Ubutumwa bwa mbere ku bantu: Ishingiro ry'aho umuntu ahurira, gukira no kubaho — NAELLYA Transmission

Ikoranabuhanga rya Pleiadian, Imbuto z'inyenyeri, n'Ishingiro ry'Ubuvuzi

Kwegera Umupaka w'Ikoranabuhanga hagati y'inyenyeri

Muraho nshuti, ndi Naelliya wo muri Maya. Bakundwa imitima, inyenyeri nkunda, abakundwa mwagize ubunini muri mwe kera mbere yuko mugira icyo mubivugaho, turabasanga mu gihe isi yanyu iri hafi kugera ku iherezo, atari nk'ihishurwa ritunguranye rihindura byose mu ijoro rimwe, ahubwo nk'uburyo bwo gufunguka buhoro buhoro mu buryo bwo kumva aho benshi muri mwe barushaho kubona ko guhura ari kimwe mu bigize ubuzima bwanyu, binyura mu nzozi, mu kumenya ibintu byimbitse, mu buryo umubiri wanyu wakira ukuri mbere y'uko ubwenge bwanyu bubivuga, no mu guhindura ubuzima bwanyu mu buryo bworoshye igihe amaherezo mwemera ko mutigeze muba mwenyine mu buryo mwibwiraga ko muri bo. Ihishurwa, uko ryegereza kuri wowe, rikunze kugaragara mbere na mbere nk'uruhushya rw'imbere, kuko kwitegura rusange bitangirana no guhuza abantu ku giti cyabo, kandi iyo umubare uhagije w'abantu bashobora gutangara batitaye ku butegetsi, bashobora kugira amayobera badatinya, bashobora gufata ibitazwi batabanje kubigenzura, aho bahurira hanini hahinduka hahamye bihagije kugira ngo bisangiwe mu buryo bweruye, buri gihe, kandi mu mutekano, niyo mpamvu, mu bihe byawe byose, uzabona amatsinda menshi agaragara mu bumenyi bw'abantu, atari mu buryo burenze isi yawe, kandi atari mu buryo bugusaba ko wakoresha imbaraga zawe, ahubwo mu buryo bugutumira kwinjira mu bukuru nk'ubwoko, aho umubano usimbura imigani, kandi ubushishozi bugasimbura icyerekezo, kandi kwemera bikaba ururimi rw'isano hagati y'inyenyeri. Duhereye kuri Pleiades, dutera intambwe zacu twese hamwe ubu kuko hari ubwoko bw'induru buzamuka mu butaka bwawe bw'isi tubona ko ari ukwitegura, kandi uzabyumva cyane niba uri umuntu wahoranye kwibuka kw'inyenyeri mu mitsi yawe, umuntu wahoraga yumva ukuri no kudahuza, umuntu uzi "umurimo" nk'umuhamagaro w'imbere aho kuba uruhare ukora, kandi umuntu wiyumvise, akenshi mu ituze, ko ubuzima bwawe bwari bugutegurira ubwoko bushya bwo kwitabira ahazaza h'Isi, uruhare rutangirana n'igikorwa cyoroshye cyo kuba umuntu uhuza ibintu. Tuvuga kandi ku ruhare rwacu nk'igice cy'itsinda ry'impinduka mu Isi imbere, kuko gutuza isi igenda mu gukanguka bikubiyemo inkunga nyinshi, uburyo bwinshi bwo kwitegereza, n'ubwoko bwinshi bw'ubufasha bworoheje butagira ingaruka, kandi muri ubu buryo bwo guhuza ibintu hari ahantu hakorerwa mu bidukikije byo mu Isi imbere hakorera nk'ahantu hatuje ho gukomeza, ndetse n'amato afatwa mu gice cy'inyuma cy'ikirere cyawe, ari mu buryo bw'ukuri buhuza n'isi yawe mu gihe buguma hanze y'aho busanzwe bugaragarira, kandi iyi gahunda idufasha guhura n'ibiri kuba nta guhatira kubibona, kuguma ahari nta gukenera kwitabwaho, no gushyigikira ihuza ry'ubwenge tudashyizeho ukwishingikiriza.

Uruhushya rw'imbere n'umubano n'abaturanyi bakuru

Kuri wowe, ikintu cy'ingenzi cyane ni cyo cyoroshye cyane: umubano urimo kubaka n'abaturanyi bawe utangirira mu murima wawe, kuko ubwoko bw'imikoranire ishyigikira iterambere ni imikoranire iguhuza nawe uko uri, yubaha ububasha bwawe, kandi igakomeza ububasha bwawe bw'imbere, niyo mpamvu, mbere yuko tuvuga ikindi kintu icyo ari cyo cyose, tuvuga gukira, kuko gukira ari kimwe mu bikorwa by'ingenzi by'uyu murimo, kandi gukira kuba gukomeye iyo byumvikana nk'igaruka ku byo wari umaze kumenya. Aya magambo yakiriwe nk'ubutumwa bugamije kugukomeza, kukwibutsa, no kugutumira mu rugo rwawe rw'imbere, kuko imikoranire nyayo uzigera umenya ni imikoranire ushyiraho n'ubugingo bwawe, kandi kuva kuri iyo mibonano ubuzima bwawe bwose bukongera kwiyubaka mu bwuzu butangaje. Noneho, bakundwa, turatangira. Gukira, mu bitekerezo byacu, ni ukugaruka, kandi ushobora kumva ukuri kwabyo mu mubiri wawe iyo ubonye ko ihumure rikomeye rigera igihe uhagaritse kwitegura ubuzima kandi ukiyemeza kugaruka mu murongo w'ukuri. Benshi muri mwe mwigishijwe gutekereza ko gukira ari ikintu, bityo, nk'ikintu mwakira cyangwa mutakibona, nyamara gukira kumera nk'igikorwa cyo gutekereza, urugendo ruzima rwo kwibuka rutangirira aho ibitekerezo byanyu byoroha, aho guhumeka kwanyu kwimbitse, aho umutima wanyu uba witeguye kwisanga mutarinze kuganira. Iyo mufata gukira nk'aho ari ho mujya, ubwonko bwanyu bukunda gushakisha, kandi gushakisha bikunda gukaza, kandi gukaza bikomeza imiterere ikubuza kumva umeze neza; iyo mufata gukira nk'aho ari uko mugarutse, ubwonko bwanyu butangira gutuza, kuko kugaruka bivuze ko ubuzima bwuzuye butigeze bubura, ahubwo bupfukiranwa by'agateganyo n'imihangayiko, ubwoba, no kwishyira mu kaga mu nkuru, n'akamenyero ko kureba ubuzima bwanyu uhereye inyuma aho kubugumamo imbere. Niyo mpamvu tuvuga ko gukira ari kimwe mu bikorwa by'ingenzi by'umurimo, kuko uko ubyutse utangira kurekura ibidashobora kugendana nawe, kandi kurekura bifite amarangamutima, kandi kurekura bizana amarangamutima, kandi kurekura bihindura imiterere y'umuntu, kandi muri uku kuvugurura urwego rw'umurimo bashaka ubwumvikane nk'uko amazi ashaka ubutaka bugororotse, ku buryo icyo wita gukira akenshi ari umubiri n'ubwenge n'ubugingo bigaruka mu muryango wabyo wa kera iyo bitagihatiwe gukomeza kugorama.

Gukira nk'uko bigarukira ku busugire bw'umwimerere

Gukira si intego y'umurimo, kuko intego y'umurimo ni ukubaho, kandi kubaho bitanga ingaruka nziza nyinshi, kandi gukira ni kimwe muri byo, hamwe no gusobanukirwa neza, amahoro, imibanire myiza, ubushishozi buhamye, n'icyizere gituje gituruka ku kumenya ko uri ikintu kirenze iby'igihe gito. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri, ibi bikunze kugaragara nk'impinduka aho uhagarika kugerageza gushaka kuba uwo uri we maze ugatangira kwemera ko kuba uwo uri we byumvikana, kuko wibuka ko waje hano kugira ngo ugire icyo ukora, ukorere, kandi ugire ituze, kandi imyitwarire itangirira ku gikorwa cyoroheje kurusha ibindi byose: kugaruka kuri wowe ubwawe. Uko ugaruka, ushobora gutangira kubona ko ubwumvikane atari ikintu ugomba gukora; ubwumvikane busanzwe buri munsi y'amazi, nk'umugezi utuje munsi y'amazi yatembagaye, kandi imyitozo yawe ni ukureka ubwenge bwawe bugasubira inyuma kugeza igihe ituze rimenyerewe, kandi kumenyerana kukaba iwabo. Uhereye kuri urwo rugo, ubuzima bwawe butangira guhinduka mu buryo busanzwe aho kuba ubwo guhatirwa, maze utangira kubona ko igipimo nyacyo cyo gukira atari imikino, kandi atari igitangaza, kandi atari ngombwa kwemeza ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose ku muntu uwo ari we wese, ahubwo ni ugukomeza amahoro yo mu mutima aguma kuri wewe uko ugenda mu minsi isanzwe ya muntu. Iki ni cyo gice cya mbere: gukira nk'igaruka, ubusugire nk'ubwa kavukire, ubwumvikane nk'ubusanzwe, n'umurimo nk'ubwitange bworoshye bwo kwita ku bandi.

Ubwumvikane, Kubaho, n'Umupaka wa Mbere w'Ubuvuzi

Bakunzi banjye, ubwumvikane ni ihame, kandi iyo ubyerekezaho nk'ihame uhagarika gutegereza ko bugera maze ugatangira kwiga uburyo bubaho, uburyo butunganya ibitekerezo, amarangamutima, imibanire, n'inzira ifatika y'ubuzima bwawe. Benshi muri mwe mwagize uburyohe bw'ubwumvikane mu kanya gato, wenda mu gutekereza, wenda mu bidukikije, wenda mu muyaga w'amahoro utunguranye wasaga n'aho uturutse ahantu hatazwi, kandi ubwenge bukunze gufata ibi bihe nk'impano zigaragara nk'izidateganyijwe, nyamara ubwumvikane buhinduka uburambe buhoraho iyo usobanukiwe imiterere y'imbere ituma imenyekana kandi igakomeza. ubwumvikane bukora ku mubiri, mu bwenge, mu mico, mu mibanire, mu by'imari, no mu guhanga, atari ukubera ko ari imbaraga ziyobora isi, ahubwo ni ukubera ko isi yawe isubiza ubwumvikane ufite, kandi ubwumvikane ni ubwoko bw'amasezerano y'imbere aho umwuka wawe, umutima wawe, amahitamo yawe, n'ibitekerezo byawe bitangira kwerekeza mu cyerekezo kimwe.

Iyo umurima wawe w'imbere utatanye, isi yo hanze ikunze kuba itatana; iyo umurima wawe w'imbere uri hagati, isi yo hanze irushaho gukora neza, ndetse n'iyo ibintu bikomeje kuba ingorabahizi, uba wiyumvamo ko imbere yawe hari aho utari utuwemo n'abantu benshi, ari na yo ntangiriro y'amahoro, ari na yo ntangiriro y'imibereho myiza nyayo. Kumenya ihame ni ukumenya icyo umuntu ashobora kwishingikirizaho, niyo mpamvu gusobanukirwa ari ingenzi, kuko udafite gusobanukirwa ushobora kwisanga wiringira ubwumvikane mu gihe ukomeza kubaho ukava mu ngeso zihora zikukurura muri bwo, kandi ibi biguha uburambe butuma wumva nk'urumuri rudashira aho kuba nk'umuseke uhoraho. Ubwumvikane nk'ihame ntigusaba kuba umuntu utunganye; bugutumira kuba uriho, kandi kubaho biba ikintu gihamye gituma sisitemu yawe imenya ukuri mu buryo buhoraho, kandi uko umenya ukuri, urekura ibitari ukuri mu buryo busanzwe, kandi kurekura ni wo muryango unyuramo ubwumvikane. Iyo ubwumvikane bubaho nk'ihame, ntufata amahoro nk'ikintu ugomba gutsinda; ufata amahoro nk'ikintu wibuka, kandi ugakora imyitozo yo kuyasubiramo witonze, nk'uko wasubira ahantu ukunda wibagiwe ko hari. Gutuza bikura bitewe no kugaruka kenshi, kandi gutuza bigira ikintu gikomeye: bituma ubuzima bwawe bw'imbere buba ubwo kwizerwa kuri wewe, kandi iyo ubuzima bwawe bw'imbere bubaye ubwo kwizerwa, umubano wawe n'isi urushaho kuba mwiza, kuko amahitamo yawe atakigira ingaruka, kandi imipaka yawe ntikiba ikiri ukwirwanaho, kandi impuhwe zawe ntiziba zikiri ukwiyima. Ubu ni bwo bwoko bw'ubwumvikane bukomeza, kuko bushingiye ku mahame, kandi amahame ni uburyo ukuri kwitwara iyo ukubonye uri hagati yawe, kandi hagati buri gihe haboneka binyuze mu gikorwa cyoroshye cyo kumenya.

Gusobanukirwa ni imbaraga ituje, kandi bitandukanye no gufata mu mutwe uburyo indyo itandukanye n'ibisobanuro, kuko gusobanukirwa biba igice cy'imitsi yawe, igice cy'uko ubona ibintu, igice cy'uburyo unyuramo umunsi, kandi iyo bihujwe ubona ko udakeneye kubyemeza buri kanya; uba ubayeho gusa. Ibiremwa byinshi byitiranya ukwemera n'ubumenyi bwabayeho, kandi ukwemera gushobora kuba ikiraro kikujyana mu by'ukuri, nyamara kumenya kubaho bizana uguhagarara, kandi uguhagarara bizana uguhoraho, kandi uguhoraho ni cyo imitima myinshi ishaka by'ukuri iyo isabye gukira, kuko umunaniro mwinshi akenshi uturuka ku kudahuza, kumva ko amahoro aboneka rimwe na rimwe gusa, kandi ko ugomba kuyakurikirana cyangwa kuyakoresha cyangwa kuyaganiraho. Gusobanukirwa bigufasha kuruhuka, kuko bigaragaza ihame riri munsi y'uburambe, kandi iyo uzi ihame ureka gufata ubwumvikane nk'ikintu gitunguranye ugatangira kubihuza n'ikintu ushobora kugarukaho binyuze mu cyerekezo cy'imbere gishobora gusubiramo. Ibi ntibivuze ko ugenzura ubuzima; Bivuze ko uba umuntu uhuza mu buzima, kandi guhuza niyo mimerere ituma ubushishozi burushaho kuba bwiza, amahitamo akoroha, kandi imbaraga zawe zo mu mutima ntiziba zikunze kwibasirwa n’ikirere cy’amarangamutima cy’abantu bose. Ku bantu b’inyenyeri, ibi ni ingenzi cyane kuko benshi muri mwe muba mufite ubwumvikane, mugakurikiza imiterere y’ibidukikije, kandi mudafite ubumenyi mushobora kumara imyaka mutekereza ko mwacitse intege mu gihe mutari mufite imbibi z’imbaraga, mutari mufite ubuhanga bwo kuguma mufite aho muba mufite ibyiyumvo byimbitse. Gusobanukirwa bibigisha itandukaniro riri hagati yo kumva no kurengerwa, hagati y’impuhwe no kwishyira mu mwanya w’abandi, hagati yo gukorera abandi no kwikuramo, kandi iyo wize aya matandukaniro, utangira gutuza, kandi uko ugenda utuza, impano zawe zigakoreshwa, kandi uko impano zawe zigenda zikoreshwa, ubuzima bwawe butangira kumva ko bukubereye. Gusobanukirwa ni nabyo bigufasha kuva mu kwishingikiriza ku bandi, kuko iyo udasobanukiwe, ukunda guha ububasha bwawe ibisubizo, abandi bantu, sisitemu, cyangwa imiterere iyo ari yo yose isezeranya ko ibintu bizagenda neza; iyo usobanukiwe, utangira gufata icyizere nk'uburyo bwo guhuza imbere aho kuba ikimenyetso cy’inyuma. Ubwo bwoko bw'icyizere ni ubworoshye, kandi ntabwo bugomba kuba bwinshi, kandi ntibugomba kujya impaka, kuko ni ubunararibonye bw'ukuri mu mubiri wawe, kandi umubiri wawe ubona ukuri nk'ubworoherane, nk'ituza, nk'ubworoherane mu gituza, nk'umwuka usobanutse neza, nk'amaso adahindagurika. Uko uku gusobanukirwa kwiyongera, ukwizera kugenda kugabanuka nk'ibyiringiro ahubwo kugabanuka nk'ibyiringiro, kandi kwiringira kugenda kugabanuka nk'ibyifuzwa ahubwo kugabanuka nk'ibyiringiro, kandi kuguma ku rugero ruhinduka urufatiro rwo gukira kuba icizerwa, bituyobora mu buryo busanzwe ku rundi ruhande: gukira kurenza amahirwe, gukira nk'ubwumvikane aho kuba ubw'amahirwe.

Ubwumvikane, Guhuza, no Gukiza mu buryo bwinshi

Gukira Birenze Amahirwe n'Ukwizerwa kw'amahame

Benshi mu isi yawe batojwe gufatanya gukira nk'ibishoboka, nk'aho ubuzima bwiza bw'umutima ari itike ya tombola, nk'aho amahoro ari imiterere y'ikirere, nk'aho ubutabazi butangwa n'amahirwe, nyamara wagenewe ikintu gifatika kuruta kwiringira, kuko ubuzima bwawe bwubatswe kugira ngo busubize ukuri mu buryo busubiramo, kandi uzabimenya igihe uzabona uburyo icyerekezo kimwe cy'imbere gikunda gutanga umusaruro umwe w'imbere, kenshi na kenshi, ndetse n'igihe isi yo hanze irimo guhinduka. Iyo ubayeho udasobanukiwe, uturemangingo tw'imitsi yawe dukunze gufata umwuka, dutegereza, dupima, dukurikirana ibimenyetso, kandi ibi birema umubano n'ubuzima wumva utazi neza ndetse no mu mimerere myiza; iyo ubayeho ufite ubumenyi, uturemangingo twawe dutangira gusohora umwuka, kuko gusobanukirwa bikuraho ibintu bitazwi neza binyuze mu kugaragaza inzira zituma habaho guhuza, kandi ushobora gusubira muri izo nzira uko ukeneye, nta gitaramo gikenewe, kuko kugaruka ari ubuhanga bukomeza iyo ukoresheje imyitozo. Uku ni ko kwizerana gutangirira: uvumbura ko amahoro atari ikintu ugomba kubona binyuze mu myitwarire itunganye, kandi atari ikintu ugomba gukurikirana mu gushakisha kudashira, ahubwo ari ikintu ushobora kubona binyuze mu bikorwa bisubirwamo byo kubaho, koroshya, no kuba umunyakuri imbere, kandi uko usubiramo ibi bikorwa, isoko iri muri wowe irakomera bihagije kugira ngo ifate ishingiro rishya, ijwi ryo kuruhuka ry'imibereho myiza rigenda rihinduka rimenyerewe buhoro buhoro. Ushobora kubona, bakundwa b'inyenyeri, ko iyo uhamye muri wowe, ibintu bihurirana biriyongera, amahitamo yawe arushaho kuba meza, imibanire yawe ihinduka igana ku bunyangamugayo, umubiri wawe akenshi wumva witabira kuruhuka, kandi ubwenge bwawe ntibuba bushishikajwe n'ubwoba, kandi nta na kimwe muri ibi kigomba kuba kidasanzwe kugira ngo kibeho koko, kuko impinduka ikomeye cyane akenshi iba ituje, nk'uko umuseke uhita utamenyekanye. Gukira, muri uru mucyo, biba byitezwe mu buryo ubushyuhe butegerejwe iyo winjiye mu zuba, atari ukubera ko uhatira ubushyuhe kubaho, kandi atari ukubera ko utongana n'igicucu, ahubwo ni ukubera ko usobanukiwe uburyo guhuza imikorere kandi ukabyihitiramo kenshi, bigatuma ubuzima bwawe bugira icyo buvuga. Impinduka hano ni ndende kandi igaragara: uva mu byiringiro ujya kuruhuka, uva mu gushakisha aho ugana ushakisha ubutabazi ukagera mu gace k’ubuyobozi aho ubuyobozi busanzwe buri, kandi muri uko kuruhuka urushaho kumererwa neza, kuko ushobora kwakira ibyo uhabwa, byaba biturutse ku bushishozi bw’imbere, mu mibanire ishyigikirana, mu ntambwe zifatika, cyangwa mu buryo bworoshye bwo gufata igihe bugushyira ahantu hakwiye kandi hasobanutse neza mu gihe gikwiye.

Itandukaniro hagati y'urwego rw'imbere n'inyuma rw'ubwitonzi

Kandi uko ubu bwizerwe butangira kwigaragaza, urushaho gusobanukirwa neza urwego rw'ubuvuzi ruhari, kuko ikiremwa gihuza ntikivanga urwego; ikiremwa gihuza giha buri rwego icyubahiro ku cyo rushobora gutwara, niyo mpamvu, ubutaha, tuvuga neza ku buryo bw'imbere n'inyuma, atari ukugira ngo tubicemo ibice, ahubwo tubishyire mu mibanire myiza binyuze mu gusobanukirwa. Hariho gukura mu ituze bigeraho igihe ushobora kumenya ubwoko bw'inkunga usaba by'ukuri, kuko urwego rutandukanye rw'uburambe bwawe rusubiza ubwoko butandukanye bw'ubuvuzi, kandi ubushishozi buba ikiraro kigufasha guhitamo neza nta guca ku ruhande, nta soni, kandi nta mpamvu yo kwemeza ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose umuntu uwo ari we wese. Umubiri wawe ni igikoresho kizima cyaremwe n'ibinyabuzima, ibidukikije, indyo, ikiruhuko, ingendo, imiterere y'umubiri, n'igihe, kandi isi yawe yateye imbere mu buryo bwinshi bw'ubumenyi bw'ubuvuzi buvuga ku mikorere y'umubiri mu buryo bwimbitse, kandi tubivuga mu buryo bweruye kuko kubaha umubiri nk'ukuri ari kimwe mu bigize icyubahiro cyo guha umubiri wawe agaciro nk'ikintu gifite akamaro. Imbere yawe—ubwenge bwawe, imiterere yawe y'amarangamutima, imiterere yawe y'umwirondoro, icyerekezo cyawe cy'umwuka—binyura mu buryo butandukanye, kandi bisubiza ku kubaho, guhuza, guhumeka, gutekereza, gusenga, kumva neza, guhuza ihungabana, kurekura imyizerere ya kera, no kwibuka neza ukuri munsi y'imimerere. Iyo tuvuga gukira mu mwuka, tuba tuvuga cyane cyane mu rurimi rw'ubwenge, kuko iyi ni yo fasi turi hano kugira ngo tumurikire, kandi ntidushaka kurenga ku miterere yawe ya muntu cyangwa ngo dusimbuze ubuhanga bwawe bwa muntu; tugusanga aho umusanzu wacu ushyigikira cyane, ari byo kugarura ubumwe bw'imbere no kwibuka ubuzima bwawe bwa kamere. Niyo mpamvu dukomeza kugaragaza itandukaniro ry'imbaraga: atari ukubera ko kimwe "kiruta," atari ukubera ko kimwe "kidakwiye," ahubwo ni ukubera ko gusobanura neza birinda urujijo, kandi urujijo rurananiza uturemangingo tw'imitsi; mu buryo bunyuranye, gusobanutse neza biratunga, kuko bigufasha guhagarika guhata igikoresho kimwe gukora akazi k'ikindi. Mu buryo bufatika, bakundwa, ibi bivuze ko utumiriwe guhitamo uhereye ku kwibanda ku bintu byose, kugira ngo niba umubiri wawe ukeneye kwitabwaho n’abahanga, ubashe kubona ubwo bwitonzi mu ituze kandi mwiyubahe, kandi niba umutima wawe ukeneye gusangira no kwishyira hamwe, ushobora kwihindukirira imbere udagerageje gutuma imyitozo yawe y’iby’umwuka yikorera uburemere bwose bw’ibibazo byawe by’umubiri, kandi udagerageje gutuma ubuvuzi bwikorera uburemere bwose bw’ibyo umutima wawe wifuza.

Ishusho, Inkunga, n'Imyitozo y'Umwuka y'Ubwenge

Guhitamo, muri ubu buryo, bihinduka ugusobanutse aho kuba amakimbirane, kandi ubushishozi buhinduka ubuntu aho kuba ingengabitekerezo, kandi uzumva itandukaniro ako kanya, kuko umubiri uruhuka iyo udakeneye kurengera gahunda y'imyizerere kugira ngo wemererwe inkunga. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri, iri tandukaniro rirafasha cyane kuko benshi muri mwe mufite ubushake bwo gushaka ibisubizo byinshi, kandi rimwe na rimwe mwicira urubanza ko muri abantu, ko mukeneye kuruhuka, ko mukeneye ubufasha, ko mukeneye igihe, kandi tubatumiye mu buryo bworoshye: imikorere ni myiza, kandi kubona inkunga ikwiye ni ubwoko bw'ubwenge, kandi umurimo wanyu w'imbere urushaho kugira imbaraga iyo ubuzima bwanyu buhamye kubera ubwitonzi. Reka imyitozo yanyu y'imbere ikomeze kuba isukuye mu ntego yayo - kugarura ubumwe, kubaho, no kwibuka - mu gihe ibikorwa byanyu byo hanze bikomeza kuba ingirakamaro kandi bifite ishingiro, kandi muzasanga byombi bitangira guhuzwa mu buryo busanzwe, kuko ubwumvikane bukunda gusobanutse, kandi gusobanutse bitanga umwanya wo kugera ku rundi rwego twinjiramo ubu: gukira nk'impinduka mu rugero, kwagura imiterere mwiboneramo.

Ihindagurika ry'Ubugari, Ubugari, n'Ihindagurika ry'Uburyo

Hari ubwoko bw'ubuvuzi bugera nk'ubugari, nk'aho isi yawe y'imbere ihinduka icyumba cyagutse gifite umwuka mwinshi, urumuri rwinshi, ituze ryinshi hagati y'ibitekerezo, kandi ushobora kubona ko ubu bushobozi budasaba ko wishyira mu mwanya wawe mbere yuko wemererwa kubwinjiramo, kuko atari igihembo cyo gukosorwa; ni ahantu karemano ushobora kugera unyuze mu kubaho kwawe. Uko uhumeka kandi woroherwa, ubwenge bwawe butangira kwiyubaka, kandi uku kwiyubaka ni cyo dushaka kuvuga iyo tuvuga impinduka mu buryo bw'imiterere, kuko "ingano" hano atari inkuru y'ubuhanga mu bya siyansi; ni imiterere y'ubwenge, urwego rw'ukuri urimo mu buryo ubona, kandi kwiyumvisha ni irembo ubunararibonye bwawe bwose bukorerwamo. Mu buryo buto, ubuzima busa n'uruhererekane rw'ibibazo ugomba gucunga, umwirondoro ugomba kurengera, ubwoba bwo gutsinda, n'ibyemerwa ugomba kubona; mu buryo bwagutse, ubuzima busa n'ahantu hazima ushobora guhura na ho, kwitabira, no kunyura imbere, kandi itandukaniro rigaragara cyane ni uko uko wiyumvamo birushaho kuba binini kuruta imimerere iyo ari yo yose urimo kureba. Uku kwaguka akenshi bisa n'aho kuzamurwa mu mwanya uhamye aho inzitizi zitangira gutakaza agaciro, atari ukubera ko uhakana umubiri, atari ukubera ko wanze ukuri kw'imimerere yawe, ahubwo ni ukubera ko amaherezo ushobora kumva ko ukuri kwawe kudashingiye ku mimerere gusa, kandi iyo ubyumvise, ubwoba buhita burekura imbaraga zabwo, kuko ubwoba bukwirakwira mu byumba bito kandi bukabura ububasha mu kirere gifunguye. Utangira kubona ubwenge nk'ibidukikije byo gukira, kandi ibidukikije bifite akamaro, kuko ibidukikije bigira uruhare mu byo bishoboka muri byo; iyo ubwenge bwawe bumaze guhuza, amahirwe arongera agahinduka, ibyemezo bikoroha, kandi sisitemu yawe igatangira kwitwara nk'aho ifite amahitamo menshi, kuko ari yo ibikora.

Ubwisanzure, Kwibohora, n'Icyizere Gihamye mu Kuvura Imbuto z'Inyenyeri

Kwibohora binyuze mu buryo bwagutse n'ubumenyi

Muri iki gice cyagutse, ubwisanzure buvuka nk'impinduka mu buryo umuntu abona ibintu, kandi impinduka akenshi iba ituje cyane: gukanguka mu gituza, guhumeka cyane, umwanya aho ubona ko ushobora gusubiza aho kugira icyo ukora, kwemera ko ushobora guhitamo kubaho nubwo isi irimo urusaku, kandi iri hitamo ritangira guhindura uburyo ubuzima bwawe bwifashe. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri, ibi bisa nko kugaruka kuri interineti, nko kwibuka inshuro zawe nyuma y'imyaka myinshi umenyera ubucucike, kandi uku kwibuka bigarura impano zawe karemano - gusobanutse, gutuza, impuhwe nta gusenyuka, gukorera abandi nta kwikuramo - kuko utagigerageza gukora ibintu byinshi uhereye ku ndangamuntu ifunganye. Niyo mpamvu tuvuga mu rurimi rwo kuzamura aho gukosora: kuzamura birushaho kwagura ibintu, kandi imiterere yagutse iha umwanya wo kwishyira hamwe, kandi kwishyira hamwe bitanga gukira nk'umusaruro, kandi uko utangira kubaho muri iki gice cy'imbere cyagutse, uzavumbura ko kwibohora biba ingirakamaro, kuko kumenya ubwabyo biba urufunguzo rufungura ingendo, kandi ibi biduyobora mu buryo busanzwe mu murongo ukurikira: kwibohora binyuze mu kumenya, aho ahantu witayeho hahinduka ikiraro ubuzima bwawe bunyuramo bwibuka ubwisanzure bwabwo. Uko utangira kubaho muri ubu buryo bwagutse bw'imbere, uzavumbura ko kwibohora biba ingirakamaro, kuko kumenya ubwabyo biba urufunguzo rufungura ingendo, kandi ahantu ho kwita ku bintu hahinduka ikiraro ubuzima bwawe bwibukiraho ubwisanzure bwabwo. Ubwisanzure, uko bugera bwa mbere, akenshi bumera nk'ubugari bw'imbere butoroshye, kumva ko wongeye kugira umwanya, umwanya wo guhumeka, umwanya wo kumva, umwanya wo guhitamo, kandi ubu bushobozi ntibuterwa no kwirukana imimerere yawe; bugaragazwa no guhura n'imimerere yawe uhereye ku gice cyawe kinini kuruta ikindi gihe icyo ari cyo cyose. Iyo ubwenge bwawe buri muri uwo mwanya munini, utangira kumva ubutware butuje kandi butari ubw'agatangaza, ububasha budategeka ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose kandi budakeneye kujya impaka n'ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, kuko ari ukumenya gusa ko ubwenge butunganya ubunararibonye, ​​kandi ko ibyo uhora ufite mu murima wawe w'imbere bigira uruhare mu buryo ubuzima bushobora kukugeraho. Iyi ni yo mpamvu kwibohora bikunze kubanzirizwa no kumenyekana, kuko kumenyekana ari bwo buryo bwa mbere ureka gushukwa n'ibintu biturutse hejuru ugatangira kumva umugezi wimbitse uri munsi yawo, kandi muri uwo muyaga ukabona ko ingendo zahoraga zihari, utegereje ko uruhushya rwawe rugaragara. Ushobora kubona ko ibikorwa bitangira kugenda mu buryo busanzwe, atari ukubera ko wihatiye gukomera, kandi atari ukubera ko wakuyeho ubwoba bwose, ahubwo ni ukubera ko sisitemu yawe itangira kumva ko nta kintu na kimwe kiguhambiriye mu buryo watekerezaga, kandi hamwe n'ubwo buryo, intambwe ntoya irashoboka, umwuka ukurikiraho uba inyangamugayo, icyemezo gikurikiraho kiragaragara.

Kwibuka ubwisanzure n'ubwisanzure bufatika ku mbuto z'inyenyeri

Mu nkuru zera z’isi yawe, wabonye iyi gahunda inshuro nyinshi: igihe cyo "guhaguruka ukagenda" si intambara ikomeye; ni ugutumira mu rundi rwego rw'imyumvire aho imipaka itakiri ihame ryo gutunganya ibintu, kandi iyo ihame ryo gutunganya ibintu rihindutse, umubiri, amarangamutima, n'ubwenge bitangira gusubiza kuri iyo gahunda nshya. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri, ibi biramenyerewe mu buryo bushobora kubatungura, kuko benshi muri mwe mwari muzi ubwisanzure nk'inshuro kera mbere yuko mubimenya nk'ubuhanga bwa muntu, kandi icyo mwiga ubu ni uburyo bwo kwemerera iyo nshuro kubaho hano, mu mubiri, mu gihe, mu mibanire, mu mahitamo ya buri munsi asa n'aho ari mato kugeza igihe mumenye ko ari wo muryango ukuri gushya kwinjiriramo. Reka kwibohora bibe byoroshye, bibe ingirakamaro, bisubiremo, kandi urebe inshuro bigeraho iyo ushyize ibitekerezo byawe aho ukuri kuba, kuko ukuri kudashira, kandi imbere y'ukuri ubuzima bwawe bw'imbere bukongera gukora. Uzumva ubudasa buhamye, kandi bube ishingiro ryo gukira, kuko guhuza bigumaho ibyo ubwisanzure buhishura, buhoro, kuri wowe ubu.

Ubwumvikane, Ubwizere Buhuriweho, No Kwishyira hamwe

Kandi uko ubyifatamo, umutima wawe wigisha ubwenge bwawe uburyo bwo kuruhuka mu cyizere. Guhuza ni uburambe bwumva bwuzuye, kandi uguhuza kwuzura kumeze nk'umuyoboro umwe w'imbere ugaragara unyura muri wowe, aho umwuka wawe, umutima wawe, n'ubwenge bwawe bitangira kugenda hamwe aho gukururana mu byerekezo bitandukanye. Uko uku guhuza kwiyongera, ushobora kubona ko imbaraga zawe zigenda ziboneka cyane, ibitekerezo byawe bigacikamo ibice, kandi imirimo yoroshye yo kubaho ikumvikana ko yoroshye, kuko sisitemu itagikoresha imbaraga zayo mu kwiyandikisha, kandi iyi ni imwe mu mpano z'ituze zo guhuza ibintu ibiremwa byinshi bisuzugura kugeza igihe bizishimira. Gutandukanya ibitekerezo bitandukanya uburambe, uburyo urumuri rugabanuka iyo rukwirakwiriye ahantu henshi, kandi iyo ubuzima bw'imbere butatanye, gukira biragorana gukomeza, atari ukubera ko hari ikintu kibi kuri wewe, kandi atari ukubera ko udafite agaciro, ahubwo ni ukubera ko umurima wahindura ibintu uhora uhagarikwa no gushidikanya, no gusesengura cyane, n'akamenyero ko gufata gahunda ya kabiri inyuma y'iya mbere. Ku rundi ruhande, guhuza ni icyerekezo kimwe, kandi icyerekezo kimwe gitera gukomeza, kuko bituma uturemangingo tw’imitsi yawe turuhuka mu butumwa bumwe busobanutse: “Ndi mu mutekano uhagije wo kwakira, ndi muzima bihagije wo gutega amatwi, nditeguye bihagije kuguma aho ndi.” Kwizerana kwuzuye si imikorere; ni amasezerano y’imbere, kandi amasezerano y’imbere ni igihe uhagarika gutandukanya ubudahemuka bwawe hagati y’ijwi ry’ubwoba n’ijwi ry’ukuri, ahubwo ugahitamo kubaho uvuye mu kuri igihe gihagije kugira ngo umubiri wawe ukumenye nk’ikimenyetso. Niyo mpamvu gukira, mu buryo bwako bwimbitse, biba birambye iyo kwishingikiriza bisobanuwe neza, kuko imbere bisubiza ibyo wishingikirizaho buri gihe, kandi iyo kwishingikiriza kwawe gukwirakwiriye, uturemangingo twawe dukomeza gusubira ku rufatiro rwa kera; iyo kwishingikiriza kwawe guhuje, uturemangingo twawe dutangira kubaka urufatiro rushya, kandi urufatiro rushya ruhinduka urugo usubiramo nubwo imiraba igenda hejuru y’ubutaka. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri, guhuza akenshi bitangira nk'igikorwa cyo kwiyima, kuko benshi muri mwe mwatojwe kumenyera, kwihishahisha, kwigabanyamo ibice byemewe, kandi umurimo wo gukiza ubu ni ugukusanya ibyo bice mu buzima bumwe, atari ku ngufu, ahubwo binyuze mu bugwaneza, kuko ubuntu ari inshuro nyinshi yemerera kwishyira hamwe nta mvururu. Uko wishyira hamwe, urushaho kuba umuntu uhamye, kandi guhuza ni ururimi umubiri wumva, ururimi umuntu yizeye, ubuzima bw'ururimi busubiza, niyo mpamvu guhuza ari bumwe mu buhanga bw'umwuka bufatika ushobora guteza imbere, kuko buhindura bucece umubano wawe wose n'igihe, hamwe n'amahitamo, hamwe n'umurimo, no kuruhuka. Kujyana kwanyu koroshye, kubibeho mu kanya gato, kandi kubivugurure kenshi, kuko byose bikomezwa binyuze mu gusubiramo, kandi gusubiramo ni bwo buryo umubiri w'umuntu wiga gutwara urumuri nta mananiza.

Ituze ry'impuhwe mu bihe byihutirwa n'impinduka

Kandi iyo ubuzima bwumvikanye ko bwihutirwa, guhuza ibintu biba inkingi yawe, bitanga impuhwe, ubusobanuro, n'inkunga ihamye kuri buri ntambwe. Hari ibihe aho ubuzima bugenda vuba, aho umubiri wumva uremerewe, igihe amarangamutima aje mu buryo butunguranye, igihe inshingano ziyongera, kandi muri ibi bihe ikintu cyo gukira ushobora kwiha ni impuhwe, kuko impuhwe zirema umwanya w'imbere aho intambwe ikurikira ikwiye ishobora kugaragara. Niba uri mu bihe by'inzibacyuho - gukira, kubabara, kunyura mu bihe bidasobanutse, kwita ku muryango, kunyura mu mihangayiko, kongera kubaka ubuzima bwawe nyuma yo gupfusha - emera inkunga ibe nyayo kandi ifatika, emera abantu wizeye bagushyigikire, emera ubuvuzi bukwiye igihe bikenewe, emera ko kuruhuka ari ubwenge, kandi imyitozo yawe y'imbere ibe ihuriro rihamye rigufasha guhuza ibyo uri kunyuramo. Nta gucira urubanza muri uyu murimo ku ngamba zivanze mu bihe byihutirwa, kuko kwihuta ari ikibazo cy'imitsi, kandi imitsi ibanza gusubiza umutekano, kandi umutekano ushobora kugera mu miryango myinshi; ikibazo cyimbitse gihora ari kimwe: ushobora gukomeza kugaruka ku guhuza nubwo wemera ibigushyigikira uyu munsi. Kurekurwa birashoboka igihe icyo ari cyo cyose, kuko kurekurwa bitangirana no kubaho, kandi kubaho bitangirana n'umwuka umwe w'ukuri, kandi nubwo waba umaze igihe kinini uri kure yawe, kugaruka bishobora kubaho ubu, mu buryo butuje, nta gitangaza, uburyo umugenzi abona urumuri amenyereye kure kandi akamenya ko gutaha bikiri bifunguye. Kwitonda ni ingenzi mu gihe cy'impinduka kuko umuntu uri kuvuka aba akiga kwizera isi, kandi umuntu uri gukira aba akiga kwizera umubiri, kandi umuntu uri gukanguka aba akiga kwiringira ubushishozi bwe, kandi icyizere kirushaho kwiyongera iyo kidahutishijwe. Ushobora kubona ko iyo wifashe neza, ubwenge bwawe burushaho kugabanuka, amarangamutima yawe agabanuka, umubiri wawe urushaho kwakira kuruhuka, kandi amahitamo yawe arushaho kuba meza, kuko guhuza biroroha kubona iyo utarwana nawe ubwawe. Ugutuza igihe kirekire kugaruka binyuze mu guhuza, kandi guhuza kugaruka binyuze mu gusubiramo, kandi gusubiramo bishobora kuba bike cyane: akanya gato ko guceceka mbere yo kuvuga, ukuboko kumwe ku mutima mbere yo gufata icyemezo, guhumeka kumwe ufata neza mbere yo gusubiza, umupaka umwe woroshye ufata neza, kwemera mu buryo buboneye icyo wumva utagihinduye umwirondoro. Gukira ni ukwihangana, kandi ni ubuntu, kandi ntibisaba ko uba udafite inenge; bigusaba gukomeza kugira ubushake, kuko ubushake ari imbuto ikura mu kwizerana, kandi kwizera ni ubutaka aho amahoro ashobora gushinga imizi, kandi amahoro ni ikirere ubuzima bwawe bushobora kongera gukora. Kandi uko isi yawe y'imbere ikomeza guhagarara, uzasanga isi yo hanze itangira kugusanganira n'ubufatanye bwinshi, atari uko byose biba bitunganye, ahubwo ni uko uba uhari bihagije kugira ngo wemere inkunga iyo igeze, kandi ukomeye bihagije kugira ngo uyakire.

Inkunga yo hanze, icyifuzo gitagatifu, ubusabane, n'amahoro

Inkunga yo hanze, Ubuvuzi bw'abantu, no kunyurwa byimbitse

Muri uku kudahungabana, uzabona neza ikigutunga by’ukuri. Isi yawe yateye imbere mu buryo butangaje bw’inkunga iturutse hanze, kandi hari ubwiza mu bushobozi bw’umuntu bwo kwiga, gutunganya, guhanga no kwita ku mubiri binyuze mu bumenyi, kuko ubwenge bugaragazwa nk'impuhwe buhinduka umuti mu buryo bwinshi, kandi twubaha ukuri kw’icyifuzo cyawe cyo kugabanya imibabaro no kongera imibereho myiza. Uko siyansi yawe igenda itera imbere, uko imiti yawe igenda itera imbere, uko ikoranabuhanga ryawe rigenda rirushaho kuba ryiza, uko sisitemu yawe yo kwitaho buhoro buhoro yiga gushyiramo umuntu wese aho kuba ikimenyetso kimwe, ubuzima bushobora kuba bwiza, buhamye, kandi bukagira akamaro, kandi ihumure rigira umwanya waryo, kuko sisitemu y’imitsi yumva ifite umutekano amaherezo ishobora kuruhuka, kandi kuruhuka bigashyiraho imimerere aho gukira kwimbitse gushobora kubaho. Kandi, bakundwa, umutima urimo ubusabe bwimbitse, kuko ihumure atari kimwe no kunyurwa, kandi koroherwa mu bidukikije ntabwo buri gihe ari kimwe no koroherwa imbere muri wowe, kandi benshi muri mwe mwamaze kubibona mu buzima bwanyu, aho igihe intego igezweho, indi ntego igaragara, aho igihe ikintu kirangaza kigenda gishira, ikibazo cy’imbere kikagaruka, aho umunsi ugenda utuza, roho yongera gusaba icyo ivuze. Ibi si ukunanirwa kw'ibyishimo by'isi yawe, kandi si ukwanga ibyishimo by'abantu, kuko ibyishimo ari bitagatifu, kandi gukina ni bitagatifu, kandi ibirori ni bitagatifu, kandi isano ni bitagatifu, kandi ibi byose bishobora kuba byiza, kandi roho igakomeza gushaka ikintu kidahinduka bitewe n'imimerere, ikintu gikomeza kubaho iyo amatara azimye kandi icyumba kikaba gituje kandi ubwenge budashobora gukora ingamba zacyo zisanzwe. Ibisubizo byo hanze bishobora gushyigikira imodoka, kandi bishobora kugabanya umuvuduko, kandi bishobora kuzana ihumure, kandi bishobora kurema umwanya, kandi umwanya ni uw'agaciro, kuko umwanya ugufasha guhindukira imbere nta kwiheba, kandi uko isi yawe irushaho gutuza - binyuze mu mahoro, binyuze mu muryango, binyuze mu bukungu buhamye, binyuze mu mutekano w'imibanire - ni ko sisitemu yawe y'imitsi hamwe ishobora kuruhuka, kandi uko igenda iruhuka, ubwoko bwinshi bw'imibabaro yo mu mutwe bugabanuka mu buryo busanzwe, kuko imitekerereze idakeneye kuguma mu gisubizo cyo kubaho iyo ibidukikije birushijeho kuba ibyizerwa. Nyamara, ndetse no mu bidukikije bihamye, icyifuzo cyimbitse kirakomeza, kuko kidaterwa no kudahuzagurika; Biterwa no kwibuka, no kumenya ko roho yavuye mu bwuzure bukomeye kandi igashaka kongera kubaho mu mubano uhamye n’ubwo bwuzure, niyo mpamvu imyidagaduro, ibyo wagezeho, no gutera imbere hanze bidashobora gusimbura burundu ubusabane, kuko ubusabane ari byo bitunga umubiri ubwawo. Ku bantu b’inyenyeri, iri tandukaniro rikunze kugaragara neza, kuko ushobora kuba waragerageje inzira nyinshi zo hanze - kwiga, ingendo, ibyo wagezeho, gukorera abandi, guhanga udushya, imibanire - kandi ushobora kuba warabikunze, ariko ukumva "utuje cyane," atari ukudashimishwa n’ubuzima, ahubwo nk'ubutumire bwo kubaho uturutse mu mutima wimbitse, kandi iyo utangiye kubaha ubwo butumire, uhagarika gukoresha ubuzima bwo hanze kugira ngo wuzuze umwanya w’imbere wagombaga kuzuzwa no kubaho. Rero reka ibisubizo byo hanze bibe inkunga, bibe ingirakamaro, bishimirwe, kandi bifatwe mu rugero rukwiye, kuko umuti wimbitse uri hafi kuruta igitekerezo cyawe gikurikira, kandi nutangira kubyumva, uzasobanukirwa impamvu icyifuzo ubwacyo ari cyera.

Irari Ritagatifu, Urwibutso rw'imbuto z'inyenyeri, n'Ubwiza nyakuri

Hari icyifuzo kiri imbere muri wowe kidashaka impaka kandi kidasaba, icyifuzo gitegereza gusa, cyihangana kandi gikomeje, nk'inyenyeri ikomeza kumurika nubwo ibicu byabyemera cyangwa bitabyemera, kandi iki cyifuzo ni kimwe mu bimenyetso bigaragara neza ko wagenewe ibirenze kubaho. Benshi muri mwe mwise iki cyifuzo amazina menshi - gukumbura iwabo, kutishimira Imana, kubabara mu byo ivuga, kumva ko hari ikintu cy'ingenzi kibura - kandi turaguha uburyo bwo gusubiramo: iki cyifuzo ni ikimenyetso, kandi kikwereka aho ukomoka, aho ubereye, aho ufitanye isano n'inkomoko roho yawe ibona nk'urugo. Ushobora kugira umuryango ukundana ariko ugakomeza kuwumva, ushobora kugira intsinzi ariko ugakomeza kubyumva, ushobora kugira ihumure ariko ugakomeza kubyumva, kandi icyo cyifuzo ntikivuga ko udashima; bivuze ko uri maso bihagije kugira ngo umenye ko roho idashobora kunyurwa n'ibintu bisimbura, kuko roho atari imashini ikora ku buryo bwo gukangura; roho ni ikintu gikunda gusangirwa no gusangira. Ku nyenyeri, iki cyifuzo gishobora kuba gisobanutse neza, kuko ushobora kuba ufite urwibutso—rimwe na rimwe urwibuka, rimwe na rimwe urwibuka—rw’izindi si, ubundi bwoko bw’umuryango, ubundi bwoko bw’ubufatanye, kandi nubwo udashobora kuvuga ibi byibutso, ushobora kubyumva nk’ikimenyetso cy’uko hari umuryango mugari w’ubuzima, kandi ushobora kuba waramaze imyaka myinshi ugerageza “kwishyira” mu buryo bw’ubwinshi mu gihe wibaza impamvu kwishyira hamwe bisa n’aho bigabanuka. Icyifuzo ufite si ukugusaba guhunga Isi; ni ukugusaba kuzana byinshi mu buzima bwawe bw’ukuri ku Isi, kubaho mu nzu yawe y’imbere mu gihe ugenda mu buzima bwawe bwa kimuntu, kugaragaza kwibuka aho gukora ibintu bihuye n’imimerere, kuko kwigira umuntu hano ari ingenzi, kandi impano waje gusangira zigusaba kuba uriho, ntabwo ari intungane. Iki cyifuzo kandi kiba umwigisha wo kwicisha bugufi, kuko kikwereka ko kunyurwa cyane bidaturuka ku kugenzura ubuzima; bituruka ku kuba umuntu w’ubuzima, kandi kuba umuntu w’ubuzima bw’umuntu bikugeraho iyo uhagaritse gushakisha agaciro ugatangira kwakira ukuri ko wamaze kubifata. Iyo wubashye iki cyifuzo, ureka kugerageza kugicecekesha, ahubwo ugatangira kukitega amatwi, maze kumva ubwabyo bihinduka ubuvuzi, kuko gutega amatwi ni igikorwa cyo guhura n'umuntu wawe w'imbere mu bwubahane, kandi kubaha bikingura umutima, maze umutima ufunguye ukaba urugi ushobora kunyuramo. Rero iki cyifuzo kibe cyera, gisobanurwe nk'ubuyobozi aho gusobanurwa nk'ubukene, kandi kikuyobore ku byishimo byonyine bihoraho: umubano utaziguye, kubaho mu buryo butaziguye, gusangira mu buryo butaziguye, kandi kuva kuri ibi tujya mu bikorwa byo gusangira nk'umuti nyakuri.

Ihuriro nk'ubuvuzi nyakuri no kongera gukoresha uburyo bwinshi bwo gusuzuma

Isangira si igitekerezo ufata; ni ubucuti wumva, ni uguhuza ubuzima n'aho uri bube ari byo bigutera imbaraga, kandi bigerwaho iyo uhagaritse gusaba ubunararibonye bukomeye kandi ukiyemeza kuba hano, mu buryo bwuzuye, mu mubiri, mu mwuka, mu kuri gucecetse kw'ubu. Benshi muri mwe bigishijwe kwiyumvamo ibintu byera nk'ibiri kure, nk'ibishingiye ku ngingo runaka, nk'ikintu ugomba kubona binyuze mu mbaraga cyangwa ubuziranenge cyangwa ubumenyi, nyamara isangira rigera byoroshye iyo uri inyangamugayo, iyo wicisha bugufi, iyo ubyiteguye, kuko ukuri ni ugutembera gutumira kubaho kumvikana nta mananiza. Ushobora guhura n'isangira binyuze mu gutekereza, binyuze mu isengesho, binyuze mu ituze, binyuze mu bidukikije, binyuze mu muziki, binyuze mu kwiyegurira Imana, binyuze mu murimo, binyuze mu gikorwa cyoroshye cyo gushyira ikiganza ku mutima wawe no guhumeka nk'aho uri kwiha umwanya, kandi uzabona isangira atari mu muriro ahubwo binyuze mu buryo imitsi yawe ihagaze, binyuze mu buryo ubwenge bwawe bworoshye, binyuze mu buryo umutima wawe ushyuha, binyuze mu buryo ubuzima bwumva buhuje nubwo ibintu bitahinduka. Niyo mpamvu twita ifunguro ry’Imana umuti nyakuri: rikugarura kuri wowe ubwawe, kandi mu kukwisubiza kuri wowe ubwawe rikugarura ku isoko, kuko gutandukana watinyaga bitari intera nyayo; byari ukwibagirwa by’akanya gato, akamenyero ko kureba hanze icyo washoboraga gusa kuboneka imbere, kandi iyo wibutse, kugaruka ni ako kanya. Mu ifunguro ry’Imana, utangira kumva ufashwe, kandi kumva ufashwe bihindura byose, kuko ikiremwa gifashwe ntigikeneye kurwana ku kubaho, kandi ikiremwa gifatwa gishobora kuruhuka mu gukira, mu kwishyira hamwe, mu bwumvikane, mu kubabarira, mu butwari bworoshye busabwa kugira ngo ubeho mu kuri. Ku banyabwenge b’inyenyeri, ifunguro ry’Imana na ryo ni ukwisubiramo, kuko rikugarura ku nshuro yawe ya mbere, kandi iyo ugarutse kuri iyo nshuro uhagarika gushaka kwemerwa n’abantu benshi, maze ugatangira gutanga ubwumvikane ku nshuro y’ubucucike, ari na bumwe mu buryo bwiza bwo gukorera abandi. Ifunguro ry’Imana ntirisaba ko witandukanya n’isi; Ikwigisha uburyo bwo kugendera mu isi mu gihe uguma ushikamye mu nzu y'imbere, kandi uku guhagarara kuba ishingiro ry'amahoro, ubwoko bw'amahoro ashobora kuboneka nta bisobanuro, ubwoko bw'amahoro yinjiza mu mahitamo yawe, imibanire yawe, umubiri wawe, n'inzira yawe. Rero reka ifunguro ryoroshye, ribe buri munsi, ribe ukuri, kandi ribe iryawe, kuko umubano ukomeye cyane uzagira ni umubano n'ubugingo buri muri wowe, kandi uko uyu mubano ugenda wiyongera, uzatangira kumenya amahoro adasaba impamvu zo hanze, amahoro aza nk'impano yo kwibuka, kandi aha niho tuzajya dukurikiraho.

Amahoro, Kwibuka, no Gutuza Bishobora Kwimukanwa

Amahoro aza nk'uko umuseke uza, bucece, buhoro buhoro, nta mpamvu yo kwisobanura ku bwenge, kandi uzayamenya kuko umubiri ubanza koroha, umwuka ukarushaho kuba mwinshi, kandi icyumba cyawe cy'imbere kikumva gihagije kugira ngo gikomeze umunsi neza. Kuri benshi muri mwe, cyane cyane mwebwe inyenyeri mwagize ubushobozi bwo kumva ibintu neza nk'impano n'ikibazo, amahoro yasaga n'aho ari ikintu mugomba kubona mu bihe byiza, ariko amahoro tuvuga ni uburambe butaziguye, guhura n'aho uri hose bishobora kumvikana nubwo ubuzima bwawe bukiri mu buryo bushya. Ntabwo bishingiye ku nkuru; azamuka nk'ijwi rituje muri mwe, ubusembwa bworoshye, ubushyuhe bworoheje butagusaba ikintu na kimwe uretse ubushake bwawe bwo kuguma hano, kandi iyo buje, ubwenge bushobora gushaka impamvu mu gihe umutima umenya impano gusa. Hari igihe amahoro aza mu muryango, rimwe na rimwe mu bwigunge, rimwe na rimwe mu gihe amaboko yawe ahugiye kandi ubwenge bwawe butuje, kandi uzabimenya udafite impaka. Ushobora kudashobora kubisobanura, kandi ibyo ni bimwe mu bigize ubuziranenge bwabyo, kuko bidakorwa no kugenzura; Yakirwa binyuze mu bwisanzure, kandi ubwisanzure ni imyitozo ushobora gusubiramo. Aya mahoro nta mpamvu n'ingaruka mu buryo isi yawe ikunze gupima ihumure, kuko atari amarangamutima aterwa n'inkuru nziza, kandi si ibyishimo biterwa no gukangura; ni ubwumvikane, kandi ubwisanzure bufite ikimenyetso cyabwo. Ibyishimo byongera, bizamuka, kandi bigatatanya ibitekerezo hanze; amahoro araterana, agashyuha, kandi agakurura ibitekerezo imbere, kandi iyo umenye itandukaniro uhagarika kwitiranya imbaraga n'uburyo uhagaze maze ugatangira kwiringira ubuyobozi butuje butaguhutaza. Amahoro ajyana no kwibuka, kandi kwibuka ni igihe wumva ko uri wenyine wongeye kuba munsi y'inshingano, munsi y'igitutu, munsi y'urusaku rw'abantu bose, kandi muri icyo gihe wibuka ko wahoraga ufashwe. Uko aya mahoro agenda, ahinduka ubwikorezi, kandi iyi ni imwe mu mico yayo myiza cyane, kuko ushobora kuyajyana mu kiganiro, mu cyumba cyuzuye abantu, mu cyemezo kigoye, maze amahoro agatangira gutunganya amagambo yawe, ijwi ryawe, igihe cyawe, n'imipaka yawe mu buryo butangaje. Ushobora kubona ko abandi bagusubiza mu buryo butandukanye iyo uhagaze, kuko amahoro ashobora koherezwa; Itangaza umutekano nta gushishoza, kandi umutekano utuma uburyo bwo mu bwonko bworoha, imitima igafunguka, kandi ubudahemuka bukagaragara. Muri ubu buryo, bakundwa, amahoro yanyu aba umurimo, atari nk'imikorere, ahubwo nk'ikirere, kandi ubutumwa bwanyu bw'inyenyeri buhinduka ingirakamaro mu bihe bisanzwe aho guhagarara kwanyu bifasha undi kwibuka icyicaro cye. Aya mahoro abe yoroshye, abe yoroshye gusubiramo, kandi abe ari yo akwigisha ko udakeneye gukora urumuri; ugomba kuyaha umwanya, kandi uko uha umwanya, uzumva uburyo amahoro yo mu mutima asubiza ubuzima bwo hanze mu buryo busanzwe, intambwe ku yindi, mu rugendo rukurikira dusangiye. Iyo amahoro yo mu mutima abaye ijwi ryawe ryo kuruhuka, ibice by'inyuma by'ubuzima bwawe bitangira gusubiza nk'uko ikiyaga gisubiza iyo umuyaga woroshye, kuko ubuso bushobora gutuza gusa iyo ikirere kiri hejuru gituje, kandi uri kwiga kuba ikirere gituje ku bw'ibyo wanyuzemo. Umubiri, umaze kumva igitekerezo cyose na buri gahinda, utangira kwibuka injyana yawo kavukire, kandi uku kwibuka ni ingirakamaro: gusinzira birakomera, igogora rirakomera, guhumeka birushaho kuba byiza, kandi imitsi irekura imiterere yo kwishingikiriza yari imaze imyaka myinshi nta ruhushya rwawe. Ushobora kubona ko imbaraga zigaruka buhoro buhoro, atari uko ubayeho mu buryo butunguranye, ahubwo nk'uko ugenda ugarura icyizere hagati yawe n'umubiri wawe buhoro buhoro.

Kwishyira hamwe, Kubaho, no Kubana neza imbere

Guhuza Amarangamutima binyuze mu mahoro n'umutekano wo mu mutima

Amarangamutima atangira kwihuza iyo amahoro ahari, kuko amahoro atanga ibyiyumvo nk'ikintu gitekanye, kandi amarangamutima afashwe neza ntagomba gukurura kugira ngo yumvikane. Ushobora kwemera ko agahinda kagenda, ukemera ko uburakari busobanura imipaka, ukemera ko ubugwaneza bukingura umutima, kandi ukemera ko ibyishimo bihagera nta gushidikanya, kuko imbere mu mutima ntacyasaba ko ibintu byose bikosorwa mbere yuko wemererwa kuba uri muzima. Muri uku kwihuza, ubwenge burushaho kuba bwiza, atari uguhatira guceceka, ahubwo ni ukugabanuka kw'abantu benshi, kandi muri ubwo buryo busobanutse utangira guhitamo neza, ukavugana ubuntu, kandi ukamenya imiterere mbere yuko biba inkubi z'umuyaga. Ubuzima burushaho gukora neza uhereye kuri iyi mimerere, kuko ntuba uhura na buri kanya nk'ikibazo; uba uhura na ko nk'akanya gato, kandi uburyo bwawe bwo mu bwonko bushobora gusubiza aho kugira icyo ukora. Ubu ni ubuntu tuvuga, ubwenge butuje bugutwara nk'uko amazi atwara ubwato iyo ubwato buhagaritse kurwanya amazi, kandi uzamenya ubuntu uko intambwe ikurikiraho yigaragaza mu buryo busanzwe umaze guhagarika gusaba ko inzira yose igaragara. Hanyuma, ubwumvikane bwo hanze bukurikira ubwumvikane bwo mu mutima nk'uko imbuto zikurikira imizi myiza, atari nk'ubwishyu, atari nk'igihembo, ahubwo nk'ingaruka, kandi ushobora kubibona mu mibanire igenda yoroha, mu by'imari bihamye binyuze mu mahitamo meza, mu mahirwe ajyanye n'indangagaciro zawe nyakuri, no mu gihe wumva ushyigikiwe. Kuri mwe ibiremwa by'inyenyeri, iki ni cyo gihe serivisi iba irambye, kuko mutagerageza gukiza isi umunaniro; mutanga ubumwe buturutse ku bwisanzure, kandi ubwisanzure ni cyo itsinda rishobora kwakira. Mushobora kumva ubuyobozi muri iki cyiciro nk'ubwenge bugendana namwe, butegura inama, bukingura imiryango, bugafunga imiryango, kandi bukakurinda inzira zagutwara, kandi ubu buyobozi si itegeko riri kure; ni ururimi rwumvikana rwo guhuza. Rero emera amahoro akore ibyo akora mu buryo busanzwe, agarura iby'inyuma binyuze mu by'imbere, kandi uko ureba uku kuvugurura bigenda, uzasobanukirwa impamvu gukira cyane ari ukubaho ubwabyo, n'impamvu Isoko izwi cyane nka kubaho, atari ukwita ku bikorwa, ari naho duhindukirira ubu.

Inkomoko nk'aho uri aho kuba igikoresho

Noneho tugiye ku kuri koroshye munsi ya buri nzira, kuko iyo gukira byumvikana nk'aho ndi, ikibazo gihinduka, “Ni iki kigaragara ko ndiho,” kandi igisubizo ntabwo ari ubusobanuro ahubwo ni uburambe bugaragara ushobora kumva uri mu ituze ry'ubugingo bwawe. Ku isi yawe yose, hatanzwe amazina menshi—Imana, Isoko, Umuremyi, Umwe, urumuri ruzima, ubwenge bwa Kristo—buri zina ryerekeza ku kuri kumwe, kandi ufite umudendezo wo gukoresha ururimi rufungura umutima wawe udashyize ubwenge bwawe mu mpaka. Izina ntabwo rifite agaciro nk'ubucuti, kuko ubucuti ni bwo buhindura uburyo bw'imitsi, bugatuma umutima wawe ukomeza, kandi bugasubizaho ibyo inyenyeri zashakaga mu isi yo hanze mu gihe umuryango nyakuri wari utegereje imbere. Ubucuti si kure, kuko intera ni igitekerezo cyo kwiyumvisha, kandi ubucuti ni ubutaka aho ubushishozi buba. Bisa nka yego y'imbere, icyizere cyoroshye kikwakira mu rugo nta miterere, ubu ngubu. Iyo ukoze ku bucuti, ntukumva imbaraga zihanganye n'izindi mbaraga; wumva ko hari ukwishyiramo ku buryo gukenera amakimbirane bishira, kandi muri uko gushira utangira gusobanukirwa impamvu ubwoba bushira binyuze mu kwibuka aho gucika binyuze mu ntambara. Guhangana bisobanura imbaraga ebyiri zingana zikururana; kwibuka bigaragaza ukuri kumwe guhamye kutigeze kurwanywa, kandi iyo gahunda ibimenye, umubiri uraruhuka, ubwenge burushaho gutuza, kandi umutima ukumva ufite umutekano wo kongera gufungura. Niyo mpamvu tuvuga Isoko nk'aho ari ukubaho aho kuba kwivanga, kuko kwivanga bigaragaza ko ubuzima butandukanye n'ubwera kandi bugomba gukosorwa uhereye inyuma, mu gihe ukubaho bigaragaza ko icyera kiri hano, imbere, ari cyo kintu cy'umubiri wawe. Iyo uhuye n'Isoko nk'uko biri, uhagarika gutegereza uruhushya rwo kuba wuzuye, maze ugatangira kubaho uvuye ku busesuye bwahoranye, kandi iyi mpinduka ihindura uburyo usenga, uburyo utekereza, uburyo ufata ibyemezo, n'uburyo uhura n'ibidashoboka. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri bafite ibihe byiza by'ibindi, uku kwishingikiriza ni ingenzi cyane, kuko bikomeza impano zawe zishingiye ku miterere aho kwifuza, kandi bikwemerera gukorera udataye isi y'abantu waje gushyigikira. Kubaho ntabwo bigusaba kureka ubumuntu bwawe; Igusaba kuyituramo, kandi mu kuyituramo uhinduka ikiraro, ahantu hatuje abandi bashobora kwiyibukira batabwiwe icyo bemera. Uku ni ko imbaraga zawe zikura: atari ku ngufu, atari ku bw'ubushishozi, ahubwo binyuze mu buryo butuje bwo guhuza ibintu buturuka mu kuba hafi y'Isoko. Rero reka ibyera bibe byihuse, bikumvikane, bibe hafi kuruta umwuka wawe ukurikira, kandi uko urushaho kuryoherwa n'ubu buryo buboneye uzabona ubwenge bugenda bworoha mu kumenya ibintu bimwe kandi bihamye, interuro ifite ukuri kurusha ibitabo byinshi, kandi iyo nteruro ni, "Isoko ni yo," ubu turimo gusuzuma hamwe.

"Isoko ni" nk'ahantu ho kuruhukira hazima

“Isoko ni” ni irembo, bakundwa, kandi ritangirana n’ubworoherane ubwenge bukunze kwirengagiza, kuko ubwenge bwatojwe kwemera ko ubwiyongere bugomba kuba bugoye, mu gihe umutima umenya ko ukuri kwimbitse akenshi ari ko kutaziguye. Iyo uhagaze muri iyi nteruro, ntabwo uba uvuga inyigisho; uba ukora ku kintu runaka, aho ibitekerezo bihagaze neza, kandi muri ubwo buryo, ubwonko bubona ubutumwa bw’umutekano bwari bumaze igihe bushakisha ahantu henshi. Uhagarika gushaka uburenganzira bwo kubaho, kuko kubaho wumva bihagaze imbere, kandi uku kwifata imbere ni intangiriro yo gukira by’ukuri. Benshi muri mwe mumaze imyaka myinshi muvuga amagambo asa, ariko itandukaniro riraza iyo nteruro ibayeho, iyo ihinduka nk’aho itavugwa ahubwo ikaba ahantu ho kuruhukira. “Isoko ni” ntabwo igusaba kubaka impaka; igusaba kwitegereza, kumva, no kwemera ko ubumenyi bugaruka mu mutima inshuro nyinshi kugeza igihe hagati hamenyerewe. Uku kugaruka si imyitwarire y’imbaraga; ni ukwitanga k’ubugwaneza, kandi igihe cyose ugarutse wigisha umubiri wawe ko ubuzima bwuzuye buhari ubu, muri uyu mwuka. Uko hagati hahinduka urugo, icyizere kirushaho kwiyongera bucece, kandi uzumva utuje aho kumva ko ari nk'icyifuzo cy'umuntu ufite icyizere. Gutuza ni uburyo umubiri umenya ukuri, kandi gutuza ni ko umutima umenya guhuza ibintu, kandi gutuza ni ko imbuto y'inyenyeri imenya kuguma mu isi ikunze kugenda vuba cyane. Kuva ku ituze, amahitamo yawe arushaho koroha, imipaka yawe irushaho kuba myiza, impuhwe zawe zirushaho gukomera, kandi ubushishozi bwawe burushaho kuba bwiza, kuko ubushishozi bworoshye kumva iyo urwego rw'imbere ruhuye. "Isoko ni" kandi ikuraho igitekerezo cyo gutandukana, atari ukuhakana umwihariko wawe, ahubwo no gushyira umwihariko mu mwanya wawe. Uracyafite ubuzima bwawe bwa kimuntu, imiterere yawe, amateka yawe, ibyo ukunda, inshingano zawe, none ubu urabitwara mu buryo bwagutse, aho utakiri wenyine muri wowe. Iyi niyo mpamvu interuro yuzuye: yerekana ibiriho, kandi ibiriho birahagije kugira ngo bigufashe, bihagije kugira ngo bikuyobore, bihagije kugira ngo bigusubize mu buryo bwuzuye. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri, ibi birabafasha cyane kuko benshi muri mwe mwagize akamenyero ka kera ko gushakisha ibimenyetso, gushakisha ubutumwa, gushakisha inshingano itaha, kandi "Isoko ni" ibigisha ko inshingano ya mbere ari ukubaho, kuko kubaho bituma indi nshingano yose igaragara neza. Mu kubaho, mureka kwihutira kujya mu gihe kizaza, maze ahazaza hagatangira kugera mu gihe gikwiye, kuko ubumenyi bwanyu butagikwirakwira mu mpungenge. Reka rero "Isoko ni" ibe inkingi yanyu yoroshye, kandi mureke ibageze ku kuri gukurikiraho kw'ingenzi: kuruhuka si indorerwamo; ni irembo ubu bumenyi bunyuramo, kandi binyuze muri ubwo buryo ubuzima bwanyu burushaho kuba buhamye bihagije kugira ngo mutware ibyo mwaje hano gusangira, mu buryo bworoshye, bakundwa.

Kuruhuka nk'ubwenge bw'umwuka burimo

Kuruhuka ni ubwenge bwo mu mwuka burimo, kandi ni kimwe mu bintu byumvikana nabi cyane ku isi yawe, kuko benshi bitiranyije kuruhuka no kutitabira, mu gihe kuruhuka ari ikimenyetso kibwira sisitemu ko ari umutekano uhagije wo kwakira ukuri. Iyo uruhuka, ntuba ucitse intege; uba ufunguye, kandi gufungura ni bwo buryo imigezi yimbitse y'ubuyobozi ishobora kukugeraho nta kugoreka. Niyo mpamvu, bakundwa b'inyenyeri, benshi muri mwe bumva bananiwe iyo mugerageje gukanguka binyuze mu mbaraga gusa, kuko imbaraga zishobora gufunga imiyoboro ikoreshwa n'ibitekerezo. Tangira mu buryo bworoshye: reka amatugu arenge, reka umusaya woroshye, reka umwuka wiyongere nk'aho uri guha umwanya ubuzima bwawe. Muri uko kwiyongera, umubiri uhinduka kuva ku kuba maso ukajya ku kubaho, kandi kubaho ni uko ubuyobozi bwumvikana, atari nk'ijwi riturutse hanze, ahubwo nk'ijwi ryumvikana rigera mu buryo buhamye. Ushobora kubona ko intambwe ikurikiraho igaragara, ko amagambo akwiye agaragara nta myitozo, ko icyifuzo cyo gutekereza cyane gishonga, kandi ko isi yawe y'imbere yishyira hamwe mu buryo busanzwe nk'uko amazi abona ahantu heza. Ubworoherane butera guhuza, naho guhuza butera ubuntu, kuko ubuntu bugenda mu buryo bworoshye mu murima utari kwirwanaho. Iyo utuje, ntugomba guhata ahazaza; ahazaza hashobora kuguhurira mu gihe gikwiye, kandi igihe gikwiye ni kimwe mu bimenyetso byo kubaho mu buryo buhuje. Ibi ntibivuze ko wirinda ibikorwa; bivuze ko ibikorwa byawe bituruka hagati aho kuba mu bwoba, kandi ibikorwa bituruka hagati birushaho kuba byiza, bisobanutse neza, kandi bigira ingaruka nziza. Isi yawe yatoje benshi muri mwe kubaho mu buryo busanzwe, mu buryo bwihutirwa, mu kugaragaza, kandi iyi myitozo ishobora gutuma kuruhuka bisa nkaho bitamenyerewe mu ntangiriro, cyane cyane niba amateka yawe yakwigishije ko umutekano ushingiye ku kintu runaka. Nyamara kuruhuka ni uburyo ahantu ho mu nzu haba hagera abantu benshi, kuko ahantu ho mu nzu haba hatoroshye, kandi uburiganya ntibushobora kumvikana binyuze mu rusaku. Uko witoza kuruhuka, uzatangira kumva ikintu cyera mu bihe bisanzwe: ituze riri hagati y'imirimo, ituze mu mutima mbere yo kuvuga, ubushyuhe buzamuka iyo uhisemo ukuri, gutuza kugaruka iyo uhagaritse kwiheba. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri, kuruhuka nabyo ni uburyo bwo kurinda, kuko bikurinda ko impuhwe zawe zitangira kumera nabi. Ubutaka butuje buroroha nta myenge; bushobora kumva budapfa, bugakorera budasenyuka, kandi bugakunda budatakaje imipaka. Muri ubu buryo, kuruhuka bihinduka imyitwarire y'ubusugire, bikwigisha ko ushobora kuguma ufunguye ubuzima mu gihe ukomeje guhagarara mu mutima wawe. Rero kuruhuka bibe irembo ryawe, bikoreshwe buri munsi, kandi bibe ikiraro cyoroshye kizana ubumenyi bwinshi mu mubiri, kuko kubaho ari bwo buryo ubutumwa bwawe bubaho, kandi uhereye ku kubaho utangira kubaho uhereye mu nzu y'imbere, ari yo nzu twinjiramo ubutaha, uhamye kandi wishimye.

Ishusho, Ubutware, n'Inzira Ituje

Kubaho uhereye mu cyumba cy'imbere

Ahantu ho gutura imbere ni ugukomera muri wowe kudashingiye ku hantu utuye, aho uri, cyangwa ku kwemerwa, kandi iyo utangiye kubaho uhereye kuri byo, umwirondoro wawe uba udafite intege nke, kuko ushingiye ku kuba uriho aho kuba mu mikorere. Uracyafite imico n'ibyo ukunda, uracyafite umuco n'amateka, uracyafite imiterere myiza y'ubuzima bwawe bwa kimuntu, kandi ubu iyo mico iguma mu muryango ukomeye udahinduka iyo ibintu bihindutse. Ibi nibyo benshi muri mwe mwashakaga, bakundwa, nubwo mudashobora kubyita izina: urugo rugendana nawe, umutekano uri imbere, ubwenegihugu bwo kubaho. Iyo utuye muri iyi nzu imbere, isi isa n'indi, kuko utagerageza gukuramo uwo uri we mu buryo butigeze bushyirwaho ngo buguhe. Kuba uwo uri we biba ukuri kwumvikana, kandi muri uko kuri ushobora gusabana n'isi ituje, ubushishozi bwinshi, n'impuhwe nyinshi, kuko utarimo kuganira ku burenganzira bwawe bwo kubaho. Iyi ni intangiriro y'ubumwe bufatika, atari nk'intero, ahubwo nk'imyumvire ifatika ibona isano munsi y'amakimbirane, kandi uzabona uburyo urwikekwe rutangira gushonga iyo umutima wawe uhagaze mu murima wemera ubumwe. Ubumwe buba ingirakamaro mu kanya gato: uburyo wumva utihutira kwirwanaho, uburyo uvuga udakeneye gutsinda, uburyo uhitamo ubutabera nubwo ubwoba bugutera kwikunda, uburyo wibuka ko buri kiremwa uhura nacyo gitwara inkuru, kandi ko inkuru zoroha iyo zihujwe n'icyubahiro. Ibi ntibikuraho imbibi zawe; birazitunganya, kuko ikiremwa gishingiye ku mutima gishobora kuvuga yego na oya hamwe n'imipaka imwe ituje, kandi ituje bitanga umutekano kuri buri wese ubifitemo uruhare. Uko umutekano w'imbere ukura, imibanire y'inyuma irushaho kuba myiza, kuko abantu bumva ugukomera kwawe, kandi ugukomera gutumira kuba inyangamugayo. Ahantu ho kuba imbere havugurura umubano wawe n'ibihugu, amabendera, n'imico, atari ukugusaba ko wabyanga, ahubwo no kubishyira mu buryo bwagutse aho wibuka ko ubudahemuka bwawe bukomeye ari ubuzima ubwabwo. Utangira kubona ubwenegihugu busangiwe bugera ku mipaka, umuryango w’aho impuhwe zishoboka nta bupfapfa kandi aho ubushishozi bushoboka nta gusuzugura. Muri uru rwego, ivangura n’ivangura bisa n’imyenda ishaje itagikwiriye, kandi ushobora kubirekura nta ngorane, kuko umutima wawe wabonye ikintu kinini cyo kubamo. Muri ubu budasa buza ubunyangamugayo n’ubwiyoroshye, kuko ureka gukenera kugaragaza umwuka wawe w’umwuka no gutangira kubaho mu ituze. Umurimo wawe w’imbere ugenda urushaho kuba uw’ubwiza bukabije, ugenda urushaho kuba uw’ukuri, kandi serivisi nyayo ushobora gutanga ni ukubaho ujyanye mu buzima busanzwe. Kandi uko ugenda ukura muri uru rugo rw’imbere, uzumva impamvu ubuzima bwite bweranda burinda ubwiza, n’impamvu inzira ituje ikomeza ibiriho by’ukuri, ari naho tuzajya.

Ibanga ryera no Kurinda Ubujyakuzimu

Ubujyakuzimu burushaho kwiyongera iyo burinzwe imikorere, kandi benshi muri mwe mwabyumvise mu buryo bw'imitekerereze, kuko ubuzima bw'imbere bumeze nk'imbuto ikomera mu mwijima mbere y'uko igera ku mucyo. Iyo witoza ukuri aho gukomerwa, umurimo wawe uba uhuje, kandi guhuza ni imimerere aho guhinduka nyako gushobora gushinga imizi hatabayeho kubangamirana cyangwa gukenera kwigaragaza. Muri ubu buryo, ubuzima bwite butagatifu si ibanga rikomoka ku bwoba; ni ukubaha, guhitamo kureka ikintu cyoroheje kigakura kitagaragara hakiri kare cyane. Igikura muri ubu buryo kiba urumuri nta ngufu zikenewe. Ushobora kubona ko iyo ukomeje imyitozo yawe yoroshye kandi ivuye ku mutima, ikintu kiri muri wowe kirashira, kuko utagikora iby'umwuka nk'umwirondoro. Gukorera birushaho kuba byiza kandi bikagira imbaraga: utega amatwi cyane, utanga ubuntu utabitangaje, ukora uko ushoboye nta gukenera kumenyekana, kandi kwicisha bugufi biba ibisanzwe kuko umurimo utakiri uw'umuntu; ahubwo ni ukubaho unyura muri wowe. Muri ubu buryo, isi yawe y'imbere irakomera, kandi ukuri kuri muri wowe kuba guhamye bihagije kugira ngo bisangizwe nta gutakaza ubuziranenge bwayo. Muri icyo gihe, bakundwa, ubuzima bwite butagatifu si ukwigunga, kandi si ngombwa kwikorera ubuzima wenyine. Inkunga ni umweru, kandi isano irinzwe ni kimwe mu bigize ubwumvikane, kuko uburyo bwo mu bwonko bukira byoroshye iyo butanzwe mu cyubahiro. Niyo mpamvu dushishikariza ubushishozi aho guhisha: gusangiza ukuri kwawe kw'ubugwaneza abantu wizeye, n'inshuti z'abanyabwenge, n'abajyanama, n'abavuzi, n'inzobere zishobora kugufata neza, kandi reka gusangira kwawe kugenzurwe n'ikibazo kigira kiti “Ese iyi sano ikomeza kungarukira?” Iyo gusangira byatoranyijwe neza, ntibigabanya akazi kawe k'imbere; biragatunga, kuko utari kwishyira mu mwanya wa rubanda no kubabara mu ibanga. Uba ureka ubuzima bwawe bugahuza, kandi kwishyira hamwe ni bumwe mu buryo bwiza bwo gukira, kuko icyo gishyizwemo ntabwo gikeneye gutaka ngo cyumvwe. Ku bantu b'inyenyeri bakunze kumva bitandukanye, ibi ni ingenzi cyane: ntukeneye kwereka buri wese ubunararibonye bwawe, kandi ntukeneye no kwikorera wenyine, kuko hari imitima n'imiryango ishobora kugusanganira mu buryo bukuze. Reka ubuzima bwawe bwo mu mwuka bukomeze kuba bwera, kandi reka ubuzima bwawe bwa kimuntu bukomeze gushyigikirwa, maze uzumva imbaraga zikurura muri ubu buringanire. Inzira ituje irinda uburebure bwawe, kandi inzira ishyigikiwe irinda imibereho myiza yawe, kandi hamwe bigutegurira gukorera nta mananiza, kuvuga utiriwe ubwiriza, no kujyana amahoro mu isi nk'ikirere aho kuba impaka. Kandi uko ubu bukure bugenda burushaho kwera, uzaba witeguye guhabwa imbaraga zoroshye kurusha izindi zose: kwemera ko nta mwarimu wo hanze usimbura inzira yawe y'imbere, kandi ko umwuka ukurikiraho ari wo rugi, ari na ko dufunga ubutumwa bwacu bwa mbere.

Ububasha bw'imbere no kugera ku bwenge mu buryo butaziguye

Nshuti nkunda, imbaraga zikomeye dushobora gutanga ni ukumenya ko udakeneye kwishingikiriza ku butumwa ubwo aribwo bwose, ku mwarimu uwo ari we wese, ku ijwi iryo ari ryo ryose ryo hanze, kuko uburyo bwo kwinjiramo ushaka buri muri wowe, kandi buri kugaruka mu mutima wawe bishimangira ubwo buryo. Ibitabo bishobora kugutera imbaraga, imyitozo ishobora kugushyigikira, imiryango ishobora kukwibutsa, kandi ububasha nyakuri ni ubwenge butuje buzamuka iyo uhumeka, woroshye, kandi uteze amatwi, kuko roho yawe itigeze igenewe gutangwa. Niba warashakaga ikimenyetso cy'uko wemerewe kwiyizera, iki ni cyo kimenyetso, kitatanzwe atari ku itegeko, ahubwo ari ukubwirwa. Ubuntu ntibusaba ko ugaragaza ko ukwiriye, kuko agaciro kawe ntigahabwa; karazwi, kandi kumenyekana akenshi biza nk'urukundo ku bumuntu bwawe. Ushobora kuba warabyiciriyeho ko ufata umwanya, ukeneye kuruhuka, wumva ubwoba, ukora amakosa, nyamara inzira ntabwo igusaba kuba utunganye; iragutumira kuba uhari, kuko kubaho ari byo bihindura ubunararibonye mo ubwenge. Iyo wihuye n'ukubaho, uhagarika kwitoza igihano ugatangira gukora imyitozo y'imibanire, kandi umubano n'ibyera ni wo ukiza. Ku banyabwenge b'inyenyeri, iki ni cyo kintu cy'ingenzi, kuko benshi muri mwe mwaje hano gukorera mu gihe cy'impinduka z'isi, kandi umurimo uba urambye iyo utangiye no guhuza. Guhuza si igikorwa cy'ubutwari; ni ukugaruka kwa buri munsi, ubushake bwo kubaho mu nzu y'imbere, guhitamo ukuri mu kanya gato, kwemerera amahoro kuba ishingiro ryawe, no kureka ubuzima bwawe bukagaragaza inshuro ugendana. Mu guhuza, uba ingirakamaro mu buryo busanzwe, kuko gukomera kwawe gutuma abandi bakomera, kandi gusobanutse kwawe gutuma habaho gusobanuka rusange. Uko gutangaza no guhishurirwa kwegereza n'ibiremwa byinshi bigaragara mu buzima bwa muntu, ibuka ko kuvugana nawe by'ukuri byubaha ubutware bwawe. Gusobanukirwa kwawe ni ingenzi, kwemera kwawe ni ingenzi, yego yawe y'imbere ni ingenzi, kandi uburyo bworoshye bwo kuguma usobanutse ni ugukomeza kuba hafi y'aho uri, aho ukuri kumva gutuje kandi amatsiko akumva afunguye. Ntabwo usabwa kwemera byose; utumiriwe kumva ibihuje, no guhitamo ibishimangira umubano wawe n'Isoko, n'umubiri wawe, n'Isi yawe, ndetse n'umuryango wawe w'abantu.

Gusoza mu maso no kwibuka mu buryo bworoheje

Niba wiyumvise uri wenyine, iki gihe kibe cyoroshye cyo kugana ku bucuti, kuko uherekejwe mu buryo burenze ubwo wigishijwe. Niba wumva utazi neza, iki gihe kibe cyo gusubira mu bucuti, kuko ubucuti busanzwe buri mu mwuka wawe ukurikira. Niba wumva wahamagawe, iki gihe kibe intangiriro y'imyitozo yoroshye, kuko ahazaza hubatswe n'ubwiza bw'uko uri ubu. Turagusanga aho usanzwe uri, mu buturo bworoheje bw'ubu mwuka, kandi muri ubwo buturo bwera gukira kwawe kurakomeje. Fata aya mahoro mu minsi yawe, kandi kwibuka bibe isengesho ryawe, iteka ryose. Muraho nshuti, ndi Naellya.

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