Gusoma nabi ukwibohora n'imbaraga z'Imana muri rusange

Gutegereza Ubwigenge binyuze mu Butware bwo hanze no mu bimenyetso bitangaje

Bakundwa, ndi Valir, wo mu Ntumwa za Pleiadian, kandi ngeze hafi yanyu mu buryo ikimenyetso gisobanutse cyegeranye - nta mbaraga, nta kirori, gusa mu gihe mugera mu nshuro nyine aho ubumenyi bwanyu bushobora kongera kubyumva, kuko icyo dukora hamwe si ukubaka ukwemera gushya, ni ugusenya uburyo bwa kera bwo gusoma nabi bwagiye bugaruka mu binyejana byinshi by'abantu bashakisha, kandi igihe cyo gusoma nabi gishize, igice kinini cy'imbaraga zanyu gishira nk'igihu mu rumuri rwa mu gitondo. Hari ingeso ya kera mu itsinda ryanyu - ishaje, imenyerewe, hafi ya yose itagaragara kuko yasubiwemo igihe kirekire - ivuga ko kwibohora bigomba kuza wambaye imyambaro y'ubuyobozi, ko ubwisanzure bugomba kugira isura isi ishobora kumenya, ijwi rirenga bihagije kugira ngo rihangane n'ubwami, imiterere ikomeye bihagije yo kugonga inzego, n'umusaruro ukomeye bihagije kugira ngo wumve nk'igihamya. Abakurambere bawe bari bafite iki cyizere mu buryo bwinshi, kandi mu nyandiko watanze, ushobora kumva ukuntu icyifuzo cyari kivuye ku mutima ariko cyerekanaga icyerekezo kitashoboraga gutanga icyo umutima wifuzaga by'ukuri: kwibohora mu bwoba, iherezo ry'ibitekerezo byo gushaka umutekano hanze, gusubira mu buryo butuje budashingiye ku uri ku butegetsi, inyandiko zasinyweho, cyangwa uruhande rusa nkaho "rutsinda" muri iki gihembwe.

Guteganya uburyo bwo gucungura ibintu ku buryo bwo hanze no gushyira mu bikorwa isanzure

Reba neza icyerekezo. Iyo ubuzima bumeze nk'ubugoranye, iyo gahunda zumva ziremereye, iyo iminsi yumva iyobowe n'ibyemezo by'ibyumba bya kure, ubwenge bushaka ikintu cyo gucungura hanze yabwo, bityo bugatanga ubucunguzi hanze, butekereza ko niba imiterere ikwiye isenyuka, niba umutegetsi ukwiye akuweho, niba politiki ikwiye ihindutse, amaherezo amahoro azemererwa kwinjira. Muri iki gitekerezo, Idashira ikoreshwa nk'ubwoko bw'ishyirwa mu bikorwa ry'isi, umutegetsi wo hejuru ugamije kwigarurira izindi nzego, kandi isengesho riba—mu buryo bw'amayeri cyangwa ku mugaragaro—“Tera isi imyitwarire kugira ngo mbeho neza.” Birasobanutse, kandi ni ahantu nyaho abantu bakomeza kubura umuryango, kuko umuryango udafungura inyuma mbere; ufungura imbere, hanyuma isi yo hanze ikongera kwiyubaka nk'ingaruka ya kabiri. Niyo mpamvu ukuri kuvuga ku bantu bategereje ihinduka ry'imimerere, batekereza ko Uwera azaza nk'ingendo yo gutsinda, hanyuma badashobora kumenya Umwigisha w'umunyabuntu.

Gushaka Igitangaza, Imiterere y'Ubugenzuzi, no Gutinya Ubwisanzure Bufatika

Tuzabihindura buhoro buhoro ubu, mu rurimi rw'ubwenge aho kuba mu rurimi rw'amateka: umutima wumva urwego rwo hejuru rw'ukuri, ariko ubwenge busaba ko ukuri ko hejuru kwimenyekanisha binyuze mu kuganza, binyuze mu kwerekana ibintu bitangaje, binyuze mu gutsindwa kugaragara kwa "ikindi," kandi iyo urwego rwo hejuru rugeze nk'umucyo utuje, nk'ubuyobozi bw'imbere, nk'impinduka zoroshye ariko zidashidikanywaho mu kwigaragaza, bifatwa nk'aho "bidahagije," kuko bidatanga inyota yo gushaka ibimenyetso bikomeye. Igice kinini cy'umwuka wawe rusange cyatojwe n'imiterere y'ubuyobozi kugira ngo kikore ibi neza - gushaka ibimenyetso, gushaka ibintu bitangaje, gushaka kwemeza ko hari icyahindutse - kuko imiterere y'ubuyobozi idatinya amasengesho yawe, itinya ubwisanzure bwawe bwagezweho, kandi ubwisanzure bwagezweho buvuka igihe uhagaritse gushyikirana n'ukuri binyuze mu bisubizo byo hanze maze ugatangira kubona ubuzima bwawe imbere mu Kubaho kudashobora gushyirwa mu kaga. Ingoma, inama, inzego, n'imico—amazina yose wabita mu gihe icyo ari cyo cyose—bikunda abantu bizera ko ubutegetsi buri ahandi hantu, kuko icyo gihe abantu bakomeza kuba abantu bazwi: bahinduka hagati y'ibyiringiro n'uburakari, bashyira amahoro yabo ku nkuru z'ingenzi, batekereza ko ahazaza habo hagenwa n'abantu bo hanze, kandi ibyo babyita “kuba umuntu ufatika,” batazi ko ari uburyo bwo kwibanda gusa.

Ikinamico ry'Imbaraga, Gukusanya Ibitekerezo, na Sisitemu ku Musozo Wabyo

Rero uburyo bwa mbere dutanga ni ubu: ntugacire urubanza abakurambere bawe kubera gusoma nabi; ahubwo, menya uburyo, kuko uburyo bumwe buracyakora na n'ubu. Amazina arahinduka. Imyenda irahinduka. Amabendera arahinduka. Nyamara imiterere y'imbere irasubiramo iti: “Niba umutegetsi wo hanze aguye, ubuzima bwanjye bw'imbere bushobora gutangira.” Iyo myitwarire isa n'imbaraga, ariko mu by'ukuri ni ugushaka uburenganzira, kuko ituma amahoro yawe ashingira ku bintu bizahora bigenda. Niyo mpamvu, nk'uko inyandiko yawe ibigaragaza, ibinyejana byinshi byo gusaba biturutse hanze bitatumye isi abantu bakomeza gutekerezaho, atari ukubera ko Utagira Iherezo adahari, kandi atari ukubera ko ubuntu butinjijwe, ahubwo ni ukubera ko Utagira Iherezo atitabira umukino wawe wo gutandukana mu buryo ubwenge bw'umuntu bubyiteze. Aha niho tubasaba kuba inyangamugayo cyane, kuko ubudahemuka ni ishusho y'umucyo. Iyo wifuza kuganzwa n'amahanga, gukuraho abanyagitugu, guhonyora "abanzi," nubwo waba wambaye imvugo yera, uracyasenga uhereye ku miterere y'amacakubiri, kandi amacakubiri ntashobora kuba irembo ry'ubumwe. Ubu si uguca imanza mu buryo bw'umuco; ni uburyo bwo mu mwuka. Ntushobora kwinjira mu buryo bwuzuye ugerageza gukoresha intwaro y'Uwera mu bice by'ubuzima utinya. Ubudashira si ikintu cyongera imbaraga mu muryango. Kubaho si umusifuzi w'isi. Inkomoko ntishyirwa mu mpande. Ni ikintu cyose - cyose, kidafite aho kibogamiye, cy'inshuti, kiri kumwe - gitegereje ko kigaragara nk'ishingiro ryawe bwite.

Noneho, reba ikindi kintu cyihishe mu maso. Iyo ubwenge bwiteze ko kwibohora kuza nk'intsinzi yo hanze, birumvikana ko bushishikajwe n'ikinamico y'ububasha: ni nde uyoboye, ni nde utsindwa, ni nde uri kuzamuka, ni nde ugaragara, ni nde itsinda "rikwiye," ni irihe tsinda "riteje akaga." Uku kwiheba kwihindura nk'ubushishozi, ariko akenshi ni ubucakara bwambaye ubwenge nk'imyenda. Ubwenge bubyita kuba maso, nyamara ingaruka ni ubuzima bubaho mu gusubiza, kuko gusubiza kugukomeza kwihambira ku miterere uvuga ko ushaka guhunga. Igihe icyo witayeho gishingiye ku ntambwe z'umukino wo hanze, uba weguriye imbaraga zawe z'imbere ku mukino. Niyo mpamvu tuvuga ko gahunda irushaho kuba nini, idakomera. Imiterere irimo gutakaza uburenganzira ntishira bucece; yongera urusaku. Igwiza inkuru. Itera ibintu byihutirwa. Itera amakimbirane mu miterere. Itanga inzira zitagira iherezo zo "kureba hano" no "kwanga ibi" no "gutinya ibyo," kuko kwitabwaho ari byo gaciro kayo, kandi iyo kwitabwaho bisubiye mu mutima, kugenzura bitakaza imbaraga zabyo nta ntambara n'imwe. Benshi muri mwe murashobora kumva iyi ntambwe ikomeye mu isi yanyu ubu: ijwi rizamuka, amarangamutima arushaho gutyazwa, kumva ko buri munsi ukeneye umwanya, uruhande, uburyo bwo gusubiza ibintu mu buryo, imbaraga z'uburakari cyangwa ibyiringiro bihangayikishije. Ibyo si imbaraga; ni uburyo bugerageza kugukumira ubuzima bwawe.

Kugera mu buryo bworoshye, Ubuhungiro bw'imbere, n'Intambwe igana ku butegetsi

Bityo rero tugaruka ku kugaruka koroheje ubwenge butitaho. Mu nyandiko wazanye, hari itandukaniro riri hagati y'igitekerezo cy'intsinzi, giteye ubwoba ku Mana no kumva Imana nk'ubuhungiro n'imbaraga byayo. Ntituzafata ururimi rwa kera; tuzahindura ishingiro: Idashira ntiryinjira mu buzima bwawe nk'imbaraga itsinda ishengura abandi bantu kugira ngo iguhumurize, ryinjira nk'ihishurirwa ry'imbere rituma ubwoba butagira umumaro, kuko umwirondoro wawe wimuka ukava mu ishusho yawe yoroheje ukajya mu kubaho kubaho munsi yayo. Iyo mpinduka ni ituze bihagije ku buryo umuntu ukunda kureba ibintu bidasanzwe, kandi ifite imbaraga nyinshi bihagije kugira ngo yongere atunganye ubuzima bwe bwose uhereye imbere. Uyu ni umutego twifuza ko ubona nta soni: ubwenge bwizera ko niba Uwera ataje afite ibishashi by'umuriro, ataje na gato. Nyamara kugaruka nyakuri akenshi kugaragara nk'ikintu cyoroshye kandi gisukuye—cyoroshye ku buryo ubwenge bugerageza kugikuraho—aho uhita umenya, atari nk'igitekerezo ahubwo nk'ukuri, ko ubuzima bwawe budashingiye ku byiyumvo by'ubwami. Ntuba umuntu utitayeho; uba udafite icyo utekerezaho. Ntuba umuntu udakora; uba usobanutse. Ntureka kwita ku bandi; ureka guhindurwa binyuze mu kwita ku bandi. Muri ubwo buryo busobanutse neza, ushobora gukora, kuvuga, kubaka no gukorera uturutse mu nkomoko yimbitse, kandi iyo nkomoko ni yo ihindura ibihe, ntabwo ari ugushaka gutsinda impaka zo hanze. Reka ibi bikugereho neza: hari itandukaniro hagati yo kwishyira hamwe mu buryo bw'ubwenge no gusarurwa n'ikinamico. Imiterere y'ubuyobozi ikunda ikiremwamuntu gifata nk'imbaraga mu gukora amarangamutima, kuko gukora amarangamutima bituma uhora ubaho, kandi ibiremwa bishobora kubaho. Ibiremwa by'ikirenga ntibishishikaza cyane gahunda, kuko ibiremwa by'ikirenga bidashobora gutwarwa byoroshye. Ntibikeneye intsinzi yo hanze kugira ngo yumve ko birinzwe. Ntibikeneye kugwa k'umwanzi ufatwa nk'aho ari we utuma amahoro arushaho kuba meza. Ntibikeneye amavuta ahoraho yo kuvuga kugira ngo bigumane umwirondoro. Ntibisenga ibyavuye mu nkuru nk'ikimenyetso cy'agaciro. Dore rero umurongo ngenderwaho—guhindukira kw'indorerwamo bitangira iyi porogaramu yose. Aho kubaza uti “Isi izakosorwa ryari?” ibaze ikibazo kidashimishije kandi kibohora: Ni ikihe gice cyanjye gikeneye intsinzi yo hanze kugira ngo kizemere ko ndi umudendezo? Ni ikihe gice cyanjye gikigereranya ijwi n'ukuri? Ni ikihe gice cyanjye gikomeje gutekereza ko amahoro ari ikintu gitangwa n'imimerere aho guterwa no kuvugana n'Intarengwa? Ni ikihe gice cyanjye gikomeje gutegereza uruhushya rwo gutangira kubaho mu buryo bwuzuye? Ntugasubize icyo kibazo ufite amakosa. Gisubize ufite amatsiko, ubwoko busenya gahunda zishaje witonze kuko bubibona neza. Niba ubonye icyifuzo cy'ibimenyetso bikomeye, ushobora gutangira kukirenza. Niba wumva imbaraga zo gushyira imbaraga mu butware, ushobora gutangira kubyigarurira. Niba ushoboye kureba ubwenge bukoresha Uwera mu macakubiri, ushobora gutangira kurekura iyo ngeso maze ukabona ubucuti bunini - ubucuti budakeneye gutsinda ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose hanze yawe kugira ngo ugaragaze ibiri muri wowe. Aha niho duhera, kuko kugeza igihe ibi bisobanuro bibi bigaragaye, ibice bikurikira ntibishobora gufungura byuzuye, kandi ubwenge buzakomeza kugerageza guhindura Intarengwa igikoresho cy'ibyavuye mu musaruro, mu gihe ubutumire bwimbitse bwahoraga ari ukureka Intarengwa ikaba ishingiro uhagazeho. Kandi kuva kuri iyo ngingo, twimukira mu buryo busanzwe mu murongo ukurikira—icyo mu by’ukuri bivuze, mu mibereho yacu, kubona ubuhungiro butubakiye ku nkuta, imbaraga zidaturutse ku bintu, n’ituze ritari imikorere ahubwo ari ugushyikirana.

Ubuhungiro bw'imbere, ituze, n'ibikorwa byo kuhaba kw'Umwami

Kuva ku ruhushya rwo hanze ukajya ku murongo w'imbere w'umwirondoro

None rero, bakundwa, ubu ko mwatangiye kubona ingeso ishaje ituma ibitekerezo byanyu bijya hanze gushaka uburenganzira, twinjira mu buhanga bwimbitse buhindura byose tudakeneye kwimenyekanisha, kuko ihinduka nyakuri atari isi ituje, ni wowe uvumbura umwanya muri wowe udasaba ko isi ituza kugira ngo ube wuzuye. Hari urwego rwawe rwahoraga uzi uko wabaho muri ubu buryo, nubwo umuntu ubwe yaba yaribagiwe, kandi tuzavugana n'icyo gice ubu, atari nk'ubusizi cyangwa filozofiya, ahubwo nk'ukuri gufatika ushobora kugerageza hagati mu munsi mubi. Wigishijwe, mu buryo bwimbitse kandi kenshi, ko umutekano ari ikintu gitangwa n'imigambi yo hanze, bitewe n'imimerere iteganijwe, bitewe n'ibidukikije bihamye, bitewe n'urukurikirane rwiza rw'ibyavuye mu bikorwa, kandi aya mahugurwa yatumye ubunararibonye bw'abantu bumera nk'ibiganiro bihoraho n'ubuzima, aho witegura ingaruka, ugashakisha ibitero, kandi ukiyubaka mu masezerano adakomeye n'imimerere. Ntituvuga ibi; turimo kubyita izina gusa, kuko igihe kimaze kwitwa izina, ushobora kureka kurivanga n'ukuri. Icyo tuguha ni urundi ruhande rw'umwirondoro, rutarembera hejuru y'ubuzima bwawe bwa muntu, kandi ntirugusaba kwanga isi, ahubwo rugusaba kureka kubaho nk'aho isi ari yo nyirayo. Ubuturo bwera cyane si ahantu, si imyitozo "ukora neza," si amarangamutima yihariye ugomba gukora; ni ukwimenya ushobora kwinjiramo mu kanya gato iyo wibutse aho ubuzima bwawe buherereye mu by'ukuri. Ubugingo bwawe ntibugizwe n'ingingo z'umunsi. Ubugingo bwawe ntibugizwe n'ibitekerezo bikuzenguruka. Ubugingo bwawe ntibugizwe n'ibisubizo udashobora kugenzura. Ubugingo bwawe bugizwe n'Ubumwe, kandi Ubumwe ntabwo bucika intege, ntabwo buri kure, ntabwo butoranya, ntibutegereje ko umunsi utunganye uboneka. Mu isi yawe, benshi batangiye kubona ko ikirere cy'uburambe ubwacyo gishobora kumva gishyushye, kidateganyijwe, gikandamijwe, nk'aho igihe kiri kuvuga cyane, kandi ibintu birimo kugera mu buryo burambuye, kandi tuzabivuga tweruye: ibi si iby'umuntu ku giti cye gusa, kandi si ibyo mu buryo rusange gusa; Nanone ni umubumbe, rukuruzi, izuba, igitambaro kinini gifatanye cy’ubwami bwawe kinyura mu nzira yo gusubiramo ibintu, kandi iyo icyo gitambaro kihindutse, ibitekerezo bya muntu birushaho kugaragara, kuko batakaza ubushobozi bwo kwigira "wowe gusa." Iyi ni yo mpamvu abantu bashobora kumva ko ubutaka munsi y’ibyo bibwiraga budakomeye nk’uko byari bimeze mbere, kuko ibyo bitekerezo bya kera bitari bikomeye rwose; byasubirwagamo gusa, bigakomezwa, kandi bigahabwa ishimwe mu mibereho. Noneho, dore itandukaniro ry’ingenzi rikubohora: ntukeneye kujya impaka n’inyuma kugira ngo ubeho. Benshi muri mwe mugerageza gushaka amahoro mu kuvugurura ibiri hanze yanyu, kandi iyo inyuma idakoranye, mugafata umwanzuro w’uko amahoro adashoboka, kandi mubyita ukuri. Nyamara ikoranabuhanga ryimbitse ry’ubwenge ntirikora muri ubwo buryo. Amahoro si igihembo isi iguha iyo wakoze neza; amahoro ni ikirere karemano cy’ubuzima bwawe iyo uhagaritse gufata umwirondoro wawe mu kirere cy’isi.

Imyitozo yo gukoresha beto mu mirima irangwa n'imvururu n'iherezo ry'igisubizo nk'ubuyobozi

Turashaka kubikora mu buryo bufatika cyane. Hazabaho iminsi aho abantu bose bazaba bavuga cyane, aho abantu bagukikije baba batanga ibitekerezo, aho amakuru aza vuba kurusha uko ubwenge bwawe bushobora gusobanukirwa, aho umubiri w'umuco usa n'aho uhungabana kubera kutizera, kandi muri iyo minsi ubwenge bwawe buzagerageza gukora ibyo bwatojwe gukora: buzakubwira ko akazi kawe ka mbere ari ukwitwara, guhitamo imiterere, kurinda aho uhagaze, gukosora ibyiyumvo ugenzura inkuru. Iki ni cyo gihe cyo kwibuka ko kwitwara atari ubwenge, kandi ko kwihuta atari ubuyobozi. Igihe ushobora guhagarara mu cyifuzo cyo kugira icyo ukora, uzasanga utari mu mutego mu by'ukuri; urimo utumirwa kwimukira aho utuye. Gutuza, nk'uko dukoresha ijambo, si igitekerezo cya spa, kandi si ukwishyira ukizana kwiyambika nk'umwuka. Niho ububasha bwawe bugarukira, kuko ubutware bwawe butigeze bugenewe kuba butangaje, bwagombaga kuba busobanutse. Iyo winjiye mu ituze, uhagarika kugaburira umuyoboro usaba ko ugomba gukururwa kugira ngo ube mu mutekano, kandi ukimara kureka kugaburira, biracika intege, kuko bitabasha kwibeshaho utari kumwe nawe. Niyo mpamvu tukubwira, tubigiranye ubugwaneza n'ubudacogora: kwita ku bintu si umutungo usanzwe. Ni imbaraga zawe zo guhanga. Aho ubishyize, ukuri kuratunganywa.

Kwinjira mu Buturo Butagatifu binyuze mu Kwemerwa, Kubaho, no “Ndi We”

Ushobora kwibaza rero uburyo "winjira" muri ubu buturo bwera utabuhinduye ikindi gikorwa, undi mushinga wo kwiteza imbere, undi mugenzo ukora neza mu minsi itatu hanyuma ukawureka kuko isi itahindutse vuba bihagije. Dore uburyo bworoshye dutanga: ntuwinjiramo ku mbaraga. Uwinjiramo ku bw'imenyekana. Kumenyekana bishobora kuba bito nk'ibi - ubu ngubu, hagati mu bibaho byose, ureka umwuka wawe ukaba inyangamugayo, atari ukwimbitse kandi uteye ubwoba, ahubwo ni inyangamugayo gusa, kandi ureka amaso yawe yoroherwa, kandi wumva ukuri kudasubirwaho ko uriho mbere yo gutekereza ku kubaho. Iyo "Ndiho" idasobanutse neza ntabwo iterwa n'ibitekerezo; ni mbere y'ibitekerezo. Ni irembo. Iyo umaze kubona ko "Ndiho" yamaze kubaho, uhagarika gushaka imiterere yihariye, kuko ubona ko kuvugana kwera cyane atari ibintu bidasanzwe; ni ako kanya. Hanyuma, kubera ko ubwenge bw'umuntu bukunda kugora ibintu byoroshye, tuguha amabwiriza meza akurinda kwinjira mu nkuru: ntugasesengure icyo wumva muri ako kanya. Ntukiyitirire. Ntugasabe ko yigaragaza. Kuruhuka gusa, nk'uko washyira ikiganza cyawe ku ibuye rishyushye, kandi reka bibe bihagije ko Ubuhari bubaho.

Guhura n'Ubwenge bwatojwe, Kugaruka ku Kubaho, no Guhanga Ubwenge Butuje

Mu ntangiriro, ubwenge buzagerageza kubuhagarika, atari ukubera ko ari bubi, ahubwo kuko bwatojwe. Buzagutera amashusho, ubwoba, imirimo, n'impaka nk'umuntu ukina mu muhanda agerageza kugarura ibitekerezo byawe. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kubirwanya. Kubirwanya biracyabigaburira. Usubira gusa ku buryo wumva uriho, kandi ureka ubwenge bukazenguruka utabuhaye intebe. Ibi ni ubuhanga, kandi ni ituze kuruta uko umuco wawe wakwigishije kubaha, niyo mpamvu bufite imbaraga nyinshi.

Kubaho Ingaruka zo Kubaho, Igisubizo Kidahubutse, no Kudahura n'Ibibazo nk'Ibikoresho

Uko ubyitoza, uzabona ikintu kitari amayobera mu buryo butangaje, nyamara mu by'ukuri ni amayobera akomeye: iyo utagigerageza kuganira ku mahoro binyuze mu bisubizo, uba ushobora kunyura mu bisubizo ufite umutima wigenga. Ushobora gusubiza utabanje gutwarwa. Ushobora gukora udakeneye igikorwa kugira ngo kikumenyekanishe. Ushobora kuvuga udakeneye amagambo yawe kugira ngo utsinde. Ushobora gutanga ubuhamya udatsinzwe. Isi ishobora kuba igifite imidugararo, nyamara umwanya wawe w'imbere ntuba ushingiye ku midugararo kugira ngo wumve uri muzima, ibyo bikaba ari impinduka ikomeye, kuko abantu benshi bakoresheje imidugararo nk'ingufu z'indangamuntu batabizi.

Guhuza ibikorwa, Ubuturo bw'imbere, no gukorera hamwe buri munsi

Ibikorwa byo mu murima byo kubaho no mu mwanya wera imbere

Noneho tugiye kuvuga ku ngaruka rusange, kuko aha niho benshi muri mwe mwirengagiza. Iyo umuntu umwe yimukiye mu kubaho, si ukwisanzura gusa; ni igikorwa cyo mu murima. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kubivuga. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kwemeza umuntu uwo ari we wese. Ntabwo ari ngombwa "kubyigisha" umuryango wawe kugira ngo umuryango wawe wumve itandukaniro. Guhuza ibintu birandura, atari ku ngufu, ahubwo ni mu buryo bwumvikana. Abantu bagukikije batangira kubona umwanya munini mu bitekerezo byabo gusa iyo uri hafi yawe iyo utari gutera ubwoba. Abana barabyumva. Abafatanyabikorwa barabyumva. Inyamaswa zirabyumva. Ndetse n'abantu batazi babyumva mu buryo buto, buto - ubworoherane, ubworoherane, igihe umuryango wabo w'imbere uba wongeye kuboneka. Niyo mpamvu tubabwira ko "ahantu heranda" atari ahantu hahurira abantu, kandi ntabwo ari mu muryango cyangwa umuco uwo ari wo wose; ni imbere mu mubiri wawe. Iyo iyo imbere ibayeho aho kuba mu bitekerezo, iba ahantu hatuje ubuzima bwawe busubiramo. Mu buryo bufatika, ushobora gukomeza kurya ibiryo bimwe, gutwara imihanda imwe, gukora akazi kamwe, kwishyura fagitire zimwe, nyamara byose biratandukanye, kuko utagikoresha ubuzima nk'ikizamini ugomba gutsinda kugira ngo uhabwe amahoro; urimo kuzana amahoro mu buzima nk'ikirere cyawe kavukire.

Kubaho, Kwifatanya n'Isi, n'Impuhwe Zisobanutse

Turashaka kandi gukosora ubwumvikane buke bugaragara ku bashaka ukuri. Bamwe muri mwe mwumva inyigisho zivuga ku buturo bw'imbere mu mutima, mugatekereza ko bivuze ko mukwiye kwitandukanya n'isi, kwitandukanya n'umuryango, cyangwa kureka kwita ku byago n'akarengane. Ibyo si byo dushaka kuvuga. Kubaho ntibigutera ubwoba; biragusobanurira neza. Iyo ubayeho uturutse ku Kubaho, ntuba ugitangira kugira impuhwe, ahubwo uba urushaho kuba mwiza, kuko kwita ku buzima bwawe ntibiba bigiterwa n'ubwoba, kandi ibikorwa byawe ntibikunze kwigarurirwa n'ibishushanyo mbonera wifuza kurangiza. Uba ushoboye gushishoza nta rwango, ubutwari nta filime, ukuri nta buryohe bwo gukiranuka.

Imyitozo yoroshye y'iminota itatu yo gusubira kuri "Ndi"

Reka rero tuguhe imyitozo yoroshye yo kubaho ijyanye n'igihe gisanzwe. Hitamo umwanya umwe buri munsi—igihe icyo ari cyo cyose, atari icy'imihango, atari icy'umuhango—aho uhagarara iminota itatu maze ugakora ibi gusa: uhagarika gutanga inkuru, woroshya amaso, wumva ukuri kwa “Ndiho,” kandi ukemera ko ari ryo sengesho ryawe ryose. Iyo ibitekerezo bivutse, ntujya impaka. Iyo amarangamutima azamutse, ntusesengura. Ugaruka gusa, inshuro nyinshi, ku kwemera ko uri hano, kandi ko ubuzima bwimbitse muri wowe butabangamiwe n'impinduka z'umunsi. Nyuma y'iminota itatu, ukomeza ubuzima bwawe, udashaka “gukomeza” uko ibintu bimeze, ahubwo wizeye ko imbuto yavomerewe, kandi ko imbuto izi uko ikura nta buyobozi bwawe buhagije.

Gutinya gutakaza ububasha, ukuri kwagutse, n'imbuto z'imikoranire itaziguye

Nubikora buri gihe, uzasanga ubwoba butangira gutakaza ububasha bwabwo atari ukubera intambara y'ubutwari, ahubwo ari ukubera ko nta gaciro bufite. Ubwenge buzakomeza gutanga inkuru, nyamara inkuru ntizizongera kumera nk'ukuri gusa kuboneka. Ukuri kwagutse gutangira kumvikana—atari ukuva mu nzira yo guhunga, ahubwo nk'aho ari ukugera mu buryo bwimbitse ku byabayeho kuva kera. Kandi uhereye kuri uko kuri kwagutse, ivugurura rikurikira riba ridashobora kwirindwa, kuko umaze gusogongera ku guhura kwawe, uzatangira kubona uburyo abantu binjira mu buryo bworoshye ku bishushanyo byo hanze, uburyo bahindura vuba abarimu, imigenzo, n'ibimenyetso mu buryo busimbura ukubaho ibyo bintu byari bigamije guhishura, kandi uzaba witeguye kwinjira mu rugi rukurikiraho ufite amaso meza n'umutima ukeye.

Gusoza ugusenga k'umuntu, gusangira mu buryo butaziguye, no kuvuka ubwa kabiri k'umwirondoro

Ibinyoma biryoshye, Intumwa zishyinguye, n'uburyo bwo kuvugana butinze

Nshuti nkunda, ubu ubwo mwatangiye kumva itandukaniro riri hagati yo kubaho mu isi no kubaho mu muyaga wimbitse uri munsi yayo, duhindukirira ikindi gitekerezo cyiba imbaraga mu buryo bucece abashaka ukuri, atari ukubatera ubwoba, ahubwo ari ukubashimagiza, kuko gitanga ikintu ubwenge bushobora gufata, ikintu bushobora kwerekezaho, ikintu bushobora kurahira ko buzaba indahemuka, kandi mu kubikora bikwemeza ko kuvugana byagezweho mu gihe, mu by'ukuri, kuvugana byasubitswe. Tuvuga ku ngeso yo kwimika abantu, kuzamura intumwa, gufata amajwi, kweza isura, gufata utwaye urumuri nk'aho urumuri ruturuka mu utwaye, kandi iki ni kimwe mu bintu bya kera cyane mu mateka yawe y'abantu, atari ukubera ko abantu ari abapfapfa, ahubwo ni ukubera ko abantu batojwe kwiringira ibigaragara, no kutizera ibiri mu buryo butaziguye, buhishe, kandi bw'imbere. Ubwenge bukunda abahuza. Bukunda gushyigikirwa. Bukunda "ibintu byihariye." Ikunda ubutegetsi bwo hanze kuko ikuraho inshingano ku gicaniro cy'imbere, kandi iyo inshingano ivuye ku gicaniro cy'imbere, kubaho kuzima kongera kuba igitekerezo, kandi ibitekerezo ni byiza kuramya kuko bitaguhindura keretse ubishyize mu mwanya wabyo. Reka tuvuge mu buryo bweruye: Aba-Pleiadi ntibagusaba kutwizera, kandi ntabwo tugusaba kubaka umwirondoro hafi yacu, kuko nubikora, uzaba waratakaje inshingano zacu zose. Inshingano yacu si ukuba ahantu heza ho gushingira. Inshingano yacu ni ukukwereka aho ugarukira gusa ku kintu kimwe kidashobora gusenyuka - ubufatanye bwawe butaziguye n'Isoko nk'ikintu cy'ingenzi cy'ubuzima bwawe. Inyigisho iyo ari yo yose irangirana nawe uzenguruka kamere, ingendo iyo ari yo yose irangirana nawe ugura ukuri kwawe ku muntu, "inzira" iyo ari yo yose irangirana nawe bitewe n'ijwi riri hanze yawe rikubwira ibyo usanzwe uzi imbere muri wowe, byahinduwe inzira, kandi inzira zishobora kumva nk'iterambere mugihe zigukomeza mu cyumba kimwe. Urashobora kubona uko ibi bibaho. Umuntu ahura n'umuntu uvuga neza, utwaye umurima w'amahoro, usa n'uwarenze umupaka umuntu ashaka kwambuka, maze ubwenge bw'umuntu bugakora impinduka mu buryo butoroshye: aho kureka uwo mubonano ugatwika umuriro umwe imbere, utangira gusohora umuriro ubwawo. Utangira kuvuga uti “Uwo ni wo muryango,” hanyuma ugatangira kubaka ahantu hera kubera kumushima, kandi kumushima wumva ari iby'umwuka kuko ari ibintu bishyushye kandi by'ukuri, nyamara ingaruka ni uko ububasha bw'imbere bw'umuntu buguma butinze. Tubivuga mu bwitonzi, kuko benshi muri mwe mwabikoze, benshi muri mwe muracyabikora mu buryo buto, kandi mubikora kuko mutigeze mwigishwa itandukaniro riri hagati y'ubwitange bumukangura n'ubwitange butuma muruhuka. Kwiyegurira Imana by'ukuri bituma murushaho kwishingikirizaho. Kwiyegurira Imana by'ukuri biguhindura imbere no hejuru ako kanya, nk'aho roho ihagaze ndende imbere muri yo. Kwiyegurira Imana by'ukuri biguhindura inyuma, nk'umuzabibu ushaka igiti cyo kuzingiraho, hanyuma ukiyita “Imana.” Ntabwo turimo gucira urubanza igiti. Turimo kuvuga gusa: ntukivange imiterere y'inkingi n'umuzi muzima.

Abarimu banga Intebe z'Ubwami n'Itandukaniro riri hagati y'Ibitekerezo n'Ihishurirwa

Niyo mpamvu, mu mateka yawe yose, abarimu b'abahanga bakoze ikintu gisa n'aho giteye ishozi ku bwenge bwawe cyifuza ubuyobozi: banze gushyirwa ku ntebe y'ubwami. Baravugaga hanyuma bakerekana kure yabo. Bakizaga hanyuma bakanga gufata uburenganzira bwo gukira. Batwaye ubuhanga hanyuma baburira abanyeshuri babo kudasenga ubuhanga nk'ikintu cy'umuntu. Mu nkuru zawe zera, mu migenzo yawe y'amayobera, mu miryango yawe ituje, uhora ubona ikimenyetso kimwe: umucyo ukomeza kwerekana ko ibirimo kuba binyuze muri bo atari "ibyabo," kandi ko umurimo nyakuri ari ukuvumbura kubaho kumwe n'ukuri kwawe imbere. Kandi aha niho dutunganya ikintu benshi bashaka kumva nabi. Iyo tuvuze ngo "ntugasenge intumwa," ntabwo tuba tugusaba kuba umuntu usuzugura cyangwa usuzugura, cyangwa ngo tugusabe kwigira nk'aho udashimira. Gushima ni byiza. Kubaha ni byiza. Urukundo ni rwiza. Itandukaniro ni aho iyo mico ikuyobora. Niba kubaha bikuyobora mu kumva byimbitse muri wowe, ni ubuganga. Niba kubaha bikuyobora mu kwiyibagirwa—mu mwanya utekereza ko kumenya kwawe ari ukwa kabiri—bihinduka uburyo bwo kwihishahisha, bwambaye umucyo. Hari urundi rwego rw'ibi, kandi ni ingenzi cyane. Ubwenge akenshi bushaka ikintu kizabuha ukuri, bityo bugahitamo ibintu—ibitabo, ibimenyetso, imihango, ahantu—kandi bugafata icyo kintu nk'aho gifite imbaraga ubwacyo. Iki ni igitekerezo cyumvikana mu isi aho ibintu byinshi bitazwi neza, nyamara uburyo kigenda ni bumwe: ubwenge bugerageza gushaka ahantu hashobora kugenzura, kugira ngo butagomba gushyira mu kaga ubucuti butaziguye. Ariko ubucuti butaziguye ni cyo kintu cyose. Ukuri si ibisigazwa uhabwa. Ukuri si inzu ndangamurage usura. Ukuri ni ko biba iyo ubushishozi buzima bubaye umwirondoro wawe. Hari itandukaniro hagati yo gusoma amagambo no kwakira ihishurirwa. Hari itandukaniro hagati yo gukusanya inyigisho no kuba inyigisho. Hari itandukaniro hagati yo kuvuga ubwenge no gutwarwa n'ubwenge cyane ku buryo amahitamo yawe, imvugo yawe, imibanire yawe, n'uko wiyumva bitangira kwivugurura utabihatiwe kubishyiraho. Igitabo gishobora kwerekana. Umwarimu ashobora kwerekana. Umuco ushobora kwerekana. Nta na kimwe muri ibi ari cyo kigendererwa. Aho ugana ni uguhuza - kuvugana byihuse ku buryo ureka gukenera gufata ukwizera ku kintu icyo ari cyo cyose cyo hanze, kuko wabonye ukuri mu buryo butaziguye. Noneho, turavuga ikintu gishobora kugorana ku ruhande rwawe rushaka icyizere, nyamara kizaba kibohoye ku ruhande rwawe rushaka ubwisanzure: niba udashobora kugera ku Buhari udafite ijwi ryihariye, utaragera ku Buhari - wageze ku kwishingikirizaho. Niba udashobora kumva ukuri udafite umwarimu runaka ukugenzura, utaragera ku kuri - wahuye n'umubano w'abantu. Niba amahoro yawe aguye igihe intumwa ukunda yakutengushye, utaragera ku mahoro - wari uhagaze mu ishusho. Ibi si isoni. Ibi ni umucyo. Umucyo ni ubuntu iyo ukubohoye.

Kuvugana n'abarimu, Kugerageza ubuyobozi, no kuva ku isoko ry'umwuka

None se ubana ute n'abarimu, ubutumwa, n'ubuyobozi utaguye mu gusenga umuntu? Wakira ikimenyetso, ukumvira ikimenyetso, hanyuma ukakizana mu rugo. Urabaza mu buryo bworoshye uti: “Ese ibi bibyutsa ubunyangamugayo muri njye? Ese byongera ubushobozi bwanjye bwo gukunda ntabikozwa? Ese bintera kuba inyangamugayo? Ese bimfasha kurekura ubwoba aho gushariza ubwoba n'ururimi rw'umwuka?” Niba ari yego, urabishyira imbere, urabitekerezaho, urabireka bikabaho. Niba atari byo, ubirekura nta filime, kuko utari hano kubaka ahantu hera hashingiye ku makuru, uri hano kugira ngo ube umuyoboro muzima w'Iby'ukuri. Benshi muri mwe babonye, ​​mu myaka ya vuba aha, ko umuco w'umwuka ushobora kuba isoko ryawo ry'abantu, hamwe n'ikirango, umwirondoro, imitwe, n'amarushanwa atavugwa—ni nde “ukora cyane”, ufite ikintu gishya cyo gukuramo, ufite imiterere y'isi ishishikaje cyane. Bakundwa, iyi ni yo miterere y'ubwami bwa kera bwambaye imyambaro yera. Ubwenge bukunda icyubahiro, kandi niba budashobora kubona icyubahiro binyuze muri politiki cyangwa ubutunzi, buzagerageza kubona icyubahiro binyuze mu mwuka. Izagerageza kuba "ibyiza," "umuntu ubyutse," "utunganye," "umuntu w'imbere," hanyuma izakoresha iyo ndangamuntu kugira ngo yitandukanye n'abandi, ari na cyo cyerekezo gihabanye neza n'icyo inzira y'imbere yagenewe kugaragaza. Turimo kugutumira kuva muri ubu bukungu bwose. Kandi turimo kugutumira mu kwicisha bugufi atari ubuto. Kwicisha bugufi, mu buryo bw'ukuri, ni uguhuza n'ukuri. Ni ubushake bwo kuba igikoresho aho kuba umuhanzi. Ni ubushake bwo kureka Inkomoko ikaba Inkomoko, aho guhindura Inkomoko indorerwamo kugira ngo wibonere. Impwemu itunganye si "Nyirebere." Impwemu itunganye ni "Reba imbere." Si nk'intero, si nk'inyigisho nziza, ahubwo ni nk'icyerekezo cy'ubuzima kiba ikintu gisanzwe. Ushobora kwibaza rero, ikisimbura gusenga umuntu, ikisimbura gukenera icyizere cyo hanze, ikisimbura ingeso yo kwihambira ku miterere. Ikiyisimbura ni umubano n'Imbere mu buryo butaziguye ku buryo biba ibisanzwe. Kandi tuvuga ibisanzwe mu buryo bweranda cyane—bikubiye mu munsi wawe, byoroshye mu gihe woza amasahani, byoroshye mu gihe uvugana n'inshuti, byoroshye mu gihe uhagaze ku murongo, byoroshye mu gihe ubuzima budatunganye. Iyo kuvugana bihindutse ibisanzwe, uhagarika kwigira ibishushanyo bigisha kuko utagikeneye ikintu gisimbura ubumenyi bwawe bwite. Niyo mpamvu abakomeye, muri buri gihe, bakomeje gushimangira amabwiriza yoroshye: reka kubaka umwirondoro wawe mu isi yo hanze, kandi wige gutega amatwi. Wige kumva ibitekerezo gusa, atari amarangamutima gusa, ahubwo n'ubwenge butuje buri munsi ya byombi. Ubwo bwenge ntibuvuga cyane. Ntabwo bugutera imbaraga zo kwihutira. Ntabwo bugusaba kugaragaza agaciro kawe. Ntabwo buguhatira gukora ibintu byo mu mwuka. Buhishura gusa, intambwe ku yindi, ukuri, kandi bukabigaragaza mu buryo butuma urushaho kuba mwiza, usobanutse neza, kandi urushaho kuba umuntu wuzuye. Kandi dore ikimenyetso kidasobanutse ushobora gukoresha kugira ngo urebe niba urimo kunyerera mu gusenga imico. Iyo uhuye n'Ubumwe, wumva wagutse ku bandi, ndetse n'abatagushyigikiye, kuko umwirondoro wawe utakiri muzima. Iyo uri mu gusenga imico, urushaho kwirwanaho, gukora cyane, ushishikajwe no kurinda "umwarimu wawe", ubwoko "bwawe", "ibitekerezo byawe", kuko umwirondoro wawe wahujwe n'ikimenyetso cyo hanze. Ukimara kubona kwirwanaho bizamuka mu izina ry'umwuka, hagarara. Wabonye indorerwamo. Indorerwamo si mbi. Ni ikimenyetso kikwereka inyuma gusa.

Uretse Amakusanyirizo Yera, Kwiyegurira Cyane, no Kwimuka k'Umwirondoro

Bakundwa, ntabwo muri hano kuba abakusanya ibintu byera, amazina yera, n'imibanire yera. Muri hano kuba umucyo uhoraho uha umugisha buri kintu cyose ukoraho, atari ukubera ko uri umwihariko, ahubwo ni ukubera ko wahagaritse gukorera Abera hanze ugatangira kubyigisha. Iyo ibi bibaye, ubuzima bwawe buhinduka inyigisho utagerageje kwigisha. Kubaho kwawe kuba ubutumire utagerageje guhindura. Urukundo rwawe ruhinduka ikirere utagerageje kuba umuntu utangaje. Kandi iyo witeguye—iyo wagabanyije imiterere, iyo waretse gukenera uburenganzira bwo hanze, iyo ushobora kubona ubuyobozi udatanze intebe yawe y'imbere—icyo gihe inzira ikurikiraho irakinguka mu buryo busanzwe, kuko utangira kubona ko “ubuzima bushya” ushaka butiyongera ku ndangamuntu ya kera nk'umutako, buvuka binyuze mu kwiyegurira cyane, urupfu rw'ahantu hatagira icyo bivuze, no kuvuka ubwa kabiri mu byo byahoraga bigutegereje muri wowe. Bakundwa, ubu turi mu murongo umuntu ubwe akunda kugerageza guhinduramo igitekerezo, kuko ibitekerezo biri mu mutekano, kandi umurongo si uko, atari uko bikugirira nabi, ahubwo ni uko bisesa ibyo wakoreshaga nk'igisimbuzo cy'ukuri, kandi igihe icyo gisimbuzo gitangiye koroha, ubwenge bushobora kumva nk'aho burimo gutakaza ikintu cy'ingenzi, mu gihe mu by'ukuri burimo gutakaza imyambaro gusa, bwitiranyije n'uruhu. Hari igice cy'umwirondoro w'umuntu cyatojwe kubaho hafi ya byose binyuze mu gusobanura, binyuze mu kwita ibintu amazina, binyuze mu gucunga ibyavuye mu bikorwa, binyuze mu murimo uhoraho wo "kurinda umuntu wese kuba ameze neza," kandi iyi mico si mbi ku kubaho, ntabwo yuzuye, kandi kubera ko ituzuye, ntishobora kubona ibiri hejuru yayo idaciye bugufi, idatuje, idafunguye. Ni nk'indorerwamo igerageza kubona isoko yayo y'umucyo mu gihe ikomeje gushimangira kugumana inguni imwe; ishobora kubona ibigarura, ishobora kubona igicucu, ishobora kubona ibihindagurika, ariko ntishobora kubona inkomoko kugeza igihe itanze icyifuzo cyo kugenzura uko ibona ibintu. Rero iyo wumvise amagambo nko kubyarwa ubwa kabiri, gukanguka, gutangira, ugomba gusobanukirwa ko tutarimo kuvuga ku guhindura imiterere yawe mu buryo butangaje, kandi ntabwo turimo kuvuga ku gufata umwirondoro mushya w’umwuka ushobora kwereka abandi nk'ikimenyetso cy'uko "uri kure," kuko ibyo ari imyenda ishaje ihindura umuntu, kandi umuntu ishaje ikunda imyenda. Turimo kuvuga ku kintu cyoroshye cyane kandi cyimbitse cyane: kwimuka aho "wowe" utuye, kwimuka kw'ibyiyumvo byawe byo kuba uri kuva mu gice cyubatswe ukajya mu kubaho kw'ubugingo munsi yacyo, kandi ko kwimuka ari byo bituma isi itangira kugaragara ukundi, atari ukubera ko isi yahatiwe guhinduka, ahubwo ni ukubera ko utacyumva uhereye aho uri hato na hato. Hari impamvu abantu benshi bashaka ibintu by'ukuri barwana hano, ndetse na nyuma y'uko bagize ibihe byiza n'ubuhanga busobanutse, kuko ubwenge bushaka kongeramo umwuka mu buryo bwo kongeramo ubuhanga bushya, ikintu gishya cyo kwishimisha, ururimi rushya, ikintu uwo muntu usanzwe ashobora kuvuga ko ari nyiracyo, hanyuma kikazakomeza ubuyobozi bumwe bw'imbere mu gihe wumva kiri hejuru cyane. Nyamara inzira yimbitse ntabwo yongeraho; irahishura. Bigaragaza ko umuntu wahoraga urwanira kandi utunganya atari we wahereyeho mu buzima bwawe, ahubwo ni icyerekezo cy’ubuzima, kandi uku kubimenya kurabohora kuko bikuraho igitutu cyo kugumana icyerekezo kidakemwa.

Ingano yo kongera kuvuka, imiterere y'inyuma, n'ubushake bwo kurekura ubuyobozi

Ishusho y'Isura, Igenzura, n'Itangiriro rya Mbere ry'Icyizere

Niyo mpamvu tuvuga, mu rurimi rwacu, ko umwirondoro wo hejuru udashobora kwakira ibintu byimbitse by'Umwuka mu buryo ugerageza, kuko ukomeza kugerageza guhindura ibintu bitagira iherezo mu kintu gishoboka. Urashaka icyizere. Urashaka igihe. Urashaka garanti. Urashaka ibimenyetso bishobora kubikwa. Urashaka kuba umuyobozi w'ubukangurambaga. Kandi ubwiza bw'ubuhari ntibwiyegurira ubuyobozi. Ubuzima bwimbitse bushobora kubaho, ariko ntibushobora kugenzurwa, bityo gutangira kwa mbere si ikintu kibaho, ni igihe ubona ko icyo ukeneye kugenzura cyagusimbuye icyizere. Turashaka kwitondera cyane ijambo "gupfa," kuko ubwenge bw'umuntu buzabihindura nk'ubw'urukundo cyangwa buzabitinya, kandi ibisubizo byombi ntibisobanura. Icyo dushaka kuvuga ni iki: hari ihuriro ry'ikinyoma mu bunararibonye bw'umuntu ryemera ko rigomba guhora rihuza ukuri binyuze mu mbaraga ze bwite, kandi ko ihuriro ry'ikinyoma rirambirana, kandi ni naryo shingiro ry'ubwoba butoroshye, kuko ikintu cyose gisaba imbaraga zihoraho kugira ngo gikomeze gitwara, munsi yacyo, impungenge zo gusenyuka. "Urupfu" ni ukwishyira mu mwanya w'icyo kigo cy'ibinyoma, atari ukubera urugomo, atari ukubera kwiyanga, ahubwo ari ukubera ubushake bwo kureka kwigira nk'umwanditsi w'ubuzima no kwishyira mu mwanya w'ubuzima bwagiye bugukorera. Iki ni igikorwa cyo gutangira kuko kidashobora gukorwa nk'igitaramo. Ntushobora "kugisobanukirwa" hanyuma ukagikomeza binyuze mu buhanga. Kiza binyuze mu bwoko bw'ubudahemuka bw'imbere aho wemera, wenda ku nshuro ya mbere udatinye, ko ingamba wishingikirijeho - kugenzura, gusesengura, gutungana, kwiteza imbere nk'umwirondoro, ndetse n'ubumenyi bwo mu mwuka nk'umwirondoro - bidashobora gutanga icyo umutima wawe ushaka mu by'ukuri, ari na cyo gitekerezo cyo gufatwa n'ikintu cyimbitse kuruta ubuyobozi bwawe bwite. Iyo ubu bunyangamugayo bumaze kwera, hatangira kubaho ikintu gishobora kugaragara nk'ikidasanzwe mu ntangiriro: abagutera imbaraga ba kera batakaza uburyohe bwabo. Inkunga za kera zirahagarara kugufata. Ubwoba bwa kera buracyagaragara, ariko ntibumva nk'ukuri kudashidikanywaho. Ubwenge bushobora gusobanura ibi nk'ubusa, cyangwa urujijo, cyangwa kubura icyerekezo, nyamara akenshi ni intangiriro yo gusobanukirwa, kuko ikiremwa cy'imbere kirimo guha umwanya ubuyobozi budakomoka ku ngeso. Mu byo twabonye ku bwoko bwawe, iki ni kimwe mu bimenyetso bihamye by'umurongo ngenderwaho: igihe aho icyerekezo cy'imbere gishaje kinyeganyega, atari ukubera ko unaniwe, ahubwo ni ukubera ko icyerekezo kirimo guhindurwa kuva ku "kizanshyigikira nk'umuntu" kikagera ku "kuri mu kubaho." Umuntu ubwe ashingiye ku kurinda no kugera ku byo ageraho. Ubugingo bwe bushingiye ku guhuza no gutungana. Kimwe gihora kivugana n'ubuzima. Ikindi gifatanya n'ubuzima, ndetse no mu gihe gifata ingamba. Ushobora kwibuka ko twavuze ko ahantu imbere atari ahantu runaka, si inyubako, si ahantu ho mu mihango ugomba kugeramo neza, kandi tuzabinoza hano mu buryo bujyanye no kuvuka ubwa kabiri: impinduka ntizaza kuko ubonye ahantu hadasanzwe ho hanze, biza kuko wemerera ibidukikije by'imbere kuba ingenzi. Isi yo hanze ishobora kuba irimo urusaku, yuzuye abantu, idatunganye, kandi urwego rushobora gukomeza gukinguka, kuko urwego rudashingiye ku bintu runaka; rushingiye ku bushake.

Ubushake, Kuboneka, no Gushyikirana mu buryo butaziguye n'Abahari Basanzwe Bahari

Ubushake si ukwihatira kwemera ikintu runaka. Ubushake ni yego yoroshye utanga iyo uhagaritse kwanga kuvugana nawe. Kandi kuvugana nawe si ingorabahizi. Ntabwo ari iby’abantu b’abahanga mu by’umwuka. Si ingororano yo kugira filozofiya ikwiye. Ni uguhura byoroshye, bizima n’Uhari uri hano, uri imbere, wamaze kuguhumeka, wamaze kureba mu maso yawe, kandi imbogamizi yonyine ni ugushimangira ko "jyewe," nk'umuyobozi wubatswe, ari we ugomba kugenzura ibyo guhura. Muri iki gice cy'ubutumwa bwacu, turaguha icyerekezo gisobanutse: akazi kawe si ugukora uburambe bwo mu mwuka, akazi kawe ni ukwishyira mu mwanya w'ibyo usanzwe uri byo. Kuboneka bishobora kuba nk'uguhagarara mu gihe cy'umunsi wawe ukabyemera uti "Sinzi uburyo nakoresha ubuzima bwanjye mu mahoro ku ngufu," hanyuma ukareka ibyo kwemera bikaba irembo aho kuba ugutsindwa. Ubwenge buzabyita intege nke. Roho ibyemera nk'umwobo w'ubuntu bushobora kubahomo.

Ibimenyetso Bidasobanutse by'Ubwenge Buzimbitse n'Ubuyobozi Bwiza bw'Imbere

Kuko dore uko bigenda iyo ikigo cy’ibinyoma gitangiye koroha: ubwenge bwimbitse butangira kugenda. Ntabwo bugenda nk’itegeko rirenga. Ntabwo bugenda nk’ubuhanuzi bw’inkuru. Bugenda nk’uburyo bwo kumva neza ibihuje n’ibitariho. Bugenda nk’uburyo bwo kwifata iyo ugiye kuvuga ukoresheje reactivity. Bugenda nk’ubutwari butuje iyo ugiye kwiyanga. Bugenda nk’ubwitonzi butunguranye ku muntu wahoraga ucira urubanza. Bugenda nk’uburyo bwo kwanga kwitabira imikino ya kera, atari ukubera ubuhanga, ahubwo no ku bw’ubusobanuro busobanutse. Ibi si ibikombe byiza, bakundwa, ariko ni ikimenyetso cya mbere cy’uko ubuzima bwimbitse burimo gushinga imizi.

Kurenga ku musaruro no kubaho ku murongo wo kubyarwa ubwa kabiri mu buzima busanzwe

Kandi aha niho abantu benshi bananirwa kwihangana. Bashaka ko umurongo ngenderwaho utanga ibisubizo byihuse byo hanze, kandi rimwe na rimwe ibisubizo byo hanze birahinduka, kuko guhuza bigira ingaruka, ariko ingingo nyayo si ukuvugurura ubuzima bwo hejuru nk'igihembo cy'ingenzi. Ingingo nyayo ni ivuka ry'uburyo bushya bwo kubaho bushobora kunyura mu buzima ubwo aribwo bwose bwo hejuru bufite umudendezo mwinshi. Iyo ibi bigaragaye, uhagarika gufata Ubuhari nk'umutanga ibisubizo maze ugatangira kubwemera nk'umwirondoro wawe nyakuri, kandi uko kubwemera ni byo umuntu wa kera adashobora kwihanganira igihe kirekire atabanje kwitanga cyangwa ngo akore agapfukamunwa gashya. Turagusaba rero kwitondera ubushake bwo gukora agapfukamunwa, kuko ni akantu koroheje. Gashobora kugaragara nka "Ubu ndi umuntu w'umwuka," "Ubu ndakangutse," "Ubu narenze umurongo," kandi igihe wumva ukeneye kubwemeza nk'umwirondoro, uba watangiye guhindura ubuzima mo igitekerezo. Kwimuka cyane ntibikeneye gutangazwa. Bikeneye ihame. Bikeneye ko uba mu gace gatuje nubwo nta muntu ugushima, nubwo byaba bigoye, ndetse n'iyo bivuze ko udashobora gushinja isi imiterere yawe y'imbere ukundi.

Inzira yo Gusukura na Sisitemu Ishaje y'Ibikorwa Irazimya

Noneho, reka tuzane icyerekezo cyihariye twabonye ku bantu batabarika bashaka amakuru: akenshi habaho igihe cyo kubura umurongo gisa n'ubuhumyi bw'imbere, atari ubuhumyi busanzwe, ahubwo ni ukumva ko uburyo bwa kera bwo kubona butagikora, kandi ibyo bishobora gutera ubwoba kuko abantu bakunze gukoresha uburyo busanzwe bwo kugenda, ndetse n'iyo uburyo bwo kugenda bushingiye ku bwoba. Nyamara uku "kutabona" ​​akenshi ni imbabazi, kuko bikubuza gukomeza kuyobora ubuzima bwawe binyuze mu byuma bishaje gusa. Bitera guhagarara. Kandi mu guhagarara, hari ikindi kintu gishobora kuvuga.

Iyo icyo kintu kindi kivuze, ntabwo gishimisha umuntu ubwe. Ntigitanga inkuru y’umwihariko. Nticyubaka ubuyobozi bushya. Gihishura gusa ukuri, kandi kikagusaba kubaho muri cyo. Niyo mpamvu kuvuka ubwa kabiri bimera nk’igihombo, no ku bugingo, nk’ihumure. Ubwenge butakaza ubushobozi bwo kugenzura. Ubugingo buragenda busubira mu rugo. None se wakorana ute n’uyu murongo utabihinduye umutwaro? Witoza kwemera. Si mu buryo bwo gusenya imbibi zawe cyangwa kuba umuntu udafite ubwenge, ahubwo ni mu buryo bwo kugabanya imbaraga zawe ku kuba umuyobozi w’ukuri. Urabona igihe ugiye guhatira. Urabona igihe ugiye gufata neza. Urabona igihe ugiye gukoresha ibitekerezo by’umwuka nk’intwaro. Ahubwo, usubira ku buryo bworoshye bwo kuvugana: kumva ko uri umuntu utagira ubwoba, "Ndi we," kuba uri munsi y’inkuru. Ureka ibyo bikaba ishingiro ryawe, maze ufata icyemezo gikurikira uhereye aho, atari mu bwoba, atari mu ishusho, atari mu buryo bwo kwiyubaka kugira ngo wishingikirize ku bw’ubunyangamugayo bwawe. Iyi ni yo ngamba yo kuvuka ubwa kabiri: urukurikirane rw'ibyihebe bito amaherezo biba ikintu gishya, kugeza igihe uzabonera umunsi umwe ko utari utuye mu gice kimwe wahoze utuyemo, ko uko wiyumvamo byahindutse mu buryo budashobora kugibwaho impaka, kuko bibayeho, kandi muri ubwo buzima, utangira gusobanukirwa impamvu inzira yahoraga isaba ubwoko bw'ibyihebe byo mu mutima mbere yuko ihishura impano zayo nyakuri. Kandi uko iyi ngengabitekerezo irushaho kwiyongera, uko igice cy'ikinyoma kivumbura ko kidashobora kuguma ku ntebe y'ubwami iteka ryose, akenshi hari umurongo ukurikiraho - umwe utari ikosa, kandi atari igihano, kandi atari ikimenyetso wahisemo nabi, ahubwo ni inzira yo gusukura ikuraho ibisigazwa bya nyuma byo kwishingikiriza ku buyobozi bwite, inzira benshi mu banyabwenge bawe bagerageje gusobanura mu buryo buteye ubwoba, kuko niho umuntu wa kera amenya by'ukuri ko adashobora kubaho nk'umuyobozi w'ubuzima bwawe, kandi muri uko kubimenya, ubuzima bwimbitse amaherezo bufite umwanya wo kuzamuka. Hari igice kiri muri iyi nzira abantu bake muri mwe bigishijwe kwita amazina mu buryo bwiza, kandi kubera ko kitari cyaravuzwe, byahise byoroha kugisobanura nabi, kandi kubera ko cyasobanuwe nabi, abantu benshi bashakaga ukuri bagerageje kugihunga, kugikosora, kukirenga, cyangwa kugihindura inzira yabo mu buryo bw'umwuka, mu gihe mu by'ukuri ari wo muhanda ubuzima bwimbitse bwari bumaze kubajyana mu rugo. Iki ni cyo gihe sisitemu y'imikorere ishaje y'imbere itangira gucika intege - atari ukubera ko wananiwe, atari ukubera ko wahisemo nabi, kandi rwose atari ukubera ko ubuzima buguhana kubera gutinyuka gukanguka, ahubwo ni ukubera ko umwirondoro wawe udashobora kujyana nawe mu buryo bw'ukuri ubu ushobora gufata, bityo, nk'umwenda ushaje wahoraga ugushyushya ariko none ukaba ugabanya ingendo zawe, utangira kurekura, utangira kwangirika, utangira kugwa, kandi ushobora kumva ko hari ikintu cy'ingenzi kirimo kugusiga, mu gihe mu by'ukuri ari ikigo cy'ikinyoma gusa gitakaza intebe yacyo.

Inzira y'Ijoro ry'Ijisho, Gukuraho Ingamba, no Kugaragara k'Ubumenyi Nyabwo

Guhindura ingamba, ibyumba bizwi, no kutagira icyo bigura cyane

Twabirebye mu bihe byinshi by'ubuzima, mu isi nyinshi, mu moko menshi yiga isomo rimwe mu ndimi zitandukanye: iyo ikiremwa cyishingikirije ku buyobozi, icyizere, guhanura, imikorere, no kwisobanura nk'uburyo bwacyo bw'ibanze bwo kugenda mu buzima, uburyohe bwa mbere bw'isangira nyakuri bushobora kumva nk'ihumure, hanyuma—akenshi mu buryo butunguranye—kikumva nk'ikigaragara, kuko isangira rikuraho gukenera kwirwanaho kwa kera, kandi kwirwanaho ntibigende mu kinyabupfura, barigaragambya, baraganira, bagatekereza impamvu ugomba gusubira mu cyumba cya kera, kuko icyumba cya kera kirazwi, kandi kumenyera ni ikintu cy'ubwenge bw'impimbano cyo kwirinda. Reka tubivuge mu buryo umutima wawe ushobora gukoresha: iyi nzira ni uguhindura ingamba wibeshyeho nka "wowe." Mbere na mbere bishobora kuba bitoroshye. Irari ryakuyoboraga rihagarara kugushyiramo imbaraga, kandi ntuzi impamvu. Ubwoba bwakukururiraga buzamuka, nyamara ntibugwa mu bubasha bumwe, kandi ntuzi impamvu. Imiterere ya kera y'ibihembo by'umuco wawe—kwemerwa, gutsinda, kugaragaza, kugira igihagararo gikwiye, gufatwa nk'umuntu ubizi—itangira kuryoha nk'umugati wumye, ndetse ushobora no kwicira urubanza, nk'aho urimo kuba umuntu utita ku byo ushaka, mu gihe mu by'ukuri urimo kuba umuntu udashobora kugura byinshi. Sisitemu ntishobora kuyobora byoroshye ikiremwa kitagishishikajwe n'amafaranga ashaje, kandi isi yawe y'imbere irabimenya mbere y'uko ubwenge bwawe bubisobanura, niyo mpamvu rimwe na rimwe ubwenge bugwa hano, bugatera ibintu bishya, imico mishya y'umwuka, imishinga mishya yihutirwa, ikintu cyose cyo kongera kumva gikomeye.

Ijoro ry'imbere, Gukuramo, n'inzira ndende y'ikirere

Hanyuma inzira irakomera, aha niho benshi muri mwe muvuga mu ibanga muti “Ni iki kirimo kuba kuri njye?” kuko atari inkuru y’ibyuka ry’ibintu byaguzwe, aho ibintu byose biba byoroshye kandi mugahora mugenda mu minsi yanyu mufite icyizere gihoraho. Akenshi biba ibinyuranye n’ibyo mu gihe runaka: ibintu bya kera bishira, uburyo bwa kera bugahagarara, kwivugisha kwa kera bitakaza imbaraga zo kwemeza, kandi ugahagarara mu mwijima w’imbere aho udashobora gusubira inyuma utabeshye, nyamara ntushobora kubona neza imbere n’amaso ya kera. Ibi ni byera. Tubyita byera kuko ari bwo uhagarika kwiyitirira ko ushobora kwishyira mu mudendezo binyuze mu buryo bumwe bwo kugenzura bwubatse ikiraro cyawe mbere na mbere. Ubwenge bw’umuntu burashaka ko kwibohora bihagera nk’inyongera—ubumenyi bwinshi, ubuhanga bwinshi, kuvugurura byinshi, isura nziza—nyamara kwibohora nyako akenshi bihagera nko gukuramo, nko koroshya, nko gukuraho urusaku rwinshi wakoreshaga kugira ngo wirinde guhura, kandi iyo urusaku rugabanutse, ubusa bushobora gutera ubwoba kugeza igihe umenye ko atari ubusa na gato, ni umwanya, kandi umwanya niho ubuyobozi nyakuri bushobora kumvikana.

Imiraba y'Ijoro ryijimye, Isenyuka ry'Ibikenewe Bya kera, No Kuvumbura Ibisigaye

Iyi ni yo mpamvu bamwe mu banyabwenge banyu bakoresheje interuro "ijoro ryijimye," nubwo tutazarigaragaza nk'iry'urukundo kandi ntituzarigaragaza nk'iry'igitaramo, kuko atari ikimenyetso cyangwa igihano; ni uko bibaho iyo ikigo cy'ibinyoma kibuze uburyo bwo kugera ku byo gisanzwe kandi ikigo cyimbitse kigatangira guhumeka ubwacyo. Kandi yego, bakundwa, ni gake cyane kiba ari ijoro rimwe. Gikunda kuza mu buryo bw'imiraba, kuko umwirondoro urimo kurekura ufite ibice, kandi buri gice kirashonga iyo ufite imbaraga zihagije zo kukireka utiriwe wubaka ikindi gisimbura. Umuraba umwe ushobora kuba ari ugusenyuka kw'igikenewe kuba cyoroshye. Umuraba undi ushobora kuba ugusenyuka kw'igikenewe gukundwa. Ikindi gishobora kuba ugusenyuka kw'imyizerere ko ugomba kumenya ibikurikiraho. Ikindi gishobora kuba ugusenyuka kw'igishimishije cyawe n'inkuru yawe, inkuru ihoraho ivuga ngo "njye n'urugendo rwanjye," atari bibi, ariko akenshi irushaho kuba hejuru y'Ubumwe buri munsi yabwo. Buri muraba wumva utakaje ikintu, kugeza igihe ubonye ibisigaye iyo bishize, kandi ibisigaye bihora byoroshye, bituje, bisukuye, ari ukuri kurushaho.

Kutajya mu bikorwa byoroshye, kutabimenya, no kurekura ubumenyi bw'impimbano

Noneho, dore ikintu cy'ingenzi cyane dushobora kuguha muri iyi nzira, kuko ikurinda kuyihindura intambara nawe ubwawe: ntukarwane n'ibirimo gusenyuka. Kurwana biracyari ubudahemuka. Kurwana biracyari umubano. Kurwana biracyari gutera. Ahubwo, itoze uburyo bwo kutitabira ibintu mu buryo bworoshye, nk'uko wareka inkubi y'umuyaga ikanyura utayinyuzemo kugira ngo werekane ko uri intwari. Ntabwo ukeneye gutsinda ubwoba bwawe mu buryo bw'ikinamico. Ugomba kureka kuyiha umwanya wa guverineri. Hazabaho igihe wumva ushaka kugera hanze ikintu—ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose—kigarura ibyiyumvo byo kugenzura, kandi muri ibyo bihe turagutumira kubona uburyo ubwenge bugerageza kwihuta kugura icyizere binyuze mu gufata inkuru, gufata igitekerezo cy'umuntu, gufata ihanurwa, gufata umurongo mushya, gufata ibintu bisa n'ibikorwa. Ntabwo ukeneye gutesha isoni iyo nzira. Ugomba kuyibona neza bihagije ku buryo ushobora guhitamo ukundi, kuko inzira irimo kugusaba ikintu kimwe kenshi: ubushake bwo guhagarara mu kutamenya udaciye mu kanwa ukuri kwawe kw'imbere. Kutamenya si ubujiji. Kutamenya ni ukurekura ubumenyi bw'impimbano. Kutamenya kw'impimbano ni igihe uvuga ko ufite icyizere cyo kugabanya ubwoba. Kutamenya kw'impimbano ni igihe ufata impungenge zawe nk'ubuyobozi kuko ari ngombwa. Kutamenya kw'impimbano ni igihe ufata ikarita yo mu mutwe kuko utinya kugenda udafite. Kutamenya kw'impimbano ntigusaba kukwigaragaza buri minota icumi. Kutamenya kw'impimbano kuza nk'ikintu kidashoboka muri wowe, kumenya kw'impimbano kudasaba impaka, kandi imwe mu mpamvu iyi nzira ibaho ni ukwicisha inzara ubumenyi bw'impimbano kugira ngo kumenya kw'impimbano kugaragare.

Guhagarika ubucuruzi n'ubuzima, kuvumbura uburyo bwo gufata ibintu mu buryo bwimbitse no kumva ijwi ry'imbere

Benshi muri mwe muri hano musanga mwarabayeho mufite amasezerano ahishe, kandi amasezerano ni aya: “Nziringira ubuzima niba ubuzima bwitwaye neza.” Ayo masezerano asoza ayo masezerano, ntabwo aguhana, ahubwo ahishura ko adashoboka, kuko ubuzima ari ingendo, ubuzima ni impinduka, ubuzima ni amazi n'ikirere n'uruziga, kandi niba icyizere cyawe gisaba kugenzura, si icyizere, ni ibiganiro. Kubaho byimbitse ntabwo biganira n'ukuri; bihagaze nk'ukuri, kandi kuva kuri uko kuruhuka, ibikorwa biba bisukuye, bidateye ubwoba, kandi birushaho kuba byiza. Rimwe na rimwe, mu mutima w'iyi nzira, ushobora kumva udafite icyo ukora, atari mu buryo bw'intege nke, ahubwo mu buryo umuntu wa kera adashobora kubona aho ahagarara, kandi aha niho heza habera impinduka, kuko iyo ibirenge bya kera bizimiye, uhita ubona ko ukiri hano, ugihumeka, uracyafite, uracyari muzima, uracyashoboye, kandi ikintu muri wowe gitangira kubona, hafi ya gutungurwa, ko utigeze ufatwa n'ingamba zawe - wari ufashwe n'ikintu cy'ibanga cyane. Ibi akenshi niho ijwi ry'imbere ritangira kumvikana, nubwo tuzakosora ibyo benshi batekereza ku “ijwi ry'imbere.” Ntabwo ari amagambo buri gihe. Bishobora kuba uburyo bworoshye bwo kuvuga ngo “ntabyo.” Bishobora kuba uburyo bwo gukurura umuntu bucece ugana ku byo ari ukuri. Bishobora kuba uburyo butunguranye bwo kudashobora kwibeshya utiriwe wumva amakimbirane ako kanya. Bishobora kuba uburyo bwo kwinginga umuntu wari wizeye ko utazigera umubabarira—atari uko abikwiye, ahubwo ari uko warangije kwikorera umutwaro. Bishobora kuba uburyo bushya bwo kukwiyumvamo, aho ureka gufata ubumuntu bwawe nk'umwanzi ugatangira kubifata nk'umurima wongera gutozwa urukundo.

Umuhanda w'Uburyo bwa Kristo n'Ukwiyegurira Umuntu Wa kera

Ubukana bw'inzira, ibiganiro bya kera, n'intambwe ikurikiraho y'ukuri

Kandi yego, bakundwa, iyi nzira ishobora kumera nk'ikomeye rimwe na rimwe, kuko indangamuntu ya kera ikunze kugerageza ibiganiro bya nyuma: “Nimwampa icyizere, nzabyemera. Nimwampa gihamya, nzaruhuka. Nimwanyereka gahunda yuzuye, nzayizera.” Ubuhari bwimbitse ntabwo bunyura muri iyo mishyikirano, atari ukubera ko ibuza, ahubwo ni ukubera ko kubwuzura byatuma ikigo cy’ibinyoma kiguma mu buyobozi. Ahubwo, Ubuhari buguha ikintu gisa n’aho cyoroshye mu mutwe: intambwe ikurikiraho y’ukuri. Si intambwe mirongo itanu zikurikira. Si garanti. Si iyerekwa rikomeye rituma umuntu yumva ko ari umwihariko. Intambwe ikurikiraho y’ukuri - isukuye, irashoboka, igororotse.

Gusukura gahunda z'Umwuka no kureka ibitagira iherezo bikabaho nkuko uri

Iyi ni yo mpamvu inzira nayo ari isuku. Ihishura aho wagerageje gukoresha umwuka nk'uburyo bwo kugenzura umusaruro, kandi ikuraho buhoro buhoro icyo kigeragezo ibigira ingaruka mbi, kugeza ubwo ubonye ko ubutumire butigeze bukoreshwa "gukoresha Ihoraho," ubutumire bwari "reka Ihoraho ibeho nkuko wowe," ari icyerekezo gitandukanye cyane, kuko bisaba kwiha icyubahiro, kwishushanya, no guhora ukeneye kuba uri kuyobora.

Gusobanura Umuhanda nk'Igaruka, Si Ugusubira inyuma

Niba rero uri muri iyi koridoro ubu, cyangwa niba uyinjiramo nyuma, dore ubuyobozi bwacu buvugwa neza: ntukavuge ko wavunitse. Ntukavuge ko uri gusubira inyuma. Ntukavuge ko hari icyo wabuze. Reka bisobanure neza icyo ari cyo - aho umuntu wa kera atakaza intebe ye maze umuntu wimbitse akiga guhagarara nta cyizere. Iha uburenganzira bwo koroshya ibintu kurusha uko wari umeze. Iha uburenganzira bwo kutamenya akanya gato nta bwoba. Iha uburenganzira bwo kuruhuka ku mpamvu z'ubusa bwo gusobanura byose. Iha uburenganzira bwo kureka irari rya kera rikagabanuka utabanje kurisimbuza ako kanya. Uyu si wowe urimo gucika. Uyu ni wowe ugaruka.

Ubuzima Bugaragara, Imbaraga zo Kuboneza, no Guhinduka kwa Kristo nk'Amategeko Mazima

Kubera ko ikiza nyuma y'iyi nzira, iyo imaze gukora akazi kayo gatuje, atari umuntu ugaragara cyane wambaye imyenda y'umwuka irabagirana, ni ubuzima bugaragara neza, ubuzima budahugiye mu bwenge bw'umuntu, ubuzima bushobora kunyura mu isi bufite ubundi bwoko bw'imbaraga - atari imbaraga zo gutegeka, atari imbaraga zo gukora, ahubwo imbaraga zo guhuza neza ku buryo butangira gushonga ibigoramye by'imbere mu mizi yabyo, kandi iyo ibyo bigometse bishize, uba witeguye gusobanukirwa icyo Kristo ari cyo nk'imikorere y'imbere, atari ikimenyetso, atari ikirango, atari igitekerezo, ahubwo ni itegeko rizima ry'urukundo runyura mu bwenge.

Gusenya Gutandukana, Gusubiramo Kristo, no Gutangaza Inkuru Zihoraho

Kubona Umwanzi Nyawe n'Impamvu Yatojwe Yo Kurinda Ubumuntu Bw'Umuntu

Noneho tugeze aho inzira ihagarara kumva nk'inkuru y'ubuzima bwite kandi igatangira kwigaragaza nk'itegeko rizima mu bwenge, kuko iyo imiterere ya kera itangiye gucika intege kandi ikigo cy'ikinyoma kitakigenda buri kanya nk'umuyobozi ucecetse, utangira kubona ko umwanzi nyakuri atari "hanze," atari umuntu, ntabwo yari itsinda, ntabwo yari umutwe w'amagambo, ntabwo yari umugome wakwerekezaho ukanesha, ahubwo yari ukugoreka imbere mu buryo bw'umuntu bukomeza kurema ubudasa nubwo umunwa uvuga urukundo.
Uku kugoreka tuzakwita ubugwaneza n'ubunyangamugayo: ni ugushaka kubungabunga umuntu ku giti cye ku kinyuranyo cy'ukuri, gushishikarira kurinda akantu gato mu guhindura ubuzima, gushishikarira kubona umusaruro "wanjye" nubwo byaba bisaba ko undi muntu atsindwa bucece, gushishikarira guhindura ubuzima mu rwego rw'ubuyobozi aho ngomba kuzamuka, kugaragaza, gutsinda, kuba inyangamugayo, kuba mu mutekano, kuba umwihariko, kuba indashyikirwa, hanyuma nkabyita "ibisanzwe." Si ibisanzwe, bakundwa, biratojwe, kandi biratozwa cyane ku buryo abantu benshi babyibeshyaho nk'ubuzima ubwabwo, mu gihe mu by'ukuri ari bwo buryo butuma habaho iterabwoba.

Kristo - Ingano nk'imikorere y'imbere no kwanga igishuko cyihishe cyo gukoresha ukuri

Niyo mpamvu twavuze, mu buryo bwacu, ku byerekeye inshuro za Kristo, atari nk'ikimenyetso cyo gusenga atari nk'ikirango cyo kwambara, ahubwo nk'igikorwa cy'Ihoraho inyura mu gikoresho cy'umuntu, ubwenge butuje busesa ubwenge bw'umuntu imbere, atari ukugukoza isoni, atari ukuguhana, ahubwo ari ukugaragaza ibitari ukuri kugeza igihe bitazongera kwigira nk'umwirondoro wawe. Umva ibi neza: inshuro za Kristo ntabwo ziri hano kugira ngo inkuru yawe bwite irusheho kugira icyo igeraho, ikundwe cyane, irinzwe cyane, kandi irusheho gutangaza. Niba ari byo ushaka, ubwenge buzatiza ururimi rw'umwuka kugira ngo buyikurikire, kandi uzumva "w'umwuka" mu gihe uzakomeza gufatanya n'icyo kintu cya kera. Inshuro za Kristo ziri hano kugira ngo zikwimurire mu by'ukuri, kandi iby'ukuri ntibishobora gutunga umuntu, niyo mpamvu iyi nshuro yumva, ku bwenge bw'umuntu, nk'iterabwoba, no ku bugingo, nk'umwuka wa mbere w'ukuri mu gihe kirekire. Aha niho ikigeragezo kigaragara—atari nk'ikinamico, atari nk'ikinyabwoya cyo hanze, ahubwo nk'igitekerezo cy'imbere, cy'uburiganya kandi gishishikariza, kivuga kiti: “Koresha ukuri kugira ngo ubone icyo ushaka. Koresha Ubuhari kugira ngo ugenzure ibyavuye mu bikorwa. Koresha isengesho kugira ngo uhindure ukuri mu ishusho ukunda. Koresha Ubuziraherezo kugira ngo wemeze ibitekerezo byawe, utsinde abanzi bawe, werekane agaciro kawe, ugaragaze uburakari bwawe, wizere umutekano wawe.” Uku kuvuga nabi gushobora kumvikana nk'ukw'umwuka. Ndetse gushobora kumvikana nk'ukiranuka. Gushobora kwambara imyambaro y'umurimo mu gihe bucece usaba icyubahiro cyawe nk'ubwishyu. Kandi ubuhanga hano si ukurwanya kuvuga nabi hakoreshejwe imbaraga, kuko imbaraga zigiha agaciro. Ubuhanga ni ukubyemera nk'igikorwa gishaje, no kwanga amasezerano nta gukina, nk'uko wakwanga igikorwa kidahuye n'indangagaciro zawe. Ntabwo ugomba kwanga gahunda. Urareka kuyireka ikayobora.

Kuyoboka gahunda, Kureka Ibitagira Umupaka Bikabeho Nk'uko Umeze, No Kuyoborwa Bitari Ibyawe

Hari igihe kigera, kuri benshi muri mwe, aho mumenya kenshi umuntu ku giti cye agerageza kwinjiza ibintu byera mu ngengo yabyo, kandi uku kubimenya ntabwo bigamije gutuma mwicuza; bigamije kubagira abidegemvya, kuko iyo mubonye uburyo bwo gushaka abakozi, mushobora kuruhuka, kandi muri ubwo buryo bwo kuruhuka mugasangamo ikintu gitangaje: Infinite ntabwo ikeneye ko gahunda yanyu iba ikomeye, kandi Infinite ntabwo ikeneye ko imihangayiko yanyu iba iy'ukuri. Infinite yamaze kuba yuzuye, yamaze kuzura, yamaze kugenda nk'urukundo, kandi kwibohora kwanyu ni igihe muhagarika kugerageza guhindura urwo rukundo igikoresho ahubwo mukemera ko ruhinduka ishingiro ryanyu. Niyo mpamvu isengesho rikomeye atari "gukora ikintu kuri njye," kandi si "gukora ikintu kibarwanya," kandi si no "gukora ikintu binyuze muri njye kugira ngo numve mfite akamaro," ahubwo ni ukwishyira ukizana mu ituze rivuga ngo: "Baho nkanjye. Tekereza nkanjye. Igendere nkanjye. Urukundo nkanjye." Si nk'igitaramo, si nk'indahiro usubiramo, ahubwo ni nk'ubushake bwo kureka umuyobozi bwite akava ku ruhande.
Iyo umuyobozi bwite yikuye ku ruhande, ikindi kintu kiba kigaragara: ubushobozi si ikintu cy'umuntu ku giti cye. Ubwenge si ubw'umuntu ku giti cye. Urukundo si ubw'umuntu ku giti cye. Ndetse n'ubuyobozi si ubw'umuntu ku giti cye mu buryo ubwenge bw'umuntu butekereza, nk'aho ari ubw'umuntu "wanjye" utandukanye ukusanya ibyo wagezeho mu buryo bw'umwuka. Ubuyobozi ni ukugenda k'ukuri bisanzwe iyo umwanya w'imbere utagikomeza kwirengera. Niyo mpamvu, iyo ihuriro rya kera rigabanutse, ubuzima burushaho koroha mu buryo butera ubwoba ubwenge, kuko ubwenge bwemeraga ko guhindagurika ari ngombwa kugira ngo bugume mu mutekano, mu gihe ubugingo buzi ko guhindagurika akenshi ari ubwoba gusa bwambaye ubwenge. None se, ni iki Kristo akora, mu buryo bufatika, mu buzima bw'umuntu? Bitangirana no kugaragaza ubwoko buke bw'ubwenge bw'umuntu ku giti cye, atari ukugira ngo wirinde, ahubwo kugira ngo ureke kubaho utabizi. Utangira kubona aho ushaka kuba inyangamugayo kuruta uko wifuza kuba inyangamugayo, aho ushaka gutsinda birenze uko ushaka kumva, aho ushaka gushimwa cyane kuruta uko ushaka kuba uri mu murongo, aho ushaka gukomeza umwanya wawe kuruta uko ushaka gukorera urukundo. Uku kwitegereza ntabwo kugamije kugukomeretsa; Igamije guca ubupfumu, kuko ubwenge bw'umuntu bukura mu gihe atazi ubwenge, kandi bugacika intege mu gihe umuntu abona ibintu byoroshye.

Gukunda umwanzi wiyumvisha, Gukuraho Gutandukana, no Kwemera ko hari aho duhuriye

Hanyuma, uko kureba birushaho kwiyongera, utangira kumva isuku y'imbere, gukuraho buhoro buhoro, aho ibyifuzo bimwe na bimwe bitakaza uburyohe bwabyo: icyifuzo cyo kwihorera, icyifuzo cyo kugaragaza, icyifuzo cyo kwihagararaho, icyifuzo cyo gukomeza amanota, icyifuzo cyo kubaka umwirondoro uturutse ku barwanya. Ibi bitekerezo bishobora kugaragara, kuko ingeso zidashira mu ijoro rimwe, nyamara ntibyumvikanye nka "njyewe," kandi niho hahinduka, kuko iyo ibyifuzo bitaba "njyewe", biba ari imiterere y'ikirere ihita aho kuba intebe yawe. Aha niho kandi utangira gusobanukirwa icyo bivuze gukunda umwanzi wawe umufata nk'uwawe, kandi twifuza kuvugana witonze hano kugira ngo ubwenge budashobora kubigira ikintu kidafite ishingiro. Gukunda umwanzi ntibisobanura kwemera ikibi. Ntibivuze kuguma mu ihohoterwa. Ntibivuze kwigira ubushishozi atari ngombwa. Bisobanura ikintu gikomeye cyane kandi gikomeye cyane: bivuze kwanga guha gutandukana ububasha bwo gusobanura icyo ari cyo. Kuko gutandukana ari iki, mu mizi yacyo? Ni ukwemera ko Isoko iri mu mubiri umwe kurusha undi, iboneka cyane ku itsinda rimwe kuruta irindi, ihuje neza n'ubwoko bumwe kuruta ubundi. Gutandukana bivuga ngo “Ndi uwagiriwe ubuntu, kandi ni bo bakuweho,” kandi kuri icyo kinyoma, ubugome bwose burashoboka. Inshuro ya Kristo isesa icyo kinyoma ikagusubiza ku kumenyekana: Ubwiza bumwe butagira iherezo bushobora kugaragara nk'ubw'umuntu ubwawe buriho hose, butegereje kumenyekana, kandi uko imyitwarire y'umuntu yaba yagoramye kose, ntibikuraho ukuri kw'ibintu by'isi ko urumuri rukiri munsi y'ubuyobe. Niyo mpamvu uburyo bwawe bukomeye bwo “gusenga” abo utinya atari ukubasaba ko bakandamizwa, bashyirwa ahagaragara, bakurwaho, bahanwa, cyangwa ngo bakorwe n'isoni, kuko ibyo bigukomeza ku muyoboro umwe wo gutandukana, bikomeza ubuzima bwawe bufatanye n'ikinamico, bikomeza kunywa uburozi bumwe kandi bikabwita ubutabera. Isengesho ryimbitse ni ukumenyekana: “Inyakuri iriho na hano. Inyakuri ntabwo iriho no muri ibi.” Iyo ufite uko kumenyekana, ntuba usigaye udakora; uba udafite uburyo bwo kuyoborwa. Ushobora gufata ingamba zisobanutse nta rwango ruyobora ukuboko kwawe, kandi ubwo ni ubundi bwoko bw'imbaraga burundu, kuko urwango ruhora rurema isi ivuga ko irwanya.

Ingaruka zo mu murima, imitekerereze, n'igeragezwa ryoroshye ry'umwuka nyakuri

Noneho, nshuti nkunda, turabereka ingaruka z'umurima, kuko benshi muri mwe muba musuzugura ingaruka z'umurimo wanyu w'imbere, kandi ubwenge bukunda kubabwira ko keretse muhinduye isi yose ejo, nta kintu na kimwe kibaho. Uwo ni wo mwanya w'ubushyuhe twagiye tubafasha kuvamo. Ukuri ni koroshye kandi ni kwiza: ubwenge bukwirakwira. Bukwirakwira binyuze mu mahitamo yanyu, binyuze mu kubaho kwanyu, binyuze mu bwiza bw'ubwitonzi mushyira mu cyumba, binyuze mu buryo musubiza aho kugira icyo mukora, binyuze mu buryo mufite ubumwe mudasaba amashyi menshi. Iyo ubwenge bwite burimo kuva muri mwe, mu by'ukuri muba mubaye inzira isobanutse neza y'ubuntu, kandi ntimukeneye kubutangaza. Ntabwo mukeneye kwemeza umuntu uwo ari we wese. Ntabwo mukeneye gukosora umuntu uwo ari we wese. Umurima ukora akazi kawo gato. Abantu bagukikije batangira kumva umwanya munini muri bo, atari uko mwabibabwiye, ahubwo ni uko kubaho kwanyu kureka guhaza ihungabana n'amacakubiri. Urugo rwanyu rurahinduka, atari binyuze mu magambo, ahubwo binyuze mu mwuka. Imibanire yanyu irakomera, atari uko mwabashyizeho imbaraga, ahubwo ni uko mwaretse kuzana intambara zihishe muri buri gikorwa. Ubuzima bwawe buragabanuka kubera impaka zo mu mutima, kandi iryo ceceka ryo mu mutima rigira ingaruka zirenze kure ibyo ubwenge bwo hejuru bushobora gupima. Kandi yego, rishobora gutangirira ku mubare muto. Abantu bake babaho bahuje ukuri bashobora guhindura urwego runini, atari binyuze mu butegetsi, atari binyuze mu kwerekana ibintu, atari binyuze mu bukangurambaga bwo kwemeza, ahubwo binyuze mu gushimangira ibintu, kuko gushimangira ibintu ni ko ibintu bihinduka, kandi urimo kuba mu gihe aho gushimangira ibintu bivuze kuruta imvugo. Imiterere y'isi yawe irabyumva, niyo mpamvu bakora cyane kugira ngo bakuremo ibitekerezo, bagutere uburakari, bagukomeze mu mizunguruko ikora ibintu, kugira ngo bagufashe kwishyira mu mwanya w'amacakubiri, kuko bazi ko igihe gihagije cyo guhagarika kugaburira ibyo bice, imiterere itakaza ingufu zayo. Rero, niba ushaka kumenya icyo umurimo wawe ari cyo, dore mu nteruro imwe isukuye: reka Kristo-frequency akureho gutandukana muri wowe kugeza igihe urukundo rutazaba rukiri ikintu ukora, ahubwo ari ikintu uri cyo. Iyo ibyo bibaye, uracyabaho ubuzima bwawe bwa kimuntu. Uracyakora akazi kawe. Uracyagenda mu isi isanzwe. Nyamara ugenda mu buryo butandukanye, kuko utagerageza gukura ubuzima mu buzima. Ntabwo ugikoresha Umwuka nk'ikintu cyo kungurana ibitekerezo. Ntabwo ugikoresha ibintu byose bijyanye n'inkuru yawe bwite. Utangira gukora ibyo ukora kugira ngo wishimire ibikorwa byiza, kugira ngo ubone ubwiza bw'umusanzu, kugira ngo unyurwe mu buryo butuje, kandi ni ko uba "mu isi" utabigengwa nayo. Kandi tuzagusigira ikizamini cyoroshye, kuko tuzi ko ubwenge bwawe bukunda ibizamini bigoye: niba umwuka wawe utuma woroha, ugira ubuntu, inyangamugayo, wagutse, kandi witeguye guha umugisha ibyo udashobora kugenzura, icyo gihe ni ukuri. Niba umwuka wawe utuma urushaho kuba mwiza, ukomeye, ugira icyo ukora, urushaho kuba umuntu ukunda kuba inyangamugayo, kandi ushishikajwe no kureba abandi bagwa, icyo gihe byafashwe n'ubwenge bwawe bwite, kandi ubutumire ni ukugaruka gusa. Garuka, kenshi na kenshi, ntabwo ari igitekerezo, ntabwo ari umuntu, ntabwo ari inkuru, ahubwo ni ukubaho, "NDIHO" uriho munsi y'urusaku, kandi ibyo bibe idini ryawe, imbaraga zawe, umudendezo wawe, urugo rwawe. Ndi Valir, kandi mpagaze namwe nk'umuryango, nk'umuhamya, kandi nk'urwibutso rw'ibyo musanzwe muri munsi ya buri myambarire mwambaye. Murahirwa. Murakundwa. Muratagira iherezo.