yezindawo zokuqala lokhu okubalulekile. Ikhaya ligcina izinsalela, umkhuba, inkumbulo, iphethini, kanye nokuphindaphinda. Lapho umuntu oyedwa ekhaya eqala ukuveza ukuvumelana okukhulu, ububele obukhulu, ukwethembeka okukhulu, kanye nokuqina kwangaphakathi okukhulu, wonke umoya ungaqala ukushintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ushintsho lungase lube luncane ekuqaleni. Amakamelo azizwa ethambile. Inkulumo iba nomusa. Izingibe ezindala zilahlekelwa amandla. Iqiniso eliningi liyakhulunywa. Ukuthula okwengeziwe kuba nokwenzeka. Okungcwele kuqala ukuhlala lapho kalula ngoba othile usezimisele kakhulu ukukuthwala ngokuziphatha kwakhe okuvamile.

Kunjalo nasezindaweni zakho zokuxhumana, ngisho nalezo zesimanje. Ibhokisi lokungenayo, intambo yombhalo, ukushintshana kwe-inthanethi, umlayezo othunyelwa ekupheleni kosuku olude, lezi nazo ziba izindawo lapho ukuziphatha kukaKrestu kungaphila khona. Kungaphila emushweni okhetha ukungawuthumeli. Kungaphila endleleni obuyekeza ngayo impendulo ukuze kube nokucophelela okwengeziwe. Kungaphila esinqumweni sokulinda kuze kube yilapho insimu yakho icacile ngaphambi kokuphendula. Kungaphila ngesibindi sokuba nomusa kanyekanye. Kungaphila ngendlela ukuxhumana kwakho okuyeka ngayo ukudlulisa ingcindezi efihliwe bese kuqala ukudlulisa iqiniso ngomusa. Abaningi bayakukhohlwa ukuthi lokhu kungokomoya kangakanani, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu. Okungcwele akukona okwemicamelo yokuzindla nezindawo zemikhosi kuphela. Kungokwalapho ingqondo yakho isebenza khona.

Ukubonakaliswa KukaKristu Empilweni Ejwayelekile, Ukuba Khona Okungcwele, Nendawo Engcwele Ehambayo

Ukubonakaliswa Kwansuku Zonke, Ukuba Khona Ngenhloso, Nokuphila Ukuthula Ezindaweni Ezihlanganyelwe

Ngisho nomugqa wokudla, indawo yokupaka, ikhawunta yesitolo, iphasishi, umkhawulo wendawo yokusebenza, kanye nokuxhumana nomuntu ongamazi kungaba yizindawo zokubonakalisa - funa izindawo zokuletha la mandla ekuzibonakaliseni kwakho futhi ube nenhloso, ungumuntu othanda izinkanyezi! Lezi yizindawo lapho uthola khona ukuthi ukuthula kuyaphilwa yini ngaphakathi kuwe. Lezi yizindawo lapho umphefumulo uqala ukufundisa khona umuntu ukuthi angahlala kanjani evulekile, ezinzile, futhi engaphazamisekile ngenkathi ehamba ezindaweni ezihlanganyelwe. Ungase uqaphele ukuthi ukuba khona kwakho kuthinta abantu kakhulu kunangaphambili. Umusa omfushane ufika ngokujulile. Ithoni ezolile ishintsha ijubane lokushintshana. Isenzo esilula sokufudumala sithwala isisindo esingavamile. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi amakhodi asuka ekwamukelweni kwangaphakathi aye ekudluliseleni kwangaphandle. Aqala ukubusisa ngawe.

Izingxoxo ezithile ezazingakushiye ukhathele nazo zingase ziqale ukuzizwa zihlukile. Ukuncipha kuvame ukwenzeka lapho uhlelo lungakafundi ukuthi luzihlalele kanjani ngenkathi lulalele. Izidalwa eziningi ezizwelayo ziyahlangana ngokushesha kakhulu, ziqinise kakhulu, noma zizame ukuphatha amandla okushintshana konke. Indlela yobuKristu inikeza enye indlela. Ikufundisa ukuhlala uxhumene nesihlalo sakho sangaphakathi ngenkathi uhlala ukhona komunye umuntu. Ikufundisa ukulalela ngokucophelela ngaphandle kokushiya isikhungo sakho. Ikufundisa ukuzwa lokho okwabelwana ngakho ngaphandle kokufaka konke emzimbeni nasengqondweni yakho. Lolu ushintsho olukhulu kubantu abaningi abanezinkanyezi kanye nemiphefumulo ezwelana kakhulu. Yenza ubudlelwano bube buzinzile. Yenza uthando lube luqinile. Ivumela ububele ukuba buhlale bufudumele ngaphandle kokuqeda amandla.

Okuqala ukuthuthuka lapha yilokho esingakubiza ngokuthi indawo engcwele enyakazayo. Uba yindawo engcwele ephilayo ngenkathi uhamba emhlabeni. Ukuthula kwakho kuhamba nawe. Umthandazo wakho uhamba nawe. Ukubambisana kwakho kwangaphakathi kuhlala nawe kaningi. Lokhu akusho ukuthi nsuku zonke kuzwakala kulula. Kusho ukuthi isikhungo sakho siba lula ukukuthwala. Kusho ukuthi okungcwele akuseyona into oyivakashelayo ngezikhathi ezikhethekile kuphela. Kuqala ukuhlala nawe njengoba uhamba. Ufunda ukuhamba ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ikhwalithi yakho yangaphakathi. Ufunda ukuthi ungahlanganyela kanjani ngaphandle kokuchitha yonke insimu yakho ngaphandle. Ufunda ukuthi ungamukela kanjani ngaphandle kokuba ngumuntu futhi ungcwele ngesikhathi esisodwa.

Ukulalela OkukaKristu, Inkulumo Enokuthula, Nesibusiso Sokuziphatha Komuntu

Ukuhamba ngale ndlela kushintsha nekhwalithi yokulalela. Ukulalela kuya ngokuya kuncipha ukulamba, kunciphisa ukusabela, kunciphisa ukuhlasela. Kuthola indawo. Kuthola ukuqina. Kuthola uzwela olusekelwe ebukhoneni beqiniso. Abanye abantu bazozizwa bamukelekile kakhulu kuwe ngoba ukulalela kwakho akusasithwali isifiso esifihliwe sokulungisa, ukusheshisa, ukuphazamisa, ukuqondisa kabusha, noma ukufaka ngobuqili. Kuthwala imfudumalo. Kuthwala ubufakazi. Kuthwala umyalezo othule wokuthi isikhathi sinendawo eyanele yokuthi iqiniso livele. Lolu hlobo lokulalela luyaphulukisa ngokujulile. Luvumela abanye ukuba baphefumule. Lubenza bazizwe ngokucacile. Luvumela ukuba khona kwakho kube yindawo lapho ubuqotho bungavela khona.

Inkulumo iba nokuthula ngokwengeziwe ngomqondo ogcwele. Inkulumo enokuthula ayisho inkulumo engacacile. Akusho ukugwema iqiniso. Kusho iqiniso elithwalwa ngendlela engalimazi insimu ngokungadingekile. Kusho amazwi akhethwe ngokucophelela kangangokuthi awashiyi ubudlova obunamandla. Kusho izwi lomuntu eliba ithuluzi elithembekile lesibusiso. Kukhona ubuhle obukhulu kumuntu okhulumayo oletha ukucaca ngaphandle kokulimaza, ukwethembeka ngaphandle konya, isiqondiso ngaphandle kokuphakama, nokuqina ngaphandle kokwedelela. Lokhu kungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuthuthukisa indlela kaKrestu empilweni yomuntu.

Ngalesi sikhathi ohambweni, kuba sobala ukuthi umsebenzi wePhasika ugcwaliseka ngendlela efanayo naleyo eyenzeka ekwamukelweni kwangaphakathi. Okungcwele kuyehla, yebo, bese umuntu ecelwa ukuba akuthwale. Umthandazo uvula igumbi, bese impilo iba yindawo lapho okuvuliwe kuhlalwa khona. Ukuthula kuyathambisa uhlelo, bese ukuxhumana okulandelayo kwembula ukuthi ukuthula kungahlala kusebenza yini lapho. Amakhodi angena njengomusa, bese eqala ukucela ukubonakaliswa ngobuntu. Yingakho usuku olujwayelekile luba lubaluleke kangaka. Luba yindawo yokufakazela ubuqotho, ingadi lapho okutshalwe ngaphakathi kuqala ukukhula ngezindlela ezibonakalayo.

Isimo Sezulu, Ukuziphatha, Nokudluliselwa Komusa Okuthule Ngokuba Khona

Futhi njengoba ikhula, isimo esikuzungezile siyashintsha. Abantu bangase bangazi njalo ukuthi kungani bezizwa bezolile lapho ukhona. Igumbi lingathamba ngoba nje ungene ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa. Ukuxoxisana okunzima kungaxazululeka ngobumnene ngoba uhlale ugxile othandweni. Ingane ingazizwa iphephile. Umngane angazizwa ebonwa kakhulu. Umuntu ongamazi angazizwa enomusa ongalindelekile. Iphethini endala ingalahlekelwa amandla ngoba awusayiphakeli ngamandla afanayo. Lena indlela yokwenza izinto ngendlela efanele esebenza ngayo. Ibusisa ngokuba khona. Ihlela kabusha ngokuziphatha. Idlulisela ngezwi, isikhathi, kanye nobuqotho obuthule bempilo evumelana kakhulu ngaphakathi.

Ngakho-ke, vumela amakhodi kaKrestu aqhubeke nokuhamba ezintweni ezincane. Mawacwenge amazwi akho. Mawanciphise ukusabela kwakho kube ukuhlakanipha. Mawenze izisusa zakho zihlanzeke futhi uthando lwakho lube sobala kakhudlwana. Mawalethe ubumnene ekhaya lakho, imiyalezo yakho, imisebenzi yakho, umsebenzi wakho, ubudlelwano bakho, kanye nezindawo ezilula lapho kuphila khona ingxenye enkulu yokuphila kwasemhlabeni. Mawakufundise ukuthi ungaba kanjani indawo engcwele, uphathe ukuthula ngaphandle kokucindezeleka, ulalele ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa nguwe, ukhulume ngomusa, futhi uhambe emhlabeni njengomuntu ompilo yakhe yangaphakathi ibe yisibusiso emoyeni ozungezile. Yile ndlela engcwele ebonakala ngayo ngokomuntu. Yile ndlela iPhasika eqhubeka ngayo ngale kosuku olungcwele ngokwalo. Yile ndlela ukwehla komusa okuba ngayo ukuguqulwa okuthule kwempilo evamile.

Futhi manje, bathandekayo, sesifikile enkambisweni ephilayo yaleli fasitela lePhasika, ngoba yonke inkathi engcwele iphethe iphuzu lokubamba iqhaza okuqondile, umzuzu lapho imfundiso ingaseyona into oyihloniphayo kusukela ekuqapheleni kwakho futhi esikhundleni salokho iba yinto ongenela kuyo ngokuba khona kwakho konke, ubuqotho bakho bonke, kanye nokuzimisela kwakho konke ukuguqulwa yiyo. Lesi yiso leso sikhathi. Lena yingxenye lapho igumbi elingaphakathi livulwa khona ngendlela eqondile, lapho ukuhlanjululwa obekukulungiselela kuba ukwamukelwa kwangempela, futhi lapho umfudlana kaKristic ungamukelwa njengethonya langempela empilweni yakho kunokuba nje njengombono owuphethe ngengqondo.

Umkhuba Wokungcwelisa IPhasika, Ubulula Obungcwele, Nokuhlanganyela Okuqondile Nomusa

Umsebenzi omningi ongokomoya uba muhle kakhulu uma usondela kalula. Abantu bathambekele ekwenzeni kube nzima lokho umphefumulo okuqaphelayo ngokushesha. Ingqondo ivame ukukholelwa ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho okungcwele kakhulu kumelwe kube okuyinkimbinkimbi, okungajwayelekile, okumangalisayo kakhulu, noma okunzima ukukufinyelela. Umphefumulo uyazi okuhlukile. Umphefumulo uyazi ukuthi umusa ungena ngobumnene lapho kukhona ubuqotho, ukuhleleka, ububele, kanye nendawo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukugcotshwa kwePhasika esikunikezayo kuhloswe ukuba kube lula ngokwanele ukungena ngokugcwele, futhi kube ngcwele ngokwanele ukuvula indlela yangempela yokuthi iphethini yobuKrestu iqale ukuhlala ngaphakathi komuntu.

Khetha isikhathi sokuthula uma ukwazi, futhi uma kungenzeka sivumele ngaphambi kokuba usuku luqoqe ngokugcwele amandla akuzungezile. Ukukhanya kwasekuseni kunekhwalithi emnandi kakhulu yalo msebenzi. Ukukhanya kwasekuseni kuphethe uhlobo oluthile lobumsulwa. Umoya awukaqiniswa yimisebenzi eminingi yabantu. Uhlelo lwakho luvame ukuba luthambile kunalo, aluxinene kakhulu, alunangqondo, futhi luyakwazi ukuzwa okucashile. Kodwa okungcwele akukwenqabi uma impilo ivumela elinye ihora. Isihluthulelo sangempela yinhloso yakho. Umnyango wangempela ukuzimisela kwakho ukufika ngaphakathi nangokugcwele.

Zilungiselele indawo encane. Awudingi okuningi. Ikhandlela elilodwa, noma ukukhanya okukodwa okuthambile, kwanele. Ingilazi eyodwa noma isitsha samanzi ahlanzekile kwanele. Isihlalo esisodwa, umcamelo owodwa, ikona elilodwa legumbi lapho ungahlala khona ungaphazanyiswa isikhashana kwanele. Lokhu makukhumbuze okuthile okubalulekile: ubungcwele abuxhomekile ekudluleleni ngokweqile. Kuxhomeke ekuhlonipheni. Uma uqoqa lezi zinto ezimbalwa ezilula ngokunaka kothando, wonke umoya uqala ukushintsha. Umzimba uyaqonda ukuthi kukhona okuhlukile okwenzekayo. Inhliziyo iyaqonda ukuthi imenywa ohlelweni oluthule. Ingqondo iqala ukuqaphela ukuthi ingena endaweni lapho ingadingi ukuthwala konke.

Ukuvuselelwa Kokungcweliswa KwePhasika, Ukusakaza Kwe-Pearl-Gold Kristic, Nomusa Ophilayo Kumuntu

Isimo Esingcwele, Ukufika Kwangaphakathi, Nokuvulwa Komkhumbi Owamukelayo

Uma usuhleli phansi, vumela ukuma kwakho kuqonde kodwa kube mnene. Asikho isidingo sokuqina. Asikho isidingo sokucindezeleka. Hlala njengomuntu okhona futhi ozimisele. Vumela izinyawo zakho ziphumule phansi noma emhlabathini uma lokho kutholakala kuwe. Vumela izandla zakho ziphumule zivulekile emathangeni akho, izintende zibheke phezulu. Kukhona ukuhlakanipha kulesi simo. Izintende ezivulekile ziphethe ulimi oludala umphefumulo olukhumbula kahle. Izintende ezivulekile zithi, “Ngizimisele ukwamukela.” Izintende ezivulekile zithi, “Angibambi.” Izintende ezivulekile zithi, “Angifiki lapha ukuzolawula konke ukuhlangana.” Umzimba uqala ukukhuluma lowo mthandazo ngaphambi kokuba ingqondo yakhe ngisho namagama.

Hlala lapho imizuzwana embalwa ngaphambi kokwenza noma yini enye. Zivumele ufike nje. Ubunzima obuningi abantu ababhekana nabo emisebenzini engcwele buvela ekuzameni ukungena endaweni engcwele ngaphambi kokuba bangene ngempela egumbini lokuphila kwabo. Ukufika kubalulekile. Vumela ukuphefumula kwakho kuhlale ngesigqi sako semvelo. Vumela usuku lukhulule imicabango yakho. Zivumele uqaphele igumbi, ukuthula, ukukhanya, amanzi, ukuba khona kobuntu bakho obuhlezi lapho ngobuqotho. Sekukhona okuphulukisayo kulokhu. Uhlelo oluhlakazekile luqala ukuqoqana. Insimu esheshayo iqala ukuthamba. Umhlaba wangaphakathi uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi unikezwe umzuzu wokunaka okucacile nothando.

Ungabheka ikhandlela noma ukukhanya kancane isikhashana uma lokho kuzwakala kulungile kuwe. Vumela amehlo aphumule kunokuba acindezeleke. Vumela ilangabi elithambile noma ukukhanya okuthambile kube yisikhumbuzo sobuhlakani obungcwele obumemayo ebuhlotsheni obuseduze nempilo yakho yomuntu. Khona-ke, uma isikhathi sizwakala silungile, vala amehlo akho kancane. Akukho ukushesha. Ukunyakaza kwangaphakathi akudingi mandla. Kuphendula kahle ebumnene.

Umnikelo Wangaphakathi, Imvume Yomphefumulo, Nokwamukela Iphethini Elimsulwa LamaKristu

Uma amehlo akho esevaliwe, qala ngomnikelo olula wangaphakathi. Akudingeki uwuphinde kaningi. Umnikelo owodwa weqiniso wanele uma ukhulunywa ngokujulile. Zitshele ngaphakathi kwakho, buthule nangokucacile, “Mthombo othandekayo, ngcwelisa lesi sitsha seqiniso. Vumela kuphela iphethini elimsulwa likaKrestu lingene futhi lihlale. Vumela indlu yami yangaphakathi ilungiswe.” Bese umisa isikhashana. Vumela lawo mazwi adlule ezikhaleni ezingaphakathi kuwe. Mawathathe indawo yawo. Vumela umzimba uwazwe. Vumela insimu yemizwa iwazwe. Vumela izendlalelo ezijulile zobuntu bakho zazi ukuthi kukhona okuqotho okukhulunywe ngakho.

Lesi sikhathi sokukhuluma ngaphakathi sibaluleke kakhulu ngoba sibeka konke ukusebenza ngaphakathi kwensimu yemvume. Umphefumulo uphendula kahle kakhulu emvumelweni. Umusa awudingi ukuphelela kwakho. Uyakwazisa ukuzimisela kwakho. Uma ukhuluma ngale ndlela, uvula umuntu ohlelweni olungcwele kakhulu. Uthi usukulungele iqiniso lithathe indawo ephakathi. Uthi usukulungele impilo yakho ukuthintwa yilokho okuhle, okuhlanzekile, okuhlakaniphile, nokunothando kakhudlwana. Uthi uzimisele ukuthonywa okungcwele ngezindlela ezizofinyelela ngale kokuzindla ngokwako futhi ziqale ukubumba indlela ophila ngayo.

Manje vumela umcabango, noma ulwazi lwangaphakathi, luhileleke ngendlela emnene kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwakho, ngale kophahla, ngale kwesibhakabhaka, ngale komkhathi obonakalayo womhlaba wakho, qaphela ilanga elikhulu lobuhlakani begolide. Ungalenzi libe lukhuni. Ungalenzi libe lukhuni. Malifudumale, libe namandla, licace, futhi libe nomusa ongenakulinganiswa. Liphethe ubumsulwa obungahlaseli. Liphethe igunya elingachobozi. Likhipha ukuhleleka kwaphezulu ngobumnene bento eyazi kahle ukuthi kungakanani okungatholwa ngesikhathi esisodwa.

Ukusebenza Kokukhanya Kweparele-Igolide, Isibusiso Somqhele, Nokubonakaliswa Okungcwele Ngomphimbo

Bheka, zwa, noma umane wazi ukuthi kusukela kuleli langa legolide elinjengeparele umfudlana omuhle nolinganisiwe uqala ukwehla uqonde kuwe. Awusheshi. Awugcwali uhlelo. Ufika ngokuhlakanipha. Abaningi kini bazoqonda ngokushesha ukuthi kungani lokhu kubalulekile. Okungcwele kuyazi ukuthi kungazihambela kanjani. Umusa awudingi ukufakazela amandla awo. Uhamba ngendlela ebusisa isitsha kunokuba usinqobe. Ngakho-ke makwehle lo mfulana omncane ngokuhlakanipha okuzolile nokuhle.

Okokuqala, makufike emqheleni. Lapha kubusisa ukuqonda. Lapha kuthinta amandla okuqonda, ukuhumusha, nokwamukela ngawo ukuphila. Awudingi ukwenza noma yini yenzeke. Hlala uthule. Vumela. Vumela isibusiso sihlale lapho imizuzwana embalwa. Incazelo ejulile yalesi sigaba ilula: indlela yakho yokubona inikezwa iqiniso. Ukuqonda kwakho kumenyelwa ekuhlanzekeni okukhulu. Ukubona kwakho okungokomoya kucelwa ukuba ube ngaphansi komusa wokucaca kwaphezulu.

Bese uvumela umfudlana uye emphinjeni. Lapha ubusisa ukuvezwa. Lapha kuthinta indawo lapho impilo yakho yangaphakathi idluliselwa khona emazwini, ekukhetheni, ezwini, nasekuxhumaneni. Misa futhi. Nika lesi sikhathi. Ukuvezwa kungenye yamandla anamandla kakhulu empilweni yomuntu. Ngokubonakala ubusisa, udala, uqondisa, uphulukisa, ubumba, futhi udlulise. Ngakho-ke vumela umsinga wegolide eliyiparele uhlale emphinjeni uze uzizwe sengathi isikhathi sesiphelile ngokwemvelo. Ngisho noma uzizwa uncane kakhulu, kukhona okunenjongo okusaqhubeka. Lesi sigaba sinikeza izwi lakho endaweni engcwele. Sibeka inkulumo yakho, isikhathi sakho, kanye nokuxhumana kwakho ngaphansi kokunakekelwa kwengcwele.

Inhloso Yenhliziyo, Ukuqondanisa Intando, Nokuthula Ngemva Komthandazo

Okulandelayo, vumela umfudlana wehlele esifubeni. Leli iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu ekusebenzeni, futhi kwabaningi kini lizoba nencazelo enkulu, ngoba yilapho inhloso ibusiswa khona. Isifuba siyisihlalo sezinto eziningi empilweni yakho yomuntu. Yilapho ukulangazelela kuvame ukuzwakala khona, lapho usizi luvame ukuba khona, lapho uthando lujula khona, lapho umthandazo uvula khona, lapho isisusa siba khona ngokwethembeka, nalapho ukuzinikela kuba ngokoqobo khona. Njengoba umsinga wegolide leparele ungena lapha, vumela uthule kakhulu. Akukho okunye okudingekayo ngaphandle kokuba khona. Akukho okunye okudingekayo ngaphandle kwemvume. Isifuba masibe yindawo yokwamukela ukuhleleka kwaphezulu. Izinhloso zakho mazigezwe kulokhu kuhlakanipha okuhle. Vumela umphefumulo ufinyelele kulesi sikhala ngokugcwele. Vumela okuxubile kuthuliswe. Vumela okusheshisiwe kuthambe. Vumela okuyiqiniso kuqiniswe.

Ukusuka lapho, vumela ukukhanya kungene ensimini yelanga, kuleyo ndawo yentando, ukunyakaza, isiqondiso, kanye namandla omuntu siqu. Lesi sigaba sihle kakhulu ngoba simema intando yakho yomuntu ekubambisaneni okungcwele. Abantu abaningi baphethe intando esebenze kanzima kakhulu ukuze iphile, iphathe, ihlele, iqondise, ivikele, futhi ifeze. Kube nothando kulowo mzamo, futhi kuye kwaba nokucindezeleka kaningi. Njengoba umfula wegolide eliyiparele uthinta le ndawo, intando imenywa ebuhlotsheni obusha nomusa. Ayisulwa. Iyabusiswa. Ifundiswa ukuthi ungakhonza kanjani umphefumulo ngokuthula okukhulu. Ifundiswa ukuthi ungahamba kanjani ngokuvumelana nomthandazo kunokuba udlule kuwo.

Uma umfudlana usufikile kulezi zikhungo, hlala uthule. Le ngxenye ibalulekile. Melana nesifiso sokwengeza amanye amagama. Melana nokuthambekela kokuhlola okuhlangenwe nakho ngokushesha kakhulu ngengqondo. Phumula ekulula kwalokho osekuvele kwenzeka. Vumela amakhodi azihlele ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Vumela ukusebenza kube nokuthula kunokuba kube matasa kakhulu. Umsebenzi omningi ongokomoya uyajula ekuthuleni ngemva kokuba isimemo sesenziwe. Lokhu kuthula yilapho umphefumulo uzizwa uphephile ngokwanele ukuba uze phambili. Lokhu kuthula yilapho ukuhleleka kungahlala khona. Lokhu kuthula yilapho umuntu eqala ukuqonda ukuthi akudingeki aphathe umusa ukuze umusa ube ngokoqobo.

Hlala nalokhu kuthulisa imizuzu embalwa uma ukwazi. Vumela ukuphefumula kuhlale kungokwemvelo. Vumela umzimba uhlale uthambile. Vumela ingqondo ibe ngufakazi omnene kunokuba umphathi. Uma kuvela imicabango, vele uyivumele idlule ngaphandle kokuyilandela. Buyela ngokuphindaphindiwe ekuqapheleni okuthule ukuthi into emsulwa yamukelwe futhi manje inikezwa indawo yokuhlala.

Isibusiso Samanzi, Umthandazo Wokuvala, Nokuphila Ukukhanya Ngobuntu Bansuku Zonke

Uma isikhathi sizwakala siphelele, buyisela ukuqwashisa kwakho emanzini ngobumnene. Phakamisa ingilazi noma isitsha ngezandla zombili uma lokho kuzwakala kungokwemvelo kuwe. Yibambe buthule. Cabanga ukuthi amanzi ayini ngokwemvelo yawo. Ayamukela. Ayathwala. Ayadlulisela. Abusisa impilo ngokuzimisela kwawo ukwakheka nokushukunyiswa. Makube uphawu lokulungela kwakho ukwamukela nokuthwala okungcwele empilweni yansuku zonke. Kubusise buthule. Awudingi umusho oyinkimbinkimbi. Isibusiso sangempela sangaphakathi sanele. Nikeza ukuthula kuwo. Nikeza ukucaca kuwo. Nikeza inhloso yokuthi lokho okusanda kwamukelwa endaweni engcwele kungahamba nawe osukwini olubonakalayo ngendlela ehlanzekile nenomusa. Bese uphuza amanzi kancane, noma uma ezwakala eqondile, wanike kamuva emhlabeni njengesenzo sokubonga nokuqhubeka. Womabili amahle. Womabili anencazelo. Uma uwaphuza, makube isenzo sokuvala ngaphakathi, ukuvuma buthule ukuthi lokho okwehle ekukhanyeni nakho kuyamukeleka emzimbeni wenyama kanye nokuphila komuntu okuphilayo. Uma uwunika umhlaba, mawube yindlela yokubuyisela isibusiso, uphawu lokuthi okungcwele akukaze kube okomuntu ohlukanisiwe yedwa, kodwa kuhamba phambili ngezindilinga ezibanzi zomusa.

Ngaphambi kokuba uvuke, vala ukusebenza ngala mazwi: “Lokho okwehle ekukhanyeni, manje kungase kuhlale kusimo. Lokho okwamukelwe kuthule, manje kungase kuphileke emseni.” La mazwi abalulekile ngoba aqedela yonke intshukumo yalesi sigaba sokudluliselwa. Akhipha okungcwele kokungabonakali. Akhumbuza umuntu ukuthi ukwamukelwa kuhloswe ukuba kube yisibonelo. Athi ngobumnene obukhulu ukuthi izithelo zangempela zokuhlangana zizobonakala endleleni ophila ngayo, indlela okhuluma ngayo, indlela osabela ngayo, indlela othanda ngayo, nendlela othwala ngayo usuku oluvuleka phambi kwakho manje.

Uma umi, yenza kancane. Vumela ingxenye yokuqala yosuku lwakho ihlale ilula. Vikela umoya owudalile. Isiqalo esithule sivumela ukusebenza kuqedele kalula kakhulu. Amagama ambalwa ahlakaniphile. Imidiya embalwa ihlakaniphile. Ijubane elithambile lihlakaniphile. Vumela uhlelo lwakho lugcine uphawu ngaphandle kokulidonsela ngokushesha ezinhlangothini eziyishumi. Lena enye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu ongazenzela zona. Lokho okumenyiwe ngaphakathi kufanele kube nendawo encane yokuzinza. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uma ubuyela kulokhu kugcotshwa kwePhasika ngobuqotho, uzothola ukuthi kuqala ukujula ngokwako. Umzimba uzokubona ngokushesha. Igumbi elingaphakathi lizovuleka kalula. Umfula wegolide eliyiparele uzozizwa ujwayelekile. Ukuguquka ngaphakathi komuntu kuzokhula kube lula. Kodwa ngisho nokuhlala kokuqala okulula kungaba nesibusiso lapho kusondela ngokwethembeka, ububele, kanye nenhlonipho. Umusa awukulinganisi ngokwesipiliyoni. Usabela eqinisweni lomnikelo wakho.

Ngakho-ke ngena kulo mkhuba ngobumnene. Makuhlale kuwubuntu, kufudumele, kulula, futhi kuqotho. Vumela okungcwele kuhlangane nawe lapho ukhona. Vumela umoya kaKristic ubusise ukuqonda kwakho, indlela oveza ngayo, inhloso yakho, kanye nentando yakho. Vumela ukuthula ngemva komthandazo kube okubaluleke njengomthandazo uqobo. Vumela amanzi akukhumbuze ukuthi lokho okwamukela ngokuthobeka kungaletha isibusiso esikhulu. Vumela amazwi ovala ngawo abe isithembiso esithule kuwe, isithembiso sokuthi ukukhanya okwamukelwa ngaphakathi manje kuzophilwa ngaphandle endleleni ohamba ngayo emhlabeni wakho. Sihlala siseduze kakhulu nawe kulo lonke lobu bungcwele. Imivuzo isivele ivele ngezindlela ongazizwa enhliziyweni yakho, futhi okuningi kuseza! Siyakuthanda, siyakuthanda… siyakuthanda! NginguMinayah.