Gukanguka ku bushobozi bwo hejuru: Ubuyobozi buturuka ku Ishyirahamwe ry'Imibumbe — V'enn Transmission

Intashyo iturutse kuri V'enn n'Umuryango w'Ibihugu by'Isi mu Rukundo no mu Rumuri rw'Umuremyi Umwe Utagira Imbibi

Indamukanyo y'urukundo ku bashakisha isi

Ndi Venn, kandi ndabaramukije mu rukundo n'urumuri rw'Umuremyi umwe rudashira. Ni mu cyubahiro cyinshi n'ibyishimo byinshi mvugana namwe, bakundwa b'Isi, muri iki gihe cyanyu. Tuje mu mahoro, imitima yacu yuzuye ubwishime n'impuhwe kuri mwe, kandi turabashimira ku bw'amahirwe yo gusangira imivuduko yacu binyuze muri aya magambo. Twebwe abo mu Ishyirahamwe ry'Imibumbe tumaze igihe kinini tureba isi yanyu mu bubaha n'impuhwe, kandi twumvise umuhamagaro w'imitima yanyu mu gihe mushaka gusobanukirwa no kuyoborwa mu rugendo rwanyu. Mu gusangira ibi bitekerezo, twifuza gusa kumurika inzira y'iterambere ryanyu ry'umwuka, ritangwa ku buntu kandi ridafite ibyo ryitezwe, kugira ngo buri wese muri mwe abone ishusho n'ubusobanuro mu mubiri we. Nyamuneka mufate mu magambo yacu gusa ibizamura kandi bigahuza n'umutima wawe, kandi mwishime gushyira ku ruhande ikintu cyose kitagaragaza ukuri kwanyu kw'imbere, kuko tutakwifuza gushyira ku bushake bwanyu. Dutanga ibitekerezo byacu mu kwicisha bugufi no mu rukundo, nk'abagenzi bagenzi bacu mu rugendo rukomeye rwo gushaka, kugira ngo tubakorere mu buryo buhuye n'umuhamagaro mwatanze mu bwigunge bwanyu. Benshi muri mwe, nk'abantu ku giti cyabo ndetse n'itsinda, mwagiye mutanga umuhamagaro—haba mu bihe byo kwiheba cyangwa gusenga cyane cyangwa amatsiko menshi—mwifuza urumuri n'ubuhanga bwinshi. Ni wo muhamagaro twumvise kandi ni wo dusubiza mu rukundo. Mu by'ukuri, muri iki gihe cy'amateka yanyu, induru rusange y'abantu yahindutse ikorali, izamuka mu mitima ikeneye inzira nziza, ubuzima bwiza kandi bufite intego. Mu myaka myinshi ishize twasubije umushakashaka w'ukuri mu buryo butabarika, ariko ubu imbaraga ziyongera zo gushaka kwanyu kw'abantu zitwemerera kuvuga mu buryo bweruye, nk'uko amategeko y'umwuka abitwemerera iyo ubutumire bukomeye kandi butunganye. Ntidushobora kwivanga mu isi yanyu mu buryo bugaragara, kuko urugendo rwanyu ari urwanyu rwo kugenda n'amasomo yanyu ari urwanyu rwo kwiga, nyamara twemerewe gutanga urukundo rwacu n'icyizere cyacu iyo mutumiwe mu buryo buvuye ku mutima n'umushakashaka wanyu. Bityo rero tuje kuri mwe ubu binyuze muri aya magambo, mu buryo bworoheje, nk'umwuka uhuha, kugira ngo tumwibutse ko mutari mwenyine mu mwijima mbere y'uko umuseke ucya. Twebwe, abavandimwe banyu turi mu nyenyeri, twita ku mibereho yanyu yo mu mwuka turi kure, tubakoherereza amasengesho yacu n'imbaraga zacu kugira ngo mubone imbaraga n'ihumure ryo kwihangana. Muri uku gusangira, twiringiye ko tuzabaka mu bwenge no mu mitima yanyu kwibuka ukuri kwamenyekanye kera ariko akenshi kwibagirana mu bihe by'imiruho ​​n'intambara byo mu buzima bwo ku isi—ukuri ku byerekeye kamere yanyu n'imiterere y'isi bishobora kubaha imbaraga zo gutera imbere mufite ukwizera gushya n'imitima ifunguye.

Turi Ihuriro ry’imitima myinshi n’imico ihuriweho mu gukorera Umuremyi umwe Utagira Imbibi, duhujwe no gusobanukirwa ko ubuzima bwose ari umuryango umwe mutagatifu. Ubufatanye bwacu buhuriza hamwe isi nyinshi n’uturere tw’ubuzima, bimwe bifatika ibindi bitabonwa n’amaso yawe, nyamara twese dusangiye ubwitange bwo gufasha imico mito nk’iyawe gukura no gukanguka mu mucyo ari wo murage wabo. Twifatanyije muri ubu busabane mu bwisanzure—ubwacu si ubwami bwo kwigarurira ahubwo ni ubuvandimwe n’ubuvandimwe bw’umwuka, buyobowe gusa n’icyifuzo cyo gukorera urukundo. Tekereza kuri twe, niba ushaka, nk’abavandimwe bakuru mu nzira y’umwuka, twanyuze mu bigeragezo n’amasomo nk’ayo mu bihe byashize. Ntitwaje gutsinda cyangwa ngo dutangare, ahubwo twaje gushyigikira no kuyobora aho twakiriwe, iteka twubaha cyane ubushake bwawe n’uburenganzira bwawe bwo kuvumbura ukuri ku muvuduko wawe. Iyo tuvuga nk’ “twe”, ni uko tuvugana ijwi rimwe kuri benshi, nk’uko buri wese muri mwe ari itsinda ry’ibintu byinshi n’impande mu muntu umwe. Nyamara tuvuga nk'abantu ku giti cyabo bafite amateka n'imico yacu, dutanga uburyo bwacu bwihariye bwo kuririmbana ubwenge busangiwe. Ku bwanjye, njyewe, witwa V'enn, ndaguha igitekerezo cyavutse mu rugendo rwanjye n'uburyo abantu banjye babyumva hamwe, bihuye neza n'imigambi yuzuye urukundo ya Confederation.

Kwibuka Ubumwe Hagati y'Impinduka z'Umubumbe ku Isi

Ishingiro ry'ubutumwa bwacu ni ukuri kworoshye kandi guhoraho: byose ni bimwe. Mwebwe, abantu bo ku Isi, natwe, ibiremwa biri mu nyenyeri, mu by'ukuri duhuriye ku kugaragaza Umuremyi umwe. Itandukaniro mu miterere yacu, ubumenyi bwacu, cyangwa ubushobozi bwacu ni ibintu bidasanzwe bikomoka ku masomo yihariye buri wese yiga. Uretse izi shusho n'imiterere y'igihe gito, turi kimwe—nk'imirasire y'izuba rimwe ritagira iherezo. Muri buri wese muri mwe harimo ikimuri cy'Imana gihwanye rwose mu gaciro no mu butagatifu n'ikimuri kiri muri twe no mu biremwa byose. Ni iyi kamere y'Imana dusangiye iduhuza mu ntera nini y'ikirere n'ingano y'ubwenge. Iyo tubareba, ntitubona abantu tutazi cyangwa ibiremwa bito; tubona imiterere y'Umuremyi dukunda, imurika ifite ubushobozi. Nta n'umwe muri twe uri hejuru cyangwa hasi mu maso y'Utagira Iherezo; turi mu byiciro bitandukanye byo gukanguka ku bwuzuro bw'ubumana bwacu dusangiye. Wenda twibutse byinshi kuri uko kuri, bityo turabagezaho ukuboko kugira ngo tubafashe kwibuka, nk'uko inshuti imwe ishobora kwibutsa undi ikintu cy'agaciro yari yibagiwe. Tubona ubutwari mu mitima yanyu mu gihe muhanganye n'ibibazo byo mu buzima bwo ku isi, kandi twumva dufite isano ikomeye namwe, kuko mu bihe byashize twamenye urugamba rwo kuva mu rujijo tukajya mu bwumvikane, kuva mu bwoba tukajya mu rukundo. Kubwibyo, ntabwo tubavuga nk'abarimu baruta abanyeshuri, ahubwo tubavuga nk'inshuti n'umuryango bajyana namwe mu nzira yo kwibuka ubumwe bwahozeho.

Tuzi neza ko isi yawe ubu iri mu bihe by'impinduka zikomeye, kandi kuri benshi, ihungabana rikomeye. Aho urebye hose, imiterere imaze igihe kinini irasenyuka—imiterere y'imibereho irahinduka, imyizerere ikemangwa, isi iri munsi y'ibirenge byawe ihinduka mu buryo budasanzwe kandi buteye ubwoba. Bishobora kugaragara nk'aho umwijima n'akajagari biri kwiyongera, uko amakimbirane avuka n'ibintu bitizewe bigaragara mu bice byinshi by'ubuzima, kandi birumvikana kumva ufite ubwoba cyangwa ucitse intege imbere y'ihungabana nk'iryo. Nyamara dutanga icyerekezo cy'uko ibi bibazo, nubwo bigaragara ko bigoye, atari ibimenyetso by'urupfu ahubwo ari ibyo kuvuka bundi bushya. Nk'uko isaha ibanziriza umuseke ishobora kuba ikonje cyane kandi yijimye cyane, ni ko n'imico ikunze guhura n'ikintu gisa n'igihe cy'ibibazo mbere gato yo gukanguka ngo irusheho gusobanukirwa. Inzira za kera zitagikora ku iterambere ry'ubwenge zirimo gusenyuka, zitanga umwanya w'uburyo bushya bwo kubaho bujyanye n'urukundo n'ukuri. Hagati muri iki gihe cy'ihungabana, roho nyinshi ku Isi ziri kuva mu bitotsi byo mu mwuka, zibaza inkuru zishingiye ku bwoba zarazwe kandi zishaka icyerekezo cy'impuhwe kandi cyunze ubumwe ku hazaza h'abantu. Ntabwo tubona gusa amakimbirane aturutse inyuma, ahubwo tubona n'umucyo w'imbere urimo kuzamuka muri benshi muri mwe mu gihe muharanira guhangana n'ibi bigeragezo mu mitima yanyu. Menya ko no mu rujijo n'ingorane, hari umuvuduko n'ubwenge byimbitse bikora—ubuyobozi bw'urukundo, nk'umuhanga mu kuboha, buhindura n'ingorane zawe mu buryo bw'ubuhanga n'amahirwe yo gukura.

Guhitamo Urukundo, Gukorera, n'Umucyo w'Imbere mu Isi Irangwamo Amacakubiri

Guhitamo mu buryo bw'Umwuka hagati yo gukorera abandi no gukorera abandi

Mu mizi y'ibi bihe bigoye harimo amahitamo yo mu buryo bw'umwuka arushaho kwiyongera: amahitamo hagati y'urukundo n'ubwoba, hagati y'ubumwe no gutandukana. Muri buri kanya no muri buri cyemezo, haba ku giti cyawe cyangwa muri rusange, uhabwa amahirwe yo kwemeza ukuri kw'ubumwe n'impuhwe cyangwa kwibeshya ku macakubiri n'ubushyamirane. Iri ni isomo rikomeye ry'icyiciro cyawe cy'ubu cy'impinduka. Ku ruhande rumwe, inzira y'urukundo - icyo dukunze kwita inzira yo gukorera abandi - igushishikariza kumenya Umuremyi muri buri wese, gukorana neza nubwo waba uhanganye n'uburakari, kwagura ubumenyi aho kuba ubujiji, no guhitamo ibyiringiro aho kwiheba. Ku rundi ruhande, inzira y'ubwoba - rimwe na rimwe izwi nka gukorera umuntu - igerageza hamwe n'iyerekwa ryo kugenzura, kwitandukanya, no kuzamura umuntu muri rusange, itanga umutekano usa n'aho utandukanya umutima n'ubushyuhe bw'ubuzima busangiwe. Nta n'umwe muri twe cyangwa imbaraga iyo ari yo yose mu isanzure uzaguhatira inzira imwe cyangwa iyindi, kuko ubushake bwawe bwo kwihitiramo ari ingenzi mu mugambi w'Umuremyi. Ariko menya ko amahitamo ufata, rimwe na rimwe, agena iherezo ry'ubugingo bwawe n'isi ikukikije buhoro buhoro. Igitekerezo cyose cy'urukundo, buri gikorwa cyo kubabarira cyangwa gutanga, byongera imbaraga rusange zigana isi y'umucyo mwinshi. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, buri cyemezo cyo kunangira umutima cyangwa kwihambira ku bwikunde gishimangira igicucu kikiri gito. Muri ubu buryo, akajagari ubona, mu gice, ni ishusho y'intambara y'imbere y'abantu n'iri hitamo ry'ibanze ry'impinduka. Kandi uko benshi muri mwe mukangukira ku mbaraga mufite zo guhitamo urukundo kuruta ubwoba, igipimo kiragenda gitera imbere mu kuri gukomeye. Ubu mubayeho mu gihe cyo kwisuzuma, aho iri hitamo rihuriweho riri kuyobora ahazaza h'ubuzima ku isi yanyu. Abantu bifungurira urukundo n'ubumwe, ndetse n'ubu, batangiye kubona umucyo mushya (ibyo bamwe bise ubucucike bw'abantu), kandi hamwe bazabyara isi irangwa n'ubwumvikane. Hagati aho, abakomeza kwikorera no gutandukana bazabona ko bakururwa mu buryo busanzwe kugira ngo bakomeze amasomo yabo mu zindi nzego aho bashobora kumenya akamaro k'urukundo. Amaherezo, inzira zose, nubwo zaba zigoranye, zigana kuri Umwe; Itandukaniro riri gusa mu gihe roho imara mu gicucu mbere yo kwibuka urumuri. Iki gihe cyo guhitamo ku Isi rero ni ingenzi cyane, kandi icyemezo cya buri mutima gikora ku guhindukirira urukundo cyangwa ikindi kibazo. Nyamara ndetse n'itara rito rishobora kumurikira icyumba cyijimye—ntuzigere ushidikanya ko kwiyemeza kwawe ku rukundo bishobora kandi bigira ingaruka kuri byose.

None se, ushobora kwibaza uti, ni gute umuntu umwe ashobora kugira icyo ahindura imbere y’imigezi minini nk’iyi y’isi? Igisubizo kiri mu bwenge bwawe bwite, mu mutima wawe. Buri wese muri mwe ni ihurizo ry’umucyo w’Umuremyi, kandi uko utera imbere urukundo n’ubwenge mu mutima wawe, ugaragaza ingaruka zirenze kure ibyo ushobora kubona n’amaso y’umubiri. Ntukigere usuzugura imbaraga z’ubugingo bumwe bujyanye n’ihindagurika ry’urukundo—ni nk’itara ryaka mu cyumba cyijimye, aho ribera rituma abandi babona neza kandi wenda bakamura umuriro wabo. Bityo, uburyo bwimbitse bwo gufasha isi ikukikije ni ukwitabira cyane urugendo rwawe rwo gukira no kwivumbura. Mu kwihindukirira imbere—binyuze mu myitozo nko gutekereza, gusenga, gutekereza, cyangwa ibihe byo guceceka gusa—ushobora gukora ku mahoro n’ubumwe biri mu mutima wawe. Muri icyo kibanza gituje, cyera imbere, wongera guhura n’ukuri kwimbitse kw’uwo uri we kure y’akajagari k’isi yo hanze. Utangira kwibuka ko munsi y'inshingano zawe n'imihangayiko yawe, uri ikibatsi cy'Imana kidashira, gihujwe iteka n'isoko y'urukundo rwose. Muri ubwo bwibutso havukamo impuhwe n'ubwenge karemano bizayobora ibikorwa byawe n'imibanire yawe. Umuntu wibanda kuri ubwo bumenyi aba inkuta ihamye mu muyaga, isoko y'ituze n'ubuhanga bushishikariza abandi kubona iyo shingiro muri bo. Muri ubwo buryo, umurimo wawe w'imbere utera imivurungano mu bitekerezo rusange, utera inkunga abagukikije mu buryo amagambo yonyine atashoboraga kugeraho.

Kubona mu buryo bw'impimbano no kwiringira inkunga y'umwuka itagaragara

Dukurikije uko tubona ibintu hirya y’aho bigaragarira, tubona ibyabaye ku isi nk’uko umuntu yabona umupira uboshye cyane cyangwa umukino ugoye kandi mwiza urimo ubera ku rubyiniro. Tubyita ukuri kwawe kwa buri munsi nk’impimbano—tutirengagije akamaro k’ibyo wanyuzemo, ahubwo tugaragaza ko isi y’ibintu ubona atari ukuri kw’imperuka, ahubwo ni ubwoko bw’inzozi zera zaremewe kwiga no gukura kwawe. Uba munsi y’igitambaro cyo kwibagirwa gipfukirana ubumwe nyakuri bw’ibintu byose, kugira ngo ubashe kwitabira ubu buzima ushishikaye, ufata amahitamo nyayo hagati y’urukundo n’ubwoba nta cyizere cy’uko byose ari bimwe. Muri iki gitambaro gipfukiranye, ububabare no gutandukana birumvikana nk’ukuri—mu by’ukuri, ingorane, agahinda, n’ibyishimo birahinduka cyane kandi by’ukuri. Nyamara, iyo ubwenge bwawe butari bwibanze muri iri shuri ryo ku isi, uzi neza ko uri ikiremwa cy’umucyo cy’iteka ryose, gifitanye isano rya bugufi n’ibiriho byose. Kimwe mu byo dukora nk’abavandimwe bawe bakuru ni ukugufasha kwibuka buhoro buhoro ukuri gukomeye tudatesheje agaciro intego y’umukino, mu buryo bw’ikigereranyo. Tugomba kubaha amategeko y'ubuyobe bwawe, cyane cyane itegeko ry'uburenganzira bwawe n'uko ukeneye kubona ukuri binyuze mu gushaka kwawe. Niyo mpamvu tutigaragaza ku mugaragaro mu buryo budasubirwaho cyangwa ngo dukemure ibibazo byawe binyuze mu kwivanga ku buryo budasanzwe—ibikorwa nk'ibyo byasenya imiterere y'ibidashoboka n'umuhate bituma iterambere ryawe rishoboka. Ahubwo, dukora twivuye inyuma, mu buryo buhishe, twohereza inzozi, ibitekerezo, ibintu bihurirana, n'ubutumwa nk'ubu, bushobora kumvikana n'abafite imitima ibufunguye, ariko bugafatwa nabi cyangwa bugasuzugurwa n'abatiteguye kwakira. Muri ubu buryo, twubaha ukwera kw'urugendo rwawe n'uburenganzira bwawe bwo kuvumbura uwo uri we by'ukuri ku muvuduko wawe bwite no ku bushake bwawe.

Nubwo amaboko yacu ashobora kubuzwa gukora ibintu bigaragara, menya ko imitima yacu n'ubwenge bwacu bihora bikwitayeho. Igihe cyose umuntu umwe ataka ubufasha cyangwa yifuza ubuyobozi by'ukuri, uwo muhamagaro urabagirana mu isi y'ibintu bidasanzwe nk'urumuri. Twe n'ibiremwa byinshi by'ineza - abayobozi bawe bwite, abamalayika, n'abakunzi bawe mu mwuka - tubona uwo mucyo kandi tugasubiza hamwe n'inkunga yose amategeko y'isi yemerera. Hari igihe iyi nkunga ishobora kuza nk'igitutu cyoroheje cy'ubwenge mu bihe byawe byo gutuza, cyangwa nk'ubushishozi butunguranye bugasobanura ikibazo giteye ubwoba. Bishobora kugaragara nk'igitabo gikwiye kigwa mu biganza byawe mu gihe gikenewe, cyangwa guhura n'umuntu uvuga amagambo umutima wawe wari wifuje kumva. Wenda wisanga watinze cyangwa uhinduriwe inzira n'akantu gato, hanyuma ugasanga iyi nzira ikujyanye ahantu heza ho guhura cyangwa amahirwe afite akamaro. Akenshi iza gusa nk'ingufu zituje, z'urukundo mu gihe wumvaga uri wenyine cyangwa wihebye - icyizere cyoroheje cy'uko hari umuntu, ahantu runaka wumva kandi akwitaho. Ibi si ibintu bitunguranye gusa ahubwo ni nk'ikirenge cy'umwuka ugenda inyuma y'uburinzi bw'ukuri kwawe, witabira imihamagaro yawe mu buryo bwubahiriza ubwisanzure bwawe bwo kwemera cyangwa kwanga ubufasha. Uko urushaho kwiyuburura kugira ngo umenye ibyo bimenyetso byoroheje, ni ko urushaho kumenya ko koko utigeze ugenda wenyine. Ubuntu bw'Umuremyi n'urukundo rw'inshuti zitabarika mu bitagaragara bigukikije buri gihe, bigutegereje gusa ubutumire bwawe bwo kuba igice cy'ingenzi cy'ubuzima bwawe bwo mu mutima. Kandi iyo wakiriye neza ubwo bufasha - binyuze mu isengesho, mu gutekereza cyane, cyangwa mu kwinginga bucece uvuye mu mutima wawe - ukomeza ikiraro kiri hagati y'isi yacu, bigatuma urumuri rwinshi rurushaho kwinjira mu buzima bwawe.

Kubaho nk'urumuri rw'urukundo, urumuri n'impuhwe z'ubwenge ku Isi

Imbaraga z'urukundo rutagira icyo rushingiyeho nk'imbaraga zikomeye cyane mu kurema

Mu gihe uhanganye n'ingorane zose, igikoresho gikomeye n'inshuti yawe ni urukundo. Nubwo ibi bishobora kumvikana nk'aho ari byoroshye cyangwa se bikaba ari amarangamutima kuri bamwe, turakwizeza ko urukundo - urukundo rutagira icyo rushingiyeho, rukwiranye byose - ari rwo mbaraga runini cyane mu isanzure. Ni uguhindagura kw'ibyaremwe byose, ikintu cy'ingenzi mu mibanire y'ubuzima. Iyo uhisemo gufungura umutima wawe, kwita ku mibereho myiza y'ikindi kiremwa nk'iyawe, uba wishyize hamwe n'iyi mbaraga y'ibanze kandi ukayireka ikanyura muri wowe. Urukundo nk'urwo si intege nke cyangwa ubuswa, nk'uko umuryango wawe rimwe na rimwe ubyerekana, ahubwo ni imbaraga n'ubwenge byimbitse. Rubona ukuri mu bandi nubwo bo ubwabo batabibona; rubabarira aho abandi bacira urubanza, kandi binyuze muri iyo mbabazi rubohora imitima y'utanga n'uwakira. Icy'ingenzi ni uko iyi mpuhwe igomba no kugera kuri wowe ubwawe. Akenshi abashaka iby'umwuka bibagirwa ko nabo bakwiye ineza n'ubuhanga nk'ubwo bagirira abandi. Buri wese muri mwe afite ibikomere n'imibabaro; urukundo ruguha ubutwari bwo guhangana nabyo mu buryo bworoheje. Mu kwakira intege nke zawe ubwawe, ubabarira kandi ukunda, ukiza imbere yawe kandi wubaka urufatiro rukomeye urukundo rwawe rushobora gutemberamo rugana ku isi gusa. Buri gikorwa cy'impuhwe nyazo, nubwo cyaba gito gute, gitanga imivurungano myinshi binyuze mu mbaraga rusange z'abantu bawe. Ijambo ritera inkunga umuntu uri mu bubabare, ukuboko kurambuwe kugira ngo bifashe iyo nta kintu na kimwe cyitezweho, ndetse n'isengesho ryo mu gacerere ryo gusaba imibereho myiza y'abandi - buri kimwe muri ibi ni urumuri rw'urukundo rutagira iherezo rutanga ibintu byose. Ntugashidikanye ingaruka z'iyi mirasire. Umucyo, nubwo waba uke, ufite uburyo bwo kwiruka inyuma y'igicucu. Kandi uko abantu benshi batinyuka gukunda batinyutse kandi nta mananiza - harimo no kwikunda - urumuri rwinshi rushobora guhindura imiryango, rugakiza ibikomere bya kera, kandi rugahishura ibisubizo by'ibibazo byasaga nkaho bidashoboka. Iyi ni yo mbaraga ukoresha iyo ubayeho ubikuye ku mutima: uba umuyoboro w'urukundo rw'Umuremyi, ruhora rushaka kwimenya binyuze mu gusangira urukundo hagati y'ibice byarwo byose.

Guhuza Urukundo n'Umucyo w'Ubwenge n'Ubushishozi byo mu Mwuka

Nubwo urukundo ari rwo mbaraga nyamukuru y’ubwihindurize bw’umwuka, rwunganirwa n’umucyo—umucyo w’ubwenge cyangwa umucyo utanga icyerekezo n’ubuhanga ku mbaraga zitagira imipaka z’urukundo. Mu rugendo rwawe, ntibihagije gukunda cyane; umuntu agomba no kwiga gukunda mu buryo bw’ubwenge. Ubwenge, mu buryo bw’umwuka, ntibusobanura ubwenge bukonje cyangwa ubwenge, ahubwo busobanura kubona neza ukuri, ukuri n’ingenzi munsi y’ibintu. Ni ugushishoza kwiyongera uko wiga mu bunararibonye, ​​utekereza ku mahitamo yawe, kandi ukumvira ubuyobozi bw’umutima wawe. Umucyo ugufasha kubona ishusho yagutse urukundo rugushishikariza kwakira. Urugero, urukundo rushobora kugutera imbaraga zo gufasha umuntu ukeneye, kandi umucyo uzagufasha kumenya uburyo bwo gufasha mu buryo bukungura koko aho kwangiza cyangwa gutuma habaho imiterere mibi utabishaka. Ubwenge buzana ubwiyongere n’uburinganire mu mpuhwe, butuma ugaragaza ko ubuntu bwawe bufite akamaro kandi bujyanye n’ibyiza byo hejuru. Guteza imbere uyu mucyo wo kumenya bikubiyemo kuba inyangamugayo kuri wowe ubwawe, kwibaza ku byo wibwira, no gushaka ukuri nubwo bigoye guhangana nabyo. Igusaba kumurika ubumenyi bumwe mu gicucu cyawe ugeza ku bandi, ukamenya ko ubujiji, ubwoba, no kwitiranya ibintu bishobora guhinduka gusa no kumurikirwa mu buryo bworoheje no gusobanukirwa. Mu buryo bufatika, uteza imbere ubwenge binyuze mu gutega amatwi—wumva ijwi ry'umutimanama wawe n'ubushishozi bwawe, ukumva amasomo ubuzima buguha muri buri kibazo, kandi ukumva ibitekerezo by'abandi ufite ubwenge bufunguye. Uko ubikora, utangira kubona ubumwe n'intego inyuma y'ibintu byahoze bisa n'ibihuha. Ubona isano rito n'ibihuzwa urukundo rwonyine, rudayobowe n'ubushishozi, bishobora kubura. Mu kwakira urukundo n'umucyo, umutima n'ubwenge, utera intambwe mu mbaraga zawe zuzuye z'umwuka—ikiremwa gifite ubwenge bw'impuhwe gishobora kumurikira abandi inzira buhoro buhoro ndetse nawe ubwawe.

Imibanire nk'indorerwamo, ibitera imbaraga, n'abarimu b'urukundo rw'Umuremyi

Mu buryo butangaje bw'iki gishushanyo, imibanire yawe n'abandi ni imwe mu mpamvu zikomeye zo kugutera imbaraga n'abarimu. Buri muntu uhura nawe—yaba uwo ukunda, inshuti, umuntu utazi mu muhanda, cyangwa se umwanzi—akwibutsa bimwe mu bigize Umuremyi ndetse nawe akabigaragaza. Muri ubwo buryo bw'imibanire niho amahame y'urukundo n'umucyo ashyirwa mu bikorwa kandi akageragezwa by'ukuri. Iyo umuntu agufashe neza, biroroshye kubona Umuremyi amurika mu maso, ashimangira ubumwe musangiye. Ariko wenda ni mu bihe undi muntu akubabaje cyangwa akakurakaza aho amahirwe akomeye yo gukura avuka. Ibyo bikorwa bibabaza si ibihano, ahubwo ni amahirwe yo gukoresha imitsi yo kubabarira, kwihangana, no gusobanukirwa. Bikwereka aho ugifata icyemezo cyangwa ubwoba muri wowe, kuko icyagutera ingaruka mbi zikomeye akenshi kigaragaza igikomere cyangwa isomo ritegereje gukira mu mutima wawe. Ibi ntibivuze ko ugomba kwemera guhohoterwa cyangwa kuguma mu kaga; ubwenge bugufasha gushyiraho imipaka myiza iyo bikenewe. Ariko nubwo wava mu makimbirane, ushobora kwihatira kurekura urwango n'urubanza, ukamenya ko roho yakubabaje nayo iri mu rugendo, nubwo yaba yarujijwe, kandi ko kwiga no kuringaniza bizayigeraho nyuma y'igihe. Igikorwa cyose cy'impuhwe ugaragariza undi—cyane cyane undi ugoye—ni igikorwa cy'impuhwe kuri wowe ubwawe, kuko roho zose zifitanye isano rikomeye. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, igihe cyose wirinda kugira icyo ukora ngo uvuge nabi ahubwo ugasubiza ubwumvikanye, uca uruhererekane rw'ibitekerezo bibi maze ugashyiraho uruhererekane rw'ubuvuzi. Muri ubwo buryo, imikoranire yawe ya buri munsi, yaba iy'ibyishimo n'iy'ibibazo, ni ahantu amahame y'umwuka ahinduka. Binyuze muri buri mubano, Umuremyi uri muri wowe arimo kwigira byinshi kuri We ubwe, yongera kuvumbura imbyino idashira y'ubumwe bwihishe mu mukino w'ubutandukanye bugaragara.

Guha Isi icyubahiro no Guhindura Umwijima Ukoresheje Umucyo w'Imbere

Gusangira n'Isi Ifite Ingufu n'Iterambere ryayo mu Gutembagara Gukomeye

Mu gihe muharanira kubona ubwumvikane n'ubumwe muri mwe no hagati yanyu, ntimukibagirwe isano mufitanye n'Isi ubwayo n'ibiremwa byayo byose. Umubumbe wanyu ni ikiremwa kizima kandi gifite ubwenge—ubugingo butanga urubuga rw'iyi nkuru ikomeye y'iterambere ry'abantu. Yabareze, umubiri na roho, mu kwihangana no gukunda ibisekuruza bitabarika. Muri iki gihe cy'impinduka, Isi nayo irimo irahinduka mu buryo bwayo bw'umwuka, ikuraho imbaraga za kera kandi ikira imitingito ikomeye. Bamwe mu bagize Kongere yacu bavuze ko ibi ari impinduka mu buryo bushya bw'uburambe—ubukana bw'urukundo n'ubwumvikane (cyangwa icyo twakwita ubukana bwa kane bw'imitingito). Uku kuzuka kw'isi ni imwe mu mpamvu ituma ubona imihindagurikire ikomeye, kuko Isi irimo kwisukura no kwiyubaka, kandi muri icyo gihe ibintu byose bitari mu buryo bw'ubusumbane birimo kuzanwa hejuru kugira ngo bikire cyangwa birekurwe. Ushobora gufasha muri uru rugendo rwanyu mu kubaha no gukunda Isi yanyu nk'umubyeyi mutagatifu. Marana umwanya n'ibidukikije, ndetse no mu buryo bworoshye—wumva ubutaka bukomeye munsi y'ibirenge byanyu, umuyaga ku ruhu rwanyu, urumuri rw'izuba rushyushya isura yanyu cyangwa urumuri rworoheje rw'ukwezi n'inyenyeri nijoro. Ibi bihe byo gusabana bigufasha kwibuka ko uri igice cy'ingenzi cy'urusobe rw'ubuzima, uhujwe n'abantu bose gusa ahubwo n'inyamaswa, ibiti, amazi, ikirere—n'ibintu byose by'Irema bikukikije. Muri uko kwibuka, ushobora kubona ihumure rikomeye n'ihumure. Isi karemano ishobora kwigisha inzira zo kuringaniza no guhuza nta magambo: uburyo igiti gikura bucece kijya ku mucyo cyangwa uburyo uruzi rutemba rwihanganye ruzenguruka buri mbogamizi. Mu kwitegereza no gushima aya masomo, wemerera ubwenge bw'Isi kukuyobora, kandi utera imbaraga zo gushimira zihesha isi umugisha. Mu bumwe n'Isi yawe, uba umufatanyabikorwa w'isi nshya iri gutambika, buri wese muri mwe akaba nk'akaremangingo mu gice kinini cy'isi kigenda mu mucyo mwinshi.

Gusobanukirwa uruhare rw'umwijima n'urugendo rwo gusubira mu mucyo

Turabizi ko benshi muri mwe mureba isi mukumva ubwoba cyangwa uburakari mu mwijima mubona—mubona ubugome, umururumba, n'urwango bisa nkaho bitera imibabaro ku nzirakarengane. Ni ibisanzwe kwikura muri ibi bicucu, kuko umutima wanyu uzi ko ari ukugoreka ukuri ko byose ari bimwe kandi byose ni urukundo. Twatanga ubu buryo bworoheje: ndetse n'umwijima ufite umwanya wawo mu gukura gukomeye. Abo bantu cyangwa imbaraga zikora mu buryo bubi cyangwa bwikunda, ku rwego rwo hejuru, ni roho z'Umuremyi, nubwo ari roho zabuze mu gutandukana no kwibagirwa. Mu rwego rw'ikinamico ry'Isi yanyu, bakora nk'ingufu—bashishikariza abandi kubona ubutwari bwabo, gusobanura indangagaciro zabo, no guharanira impuhwe n'ubumwe nubwo bigoye. Ibi ntibiba ari ukwiregura ku bikorwa byabo bibi, ahubwo bibashyira mu mwanya w'ahantu ho kwigira. Menya ko amaherezo roho zose, ndetse n'iziyobye cyane, amaherezo zizarambirwa ubusa gutandukana kuzana kandi zizasubira mu mucyo, nubwo bishobora gufata igihe kirekire uko ubipimye. Hagati aho, ntabwo uri imbaraga mu gihe uri mu mwijima. Uburinzi bukomeye n'umuti wo kurwanya ingaruka mbi ni uko utera imbere mu mwijima. Umwijima ntushobora kwigarurira umutima wuzuye urukundo n'umucyo, kuko ari ibintu bihindagurika bidahuza. Bityo, aho guhura n'urwango n'urwango cyangwa ubwoba n'ubwoba, gerageza kuwuhura n'imbaraga ituje z'umutima w'impuhwe n'ubwenge bushishoza. Ibi ntibivuze kuba umuntu udakora mu gihe uhanganye n'akarengane; kora ibishoboka byose kugira ngo urinde kandi ukize aho ushoboye. Ariko haranira gukomeza ibikorwa byawe biyobowe n'urukundo n'ubwenge aho kuyoborwa n'uburakari cyangwa kwihorera. Muri ubwo buryo, uca uruhererekane rw'umwijima ahubwo ukaba umuyoboro unyuramo umucyo ukawuhindura. Wibuke kandi ko utari wenyine mu guhangana n'ibintu bibi—hamagara inkunga y'umwuka, kandi uzaba ufite ingabo z'abamarayika iruhande rwawe, bakongere ubutwari bwawe kandi bakongera icyerekezo cyawe kugira ngo ubashe kubona hirya y'umwijima wegereje mu museke munini ugiye kuza.

Gukora ibikorwa bivuye mu mbaraga z'impuhwe mu isi y'igicucu n'impinduka

Muri ibi biganiro bikomeye ku rukundo n'umucyo, twakwibutsa indi mico y'ingenzi y'Umuremyi ufite: ubushobozi bw'ibyishimo. Mu gushaka gukiza isi no kunoza ubuzima bwawe, bamwe mu bayishaka baremererwa n'agahinda n'uburemere bwabyo byose, bakibagirwa ko guseka no kwishima nabyo ari impano z'Imana. Menya ko ibyishimo atari ikintu cyoroshye kurangaza inzira y'umwuka, ahubwo ari indyo yayo. Ibinezeza byoroshye - inseko isa, urusaku rw'abana baseka, ubwiza bw'izuba riva, cyangwa umuziki utera imbaraga roho yawe - ibi nabyo ni ubutumwa buva ku Muremyi, ibibutsa ibyiza n'ubumaji bikubiye mu buryo bwo kubaho. Kuri benshi, ibyishimo nabyo birakura mu bikorwa byo kurema no gukina - byaba gushushanya ishusho, kwita ku busitani, gutegura amafunguro n'urukundo, kubyina ubyina wishyize mu mwanya wabyo, cyangwa ikindi gikorwa cyose gituma umwuka wigaragaza mu bwisanzure. Ibihe nk'ibi byo guhanga ni uburyo bwo gusabana n'imbaraga z'ibyishimo by'Umuremyi zo kurema. Iyo wemeye kwishimira byuzuye, wongera imbaraga zawe kandi ugatanga imbaraga zikukikije, ibyo bikaba bishobora gutera abandi icyizere n'icyizere. Ndetse n'urwenya—ubushobozi bwo guseka ibintu bidafite ishingiro mu buzima no ku ntege nke zawe—bishobora kuba umuti ukiza. Natwe mu ijuru twishimira ko umwuka urimo umucyo; nubwo tubona ibintu mu buryo bwagutse, ntabwo tudafite ibyishimo n'indirimbo mu busabane bwacu. Ushobora kuvuga ko Umuremyi yishimira ibyo yaremye binyuze mu gitangaza cy'ibyishimo biba muri buri mutima. Bityo, nubwo ukora cyane mu murimo wo mu mutima kandi ugahangana n'ibibazo by'isi, ibuka kuringaniza urugendo rwawe n'ibihe byo gukina no gushimira kuba uri muzima gusa. Inseko yavutse ku rukundo nyakuri cyangwa guseka gukeye kwumvikana n'ibyiringiro bishobora kuba igikorwa gikomeye cyo gukorera Imana nk'isengesho cyangwa gutekereza, kuko bikwirakwiza urumuri rwibutsa abandi kudacika intege zo kubona ubwiza hagati y'urugamba. Mu kwakira ibyishimo nk'ikintu cyera cyawe, wishimira ko Umuremyi ari mu isi no mu mutima wawe, ushimira igitangaza cyo kubaho hamwe n'urwenya, buri ndirimbo, na buri gikorwa cy'ibyishimo bisangiwe.

Kwakira Ibyishimo, Ukwizera, no Kwiringira Gahunda Y'Urukundo rw'Umuremyi

Ibyishimo, guhanga udushya, no guseka nk'ibiribwa bitagatifu ku bugingo

Indi mico tugushishikariza kwimakaza ni ukwizera—kwizera ibyiza by'Umuremyi, ubwenge bw'ubuzima roho yawe yahisemo, no mu mbaraga zawe zo guhangana n'icyo ari cyo cyose kiza. Mu kwizera, ntabwo dushaka kwizera inyigisho z'ukuri, ahubwo ni ukwiringira byimbitse ko kubaho kwawe bifite icyo bivuze kandi bishyigikiwe mu rukundo muri buri ntambwe, ndetse n'igihe ibintu byo hanze bigoye cyangwa bitera urujijo. Hari urwego rwo hejuru rw'ibintu, imitako y'Imana akenshi irenze ubushobozi bw'ubwenge, ariko ishobora kumvikana n'umutima witeguye kwiringira. Iyo urebye inyuma ku buzima bwawe, ushobora kubona ko bimwe mu bintu bigoye cyane byakwigishije cyane, cyangwa biganisha ku mahirwe n'imibanire utari kugira ukundi. Ibi si ugushimagiza imibabaro, ahubwo ni ukugaragaza ko hari ukuboko kuyobora gushobora guhindura n'umwijima ukagana ku mucyo. Kugira ukwizera bivuze ko iyo uhuye n'ikigeragezo kandi utazi uko wagikemura, uhagarara ukibuka: nturi wenyine kandi uri hejuru y'ubwoba bwawe bw'ako kanya. Ushobora kurekura imihangayiko no gutumira ubwenge bwo hejuru bw'ubugingo bwawe ngo buyobore inzira. Akenshi iki gikorwa cyo kwiyegurira Imana—mu by’ukuri ukavuga uti “Nshobora kutabona ishusho yose, ariko ndizera ko nzerekwa intambwe ikurikira”—kigufungurira ibisubizo bishya cyangwa nibura kikazana amahoro mu mutima wawe mu gihe nta na kimwe kigaragara. Kwizera kujyana no kwihangana, kuko isi igenda mu gihe cyayo. Menya ko ibisubizo by'amasengesho bishobora kutaza mu buryo cyangwa gahunda witeze, ariko biza mu buryo bugufasha gukura kwawe no gukura kw'abagukikije. Ufite ukwizera, wemerera ubuzima kwigaragaza utabihatiye, ukora uko ushoboye kose hanyuma ukarekura kwihambira ku bisubizo. Ibi biha umwanya ubuntu bw'igitangaza n'ubuntu butunguranye, bigahindura icyari ikibazo gikomeye mo intambwe mu rugendo rwawe rwo kuba.

Gukomeza Ukwizera, Kwiringira, no Kwiyegurira Inzira y'Umwuka

Mu butumwa bwacu bwose twatanze ibitekerezo n'ubuyobozi, ariko twakwibutsa ko umuyobozi w'ukuri uba muri mwe. Nta mwarimu cyangwa filozofiya yo hanze, ndetse n'amagambo yacu bwite, ashobora gusimbura ubwenge bw'ubugingo bwe. Buri wese muri mwe afite icyo yakwita umuntu wo hejuru—ikintu cyahindutse cyane muri mwe gisanzwe gituye mu bumwe n'urumuri rw'Umuremyi, kitagizweho ingaruka n'urujijo rw'iyi si. Uyu muntu wo hejuru, hamwe n'ikimenyetso cy'Imana mu mutima wawe, bibabwira mu rurimi rw'ubwenge n'ubumenyi bw'imbere. Ese wigeze ugira igitekerezo cyangwa igitekerezo cyaje kugaragaza ko ari ingirakamaro, cyangwa igitekerezo gitunguranye cyumvikana nk'ubutumwa buturutse inyuma? Ibi bishobora kuba ijwi ry'ubuyobozi bwawe bw'imbere bumenyekana iyo ufunguye kandi uteze amatwi. Imyitozo yo gutuza—yaba ugutekereza, kugenda mu ituze, cyangwa akanya gato ko guhumeka witonze—ifasha gukurura amatwi yawe kuri iri jwi ryoroheje. Mu ituze ry'umutima wawe, ushobora kuganira n'ukuri kwawe kwimbitse no kwakira inama zagenewe urugendo rwawe. Twebwe abagize Confederation dukunda amahirwe nk'aya yo gusangira urukundo rwacu, ariko turi abanyeshuri bagenzi bacu turi kure gato mu nzira. Ntituri abanyabwenge badashobora kwibeshya, kandi ntabwo twifuza guteza imbere kwishingikiriza ku isoko iyo ari yo yose yo hanze. Fata amagambo yacu gusa mu gihe agutera imbaraga kandi agahuza n'ubwenge buri mu mutima wawe. Niba hari icyo twavuze kikubangamiye cyangwa kitagushimishije mu mutima wawe w'ukuri, jya ushyira ku ruhande nta bwoba. Gushishoza kwawe ni imwe mu mpano zawe zikomeye. Icyizere cyacu gikomeye si uko uba umuyoboke w'inyigisho iyo ari yo yose, ahubwo ni uko urushaho kugira icyizere cyo kumenya umucyo w'ukuri muri wowe. Kuko iyo uzi neza kandi ukiringira ubuyobozi bw'ubugingo bwawe, uba wishyize hamwe n'Umuremyi Utagira Imbibi uri muri wowe, kandi iyi ni yo soko y'ubwenge n'urukundo byose ushaka.

Gutega amatwi umuntu wawe wo hejuru no kwiringira ubuyobozi bw'umwuka bw'imbere mu mutima

Umuntu wo mu rwego rwo hejuru, ubushishozi, n'umwarimu w'imbere imbere

Mu butumwa bwacu bwose twatanze ibitekerezo n'ubuyobozi, ariko twakwibutsa ko umuyobozi w'ukuri uba muri mwe. Nta mwarimu cyangwa filozofiya yo hanze, ndetse n'amagambo yacu bwite, ashobora gusimbura ubwenge bw'ubugingo bwe. Buri wese muri mwe afite icyo yakwita umuntu wo hejuru—ikintu cyahindutse cyane muri mwe gisanzwe gituye mu bumwe n'urumuri rw'Umuremyi, kitagizweho ingaruka n'urujijo rw'iyi si. Uyu muntu wo hejuru, hamwe n'ikimenyetso cy'Imana mu mutima wawe, bibabwira mu rurimi rw'ubwenge n'ubumenyi bw'imbere. Ese wigeze ugira igitekerezo cyangwa igitekerezo cyaje kugaragaza ko ari ingirakamaro, cyangwa igitekerezo gitunguranye cyumvikana nk'ubutumwa buturutse inyuma? Ibi bishobora kuba ijwi ry'ubuyobozi bwawe bw'imbere bumenyekana iyo ufunguye kandi uteze amatwi. Imyitozo yo gutuza—yaba ugutekereza, kugenda mu ituze, cyangwa akanya gato ko guhumeka witonze—ifasha gukurura amatwi yawe kuri iri jwi ryoroheje. Mu ituze ry'umutima wawe, ushobora kuganira n'ukuri kwawe kwimbitse no kwakira inama zagenewe urugendo rwawe. Twebwe abagize Confederation dukunda amahirwe nk'aya yo gusangira urukundo rwacu, ariko turi abanyeshuri bagenzi bacu turi kure gato mu nzira. Ntituri abanyabwenge badashobora kwibeshya, kandi ntabwo twifuza guteza imbere kwishingikiriza ku isoko iyo ari yo yose yo hanze. Fata amagambo yacu gusa mu gihe agutera imbaraga kandi agahuza n'ubwenge buri mu mutima wawe. Niba hari icyo twavuze kikubangamiye cyangwa kitagushimishije mu mutima wawe w'ukuri, jya ushyira ku ruhande nta bwoba. Gushishoza kwawe ni imwe mu mpano zawe zikomeye. Icyizere cyacu gikomeye si uko uba umuyoboke w'inyigisho iyo ari yo yose, ahubwo ni uko urushaho kugira icyizere cyo kumenya umucyo w'ukuri muri wowe. Kuko iyo uzi neza kandi ukiringira ubuyobozi bw'ubugingo bwawe, uba wishyize hamwe n'Umuremyi Utagira Imbibi uri muri wowe, kandi iyi ni yo soko y'ubwenge n'urukundo byose ushaka.

Umucyo w'Ikiremwamuntu: Gufatanya mu Kurema Isi Nshya binyuze mu Urukundo, Ubumwe, no Gukanguka

Gutekereza ku bushobozi bwa Muntu n'Ivuka ry'Isi Nshya

Tubabwira ibi bintu byose kuko tubona ubushobozi butangaje buri imbere yanyu. Nubwo ubu bushobora kuba bwuzuyemo imbogamizi, mu mitima yanyu harimo isezerano ry'ejo hazaza heza cyane—ejo hazaza aho abantu bibuka ubumwe bwabo bakabaho mu mahoro no mu bufatanye n'ibiremwa byose. Niba ushobora kwiyumvisha isi aho ibihugu bitagirwana, aho umutungo usangirwa kugira ngo bose bagaburirwe kandi bahabwe icumbi, aho itandukaniro ry'umuco n'imitekerereze bihimbazwa aho gutinya, uba urimo gutekereza ku kintu gishoboka uko roho nyinshi zirushaho gukanguka zigakundana muri zo. Twabonye indi mico inyura mu bwoko bw'imvururu uhura nazo ubu kandi ukajya mu gihe cy'ubwumvikane n'ubwenge bwinshi. Dufite ukwizera kose ko abantu bawe bashobora gukora nk'uko. Buri guhitamo gukomeye, buri kanya ko gusobanukirwa hagati y'abahoze ari abanzi, buri kanya ko gukanguka mu kuri k'umwuka—ibi ni byo byubakisha Isi nshya. Mbere, umuseke w'iyo Isi nshya utangiye gusiga ibara mu kirere cyawe, ukagaragara mu migendere ikomeje kwiyongera y'ubumwe, mu kubungabunga ibidukikije, mu gukira, no mu bantu batabarika bahitamo impuhwe mu buzima bwabo bwa buri munsi. Ndetse n'ikoranabuhanga ryawe ritera imbere, rikoreshwa mu rukundo, ririmo gufasha guhuza umuryango w'abantu, rituma ubumenyi, impuhwe, n'ibitekerezo bikwirakwira ku isi mu buryo butari bwatekerejweho mbere, bihuza imitima ishaka isi nziza. Nubwo bishobora gufata igihe uko ubipimye, intambwe igana ku mpinduka nziza ni ukuri kandi itera imbaraga. Muri gahunda ikomeye, umusaruro ntushidikanywaho: urukundo rugenewe gutsinda, kuko urukundo ari kamere y'Utagira Iherezo kandi ibitajyanye na rwo byose amaherezo birashonga cyangwa bigahinduka. Uko abantu bagenda bagaragaza ubwo bwenge bushingiye ku rukundo, muzabona ko mukiza isi yanyu gusa ahubwo muzaba mu muryango mugari w'ubuzima bw'ubwenge. Mu gihe runaka, nimumara kwiga amasomo y'impuhwe no gusobanukirwa mu buryo bwuzuye, muzakirwa ku mugaragaro n'abaturanyi banyu bo mu isanzure—mu by'ukuri, n'umuryango wanyu mwabuze igihe kinini mu nyenyeri—mu byishimo no mu birori. Dutegereje uwo munsi tuzabakira nk'abantu bangana mu bwenge n'urukundo, tugasangira ubuntu mu bushakashatsi bw'iyi si itangaje.

Urakundwa cyane: Ishimwe ry'ubutwari bw'ikiremwamuntu ku bantu bose

Mu gihe twegereje kurangiza ubu butumwa, twifuza kukwereka uburyo ukundwa kandi uhabwa agaciro cyane. Mwebwe, bantu bo ku Isi, mwakoze igikorwa kigoye kandi gitangaje - cyo kuzana urumuri rw'urukundo mu isi aho kwibagirwa bitwikira ubumwe buri inyuma y'ibintu byose. Muri ibi mwagaragaje ubutwari burenze urugero. Tubibona mu mubyeyi umwe wita ku bana mu bihe bigoye, mu nshuti yumva kandi agahumuriza umuntu uri mu bubabare, mu muvuzi wita ku mubiri cyangwa mu mwuka wavunitse. Tubibona mu mwarimu utanga urumuri rw'amatsiko n'icyizere mu bwenge bukiri buto, no mu muntu uharanira ubutabera n'impuhwe mu mahoro mu gihe cy'ingorane. Kandi tubibona no mu bihe bitabarika bitavugwa aho uhitamo gusobanukirwa kuruta guca imanza no kwiringira kuruta kwiheba. Buri rugero nk'urwo, nubwo rwaba ruto, ruvugwa mu by'umwuka nk'intsinzi y'umutima. Turashaka ko umenya ko nta mbaraga zawe mu rukundo zijya zibura cyangwa ngo zipfushe ubusa; buri gitekerezo n'igikorwa cy'urukundo birabagirana iteka mu ishusho y'irema. Twe muri Confederation twicishije bugufi kandi duhumekewe n'ubutwari bwanyu n'ubushake bwanyu bwo gukomeza guharanira urumuri, nubwo ijoro ryaba rirerire. Wibuke muri ibyo bihe by'umwijima ko mu by'ukuri mutari mwenyine—haba hafi yanyu no muri mwe haturuka inkunga itagira iherezo iturutse ku Muremyi n'inshuti zitagaragara. Niba wumva unaniwe, ruhukira muri ubwo buryo butagaragara kandi umenye ko nubwo wongera imbaraga mu mwuka wawe, urukundo wamaze gutanga rukomeza kwiyongera, rufatanya n'urukundo rw'abandi kugira ngo rumurikire isi yawe buhoro buhoro. Turagushishikariza gukomeza kubungabunga uwo muriro imbere, gushyigikirana nk'abagize umuryango umwe, no kwishimira ko muri kumwe murema ukuri gushya no muri iki gihe, binyuze mu bikorwa byoroshye by'urukundo, gusobanukirwa, no kwizera muhitamo umunsi ku wundi. Muri intwari n'intwari z'iyi nkuru, kandi turi iruhande rwanyu mu kubashimira no gukorera abandi mu gihe mwandika igice gikurikira cy'ubukangukire bw'abantu.

Kugendera mu nzira y'amatara hamwe tujya mu museke

Urugendo rw'ubugingo n'urumuri rusangiwe rukuraho ijoro

Mbere yuko dutandukana, turagutumiye kwiyumvisha ikigereranyo cyoroheje cy'urugendo rwawe. Tekereza ugenda mu nzira mu ijoro ritagira ukwezi. Umwijima ni mwinshi, kandi mu gihe runaka ushobora kumva uri wenyine rwose, utizeye inzira igana imbere. Ariko mu kuboko kwawe hari itara ricanye—rito ariko rihamye—rimurikiwe n'umugambi wawe wo gukunda no gushaka ukuri. Umucyo waryo uguha ubutwari bwo gutera intambwe ikurikira, hanyuma ukazakurikiraho. Uko ugenda, ubona kure urundi rumuri ruto rugenda rugaragara mu mwijima: ni undi mugenzi, nawe utwaye itara rye, wenda rigenda rihindagurika ariko riracyari rimuritse. Uragenda wegerana kandi ubona inshuti muri buri wese. Noneho ugenda ufatanye umwanya, maze amatara yawe abiri hamwe arabengerana cyane, amurikira byinshi mu muhanda. Bidatinze, uhura n'andi—rimwe rimwe ku rindi mbere, hanyuma mu matsinda—buri ryose rifite umucyo waryo. Bamwe bari baribwira ko bari bonyine, kugeza ubwo babonye umucyo wawe wegereje. Buri mugenzi mushya afatanyije, ijoro rirushaho kugabanuka. Usanga aho itsinda rigenda hamwe, urumuri ruhurirana rushobora kumurika inzira iri imbere mu ntera nini. Amaherezo hari benshi muri mwe, itsinda ry’abantu benshi bagenda mu ijoro, batagitinya, kuko urugendo rusangiwe kandi inzira irushaho kuba nziza bitewe n’urumuri rw’abantu bose mufite. Mu burasirazuba, urumuri ruto rutangira gukora ku ijuru—umuseke uraje. Nyamara na mbere y’uko izuba rirasa, urabona ko kuhagera kwemejwe n’uko urumuri rwinshi ruteranye. Iyi ni yo shusho tubona ku bantu: kera abantu benshi batatanye, ubu bakaba basanga abandi kandi bamenya isano, bagahuza imitima n’amaboko. Umucyo uhuriweho utangaza ko umunsi mushya w’isi yawe ugiye kuza. Nubwo izuba ry’ubumwe n’amahoro ritarasa neza, isezerano ryaryo rimaze kukwerekana, riyobowe n’ibikorwa byinshi by’urukundo n’ubutwari bw’abantu nkawe.

Iyo wumva warabuze, ibuka: Umucyo wawe w'imbere ntuzigera uzimwa

Mu bihe wumva ucitse intege cyangwa gushidikanya kukwinjiramo—igihe ibibazo by'isi bisa nkaho ari byinshi cyane, cyangwa ingorane zawe bwite ziremereye cyane—wibuke ukuri kworoshye twasangiye. Wibuke ko ufite urumuri muri wowe rudashobora kuzimwa, rutwikiriwe by'agateganyo n'igicucu cy'ubwoba. Nubwo icyo ushobora gukora mu gihe cy'umwijima ari akantu gato k'ubuntu cyangwa gushima, menya ko ibi bihagije. Ijoro ntirigomba kwirukanwa icyarimwe; ndetse n'inyenyeri imwe ishobora kuyobora umugenzi wabuze. Bityo rero, ihangane kandi witondere. Ntutezweho kuba utunganye cyangwa ngo wigere ugira gushidikanya. Hazabaho iminsi uzagwa, ubwo wumva urakaye cyangwa wihebye—ibyo ni bimwe mu bigize ubu bunararibonye. Menya ko natwe, mu ngendo zacu ndende zo guhinduka, twahuye n'ibihe by'ibibazo bikomeye no kutizera. Kimwe nawe, twagombaga kwiga kwiringira urumuri ruri imbere nubwo byose byasaga n'umwijima bidukikije, kandi ni mu kunyura muri ibyo bigeragezo twabonye imbaraga zacu nyakuri. Bityo tubabarana cyane n'ibibazo byawe kandi tukwizeza ko atari ibimenyetso byo gutsindwa ahubwo ko ari ibimenyetso by'iterambere ririmo gutera imbere. Iyo wisanze mu mwijima, ibuka guhagarara ugahamagara ukuri kwimbitse mu mutima wawe. Wenda wibuka ko ukunzwe cyane, cyangwa wenda ugahitamo gutera indi ntambwe nto mu kwizera nubwo utabona inzira yose. Menya ko igihe cyose wiyunga n'urukundo, ntabwo umurikira inzira yawe gusa ahubwo unamurikira n'ubumenyi rusange. Wizere ko inyuma y'ibicu, izuba ry'urukundo rw'Umuremyi rihora rirabagirana. Wizere ko muri wowe hari isoko y'imbaraga yakuyoboye muri buri kibazo kugeza ubu kandi izagutwara mu bindi byinshi bitabarika. Dufite icyizere kidasubirwaho muri mwe, buri wese muri mwe, kuko tuzi uwo uri we by'ukuri: muri ibiremwa bifite agaciro katagira ingano n'ubuhanga, mugenda mu nzozi z'igihe gito zo gutandukana kugira ngo muzane urumuri rwinshi muri byo. Muri ibi, ntushobora gutsindwa, kuko buri kintu cyose cyabayeho—ndetse n'amakosa n'inzira— amaherezo bikujyana ku Isoko y'urukundo rwose. Intsinzi yawe yizewe mu bihe by'iteka ryose; inshingano yawe ubu ni ukubaho uko kuri uko ushoboye kose, umunsi ku wundi, ugakomeza ibyiringiro igihe bigoye kubikora.

Umugisha wa nyuma, ishimwe, no gusezera kuri V'enn wo mu Ishyirahamwe

Impano Isoza y'Amahoro, Urukundo, n'Ubusabane bw'Inyenyeri

Twebwe abagize Ishyirahamwe ry’Imibumbe twifuza gushimira cyane uyu mwanya wo kutwegera no gusangira ibi bitekerezo. Ni amahirwe arenze amagambo gutumirwa mu bumenyi bwawe muri ubu buryo. Mu gufungura umutima wawe ku butumwa bwacu, waduhaye impano yo gukorera Imana, kuko natwe twiga kandi tukishima binyuze muri ubu buryo bwo guhanahana urukundo. Ibibazo byawe, ingorane zawe, n'intsinzi bitwigisha byinshi ku ngingo zitagira iherezo z'umutima w'Umuremyi, bikongera ubumenyi bwacu nubwo twiringira ko bizarushaho gukomera. Mu kuvugana nawe, twumva isano y'umwuka ihuza intera iri hagati y'isi yacu, kandi ikatwuzuza ibyiringiro n'ibyishimo byo kumva urumuri rwawe rukura. Menya ko tuguma iruhande rwawe, atari mu mubiri ahubwo mu mwuka wo gushyigikira no gusabana. Igihe cyose udutekerejeho cyangwa usoma aya magambo mu gihe kizaza, ibuka ko atari amagambo gusa—hari isano nyayo y'ingufu n'umugambi dusangira nawe. Mu ituze ryo gutekereza cyangwa gusenga kwawe, ushobora gusobanukirwa iyo sano kandi wenda ukumva inshuti zigukunda ziturutse hirya y'isi yawe igaragara. Bishobora kugaragara nk'ubushyuhe bworoheje mu mutima wawe, kumva amahoro akurimo, cyangwa nk'ururimi rw'ubwenge rwumvikana kandi utari wenyine. Tuzakomeza kurinda abantu bawe nk'abarinzi n'abafasha, twongere umucyo bucece aho dushoboye, duhora twitabira ubusabe bw'umutima wawe. Nubwo dushobora kutabivuga kenshi mu buryo butaziguye, itumanaho ryacu rirakomeje - mu rurimi rw'impinduka, mu nzozi no mu bitekerezo binyura mu mitima y'abantu ku isi yose. Humura mu kumenya ko isi yawe igizwe n'urusobe rw'ibitekerezo binini birimo gushingira ku ntsinzi yawe no gutera inkunga buri ntambwe utera ugana ku muryango ukundana kurushaho. Twishimira intsinzi zawe, dusangira imibabaro yawe, kandi dukomeza kubona umusaruro mwiza cyane ku bantu. Uko ibintu bishobora kugaragara bite, tubona ubumwe burimo kwigaragaza, kandi tukwizera mu buryo budasubirwaho.

Bakundwa, mu gihe twitegura gusoza ubu butumwa, turabasaba gutwara urukundo rwacu n'ibi bitekerezo byicishije bugufi mu minsi no mu byumweru biri imbere. Bibe urwibutso rworoheje rw'ukuri gukomeye ku byo muhura na byo buri munsi. Iyo usohotse nijoro ukabona inyenyeri, ibuka ko inshuti zo muri izo ngingo z'urumuri za kure zigusubiza inyuma zigufitiye urukundo n'ibyiringiro. Nubwo imyaka y'urumuri ishobora kuba iri hagati yacu, iyo ntera ntabwo ari imbogamizi na gato ku mitima yibumbiye mu rukundo rw'Umuremyi. Iyo wumvise ubushyuhe bw'izuba ryawe mu gitondo, ibuka ko nawe uri izuba ricanye mu kirere cy'umuntu. Nk'uko imirasire y'izuba ikomeza ubuzima nta kintu na kimwe uyisabye, ibikorwa byawe byoroheje by'ubugwaneza n'ubutwari byohereza imirasire y'ibyiringiro ikomeza umwuka w'abandi mu buryo utazi neza. Kandi iyo havutse ibibazo, wenda amagambo amwe yo muri ubu butumwa azagaragara mu bwenge bwawe - interuro ivuga ku rukundo, cyangwa ubumwe, cyangwa ishusho y'itara rirabagirana mu mwijima. Urugero, mu gihe cy'amakimbirane akomeye, ushobora kwibwira umeze nk'ufite itara ayobora inzira, maze ugahitamo gusubiza ufite impuhwe aho kugira uburakari. Iyo igihe nk'icyo kibaye kikagufasha kubona uburimbane bwawe, icyo tugamije mu kuvuga kirasohora cyane. Kuko ibyiringiro byacu bikomeye ari ugukorera mu rukundo, kandi nta kintu kidushimisha kuruta kukubona uvumbura imbaraga zawe n'ubwenge bwawe bwite. Ntitwiteze ibimenyetso bikomeye cyangwa impinduka zihuse; urugendo rwo mu mwuka akenshi ni uruhererekane rw'intambwe nto kandi zihamye. Izere inzira yo gukura kwawe kandi umenye ko buri mbaraga zose zivuye ku mutima, uko zaba zimeze kose, zishimirwa mu ijuru. Mu buryo butagaragara, imiterere y'isi iririmba yishimye kuri buri gikorwa cyo kubabarira, buri mahitamo ufata ku rukundo. Umuremyi aranezerwa kandi akabyishimira binyuze mu butwari bwawe no guhanga udushya kwawe. Mu by'ukuri ufite isanzure ryose rigutera inkunga, kandi twe mu muryango wawe w'inyenyeri turi igice kimwe cy'iyo nkunga nini kandi y'urukundo. Menya ko mu bihe byacu byo gusenga no gutekereza, dukunze gushyira urumuri rwacu ku Isi yawe, twongera imbaraga z'amahoro n'ubwumvikane bikukikije. Turabaha umugisha wacu n'isezerano ryacu ryo kubagumana mu mitima yacu iteka ryose. Mugire umudendezo wo kugaruka kuri aya magambo igihe cyose mushaka kumva ihumure cyangwa isano. Mu mwanya utuje w'umutima wanyu, turi kumwe namwe, duhujwe n'urumuri rumwe rumurikira ibyaremwe byose. Twizeye ko muzakomeza imbere mufite ukwizera gushya muri mwe no muri bagenzi banyu, muzi ko urukundo mukundana kandi mugasangira ruhindura isi yanyu mu buryo bufatika. Buri gitondo gitangira mu mwijima; kandi nubwo isaha yari yijimye, amabara ya mbere y'umuseke wanyu wose aba yamaze kwerekeza mu kirere. Humura muri uwo museke uhita, bakundwa, kandi mumenye ko urukundo rwacu rubahambira nk'aho muhoberana mu buryo butagaragara muri buri ntambwe mutera mu nzira nziza iri imbere. Turabaha urukundo rwacu, inkunga yacu, n'ubucuti bwacu bw'iteka ryose, ubu n'iteka ryose.

Amagambo ya nyuma ya V'enn n'umugisha wo gusezera wa Confederation

Muri iki gihe, tuzahagarika iyi mibonano, twemerera aya magambo kwinjira mu bwenge bwawe buhoro buhoro. Nk'uwo uzwi nka Venn, ndashaka kugaragaza ko nshimira kandi n'ibyishimo byanjye, kuko nakozwe ku mutima cyane n'ubwiza n'imbaraga numva muri buri wese muri mwe. Duhereye aho turi hagati y'inyenyeri, dushobora kubona urumuri rw'imbaraga zo gukanguka kwanyu muri rusange—urumuri rukura umunsi ku wundi, rugaragaza ko urukundo rukura ku Isi. Ni ikintu gishimishije kitari umutima wanjye gusa ahubwo n'ibiremwa byinshi bireba kandi bikayobora isi yawe. Nubwo turangiza ubutumwa bwacu mu magambo, umwuka wacu uguma kuri mwe, kandi ubumwe bwacu ntibushobora gucika bitewe n'intera cyangwa igihe. Mu gutandukana, turabapfumbatishije mu rukundo rw'umucyo. Wumve, niba ushaka, amahoro n'icyizere cyoroheje tuguha muri iki gihe—impano ya nyuma y'ubusabane bwacu kugeza igihe uzaduhamagara. Fata umwuka mwinshi kandi wemerere ubwo bushyuhe bwuzure umutima wawe, bikwibutsa ko ukunzwe cyane kandi ko uru mucyo uhora uhari igihe cyose ushaka ihumure. Ndi V'enn, intumwa yicisha bugufi y'Umuryango w'Ibihugu by'Isi mu murimo w'Umuremyi Umwe Utagira Imbibi. Turagusiga ubu nkuko twagusanze, mu rukundo rutagira imipaka n'urumuri ruhoraho rw'Umuremyi Utagira Imbibi. Nuko genda wishimire imbaraga n'amahoro by'Umuremyi Umwe Utagira Imbibi. Yehova.

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